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Love Is Blind Season 10 Episode 10
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00:00The type of person that I would have gone after, but I do like darker futures, I like certain things
00:03in my woman.
00:04We haven't been into it. Are you not attracted to me?
00:07Getting the pods and fear really came down to like you and Connor.
00:10I appreciate you for like just vigor and energy you have for life, like it's so attractive.
00:14Over the past two days I was thinking about like what it would be like if I was with the
00:19number two person I had.
00:20Do you think we have a good friendship with him, actually?
00:22I do. Do you not?
00:24I just don't know if it's like there for me.
00:26Did she say she wants to be gone?
00:28Yeah. She's like, I can't be around you anymore.
00:31Emma immediately looked at my ring and she goes, what is that?
00:34Have you guys been meeting her yet, Emma?
00:36No. I'm a little nervous. Like when she doesn't like me, never have I ever had a hit you.
00:40I can give you a first wedding.
00:41I don't want to hit you.
00:42I don't like that you don't ever really tell me that I'm pretty because I don't know if they're attached
00:45to me.
00:46You're forcing me. Well now I don't feel like it's genuine if I say anything.
00:50Do you think you were afraid of having kids because of your birthmarks?
00:54Oh yeah, 100%.
00:55If we get married and then we have a kid and you resent that, you resent your child, you resent
01:00me for what happened, I can never live with them.
01:04So what makes you think you can settle down?
01:06You're tired of moving?
01:07Uh, absolutely.
01:08Different chicks?
01:10I won't lie, absolutely.
01:11Do you still have a relationship with any of your ass?
01:13Yes.
01:14The travel miss?
01:15Yeah.
01:16Saw her in Austin for a week.
01:17What was that dynamic when you visited her then?
01:20I mean, we hooked up.
01:21If you had that type of relationship with someone like that, it's kind of concerning.
01:25The keg up stuff.
01:27This is a frat house.
01:28This is literally a normal blue collar dude.
01:30Like, I work for a dumpster rental company.
01:32You need someone who's going to be more dominant in your life and to help you, like, guide you and,
01:35like, show you places you've never been before.
01:37I saw you and I was like, that is the girl I would literally propose to.
01:55We saw you and her together.
01:58It was like, you saw it 100%.
01:59It was like, you guys were totally in it.
02:01Because I feel like the emotional connection was, like, there.
02:06Why didn't you say this stuff in Cabo?
02:08Because, like, at the end of it, we were so sure of, like, our decisions.
02:11Like, no hard feelings, like, we were, like, cool.
02:14I'll be honest with you.
02:15Yeah.
02:16That night where Jess was like, oh, you're my number one, Chris.
02:21I told Connor.
02:23Because he knew we were dating.
02:25Yeah.
02:26And he's like, all right, I'm going to go with three then.
02:29I'm going to make her my number one then.
02:33I'm just saying.
02:37I think it's what hooked it up.
02:38I shouldn't have told him that.
02:40Because, like, he would have went with Emma.
02:42Yeah.
02:43100%.
02:44I'm being honest.
02:45Would you have, like, broken it off then?
02:47I would have broken it off 100%.
02:48What worried me, honestly, was, like, you were just friends with, like, a lot of dudes.
02:52But, like, you were friends with, like, a lot of loser dudes.
02:56Dudes who were, like, happy with life, going through some vibes.
03:00And, like, somebody who's like, hey, I have a clear path to where I want to be in, like, five
03:04years, ten years, twenty years.
03:06Like, we need to, like, have these, like, types of assets.
03:08Guys who are, like, literally directional driven.
03:12I'm just going to say it now.
03:13I'm back in the real world and I'm like, fuck, she lives a half a mile from me.
03:16She's hot as fuck.
03:17And we vibe so well.
03:19Can I ask you a crazy question?
03:20Can you be honest?
03:21With your wedding ring off?
03:23Yeah.
03:23Like, what?
03:26Are you, like, attracted to me?
03:29I would hate you.
03:30With four people.
03:31Like, stay in there.
03:33That's maybe luxurious to normal people.
03:35Room service in the road where Mr. Who's going.
03:38Baby, stop.
03:41Stop.
03:43We'd have a good time.
03:44Yeah.
03:45Guaranteed.
03:46I felt like we would have been, like, fuck buddies.
03:51I saw your Instagram and I was like, yes.
03:54Yeah.
03:55I'm just saying.
03:57I sent you that message, but you're like, you never responded back, so I'm just like.
04:00Well, I'm in a relationship.
04:02I know.
04:04Connor would have dropped me.
04:05I would have been out.
04:05Honestly, I would not go through this with anybody but him.
04:12Mr. Brightside, you like that?
04:14Yeah.
04:17Oh.
04:18Apparently, like, I'm Andrew Tate, apparently.
04:21You're a who?
04:22The crazy Andrew Tate guy.
04:23Oh, I don't know that person.
04:24Okay.
04:25All right.
04:25Whatever.
04:38Kev, this is Emma.
04:39Hi, I'm Emma.
