00:00 This is Rebecca. She fell in love with...
00:03 Catherine.
00:05 Hello! Who's in this space right now?
00:09 But before meeting, Rebecca was already in a relationship with Rupert, a ghost.
00:15 Are you here by Rebecca?
00:19 How do you balance your friendship with Rupert without getting jealous?
00:26 And their otherworldly connection has been judged by those still alive on TikTok.
00:35 Can you chill the f*** out?
00:37 Some of the comments we get are "you're crazy", "I must be" or "you must have schizophrenia".
00:43 Today they are asking Rupert how he really feels about sharing his partner.
00:49 How do you feel about Catherine?
00:52 [scratching]
00:56 Personally speaking, I've never heard a ghost say "wooo", but I have heard a ghost say "help me, get off my grave" and things like that.
01:06 I'm Rebecca. This is my partner Catherine. And I have been judged before because I am also in a relationship with a ghost.
01:15 His name is Rupert.
01:18 I met him in front of a local historic home. He was a Revolutionary War soldier.
01:25 He is originally from Wales. And when I met him, he was wearing a red coat.
01:30 He was standing right here. I was walking past. He was following a ghost tour that I had just led.
01:36 And he called out to me. And he asked me if I was walking home alone.
01:41 He asked if he could escort me.
01:43 Which kind of gave me Stranger Danger vibes because that had never happened to me before, especially from a ghost.
01:48 But he seemed okay. He seemed really nice. And so I was like, "Alright, I'll give you five blocks."
01:54 We both had to learn each other's languages. He had to learn how I was psychically perceiving him.
01:59 With respect, he started hanging out more where I was living.
02:04 He was always very clear on boundaries, on wanting consent.
02:10 He never wanted to press being inside or anything like that.
02:14 He started to refer to me as someone he knew when he was alive.
02:19 I did a past life regression and I did know him.
02:22 I knew him back in 1781 when he was stationed here as a part of the 82nd Regiment.
02:29 He and I used to be married when he was alive.
02:32 I've had this cross-validated from other hypnotists and psychic mediums.
02:37 Well, the feelings weren't expected. They just sort of happened.
02:42 What is your intimate and sexual relationship like with Rupert?
02:47 Mm-mm.
02:48 Exactly, no.
02:50 Rupert and I are primarily sharing emotions because of the very clear physical differences between us.
03:00 He is acknowledging that I'm here in the physical. I need to live a life here in my present.
03:07 So that's where, well, the open-mindedness to you came into play.
03:13 We met on TikTok. I found Rebecca and I thought, "Wow, this is great!"
03:20 We met in person a year after we had started talking.
03:25 I took you on a tour. It was like 11 p.m. at night and we're walking around downtown.
03:30 And I was like, "This is where this happened and this is where this happened."
03:33 You met Rupert that night.
03:34 I met Molly.
03:35 You met Molly, Jimothy, George.
03:37 I met everybody. I got to meet all of those ghosts.
03:41 We became best friends. And then we stopped ignoring how we felt for each other.
03:46 Rupert and I are friends.
03:49 We've hung out. We've had conversations. We've gone on trips together.
03:54 How do you balance your friendship with Rupert without getting jealous?
03:59 There is no jealousy. I have such respect for the work that was done, for the connection that they have.
04:08 If anything, I feel like excitement and pride for the both of them.
04:11 You went to him and you checked with him on things.
04:14 I did.
04:15 You told him your feelings for me before you told me.
04:17 I did. I absolutely did. I was like, "Please don't hate me." But...
04:23 Ready?
04:24 Ready.
04:25 Alright. Hi, everybody.
04:27 Hi, everybody.
04:28 Surprise!
04:29 Surprise!
04:30 We're going to do a 3, 2, 1. Where do you pick up on him? 3, 2, 1.
04:34 Aha! Yeah, okay. Also felt him behind you. Yes.
04:40 I started posting skits online on my experiences with talking to ghosts and they blew up. It's been really cool.
04:47 Some of the comments we get are, "You're crazy."
04:50 They're letting everybody out of the asylums nowadays.
