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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Couples Tell All.
00:00:04I'm ready.
00:00:05Let's do it.
00:00:07Wyoming has made it to New York.
00:00:10I did see some cruise ships, and that reminded me of my own job.
00:00:14And I might run away and get on one of those boats
00:00:17and just get back to work.
00:00:19Shekinah and Sarpuk, how is married life treating you?
00:00:23We slept in separate rooms in the hotel yesterday.
00:00:29Wait a minute.
00:00:31The honeymoon was over really fast.
00:00:33And I still only have an engagement ring.
00:00:36So, are we really married?
00:00:38Oh, wow.
00:00:39Oh, my God.
00:00:40Sean and Aaliyah, on a scale of 1 to 10,
00:00:44how are things between you today?
00:00:47Like eight?
00:00:48That's a good number.
00:00:49But the sexual relationship is not so great.
00:00:53We're not really having sex anymore.
00:00:56Wow.
00:00:57That's a one.
00:00:58For what?
00:00:59Exactly.
00:01:02I asked Amini a question, and it was personal.
00:01:05Shekinah asked if Ani was trans.
00:01:08Wait, what?
00:01:10And told me not to tell Ani, but of course I told her,
00:01:13come on, you're not trustworthy.
00:01:16My loyalty is to my girlfriend.
00:01:18But is your loyalty to hurt her feelings?
00:01:20I didn't hurt her feelings.
00:01:22You did.
00:01:23You needed a crusade.
00:01:24It looks like I gave you one.
00:01:25So now you can go off.
00:01:26You're so annoying, and you're so fake,
00:01:28and I'm tired of it.
00:01:29This is a show.
00:01:30You're calculated as you.
00:01:31Unbelievable.
00:01:32Unbelievable.
00:01:33Unbelievable.
00:01:34It's very easy, honey.
00:01:35You need respect.
00:01:36I'm not your honey.
00:01:37And also, I never called you trans.
00:01:38I asked your girlfriend if you were, because we were talking on a personal level.
00:01:43And she took it personal, and you have to respect her feelings.
00:01:47You know what?
00:01:48Because you told her, and I asked you not to, because I didn't want to hurt feelings.
00:01:50I'm not going to hide that from her.
00:01:51Come on.
00:01:52I literally asked a question, and I'm so upset that this is even a topic.
00:01:56You didn't want to be offended.
00:01:57You did.
00:01:58You did.
00:01:59You did.
00:02:00You did.
00:02:01You did.
00:02:02You did.
00:02:03You did.
00:02:04You did.
00:02:05You did.
00:02:06You did.
00:02:07You did.
00:02:08You did.
00:02:09You did.
00:02:10You did.
00:02:11You did.
00:02:12You did.
00:02:13You did.
00:02:14You did.
00:02:15You did.
00:02:16I did not disrespect you.
00:02:17Shut up.
00:02:18You shut up.
00:02:19Honey.
00:02:20You're so offended by a question.
00:02:23I think if I was wondering if somebody is trans, I'll keep the to myself.
00:02:28Okay, I want to talk something, because I'm a trans woman, so I can talk better than everyone
00:02:33here.
00:02:34For trans people, people are always trying to find, like, the masculinity in that person.
00:02:41For me, that means, like, oh, trans people look like men.
00:02:45It's not, like, woman enough.
00:02:47It's not feminine enough.
00:02:48So that's, like, quite a weird, like, comment.
00:02:52But do you think that was a rude question for Shekinah to ask a many?
00:02:58I don't think that was a rude question.
00:03:03But I don't know, like, I don't know why you're trying.
00:03:06I don't feel like it was a necessary question.
00:03:08Yeah.
00:03:09Yeah, there you go.
00:03:10Exactly.
00:03:11And this is the point.
00:03:16Okay.
00:03:17Let's everybody take a breath and put this debate behind us so we can get back to talking
00:03:21about Ani, Matt, and Amini.
00:03:23In the midst of the group's confusion and hurt feelings, Matt reached out to his friend,
00:03:29Eric, who has also been in a polyamorous relationship.
00:03:33Now Eric is here to share his perspective on the group.
00:03:36Please welcome Matt's friend, Eric.
00:03:38What a cult they are.
00:03:40How are you?
00:03:45Good, man.
00:03:46Aw.
00:03:47Hi, Eric. How are you?
00:03:48Good. How are you doing?
00:03:49I'm fantastic.
00:03:50Okay, Eric, you warned Amini and Matt that jealousy ultimately broke up your thruple relationship.
00:03:57Correct.
00:03:58You've been listening to the conversation.
00:03:59Yeah.
00:04:00Do you see the same patterns in their relationship?
00:04:03You know, you're not having sex with Ani, which is interesting, you know, because usually
00:04:07the thruple, everybody's engaged, so you might have some jealousy and problems there.
00:04:11You know, it just can't be Matt having all the fun with the two girls.
00:04:14You know, the girl's got to have fun with the girls and Amani.
00:04:17You're into her, but is she into you that way?
00:04:20And that's all that goes through my head.
00:04:30I know I'm very busy in my schedule, but we're going to have sex this weekend.
00:04:33I'll fly out, okay?
00:04:37Being in a thruple is complicated and it's hard.
00:04:40Do you think it's worth it?
00:04:41For me, I think so.
00:04:43I promised myself to, like, always be true to myself and at least give this a try.
00:04:51Okay, but we're hearing now that you and Ani aren't having sex alone, and we know you've had some pretty explosive fights.
00:05:00Let's watch.
00:05:02I just want you to make me feel that you want this, that you want to be with us.
00:05:10Like, do you tell people you're even in a relationship?
00:05:12Now we know.
00:05:13I am done.
00:05:14Honey.
00:05:15This is ridiculous.
00:05:16Like, you can't turn a hoe to a housewife.
00:05:17That's what the is going on.
00:05:18You're used to controlling men left and right at your job with your little dancers.
00:05:19I don't get control.
00:05:20I see through your bull , okay?
00:05:21You can laugh all you want.
00:05:22I wish you have some self-respect.
00:05:23You have zero self-respect.
00:05:24Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:05:25At least I have some self-respect.
00:05:26When I was poor, I never danced for money.
00:05:27I'd rather be homeless than to do that.
00:05:28When I'm not paying, it don't work for you.
00:05:29That's what's going on.
00:05:30You don't like to be told.
00:05:31You don't like to be told.
00:05:32You don't like to be told.
00:05:33Like, you can't turn a hoe to a housewife.
00:05:34Like, you can't turn a hoe to a housewife.
00:05:35That's what the is going on.
00:05:36You're used to controlling men left and right at your job with your little dancers.
00:05:39Oh, you act like that when I'm paying, but when I'm not paying, it's like, oh, I'm controlling
00:06:08because it's not going.
00:06:09You are crazy.
00:06:10You're crazy.
00:06:13Bipolar, bitch.
00:06:18I'm literally shaking from watching that.
00:06:20I'm sorry.
00:06:21I remember these days.
00:06:25It's hard.
00:06:27Who else is hard to watch?
00:06:30Yeah.
00:06:34Like, I know for me, like the harsh language, I instantly shut the down.
00:06:38Like nobody, you know what I'm saying?
00:06:39Like that just strikes a chord that like nothing, no matter how much you apologize.
00:06:43And it's not just like, you didn't do it just once there.
00:06:46You did it like two other times, I think, throughout the whole season.
00:06:48So it's like, what's going on that we don't see?
00:06:51What happened?
00:06:53Ani, how about you explain?
00:06:57So you were supposed to send her some money.
00:07:18How much were you supposed to send her?
00:07:20Um, I tried to send almost $4,000 that month.
00:07:24About $4,000.
00:07:25Yeah.
00:07:26You didn't get the money, Ani.
00:07:27You were upset.
00:07:28And so Ani was trying to break off the relationship with both of you and Matt.
00:07:32Is that right?
00:07:34That's what it sounded like.
00:07:35That's what it sounded like to you.
00:07:37Yes.
00:07:38That is why I went a crazy.
00:07:40So many times we fight for little things.
00:07:45I don't like the reaction.
00:07:47She reaction is so bad.
00:07:51It came out in anger how she really feels.
00:07:54I was really rooting for you.
00:07:56But you lost me when you said you can't take a whore and make her a housewife.
00:08:01So painful.
00:08:02So hurtful.
00:08:03You can never take that stuff back.
00:08:04And then when you double down on this day, you know she's working as an exotic dancer.
00:08:09You probably met her in that arena.
00:08:12And then you smash it in her face and then go,
00:08:14Lo, love me.
00:08:15I just had a bad day.
00:08:16I was just like, I mean, I'm shaking with all this.
00:08:19And it's not even my life.
00:08:21Just, it's...
00:08:22I know my words were terrible.
00:08:24Were so hurtful.
00:08:25And even I watching this, like, I felt embarrassed that I said that stuff to her.
00:08:29And did you ask it sorry for her?
00:08:31Of course I did.
00:08:32And that was...
00:08:33Yes, she should.
00:08:34She up a little bit.
00:08:35Many times.
00:08:36Many different ways.
00:08:37Yeah.
00:08:38However, the money thing, she knows now.
00:08:41She has a screenshot.
00:08:42I tried to send money five times, but my bank kept canceling it.
00:08:47Amini, how much money in total have you and Matt sent Ani?
00:08:53I don't know.
00:08:54Ani, how much do you think it is?
00:08:55I don't...
00:08:56Yeah, so I think so for a month, she sent me $2,000 in the month.
00:09:01Yeah, you don't want to be a fourth?
00:09:03No.
00:09:04She buy me dresses, gifts, purse, shoes, clothes for my daughter, and travel.
00:09:15Some of our trips are like $20,000 a trip.
00:09:17There's more than that, yeah.
00:09:18In general, she sent me money.
00:09:21$60,000 maybe?
00:09:22Wow.
00:09:33Look at you.
00:09:34Who's that?
00:09:35What?
00:09:40You're wronged to marry her, click feed them.
00:09:41Yeah.
00:09:42Right, test me.
00:09:43For me, you're in this sport for money.
00:09:44I produce much more money than what you earn in a year.
00:09:47How are you皆 in a year?
00:09:49That's what that means.
00:09:53If you say that you earn so much money, she shouldn't pay you so much money.
00:09:58I never ask her for money, never.
00:10:28There's a scam going on here.
00:10:30And Ani is in this relationship just for money.
00:10:37I mean, partially.
00:10:39Really?
00:10:40I mean, mostly, yes.
00:10:41Mostly, yes.
00:10:42Yeah.
00:10:44No.
00:10:47Ameni, are you afraid to say no to Ani
00:10:50when it comes to money because you think
00:10:52she will leave the relationship?
00:10:58Um, she knows I'm a jealous person.
00:11:06I don't want her to go work, so I'm like, OK, stay then.
00:11:08I'll give you the money instead of you working.
00:11:10Do you still dance, Ani?
00:11:12No, not anymore, not recently.
00:11:14Let's ask her.
00:11:16Yeah, of course.
00:11:17Oh, my god.
00:11:19What else is she withholding from you?
00:11:21Exactly.
00:11:24You're crying right now?
00:11:26This scares me.
00:11:27You're attacking her by your lies.
00:11:29Why are you even in this?
00:11:31Why are you commenting?
00:11:32You comment about everything.
00:11:34If you put your finger down, put your finger down.
00:11:37Put your finger down.
00:11:38Put your finger down.
00:11:39Put your finger down.
00:11:45Ameni, let me ask you one more time.