04:40Nice to meet you.
04:41Nice to meet you.
04:42Nice to meet you.
04:43Hi.
04:44Hey.
04:45How are you doing?
04:46Good.
04:46It's good to see you.
04:47It's good to see you.
04:48I'm Kev.
04:49Yeah.
04:50In the flesh.
04:51Lavin' in the flesh.
04:52Yes, yes, yes.
04:53Heaven in the flesh.
04:55Yeah, you look amazing.
04:57Do you mind if I move to a seat?
04:58Yeah.
04:59You lead the way.
04:59I'm there.
05:01What's your story?
05:02What happened with you?
05:03Um, so I had a, um, I had a connection with two women.
05:10In his defense, though, they were badass women.
05:13They were.
05:14But Kia, you're one of the most amazing people.
05:17She was, like, one of the first women in my life to ever have me, like, open up my heart.
05:23Just, like, learning, like, okay, this is what you need to do as a man.
05:27What do you do?
05:28You step up.
05:29You step up for that woman.
05:30You're right.
05:31You're right.
05:32Have you guys been talking?
05:33Nah, so we haven't been talking.
05:35How do you feel about Kia choosing herself?
05:38As she should.
05:39And I apologize.
05:40I appreciate that.
05:42I'll never forget you.
05:43Oh, I mean, duh.
05:46Are you kidding me?
05:49Oh, that was crazy.
05:51They recognize this game.
05:53Oh, we're so close.
05:54You talked to police group a while.
05:56We're all good.
05:56But you're okay.
05:58You know where your friends are.
06:00Oh, my God.
06:01You ended up with my wife?
06:03My wife, actually.
06:04We were friends in my life.
06:05Wait, so how do you guys know each other?
06:07Well, Chicago is where we first met.
06:10Yeah, yeah.
06:10And then I ran to you and I?
06:11But I thought you said you had moved there.
06:14For a little bit, yeah.
06:15I was back and forth between Cleveland and Austin.
06:16So you were looking for a place in Austin.
06:18I was looking for a place in Austin.
06:19I was back and forth between it.
06:20It was like one of those because I was trying to figure out where my wife was going to be.
06:22And I didn't want a place down there, realistically.
06:24Yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:25So, yeah.
06:25In Austin?
06:26I was one of them, yeah.
06:27We talked about this.
06:29So, Austin was your ex?
06:30At that time, yeah.
06:31You were staying at your ex's place, travel nurse.
06:34Yes.
06:35Yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:35She was either on an assignment or something.
06:38And that he was staying at his place.
06:39Yeah.
06:40Anyways.
06:41You look off.
06:42Just the story was a little different when you told it.
06:46Which part?
06:47You made it seem like you went to the F1 race to see her.
06:50You guys hooked up.
06:51Oh, so she wasn't on an assignment.
06:52She was on assignment in Austin.
06:54I stayed at her place.
06:55Oh, so she was there when you were there.
06:57Correct.
06:57There.
06:58Which I said.
06:58Which I said.
06:59No, you didn't say that.
07:00I said that I was staying at her place.
07:03We hooked up.
07:03Well, she was on assignment.
07:04When you say she was on assignment, I'm assuming she is like out of Austin.
07:08She was not there.
07:09She was a travel nurse that was living there, working there for a few months at a time.
07:12I stayed at her place and then went to the F1 with her.
07:15It made sense for me at that point because I wasn't in a relationship or had met either.
07:19I've met you before, but I had met you.
07:21So then you went back?
07:23Yeah.
07:24I feel like I'm being like just double teamed right now.
07:27What's going on?
07:27So, you told me you were in Cleveland for a year and a half.
07:29I was.
07:30My license is Cleveland.
07:31I lived in Cleveland for a year and a half, really, basically.
07:34When you tell someone that you just moved to Austin.
07:38Did I say I just moved to Austin?
07:39You definitely told me that you had moved there and then I thought actually the girlfriend
07:43was like, or the ex-girlfriend was on a random assignment.
07:46That's why you were staying at her place.
07:48But I didn't realize that you guys were simultaneously living in the same home.
07:51At the one week that I met you, yes, we were.
07:54Is this a problem?
07:55I've just like asked you the timeline so many times and you make me feel like an idiot when
07:58I asked about it and now the story is changing.
08:01Do you know where you were three years ago on a Tuesday on May?
08:05No, but the way you tell your stories, it seems like you do.
08:08I don't.
08:09Like, I can pull up my Airbnb if you would like and we can go through it together.
08:12I don't care.
08:13Well, you do care because you ask my timeline every time I speak.
08:16And when you say that you've lived in Cleveland for a year and a half, I'm expecting like,
08:20no, I don't give a fuck about your license.
08:22Okay.
08:23When you say that you've lived in Ohio for a year and a half, I'm expecting you live
08:25in Ohio for a year and a half.
08:26That's my home base.
08:27Now she's saying that you live in Austin, like now you've lived there.
08:30Now you're like, I lived in Florida.
08:31Have I not said I've lived in Florida and Austin and San Diego?
