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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 1
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00:00:01USA! USA!
00:00:04Original U.S.
00:00:05Yes!
00:00:06Are you a redneck?
00:00:07Do I look like a redneck?
00:00:08Yeah.
00:00:09Two, one, go!
00:00:13Nervous? We're almost there.
00:00:14I'm excited to show you New York.
00:00:16I'm a little bit nervous, and I don't know why.
00:00:18New York's an incredible big, you know.
00:00:19It's so huge.
00:00:21This is real.
00:00:23Hey, Bibi.
00:00:24How are you?
00:00:24How are you?
00:00:25Handsome.
00:00:26My fiancé's name is Vito, and he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:00:31You want me to act something?
00:00:32Yes.
00:00:33Okay.
00:00:34You talking to me?
00:00:35You talking to me?
00:00:38Hey, Shay!
00:00:39Hey, ladies!
00:00:40I don't tell my fiancé, Annabelle, every single thing that goes on at the parties.
00:00:46I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
00:00:53At once.
00:00:56What the ?
00:00:57I'm giving Katie a lot of slack, and that's being straight in my face.
00:01:01This is bull .
00:01:05Only God can do it.
00:01:06He's gonna bring my husband to the USA.
00:01:08There's still that stereotype of Nigerians' cameras.
00:01:12But God literally created this man for me.
00:01:16Thank you, Lord.
00:01:18So we are getting married tomorrow.
00:01:21Are we?
00:01:22I have a choice.
00:01:23I just wanna go back to Brazil.
00:01:25No, no.
00:01:27I know you.
00:01:29At what point do you decide something that's just not meant to be?
00:01:34Something like...
00:01:35Don't worry, don't push them away by my actions.
00:01:40since we got to the united states everything in our relationship has changed i don't know
00:01:44what that means it means that i'm not ready to give you an answer and i still need time
00:01:49i just don't know who i am right now i just want to just be honest with me
00:01:54jesus christ
00:02:06so marissa's on her way right now her vip appointment's good champagne robe
00:02:10charcuterie board everything is well said you're the best
00:02:15yeah so i'll be there in about 10 minutes
00:02:19ladies how's it going just let her know we went ahead and built some ball gowns and a-lines for
00:02:23the bras that she'll be working with later awesome thank you guys so much
00:02:34hey shay good morning good morning marissa
00:02:38i'm marissa i'm 45 years old and i currently work as the chief operating officer and executive vice
00:02:43president at kleinfeld hello how are you doing this morning good thank you how are you good good
00:02:48can i complain tell me what's going on all right so today we have a kind of busy day we
00:02:52have 41
00:02:52appointments we have four luxe appointments right now and then starting at two o'clock we have three
00:02:57platinums all right kleinfeld bridal is an iconic wedding salon here in new york city we service
00:03:04almost 20 000 brides per year and everybody makes it on their bucket list if they're a bride to come
00:03:09shop us but you probably know us best because it's where they shoot the famous show say yes to the
00:03:13dress just a reminder your meeting is starting right now so if you want to go and hop in that
00:03:17yes i'll get
00:03:17you back thanks perfect okay i'll talk to you thanks i never get tired of hearing brides say
00:03:23yes is this possibly the one this is the one i'll be in like another room and like the bride
00:03:30won't
00:03:30even see me and i'll hear somebody like you know have their yes moments and i'll be like
00:03:33you know like and they don't even see me or hear me but it's just like a natural like yay
00:03:37they're saying
00:03:38yes congratulations enjoy your moment we're gonna get you some champagne thank you all right
00:03:44but even though i work in bridal my love life isn't a fairy tale i was married for six years
00:03:50before
00:03:50getting divorced and divorce left me as a single mom of two boys in a very high-powered career with
00:03:57a lot
00:03:57of stress so it was really hard to find love in my life that was until i took a girl's
00:04:04trip to the
00:04:04dominican republic and i met edward i was probably initially attracted to his looks
00:04:17edward has great lips he has a great butt he was working in entertainment a hotel that i was
00:04:24staying at on a girl's trip and i just thought he was so cute and so friendly
00:04:31he made me feel like a beautiful woman again and it's something that i hadn't felt in a really long
00:04:38time so when somebody ignites that feeling inside of you again you really don't forget about them
00:04:43so we had an instant connection but i didn't see it going anywhere an executive from new york meets
00:04:48hotel entertainment worker it just didn't seem like a likely match for us
00:04:55what are we having a hallway meeting in here always hallway meeting can i be a part of it
00:04:59i have a question yes where is mr edward when is he coming he's coming i mean i'm after all
00:05:07this
00:05:07time he's coming on sunday sunday yeah oh i know it was about three years in between when we first
00:05:14met
00:05:15to when we reconnected i was taking a trip to punta cana with my girlfriends so i texted him
00:05:25i was like oh my god i lost your number i i couldn't contact you i didn't know your last
00:05:30name i've
00:05:30tried every like social media outlet possible and he was like i can't believe that you actually
00:05:34texted me just now wow ever since that date we were pretty much in a solid relationship it happened
00:05:41really quick edward and i were long distance for two years and i visited him in dr every six to
00:05:47eight weeks but it made it really hard to balance being a single mom of two boys and managing a
00:05:52high
00:05:52stress career so eventually we made it official oh that's so sweet he said you know do you want me
00:06:02to get on one knee and it's like i don't really want to have to tell you to get on
00:06:06one knee so i was
00:06:06like don't worry about it working in bridal makes you a little numb to the whole bride experience and
00:06:18then a lot of people at work said are you crazy like you are just as much a bride as
00:06:23every other
00:06:24person that comes in here and you need to celebrate yourself i feel like i don't you look like his
00:06:29own
00:06:29perfect and once i got used to that idea that like yeah i am getting married this is a special
00:06:34time
00:06:35in my life i kind of embrace being a bride
00:06:48oh i'm looking for you guys dorothy caitlin hey how did it go so good yeah we love them
00:06:53what am i gonna see you again i don't know wait so he's coming sunday yeah is he freaking out
00:07:01i don't know if he's freaking out or if i'm more freaking out i mean like i have to teach
00:07:05him
