00:00hey this one might piss you off but it's okay if it does because if you actually listen and pay
00:04attention and implement what i'm about to share with you your marriage likely gets a whole lot
00:08better she doesn't need you to read her mind i know that that's like a circulating idea amongst
00:14men it's like a joke like hey why do women expect us to read their mind they don't they just want
00:20you to pick up on what they have been showing you for the amount of time that you've been together
00:26and then utilize that information to spontaneously or in a calculated way share with them give to
00:34them show up for them in thoughtful mindful appreciative and loving ways like if she always
00:40buys the same bottle of wine same brand every time and you notice that it's run out grab some on your
00:46way home from work without her asking or if she always wants takeout from one particular place
00:51every time she's been stressed out it's been a long week when you notice that things are a bit
00:56off and she's feeling that type of way just let her know that you took care of it or if she always
00:59like raves about one particular experience that you guys have had together it was a weekend away it was
01:04a day trip to somewhere and she talks about it often just like on a whim book that thing don't wait
01:11for a birthday or an anniversary or a christmas present just take a look at your schedules and pick
01:15a weekend and put it on the calendar she doesn't want you to read her mind she wants you to show that
01:21you're paying attention and you're paying attention and you understand her and you're willing to take
01:25action in ways that align with that understanding so hope that helps
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