00:18Oh my God.
00:19Hear me out.
00:24Oh my God.
00:30Oh my God.
00:34Oh my God.
00:42Oh my God.
00:49Oh my God.
00:52Oh my God.
00:57Harper.
00:58Harper.
01:00Harper.
01:02You awake?
01:04Harper.
01:16Harper.
01:22Hey.
01:23Hey.
01:23Would I look good with bangs?
01:26Of course.
01:26I wouldn't want them in your eyes.
01:28Well, I never had them before, right?
01:30You had lots of baby hairs.
01:33Did they look good?
01:34You were a baby.
01:35I just need to change something.
01:37I've never done anything with my hair, so I'm just trying to picture how I would look.
01:40Can you send pictures of the baby hairs?
01:42Yeah.
01:43Um, I could send you some pictures of your mom too.
01:46She had bangs in college.
01:50She did?
01:51Yeah.
01:53I'll look.
01:55All right.
01:56All right.
01:56Um, I'm at work, so I'm going to go.
01:58I love you though.
01:59Bye.
01:59Love you.
02:05I was looking for you.
02:06Where?
02:07Um, your desk and bathroom.
02:09Have you ever had bangs?
02:12I'm a 30-year-old human girl, so.
02:14Right.
02:14Um, I've never had them, so I'm thinking about doing that.
02:17What do you think about that?
02:19Well, anyone who's asking about bangs should be asked if they're okay first.
02:22Don't worry about that.
02:22I'm not.
02:23What?
02:23Yeah.
02:24Just want to shake things up, perhaps.
02:26Okay.
02:27Well, then, I look forward to seeing them.
02:31Really though?
02:32Yeah.
02:32It makes me wish I knew how to cut hair.
02:34I would do it myself.
02:36I'd really like that.
02:38What if they look so terrible though?
02:40Well, then you become a beanie girl.
02:47I've just been feeling like a fragile sculpture that doesn't want to be touched because then
02:52I'll be knocked over and break, and then I'll have to start over, but I feel hollow,
02:59and I don't know how to unfeel that.
03:02So you got a new hat?
03:04I got a new haircut.
03:10Oh well.
03:12I'm gonna kill myself.
03:15Don't.
03:15It's not.
03:19Should I not go to this dinner?
03:21No, you should.
03:22Don't.
03:27Let's go.
03:30Oh.
03:31Oh.
03:32I'm gonna kill myself.
03:36I'm like, yeah.
03:39It's better.
03:42I'm gonna kill myself.
03:42You'll be able to die.
03:48And I'll be back, and then I'll be back.
03:50I'll be back.
03:51So I'll be back.
04:15I'm the captain and you can be the deputy
04:17I'm really glad you think I'm so friendly
04:21I don't think I'm ever glad if that should be
04:29Harp, you in there?
04:30Yeah
04:31What are you doing?
04:33Taking a tub
04:34Taking a tub?
04:35I'm in the bath tub
04:39Why is the door locked?
04:43Because it's out of habit
04:45Okay
04:52Chocolate ice cream
05:01Hi, I hope I'm your last call tonight
05:03I appreciate you calling, I don't think I could have waited
05:07Sorry
05:09Yeah, yeah, yeah
05:13Okay
05:16Okay
05:20Uh, okay
05:22Um, that, I'll have to think about that
05:26Okay, yeah
05:28Thank you for calling so late
05:29I'll just call the office tomorrow
05:33Okay
05:33Bye
05:34What, what's going on?
05:36Apparently there's a high possibility of an issue
05:38So, he just...
05:39What issue?
05:40Uh, Down syndrome
05:43So, he wants to be sure that it is not
05:46Um, but I guess the only way to do that is an amniocentesis
05:50And I've heard that's dangerous for the baby
05:53Uh, but he said Down syndrome
05:54Yeah, I mean, you know, I'm 38
05:56So, are you shocked?
05:59Yeah, I'm shocked
06:01Of course I'm shocked
06:02Is it the end of the world for you?
06:05No, it's not the end of the world
06:07It's just extremely upsetting
06:09Yeah, I'm not saying it's not upsetting
06:10But, you know, he's not...
06:12He said it's consistent
06:13The tests are consistent with Down syndrome
06:15He didn't say it's for sure
06:17Then we'll find out
06:19No, we're gonna decide if we want to know
06:22Because if we do, that means poking around in there
06:25That's gonna hurt my baby
06:28We need to know
06:30Why?
06:31Why?