00:07:05everything this person on a plane i know oh my god he got his he got his body ready did
00:07:10i tell you
00:07:11about that no he's gonna kill me for telling you so he decided that before he came to the united
00:07:15states he wanted to get an adult circumcision
00:07:20oh my god edward since the moment i met him has always been interested in getting his penis
00:07:27circumcised you had to have said something i didn't when you saw it did you go oh no i didn't
00:07:38maybe subconsciously he thought that he was it was more culturally appropriate here in the united
00:07:42states like what if he goes into a locker room with some men after the gym and you know
00:07:47so who knows why he does the things that he does but i'm let's just say that i'm happy that
00:07:52he did it
00:07:53and then he gets the surgery everything was fine he's a little bit of pain
00:07:57a couple days later when he wakes up in the morning he they expand
00:08:03and his stitches fell out so he ripped open his penis he ripped open his incision so he had to
00:08:11like
00:08:11go back to the doctor get re-stitched does it hurt he's gonna find out this weekend i'm gonna get
00:08:16a
00:08:16text on monday morning and say how was it how was it which was it wasn't better this way but
00:08:22that way
00:08:24was there a concern that might look different or like you know cut the wrong
00:08:29piece or something like that yeah a little bit but the doctor gave him the full green light to
00:08:34let his penis work as normal so we're gonna test that out when he gets here
00:08:39at first i was like we're gonna get married as soon as you get to the united states
00:08:42but now like reality's setting in and i'm like i really think i need to take the full 90 days
00:08:49so when marissa first told me about edward i was kind of leery
00:08:52i'm born and bred in brooklyn new york and you know i know scammers all my life believe me
00:08:57you really got the golden ticket marissa is a very successful business woman
00:09:01she has two beautiful kids she has a home in pennsylvania an apartment in new york city
00:09:06i think they're living a fairy tale right now and i think when reality hits who knows
00:09:11sometimes i feel like i have real life problems like real life yes you do like i have job problems
00:09:16i have kid problems and like you know he tells me about his problems and i'm like
00:09:19that's not a problem like oh a guest was complaining about something and i don't want to feel like my
00:09:25life
00:09:25is so much more important than his but in a way like i have a lot more at stake here
00:09:32there's a saying that goes i don't want you because i need you i need you because i want you
00:09:39do i need to have a man in my life to carry on no do i need a man in
00:09:45my life to give me financial
00:09:46support no and if i ultimately feel like the relationship is bringing me more stress or
00:09:54unhappiness then i'm gonna have to make a hard decision that i probably can't move forward with
00:09:59the marriage you know rome wasn't built in a day yeah i know i know we'll kind of be built
00:10:03in like 90
00:10:04oh my gosh
00:10:17hello
00:10:24to the marina please okay
00:10:34my name's mallory i'm 29 years old and i live in athens alabama and how would you describe
00:10:41yourself oh i don't know i don't like talking about myself basic white bitch
00:10:48and if you can't tell already i'm a long way from home
00:11:02how are you good um i've been traveling for i think over 20 hours i had some coffee on the
00:11:10plane
00:11:10you know extra double shot espresso type so yeah i'm ready to rock and roll
00:11:18are you from america yes i am yes which country i live in alabama
00:11:25my hometown of athens alabama is definitely your typical southern town which is a little bit redneck
00:11:32well kind of a lot of redneck my friends and i love to get into some crazy things for fun
00:11:50yeah involves a lot of drinking
00:12:02why you come here my fiance is turkish uh he lives here with some of his family
00:12:07and uh rosh gets to come back with me to america this time around very excited
00:12:14yeah that's good
00:12:16rosh is my fiancee i call him rosh because i cannot say his name correctly he's rosh
00:12:25and he is from marmarous turkey
00:12:30rosh is definitely on a scale of one to ten he's at ten i would place him higher than that
00:12:34honestly
00:12:35yeah my fiancee's hot as let's be real
00:12:39and i've come here to turkey to bring my baby back to america because i'm not taking any chances
00:12:45with him having a hard time getting into america
00:13:02my name is rashid i am 29 years old i am from marmarous turkey i am captain
00:13:14charter boat captain
00:13:18sorumluluklar çok büyük tekneyi kullanmak gelen turistleri aksiyon ve eğlenceliydi çok beğendim
00:13:26so
00:13:34ne güzel yerde durdun tam cennet gibi
00:13:36evet efendim burası cennet adası olarak geçiyor
00:13:40ee
00:13:41marmarous'in güzel yerlerinden birisi yani
00:13:43evet çok güzel
00:13:47marmarous cennet gibi yeri terk edeceğim
00:13:49yani terk edip america'ya gideceğim
00:13:59She is for me very sexy. I love her heart first and second I don't like sickening and she's I
00:14:10don't like sickening she's for me very good very perfect yeah I can say this
00:14:20when did you see your fiance last time it's been six months six months since we've seen each other
00:14:27do you want a hug yes yes very much almost two years ago I went to Greece for a girl's
00:14:36summer trip and we
00:14:38had a wild time and that's how I ended up meeting Rosh one day I am on the baths I
00:14:45take my phone
00:14:46and I saw Mallory like who is this I red side touch what is this spike spike I did spike
00:14:55and after half
00:14:57hour she spiked me and we much some dude that I just hung out with catch my drift afterwards he
00:15:06French braided my hair but I definitely planned on Rosh just being a one-night stand and that I would
00:15:15go
00:15:15back to America and I would never hear from him again I guess Rosh just fell in love with me
00:15:21the minute he laid his eyes on me the minute he laid his eyes on me baby I'm gonna go
00:15:25rush
00:15:41she say yes I start to cry and she hugged me and don't cry because I love so much
00:15:51I know you so much my lady
00:15:52there are a lot of what-ifs running through my mind right now um you know what if he hates
00:16:10America
00:16:11what if he hates Alabama what if he has a horrible time trying to find a job
00:16:16so I'm scared but I'm really happy um you know because this is the beginning of us
00:16:23never being apart ever again like we're closing that chapter of long distance in our relationship
00:16:29which is something that I think is so beautiful
00:16:55I want y'all to continue to pray for me because I know he's gonna bring my husband to the
00:16:58U.S.A.
