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In Singapore, women are not allowed to freeze their eggs, unless they have a medical condition. In the Philippines, women are allowed to freeze their eggs but can only use them if they’re married. Natashya Gutierrez, speaks with women who had their eggs frozen and finds out why it is so difficult, restrictive and expensive for women who want to delay their pregnancies.

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00:06oocyte cryopreservation also known as egg freezing the idea extract a woman's
00:13eggs and keep them in a medical bank until the woman is ready to have a baby
00:17modern women looking to start a family later in life see this as a way to beat their biological
00:23clock however in asia it's not so straightforward asia's future is now it's making massive strides
00:35in its economies human development technology but for the region to truly reach its full potential
00:41it needs to empower women who face draconian laws and outdated customs i'm natasha gutierrez in this
00:48series i meet the women who are directly impacted by these barriers why are we still so unequal
01:01this all began because i personally started looking into egg freezing when i hit 30 i started to feel
01:07the pressures of having a baby because everyone around me seemed to be having them but i'm not
01:12ready now and i'm not sure if i ever will be so here in singapore where i work women are
01:17only
01:17allowed to freeze their eggs if they have a medical condition in the philippines where i'm from women
01:23are allowed to freeze their eggs but can only use them if they get married shouldn't women be allowed
01:28to decide when to have babies women especially in asia feel tremendous pressure to have babies from
01:37society and from their families but more and more women today are choosing to delay their pregnancies for
01:43social reasons like their career or finding a suitable partner making egg freezing an attractive
01:50option amanda an australian expat living in singapore has her own reasons
01:59amanda lost her husband to cancer a few years ago while they were both working in singapore they missed
02:05out on the opportunity to conceive while he was alive so she recently decided to freeze her eggs
02:11so how has freezing your eggs sort of opened you up to less of that pressure um i think it's
02:21it's meant
02:22that you know when i did it i was deep in grief right and you know after he died you
02:29don't think
02:30about how there's going to be an end to it right like you don't know how you're ever going to
02:34get out
02:35of it and so for me freezing my eggs was something where um it allowed me to take control and
02:43it
02:43allowed me to not have to worry about the next boyfriend or put pressure on like if he was going
02:48to be the person i was going to spend the next rest of my life with because it meant that
02:52it gave me time
02:55after ryan's death amanda was forced to think about planning ahead
02:59she visited a fertility clinic to explore her options and decided to freeze her eggs
03:05egg freezing is essentially in vitro fertilization or ivf except rather than freezing an embryo
03:11it's only a woman's unfertilized reproductive eggs harvested from her ovaries that are frozen
03:18when she's ready for a baby the egg is later thawed fertilized with a sperm and when it's
03:24successfully turned into an embryo it's implanted back into her uterus while the technology is
03:30available in singapore however amanda had to go home to australia for the procedure
03:38in singapore egg freezing is not permitted for social reasons it's only allowed if a woman has
03:44medical conditions that would affect her fertility such as a woman undergoing chemotherapy for cancer
03:51so for women like amanda who want to freeze for non-medical reasons they have to look outward
03:56and have the procedure done in other countries which have more lenient laws but finding a country
04:02to do it is only the first of many obstacles how about the actual decision of putting your body through
04:12it
04:12i had many conversations about it and it's not an easy thing on your body like you do you have
04:21a lot
04:21of hormones put into your body during the process like you have to stab yourself with needles every
04:26you know few hours to make sure that those hormones and you're producing as many eggs as you can
04:31i was crying for that entire like three week three week process because of all the hormones in your body
04:38so
04:38it's not an easy process at all but it is it was like a decision that at the end of
04:46the day i had
04:48to make right i was very lucky in that i got a very good haul of eggs so i have
04:57a good stash sitting
04:58away which is quite nice and i'm glad that i don't have to do it again i know women that
05:03had only had two
05:05or three eggs taken like per round and i'm very lucky in that i got more than that and so
05:12i don't
05:13have to put my body through that again because i really wouldn't want to do that despite that haul
05:19how how sure are we that that will yield some children for you and we're not sure at all
05:26amanda is right while the science allows for it to happen the odds of frozen eggs resulting in babies
05:32are still unclear it's much harder to thaw an unfertilized egg without damage than thawing an
05:38embryo so ivf with frozen eggs tend to be less successful the more eggs are retrieved and frozen
05:44from a woman the better their odds early data from the human fertilization and embryology authority in
05:51the united kingdom puts a success rate of live births from frozen eggs at just 19 percent in australia just
05:5940 babies were born from frozen eggs in the last two years on average 500 cycles of egg freezing are
06:05performed annually in the country but to many women these odds are better than nothing despite
06:11the challenges of egg freezing women like amanda still consider doing this as an option because of
06:17the time that it affords them to decide when and how they want to have children
06:24asur wang a singaporean actress model and entrepreneur decided at the age of 36 to freeze her eggs
06:31after being told by doctors she could have difficulty conceiving naturally
06:35in 2018 she flew to bangkok to freeze her eggs she published a series of vlogs about her entire
06:42experience to raise awareness about the issue today she has some incredible news first of all congratulations
06:49in your pregnancy thank you say finally the time is here that's amazing how far along are you i am
06:58uh
06:58five months today after also got married in 2020 she successfully got pregnant through ivf on her first
07:06attempt she didn't end up using any of her frozen eggs but she has no regrets since we last spoke
07:14asur has given birth to a healthy baby girl i think what people don't seem to understand or that they
07:21don't think about is that yes we do have the option to freeze our eggs and we do have the
07:25options to dig
07:26into those eggs but as a doctor they would always want a fresh batch of eggs i froze my eggs
07:32when i was
07:32single and i feel like that was the best gift i think anyone a woman could give themselves and i
07:39do have 17
07:40eggs stored which i did not use but i can happily say now like i feel secure while also is
07:46an advocate
07:46for social egg freezing and allowing women to take control of their own timelines she does recognize
07:52that it's a difficult decision aside from legalities and the physical toll to the body there's yet another
07:58crucial factor cost in australia while those with medical reasons to freeze their eggs can get government
08:05subsidies it can cost up to ten thousand dollars to freeze your eggs for social reasons in thailand
08:12clinics charge four thousand dollars which does not include the monthly charges of storing those eggs
08:17as well as costs for the thawing the fertilization and the implantation an everyday woman might not have
08:26the financial ability to be able to do what i did and a woman that's working a nine-to-five
08:33job every day
08:33are they able to take two weeks off to go fly to bangkok to go freeze their eggs probably not
08:40and
08:40then if they are that's great but then you gotta think of accommodation are you gonna pay for i don't
08:46know an airbnb or a hotel to stay at for two weeks on top of that medical bills realistically i
08:53mean that
08:54that's really like not every woman could do that also spent over thirty thousand dollars for her entire
09:00procedure she said the investment was worth the security and control it afforded her she doesn't
09:06just want to see social egg freezing legalized she also hopes to see government subsidize it particularly
09:12for single women who might need more help paying for it ultimately what would you want to see what do
09:19you think should the policy be when it comes to women being able to freeze their eggs i think we
09:25should
09:25be able to do whatever the damn well we want to do like i don't feel like there should be
09:30a black and
09:30white as a you know um oh i i have to be married to be able to go through ibf
09:38i have i don't feel like
09:40why do we need these rules we are capable of being our own parents of what we want we don't
09:48need people to
09:49tell us this is what's good for you this is all part of life the technology may be here but
09:56in reality
09:57women have a long way to go to have full freedom and control over their bodies until governments
10:03stop dictating when and how women should give birth egg freezing is an option available only for a small
10:09sector of women
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