00:00We're twin sisters and this is our man.
00:04We share a man.
00:06I'm Petunia.
00:08I'm Pedaye.
00:09This is Timba.
00:11We all sleep in the same bed.
00:13We share everything.
00:15People judge us because I'm in a relationship with identical twins.
00:19They hate our relationship.
00:21Every time we go outside people stare at us.
00:23Find people calling other people to come stare at us.
00:26They throw you out of their shorts.
00:28Sometimes he doesn't notice who's who.
00:31If I feel like he has been giving my twin sister more attention than me
00:36then I actually sit him down and then tell him
00:39that you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention
00:42so you need to give me attention also.
00:47It feels like having the best of both worlds
00:50because they are not the same person.
00:53They are different.
00:54It's like sugar and salt.
00:57Salt and sugar.
00:59I'm just saying they balance out each other in a way.
01:02Even a typical polygamy relationship doesn't contain sisters.
01:07But where it's actually sisters and it's identical twins
01:10I knew there was going to be a lot of backlash.
01:13Some people are actually offended.
01:15Even when maybe we post a simple pic of us on social media
01:20the backlash, you hear people saying all kinds of things.
01:24A lot of people are saying on social media they hate our relationship.
01:28They will be saying we just want money.
01:31We're just young to be in a relationship with a man that is old.
01:36They will say, how old are the kids?
01:38And how old is the father?
01:40These ones will kill each other.
01:43There's no such a thing.
01:45This guy can't obviously be in a relationship with twins.
01:48Obviously he must be having some money.
01:51Obviously maybe these twins are coming from a poor background.
01:57Our man, he's busy making dinner for us.
02:00It's our birthday celebration.
02:03Birthday month celebration, yeah.
02:05So he's going to actually make something.
02:09He said he's going to make something special.
02:11And we're going to wear his favorite outfit.
02:16Baby, we're coming.
02:18We love dressing the same.
02:20We've got to pick the outfit. I have the outfit.
02:23Okay.
02:25Oh, yeah, he would love these.
02:27It will look good on us.
02:30My babies, your coffee is ready.
02:33We like dressing the same because it looks good on us.
02:38And it's like, it makes us more and more and more identical.
02:42People can tell that I'm with twins without even asking.
02:47Makes me feel like a king being kissed by two women in public.
02:51We look stunning. Okay.
02:53We look amazing.
02:57I've never dated twins before in my life.
03:00It took some time to adjust to.
03:02The bed is not big enough for three people to start it.
03:06We have dated the same man before.
03:08We tried dating separately, but then it didn't work.
03:11Got to that point, it didn't work out.
03:13As twins, we've been raised in a different way.
03:16Eating on the same plate, doing everything together.
03:19We just started liking the same man.
03:23So that's how it started.
03:25The first, she was dating the guy, but then she just dated the guy for two days.
03:30And then I'm like, I really like this guy too.
03:33And she's like, really? Okay, maybe we like the same thing.
03:36So let's just go for it. And then that's how we started doing it.
03:39Every time we go outside, people stare at us.
03:42Their first surprise, are those twins?
03:44Oh, they are twins.
03:46Are those twins actually dating the same guy?
03:49Oh, they just both kissed him.
03:51And you get to the store and you find people calling other people to come stare at us.
03:55Like they've seen an animal they've never seen before.
03:58Now you have to answer all these questions.
04:01Do you ever walk up to couples and say, why are you guys both together?
04:05Because they ask such questions.
04:07What happens in the bedroom?
04:10Do you give them money? I think it kind of becomes too much sometimes.
04:15We are people who are marching to PDA.
04:20So we'll be kissing and hugging and all that.
04:23So some people, they throw you out of their shops.
04:26You are literally thrown out of the shop.
04:28Even when we go to public areas like your public pools.
04:32This one time they actually even came to us, the manager of the establishment, and told us no.
04:37Kids can't be looking at you hugging and kissing.
04:40We're like, what?
04:42To tell the truth, I was never really worried about what people might think.
04:47When we first saw Tamba, it was actually love at first sight.
04:51We were on a vacation.
04:53Wahoo was just passing by with their bags.
04:56Like, ooh, look at that guy.
04:58Somehow, somehow we exchanged numbers.
05:01And from there we started talking, yeah.
05:04I think a year down the line, that's when we went out on a date.
05:08After our first official date, it was clear.
05:12It was clear this was it.
05:15I think we were monogamous from then on.
05:18Sat down and discussed how could this work.
05:21Set down a few ground rules.
05:24Every day was just me waking up, like, when you've bought a new car.
05:27Is this really happening?
05:29It's like I had stumbled upon a treasure.
05:32So the rules.
05:34The compliments have to be there.
05:36Words of affirmation.
05:38You don't go to bed angry.
05:40We fight, we fix, and we continue.
05:42So that's the rule that kept us going.
05:45Even if we don't want to talk, we have to talk.
05:48Because then it's like breaking the rules.
05:52We always go on dates together.
05:56No one is left behind.
05:58He can't even go out with his friends for a long time.
06:02He'll be like, I miss you my babies.
06:05We do give each other space.
06:07When you feel like you need your space, you can go to another room.
06:11Listen to your music and all that.
06:13If I feel like he has been giving my twin sister more attention than me,
06:18then I actually sit him down and tell him
06:21that you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention,
06:24so you need to give me attention also.
06:28Whatever he does on the left side, you write on the right side.
06:33Sometimes I feel left out.
06:35I think sometimes they forget me.
06:37When they start gossiping and they have their side chats.
06:41We're not gossiping.
06:42Yeah, you're gossiping about me, I know.
06:44No, we're just gossiping.
06:46We just need our time and talk.
06:48Even if everyone comes and goes, she's still here.
06:51So I think that's how important it is.
06:54Dating two girls can be financially expensive, but I can handle it.
06:59Every girl dreams of having a white wedding with a white dress.
07:03So it's every boy's little dream that if one day I can have twins.
07:07My dream has become the love of my life.
07:11What's on the horizon for us, I just see a lot of kids.
07:15This is a legacy that we are starting out here.
07:19We came upon this and we are loving it.
07:22Every step of the way, we are not doing it to prove anything to anyone.
07:26To the people who judge us, I would like to say,
07:29just focus on your life, never focus on others.
07:33This is our life and you have to actually mind your own business.
07:38This is love, this is real.
07:40Yeah.
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