Why She Doesn’t Feel Safe With You

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Women don’t feel safe when a man hides his truth — they feel unsafe because their intuition picks up every detail. Trying to create “fake safety” only feeds insecurity and resentment. Real connection starts with honesty, vulnerability, and meeting fear with truth, not avoidance.  Subscribe for more: @cupandinspiration

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00:00The immediate way to make a woman not feel safe, and it's a big mistake that men do,

00:04is they hide their intentions of what they really want and who they are.

00:07Women do really well with truth.

00:09And there's something interesting about women being able to read what's under the surface

00:12because there's a deeply intuitive component to women that seems to be what we look to in ourselves as men

00:18when you really want to start picking up on the subtleties of the details.

00:21Women's strength being attention to detail and intuition.

00:24This is the mistake men make, is that we tell ourselves if we create more of what she believes to be safe,

00:29she'll feel safe, that only conforms to her insecurities, which makes her need to ask for more and more and more.

00:36And then as you're continuously giving, you're realizing you're becoming secretly resentful

00:40when all you need to do is address this fear together.

00:43I don't have that thing that you're looking for. I don't have it.

00:46And she goes, well, I'm scared. I understand you're scared. I'm scared too.

00:48You don't create safety in delusions.

00:51And if you did, the kind of person you're with is not someone you can trust.

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