00:16:59don't mess us up at the age of 12 I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly
00:17:06he told me I will have a marriage I was asking God where's my husband God said
00:17:12mohaka Nigeria every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay
00:17:18thank you Lord
00:17:22that's great
00:17:23it already was
00:17:24oh yeah
00:17:24if you live in Baruka we probably met up had a beer you're always gonna catch me having some fun
00:17:30so you're saying you wouldn't give up all the partying for Annabelle
00:17:34do you think I would
00:17:36no I don't
00:17:37okay I'm not I'm not gonna
00:17:41Jesus take me to the higher ground
00:17:44you lift me up and I am heaven
00:17:49it's something she got in her spirit for God to do and the devil tell it ain't gonna happen
00:17:54but the Lord says he wants you to embrace her
00:17:56thank you Lord
00:17:57cause that anointing of the breaking
00:17:58thank you Lord
00:17:59that's what I need you for
00:18:00that anointing of the breaking
00:18:21I'm Asha Montgomery I'm 38 years old and I'm from Alabaster, Alabama
00:18:26thank Jesus name you first
00:18:28thank you Lord
00:18:29I am Pentecostal
00:18:30you know you have other churches where you're gonna sing hymns or there's more to do
00:18:35you know but in my church we get down
00:18:39you got all that money and you still man
00:18:42you got the mansion and you still ain't happy
00:18:46but my church is in the Lord
00:18:49thank you God
00:18:50as a Pentecostal we believe the entire Bible
00:18:54so we still believe people do miracles
00:18:56and God gives everybody a gift and God has given me multiple gifts
00:19:02like I feel like I'm a little blessed
00:19:04at the age of 12 I was just in a store and I remember God stopping me and he said
00:19:15listen
00:19:16so I'm in the middle of the story and I'm just listening to the music
00:19:19and then the Holy Spirit said this will be the next song that comes on
00:19:24so I'm waiting for the next song to come
00:19:26and then it came on and it was what God told me
00:19:32literally I was in the middle of that store
00:19:34shocked
00:19:35listening to this NSYNC song
00:19:36I could not believe it
00:19:37I knew this song before this song came on
00:19:40and a voice told me
00:19:42and it wasn't like an audible voice
00:19:43it was like a knowing
00:19:46and then my pastor
00:19:48he confirmed
00:19:48he's like you know
00:19:49you have a prophetic gift
00:19:51I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly
00:19:55it was like my aha moment
00:19:56like it made sense
00:20:00God's going to fill you up for your journey
00:20:02but he told me the reason he didn't take you out
00:20:04because her prayer brought you out
00:20:13now when it comes to talking to Tom
00:20:15it's a heavenly language
00:20:16so it's a language that I'm speaking
00:20:18that God understands
00:20:19but the devil doesn't
00:20:22it's like almost like if you're going to war
00:20:24like you might write stuff in a different code
00:20:27thank you Lord
00:20:28y'all got to stop
00:20:30because we got to go on a testimony series
00:20:33praise the Lord everybody
00:20:34praise the Lord
00:20:35praise the Lord everybody
00:20:37let me tell you apostle
00:20:39uh-huh
00:20:39I'm going to try not to cry
00:20:41oh my God
00:20:41every prophetic word you spoke of my life
00:20:44is coming to pay
00:20:45thank you Lord
00:20:47hallelujah
00:20:48because I know I used to worry
00:20:50it's one petition I put before God
00:20:53and it was very special to me
00:20:55and I've been waiting ever since I was 16
00:20:58for God to answer this prayer
00:21:00Lord like when are you going to bring my husband
00:21:02and it was just not coming
00:21:04it just seemed like it just was not coming
00:21:06and it just finally happened
00:21:07he told me I will have a marriage
00:21:11December 2023
00:21:12a notification came across my screen
00:21:14that's like here comes the bride
00:21:16and I was just like
00:21:18okay Lord I got you
00:21:20February God said
00:21:21get ready
00:21:25March
00:21:25I was asking God
00:21:27I was like okay Lord
00:21:29where's my husband
00:21:30he said it's not
00:21:31he's not close
00:21:33so I knew
00:21:34I had to do something different
00:21:36I had to widen my search
00:21:37abroad maybe
00:21:38and within two weeks
00:21:40we matched with each other
00:21:41not that cute
00:21:44Maxwell is my fiance
00:21:46he's 28 years old
00:21:47and he's from Akka, Nigeria
00:21:49hey sweetie
00:21:50how you doing
00:21:51you know you love my dimples
00:21:53so I just want to show it to you
00:21:57when I saw him on the app
00:21:59he was cute
00:22:00he has the cutest little nose
00:22:02like I love his nose the most
00:22:05and from the jump
00:22:07Maxwell was speaking
00:22:08the language of Asia
00:22:09he is the male version of me
00:22:12like we both love business
00:22:14we both love the Lord
00:22:15we're both family oriented
00:22:18it's like God literally
00:22:20created this man for me
00:22:22I couldn't have dreamed it even better
00:22:24but I feel like
00:22:26if somebody came to me literally
00:22:28and said that they were dating
00:22:30somebody from Nigeria
00:22:32me, Asia
00:22:33would say you're probably getting scammed
00:22:36so I knew that I had to
00:22:38meet him one on one
00:22:39and see him face to face
00:22:40to prove that this is legitimate
00:22:46my friend and I flew to Nigeria
00:22:47she was actually going to meet
00:22:49Maxwell's friend Silas
00:22:51like Silas was always
00:22:53over Maxwell's house
00:22:55so he's like
00:22:56will you hook me up
