- 9 months ago
WHEN Zee and Karie met on Tinder, sparks flew, and it wasn't long before they made things official. Zee told Love Don't Judge, "The relationship progressed so naturally and then all the trust that was built with the relationship brought us to our poly lifestyle." Talking about the arrangement, Karie added, "We want to deal with women who choose to deal with us, because we are together and a married couple." The couple's relationship choices means that their love is often subjected to harsh criticism. "We get judged for being poly, being lesbian, being black women," Zee explained. In this episode of Love Don't Judge, they'll be going on a date with Dro to explore the possibility of her joining the couple in a more permanent relationship. Zee explained, "We've had intimate vibes before, however, they just didn't make the cut." How will the trio get on this time around?
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00:00We date other women together, but that doesn't mean we don't love each other.
00:03We get judged for being poly, being lesbian, being black women.
00:07They think we are so selfish.
00:09A lot of people do think that we are abominations and disappointments to the male race.
00:15Why would two beautiful women do such a thing?
00:18Today we're going to be going on a date with someone from our past.
00:24We've had intimate vibes before, however, it just didn't make the cut.
00:29How will you bring security to this dynamic?
00:33Hi, I'm Z. This is my partner, Kari.
00:36People think we're crazy for wanting more than one woman.
00:39We met in 2020.
00:41On Tinder.
00:42We met on Tinder.
00:43I was not in the headspace nor thinking that I was ready to be in a relationship with anyone.
00:49And I just come across this profile, my beautiful, lovely wife.
00:54She knew she wanted me when she seen me.
00:56She's a little delusional in that era, but that's okay.
00:58I'm married.
00:59We are married.
01:00It's been five years.
01:01I couldn't be that delusional.
01:02The relationship really progressed so naturally.
01:05And then all the trust that ended up coming with that building of the relationship brought us to our poly lifestyle.
01:12Being polyamorous is not easy.
01:15It's not something that you're going to jump into and know how to do overnight.
01:18It's something that takes time to build and perfect.
01:22So it was just like a sit down and just being honest with saying, hey, this is where I am.
01:26This is what I want to do.
01:27Are you there with me?
01:29And we both were in the same space.
01:31And that's literally as simple as creating our dating profile and talking to other women together.
01:37And that's how we go about our relationship as well with picking women.
01:41We only want to deal with women who chooses to deal with us because we are together and we have women want us because we are a married couple.
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02:07Of course, we get judged for being poly, being lesbian, being black women.
02:11Like the list goes on and on.
02:12But with all of that combined, of course, a lot of people think that we are crazy.
02:16They think that we selfish.
02:17We got comments that say we are selfish.
02:18They think that we are selfish.
02:19They think we are so selfish for having our cake and eating everybody else's too.
02:23Yeah.
02:24They think it was super selfish.
02:25It's funny that a lot of people do think that we are abominations and disappointments to the male race for choosing to be with a woman and choosing to pursue additional women at that.
02:36They think we're taking all the women and just turning them out and it's like, don't hate the player, hate the game.
02:41They love it here.
02:42They love it here.
02:43And we love them here.
02:44We're going to read out some comments about what the people have to say about us online.
02:47This is AI.
02:49People really think we are AI.
02:50Again.
02:51All we do is post videos and people will be like, oh, no, this ain't real.
02:55Like this look too good to be true.
02:57So it must not be real content.
02:58Why would two beautiful women do such a thing?
03:01Please tell me.
03:02What is the inquiring thing like?
03:05I don't understand.
03:06Which one is it?
03:07Being gay?
03:08Being married?
03:09Being polyamorous?
03:10I don't know.
03:11Being fly.
03:12Jesus is coming soon.
03:13And when he returns?
03:15We're going to be right there.
03:16You're going to be right there.
03:17I don't know.
03:18Worry about what happens on your judgment day.
03:21Not mine.
03:22Abomination.
03:23What's the world turning into?
03:26Rubbish.
03:27Disgusting.
03:30Hood rash.
03:32Nothing on our page is like that.
03:35We are not a hood rat.
03:36We're really far from it.