00:11:47Are you afraid to say no to Ani when it comes to money
00:11:50because you think she will leave the relationship?
00:11:52If she's willing to leave you just for saying no to money,
00:12:06how is that even trustworthy at all in any way, shape, or form?
00:12:10Because if she truly loves you, she would be, OK, cool.
00:12:13You don't have money to give me?
00:12:14Fine.
00:12:15I'll still be here.
00:12:16I'm not going to walk away.
00:12:17It's very, very, very hard for me to talk about it,
00:12:34but that's what I feel right now.
00:12:37Like, the more I listen to this, where is love?
00:12:40It doesn't seem like there is any love there.
00:12:42It's just like a big power play.
00:12:44I don't know, people can say the same thing
00:12:45about your relationship.
00:12:46Actually, they can't.
00:12:47Oh, yeah, you're right, because yours is just, like, shallow.
00:12:49There's nothing in it.
00:12:51Says who?
00:12:52You?
00:12:53Yes.
00:12:53I've never heard anyone else say that about us.
00:12:57In the beginning of the relationship,
00:12:59did you give any promises to her that I will give you
00:13:02that amount of money every month, I will pay your rent?
00:13:04Oh, I promised Minimum to pay her rent,
00:13:07and I still do that to this day.
00:13:10She knows I'm a jealous person.
00:13:11I don't want her to go work.
00:13:12So I'm like, OK, stay then, I'll give you the money
00:13:14instead of you working.
00:13:16Do you still dance, Ani?
00:13:19No.
00:13:20Do you?
00:13:21None?
00:13:21No, not anymore, not recently.
00:13:23Let's ask her.
00:13:24Ani, do you still dance in the club?
00:13:28Yeah, of course.
00:13:30Oh my god.
00:13:31There it is, there it is.
00:13:33She does?
00:13:34Yes, of course.
00:13:35OK.
00:13:36You said before she's not dancing.
00:13:38She says she's dancing.
00:13:39She told Juan, he's not asking you for money.
00:13:41She told us she is asking you for money.
00:13:43So it's like these little lies, these little things here and there.
00:13:45What else is she withholding from you?
00:13:47You know what I'm saying?
00:13:48Exactly.
00:13:49Is she just telling you guys stuff just to tell you guys stuff?
00:13:51Is she really being truthful to you guys?
00:13:54I'm worried about that.
00:13:55Yeah, it's hard because it's in the back of my head.
00:13:58It's like, what other things is she not telling me?
00:14:00But hopefully, we'll figure it out.
00:14:03Yeah, it's all crazy.
00:14:05So are you two going to divorce?
00:14:09We've already actually hired a divorce lawyer.
00:14:13That's why I'm not wearing my ring because I'm getting ready mentally to not be your wife.
00:14:21That's a huge risk.
00:14:23Don't rush it.
00:14:24Like, why don't you give it like two more years?
00:14:26You're willing to go ahead and get a divorce to do all this.
00:14:29Isn't it so complicated right now?
00:14:31We do want to live under the same roof together, guys, full time.
00:14:36You've been a wife for 10 years.
00:14:38Why would you want to give that up?
00:14:39Most people give that up if they're not happy in that role.
00:14:42It's a sacrifice I'm willing to do for love.
00:14:46I love Ani.
00:14:47Yeah.
00:14:51But at the same time, I feel that we're going to be stronger together.
00:14:57Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, together, yeah, absolutely.
00:14:59And the threesome, yeah.
00:15:01All right.
00:15:02Well, Eric, you have been a great friend.
00:15:04Thank you for sharing your time and thoughts with us.
00:15:07Thank you so much.
00:15:08Thank you, guys.
00:15:08Thanks.
00:15:12All right, Matt, Amini, and Ani, this is a complicated relationship,
00:15:17but we wish all three of you the best of luck
00:15:20with whatever the future holds.
00:15:22Anybody want to be in a throuple?
00:15:24No?
00:15:26Not for everybody.
00:15:26It's tough.
00:15:28OK, we're going to take a quick break,
00:15:29and then we'll come back.
00:15:41Could you guys do the throuple thing?
00:15:44I couldn't, man.
00:15:45I really couldn't.
00:15:46I don't think so.
00:15:48It's a lot of work, man.
00:15:49Their relationship's so different than, like, ours?
00:15:51Yes.
00:15:52I know, of course.
00:15:53Yes.
00:15:53For me, it's not possible.
00:15:55I'm an impulsive woman.
00:15:57I'm very jealous.
00:15:58Me, too.
00:15:59I don't bring another woman in my bed.
00:16:01Like, piker.
00:16:01Never.
00:16:02Me, too.
00:16:03I'm pretty good.
00:16:05Sukaina, can I talk to you guys really quick?
00:16:07Yeah, singers look like me.
00:16:08Can I talk before you talk, please?
00:16:12Um, Sebris, I wanted to say thank you so much for today.
00:16:15I thought you would be an asshole, but you weren't.
00:16:17You came off very supportive, and you've had really
00:16:20valid questions, so thank you.
00:16:22I like you so much after today, actually.
00:16:24Be careful.
00:16:24She said that to me, too.
00:16:27You know, you're real catty.
00:16:27I told you not to open your mouth until I finish.
00:16:29Oh, I don't take orders from you.
00:16:31So you don't get to tell me not to open my mouth.
00:16:33You're the sourest person here.
00:16:34She is.
00:16:34I just .
00:16:35Sour apple candy.
00:16:36I already thought you was sour the whole time.
00:16:38I don't know how he does it with you.
00:16:40I don't even need to be here.
00:16:41You guys have your conversation.
00:16:43Well, if you didn't open your mouth,
00:16:44that would have said something to you.
00:16:47She's not talking to me.
00:16:48I'm leaving.
00:16:48She's just nasty.
00:16:52Are you doing OK, Shikana?
00:16:54No.
00:16:55them.
00:17:02them.
00:17:03She's just nasty any time she can.
00:17:06And I like women.
00:17:07I'll never put up with that .
00:17:08I'll be like, she's somebody else's problem.
00:17:10Well, she's definitely someone else's problem.
00:17:13How do you make it work with her?
00:17:14Because I tried to come to her, try to like, let's talk about it.
00:17:16And then she claps at me.
00:17:18And I know if you don't have something else that is safe,
00:17:20just don't say it, you know?
00:17:22Female energy.
00:17:23Fence.
00:17:24She's just stubborn.
00:17:25I cannot solve you.
00:17:26I mean, I am that experience about girls.
00:17:29I cannot solve you, none of you.
00:17:30I do want to come to some type of agreement with her,
00:17:32because I don't want this, like, energy and animosity.
00:17:36Like, can you just drop it?
00:17:37Can you just drop it?
00:17:37I would say sorry, just say sorry,
00:17:39because, like, I'm ready to move on from this, you know?
00:17:42I'm just going to tell her.
00:17:43No, don't do that.
00:17:44Don't, don't, don't.
00:17:45I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry if I offend you.
00:17:48I do not care about your fake apology.
00:17:50Please leave.
00:17:52Please shut the curtain.
00:17:52This is my dressing room.
00:17:53Please go out.
00:17:54She's butthurt.
00:17:55It's OK, honey.
00:17:55All right, I tried.
00:17:56And my conscience is free, so.
00:17:58All right.
00:17:59She's so immature.
00:18:00Yeah.
00:18:00Damn.
00:18:02How do you make this work, Harper?
00:18:03Good luck, Harper, bro.
00:18:06You need to stick up for me more.
00:18:07Yeah.
00:18:07I do.
00:18:08No, you don't.
00:18:09She was telling me to shut my mouth, and you just stood there.
00:18:11I did.
00:18:11I just took the finish and go.
00:18:13I just finished and go.
00:18:14You need to defend your wife, period.
00:18:18Thank you, everybody here, for showing respect,
00:18:21and thank you for caring.
00:18:22Yeah, thank you for listening to us.
00:18:24I mean, like, I know it wasn't easy.
00:18:26Yeah.
00:18:27All of y'all's comments came from, like, caring, you know?
00:18:31Yeah.
00:18:33All right, I'm going to get you guys back on set.
00:18:36I always date protective people, so I'm not used to this .
00:18:39Go find me, Don.
00:18:42Trouble, it's a mess.
00:18:43She kind of made a mistake.
00:18:46I warned her never text anything to any cast member
00:18:49that you don't know.
00:18:50But the way they came to Shekinah, it's too hard, you know?
00:18:55Um, sugar hazard, oh, it's so fake.
00:18:59It's OK.
00:19:00Stand it.
00:19:04She started to say, you didn't stand up for me.
00:19:07You don't protect me.
00:19:08I didn't want to involve, because if I involve,
00:19:10it could go to physical that I didn't want that.
00:19:13But it fucked up my relationship with Shekinah.
00:19:20Here we go.
00:19:20Everybody take the seat, please.
00:19:21Oh, fuck.
00:19:24All right, here we go, guys.
00:19:26Mm, I wish she was here.
00:19:30In three, two.
00:19:33Hello, and welcome back.
00:19:35Before we move on, Shekinah and Sarper,
00:19:38I'm hearing that something went on backstage.
00:19:41Can you tell me what it was?
00:19:43Yeah, I mean, Armani wanted to talk to...
00:19:45It's Emeni.
00:19:47What?
00:19:47It's Emeni.
00:19:48Emeni wanted to talk to us.
00:19:50And so we gave her, you know, the opportunity to speak.
00:19:56And she started out by telling me to keep my mouth shut
00:19:58until she finished saying...
00:19:59No, I said, please let me finish.
00:20:01Can I please finish?
00:20:02And so she started talking, and she was directing her entire focus to Sarper,
00:20:08complimenting him, how great he is, thank you so much for your support,
00:20:12blah, blah, blah.
00:20:13And I was thinking, why am I standing here?
00:20:14Like, she just wants to talk to Sarper.
00:20:16So I excused myself.
00:20:18And, you know, then I heard the insult start,
00:20:21that she had a lot of things to say about me that was negative.
00:20:24If you waited a little bit, I was going to also talk to you as well.
00:20:28But, you know, you threw a fit, went into your...
00:20:30I did not throw a fit at all.
00:20:32You threw a fit a lot.
00:20:33I excused myself.
00:20:34More than my four-year-old.
00:20:35I said, this conversation is for you two.
00:20:36I don't know how you're patient with this.
00:20:38Please don't take everything personal.
00:20:39We're not a high school.
00:20:43Unbelievable.
00:20:45Let's do like this.
00:20:46Let's ignore each other, because there is no way that you can get along.
00:20:50Do not communicate.
00:20:53Yeah, but I feel like, Sarper, you're not protecting me,
00:20:56and you promised to defend me.
00:20:58Yeah, I know.
00:20:58I'm aware of this.
00:21:00In every fight that we have, you always said you don't...
00:21:03You didn't keep promises.
00:21:05Also, you don't care about my feelings when I'm telling you I'm hurt
00:21:08or something like that.
00:21:09You get angry at me.
00:21:10I told you something.
00:21:13I keep promises because I love you.
00:21:16I love you.
00:21:19Yes, look.
00:21:20Okay.
00:21:21You're skipping me a little.
00:21:22I just thought to give you something.
00:21:27What?
00:21:28What is happening?
00:21:31What the heck is going on?
00:21:33Megan, you threatened to ruin Juan's life.
00:21:40Does that threat still stand?
00:21:43Absolutely.
00:21:44Forever.
00:21:45Yeah.
