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The Red Bench Project, a suicide prevention initiative, has launched in North Tyneside. Three distinctive red benches have been installed across the borough, offering a place of reflection, connection and hope.
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00:00In a bid to offer hope, connection and support, the Red Bench Project has arrived in North Tyneside,
00:07a suicide prevention initiative bringing bright red benches to our communities.
00:12Each bench carries a powerful message and signposts to help put anyone in crisis.
00:18This one here at Spanish City was funded by Suzanne Howes in memory of her 17-year-old son, Samuel,
00:24who tragically took his own life five years ago.
00:27North Tyneside Council is backing the project with three benches now installed in Whitley Bay, North Shields and Wollsend,
00:35following similar success in South Tyneside.
00:38I spoke with founder Wayne to learn more.
00:41We are here in North Tyneside in front of Spanish City in Whitley Bay
00:45to promote the launch of the Red Bench Project actually in North Tyneside.
00:51And these are sort of safe spots for people to go if they are struggling with their mental health.
00:56The reason we have the bench, we have obviously a bit of red on it, so it stands out.
01:01What that's for is if somebody's sitting alone on a bench and you see them on the bench,
01:06you can see it's a red bench, go over and say hello.
01:09Just that little interaction, that little bit of kindness can really make a difference to someone who's struggling,
01:14someone who feels alone, that nobody cares.
01:16To have a stranger actually take the time and effort to say hello and ask if they're okay
01:21can stop them from taking that next step.
01:25And that's a step we don't want to see because obviously there's no coming back from that.
01:30What we also say is these benches can be used as a silent cry for help.
01:34Now, I've got a big support network around me, family and friends, but I never talked to them.
01:39I didn't open up to anybody.
01:41So what we're trying to say is, well, if you don't want to talk to your family or friends,
01:45you might talk to a stranger.
01:46So again, you can sit on a bench and what you're saying to people silently is,
01:51I need help.
01:52So yeah, it's promoted as a silent cry for help, a safe space or just somewhere to come
01:58and chill and reflect and calm down.
02:02I mean, the original bench is on South Shields Beach and that's where I go for my medicine.
02:07So I'll sit on a bench for hours, just listen to the waves and that sorts my head out.
02:11So hopefully people can use these benches for any of those reasons.
02:15We're also working with a lot of the local charities.
02:18We try and make inroads with them so that we know where to send people.
02:23So if somebody's struggling and we find out why, we know which charity or which group to
02:28send them to so they can get the right help.
02:30Because unfortunately, everyone just thinks they've got to go to the doctor and that's
02:35all you get really is medicine or counselling.
02:38And for that, you've got a six month waiting list and that's not enough for people.
02:41When there's actually lots of groups out there, support groups, charities, there's all
02:46kinds out there, but if you don't know about it, then you can't get the help.
02:51So we're just trying to signpost them to the right help so that they don't struggle,
02:55they don't suffer in silence.
02:57And that's basically what the red bench is all about.
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