08:33You never said you lived in Austin.
08:35You said you went to visit your ex.
08:37On that occasion, I also lived in Austin previously before all of that was out my ex.
08:41When I ask you a question, you seem to get annoyed with me, but when something changes
08:44Right now, I feel attacked at the moment.
08:46Like, I feel it's a two-on-one.
08:47I'm not attacking you.
08:47It's fine.
08:48So where did you fly?
08:49I didn't know anything was going to be good.
08:50You told me you flew in from Cleveland.
08:52You asked where I lived.
08:52I lived in Cleveland.
08:53Yeah, why did you fly in Austin?
08:55Because I'm flying back and forth trying to figure out if I want to live and work there.
08:58This has never come up in our conversation, though.
09:00Because I've already come up with the answer, I don't want to live in Austin, Texas.
09:04And is that because your ex was there?
09:05No.
09:06I mean, did you have anything before as well?
09:09Yeah, I told you.
09:10Have you never hooked up with anyone in between that?
09:12No.
09:13Okay.
09:13I mean, I question that, but this wasn't an exclusive relationship where I don't view it
09:18as something that you need to know about.
09:19But if you want, every time I jerk off, I'll let you know.
09:22That was cute.
09:25That was a nice.
09:26Not.
09:26But I'm just like, your story changes so much.
09:29I have been very open with the fact that I don't have a home base, and I haven't had a
09:32home base for four years.
09:33I'm pretty sure you told me you flew in from Cleveland.
09:34I did say that I flew in from Cleveland.
09:36It was easier for me to explain it that way without having to go through the entire process
09:40of, yes, I flew back and forth between Austin and Cleveland.
09:43I flew back and forth.
09:44I flew back and forth.
09:44I didn't mean to tell me about that, right?
09:45Because you have a billion questions that I wouldn't feel like answering because they're
09:49not relevant to this entire process.
09:51Hmm.
09:53You just mean it's marriage.
09:54Now I feel like a two-on-one.
09:55No, no, no.
09:56No, no, no, no.
09:56It's okay.
09:57It's a two-on-one.
09:57You just said that.
09:58So I'm just saying like...
09:59So it's a two-on-one.
10:00It's not a two-on-one.
10:01You just said something and I'm trying to be your friend also and tell you like...
10:03My friend?
10:04Okay.
10:05It's not a process.
10:06Like, it's a marriage.
10:07So everything should be on the table.
10:08Between us, Taylor, right?
10:09Correct.
10:09So why are you here?
10:11Okay, you don't need to get snappy with me.
10:14I don't take shifts like that.
10:16I think you guys continue this conversation.
10:19I think...
10:20Yeah, yeah, yeah.
10:20I was in Austin, Texas for a race for the weekend.
10:23Do you understand how Demo left right now?
10:25No.
10:27The story didn't line up like to the hour.
10:30It's not to the hour.
10:32To the day?
10:33No, to the fucking year.
10:35Like, you say a lot of words sometimes and like...
10:37Sometimes it just has nothing to it.
10:40Okay.
10:41I mean, do you want me to explain it again?
10:43Like...
10:43No, I get it.
10:44You were with your ex on F1 and then you went back and forth but no, you did not see
10:48her
10:48and that makes total sense to me and she's back in Florida and now she has a boyfriend
10:51and you guys talk about how great it is that she has a boyfriend.
10:53That's totally normal.
10:54And I've given the timeline like ten times.
10:57Just be honest with me.
10:58Like, I'm very understanding this person.
11:00If you were to come to me and be like, I fucked up or like, hey, I told you this
11:04but I actually
11:04meant this or I need to tell you this, I'd be like much more calm right now.
11:09Just come to me.
11:09Okay.
11:10Where does that leave us?
11:12I think that's in your hands.
11:13So, I'm afraid to let go of the past.
11:23What's up, man?
11:23How are you?
11:24New crowd?
11:24Yeah, I'm good.
11:25Good, buddy.
11:26How are you?
11:26Not bad.
11:28Good to see you.
11:31Good to see you.
11:33How are you?
11:34How are you?
11:36Good to see you.
11:37Good to see you, too.
11:38You look good.
11:38You look nice in there.
11:40I feel like we should, um, I'm so sorry.
11:44It's just like, can we like, kind of talking private?
11:49Okay.
11:50Let me just like couch, maybe like over there where no one's at.
11:52Okay.
11:53I think it'll be fun.
11:54Do you have a good drink?
11:55Mm-hmm.
11:56What are you drinking?
11:57Coke.
11:59You want to drink an alcohol?
12:02That dude is hammered.
12:03Who?
12:04Chris.
12:05He couldn't even open his left eye.
12:09Oh, God.
12:14It's like crazy to see you.
12:16You look good, though.
12:18I appreciate it.
12:20Is it like, okay, like going back to work?
12:22Like, do you feel like okay and like normal again?
12:24No, it's bad.
12:26Last week I was in love and thought I was getting married.
12:29Okay.
12:29Since then, I've worked every single day.