00:21:46This is our business.
00:21:47You step aside.
00:21:48No.
00:21:49Bitch, bye.
00:21:50What is happening?
00:21:51You, step aside.
00:21:53No.
00:21:53Bitch, bye.
00:21:59What is happening?
00:22:10What?
00:22:12I hope you like it.
00:22:13Whoa.
00:22:14Oh, my God.
00:22:16What is this?
00:22:18Wait, this is not just a wedding band.
00:22:19This is a wedding ring and wedding band, as you wished.
00:22:23Good job, man.
00:22:24Wow.
00:22:27Aw.
00:22:27Come on, man.
00:22:28That looks so pretty.
00:22:29That is amazing.
00:22:31This is so pretty.
00:22:33Yes, this is half of my savings in Turkey.
00:22:36Aw.
00:22:38And don't say that I don't keep my promises.
00:22:43Yeah, he has kept his promise.
00:22:44Aw.
00:22:44Aw.
00:22:47Listen, I haven't seen no love between y'all two until just now.
00:22:51That's a beautiful thing.
00:22:52Congratulations, guys.
00:22:53Let's see Shekinah.
00:22:55So pretty.
00:22:56And can you, like, spin it this way?
00:22:58I know.
00:22:58Show that.
00:22:59This is huge.
00:23:02What the hell?
00:23:02Don't show me.
00:23:03It hurts.
00:23:06It really hurts.
00:23:08Oh, my God.
00:23:09I guess I'll stay married to him.
00:23:10I mean, like, until the next problem.
00:23:16Well, Shekinah and Sarpur, that certainly was a surprise.
00:23:20A big, sparkly one.
00:23:22And this is your witness to these guys.
00:23:25All right.
00:23:26Congratulations.
00:23:27Thanks so much.
00:23:27Congratulations, guys.
00:23:31Okay, let's take a five-minute break to give Shekinah and Sarpur a chance to savor this moment.
00:23:37Everybody can stretch their legs.
00:23:41Congratulations.
00:23:43You guys are really good.
00:23:44Good job.
00:23:45That's so beautiful.
00:23:45It's so pretty.
00:23:48I'm, like, shaking, and I'm, can't believe it.
00:23:53It's giant.
00:23:54What's this?
00:23:55No more rings.
00:23:56Okay.
00:23:57I don't need any more rings after this ring.
00:23:59You are my precious.
00:24:00This is the ultimate ring.
00:24:00Precious.
00:24:01Oh, my God, babe.
00:24:02Do you get the joke?
00:24:03Yes, I get the joke.
00:24:04Lord, after this.
00:24:05Come, come, come.
00:24:09Be like this with me.
00:24:11I mean, I do everything for you.
00:24:12Please speak to me, I'll be sweet to you.
00:24:13Okay, I do everything for you.
00:24:15I love you, though.
00:24:17I love you, too.
00:24:19I love you, too.
00:24:20Welcome to the show.
00:24:21Back to set.
00:24:32Let's move on now to Jessica and Juan.
00:24:35You ready?
00:24:36Let's do it.
00:24:36First of all, how is little David doing and the boys?
00:24:41They're doing good.
00:24:42They're all growing up so fast.
00:24:43David's almost two.
00:24:45Wow.
00:24:46Dawson's really big into sports, so he keeps all of us going.
00:24:50And Dayton got a horse.
00:24:52Oh, okay.
00:24:53So technically, we all got a horse.
00:24:55She's lovely, though.
00:24:56That's Tess.
00:25:00Juan, Wyoming seems like a beautiful, scenic place.
00:25:05How are you settling in?
00:25:06Oh, it's tough.
00:25:08It's been tough on my mind, and economy-wise, my life is, like, falling apart.
00:25:16Back home in Colombia, I was investing in real estate.
00:25:20I was building apartments.
00:25:22I don't have money to finance the construction no more.
00:25:26Wow.
00:25:26Are you in debt?
00:25:28Yeah, I'm in debt.
00:25:29How much are you in debt?
00:25:30I don't even want to look at it, right?
00:25:32Oh, wow.
00:25:33I am happy to help him, but he's independent and does not want-
00:25:37I don't really want her to pay for my stuff.
00:25:39My help?
00:25:39How much I understand, you know?
00:25:40I don't want any of that.
00:25:42So you have your work papers?
00:25:45Yeah, he has his green card.
00:25:46I got my green card.
00:25:46What have you been doing?
00:25:49I've been finding small jobs, like delivering and stuff like that.
00:25:53It's been hard finding a job that I like.
00:25:57We saw you get in touch with your cruise ship boss.
00:26:00Are you considering going back to work on the ship?
00:26:04We talk about it.
00:26:05It's our last resort option.
00:26:07Yeah.
00:26:08Typically, his contracts are, like, six to eight months.
00:26:10Whoa.
00:26:11So he'd be gone, and then he gets, like, two months home,
00:26:13and so that's why I say it's the last resort.
00:26:16I mean, it's your dream job that you always wanted.
00:26:20You know, I'm a pilot.
00:26:21It would be hard for me to leave.
00:26:23It's something I worked so hard to get.
00:26:25So I understand him not being able to take another job right away,
00:26:28how difficult that is.
00:26:30Not having that anymore is being hard on me.
00:26:33Yeah.
00:26:34Let's continue this conversation.
00:26:36We have a 90-dayer here who has watched Jess and Juan's journey
00:26:40very closely and has a lot to say about their relationship.
00:26:44Please welcome Danielle.
00:26:48Oh, my God.
00:26:49That's my girl.
00:26:51Hello, paradise.
00:26:53And we're, like, matching.
00:26:54Our dresses are so similar.
00:26:56Same dress.
00:26:56They're the same dress.
00:26:57Yeah.
00:26:58Wow.
00:26:58Hi, Danielle.
00:26:59Good to see you.
00:27:00Good to see you, Sean.
00:27:01You come from a similar background.
00:27:03Yeah.
00:27:04And cheating was a big issue in their relationship and yours, too.
00:27:09I see a lot of myself and my relationship with Johan in them.
00:27:13I think, you know, the nature of being in the hospitality industry
00:27:17requires you to be very charming and to get along with everyone
00:27:20and flirt a little bit.
00:27:22I was a bartender once.
00:27:23I know what that's like.
00:27:25But I think when you're in a committed relationship
00:27:28and you have a child with someone and you're married,
00:27:30it creates a lot of problems.
00:27:33We went through this journey with you,
00:27:36with your relationship with Johan.
00:27:39Last you and I saw each other,
00:27:41you guys were done kaputs.
00:27:44Are you back together?
00:27:45Yeah.
00:27:45Let me tell you, I am shocked.
00:27:49Me, too.
00:27:50But all I ever wanted from him was acknowledgement
00:27:52and being like, yeah, I did this,
00:27:55and I hurt you, and I'm sorry.
00:27:56And once I was able to get that from him,
00:27:58I was able to move on.
00:28:01Well, we're excited to hear more from you, Danielle.
00:28:04But first, I want to add another strong voice into the mix.
00:28:08Jess's friend Megan is very protective of her,
00:28:10and her unwavering support has sometimes led
00:28:14to combative encounters with Juan.
00:28:16Has Megan backed off since they got married?
00:28:20Let's find out.
00:28:20Please welcome Jess's friend, Megan.
00:28:23Meg!
00:28:24Hi, Megan.
00:28:25Hi, hi, hi, hi.
00:28:30Juan, did you say hi to Megan?
00:28:32Hi, Megan.
00:28:32Hi, Juan.
00:28:34Megan, you threatened to ruin Juan's life.
00:28:39Does that threat still stand?
00:28:42Absolutely.
00:28:43It does.
00:28:44Yeah.
00:28:45I don't find it cool.
00:28:46You're her best friend,
00:28:48and I understand you are overprotective.
00:28:51But this is our business.
00:28:53And if someone has to ruin my life,
00:28:56it has to be her.
00:28:58Because she's the one getting hurt.
00:28:59You don't have anything to do with it.
00:29:02Step aside.
00:29:03And just let us be.
00:29:07I mean, no.
00:29:10Bitch, bye.
00:29:11Danielle and Shekinah, do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology?
00:29:19Hell the no.
00:29:21Absolutely not.
00:29:22Shekinah, I'm telling you, you have too many haters.
00:29:27I don't know how I got so many people so riled up.
00:29:30How are you a victim?
00:29:32Because you're attacking here for your lies.
00:29:34Girl, get your husband.
00:29:35This is what you're talking about.
00:29:36We were talking about our own experiences.
00:29:39You said...
00:29:39Step aside.
00:29:49And just let us be.
00:29:53No.
00:29:54Bitch, bye.
00:29:55Okay.
00:29:59Wow.
00:30:00Try to look at it from his perspective.
00:30:02I understand you want to be supportive to your best friend,
00:30:04but Juan has nobody here, no support system, nothing.
00:30:08And it's like, it feels like you're just ganging up on him.
00:30:11Juan, do you think Megan and Jessica are too close?
00:30:14They are definitely too close.
00:30:17Okay.
00:30:18But Jessica, do you like that Megan is so protective of you?
00:30:22I appreciate that it comes from a good place,
00:30:25but I don't need her to protect me.
00:30:26I'm a grown woman.
00:30:27Well, we definitely saw Megan's protective side come out
00:30:33when she learned about Juan's infidelity.
00:30:36Let's take a look.
00:30:38So you know probably what's coming.
00:30:40But it's because you haven't answered my questions yet.
00:30:43When Juan was on his last cruise,
00:30:47he had allegedly cheated with a woman.
00:30:52Did you sleep with that girl?
00:30:53No.
00:30:58I didn't.
00:31:01It's taken a year for you to admit this to me, Juan,
00:31:03when I confronted you in Columbia a year ago.
00:31:07My bad.
00:31:08Yeah.
00:31:09My bad.
00:31:11So, I mean, I do want to say, like, I did know this.
00:31:14Like, at that time, I was not in my best place either.
00:31:18The same time that Juan was feeling weak in our relationship,
00:31:21I found myself kind of catching feelings for, like, an ex-boyfriend.
00:31:25He even asked me about that guy.
00:31:26Like, do you have feelings for this guy?
00:31:28I mean, he was your ex-boyfriend.
00:31:31But.
00:31:32What?
00:31:33Yeah.
00:31:37Whoa.
00:31:38I felt our relationship being disconnected,
00:31:43and we both felt that.
00:31:45Distance was really hard on us.
00:31:48And then, obviously, we both had weak points.
00:31:51You know, he physically cheated.
00:31:52I emotionally cheated.
00:31:54For me, like, regardless of whether she emotionally cheated
00:31:58or physically cheated, if she lied to him,
00:32:01that's the betrayal.
00:32:02It's the lie.
00:32:03It's not about what you do.
00:32:04It's, can I trust the words that come out of your mouth?
00:32:07But it is different.
00:32:08I mean, he physically cheated on her,
00:32:12actually, literally a week after we went on the cruise
00:32:15for her bachelorette party.
00:32:17Oh.
00:32:18I mean, that's, like, a problem, right?
00:32:20Like, that's a problem.
00:32:21I'm sorry.
00:32:22But I didn't understand why
00:32:24Megan was crying so much,
00:32:26like she's part of the relationship.
00:32:28That's, I, you, you're not.
00:32:30Oh, no.
00:32:31I mean, it was, it was.
00:32:32They cheated on you.
00:32:34Last time I checked, she's the wife.
00:32:36I mean, I've been a part of their relationship
00:32:39since literal day one when we met Juan.