03:37I do come from the hood though.
03:39Don't get it.
03:40Misconstrued.
03:41Y'all should die together.
03:42I mean, I would hope so.
03:45This is my wife.
03:46I mean, you know, any love story, you would want to die with your partner.
03:49I need to be projecting the most craziest stuff.
03:51We butt over this, laugh over it, and we move forward because it's not something that really affects us where we're crying at home about it.
03:58Yeah, it doesn't limit our growth, but it reinforces our strength to grow.
04:03It makes me feel like society is just so dense sometimes.
04:06Like, they are so stuck to the matrix and their own, like, societal, like, constructs that they really don't see anything else outside of that.
04:13Both me and my wife are Leos, so that is a really big thing to us.
04:17We're both dominant women.
04:19You can always catch me in front of the camera.
04:22Chin up.
04:23Sexy.
04:25People pay us to dominate them, and we love it.
04:28What?
04:29I do.
04:30I really do love it.
04:31We love to give that tantalizing feel to our content.
04:35We usually are wearing a lot of black, lots of leathers, chains, minimal jewelry.
04:42Our platform loves to see the power in our dynamics.
04:47When it comes to women, we love to provide for women, spoil women, be there for them physically, financially, emotionally.
04:54But when it comes to men, we're financially dominating a man.
04:57We're lesbians, so it's not really much we have to contribute to a man's life.
05:01But we do believe in love and light for everyone on this earth, so our contribution to the male part of our society is to tell them what to do, tell them what not to do, grace them with our spiritual knowledge.
05:15Last month in total, combined with dominating people's uncles and also doing our online job, I think the revenue in an estimate was about $1,500.
05:28So in retrospect, you can pay your rent just by not even depending, but demanding reparations as the black woman that you are.
05:36All right, good job. Good job. All right. All right. Thank you, Pimp. Thank you.
05:43So today we're going to be going on a date with someone from our past, a little bit of an interest early on.
05:53She's pretty cool. I'm excited to see what that date is going to look like.
05:58We are excited. We've had intimate vibes before. However, it just didn't make the cut. But today we'll give them a chance. Are you excited?
06:06Yes, I'm excited to see where things go. I'm going with the flow.
06:12All right, baby. We're going to rock and roll. We're on the same page. All right.
06:16We need to bundle up. Like, this is the time to go on dates and find a cuddle partner, not freeze.
06:21Hey. Hey. Hey, girl. What's up, y'all? I'm Dro, and I'm here to see what this poly life is about.
06:32I'm hella excited because it's been a minute since I seen, you know, Zee and Kari, and they definitely opened up my mind to the poly experience.
06:39So now I'm interested to see if we can move forward with it together.
06:43I personally have always thought about being polyamorous, but that was when I was in a relationship with people I think that really weren't about that.
06:50So now that I'm single, I thought I might, you know, try my hand in it now because it's been something that's always been on top of my mind.
06:57And come on with the black look. Great minds think alike, right?
07:00We only pursue women together. We only talk to the same women together.
07:05We try to keep our interests mutual to just save the overall security of the poly dynamic.
07:13One rule that we have for certain is we do not give out our numbers for individual conversations.
07:18Because you're not just looking to date Zee or looking to date Kari or just build a connection with us individually.
07:25So we like to show up as the package that we are.
07:28So what made y'all open up your relationship? Like why y'all decided to, you know, go on a date with him?
07:32I mean, we have the capacity to show up and have another person in our relationship.
07:37This is what we want, both me and my wife.
07:39No, we need that. Like it's our brand. So in summary, you fit the demographic.
07:45I have to agree. I think so. I think, you know, we'll make a good little triangle.
07:51So what did that consist of though? Like, what's up?
07:54And then like you don't have a chore list.
07:56We don't ask for much. Like the stuff that we ask for is literally the bare minimum of what you should be able to provide in a relationship.
08:02Communication, honesty, respect, loyalty.
08:07Like you can be in a position where you have two women and already wives.
08:12Like you really shouldn't have anything like stopping that from being a very obedient lifestyle for you.
08:19I'm wondering what's the catch.
