00:00All right, so Nate, very bummed out this morning about his date with Claire that kind of didn't happen.
00:06I mean, they went out, they hung out, but he had to leave early for an emergency.
00:10Right, and he didn't tell us a lot of details about why he had to leave the date,
00:15but obviously that's probably why she's not going back out with him.
00:18But he did say he wants our help.
00:20Yeah, he wants to reschedule with her and hasn't been able to do that on his own,
00:22so we're going to try to help out with that.
00:25Believe it or not, Claire has agreed to talk to us, so she's on hold right now.
00:29Let's bring her on.
00:29Claire, are you there?
00:31Hey, yeah, I'm here.
00:32Okay, hey, listen, I know you only have a couple minutes.
00:35I know you told Kevin that.
00:36We just want to get to it right now.
00:38We heard you kind of went on a date with this guy, Nate,
00:41and he has really been trying to reschedule with you
00:44because he kind of had to leave in a rush to go help out a friend,
00:48and now he can't really set anything back up with you.
00:51So can we help with that?
00:53Is there a reason that you haven't been open to rescheduling or even talking to him?
00:58I don't know how much he told you about, like, why he had to leave,
01:03but, like, did he tell you, he told you that he had to leave for a friend?
01:07That's correct.
01:09Okay, well, he told me that it was for an ex-girlfriend.
01:11And a very, like, recent ex-girlfriend.
01:15And basically told me that, like, he needed to go bail her out,
01:22and she got, like, stuff, something happening in her car or something like that,
01:27and he needed to go, like, come to her rescue.
01:31Yes.
01:31And I was very put off by that.
01:34Like, I don't know.
01:35If your ex that's a very recent ex, okay, call her an Uber,
01:40or she can't get her own Uber and, like, figure it out.
01:43Of all people, she's going to call her ex-boyfriend to come help her.
01:48It just seemed very odd to me and was a very big turnoff.
01:53And I wanted him to sort of, like, fight for me more and be like,
01:58no, I'm on a great date with this girl.
02:00Like, my ex can figure it out for herself.
02:02She's a grown woman.
02:03She's an adult.
02:04She can figure it out.
02:05And instead, he was like a little puppy dog and ran right back to her.
02:10Oh, yeah.
02:11Clearly, they're still talking.
02:14They're still in each other's lives.
02:16You know, I don't want to have any.
02:18And if that's already going to be coming into my life on our first date,
02:22I don't know.
02:24I don't want to have anything to do.
02:26I'm not getting in the middle.
02:27Clearly, they're still talking.
02:29Okay.
02:29I don't really blame you, Claire.
02:31I get what you're saying.
02:32I would kind of feel the same way if I were you.
02:34Yeah, and it was a waste of my time.
02:36But I do think Nate was honest with you.
02:38And we have him on the phone with us, Claire.
02:41And I want to bring him back on right now.
02:42But, again, I understand that you'd be frustrated with that.
02:45Nate, you there?
02:46Yeah.
02:47It's just like a friend.
02:49And, like, my ex moved down here about three months ago.
02:53We went out two months ago for a couple times, probably less than a month.
02:58And she just doesn't know people out here.
03:00She has, like, two friends at work maybe.
03:02But, like, I guess she couldn't get a hold of them.
03:04And she just called me crying.
03:06And I'm a nice guy.
03:08I would do that for anyone on this phone call.
03:11Like, if somebody needed a ride from the airport, I'd pick them up.
03:14I just care about being a good person.
03:16I don't see how that's not, like, a good quality in another person.
03:21You only went out for a little bit, yet you're, like, you're calling her your ex.
03:26I don't know.
03:27I really think that, like, there's someone.
03:29She could have figured it out on her own.
03:31And you didn't have to leave a date.
03:33Maybe you should try to go back with her and really help her out.
03:39And I just don't want to have any part of it.
03:43It's not even like that.
03:44It's just somebody I went out with a few times.
03:46You're the one that called her my ex.
03:48I said it was my friend.
03:49Well, I mean, I've got to be honest.
03:50You did say my ex moved down here a few months ago.
03:54You did say that.
03:57So what's going on with you?
04:00Okay, just what's going on?
04:02What's the history with this girl, though?
04:04Did you date her back home and then she moved here?
04:06So you guys haven't been?
04:07What's the deal?
04:08She just lives out here.
04:10She moved out here.
04:11We went out a couple times.
04:12It wasn't really like that.
04:15I stayed friendly with people.
04:17It was kind of mutual.
04:19We kind of decided not to see each other like that.
04:22We don't really talk.
04:24And I think she really just doesn't have friends, to my knowledge.
04:29And I was probably one of the few people that she knows outside of her job.
04:32I mean, okay, let's look at it from his side.
04:35JR, if you had a girlfriend of yours call you, hey, I need some help.
04:41What are you going to do?
04:41You're going to say no?
04:42No, you're going to go help them.
04:43An ex, though?
04:45That's a tough one.
04:46I don't know.
04:46I don't think I'm leaving a date to go help out an ex.
04:50You know, Claire, you're hearing everything that Nate has to say.
04:53Is there any way you guys could do a redo and reset this and try to go out again?
04:59No.
05:00Yeah.
05:01I'm sorry.
05:02I'm just not interested.
05:05I'm at a point in my life where I'm not trying to complicate things in my life.
05:11And I just, I'm sorry.
05:14I'm not interested.
05:15I don't know what else to say.
05:17Okay.
05:17Well, Nate, if you're just being a nice guy, then I commend you for that.
05:20But as far as a second date goes, it's not going to be for Claire.
05:23So I'm sorry, man.
05:25Well, I appreciate your help anyway.
05:27I guess it doesn't pay to be a nice guy.
05:30In this case, I guess it didn't on this one.
05:32But I'm sure that other woman is very appreciative.
05:36And I thank you for coming on with us today.
05:39And thank you, Claire, for your time.
05:40You guys have a great day.
05:41Okay.
05:42Thanks.
05:43Sorry, Nate.
05:44Sorry it didn't work out.
05:45All right, let me put it this way.
05:47What if it's your ex-wife or your ex-husband and your ex-wife, I don't know, has a flat
05:53tire on the side of the road or something.
05:55Valid.
05:56And you're on a date with a new person and you're like, my ex-wife is, she needs help.
06:00You say no.
06:01Really?
06:02Hold on, though.
06:02Okay, let's say you would say yes in that situation.
06:05That's fine.
06:06And you're being nice and you're helping out.
06:08But he didn't even admit that it was his ex.
06:10He goes, my ex moved down here a few months ago.
06:13And he goes, oh, I mean, as a girl that I kind of know.
06:16That's a great point.
06:17He was not telling us everything.
06:19He did not give us all the history.
06:20I just think the guy was trying to be nice.
06:21All right.
06:22We're going to see where you're at on this.
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