00:32:41And, I mean, I was holding the phone when David was born.
00:32:44Like, I was holding Juan's face
00:32:45so he could watch his birth of his child.
00:32:47Like, I'm that friend.
00:32:48Like, I've been in it.
00:32:49So, I think it was just more emotional.
00:32:51And the fact that they had lied to me.
00:32:53Which one's lie affected you more emotionally?
00:32:56Jessica does.
00:32:57It just hurt me because I never thought
00:32:59that she would, like, hold that for me.
00:33:01Like, at least just tell me.
00:33:02Like, freaking tell me.
00:33:02So, why do you think she chose to not tell you?
00:33:05I don't know.
00:33:07Their relationship has to be more important
00:33:10to each of them than either
00:33:12of their relationship with you.
00:33:13And that's going to be hard for you to swallow.
00:33:15But, like, he's more important to her than you are.
00:33:18He's the father of her kid.
00:33:22They're like sisters, though.
00:33:23They behave like sisters, not like friends.
00:33:26And I have three.
00:33:27And if it was my sister,
00:33:28I would have thrown a glass at him.
00:33:29Thank you, Stevie.
00:33:31I feel like if I can really trust my friend
00:33:34and they're my best friend
00:33:35and, like, my right hand,
00:33:36there is nothing I don't tell them.
00:33:38Right.
00:33:38So, if she doesn't tell you,
00:33:40it's because she feels like
00:33:42you're going to judge Juan
00:33:44and you're going to up their relationship.
00:33:45I mean, yeah, partially probably that.
00:33:46Like, I'm trying to protect him.
00:33:47I'm also trying to protect her.
00:33:49Okay, so, Megan,
00:33:51what do you think about Juan's work situation?
00:33:52That could be a little bit better
00:33:54because my husband and I
00:33:57were both references for him.
00:33:59Like, they'll send us a referral
00:34:00because Jess applied him for the job
00:34:01and then me and my husband
00:34:03send in, like, a really positive referral.
00:34:04Like, yeah, hire this guy.
00:34:05He's a great work ethic.
00:34:07He's like, I don't want that job.
00:34:11What?
00:34:13To the best of your knowledge,
00:34:15how many jobs has Juan said,
00:34:18eh, no, I don't, I'm not interested.
00:34:20How many jobs has he turned down?
00:34:22I mean...
00:34:2550, maybe?
00:34:2850?
00:34:29I mean, that he's actually, like, turned down,
00:34:31like, where they've reached out,
00:34:33I'd say probably, like, five.
00:34:34How is there that many places in your town
00:34:36to apply to?
00:34:37I mean, there's, like,
00:34:38smaller communities nearby.
00:34:39Yeah, like, even Nebraska's only, like,
00:34:4130, 45 minutes away.
00:34:43Like, he could go work there
00:34:43at a car dealership
00:34:44and sell so many cars.
00:34:47Why are you staying in Wyoming?
00:34:48Yeah, that's, that's a good question.
00:34:51I mean, I will answer that happily.
00:34:52I mean, every, every,
00:34:54someone has to lose something.
00:34:56Someone has to sacrifice.
00:34:57I mean, we have my kids, my boys.
00:34:59They're with me four days,
00:35:01they're with their dad three days.
00:35:02I'm open to moving in time.
00:35:06Juan, what do you want to do?
00:35:08Work on the cruise.
00:35:09I would really like to ask Juan.
00:35:11My, my dream job has been the cruise ship.
00:35:14So you really want to work on the cruise ship.
00:35:17So your wife and her friend
00:35:19are applying for all these jobs
00:35:21that you don't want.
00:35:22You want to work on a cruise ship.
00:35:23Why are we talking about anything else
00:35:25than Juan working on a cruise ship?
00:35:26I mean, you can talk.
00:35:27You can explain yourself.
00:35:27I mean, even the jobs we apply for,
00:35:29even the car selling thing,
00:35:31they never call me back.
00:35:31They say not to me.
00:35:32Let's talk about the cruise ship.
00:35:33Let's talk about why can't you do the cruise ship
00:35:35from your opinion.
00:35:36The only problem about the cruise ship
00:35:38is leaving my son.
00:35:40For six months?
00:35:41Yeah, I'm sticking to this place because of him.
00:35:44And there's no other reason.
00:35:45I don't know.
00:35:46He sits there and says,
00:35:47the only reason I'm here is because of David.
00:35:49Like, you should have said,
00:35:50the only reason I'm here is because of David and Jessica.
00:35:52Like, I want to be here for my wife.
00:35:53That's not your business.
00:35:54That's her to, that's for her to get married.
00:35:55That's what I'm saying.
00:35:56She doesn't get married.
00:35:57She just lets him.
00:35:57That's her business.
00:35:59Yeah, I mean, I agree.
00:36:01Juan, how much do you make in tips on a cruise ship?
00:36:05Probably, in a good day, probably $900.
00:36:08Just in tips?
00:36:09Just in tips.
00:36:10Oh, bravo.
00:36:12Because he's so cute.
00:36:14Speaking of that, Juan,
00:36:16we've heard you get a lot of attention online.
00:36:20Are you getting a lot of DMs from women?
00:36:25Quite a bit.
00:36:26Quite a bit?
00:36:28Look at that little grin.
00:36:31Juan, do you respond to the women?
00:36:35Sometimes.
00:36:36That's wild.
00:36:37Why do you respond?
00:36:41You should just...
00:36:42I'm a nice person.
00:36:43No, that's not being nice.
00:36:45You should just not respond.
00:36:47It's different responding to someone that says,
00:36:49Oh, I love you guys.
00:36:50You're my favorite couple.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:52Hey, I want to screw you.
00:36:53Leave your wife.
00:36:54That's a problem.
00:36:55But has anybody said that to you, Juan?
00:36:56That they want to screw you to leave your wife?
00:36:58Yes.
00:36:58And that they made $20 an hour.
00:37:01Like, Jess makes $100.
00:37:03You too.
00:37:05Well, she has my social media in her phone.
00:37:09He was the one that came up with that.
00:37:11Well, when we went through the cheating type of thing,
00:37:15and we were talking these things over
00:37:17and trying to work everything out,
00:37:19I proposed her to give her my Instagram profile.
00:37:23And so it could be like,
00:37:32Yeah, well, she has control of my Instagram,
00:37:34but you have some other way of communicating
00:37:36with people that you meet.
00:37:37So anytime someone's reaching out to you,
00:37:41ignore it.
00:37:42You don't have to be nice to anybody.
00:37:44The only person that you need to be nice to
00:37:45is your wife.
00:37:47Is there something I tell him?
00:37:48When girls inbox him, he replies.
00:37:50I'm like, don't.
00:37:51I reply to everybody, man.
00:37:52And women, I mean, whoever.
00:37:54That's who I am.
00:37:55I don't know what these people say.
00:37:56No, stop.
00:37:58Megan, thank you so much
00:38:00for being such a good friend to Jessica
00:38:01and for spending time with us.
00:38:03Thank you for having me.
00:38:04Thank you so much.
00:38:05Take care.
00:38:08Jessica and Juan,
00:38:09thank you for being so open and honest with us.
00:38:12Best of luck navigating whatever the future holds.
00:38:16All right.
00:38:16And Danielle, before I let you go,
00:38:19I want to ask you about an online interaction
00:38:24you had with Shekinah.
00:38:27What happened?
00:38:28Another one?
00:38:29There have been a few.
00:38:31Okay.
00:38:32What has it been about?
00:38:34Oh, my God.
00:38:35Um, I think the first time
00:38:37I had an interaction with Shekinah online,
00:38:39she had suggested that I reached out to Sarper
00:38:42before the tell-all
00:38:43and wished him luck
00:38:45and didn't reach out to her,
00:38:46which was not accurate.
00:38:47She did message Sarper and not me.
00:38:50Please.
00:38:50Nothing is ever going to come out of my mouth
00:38:52that I don't have evidence for.
00:38:54We also have evidence.
00:38:55You're right.
00:38:55You're right.
00:38:56Let them talk.
00:38:57You spoke.
00:38:57You're right.
00:38:58Let them talk.
00:38:58You're right.
00:38:59Let them talk.
00:38:59Matt, Matt.
00:39:00Just thankful, Matt.
00:39:01It's not you.
00:39:02Shut up.
00:39:02You're always interrupting everyone, Matt.
00:39:04You interrupted me.
00:39:05I was literally in the middle of speaking.
00:39:07Okay, Danielle.
00:39:08Because you were lying.
00:39:09You're speaking with lies.
00:39:10Stop telling people liars and stuff like that.
00:39:12You need to be less rude, Shekinah.
00:39:14She's literally lying about me.
00:39:16I have a right to defend myself.
00:39:17It's her perspective.
00:39:18Shut up, Imani.
00:39:19Nobody's talking to you.
00:39:19Do not talk to people like they need to shut up.
00:39:21You need to behave.
00:39:23Inside you're hollow.
00:39:24There's nothing.
00:39:24You're shallow.
00:39:25Shallow as a puddle.
00:39:26Period.
00:39:27Ooh.
00:39:27Yo, she always brings the New York out of me.
00:39:31She's so rude.
00:39:31Always.
00:39:32Always.
00:39:33Whatever.
00:39:33I don't even care.
00:39:35Okay.
00:39:35Danielle, go ahead.
00:39:36So what happened?
00:39:37So what actually happened, I said, I'm really sorry about the tell-all.
00:39:42I wish you and Shekinah both the best.
00:39:44And that was literally the whole thing.
00:39:46It was after the filming of that day.
00:39:48It was not before.
00:39:49And then she does these, like, press interviews that she probably pays for.
00:39:52Oh, my God.
00:39:55Oh, my God.
00:39:55What is she talking about?
00:39:58And she says these things that are not true.
00:40:02Wow.
00:40:03She said that I was trash.
00:40:05I was for the streets.
00:40:07That I was hitting on Sarpra.
00:40:10I don't think you should have called her trash and all these things.
00:40:13Like, that's just...
00:40:13You should have heard what she was saying about me online.
00:40:15She said that I pay for bots to put mean messages on her Instagram.
00:40:20People are mean to you because you're a nasty person.
00:40:22She's desperate.
00:40:23Nobody is paying for bots to send nasty comments to you.
00:40:26You're getting them all by yourself from real people.
00:40:28I'm not desperate because I don't have to work out of my house.
00:40:32You are desperate, girl.
00:40:34Your opinions are out of line because you're commenting on things you know nothing about.
00:40:38So are you.
00:40:39You do that, too.
00:40:39What makes my opinions out of line but your opinions are within the lines?
00:40:44Because you just accused us of paying for interviews.
00:40:47That's insane.
00:40:49Shekinah, Danielle, do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology?
00:40:57Hell the no.
00:40:58Absolutely not.
00:40:59No way.
00:41:02Okay.
00:41:04Danielle.
00:41:05Yes.
00:41:06It's great seeing you again.
00:41:07Thank you for stopping by to share your unfiltered opinions.
00:41:12Thank you very much.
00:41:13Bye-bye.
00:41:14Take care.
00:41:14We're glad to see you leave.
00:41:16Bye-bye.
00:41:18Okay, everybody.
00:41:19We're going to take a break.
00:41:20Oh, my God.
00:41:23Crazy bitch.
00:41:23Day of reckoning.
00:41:24I'm telling you, you have too many haters.
00:41:36Yes, I don't understand it.
00:41:38It's all shocking to me.
