00:18Oh my God.
00:19Hear me out.
00:24Oh my God.
00:30Oh my God.
00:34Oh my God.
00:57Harper?
01:00Harper?
01:02Harper?
01:05Harper?
01:06Harper?
01:22hey hey would i look good with bangs uh of course i wouldn't want them in your eyes well i
01:28never
01:28had them before right you had lots of baby hairs did they look good you're a baby i just need
01:36to
01:36change something i've never done anything with my hair so i'm just trying to picture how i would
01:40look can you send pictures of the baby hairs yeah um i could send you some pictures of your mom
01:46too
01:46she had bangs in college she did yeah i'll look all right thank you um i'm at work so i'm
01:57gonna
01:57go i love you though bye love you i was looking for you where um your desk bathroom
02:09have you ever had bangs i'm a 30 year old human girl so right um i've never had them so
02:16i'm
02:16thinking about doing that what do you think about that well anyone who's asking about bangs should
02:20be asked if they're okay first don't worry about that i'm not what yeah just want to shake things
02:25up perhaps okay well then i look forward to seeing them really though yeah it makes me wish i knew
02:33how
02:33to cut hair i would do it myself i'd really like that what if they look so terrible though
02:40well then you become a beanie girl
02:47i've just been feeling like a fragile sculpture that doesn't want to be touched because then i'll
02:52be knocked over and break and then i'll have to start over but i feel hollow and i don't know
02:59how
02:59to unfeel that so you got a new hat i got a new haircut oh well i'm gonna kill myself
03:14don't it's not
03:19should i not go to the center no you should
03:31no you should
03:37think of my tree house it's very safe don't really love and usually i'm all by myself
04:14you should have to go to the center no you should want to make sure that i'm going to do
04:15it
04:15not be nice if you want to make sure that you're right there i think that you're doing yeah i'm
04:15so
04:15Captain, but you can meet the deputy.
04:18I'm really glad you think I saw a flying day.
04:21I don't think I'm ever going to let you be.
04:28Do that, I'm just...
04:29Harp, you in there?
04:30Yeah.
04:31What are you doing?
04:33Taking a tub.
04:34Taking a tub?
04:35I'm in the bath.
04:38Tub.
04:39Why is the door locked?
04:42Because it's out of habit.
04:45Okay.
04:52Chocolate ice cream.
05:00Hi.
05:01I hope I'm your last call tonight.
05:04No, I appreciate you calling.
05:06I don't think I could have waited.
05:07Sorry.
05:10Yeah, yeah, yeah.
05:13Okay.
05:24I'll have to think about that.
05:26Okay, yeah.
05:28Thank you for calling so late.
05:30I'll just call the office tomorrow.
05:33Okay, bye.
05:34What's going on?
05:36Apparently there's a high possibility of an issue, so he just...
05:39What issue?
05:41Down syndrome.
05:43So he wants to be sure that it is not.
05:47But I guess the only way to do that is an amniocentesis, and I've heard that's dangerous for the baby.
05:53But he said Down syndrome.
05:54Yeah.
05:54I mean, you know, I'm 38, so are you shocked?
06:00Yeah, I'm shocked.
06:01Of course I'm shocked.
06:02Is it the end of the world for you?
06:05No, it's not the end of the world.
06:07It's just extremely upsetting.
06:09Yeah, I'm not saying it's not upsetting, but, you know, he's not...
06:12He said it's consistent.
06:13The tests are consistent with Down syndrome.
06:15He didn't say it's for sure.
06:17Then we'll find out.
06:19No, we're going to decide if we want to know, because if we do, that means poking around in there.
06:25That's going to hurt my baby.
06:29We need to know.
06:30Why?
06:31Why?
06:51Gianna's just insecure because you're smarter than her.
06:53Gianna got her JD at Oxford, and I'm working with a build-your-own degree from Ox-a-dental.
06:57Don't do that.
06:58She's a miserable person.
07:00That's why she's like that.
07:06You okay?
07:08Okay, I love you.
07:10Let's talk later.
07:11Tell little Kate I love her.
07:14Bye.
07:19Sorry about that.
07:20We couldn't decide if we should have moved.
07:22Kate figured you would have just moved if you wanted some privacy.
07:27My cousin has Down syndrome.
07:30It's Down syndrome.
07:32That's what I said.
07:33You said Don.