00:22:58with one of your friends
00:22:58and I was like
00:22:59yeah I'll hook you up
00:23:00and since everything was going so well
00:23:03for me and Maxwell
00:23:03we decided we wanted to introduce
00:23:05our two best friends to each other
00:23:06and so like when I got there
00:23:08to be honest
00:23:09I feel like everything happened
00:23:10the way it's supposed to happen
00:23:12and it could have been better
00:23:13it was the time of our lives
00:23:16and on the third night
00:23:18while we were in Lagos
00:23:19all of a sudden
00:23:20Maxwell's best friend Silas
00:23:21proposed to my friend
00:23:22you know what
00:23:23I thought they were crazy
00:23:25I really did
00:23:26and so I'm sure Maxwell's like
00:23:28well I'm going to propose
00:23:30to Asia tomorrow
00:23:30and so we were at this restaurant
00:23:36my plate was covered up
00:23:37his plate was covered up
00:23:38so I was like
00:23:39maybe they're just giving the fool hot
00:23:40and then as soon as
00:23:41he lifted the plate
00:23:41he was like
00:23:42will you marry me
00:23:47I feel like
00:23:51there's still that stereotype
00:23:54of Nigerians being scammers
00:23:57but when I tell you
00:23:58every prophecy
00:23:59and every word lined up
00:24:01Maxwell is the man
00:24:02I have been waiting for
00:24:06I just want y'all to pray for me
00:24:08because my fiance
00:24:08he goes for his interview
00:24:10to get his visa
00:24:11to come to the USA
00:24:14that's prophetic
00:24:16so I want y'all to continue
00:24:17to pray for me
00:24:18because there's one song
00:24:19in my spirit
00:24:20because I know he's going
00:24:20to bring my husband
00:24:21to the USA
00:24:23you got that beat
00:24:24don't mess us up
00:24:25don't mess us up
00:24:48so now
00:24:49Maxwell and Silas
00:24:50they have their interviews
00:24:51on the same day
00:24:52so they're planning to come
00:24:54to the US together
00:24:54but you know
00:24:56me and my best friend
00:24:57dating two best friends
00:24:58and getting engaged
00:24:59at the same time
00:25:00people in my circle
00:25:02definitely think
00:25:02Maxwell is a scammer
00:25:03but I know for a fact
00:25:05that Maxwell was brought
00:25:06to me by God
00:25:07I have no doubt
00:25:08in my mind
00:25:09and if you got God
00:25:10on your side
00:25:10what could go wrong?
00:25:14Tell everybody
00:25:31I walk in like
00:25:33how do you do
00:25:33I need a little liquor
00:25:34with me just to set the mood
00:25:35and I don't mean
00:25:36to be rude
00:25:36or even act a fool
00:25:37I just do a little better
00:25:38with an attitude
00:25:39so
00:25:40Shay!
00:25:41That's a great story list
00:25:50I'm Shay
00:25:51I'm 54 years young
00:25:53I'm from Quilt City, USA
00:25:55Paducah, Kentucky
00:25:56Sup?
00:25:57I'm a realtor
00:25:58I've also got my
00:25:59Prince Blocks
00:26:00Schneer license
00:26:00700 now
00:26:0189999
00:26:02I've got 9
00:26:03I've got a thousand
00:26:04back here
00:26:05there's about
00:26:0511, 11, 11
00:26:0612, 12, 12, 12, 13
00:26:08boom
00:26:08so it's sold
00:26:12Hey, what's up?
00:26:13How you doing, buddy?
00:26:15If you live in Paducah
00:26:16you probably know who I am
00:26:17we probably met up
00:26:18had a beer
00:26:19Hey, right?
00:26:20How are you?
00:26:21Good, how are you?
00:26:22It's always 5 o'clock somewhere
00:26:24so you're always gonna catch me
00:26:25having some fun
00:26:33I think women are just drawn to him
00:26:38Shay's a little flirty
00:26:40at times with some girls
00:26:42maybe a kiss on the cheek
00:26:43hugs, you know
00:26:45those kinds of things
00:26:48I mean, if he were single
00:26:49I might consider dating him
00:26:53It ain't a cookout
00:26:54unless we get it on us
00:26:58How is it?
00:27:00Man, it's coffee
00:27:02I bet Annabelle in there
00:27:03never had barbecue
00:27:04like this before
00:27:06Annabelle's my fiancée
00:27:10She's 54 years old
00:27:11and she lives
00:27:12in L.O. City, Philippines
00:27:14and she arrives
00:27:15in America
00:27:16in just a few days
00:27:17and I cannot wait
00:27:18absolutely cannot wait
00:27:19I'm counting the minutes
00:27:20I'm gonna follow
00:27:21wherever you go
00:27:22We met through
00:27:23my friend Greg
00:27:24He's here six months
00:27:26and he spends six months
00:27:27a year in the Philippines
00:27:29with his wife
00:27:30His wife and Annabelle
00:27:31are like best friends
00:27:33and they just decided
00:27:34that we would be
00:27:35a good match
00:27:36and he introduced us
00:27:37on a video call
00:27:39I turn around
00:27:40and I've got a Filipino girl
00:27:41in my face
00:27:42and say hi
00:27:43and I say hi
00:27:44and Annabelle's just
00:27:46kind of looking at me
00:27:47like
00:27:47and I'm like
00:27:48so you don't understand me
00:27:50and she's like
00:27:50hmm
00:27:51and then I'm like
00:27:53Greg
00:27:53this girl don't even
00:27:54speak English
00:27:55and she's like
00:27:56just kidding
00:28:01after that call
00:28:02we started talking
00:28:03every day
00:28:03I can't wait
00:28:05to hug you
00:28:06and kiss you
00:28:07and
00:28:10I think it was
00:28:11you know
00:28:12a God sent thing
00:28:13it wasn't anything
00:28:14I was looking for
00:28:15but she's such a
00:28:16sweet caring person
00:28:18that God knew
00:28:19I needed that
00:28:19and it didn't matter
00:28:21if she was across
00:28:21the street
00:28:22or across the world
00:28:23and it just so happened
00:28:24she's across the world
00:28:25miss you baby
00:28:26love you
00:28:27goodnight
00:28:28goodnight
00:28:30when is Annabelle coming?
00:28:32just a few days
00:28:33she'll be here soon
00:28:33a few days?