00:41:42Danielle, like, I know she wants attention.
00:41:45And the lies that she comes up with about me, I mean, today was just, like, mind-blowing.
00:41:49Hi.
00:41:50I'm a fan.
00:41:51Yo, what's up?
00:41:52I want to say, I think there's a lot of fake people in here, but you are just real to yourself.
00:41:56Say it how it is.
00:41:57And I'm just like that, so.
00:42:00Yeah, it's a New York thing, I think.
00:42:02Yeah, exactly.
00:42:03Danielle was attacking Chikana.
00:42:05She was just mentioning every single thing that she's jealous of.
00:42:09And there were four people attacking her.
00:42:12Did you think she was getting ganged up on?
00:42:13Yeah, like, and I hate the lying.
00:42:16I don't know what happened.
00:42:16But one thing that I know is that she was lying, that she was paying for those interviews.
00:42:21And it's sad to see, like, somebody is manipulating everyone and nobody's talking about her.
00:42:26I'm not a really confrontational person, but some things really bother me.
00:42:32And one of them is, like, lying.
00:42:33I hate lying and liars.
00:42:35I can't just see that lie and just be quiet.
00:42:39Your mom is like every single lady I know in Long Island.
00:42:42Every single, like, she's not the only one.
00:42:45Danielle, I got a question for you.
00:42:47Sure.
00:42:48You said she kind of pays for those interviews.
00:42:51No, she said she didn't know if she pays for them.
00:42:52Yeah.
00:42:53She exactly said.
00:42:53That's not what she said.
00:42:54No, no.
00:42:54That's not what she said.
00:42:55I'm not talking to you, first of all.
00:42:57I'm going to defend her, though.
00:42:57I'm going to defend her.
00:42:58You're a man approaching a woman.
00:43:00I'm going to defend her.
00:43:01He asked a question.
00:43:02So, anybody who works in L.A., who understands how this works, knows the deal.
00:43:08I actually don't know what she pays for and what she doesn't.
00:43:11And you're assuming?
00:43:12I have no idea.
00:43:13I have no idea.
00:43:14If you have no idea, why are you manipulating me?
00:43:16Why are you so pissed?
00:43:17I'm just saying, what is your reason that you said that?
00:43:20Because she kind of presents as the kind of person that wants to put herself into anything.
00:43:26And she also fights with people who don't really deserve it.
00:43:30She gets on stage, she comes for every girl, and she's nasty.
00:43:34And I've seen it too many times, and I have to open my mouth.
00:43:36Damiel, you are over the top.
00:43:38No, no, no.
00:43:39I'm hearing that.
00:43:40Sorry, sorry.
00:43:40One minute.
00:43:41One minute.
00:43:42Okay.
00:43:42You are over the top.
00:43:43My sentence is exactly like yours.
00:43:47She's the most hated girl.
00:43:49I'm not a mean girl.
00:43:50I do teach yoga and meditation.
00:43:52But one of the things that is really important to me is that I'm honest, and she's a bitch.
00:43:56She can be a bitch to me.
00:43:59I like that.
00:44:00These are dynamics, you know, but she's good.
00:44:03Can I tell you something?
00:44:05You're a complete liar.
00:44:06But this scares me, okay?
00:44:08I'm nervous as right now.
00:44:10This is the thing you're crying about right now?
00:44:12I have never seen you shed a tear.
00:44:15How are you a victim?
00:44:17Because you're attacking here by your lies.
00:44:19She is getting more attention, and you wanted it, and you lied about it.
00:44:23Why are you even in this?
00:44:25Why are you commenting?
00:44:25So, yeah, okay, I'm sorry.
00:44:26Girl, get your husband.
00:44:28This is a girl.
00:44:29Seriously.
00:44:30You commented about everything.
00:44:32I don't know.
00:44:33She goes, I don't know.
00:44:34Stop pretending to be swissling.
00:44:36I don't have a problem with you until you interrupt everybody.
00:44:40Shut up.
00:44:40We were talking about our own experiences.
00:44:43Hold on.
00:44:43You said something.
00:44:44Here's the thing.
00:44:45If you put your finger in my face again, enough.
00:44:47I'm not.
00:44:47I'm not.
00:44:48Hold on.
00:44:48Hold on.
00:44:49Put your finger down.
00:44:49Hold on.
00:44:50Put your finger down.
00:44:51Put your finger down.
00:44:53Put your finger down.
00:44:54You said something.
00:44:56Here's the thing.
00:44:56If you put your finger in my face again, enough.
00:44:59Put your finger down.
00:45:00Hold on.
00:45:00Put your finger down.
00:45:01Hold on.
00:45:01Put your finger down.
00:45:04Put your finger down.
00:45:06You teach meditation, and you act like that?
00:45:10You lied, and you need to apologize.
00:45:12You need to apologize.
00:45:14Ganging up.
00:45:15No, no, no.
00:45:16You need to apologize that you lied.
00:45:18Enough.
00:45:19She called her a bitch.
00:45:20I can never call her a bitch.
00:45:22You're just listening to her lies.
00:45:24I'm not listening to anything you say
00:45:26because you're highly disrespectful.
00:45:27She was being respectful until everyone started screaming.
00:45:30This looks like a circus.
00:45:32I was like, oh, no.
00:45:33I mean, I'll waste my time.
00:45:34I just want to have my food because I'm hungry.
00:45:37Get her out of here.
00:45:38Get her out of here.
00:45:39I'm leaving the building if you don't get that bitch out.
00:45:42That's it.
00:45:43I'm done.
00:45:43Thank you so much for lying.
00:45:45And we know who's a liar here.
00:45:47You have no business in this period.
00:45:48You don't have business in everyone's conversation.
00:45:50It is exactly what you just did right now.
00:45:52You both are trying to be political as .
00:45:54Getting in there.
00:45:55Oh, look at us.
00:45:56We're the good ones.
00:45:56We're the sweethearts.
00:45:58You're doing the same technique.
00:46:00I hate lying.
00:46:02I know.
00:46:03Daniel, Dathropo, they were all coming at Shekinah.
00:46:06Unfortunately, I really couldn't help calling them out.
00:46:09I don't start , but I can finish it, and that's exactly what I was trying to do.
00:46:13All right, guys.
00:46:14This has been fun.
00:46:15I always like to tell them that I got to get out of here.
00:46:18Nice meeting all of you.
00:46:19Thanks for meeting you.
00:46:20I know we can talk.
00:46:21Shekinah has a history of not being a girl's girl.
00:46:24I don't think it's possible to know the real Shekinah.
00:46:26I think there are so many layers of plastic laid over her real personality that it's hard
00:46:32to figure out who she really is.
00:46:33Oh, you know what?
00:46:34I cannot believe everything that they said.
00:46:37I know.
00:46:38I mean, she made a research about you, whatever you said, all things.
00:46:43Yeah.
00:46:44That took some reason.
00:46:45And she found something and she came in.
00:46:46Yeah.
00:46:47She made a lift.
00:46:48Oh, my God.
00:46:49I never saw such a cleaner.
00:46:50Me neither.
00:46:51And she hosts meditating retreats.
00:46:54I felt like I could knock it up and go to the bathroom.
00:46:57All right.
00:46:58Yeah, I got a piece of that, man.
00:46:59This one's screaming at this one.
00:47:01She's yelling at her.
00:47:02I don't know what the was going on.
00:47:03It was crazy.
00:47:04This just became too toxic already.
00:47:07Like, I never wanted this to escalate this way.
00:47:09Like, this just got so ugly.
00:47:11There was a lot of really hostile moments.
00:47:14I don't know how I got so many people so riled up.
00:47:19I don't want to listen to them anymore.
00:47:23Me either.
00:47:24You're a snake.
00:47:25Yeah.
00:47:26You're a snake.
00:47:27You're a snake.
00:47:28You're a snake, you're a snake.
00:47:29You're a snake.
00:47:30You're a snake.
00:47:31You're a snake.
00:47:32You're a snake.
00:47:33You're a snake.
00:47:34Everyone's a snake.
00:47:35Look how they all switch back like it's nothing.
00:47:36All right.
00:47:37Here we go.
00:47:38Five, four, three, two...
00:47:39Let's move over to Mark and Mina.
00:47:41While it was very hard to not have her son Clayton,
00:47:52to not have her son Clayton attend the wedding in person,
00:47:56Mark and Mina made it to the altar
00:47:58and got to celebrate their happily ever after.
00:48:01So how is life now after that very special day?
00:48:04Let's get right to it.
00:48:06Mark and Mina, are you ready?
00:48:08Yes.
00:48:08Okay, good.
00:48:09Mina, we learned earlier that you now spend most of your time
00:48:12in Boston instead of in New Hampshire.
00:48:15So you're liking Boston better than New Hampshire?
00:48:17Oh, yeah.
00:48:18And do you plan to stay there long-term?
00:48:24You know, we're kind of keeping open to all options.
00:48:26I'm going to long-term have the place in New Hampshire
00:48:28or we're going to have that, but Boston right now.
00:48:31But we also love Paris and the south of France.
00:48:34So, you know, we're both open to the idea,
00:48:37possibly going back there.
00:48:39Wow.
00:48:39Wow.
00:48:41Okay, so let's dive more into your relationship.
00:48:46Now, Mina, we saw some rumors about your past.
00:48:54There's like an online post that claims eight years ago
00:48:57you were an exotic dancer.
00:49:01And that's how you met Mark.
00:49:03Is that true?
00:49:04I don't want to lie.
00:49:07It's not a false rumor.
00:49:09I haven't met Mark in a club or whatever it is.
00:49:13But I worked a long time ago in a club.
00:49:16I was a celibataire.
00:49:18I had to take care of my child.
00:49:20So when I told him about that, he told me,
00:49:22oh, but it's funny.
00:49:23I'm also being young.
00:49:25I've also worked in a strip-tease club.
00:49:28Oh, yeah.
00:49:30Welcome for the team.
00:49:31Did you work in a strip club?
00:49:34Why are you not dancing?
00:49:34I was bartending like Juan.
00:49:36I was bartending.
00:49:37So this was Los Angeles 20, 30 years ago?
00:49:4030 years ago.
00:49:41So, Mina, when you worked at the club,
00:49:43you were dancing at a club.
00:49:44Yeah.
00:49:45Okay, but you did not meet Mark at that club.
00:49:49Also, Mina, online,
00:49:51there were rumors about your stage name.
00:49:55Do you want to tell us what your stage name was?
00:49:57Mark, do you know what her stage name was?
00:50:03He turned all the way around to look at you.
00:50:05Wait, wait.
00:50:06Don't we all have stripper names?
00:50:07He's like Betty.
00:50:10Mine was Alex.
00:50:11Alex?
00:50:11Yeah.
00:50:12Oh, Alex.
00:50:13It's my sister's name.
00:50:15Because you might be divine.
00:50:18Divine.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:21So how did you come up with the name divine?
00:50:24Because my cousin's name is divine.
00:50:26Ah.
00:50:27You should cousin's name.
00:50:28You use your cousin's name.
00:50:31I love that.
00:50:33So, bro, how did you come up with Alex?
00:50:35I don't know.
00:50:36I mean, there was a soccer player called Alex.
00:50:38Famous at the time.
00:50:40I loved his name.
00:50:41So, because my family doesn't know,
00:50:43I have to be confidential as much as possible.
00:50:45So let me put Alex, I thought.
00:50:49You know, aren't stage names, though, supposed to be sexy?
00:50:51Alex isn't sexy.
