00:01Your wife knows everything that you know about her, and she also knows everything that you don't know about her.
00:08And when she tries to open up to you, share her feelings, help you get to know her better,
00:13when she tries to initiate emotional intimacy, which would create connection between the two of you,
00:20a lot of times, men, you're getting defensive because you're taking personal the things that she's talking about.
00:27And I know that it does seem personal, but I can promise you that it's not.
00:31It's not personal.
00:33She's not trying to hurt your feelings.
00:34She's trying to share hers.
00:37And if you allow her to share her feelings in a safe space, meaning if you can let her safely share anything and everything that she has to say,
00:47and you don't get emotional yourself, you don't get defensive, you guys are going to connect.
00:52That's where emotional connection is going to come from.
00:56And you guys are going to be a lot happier and a lot more fulfilled in your relationship.
01:00A lot more of the conversations that you have together are going to be positive and productive ones
01:05instead of ones where you feel like it's really negative and it's really painful.
01:09So, men, start allowing your wife a safe space to talk about anything and everything.
01:16Become stoic and let her open up about her feelings, and you guys will create emotional connection.
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