08:21There's no catch.
08:23A catch.
08:24What do you think the catch is?
08:25I'm pretty sure. I mean, y'all fine. Clearly.
08:27So what you gonna get caught with?
08:28Like, I'm, I just wonder like...
08:31Cheating?
08:32No, no, because I feel like I got everything I need for sure.
08:34I got two baddies. Like, you know, y'all creative.
08:37That's all I'm saying. I had to get the list because I don't know.
08:40What you worried about?
08:42How will you bring security to this dynamic?
08:45Because the ladies love you just as much as they love us.
08:48They do.
08:49You got time for that.
08:50I don't know.
08:51They be going crazy.
08:52I have had my fair share in the streets, but I think I'm ready to settle down.
08:56Like, you know, and like I said, I've always wanted to experiment with poly.
09:00And now y'all have opened up my mind to it.
09:03And I feel like y'all give me everything I would look for outside of relationships.
09:08Say, you know, some people might cheat and try to go look for, you know, X, Y, and Z.
09:11But if you already got two beautiful women that's literally pouring into your cup,
09:16and you got to make sure you're feeling theirs, I think it all works out.
09:19Like, as long as y'all feeling each other's cup.
09:21Mm-hmm.
09:22You know, we don't miss each other's cup, so.
09:24It's just an overflow.
09:25It's going to go into it.
09:26It's going to overflow.
09:27Continuously overflow.
09:28And I'm going to make sure y'all feel secure and provide a flow as well.
09:31So would you go on another date with us?
09:33Oh, for sure.
09:34That was an easy one.
09:35Yes, bruh.
09:36I feel cool about the date.
09:37Like, I feel like it's cool.
09:38It's casual now.
09:39I will only have to see if, like, you actually show up.
09:42Like, I don't know.
09:43Like, I'm going to hold you to it.
09:45But I'm not going to have my hopes up high.
09:47Okay, come on.
09:48I respect it.
09:49I respect it.
09:50But I got y'all, man.
09:52I'm not playing with y'all a second time.
09:54Like, come on.
09:55Yes, I am definitely ready for a serious relationship with these beautiful wives.
10:00If they'll have me.
10:01Okay.
10:02Yes.
10:03We thinking about it.
10:04We're thinking about it.
10:05We're going to see what we hold you to.
10:06I miss y'all, man.
10:07I miss y'all.
10:08It's not the last time, man.
10:10I'm definitely maturing.
10:11I feel like I will be able to take care of both of the ladies.
10:15You feel me?
10:16And also show y'all a side that y'all have never seen.
10:19Okay, that y'all might need to see.
10:22I like what I'm hearing.
10:23I like it.
10:24Mm-hmm.
10:25Out of any person that I've ever encountered, dated, or had any love interest with, she has
10:31been the only person to truly protect me and to also allow me to have the space to be
10:38myself, find myself, and love myself.
10:41She's so sensitive, soft, and divine, and caring, but still got that mm.
10:46Got a little mm to her.
10:47She got a little bite to her.
10:48And I love a woman with a bite.
10:50Confidence.
10:51What would you say to people who judge a relationship?
10:54I think they need to figure out why it bothers them so much.
10:58Our future looks like?
10:59A house full of our lovely women.
11:03Like we want to live in a home full of our women.
11:06We don't care necessarily what that number would be.
11:09Whether it is triad or whether we are in a quad.
11:13And we just want to build like a village.
11:16And I think that's all Pali people's like, you know, end goal.
11:19Our love village will be completely established and we're going to have our damn feet kicked
11:24up.
11:25And I think that's all good memories.
11:26People of life will be convinced that seems to me.
11:27A school.
11:28I go to school.
11:29One of them all...
11:30Doubtures.
11:31A school.
11:32With comicals.
11:34One of them probably won't feel especially like a village.
11:36In the future right now, I rundown the house going to be a village library.
11:37I am very good and walking through to the city of New York.
11:38It would be more reasonable, Yes, Jesus.
11:39And something.
11:40nivel.
11:41There areに to be informal.
11:42By the way right now, in this time you have a quickях of the place to live in the building that