00:50:53In Turkey, it's sexy.
00:50:54For you, it's sexy.
00:50:56For America, maybe it's not.
00:50:58Ani, so your stage name?
00:51:01I think.
00:51:03You need to add Matt to the 90 Day Stripper Club.
00:51:05He used to be a stripper, too.
00:51:07Wait, Matt used to be a stripper?
00:51:08Uh-huh.
00:51:09Really?
00:51:09Yeah, he would do bachelorette parties, everything.
00:51:12No kidding.
00:51:13Uh-huh.
00:51:14Matt, now that you have been outed,
00:51:18what was your stage name, Matt?
00:51:20Hudson.
00:51:21Hudson.
00:51:21Hudson.
00:51:21Y'all thought Ani was the only one, not us.
00:51:26Yeah.
00:51:27So back to Mark and Mina.
00:51:30Now that you have been married for a while,
00:51:32let's go back to one of the big issues leading up to the wedding.
00:51:36Mark's daughter, Jordan,
00:51:37was initially skeptical of Mina's intentions with her dad.
00:51:41Let's bring her out to see if she's currently getting along
00:51:44with her new stepmom.
00:51:46Please welcome Mark's daughter, Jordan.
00:51:51Hi.
00:51:51You look beautiful.
00:51:53You look beautiful.
00:51:53There you go.
00:51:54Good to see you.
00:51:55Good to see you, too.
00:51:57Hi, Mina.
00:51:58Hi, nice to meet you.
00:51:58Hi, you all.
00:51:59Welcome, Jordan.
00:52:00I hear that you recently got engaged.
00:52:03Yes, I did.
00:52:04Congratulations.
00:52:05Congrats.
00:52:07Did you get to celebrate with your dad?
00:52:09Yeah.
00:52:09They came to our engagement party.
00:52:10It was really special.
00:52:11It was a good time for all the family to be together.
00:52:13Good, good.
00:52:15Okay, we know Jordan had several concerns about Mina,
00:52:19and she wasn't shy about voicing them.
00:52:21Let's watch.
00:52:23We're thinking about having another baby.
00:52:27I mean, I already accepted that you had one baby.
00:52:33So I don't think I'm ready to accept you having another one yet.
00:52:37You think I come here for the green card, for the house, for...
00:52:42Yeah, you're coming into my family and having babies,
00:52:45and, like, how do I know you're not just with my dad for his money?
00:52:50I have an impression that Jordan and me is a competition.
00:52:55No, it's not competition.
00:52:57Her concern is just about, does dad really need to have more kids?
00:53:04Baby, I'm sorry.
00:53:07For me, Jordan is a hypocrite.
00:53:09I don't know, I'm not comfortable for talking with Jordan,
00:53:13because now I say, I say I'm a snake, you know?
00:53:17No, no, no, no, no, don't compare my...
00:53:19I go or I don't go.
00:53:20My daughter is not a snake.
00:53:22Yeah.
00:53:23Come on, baby.
00:53:24You don't come in the bed, okay?
00:53:27Seriously?
00:53:27Yeah.
00:53:29Oh, my God.
00:53:35Jordan, how do you feel about being called a hypocrite, a snake?
00:53:44Tough words.
00:53:46Yeah, I mean, it doesn't feel good,
00:53:48but I think that I was probably pretty quick to judge her pretty harshly, too.
00:53:54I think we both kind of did that.
00:53:58And I really created this situation between the two of them.
00:54:01Mina told you something in confidence, and Jordan told you something in confidence.
00:54:04Exactly.
00:54:05And you shared what he did.
00:54:05I blew it on both times.
00:54:07Yeah, I did too much talk.
00:54:09You're an overshare.
00:54:10I think whenever she came here, it was probably really hard for her because she left so much
00:54:15behind.
00:54:16So coming here, she really was hoping to be, like, fully accepted.
00:54:20And because she didn't get that, that's why it, like, made her say the things that she
00:54:25said to you.
00:54:26Yeah, exactly.
00:54:28Your dad's happiness is what matters the most, and if he's happy, you should be happy for
00:54:32him.
00:54:33Yeah, I know.
00:54:35I think it was a hard adjustment seeing, you know, your father at his age having a new
00:54:41baby.
00:54:41It was nothing against Maria, but we're 25 years apart.
00:54:45I've always just felt like she's looking out for my best interest.
00:54:48I wanted there to be peace, and I knew eventually Jordan is going to see Mina's heart.
00:54:53It just needed time.
00:54:54I don't think either one of you guys handled that well, but it looks like you've both
00:54:58figured it out, so.
00:54:59Yeah, yeah, super.
00:54:59But Jordan, what would be so bad if they had another child?
00:55:05I mean, you know, I pictured this time of my life, you know, to have him be, like, a
00:55:09grandfather to my children, so I think that that is an adjustment.
00:55:13You had mentioned, like, what if you guys got pregnant together, like, kind of at the
00:55:16same time?
00:55:17Like, how would that be?
00:55:18Yeah, I mean, that would be kind of awkward.
00:55:21I mean, it's not the end of the world, but would I prefer that?
00:55:26I mean, probably not.
00:55:27I feel like she doesn't have the right to decide whether they should have more kids
00:55:31or not.
00:55:33Is it okay for them to have kids?
00:55:35Yes.
00:55:36And Mina, I'm sorry if I made you feel like I was trying to tell you what you can and
00:55:40can't do.
00:55:40I was just trying to protect my dad and voice my concerns about him having kids at his age.
00:55:46But it's completely your decision.
00:55:48It's your life and, you know, whatever makes you both happy.
00:55:52That's great, because she's pregnant.
00:55:57Oh, my God.
00:55:58What?
00:55:59Whoa, really?
00:56:01Jesus.
00:56:02No.
00:56:04Let's move on to Sean and Aaliyah, calling Sean and Aaliyah's wedding turbulent.
00:56:09I'm sorry.
00:56:10I just can't.
00:56:12I can't do this.
00:56:15It's weird.
00:56:15I can't put up with this.
00:56:30Mina's pregnant.
00:56:37What did she say?
00:56:38She's pregnant.
00:56:39No, I'm kidding.
00:56:42No, it's not true.
00:56:44It's not true.
00:56:45Sorry, sorry.
00:56:46Yo, you got me, bro.
00:56:47You got me good, man.
00:56:48She's about to be so happy.
00:56:49She'll give you a hug, man.
00:56:51How'd you feel about that joke?
00:56:53Bad joke, Jordan.
00:56:54Bad joke.
00:56:55Sometimes you need to say, serious.
00:56:56I knew you were joking.
00:56:59So, are you actively trying to have another baby?
00:57:03We're actively not trying.
00:57:05So, you know, we're not actively inhibiting.
00:57:09Wait, actively not not trying, meaning you're not using any protection?
00:57:14I guess you could say that, yeah.
00:57:16So, eventually, you probably will have another child if you're not using protection, right?
00:57:21I mean, that is what can happen, yeah.
00:57:26This is TMI.
00:57:27All right, so what is next for you two?
00:57:30We saw how crushing it was for you when you realized that Clayton couldn't come to America.
00:57:45How long has it been since you've seen your son?
00:57:48Oh, la dernière fois je l'ai vu, c'était quand je prenais.
00:57:54Onze, onze months?
00:57:55Ouais.
00:57:56Onze mois, onze mois.
00:58:01It's tough for her to talk, it's tough for her to talk about.
00:58:03Are you able to visit your son?
00:58:33We're going very soon, yeah.
00:58:37She just got the green card last week, so now we have the freedom.
00:58:40Congratulations, that's amazing.
00:58:42We're so happy for you.
00:58:46We're going to see Clayton as soon as possible within the next few weeks,
00:58:49and our goal, our hope, Jasper, is that we're bringing Clayton back to the U.S. with us at that time.
00:58:56Hope that works for you guys.
00:58:57Yeah.
00:58:59Well, Jordan, we appreciate you being here.
00:59:02Yes, thank you.
00:59:03Thanks, Jordan.
00:59:04We'll see you soon.
00:59:07Mark and Mina, we're glad to see that your marriage is, pardon the pun, flying high.
00:59:15All right, before we move on, how about a little comic relief?
00:59:17Sure.
00:59:18Absolutely.
00:59:19Absolutely.
00:59:19Yeah, why not?
00:59:21Yes.
00:59:21So, Sarper, are you still writing jokes?
00:59:24Yeah, sure.
00:59:24You are?
00:59:25All right, would you like to share some of your jokes with us?
00:59:27Where do you want me?
00:59:30Oh, my God.
00:59:31Wait, can we have a microphone for Sarper?
00:59:33Wow.
00:59:33There we go.
00:59:34So, we are your audience, Sarper, and that is your stage.
00:59:40Hey!
00:59:41No pressure.
00:59:44Hi, guys.
00:59:45Hi.
00:59:46Hi.
00:59:46It's okay.
00:59:48When we all saw the trouble, I mean, everyone, every man texted me, even my friends from Turkey.
00:59:55Did you see that lucky mother with two cheeks?
00:59:57And I'm sure every man watching me right now thought the same way, you know?
01:00:02But, guys, is he really that lucky, hmm?
01:00:06What are advantages of such a relationship in man's perspective?
01:00:12Two, three times per week, 20, 30 minutes at most.
01:00:16And I'm sure it doesn't last that long.
01:00:18No offense.
01:00:19But this is the only advantage.
01:00:21And is it really an advantage, by the way?
01:00:24Isn't it just like playing golf, guys?
01:00:26Does it matter how many holes are out there?
01:00:29When you have only one stick to play?
01:00:33You got it.
01:00:34And let us look at the other scale.
01:00:36Disadventages, fights, arguments, multiplied by two.
01:00:43Neverending requests, complaints, multiplied by two.
01:00:47PMSing, don't touch me, multiplied by two.
01:00:51I have only one, just one atom, and I cannot deal with her.
01:00:56Guys, please stop feeling jealous about him.
01:01:00Feel sorry.
01:01:02And you know what?
01:01:02Not only once, but multiplied by two.
01:01:07Thanks for listening, guys.
01:01:08All right, Sarpur.
01:01:12Okay, let me ask your castmates.
01:01:14I told you you left.
01:01:16I cracked.
01:01:17Let me ask your castmates, does Sarpur have a future in comedy?
01:01:22Definitely.
01:01:23You think he does?
01:01:24I think he does.
01:01:24He's good.
01:01:25He's very passionate about it.
01:01:26Very, very passionate.
01:01:28You would come to see him?
01:01:29He's got a lot of clothes.
01:01:29Yeah, why not?
01:01:30I'd buy a ticket.
01:01:31Yeah, we just got a free chance.
01:01:32I would come to Huntington, as a tour.
01:01:34All right, let's move on to Sean and Aaliyah.
01:01:40Calling Sean and Aaliyah's wedding turbulent.
01:01:42I'm sorry, I just can't, I can't do this.
01:01:46I don't feel right.
01:01:49I just, it's weird.
01:01:52I can't put up with this.
01:01:59Okay.
01:02:03Oh, thank you.
01:02:05He's a hairdresser.
01:02:08Thank you so much.
01:02:12I didn't know what was happening.
01:02:15I always, I always had a heart attack now.
01:02:21Sean, that's your dad.
01:02:23Oh, boy.
01:02:24That will go down in 90-day history.
01:02:27Okay.
01:02:27Oh, my gosh.
01:02:28Hi, Connie.
01:02:29So, once again, we're going to move on to Sean and Aaliyah.