12:31You never texted me once, though.
12:34Are you fucking kidding me?
12:36All of Monday and all of Tuesday?
12:38That's the only text I got was, are you alive?
12:41That's okay.
12:42Who cares, though?
12:43I do.
12:44Okay.
12:44Well, that's the only text I got.
12:46That's convenient.
12:47Listen, I wasn't trying to be mean.
12:49Mm-hmm.
12:50I'm sorry.
12:51If it came off that way.
12:52I appreciate you.
12:53Like, I think you're very attractive, Jess.
12:59You have dark features.
13:01I don't, you don't have to tell me why I'm attractive.
13:04Okay.
13:04I know you hate me.
13:05It's okay.
13:06That's a lot of people like me.
13:07I didn't say that.
13:08In my life.
13:08I'm really, really, really hurt.
13:10And I was 110% in.
13:13When's your next day, like, to chill?
13:15It doesn't matter.
13:16It doesn't matter to me.
13:18You had your time to make sure of things, and that time is over.
13:22You don't want me to worry about that?
13:23That's fine.
13:23I'll do my own thing and worry about my own life, then, for the rest of my life.
13:26I thought you already were.
13:29I honestly feel like you don't feel like you know me.
13:36I thought I did.
13:37No one's gonna save me.
13:40No one's gonna save me.
13:43Bye.
13:44Thanks.
13:48I love you, too, baby.
13:49Ready to be home.
13:51Yeah.
13:51Snuggled with me.
13:53Yeah.
13:55I love you.
14:00Have you met Emily yet, or no?
14:02Not yet.
14:02So I just met Matt, which is his dad, this weekend.
14:06That's supposed to be me and Emily.
14:07It's just like, I bought her a little present.
14:09I got a little gift bag.
14:11Man.
14:11Coloring books, some of the good ones, and colored pencils.
14:14Okay.
14:15Yeah.
14:16It'll be good, but it's like, it's a real issue, but I also have to pull.
14:20I don't want her to feel like I'm just, like, in vain in their space.
14:22Yeah.
14:23So, see how it goes, but, like, she's scary.
14:28Hey, babe.
14:29Yeah?
14:31I just wanted to know, like, if you do want to bail at any point, just let me know.
14:36Wait, stop, stop.
14:37You're hearing the wrong thing right now.
14:39Amber, you're hearing the wrong thing right now.
15:01Um, I wasn't trying to attack you or anything tonight.
15:07I've been lied to in the past, but I've never felt that from you, so I guess tonight it was
15:11kind of a shock.
15:13I guess the only question I have is, like, what is your relationship like with this girl now?
15:19I've had my phone back for, what is it, two weeks now?
15:22We haven't talked.
15:24Like, there's no tie at all.
15:26So if I were to break things off tonight, would you go in two days and text her, though?
15:30Like, that's...
15:30No.
15:31Okay.
15:31She has somebody that she's happy with.
15:34I'm very happy for her.
15:35She's happy for me.
15:37Are you happy?
15:37Yes.
15:48You okay?
15:51You okay?
15:52Nuggets?
15:53I'm sorry.
15:55McDonald's?
15:56Yeah, I need something.
15:58I need nuggets.
15:59Coke?
15:59Fries?
16:01Yeah?
16:02Empties?
16:04Buffalo?
16:05Honey?
16:06What do you got?
16:06Buffalo.
16:08Buffalo?
16:08Buffalo.
16:09Yeah.
16:12The large Coke.
16:13You want fries?
16:15Yeah, there we go.
16:16There we go.
16:19Dying starts Monday.
16:21Supposed to fit into a wedding dress at some point here, so...
16:25You'll be fine, sure.
16:27I'm sure.
16:28Grace me up.
16:30I will go down with this shit
16:34And I won't put my hands up
16:37And sometimes
16:39I will go down with this shit
16:43I'm in love
16:45And I'll wait
16:46I don't want to be with me
16:48Because I'm not ready for a lot of this.
16:50I don't think I can talk to my mother tonight.
17:00Can we talk?
17:05Amber?
17:10Tonight, I'm just trying to talk to Amber
17:12Trying to be honest
17:13She got...