00:28:34I can't wait
00:28:34yep
00:28:36about 10 or 11 months
00:28:37after our daily talks
00:28:39I finally decided
00:28:41I'm going
00:28:41to the Philippines
00:28:46the first night
00:28:47where you know
00:28:47I'm bored
00:28:48it's been a long trip
00:28:49and she goes
00:28:50you feel like
00:28:51getting some deet
00:28:51are you hungry?
00:28:52and I'm like
00:28:52let me get a shower
00:28:54and then
00:28:54you know
00:28:55I'll get dressed
00:28:55let's go get some dinner
00:28:56so I get in the shower
00:28:58and I turn around
00:28:59and Annabelle's
00:29:00right there at the shower
00:29:01I'm like
00:29:02can I help you?
00:29:04oh
00:29:04I was just gonna
00:29:05come in and scrub
00:29:06your body
00:29:06I'm like
00:29:08what?
00:29:09so she takes her clothes off
00:29:10and climbs right
00:29:11in the shower with me
00:29:12and like
00:29:13give me the soap
00:29:14she's scrubbing
00:29:16every inch of me
00:29:17she's going into crevices
00:29:18I didn't even know
00:29:19I had
00:29:21so after that
00:29:22she trimmed
00:29:23my toenails
00:29:23and
00:29:24I've still got to
00:29:25show her
00:29:26that I keep
00:29:26my toenails
00:29:27clean now
00:29:28I mean
00:29:29it's just crazy
00:29:30but
00:29:30yeah
00:29:31Annabelle
00:29:31I'm keeping them
00:29:31trimmed
00:29:32until you get here
00:29:36oh my god
00:29:40that's pretty well
00:29:41sealed the deal
00:29:42I proposed to her
00:29:43like a couple days later
00:29:45I guess
00:29:46it's easy to get
00:29:47comfortable with somebody
00:29:48after they scrubbed
00:29:49your butt cheeks
00:29:52where's the beer
00:29:52card at
00:29:53Greg?
00:29:54I don't know
00:29:54we're about to have
00:29:56to find it
00:29:57I just think
00:29:58Annabelle's gonna
00:29:59calm him down
00:29:59a bunch
00:30:00when she gets here
00:30:01calm me down?
00:30:02you know
00:30:03she always tells me
00:30:03like drink moderately
00:30:05and how many beers
00:30:06you had
00:30:06and I'm like
00:30:07I usually tell her
00:30:08about a third
00:30:08you know
00:30:08if it's been a dozen
00:30:09oh it's like
00:30:10three or four
00:30:11you know
00:30:11she said it was over
00:30:12when she gets here
00:30:13but I think
00:30:14she does it more
00:30:15just to kind of
00:30:15keep me honest
00:30:16to say like
00:30:17don't get too wild
00:30:19but she told you
00:30:20no more?
00:30:21over the years
00:30:22like
00:30:22about every time
00:30:23I'm at a party
00:30:24or the bar
00:30:25hey
00:30:26oh
00:30:26Shane
00:30:26we're not doing that
00:30:29okay Annabelle
00:30:29we'll see
00:30:30call you when I get home
00:30:32when we're partying
00:30:33I mean
00:30:33sometimes it gets
00:30:34a little bit wild
00:30:35and things happen
00:30:36that you know
00:30:37may be a little
00:30:38out of line
00:30:38in some people's books
00:30:39but you know
00:30:41kind of like Vegas
00:30:42what happens at the lake
00:30:43stays at the lake
00:30:44so why does everybody
00:30:45got to know everything?
00:30:46when she calls
00:30:47it's like
00:30:48who's that with you?
00:30:49how many people's with you?
00:30:51you know
00:30:51I gotta pan the camera
00:30:52and I think she worries
00:30:54about me
00:30:54that's why she gives me
00:30:55a little bit of the
00:30:56issue with
00:30:57hey
00:30:58I don't want you
00:30:58doing it as much
00:30:59so you're saying
00:31:00you wouldn't give up
00:31:01all the partying
00:31:02and the lake
00:31:03and all of that
00:31:04for Annabelle
00:31:06if it came down to it
00:31:07do you think I would?
00:31:09no
00:31:09I don't
00:31:13obviously I don't tell Annabelle
00:31:14every single thing
00:31:15that goes on
00:31:16at the parties
00:31:17there's been things
00:31:18that I didn't mention
00:31:19to Annabelle
00:31:20since we've been together
00:31:21since we've met
00:31:22it's just things
00:31:23I don't feel like
00:31:24you know
00:31:25why should I bring that up
00:31:26and just start something
00:31:28but people in Baruka
00:31:29they like to gossip
00:31:30I mean you hear about it
00:31:31I see it
00:31:32you've got the Facebookers
00:31:34a lot of them
00:31:35like to talk
00:31:35and she finds out
00:31:36from someone else
00:31:37you know
00:31:38it would just be
00:31:39a big mess
00:31:40she said
00:31:41are you gonna give it up?
00:31:42no I'm not
00:31:42I'm not gonna
00:31:44either she's in
00:31:45or she's out?
00:31:46yeah she's in or out
00:31:49it'll all work out
00:31:50but no
00:31:51I'm not gonna give her it up
00:32:00I've been traveling
00:32:01around the world
00:32:02for the past three years
00:32:03living a carefree
00:32:05nomadic lifestyle
00:32:06uh I was a little bit
00:32:07crazy the past two months
00:32:08I like kissed people
00:32:10while drunk again
00:32:11did you tell Josh
00:32:13about this?