01:02:34Now, calling their wedding turbulent would definitely be an understatement.
01:02:39Have things smoothed out since then?
01:02:41That is what we are about to find out.
01:02:45So, Aaliyah, how are you adjusting to life here in the States?
01:02:51I would say that I'm adjusting pretty good and pretty nice.
01:02:55I don't think that relationship, the marriage, it's like my dream.
01:02:59But I think we are moving forward.
01:03:03What was your dream?
01:03:07I think it's just like a lot of change.
01:03:10I think we're not, you're both not expecting that.
01:03:13The only thing constant in our relationship is huge change.
01:03:19Your story is so fascinating.
01:03:22We've never had a situation like this.
01:03:25Yeah, it's all been unfolding.
01:03:28Well, there are two other 90-dayers who have strong opinions about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.
01:03:34Let's bring them into the conversation.
01:03:36Speaking to us remotely from Mexico, please welcome Kenny and Armando.
01:03:41Hi, guys.
01:03:43Hi.
01:03:45How are you?
01:03:46Good.
01:03:46How are you guys doing?
01:03:48We are doing fine.
01:03:50And I'm sure you have a lot to say about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.
01:03:55Yes.
01:03:56But first off, Sean probably wants to get a hold of my hair.
01:04:01That's a given.
01:04:03But he doesn't let you touch it.
01:04:05But you can't touch it.
01:04:06You can just look.
01:04:06Well, when Aaliyah moved to the U.S., their mutual friend, Jackie, became someone that Aaliyah could rely on.
01:04:15Well, Jackie is here tonight to give her take on these newlyweds.
01:04:19Please welcome Sean and Aaliyah's friend, Jackie.
01:04:23Hi, Jackie.
01:04:24Hi.
01:04:24How are you?
01:04:25Good.
01:04:26Welcome.
01:04:30Jackie, you want to say hi to Sean and Aaliyah?
01:04:32You guys look great.
01:04:34Well, Aaliyah, you look great.
01:04:36Sean, you look very handsome, but I'm loving this fit, Aaliyah.
01:04:39So, Jackie, you met Sean and Aaliyah in the infancy of their relationship.
01:04:45Correct.
01:04:46Before Aaliyah transitioned.
01:04:48How different is Aaliyah today from when you first met?
01:04:54Douglas was scared, quiet, timid.
01:04:58Aaliyah is, like, beautiful, bold.
01:05:00I'm really proud of the differences because she's becoming who she was meant to be and, like, I love this person, you know?
01:05:08She's comfortable in her own skin.
01:05:10Yeah, yeah.
01:05:11This is perfect for her.
01:05:13I'm so happy for her.
01:05:14Yeah, I'm so happy for you.
01:05:15Because this is what she is.
01:05:16Yeah.
01:05:17But Sean's perspective, you signed up and then everything changed.
01:05:22I couldn't keep going with the K-1 process, everything.
01:05:24The thing that you did was great.
01:05:26It's navigating how do you support somebody who's going through a lot of changes in order to continue on in this relationship.
01:05:35Okay, but I want to confirm something shocking that my producers told me.
01:05:41Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon without Aaliyah.
01:05:46I didn't, actually.
01:05:49You did.
01:05:49You literally went on your own honeymoon by yourself.
01:05:57He left me, like, for a month.
01:06:01Wait, what?
01:06:02What's so wrong?
01:06:03Oh, my God.
01:06:05It wasn't a month.
01:06:06Yeah, it was.
01:06:07Let me ask you this, Sean.
01:06:13Do you find Aaliyah physically attracted, like you are sexually attracted to her?
01:06:21The impression that we get is that you're not.
01:06:25Uh.
01:06:26Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon for a month by yourself?
01:06:42I went to go visit my best friend since I was 12 in Florida, and I bailed, and I told Leah I was leaving because I was still, like, irate.
01:06:48And then you went to the Dominican Republic, yeah?
01:06:50You went on, like, a little mini vacation by yourself.
01:06:52I did.
01:06:53I was very selfish about that, yes.
01:06:55You needed a vacation.
01:06:57And the reason you did not take Aaliyah with you was because?
01:07:01He was mad at me.
01:07:03Correct.
01:07:04I held the grudge for months.
01:07:07You still have it even now?
01:07:08Yeah, I think so, in a weird way.
01:07:12I think I'm not just over it.
01:07:14That is childish.
01:07:16Yes.
01:07:16Okay, so, as we know, that anger was stemming from their disastrous wedding day.
01:07:22Let's look back at exactly what went down.
01:07:26Ah!
01:07:29Mom?
01:07:37It's painful at the moment.
01:07:39I'm hoping it'll get better quickly.
01:07:42It's like, am I taking you to the hospital now?
01:07:45No, and I, uh, will be fine by 5 o'clock.
01:07:49I guarantee it.
01:07:51Ah, hey, Mom.
01:07:55It says it's going to start at 5.
01:07:56Oh, no, there's no way.
01:07:57It's not going to.
01:07:58No.
01:07:58It's 6 right now.
01:07:59And it was my last words to him was, do not let this be like the engagement.
01:08:07Yeah.
01:08:08Two hours late.
01:08:11Time is going and going and going, and there's still no sign or even word from Aaliyah.
01:08:19And finally, I just said, you know, no.
01:08:23Like, no more.
01:08:24I'm done.
01:08:25I've been ready to go for an hour and 45 minutes.
01:08:28You're not supposed to see her.
01:08:29I don't give a f***.
01:08:30Aw.
01:08:32Not happy.
01:08:33So I say, walk in the thing, say I do really quick.
01:08:36I'm going to go have food.
01:08:38And then throw everybody out.
01:08:41Thanks for coming.
01:08:43Aaliyah, hey, thanks for coming too.
01:08:45Hey.
01:08:45So, uh, finally coming when you got around to it.
01:08:49All right.
01:08:50Cheers.
01:08:50Bye.
01:08:51Oh, my God.
01:08:58Whoa.
01:09:00I think the situation with your mom probably heightened everything.
01:09:04So it wasn't like you were just waiting there for two hours and...
01:09:09Yeah.
01:09:09Every five minutes was like a lifetime.
01:09:12What was the diagnosis of your mother, if your mommy asked you?
01:09:15She had fractured her foot on both sides and she was immobile for months.
01:09:22That's pretty justifiable to be pissed off.
01:09:24And Jackie, you are a big part of my pain.
01:09:28You were the person I relied on to get her and help her get there.
01:09:33You were the only one there.
01:09:34So my mom is my prized possession in this earth.
01:09:38And so I need her in the hospital more than I need a wedding, more than I need to wait for Aaliyah to put on a wig that I had pre-styled, pre-had her hair braided to put on, pre-had her dress made.
01:09:49I did everything I could to make that as easy as possible.
01:09:51And I get why you were upset.
01:09:53I just feel like...
01:09:53Where were you?
01:09:54There were a million other ways that day could have gone.
01:09:56Drinking campaign, sitting around, joking around in your air-conditioned private suite.
01:10:00I got dressed in a public bathroom with no air-conditioning, sweating bullets.
01:10:04That's not...
01:10:05Okay.
01:10:06Shush.
01:10:06And then you go to the venue with her.
01:10:09Even if my mom wasn't in a wheelchair, even if my mom didn't have an accident, you should have been like, we're two hours late.
01:10:16We're not talking 15 minutes, 30 minutes.
01:10:18We kept giving her time checks.
01:10:20I kept telling her.
01:10:21Can I tell my side of the story?
01:10:23Yeah.
01:10:24I want to hear from Aaliyah.
01:10:25Do you think that Jackie could have done more, or was it out of her hands?
01:10:33I think it was out of her hands.
01:10:36Jackie told me something happened with Sean's mom.
01:10:39I was, like, frozen.
01:10:40And I just felt like, oh, my God, I think the wedding's not happening anymore because she cannot be here.
01:10:46And then someone said, oh, don't be worried because she's there.
01:10:51She's fine.
01:10:52And everything's fine.
01:10:53So the person, like, calms me down.
01:10:56And then I just, was the time that I, like, continue, like, doing the makeup and doing all these things.
01:11:01And the time was passing.
01:11:02My phone was not there, like, in my side.
01:11:04You did not call this, my phone, I think.
01:11:08And everyone saw, like, calls from you.
01:11:09Maybe you should have communicated with him.
01:11:11Let's all understand where Sean is coming from.
01:11:14He's absent.
01:11:14I do understand where he's coming from.
01:11:16I do, but...
01:11:17Maybe you had to call him.
01:11:18So me, I should have told Aaliyah, enough.
01:11:20No more makeup, no more hair.
01:11:21We have to go.
01:11:22No matter what Jackie said, wasn't going to drag her out of that makeup chair because she was going to look perfect.
01:11:29But no wedding goes off without a hitch.
01:11:32Our wedding was an hour late.
01:11:34We had problems, too.
01:11:35I think every wedding does.
01:11:38Okay.
01:11:39So you got married even after that crazy wedding day.
01:11:43But then, as you told us earlier, your sex life since has not gone well.
01:11:49Have you two been intimate?
01:11:52Yeah.
01:11:53After the wedding, we were intimate, like, twice.
01:11:57And I feel like I don't want to be in a position that I'm forcing him that.
01:12:01So it's just like, are you awake?
01:12:03Do you guys, like, kiss or hold your hands, cuddle?
01:12:06Yeah.
01:12:07Let me ask you, given that this is an open marriage, since the wedding, has either one of you been intimate with another person?
01:12:15I have.
01:12:18Oh, wow.
01:12:19Cool.
01:12:20So do you both have an open marriage or just you, Sean?
01:12:23We both have an open marriage, but she is in the middle of her transition and isn't acting on it, as far as I know.
01:12:29She wants to be loved by you.
01:12:32Alia, piensas que él prefiere el cuerpo de un hombre?
01:12:38Sientes que por eso han perdido la conexión sexual?
01:12:42Sí.
01:12:44I think you really do like masculine bodies and...
01:12:59I think it's just hard, like, in this process that I'm changing, my body's changing, I don't feel attracted, wanted, my love language, it's physical touch, and I really don't have that.
01:13:18Oh.
01:13:23Let me ask you this, Sean.
01:13:25Do you find Alia physically attractive, like you're sexually attracted to her?
01:13:35I'm worried because I don't really know where we're landing at the end of it all.
01:13:44Only Alia knows what's going to make her truly whole and truly what she feels she is.
01:13:50So, is Sean going to be attracted to Alia if she chose to have bottom surgery?
01:13:56The impression that we get is that you're not.
01:14:00Is that just crossing the line for you?
01:14:04It's her body, her situation.
01:14:07I don't want her to do something just to save this relationship.
01:14:14It wasn't safe, and, you know, if she chose not to and she doesn't, it's not going to ruin your relationship for sure.
01:14:22Like, when you did marry Alia, I mean, did you think, I'm in love with this person?
01:14:27Well, the person that I originally fell in love with isn't next to me anymore.
01:14:34So, Sean, are you truly in love with Alia?
01:14:38All right, let's get out of here.
01:14:52That light bulb click in my head, I was like, wait, Ani says she loves me, but not the way I love her.
01:14:58After all of that, I have 100% hesitation divorcing the most beautiful and amazing woman that I've ever met in my life.
01:15:05So, I don't know what our future is.
01:15:08Sean, are you actually in love with Alia?
01:15:16Um, yes.
01:15:26And I know I'll be there for Alia forever.
01:15:31That's good.
01:15:32Sweet.