17:14She got pissed
17:16I was like, well, if you're not certain
17:18Then that's that
17:19and we're not doing this she got upset and left and she's still pretty fast and this is the first
17:25time we've ever had a disagreement i haven't even met her daughter yet i've never been in like a
17:32father three-year-old and i don't know i was just trying to talk about the way that i felt
17:36i'm scared would you like to talk let me fuck off
17:50the good news is at least i found somebody else i can't talk to my feelings about
17:56one-way street one-way street brother
18:05tell me about your conversation with my little buddy we talked about how he dm'd me and it was
18:12really crazy because he was like i told you to call me like why didn't you ask for my number
18:16and i
18:16literally was like because i'm like with i'm in a relationship
18:23he literally said to me do you find me attractive and i said listen there is nobody else that i
18:29would
18:29choose over connor it was connor nobody that shows me who he is too i'm like why are like you're
18:36saying
18:36like inappropriate things just weird stuff you know yeah and then try to dap me up after that dude's not
18:41anybody's friend anymore so can i ask you a question though that he brought up to me basically when
18:47he came in from night dating with just one night he was like hey man like i think i'm gonna
18:51put like
18:52just number one and you're like okay okay cool then i'll put three number one no you were my number
18:59one that night and i'm saying that 100 honestly he's trying to plan it down and get us to go
19:05against each
19:05other we fell in love sight unseen it wasn't about money it wasn't about how we look like me and
19:11you
19:11fell genuinely in love i don't know if it's like a jealous thing or what the deal is but like
19:15he also
19:16fell in love and then now that they've seen each other now he wants to pivot i think it's disrespectful
19:21it's just hard because i did really respect him and like i thought he was really cool so do we
19:26and then
19:26it's like i just see it this just totally gives me the egg i mean yeah i guess it's just
19:31almost like a shock
19:33that he just flipped out of nowhere
19:39not fuzco putting me on um what do you say disappear mode or vanish mode you want to do the
19:46honors
19:46let's see it together chris fuzco let's see it are you staying in gv tonight
19:54do you want me to answer no all right the more i disengage them the more it's going to keep
19:59going
20:00like if i'm like yes i am and then i'd be like well why like i don't need to poke
20:04the bear exactly
20:06it's one of those two that you just cut talking people out of your life exactly that's why i give
20:09any more energy yeah so maybe a little bit jealous you know that but i'm trusting you 100
20:18percent oh your hands are cold yeah stop oh man why are you like good at this this is like
20:26weirding
20:27the other you're good at this why are you doing this you're like a strong dog
20:35so all right fine you win not that someone i crushed you
20:41oh god you're actually really good at that
20:58yeah there's some color in there i know i want to do one of these guys
21:03what's the occasion wedding wedding yes congratulations thank you what do you think
21:07should we do more of a round or more of like a spread out so you're coming down the aisle
21:12do
21:12you want the flowers to be falling i think i'll look more like nice and neat i think if i'm
21:17going to
21:18toss a bouquet you want it to be tight so let's go for tall okay and then i'll add in
21:24s just wherever yeah
21:27okay okay and the outside yeah looks good i can't wait to see you come down the aisle
21:34yeah
21:39nice i just feel very very very lucky very grateful no fears no fear yeah would you tell me if
21:48you did
21:48if i have fears i'll let you know okay yeah at any point five years from now two years from
21:52now
21:53uh-huh there are none none no nothing either yeah i think that's normal
22:01this whole thing isn't normal right no sure can't wait to do travel with you
22:11okay what colors do you not want on nr i don't know this is the thing like i've never i've
22:17never even
22:18thought about that time to noodle so i like greener like i like a lot of florals are you opposed
22:24to
22:24green so tell me honestly you don't want green i think it's whatever you want no babe i want you
22:34to
22:34like it too obviously you're in white i was actually gonna go with a pink dress like a tutu yeah
22:42i do want
22:44i like that but i realized everyone's gonna be gold goblet so you can't really do a martini tower
22:48to hell we can't first ever gold goblet martini tower um italian castle yeah one in columbus ohio
22:56those two things should never be in the same sense
23:07step into my office
23:14would you like the bed warmer on no when most people think like oh you do lashes in your basement
23:22it's probably a little like janky but i wanted it to be somewhere when my clients come they don't
23:29feel like they're in a home they feel like they're in a little oasis you actually have really pretty
23:34lashes you could just do a lash lift although you might look a little crazy having like super curled
23:39lashes i don't know but my home is going to become ours i've never had that before like i've never
23:45been
23:46able to come home and be like hello i'm here like honey i'm home so i'm super excited for that
23:52um moment
23:55my dad helped me build this whole fireplace like this was all black and gold you guys took it out
24:00all of this stone in i like that it is a fireplace that works i have never used it because
24:06i'm scared
24:06to burn my house down where's your spot on the couch my couch spot is here okay that's good i
24:14always sit
24:14here because it's like right inside of the tv see i need i need a long spot is that that
24:19far away
24:22you talk during movies i already know only sometimes you watch the movies with the captain's on no like
24:29you got a little lash soldier from downstairs i'll get i'll get used to that yeah we'll have lashes all