07:34The fuck is Don syndrome?
07:36I remember.
07:36Bro, you got Don syndrome.
07:41Hi.
07:42Hey, where are you?
07:43I came home from work early.
07:45Thanks for answering.
07:47Dude, stop acting like I haven't picked up a call or a text.
07:49You haven't called or texted me either.
07:51Okay, well, I was just about to.
07:53Why?
07:53The same reason you are.
07:55To tell you we should go home this weekend.
07:59I'm outside.
08:13I remember when you were a kid and you believed me when I said we bought a pistachio farm.
08:17Yeah.
08:19It was just like the most down to work on a farm with you forever.
08:32I see the red sky.
08:38You always ask me why.
08:41I find myself on corners every once in a while.
08:50You're a big old cow.
08:54You draw me out.
08:58Lie on the ground.
09:00Don't be so excited.
09:02I'll get the kiss on the moon.
09:13I dream a deep sea that it should swallow me and pitch me up on some way.
09:25What?
09:25She has to make a huge decision about a massive procedure.
09:29And we're like pulling up here past midnight.
09:31She's explaining to us how the shower works and helping us blow up an air.
09:34She did not have to do that.
09:35I didn't ask her how the shower works.
09:36I'm not even showering.
09:37Yeah, but she's going to be a good host, Hal.
09:38I'm just saying we shouldn't.
09:39Did you pack ear things?
09:41What?
09:42The swabs.
09:42What are they called?
09:43No, Q-tips.
09:44I don't have those.
09:45Okay, fuck me.
09:46I feel like a dumbass.
09:47I don't want to stay here all weekend.
09:49We should leave tomorrow.
09:50No, dude, I'm not leaving tomorrow.
09:51This isn't our deal, dude.
09:53This isn't our responsibility.
09:54Dude, what happens if Kate and Dad are old and die?
09:59We have to be a part of these conversations.
10:00We have to tell them that we're here and that we support them.
10:02We don't even know if the baby has Downs.
10:05What is that?
10:07I mean...
10:08What?
10:08What?
10:09What's this?
10:10The baby's...
10:12She's old.
10:13That doesn't mean anything.
10:14It does.
10:15We have babies super old now.
10:17Dad's like Dad's semen?
10:20I don't really want to think about Dad's old semen right now.
10:27Oh, hey.
10:29Hi, honey.
10:30Were you looking for something?
10:31Yeah, I'm really craving cereal and milk.
10:34We have, um, Bunch of Crunch or whatever.
10:38Bunch of Crunch is a candy.
10:39It's like that.
10:40You'll see.
10:41What is it?
10:45Honey bunches of oats!
10:47Honey bunches of oats.
10:48Hey, this is the best cereal of all time.
10:49Well, your dad likes it.
10:51Here you go.
10:53Oh, thank you.
10:54Here you go.
10:56Enjoy.
11:00What are you doing up so late?
11:02I unload the dishwasher when I can't sleep.
11:05Kate, can I help you?
11:06I'm sorry I can't sleep.
11:08Sure.
11:09We'll take it off.
11:10Please.
11:11We'll have a snack there.
11:13Thanks.
11:14Hal, you can probably eat your cereal in our room.
11:17I'm all posted up.
11:18Kate, I'm so sorry that we're here.
11:21I don't know why we ambushed you like this.
11:23Hal is, like, chomping cereal so fucking loudly in your kitchen after what I'm sure has been such a rough,
11:30crazy day for you.
11:31That's very sweet.
11:31It's totally okay.
11:32I know you guys are just, um, worried about your dad.
11:36Yeah, but that doesn't mean we should have driven here.
11:39Well, you're here.
11:39I, it's, I'm...
11:43Look, your dad is definitely the loudest chomper in the house right now.
11:47I'm gonna go to bed.
11:50Um, goodnight, you guys.
11:51Get some rest.
11:53Goodnight.
11:53Night.
11:57Escape that I did.
11:58Yes, dude.
11:59Yeah.
12:01Okay, well, I don't know why.
12:02Then, well, then you're a fucking idiot.
12:07Okay, well, then you're a fucking really not nice person, then.
12:17Did you sleep at all?
12:19I'm really abusing melatonin lately.
12:22That's super alarming.
12:24Do you think a chocolate bagel would be good?
12:27If you want to feel like a little baby.
12:30If you want to feel like a little dance baby.