00:32:19anything's got you
00:32:21anything without you
00:32:29currently it's five minutes
00:32:32until we land
00:32:33and I'm feeling tasty
00:32:36show me that you want me
00:32:44I'm Katie
00:32:45I'm 26
00:32:46and I'm from Portland Oregon
00:32:48I'm back in America
00:32:51and I'm trying to find my bag
00:32:53miss the carpet
00:32:55it's classic
00:32:56it feels like it's been so long
00:32:59well it kind of has been so long
00:33:01I've been traveling around the world
00:33:03for the past three years
00:33:04living a carefree
00:33:05nomadic lifestyle
00:33:08I definitely had a hope
00:33:09guys um
00:33:10don't tell my grandma
00:33:13no
00:33:15got it
00:33:17but now I'm back
00:33:18in my hometown of Portland
00:33:20and I'm going to be settling down
00:33:22so in love with procrastination
00:33:25like in Gaston
00:33:26no direction
00:33:27try so hard to find a distraction
00:33:29look around now
00:33:31look around now
00:33:32frozen by indecision
00:33:34like in Hitspa
00:33:35no intention
00:33:36look around now
00:33:38look around now
00:33:41hello
00:33:42hey
00:33:44it's been so long
00:33:48what really like drove me to travel the last few years is
00:33:51I'm a really impulsive person
00:33:53and I get a bit bored with routine
00:33:59for example
00:34:00my friend told me about this program
00:34:01where you could pet sit around the world
00:34:03in exchange for free rent
00:34:04and then I signed up the next day
00:34:06and I was like
00:34:06okay this is what I'm doing
00:34:07when my lease ends
00:34:08in like a few months
00:34:09sorry
00:34:10my boob got really itchy
00:34:11one sec
00:34:13so when's Josh coming
00:34:14oh he's coming tomorrow
00:34:15and then like
00:34:16what are you guys's like plans
00:34:17when he like comes in
00:34:19actually
00:34:19well it's kind of a secret
00:34:20so you can't tell Josh
00:34:23Josh is my fiance
00:34:24and he is British
00:34:30stereotypical British man
00:34:31he's a bit reserved
00:34:33but what I love about Josh
00:34:34is that like
00:34:35I feel like he doesn't judge at all
00:34:37because I have OCD
00:34:39and he really understands
00:34:40like my quirks
00:34:41and like my personality traits
00:34:44tell me the whole story
00:34:45about your personality
00:34:46really
00:34:46are you sure
00:34:47you want to hear that
00:34:48yeah
00:34:48okay
00:34:48okay
00:34:51so I was pet sitting
00:34:52in the UK
00:34:54and occasionally
00:34:55I would swipe on Tinder
00:34:57and the first person
00:34:58who responded
00:34:59was this guy named Dave
00:35:01and he said
00:35:02I'm hanging out with some friends
00:35:03want to join us
00:35:04and that was perfect for me
00:35:07me and Dave
00:35:07like went on a little date
00:35:08we were taking tequila shots
00:35:10we were hitting it off
00:35:11we were making out
00:35:11I had like met
00:35:12some of his friends that night
00:35:14including Josh
00:35:16but then later on in the night
00:35:17Dave got kicked out
00:35:18I called Josh's other friend hot
00:35:21I made out with his other friend
00:35:23I tried to make out
00:35:24with his best friend
00:35:25but he had a girlfriend
00:35:26and then I asked Josh to make out
00:35:28and he said no
00:35:29you just made out
00:35:30with at least two of my friends
00:35:32um no
00:35:33I have this video
00:35:34of me being really drunk
00:35:35in the bathroom
00:35:36there was this other cute guy
00:35:38with long hair
00:35:39I forgot his name
00:35:43but I want him
00:35:45bar clothes
00:35:46there was this guy
00:35:47being creepy outside
00:35:47and I was like
00:35:48oh can you walk me home
00:35:49so Josh said
00:35:50yeah I'll walk you home
00:35:51and then I remember
00:35:52we just like made out
00:35:54really like
00:35:56passionately on a bench
00:35:57and then he said
00:35:58he had to go pee
00:35:59and I was like okay
00:36:00so then I just sprinted home
00:36:01and I was kind of embarrassed
00:36:02because I had just like
00:36:03left him peeing in a bush
00:36:04and that's how I met my fiance
00:36:07can I have a drink
00:36:09yes
00:36:10drink
00:36:12I was like kind of lonely
00:36:14because I was solo traveling
00:36:15and I said
00:36:16hey if you're free
00:36:17this one random weekend
00:36:18you can join me
00:36:19for a pet sit in Milan
00:36:20and then he said
00:36:21okay
00:36:23I was just like
00:36:24wow he'll go to Milan
00:36:25for me
00:36:25wow
00:36:28we had a really great time
00:36:30in Milan
00:36:30we had sex
00:36:32a bunch
00:36:33I learned he was allergic
00:36:34to nuts
00:36:34and I shouldn't kiss him
00:36:35if I have nuts in my mouth
00:36:37not nuts in my mouth
00:36:43he's like very polite
00:36:44very funny
00:36:45more reserved
00:36:46like he wouldn't talk
00:36:47about anal
00:36:48on the subway
00:36:49that would make him
00:36:50really uncomfortable
00:36:51would you talk about
00:36:52anal on the subway
00:36:53I would definitely
00:36:54talk about anal
00:36:55on the subway
00:36:57but yeah
00:36:58I just really love him
00:37:00cheers everyone
00:37:01cheers
00:37:02it's really nice
00:37:03to see you guys
00:37:12how was the trip back
00:37:16it was long
00:37:17so I went from
00:37:18London to Mexico
00:37:19for my friend's wedding
00:37:20it was really lovely
00:37:21but
00:37:21party a little too hard
00:37:24did going to the wedding
00:37:25like make you feel excited
00:37:26or like nervous
00:37:27for your own wedding
00:37:28or was it
00:37:28yeah
00:37:28no
00:37:29it was definitely
00:37:29I definitely like
00:37:30teared up
00:37:30I started like
00:37:31thinking about like
00:37:32my vows
00:37:33when they were doing
00:37:33their vows
00:37:35I wasn't really
00:37:36thinking about marriage
00:37:37but
00:37:37Josh proposed to me
00:37:40at sunset
00:37:40on the coast
00:37:41in Turkey
00:37:43how long
00:37:44is the time
00:37:44you did the classic
00:37:47proposal thing
00:37:48where you pretend
00:37:48you're taking a picture
00:37:49but you're actually
00:37:50taking a video
00:37:51I wanted to
00:37:52if you would marry me
00:37:54I didn't know
00:37:55this was coming
00:37:55and I want to look cuter
00:38:04Josh is one of the few
00:38:05people in my life
00:38:06that truly gets me
00:38:07and I'm super excited
00:38:08to marry him
00:38:09but I'm also worried
00:38:10my OCD causes me
00:38:12to make some pretty
00:38:13bad decisions
00:38:13and I'm afraid
00:38:14it could end
00:38:15our relationship
00:38:16how's it going
00:38:17it's going good
00:38:19how stressed do you feel
00:38:21like on a scale
00:38:22of 1 to 10
00:38:23I don't know
00:38:25maybe like a 9
00:38:26that's really high
00:38:28I feel like
00:38:29I was a little bit crazy
00:38:30the past 2 months
00:38:32I like
00:38:33kissed people
00:38:34a little drunk again
00:38:35it was bad
00:38:37did you tell Josh
00:38:38about this?