01:15:32I think Sean was put in Alia's life for Alia to become Alia.
01:15:42Then, even if it doesn't work out romantically, he will always be there for you.
01:15:48Man, you two.
01:15:50For me, it's hard.
01:15:51When I'm emotional, you express my feelings.
01:15:53So, I wrote a text and I want to share.
01:15:58Does anyone have Alia's phone?
01:16:06I remember when it was just me and you.
01:16:10When talking for hours on the phone and seeing you on a screen wasn't enough.
01:16:18How I wanted to make time stop when we were together.
01:16:22And how painful it was to say goodbye.
01:16:25I remember the night I look at the stars, praying for us to be very happy.
01:16:37And today, I cry inside.
01:16:41I cry because we have chanted.
01:16:43But I love you and I live with you in all of my versions.
01:17:02And you know I love you, Alia.
01:17:05And I'm always going to be here for you.
01:17:08And we'll figure life out and do it together.
01:17:14Okay.
01:17:16Mm-hmm.
01:17:17I love you.
01:17:18I love you too.
01:17:22I'm crying.
01:17:24Gosh.
01:17:28One more thing.
01:17:29I'm sorry that I was awful to you at the wedding.
01:17:32It was grumpy.
01:17:34And it was a hard day for me for obvious reasons.
01:17:37But I'm sorry about that.
01:17:39And I was wrong for that.
01:17:42I appreciate that.
01:17:43I just want to see y'all have that day over again.
01:17:45I really do.
01:17:45Can we get a redo for the 10-year anniversary, please?
01:17:47We all need an invitation if that happens again.
01:17:50All right.
01:17:52Jackie, thank you so much for joining us.
01:17:54We can see how much you love your friend.
01:17:56Thank you so much for having me.
01:17:58Love you guys.
01:18:00Love you.
01:18:02Kenny and Armando, we always love having you guys.
01:18:06Hope to see you again soon.
01:18:07Nice to see everybody.
01:18:09Thank you, everyone.
01:18:10All right.
01:18:11Sean and Alia, we certainly wish you a world of happiness.
01:18:16Well, we have reached the end of 90 Day Fiancé.
01:18:23The Couples Tell All.
01:18:25A big thank you to everyone who participated today,
01:18:28from the couples to their family and friends
01:18:31to our past 90-dayers.
01:18:33We've learned a lot.
01:18:34And I'm excited to see where all of your journeys take you next.
01:18:37I'm Sean Robinson.
01:18:38Thank you so much for watching.
01:18:40We survived.
01:18:41Oh, my gosh.
01:18:49We did it.
01:18:50Now we can go take this off and get our wedgies out.
01:18:56What's up?
01:18:57My dad is going in.
01:18:59Oh, yeah.
01:18:59Eat.
01:19:01You want to go have dinner with us?
01:19:03We're all eating right there.
01:19:04No, no.
01:19:05I mean, I'm eating for Shekinah.
01:19:07Oh, okay.
01:19:08We won't eat.
01:19:08You guys want to join us or no?
01:19:10No, no.
01:19:10Okay.
01:19:11Well, it was such a pleasure meeting you again if I don't see you.
01:19:13Okay.
01:19:14I'm sorry you went, like, hand up on you,
01:19:16but hopefully we'll work it out eventually.
01:19:19Hopefully.
01:19:22I'm going to make a toast,
01:19:24ending on a high note.
01:19:25Oh, wait.
01:19:26I don't even drink, but I'm thinking about it.
01:19:29I'm almost drinking.
01:19:31Jessica!
01:19:32Jessica!
01:19:33We're leaving.
01:19:36High five.
01:19:37We survived the tunnel,
01:19:38and no one came for our next.
01:19:40We're going to go home to our baby.
01:19:42Aw.
01:19:42How dare you.
01:19:43It was so great.
01:19:43It was such a pleasure meeting you.
01:19:46Hi.
01:19:47Hi and bye.
01:19:48I know where I am.
01:19:49Sorry about what Ani said.
01:19:50We'll take it personal.
01:19:51We'll take it personal.
01:19:52Okay.
01:19:53I already texted her.
01:19:54She's not going cool.
01:19:55I mean, I think the next thing for us
01:19:57is definitely, one, finding a job.
01:19:59We should all the luck, but I like that.
01:20:00You too, you too.
01:20:01Stay in touch, and maybe look into the private yacht.
01:20:04Yeah, I'll have to make it work so much.
01:20:07I mean, sometimes I feel bad.
01:20:08Like, I should take a job, whatever it comes,
01:20:10and just take it and work and make the money.
01:20:12And if that doesn't work,
01:20:13then it's like, he'll take a cruise contract or two.
01:20:17It's still last resort, but like, it's on the table.
01:20:22It's on the table, yeah.
01:20:23But I think my son is the priority now.
01:20:29Guys.
01:20:30We're heading out.
01:20:30You guys don't even know.
01:20:31It's your time, guys.
01:20:32Hi.
01:20:32Thank you, guys.
01:20:34It was nice to see you.
01:20:36You too.
01:20:37I'll say trip home.
01:20:39I'll say trip home, bro.
01:20:40Bye, sweetie.
01:20:42We'll be in touch.
01:20:43See you.
01:20:43I'll be in touch.
01:20:45Me and her.
01:20:46Stop.
01:20:47I kissed the girl for you.
01:20:49Okay, buddy.
01:20:50Play date for the dogs.
01:20:51Yes.
01:20:51Show.
01:20:52Oh, bye.
01:20:54Wait.
01:20:55Oh, there.
01:20:56Kiss for you.
01:20:58Bye, guys.
01:21:01Oh.
01:21:02You tried.
01:21:03You tried.
01:21:05Imani, stop trying.
01:21:08Oh, no.
01:21:10I know very clearly now that Imani was coming into this tell-all, having it out for me.
01:21:15Oh, it's crazy.
01:21:16Like, I'm like, ugh.
01:21:18But they can go on with all their drama and their toxicity.
01:21:23I'm never going to associate with her.
01:21:25She escaped.
01:21:26That's what they deserve.
01:21:28They totally deserve that.
01:21:30With me and Shigana, we are so inconsistent.
01:21:33I just want calmness, peaceful life.
01:21:36And I love her.
01:21:37I think everything will be better by time.
01:21:39You have the drinks.
01:21:41It's enough for you.
01:21:41I know that we arrived in separate cars.
01:21:45We slept in separate hotel rooms.
01:21:47But I want us to reconnect.
01:21:50And I think that this gesture that he made by giving me this is a sign that, you know,
01:21:54he wants that, too.
01:21:55Yeah.
01:21:55My personal future with Sarper, I want to move out of my place and get a place of our
01:22:01own.
01:22:02I want Sarper to work on his anger, and I want us to get into therapy.
01:22:09Bye.
01:22:10Bye, guys.
01:22:11Bye.
01:22:12Hey.
01:22:13I want to give you guys a quick hug.
01:22:14I don't know when I'll see you again, so bye.
01:22:17Bye.
01:22:17If I don't see you.
01:22:18I don't like how I'm judging you on that.
01:22:20It's okay.
01:22:21I just wanted to wish you guys best of luck.
01:22:22Good night.
01:22:23I can't have a conversation with Imani.
01:22:25I'm not sorry for standing up for myself, and I'm not sorry for standing up for Maddie.
01:22:29Hi.
01:22:30No way.
01:22:30Love you, love you.
01:22:31Bye.
01:22:31I love you.
01:22:32You're like a really fun person.
01:22:33You are, too.
01:22:34I love you guys.
01:22:34Okay.
01:22:37It was so draining today.
01:22:39And I think Stevie and I have a lot to work on.
01:22:42She didn't answer the question that if she has ever kissed a girl, but, like, I know her.
01:22:47I'm fine.
01:22:48Like, if you're okay with it, I'm okay with it, too.
01:22:51I think anything that has to do with sexuality is something that Maddie can ask me behind closed doors.
01:22:56I have fully accepted Maddie as he is, and I hope that he would be fully accepting of me throughout the years forward.
01:23:02We'll see.
01:23:09Hey, third time is a charm.
01:23:10You guys are going to tell us goodbye, right?
01:23:12Well, we had two couples reject our goodbyes.
01:23:15Really?
01:23:16Yeah.
01:23:16Yeah.
01:23:16Shekinah, Sarfer.
01:23:18Maddie and Stevie.
01:23:19Thank you so much for being so supportive.
01:23:22I know you're very independent.
01:23:23You also have that soft heart in you.
01:23:25I know.
01:23:26Have that soft heart.
01:23:27So hard.
01:23:27Thank you, my love.
01:23:30Bye, love.
01:23:31Nice meeting you guys.
01:23:32Me, too.
01:23:32I know.
01:23:34Ah.
01:23:35I love them.
01:23:37Good night.
01:23:38Good night, guys.
01:23:38You know, after today, realizing that mom wants us out sooner rather than later, you know,
01:23:44we are saving money being there, stacking money.
01:23:47You know, we definitely have enough money to move out.
01:23:50I guess we're just going to have to expedite that situation a little bit more.
01:23:53It's got to go on the top priority.
01:23:54I think if I went home and tested and found out that I was pregnant, in one month, I'll
01:24:01be telling Greg that we need to get out of the house.
01:24:03If he doesn't want to get out, I'll leave him there and I'll get out on my own.
01:24:09Ready?
01:24:11Hiya.
01:24:12Hey.
01:24:13Nice to meet you.
01:24:16Nice to meet you, too.
01:24:17You know, as tough as today was and, you know, digging in a little bit to some issues,
01:24:24if anything, all it's taught us is that our relationship and our marriage is worth fighting
01:24:27for.
01:24:28We got the green card.
01:24:30We got married.
01:24:31We're going to go get Clayton.
01:24:32You know, we got a lot of positives coming.
01:24:34Yeah, for now, yeah, all is positive.
01:24:37This is good.
01:24:38Whew.
01:24:39Bye.
01:24:40Bye.
01:24:40Today was fun.
01:24:48It's hard to talk about our relationship, but, like, I do feel that I'm confident and I
01:24:54can speak up for myself, and that makes me feel like I have, like, joy.
01:24:59I feel happy.
01:25:00I think my biggest worry is if he doesn't like my body anymore.
01:25:07I want him to love me as a trans woman.
01:25:12What's immediately next for me and Aaliyah is I'm going to take her on the honeymoon
01:25:17that we never had.
01:25:19She will be frolicking with, no doubt, a little itty-bitty teeny-weeny, maybe not polka-dotted
01:25:25bikini, but something thereof.
01:25:33All right, get out of here.
01:25:35It was an honor.
01:25:35Yeah.
01:25:37Good night, y'all.
01:25:39Bye.
01:25:39Yeah.
01:25:41It took me a while to, like, sit down and, like, that light bulb click.
01:25:47In my head, I was like, wait, Ani?
01:25:49She says she loves me, but not the way I love her.
01:25:53I don't want to be left out, and people are so harsh on me, like, oh, you asked for this.
01:25:57Yes, I asked for this, but I learned the hard way by doing mistakes.
01:26:01So, um, we'll see.
01:26:06After all of that, I have 100% hesitation, you know, divorcing the most beautiful and amazing
01:26:11woman that I've ever met in my life.
01:26:13Ani, she's a wonderful person.
01:26:15But I don't think I could ever care about Ani the way that I do a Minnie unless she goes
01:26:21to the lengths that a Minnie would go for our relationship.
01:26:23So, I don't know what our future is.
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