06:51Giana's just insecure because you're smarter than her
06:52Giana got her JD at Oxford
06:54And I'm working with a build-your-own degree from Ox-a-dental
06:57Don't do that
06:58She's a miserable person
07:00That's why she's like that
07:06You okay?
07:08Okay, I love you
07:09Let's talk later
07:10Tell Kate I love her
07:14Bye
07:19Sorry about that
07:20We couldn't decide if we should've moved
07:22Yeah, he figured you would've just moved if you wanted some privacy
07:26My cousin has Down syndrome
07:30It's Down syndrome?
07:32That's what I said
07:33You said Don
07:34The fuck is Down syndrome?
07:36Bro, you got Down syndrome
07:41Hi
07:41Hey, where are you?
07:43I came home from work early
07:45Thanks for answering
07:46Dude, stop acting like I haven't picked up a call or a text
07:49You haven't called or texted me either
07:51Okay, well I was just about to
07:53Why?
07:53The same reason you are
07:54To tell you we should go home this weekend
07:59I'm outside
08:11I'm outside
08:13Remember when you were a kid and you believed me when I said we bought a pistachio farm?
08:17Yeah
08:19It was just like the most down to work on a farm with you forever
08:22No
08:23We are not staying alive
08:26Over Mama's mini-man
08:31Rushin' to work on time
08:34I see the red sky
08:38You always ask me why
08:41I find myself on corners, every once in a while, you're a big old cow, you draw me out, lie
08:59on the ground, kiss on the ground.
09:25She has to make a huge decision about a massive procedure and we're like pulling up here past midnight, she's
09:31explaining to us how the shower works and helping us blow up an air mat.
09:34She did not have to do that, I didn't ask her how the shower works, I'm not even showering it.
09:37Yeah but she's gonna be a good host Hal, I'm just saying we shouldn't...
09:39Did you pack ear things?
09:41What?
09:42Those swabs, what are they called?
09:43No, q-tips, I don't have those.
09:45Okay, fuck me.
09:46I feel like a dumbass, I don't want to stay here all weekend, we should leave tomorrow.
09:50No dude, I'm not leaving tomorrow.
09:51This isn't our deal dude, this isn't our responsibility.
09:54Dude, what happens if Kate and dad are old and die?
09:59We have to be a part of these conversations, we have to tell them that we're here and that we
10:01support them.
10:02We don't even know if the baby has Downs.
10:05What is that?
10:06I mean...
10:08What?
10:08What?
10:09What's this?
10:10The baby's...
10:12She's old.
10:13That doesn't mean anything.
10:14It does.
10:15We all have babies super old now.
10:17Dad's like dad's semen?
10:20I don't really want to think about dad's old semen right now.
10:27Oh, hey.
10:29Hi honey.
10:30Were you looking for something?
10:31Yeah, I'm really craving cereal and milk.
10:34We have, um, Bunch of Crunch or whatever.
10:38Bunch of Crunch is a candy.
10:39It's like that, you'll see.
10:41What is it?
10:45Honey bunches of oats!
10:47Honey bunches of oats.
10:48Hey, this is the best cereal of all time.
10:50Well, your dad likes it.
10:51Here you go.
10:53Oh, thank you.
10:54Here you go.
10:56Enjoy.
11:00What are you doing up so late?
11:02I unload the dishwasher when I can't sleep.
11:05Kate, can I help you?
11:06I'm sorry I can't sleep.
11:08Sure.
11:09We'll take it.
11:09Yes, please.
11:11Okay, we all stack there.
11:13Thanks.
11:14Hal, you can probably eat your cereal in our room.
11:17I'm all posted up.
11:19Kate, I'm so sorry that we're here.
11:21I don't know why we ambushed you like this.
11:23Hal is, like, chomping cereal so fucking loudly in your kitchen
11:27after what I'm sure has been such a rough, crazy day for you.
11:31That's very sweet.
11:31It's totally okay.
11:32I know you guys are just, um, worried about your dad.
11:36Yeah, but that doesn't mean we should have driven here.
11:39Well, you're here.
11:41I'm...
11:43Look, your dad is definitely the loudest chomper in the house right now.
11:48I'm gonna go to bed.
11:49Um, goodnight, you guys.
11:51Get some rest.
11:53Goodnight.
11:53Goodnight.
11:57This came out.
11:58Yes, dude.
11:59Yeah.
12:01Okay, well, I don't know why.
12:02Then...
12:03Well, then you're a fucking idiot.
12:07Okay.
12:07Well, then you're a fucking really not nice person, then.
12:17Did you sleep at all?
12:19I'm really abusing melatonin lately.
12:22That's super alarming.