04:53 "That's a really good story that you just made up."
04:56 A lot of people are like, "Clearly she's lying." But I really enjoy the stories.
05:00 "FIND JESUS. ACCEPT HIM INTO YOUR HEART."
05:04 All in caps.
05:05 "YOU'RE TALKING TO DEMONS."
05:06 All ghosts are demons.
05:07 The things that would make me go, "No," would be people trying to pretend to be an internet expert about mental health
05:15 and discerning that obviously I must be or you must have schizophrenia because there's no way that this could be a thing that's happening.
05:25 Wow. Somebody has something to say about that.
05:32 Can you chill the f*** out?
05:34 You don't have to like me. You don't have to watch me.
05:37 You can block me. Makes no difference to me.
05:40 The overwhelming response is positive. People are very supportive.
05:44 What's worth it to me? The amount of people who come forward and they say, "You made me feel sane. Thank you."
05:49 It was really like a community built on people that says, "Oh, I thought I was losing it. Thank you for talking about this."
05:55 Or, "Thank you for helping me not be afraid to die."
05:59 We will be going to a local cemetery, which both of us enjoy visiting, and talking to some of the local spirits there.
06:07 It's something we do for fun as well as do for content.
06:10 "ASLEEP IN THE ARMS JESUS."
06:12 I guess Jesus has a lot of arms.
06:14 This is a good spot.
06:16 So should we take a check and see what's going on in my magic bag of tricks?
06:22 Oh, did you- you brought things?
06:23 I did.
06:24 Okay.
06:25 Hello.
06:26 Hi.
06:29 Who's in this space right now?
06:32 No, like a physical lake.
06:36 Oh, like you want to move?
06:37 Yeah.
06:38 Okay.
06:39 Do you have a direction that we should go?
06:42 Feeling that way?
06:43 Yeah, that's what I'm feeling.
06:44 So...
06:45 It's kind of like a movie.
06:48 I've had a number of people try to contact me and say, "Rupert's talking to me."
06:55 And I'm like, "No, he's not, and I'm concerned about who you're talking to."
06:59 He has a light accent, though it's not specifically the accent that we would associate with the English now, just because it's been almost 300 years.
07:08 This is an S-box.
07:10 It is one of my favorite pieces of equipment that I have.
07:13 As it scans through radio signals, it's giving a white noise that they can either pull sound from to respond with using the radio signals coming through, or it'll come through the static.
07:24 What do I have to do to get you to say something?
07:27 Did you just hear a call to action?
07:31 Oh my god!
07:32 Hi, Rupert.
07:34 Where are you sitting right now?
07:39 On this chair.
07:40 What is his personality like? How would you describe him?
07:44 Thoughtful and contemplative. Yes.
07:47 He doesn't speak without thinking about it. A lot.
07:51 How do you feel about your relationship with me?
07:54 I love you. Is that what it was?
08:00 I think that's what it said.
08:01 That's great. I'm appreciative.
08:03 How do you feel about Catherine?
08:05 You're fine, Rupert. You're fine.
08:09 I heard "fine." Yeah. Oh, and the casing meter went on "fine."
08:14 You're fine.
08:15 How do you feel about how we get along? All of us.
08:19 No, I'm fine.
08:23 I'm fine.
08:24 Yeah, I heard "I'm fine."
08:25 There was a moment where it was just like, "Fine." Ugh.
08:28 Fine.
08:31 I love Rebecca for her talent.
08:36 I feel very privileged to be in this sphere with her.
08:41 She is like a star, and I am just gazing up at this point.
08:46 How do I? I don't know.
08:49 You don't.
08:50 Shut it. Boom!
08:52 Mic drop.
08:54 You're fine. Hold. Deep breath. Deep breath.
08:58 What I love about you the most is how you make me feel seen.
09:06 I don't worry about the future with you.
09:09 I'm so caught up in how happy I am in the present.
09:15 We often say that the future is malleable, and because of that, the future is what we make it.
09:20 And I think what we're making here is unique and curious and beautiful.
09:27 Cheers to you.
09:29 Cheers.
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