24:37over your socks right now like what's your monthly output mortgage is like 12 15 okay like 1800 got
24:46it for bills i don't even think it's that much like all in yeah yeah that's not bad at all
24:51my previous
24:52house in charlotte just my house bills alone before you started getting utilities and stuff was like
24:565200 a month i said that oh my god i'm gonna throw up it's sales it's weird like one month
25:06i can make
25:0812 000 one month i can make 40 000 like it just really wow i don't think i've ever made
25:15that much money
25:15in a month i try to have at least like six to eight months like in reserves like quickly maybe
25:21you should be
25:21in charge of our finances i try to be financially smart i mean i am a shopper for sure and
25:28sometimes
25:28i do go overboard but if you run out of your own fun money don't come looking in my pot
25:33i'm like oh you're gonna have to what do you mean are we gonna have a joint account i'm excited
25:38to
25:38share bills this is great so this is gonna be our little home it's gonna be our little home
25:51you've been my one for the longest time okay so we are zooming up to grand rapids to meet my
26:01family my
26:03dad aka g man but you will be calling him mr rickney i already know i just don't bring guys
26:09around a lot
26:10so i don't know how this is gonna go with my dad
26:18and i'm taking connor around to all the spots that i know and love and knowledge
26:23the truth is if you kiss under this arch you get married so i guess that's good
26:30better for you we have the honor of cutting the cake so we figured this would be a really good
26:37practice all right connor wait i feel like you have to do it together oh yeah we do all right
26:41all right you ready oh my god unless you get it you ready
26:47okay this is actually pretty good and then you put it in your mouth
26:50so you're you are
26:56now you can now you can
26:58yay
26:59you gotta show the rest of the thing
27:02from the grand rapids crew
27:18this is definitely the first argument that we've gotten in and i wouldn't say it was good i
27:24definitely get needing to take a beat and might go take breather and that's how i am a lot of
27:29times
27:29like i have to cool my head so that i understand but uh like the total silence is i mean
27:35you can't work with that
27:46hey hey how's it going what's going how you doing
27:56oh how was your day i just need a drink okay
28:10i like completely understand your disposition with wanting to meet emma what i don't understand is
28:17why the fuck didn't you tell me before you told vic i'm just pissed that's really what
28:23like shot the pain for me was because like i thought we really have this like open level
28:27communication i trust you like you just follow my heart that you were like communicating everything
28:31to me now i'm just like having some skepticisms and like doubts and i need to know the honest
28:38to god truth at this point like right now like if it is emma we can work on it if
28:44it's not and
28:44like hey i wasn't really feeling this or like i was feeling another type of way you just need to
28:48be
28:48straight up with me you know i feel bad that you think that any like feelings that i have for
28:55you
28:55are not you know not genuine like what i've said because i i i think you're incredible like i don't
29:01think i've ever felt this way about anybody before the only reason i've gone as far as because of you
29:07but before you know making a lifelong commitment like i have to meet emma first never meeting her before
29:12and like trying to build a relationship it's it's a scary thought that i totally understand but like
29:17when did these thoughts come into your head and like why didn't you tell me these
29:23i don't know i think it's just gotten more real in the last week i think the nerves of like
29:27she's
29:27the person i've been most nervous to meet is the most important person in your life so
29:32have you thought about like she doesn't like me because that's something that plays in my head a
29:36little bit that's like a scary thought um like i told her brush her teeth this morning
29:41it would be one thing if like you were like a bad person or like we had a toxic relationship
29:46or
29:46we're fighting all the time it's a different story i just don't understand like though knowing and coming
29:51into it like you kind of knew that was a thing okay so i still love you yeah i was
29:56never trying to
29:56fail i just it's a step-by-step process like all the steps need to happen before to be successful
30:01so
30:03i'd like to work on it i don't know where you stand on things i understand if you need some
30:07time
30:09it's so so hard for me to like trust a man
30:15they will tell you they're gonna marry you and like all this other
30:18bullshit i wouldn't have said all the things i said to you if i didn't do that
30:21men say fucking bullshit i'm not i'm not the dude that you're with you you haven't proven that to me
30:27yet that makes me feel shitty it's like i feel like i've put myself out here and you're just
30:31comparing me to a bunch of dirt bags that you did in the past like that's not fair i've had
30:36to build
30:37this barrier to protect myself i can empathize with having to put walls up and like protect your
30:43daughter i get that i know that you've had shitty people in your past but i don't know what to
30:48do
30:48for you to trust me
30:55i still do trust you but usually i go into like fight or flight like usually i would just be
31:00like
31:00completely gone and just like and i'm not doing that i showed up today
31:08i've been so anxious i haven't eaten all day
31:10why because i'm just like a ball of nerves i didn't know how this was gonna go if you were
31:16gonna leave or how i just yeah i've been so anxious
31:39i'm still really looking at the time it's pretty good
31:42the reason just played out
31:45me too
31:48you're kind of pretty today
31:54can you just make sure your legs tell me everything straight up
31:57yes yes
31:59as soon as i think it
32:00as soon as i think it
32:04i mean you know i don't miss a beat
32:06i know
32:23i got kind of updated on like some of the things with chris