12:32Stop.
12:33Stop.
12:35Blame it on the tonin.
12:36I, no, it's not entirely...
12:39I don't want my baby poked by a needle.
12:42They'll guide the needle with ultrasound.
12:44The most common injury is a tear in the placenta, which usually heals without a problem.
12:47Yeah, well, I'm not worried about that.
12:49Don't be worried about your baby.
12:50Okay.
12:51When it is performed by a highly trained doctor, the risk of miscarriage is like one in a thousand.
12:55Our guy is highly trained, right?
12:57Dr. Kessler is definitely, yes, highly trained.
12:59Sally, if our baby does have Down syndrome, we're still going to have the baby.
13:04So, I mean, it's hard to make sense of even the smallest possibility of something happening.
13:11I'll never tell anyone how to parent.
13:13These are the tough decisions.
13:14All I'll say is if the test shows your baby may be born with a serious problem, you guys can
13:18use the information to plan.
13:21Okay, thank you.
13:26I want to trust my friend, and I want to know about our baby.
13:33Let's do the amnio.
13:35And then if we find out the baby's disabled, then...
13:45Then we find out, we plan.
14:01All the, um, socially imposed weight would be lifted.
14:11Just...
14:14Are you tired?
14:18I'm going to know all of you.
14:23Did you look up Showtimes?
14:25You remember when we had to look up Showtimes in the newspaper?
14:28Oh, that's not an answer to my question.
14:29I'm just saying.
14:30Hey!
14:31Hi!
14:32We got...
14:33We got way too many bagels.
14:35Hey, we didn't know what kind of bagel you wanted, so we just got every single kind.
14:39Wow, you really did.
14:41That's so sweet.
14:42I love poppy seed.
14:42Do you guys want to see a movie today?
14:44I really want to see Mission Impossible Top Gun.
14:46Like a Tom Cruise doubleheader?
14:48No, it's literally neither of those movies.
14:50It's just a Tom Cruise movie.
14:52You know, I actually think a movie sounds like a great idea.
14:55Woo!
15:09Sayonara.
15:13You really slapped my fucking ass off.
15:15Were you asleep the whole time?
15:16Yeah, I think so.
15:16Yeah, you were both out.
15:18Were you asleep?
15:19No, just thinking about 1,200 other things during the movie.
15:23Okay, well, all I was thinking about was Tom Cruise inventing acting in front of my eyes.
15:26I couldn't be more awake right now.
15:53I was out of character.
15:56Kind of.
16:01I don't think you realize how much she loves you guys.
16:05I was feeling really bad about being here.
16:09Yeah, she mentioned that.
16:12I never want you guys to feel like you need to come here to check on me.
16:19That being said, Kate and I always really love having you here.
16:50I feel like his wife sometimes.
16:55I could.
17:01But I haven't lately because we haven't been talking.
17:08But I really miss him.
17:16You guys will figure it out.
17:18I'm not worried about you.
17:28There's more to life than family.
17:45A kid with Down syndrome might always be closest to their family.
17:52You really knock me out sometimes.
18:00You're right.
18:10The thing about having a disabled kid is they really demand.
18:26You really got to go to them.
18:31You got to meet them where they are every day.
18:34What's making you cry?
18:40I didn't go to you guys like that.
18:50You really had to grow up way too fast.
18:53You just Oberlin.
18:55You just.
19:07You guys are pretty fast.
19:33I want this off.
20:06I'm sorry for not talking to you.
20:13I understood.
20:22I'm really sorry too.
20:35Seems like that was highly dangerous what you just did.
20:38Holding hands is more important than not crashing.
21:01Daddy!
21:01Daddy!
21:25You really had to grow up way too fast.
21:27We are not in white every dark night.
21:42What dreams become concrete they make feel dry.
21:50Make sure you're mine.
21:57We are not in white.
21:59We are not in white.
22:27For a while that's fine.
22:28A speck in the eyes.
22:30Go depressing by design.
22:32If I go along with it am I lying to you?
22:35Watching from a distance.
22:37Whispering close about anything else.
22:42But it's not that far.
22:47I want it all.
22:49I want it all.
22:53I want it all.
23:00I want it all.
23:04I want it all.
23:07I want it all.
23:21I want it all.
23:24I want it all.
23:24I want it all.
23:49I don't know.
24:24I don't know.
24:55I don't know.
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