12:24Do you think a chocolate bagel would be good?
12:27If you wanna feel like a little baby.
12:30If you wanna feel like a little dance baby.
12:32Stop.
12:33Stop.
12:35Blame it on the tonin.
12:36Mm-hmm.
12:36I...
12:37No, it's not entirely...
12:39I don't want my baby poked by a needle.
12:42They'll guide the needle with ultrasound.
12:44The most common injury is a tear in the placenta, which usually heals without a problem.
12:47Yeah.
12:47Well, I'm not worried about that.
12:49Don't be worried about your baby.
12:50Okay.
12:51When pain is performed by a highly trained doctor, the risk of miscarriage is like one in a thousand.
12:55Our guy is highly trained, right?
12:57Dr. Kessler is definitely, yes, highly trained.
12:59Sally, if our baby does have Down syndrome, we're still gonna have the baby, so...
13:05I mean, it's hard to make sense of even the smallest possibility of something happening.
13:11I'll never tell anyone how to parent.
13:13These are the tough decisions.
13:14All I'll say is if the test shows your baby may be born with a serious problem, you guys can
13:18use the information to claim.
13:21Okay, thank you.
13:26I wanna trust my friend, and I wanna know about our baby.
13:33Let's do the amnio, and then if we find out the baby's disabled, then...
13:45Then we find out, we plan.
14:01All the, um...
14:04Socially imposed weight would be lifted.
14:10Just...
14:14Are you tired?
14:18I'm gonna know all of you.
14:22Did you look up showtimes?
14:25You remember when we had to look up showtimes in the newspaper?
14:27Oh, that's not an answer to my question.
14:29I'm just saying.
14:31Hey!
14:31Hi!
14:32We got...
14:33We got way too many bagels.
14:35Hey, we didn't know what kind of bagel you wanted, so we just got every single kind.
14:39Wow, you really did.
14:41That's so sweet.
14:42I love poppy seeds.
14:42Do you guys wanna see a movie today?
14:44I really wanna see Mission Impossible Top Gun.
14:46Like a Tom Cruise doubleheader?
14:48No, it's literally neither of those movies.
14:50It's just a Tom Cruise movie.
14:52You know, I actually think a movie sounds like a great idea.
14:55Whoa!
15:08Sayonara.
15:13You really slapped my fucking ass off.
15:15Were you asleep the whole time?
15:16Yeah, I think so.
15:16Yeah, you were both out.
15:18Were you asleep?
15:19No, just thinking about 1,200 other things during the movie.
15:23Okay, well all I was thinking about was Tom Cruise inventing acting in front of my eyes.
15:26I couldn't be more awake right now.
15:35I'll come with you.
15:40Good night, Harper.
15:42Good night now.
15:52That was out of character.
15:56Kinda.
16:01I don't think you realize how much she loves you guys.
16:05I was feeling really bad about being here.
16:09I should mention that.
16:12I never want you guys to feel like you need to come here to check on me.
16:20That being said, Kate and I always really love having you here.
16:49I feel like his wife sometimes.
16:54Like that?
17:01But I haven't lately because we haven't been talking.
17:08But I really miss it.
17:16You guys will figure it out. I'm not worried about ya.
17:19Yeah.
17:28There's more to life.
17:31Than family.
17:45A kid with Down Syndrome might always be closest to their family.
17:52You really knock me out sometimes.
18:01You're right.
18:10You're right.
18:11The thing about having a disabled kid is...
18:14They really demand.
18:25You really gotta go to them.
18:31You gotta meet them where they are every day.
18:34What's making you cry?
18:40I didn't go to you guys.
18:42Like that.
18:50You really had to grow up way too fast.
19:21You're just...
20:06I'm sorry for not talking to you.
20:13I understood.
20:22I'm really sorry, too.
20:35It seems like that was highly dangerous, what you just did.
20:38Holding hands is more important than not crashing.
20:40I'm sorry.
21:00Daddy!
21:02Daddy!
21:02Daddy!
21:03Daddy!
21:03Daddy!
21:04Daddy!
21:16Daddy!
21:18Daddy!
21:20Daddy!
21:21Daddy!
21:23Daddy!
21:25You really had to grow up way too fast.
21:27Let me find a game.
21:34Why?
21:38Every dark night?
21:45Why?
21:45What dreams become concrete, they make you try?
22:19Hey
22:31Oh
22:50I want it all
22:53I want it all
22:57Oh
23:00I want the world
23:03I want it all
23:11Oh
23:19It's creepy
23:20Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
23:51Oh, oh, oh, oh
24:47Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
24:50Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
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