00:38:40I apologized
00:38:4120 million times
00:38:43he was like
00:38:44this is not good
00:38:45why did you do that?
00:38:47I have intrusive thoughts
00:38:48as part of my OCD
00:38:50when I get drunk
00:38:51I really want to make out
00:38:52with everyone I know
00:38:53especially when I'm
00:38:54in a happy mood
00:38:55or in a really
00:38:56insecure bad mood
00:38:58I just get really
00:38:59into the moment
00:39:00and I'm like
00:39:00I think making out
00:39:01with this person
00:39:01is a great idea
00:39:03and that isn't
00:39:05always exciting
00:39:06for Josh
00:39:07especially because
00:39:08it's been a bit
00:39:09more frequent lately
00:39:11like I really don't
00:39:12want to hurt him
00:39:12I think it's more
00:39:14just like
00:39:14oh I really
00:39:15want to feel
00:39:15wanted
00:39:19I'm always honest
00:39:20with Josh
00:39:20I tell him
00:39:21every time
00:39:22that I do
00:39:23something out of line
00:39:25but he
00:39:26says he can't
00:39:27see himself married
00:39:28to me
00:39:28if I keep
00:39:29doing this
00:39:29in the future
00:39:32like
00:39:32I was there
00:39:33in your last
00:39:33relationship
00:39:34when it ended
00:39:35because you
00:39:36were making out
00:39:37with another person
00:39:38and I
00:39:39don't want to
00:39:39see that happen
00:39:40again
00:39:40and Josh
00:39:41is such a good guy
00:39:42I don't want to
00:39:42see him getting hurt
00:39:43either
00:39:44I would like
00:39:45to stop
00:39:45wanting to make
00:39:46out with people
00:39:47but I feel like
00:39:48every time I drink
00:39:48my brain has
00:39:50another plan
00:39:50for me
00:39:51so I'm worried
00:39:53that this is
00:39:53going to be
00:39:54a hard thing
00:39:54to give up
00:40:00I love Annabelle
00:40:01and she isn't
00:40:02even here yet
00:40:02I don't want y'all
00:40:03getting off on
00:40:03the wrong foot
00:40:04because you've
00:40:04already got
00:40:05an attitude
00:40:05about it
00:40:06I'm his daughter
00:40:07I'm first
00:40:08and I don't
00:40:09expect her
00:40:09to come over
00:40:10here and just
00:40:10think that
00:40:10she's before
00:40:11me and everything
00:40:13well I hope
00:40:13it works out
00:40:14if not we're
00:40:14gonna have
00:40:14some problems
00:40:26I love you
00:40:27I love you so much
00:40:29I love you so much
00:40:29I love you so much
00:40:30too baby
00:40:31give me a kiss
00:40:32are you ready to
00:40:33come to America
00:40:34of course baby
00:40:37comfortable
00:40:38come on
00:40:40watch my hat
00:40:41don't lose it
00:40:41yeah
00:40:42don't lose it
00:40:42I cannot believe
00:40:45that it's been
00:40:46six months
00:40:47since we've
00:40:48touched each other
00:40:48when I saw
00:40:49Mallory
00:40:51I say to myself
00:40:52oh my god
00:40:53Koba is coming
00:40:54like
00:40:55boots
00:40:56hats
00:40:56Koba hats
00:40:58I feel like
00:40:59cow
00:41:00she will catch
00:41:01me
00:41:01like
00:41:10come
00:41:10no
00:41:11come
00:41:12come
00:41:12now I'm scared
00:41:13what if I fall
00:41:15I can say this
00:41:17this is my dream
00:41:18with my fiance
00:41:20I will do
00:41:22Titanic
00:41:22everything about
00:41:23the sinking part
00:41:24yeah
00:41:25sinking and dying
00:41:25part you know
00:41:26this is a
00:41:27very good idea
00:41:28thanks
00:41:31I'm gonna fall
00:41:32no
00:41:34that's it
00:41:37cool
00:41:38baby
00:41:40no
00:41:43come
00:41:43okay
00:41:44be careful
00:41:45okay
00:41:45okay
00:41:50how do you feel
00:41:51tired
00:41:52how do you feel
00:41:53tired
00:41:54good baby
00:41:56are you excited
00:41:57are you excited
00:41:58of course
00:41:58I just can't believe
00:41:59that this time
00:42:01you'll be coming
00:42:02with me
00:42:03America
00:42:04America
00:42:06it'll be good
00:42:07I will miss
00:42:09on the boat
00:42:10on the sea
00:42:10in the sea
00:42:11we'll figure it out
00:42:12it's a lot different
00:42:13than Alabama
00:42:14of course
00:42:14we're a little further
00:42:17we're not as close
00:42:18to the beach
00:42:20Raj
00:42:21what has
00:42:22Mallory told you
00:42:23about Athens
00:42:24Alabama
00:42:24just
00:42:27redneck
00:42:29so what
00:42:30mean
00:42:31redneck
00:42:31redneck
00:42:33is a type of person
00:42:34in America
00:42:35yeah
00:42:35they love
00:42:37NASCAR
00:42:38they love
00:42:39hunting
00:42:39America
00:42:40they don't like
00:42:41other country
00:42:45they don't like
00:42:46Muslim
00:42:48there's good people
00:42:50and bad people
00:42:51yeah
00:42:51in different countries
00:42:52yes
00:42:53there's good rednecks
00:42:54and bad rednecks
00:42:54they have friends
00:42:55redneck
00:42:56do I have friends
00:42:57that are rednecks
00:42:58yeah
00:42:58I mean
00:42:59yeah
00:42:59yeah
00:43:00yeah
00:43:02yeah
00:43:03who
00:43:03you'll meet them
00:43:04eventually
00:43:05I will see
00:43:07so how do you feel
00:43:09leaving all the family
00:43:11behind