32:26what you heard about him yeah bro and i was like what the f
32:29i'll never talk to that dude again yeah you shouldn't
32:32we had a very close relationship i talked to him about a lot of
32:34yeah and then he started using that against me to try and talk to my fiancee
32:38we sent her a text or something after two
32:39then he dm'd her that night
32:41dm'd okay
32:42and uh and she goes can you not respond to him
32:44she was sent a picture of your nutsack
32:46from her account
32:47from her account
32:48what are we what are you doing dude
32:50we're going through this we we have a solid group
32:53and then to just
32:53give disrespect to you like that
32:56he thought that he was gonna like steal her from me
32:57yeah buddy you're five six so
33:10somebody stop me
33:11what's up fellas oh you're a little over a week away
33:16from standing at the altar in front of the love of your life
33:20the tux the suit you pick out today represent your personality
33:23and represents your love
33:25i'm so happy for all of you talking through a wall
33:28finding someone and now picking up your wedding dress
33:31it's absolutely incredible
33:34i do already have my own wedding dress
33:37before you went on the show you bought the dress
33:40just by the man
33:43i bought her dress because i said this
33:45here is faith we truly believe that you're going to find your person
33:51so we did we bought the dress i loved it
33:55i truly hope that you guys prove love is blinds
33:58because i want for all of you a marriage that lasts a test of time
34:03this is a beautiful day have a blast
34:05put on some suits i wish you guys nothing but the best
34:09thank you good luck guys all right
34:12all right let's go
34:20so it's not a perfect fit but we're going we're going to see what
34:23i see you some little criminal
34:24all right you think you're going to have some tears coming down
34:27it's going to be good i'm excited about that i'll tell you that much
34:29no i'm excited for you yeah any reservations
34:32are not
34:40you guys got your kisses ready yeah oh yeah
34:46gorgeous oh that's so beautiful i kind of hate it
34:51and i was literally gonna say i'm not a fan
34:54hate it it's not at all me it's not we tried something different and we know that it's not it
35:01oh stop it oh my goodness oh wow what do you think i don't like it either
35:08she's like i gotta get out of this thing
35:19okay you're heaving
35:27this is amazing on you there's some elements that are working really like yeah yeah yeah i do like
35:33the slits i feel like you want that leg though you look amazing in that oh it's pretty oh i
35:39like
35:39the back wow oh i still just don't know about i don't think i'm being picky
35:47wedding dress christine yeah yeah it's not perfect it's not perfect yeah do you want to try bail with it
35:53sure thank you oh
35:58you're so beautiful i feel bright off i'm already like getting emotional but it's not the dress that
36:04makes you emotional it's it's everything behind the dress yeah i've really wanted this for a long
36:09time and uh i just have the perfect person to do it with
36:24i think you could rock a midnight blue also my colors for the wedding are green uh
36:30emma like likes like the deep green like uh the green floor oh all right so it's black black and
36:36green prouty man brilliant
36:46wait are you are wearing your shoes already look at that yeah oh my god look at that
36:51green gorgeous beautiful like a little garden it's so pretty i feel like it's exactly what i
36:58would picture for you just the perfect amount of glitz but like still simple for you and it's just
37:03gorgeous i like the sheer at the top oh it is very sheer mom wants some softiness yeah i like
37:13do you feel comfortable i feel really comfortable like i can like give us some dancing i can dance
37:17okay you're like i can do my irish jigs oh good are you i don't know he's gonna kill me
37:24my face oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god this is crazy
37:33oh my god
37:37yes you have to wear a veil
37:46okay we can just feel so right it's real like i didn't hear you here
37:57okay the dress feels the deal just feels the deal it's perfect
38:04work it'll do it'll do
38:12feeling excited finally getting the suit fitted i'm gonna do the tie clip that matches her dress oh yeah
38:29i feel like buying the dress before definitely
38:47jumped full force into this journey of believing that this is what i'm supposed to do
38:52now everything that i've always dreamed of is going to happen oh my gosh i'm getting married i will be
38:57a
38:57full-on bride
39:01okay yeah that makes sense oh my god it looks beautiful wow oh my god i love it i think
39:10this is stunning
39:12this is my dress
39:18i'm glad you bought one before i know yeah oh my gosh right it's so pretty this is like my
39:25wedding day
39:26what i want to look like what i want to look like i feel like a bride
39:29where's the veil bring the veil it's on me oh yeah very good gorgeous beautiful
39:43she's waited a long time and you're getting everything he checks every box he said
39:51and it's it's been worth the wait yeah he was more than worth the wait yeah and like he's the
39:57person
39:58that i've literally been looking 32 years for i'm happy
40:03next week i'm gonna get to call my husband he better lose it than he sees you he is literally
40:08a man of few words and i have just come to accept that they don't have words but he's gonna
40:13be
40:13choking oh my god we're getting married yes we are
40:23you gonna get married how do you feel how do you feel good did you see it i might be
40:28a boat
40:28scale one in ten good god is that james bond yeah there it is yeah i don't look like a
40:34dream in it
40:34no as it says i'm formal i'm ready to get married i feel confident in this i feel good yeah
40:40this is
40:41gonna be the only time i get married yeah this is an i do time
40:51my mom and connor's mom are here today it's so fun to have mom's meet and like it's beyond just
40:57picking out my wedding dress it's also just another step within the process of like joining our families
