00:00that is a mentally deranged person who is the top and who's the bottom because
00:05baby your is bigger than his what the hell is this I've been judged on the
00:13streets people just staring looking this is not a man with like what is this I
00:19wasn't really sure about the relationship we have a lot to talk about
00:25did you have any concern about our relationship first yes if anyone meets
00:33you I feel like they have a lot of questions about your intimate life a lot
00:37of people gonna ask you how it works right yeah my name is Carly my name is
00:43Gabriel and we're in the trans relationship and we are in a sexual
00:49relationship he's not the best dancer but I have two left feet we both identify as
00:57atro and a bit of bisexual you need to stretch like a ballerina definitely we
01:05get the wild crazy comments about our trans relationship I'm the girl he's the
01:11man we have one comment is that a man I'm sorry do I look like a man that is a
01:24mentally deranged person who's the top and who's the bottom because baby your is
01:33bigger than his like girl why ah this one is the best way who is the man like what the
01:44hell is
01:44this we don't take it serious yeah like it's the internet everybody has a big mark on the
01:51internet so as a trans man we are more passable so I kind of feel more when we do content
01:58and I see
02:00the comments I personally feel mostly judged on the streets people just staring talking behind
02:06their backs we'll have no makeup on the sea like oh this is not a man with like what is
02:11this I feel
02:13like when we grow up with without representation like we can be a bit lost I didn't have it had
02:19it
02:19so I'm happy that I can be this for some people out there if I will see us on the
02:24street I will be
02:25like damn they look good when we started our relationship the judgment we faced mostly was
02:33like how our intimate moments work I understand where the questions are coming from you can also
02:41tell like when the person is asking just pure ignorance and they want to know and when a person
02:47is asking because they are judging I'm five feet tall and I am six feet tall it affects our
02:55relationship only when you need to reach something from the top but it's easy because I always call
03:00you I have this mostly from women how can you handle like a short king a short boyfriend because they
03:08could never they prefer a boyfriend to be taller the men normally ask me like oh you got a girl
03:14like
03:15this so it's completely different we also have a lot of positive comments of course you are such a
03:22beautiful couple she's a baby and he's funny too you're kind of funny may this type of love find me
03:30clock it normally I take like two to three hours to get ready with luck with luck if the hair
03:39goes well
03:40eyebrows alone can take me like 30 minutes five minutes he used to text me on tinder like three
03:48times I guess asked me out and I used always to find an excuse like I'm busy I'm not in
03:53the mood
03:53whatever I don't know you was too nice so it was kind of off I was like something is wrong
04:01sorry to be
04:01nice and nice and the third time I had nothing to do and I was like you know what let's
04:07just go for
04:08it so you can leave me in peace met at the bus station went to your home had some wine
04:13and we
04:13talked a lot the whole evening basically yeah and since then we're here I started wearing makeup I guess in
04:232022 and it started with lashes I put them on and girl I felt so good since then I'm here
04:33I never felt
04:35like something was off I've more felt like something was missing and I was like starting to express
04:41myself like putting more makeup on putting wigs on nails and then I got my surgery and I felt better
04:49about myself and so the more I went along the more a transition and I found myself I knew that
04:57that
04:57was maybe when I was younger but I didn't have the information enough to to understand I always feel
05:04like something was off was disconnected I started with a talking about it to the sexologist and it was
05:12the best decision I had the mastectomy and then I had the sterectomy I remember going to shopping with
05:20my mom and I was going to always to the boys section my mom was like no like you need
05:26to buy this is for
05:27you and no I want that t-shirt it was super natural for me like just being like this oh
05:33my god doesn't fit
05:35he does almost Carly do you have a say in his styling or did you ask yes if I don't
05:44like it you
05:44not leaving the house now go out of my room please thank you stress me always so my friend Barbie
05:51will
05:52come over today to discuss about our relationship she has a strong opinion like she wants her back
06:00it's important for me what Barbie thinks about Gabriel because she's one of my close friends
06:05I was very surprised when she transitioned she always told me that it's more a role that she's
06:11playing and like more a character so when I saw her flying to Turkey I was very surprised when Carly
06:19told me first about Gabriel I wasn't really sure about the relationship because I was scared she's only
06:25gonna be like for her looks again and not for who she really is come come sit sit we have
06:35a lot to
06:35talk about you both transitioners to be like in a normal heterosexual relationship why did you go
06:43through all of that we didn't transition to end up together like I was transition for me and you was
06:49transitioning for you yeah and we just found each other and ended up together if anyone meets you I
06:55feel like they have a lot of question about your intimate life when it's two people who transition
07:00like I think a lot of people gonna ask you how it works right yeah they do yes they do
07:07and like
07:07sometimes it's even like people that we just met one or two times and they ask like the more most
07:13intimate questions they'll be like yeah how you and your boyfriend do this and this like her that's
07:18very weird like I would not go on the street and that's like somebody like hey how do you you
07:24and
07:25your husband how do you know so tell me what did you think about my when you found out about
07:30my
07:31transition I was really shocked you always told me that it's more like a role and the character that
07:39you're playing but I was also like feeling happy for you mm-hmm thank you two more way more happier
07:47now thank you and more colorful so since we are together are you feel like that I changed currently
07:56better worse I feel like you really changed cardi to the better I've never seen her happier in life
08:04she's so bubbly you can give her really the appreciation that she needs and that she was missing all the
08:11time before she met you what I would say to people that judge people in general literally get a life
08:24get off the internet touch some grass and do your life and stop being so worried about somebody else life
08:32live your life be true to yourself and just love more it's easy and if you have nothing nice to
08:41say quiet
