00:00The immediate way to make a woman not feel safe, and it's a big mistake that men do,
00:04is they hide their intentions of what they really want and who they are.
00:07Women do really well with truth.
00:09And there's something interesting about women being able to read what's under the surface
00:12because there's a deeply intuitive component to women that seems to be what we look to in ourselves as men
00:18when you really want to start picking up on the subtleties of the details.
00:21Women's strength being attention to detail and intuition.
00:24This is the mistake men make, is that we tell ourselves if we create more of what she believes to be safe,
00:29she'll feel safe, that only conforms to her insecurities, which makes her need to ask for more and more and more.
00:36And then as you're continuously giving, you're realizing you're becoming secretly resentful
00:40when all you need to do is address this fear together.
00:43I don't have that thing that you're looking for. I don't have it.
00:46And she goes, well, I'm scared. I understand you're scared. I'm scared too.
00:48You don't create safety in delusions.
00:51And if you did, the kind of person you're with is not someone you can trust.
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