41:02together i would not care what she has on i absolutely not she would have on that sweat
41:08and you know so he'd be perfectly happy that would be option two
41:12connor and i both come from big families we're super communal so i'm not surprised that our moms
41:17are getting along because they're midwest moms that love their kids
41:22this whole weekend was a lot for us of like picking up the marriage license we went back to
41:27brand rapids we met my dad and the big bad dude like we were he's just a wild card i
41:32didn't know
41:32how he was going to show up i mean he only had one daughter i'm his baby girl and you
41:38know there
41:38was some tough questions asked of connor by my aunts and my dad and everybody because i know they love
41:43me and want what's best it was great to see them interact they all love him gave me the confidence
41:48that i needed to go into today here she comes i was like also not my hair wow oh my
41:57god that is
41:58beautiful very cute i know i'm just like but does it feel too simple like is there i don't know
42:05oh honey
42:08how long i've been waiting for this i don't know i don't think you need all the sparkles and everything
42:14no this is like you i feel like it fits you so perfectly stunning it's absolutely gorgeous
42:26i guess you're right i'm not trying to be someone i'm not and try on glitter and
42:31squirrels connor will be blown away he hit it out of the park did he not
42:54i think you guys know i make decisions intuitively so maybe this is this is telling of itself but like
42:59i look at it like i'm not nervous i'm not necessarily feeling nervous when it comes to it were you
43:04guys
43:04nervous in your guys weddings they're coming into it or putting on tuxes or anything like that right
43:08yeah all right yeah yeah i think i bring a level of confidence and you know i don't want to
43:14say
43:14emotionless but a rock type thing in the sense of i'm very comfortable in situations like this so
43:18i'm not necessarily nervous it's more excited at this point um but i'm ready for the big day
43:23it does feel you know relatively normal for me you look like a cake topper i know it's an offer
43:40for me this is not a dress it's nice to finally see her get her moment she's obviously stunning she
43:50looks literally like barbie i want her to be happy and whatever that looks like i'm so proud of the
43:55journey she's had like a year ago i can't even imagine seeing her in this position she wants the best
44:03oh my god oh okay oh my god this is stunning you're getting wedding barbie yeah no this is
44:13totally your vibe just got up here that is very very i was like totally fine in there i swear
44:23perfect don't cry i'm like shaking you're you're a bride i'm a bride oh my goodness
44:30like we've been fiance's but now we're brine we're brine it's really incredible stunning this
44:36elegant it's exactly what i would picture you in it's you it is simple you know like frills or you
44:44know lace or anything but i feel absolutely like gorgeous in this dress you are gorgeous you deserve
44:50the world you are the most special person i know for so much of your life you felt like you
44:55weren't
44:56but it's everything you deserve and more and you look so beautiful you've always put everyone
45:01else i'm so happy for you i'm fine here comes the veil
45:11i'm literally gonna lose it oh no no it's just wild we're getting married in a week i remember having
45:18conversations and being like i'm not gonna get engaged no one's gonna like me and now i'm up here
45:23standing like ready to marry alex and okay bring alex in because i can't wait this is the one
45:30this is the wedding
45:43all right oh boy okay that looks good yeah this looks pretty sharp does it feel like something you
45:52want to wear to get married to the love of your life i mean i think this looks pretty damn
45:54good
45:55what do you think amber's gonna thank you i think she likes me regardless you like that oh yeah oh
46:00yeah
46:00ah you pull my hair i'd give you my 401k all right i'll be back all right i want the
46:07suit to fit
46:08right you know i'm a big boy but i want that thing to maybe slim you down a little bit
46:12dude i love uh like a
46:15champagne or brown tie but she doesn't care about what i'm gonna wear it's pretty nice it's a more
46:20complete love than i've ever had i'd come out wearing gym shorts she probably wouldn't like that
46:26but i could and i'd still be cool with it but uh you know we've been working on this relationship
46:31and
46:32and just think that the bond um and that's the that's the whole reason we're here that's the most
46:36important part
46:47he was like jamie this is like different i was like yeah finally for you you know what i mean
46:54like
46:54that's why i'm so happy for her oh my god oh my god that is so beautiful you're just like
47:10sparkling it's so beautiful beautiful oh wow oh wow that's so pretty what would emma say if she
47:27saw you she wanted all the sparkles and all the flowers so that's why i picked a sparkly girl she
47:31wanted that oh it's amazing and emma does deserve to like see her mommy be a princess and she deserves
47:39everything and i love you i'm done i am more excited to show emma what she loves looks like more
47:50than
47:50anyone know oh oh my god she deserves that and she deserves to know like what it's like to have
47:57a good
47:58guy loving her so do you so do you i think you're the best role model emma could ever have
48:04no and you
48:05do it very well this dress just matches her personality like you sparkle and she sees that
48:12it's totally so the greatest mom in the world
48:20this is the one
48:24it's a special moment you know to see yourself in a dress you've never been in a wedding dress or
48:29anything like that i feel very excited um oh my gosh it deserves the world but it never gives it
48:38to
48:38me i need jordan to meet emma but i think our love is strong enough to overcome most obstacles i
48:46am ready
48:46to be by jordan's side forever
49:14Let's go.
49:26Let's go.
49:48Let's go.
50:19Let's go.
50:48Let's go.
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