00:43:12this is
00:43:14very sad
00:43:14I am very sad
00:43:15about this
00:43:24but I don't want
00:43:25to think about this
00:43:26because when I think
00:43:27this I want to cry
00:43:28I know
00:43:29it's okay
00:43:29cry
00:43:30this is not okay
00:43:31very very
00:43:32it's okay
00:43:32this is for you okay
00:43:34it's okay
00:43:41it's gonna be a big
00:43:42adjustment
00:43:44these next few days
00:43:46I definitely
00:43:47am dreading
00:43:48just because
00:43:49he's going to have
00:43:50to say goodbye
00:43:50to his friends
00:43:51and family
00:43:52who he's never
00:43:53been away from
00:43:54in his life
00:43:55ever
00:43:57I don't think
00:43:58I've really
00:43:59prepared
00:43:59Rosh
00:44:00for how life
00:44:01is going to be
00:44:02in Alabama
00:44:02I have very
00:44:03conservative friends
00:44:04and there are
00:44:05some that are
00:44:06super into
00:44:08the deportations
00:44:12I am excited
00:44:13I am nervous
00:44:16we'll figure it out
00:44:19he says he's ready
00:44:21for it
00:44:21but I really
00:44:22don't think
00:44:22he understands
00:44:24what he signed up
00:44:41for
00:44:41hey dad
00:44:42hi guys
00:44:43dad do you want us
00:44:44to come look at those
00:44:45clothes for Annabelle
00:44:46oh yeah
00:44:46come on over
00:44:47okay
00:44:48yeah I want you
00:44:49to see that stuff
00:44:50are you even ready
00:44:51for Annabelle to get
00:44:51here
00:44:52getting there
00:44:52hopefully
00:44:54stressful
00:44:54slowly but surely
00:44:55we're nervous
00:44:56I know
00:44:57it's going to be weird
00:45:06yeah y'all check it out
00:45:07I mean it's just stuff
00:45:08I've been buying for
00:45:09I want y'all to
00:45:10get your opinion
00:45:11it's that stuff
00:45:11on the bottom
00:45:13I've been married twice
00:45:14unfortunately I've been
00:45:15divorced twice
00:45:16but I've got some
00:45:17great kids
00:45:18my son Hunter
00:45:19he's the oldest
00:45:20and then we've got
00:45:20my middle daughters
00:45:21Abigail and Allison
00:45:23and then
00:45:24my youngest child
00:45:25Madison
00:45:26I'm honestly kind of
00:45:27surprised you did
00:45:28halfway decent
00:45:30and that's her shoe
00:45:31rack over there
00:45:32so she's got shoes
00:45:33she likes all those
00:45:35yeah
00:45:36after we got engaged
00:45:37Annabelle and I
00:45:38I started
00:45:39getting her clothes
00:45:40so she's got stuff
00:45:41when she gets here
00:45:42I'm gonna have to
00:45:43steal these
00:45:44those are too big
00:45:44for you
00:45:46Allison's always
00:45:47trendy
00:45:48and knows what's
00:45:48going on
00:45:49so yeah
00:45:49I mean I want her
00:45:50to wear kind of
00:45:51the same clothes
00:45:51Allison type stuff
00:45:53and what the other
00:45:54women are wearing
00:45:54so I got those
00:45:55at a clothes out sale
00:45:56in Florida
00:45:57they were like
00:45:58250 bucks
00:45:59she might not wear them
00:46:00but they're kind of
00:46:01cool looking
00:46:01yeah
00:46:02I mean she's got
00:46:03very limited
00:46:04she's got like
00:46:04three outfits
00:46:05I mean there's
00:46:06nothing wrong
00:46:07with what she's wearing
00:46:07it's cute
00:46:08but she's got to
00:46:08have more
00:46:09and I just want her
00:46:10to fit in
00:46:11and you know
00:46:12not stick out
00:46:14I mean just
00:46:15feel comfortable
00:46:16when she's around
00:46:16people you know
00:46:17how long have you
00:46:18been getting
00:46:18all this stuff
00:46:19dad
00:46:19I mean
00:46:20two and a half
00:46:20three years
00:46:21probably
00:46:22I love my dad
00:46:23we're super super
00:46:24close
00:46:24and I even
00:46:25am his neighbor
00:46:26he bought me
00:46:27the house next door
00:46:28so that I could
00:46:29be with him
00:46:29all the time
00:46:30free rent
00:46:30free child care
00:46:31I get to keep up
00:46:32with what he's doing
00:46:33who he's seeing
00:46:34it's awesome
00:46:36do you ever think
00:46:37it's gonna like
00:46:37bug Annabelle
00:46:38that like
00:46:39you spend so much
00:46:40time with dad
00:46:40I don't know
00:46:41I feel like
00:46:42you're gonna like
00:46:42kind of turn into
00:46:43like a third wheel
00:46:44like you guys
00:46:44are gonna have to like
00:46:45have your like
00:46:45scheduled
00:46:46like time together
00:46:47and stuff
00:46:48yeah
00:46:48yeah potentially
00:46:49that's a worry
00:46:50for sure
00:46:50I don't think so
00:46:52us going to do
00:46:53something by ourselves
00:46:54is probably gonna be
00:46:55like out of the ordinary
00:46:55she might get offended
00:46:56that like we are going
00:46:58you know
00:46:58well I think she'll
00:46:59just go with us
00:47:00I mean anything we do
00:47:02right but that's what
00:47:03that's what I'm saying
00:47:04is like
00:47:05I don't want her
00:47:06to go all the time
00:47:10me and my dad
00:47:11do almost everything
00:47:12together
00:47:12we go out on the lake
00:47:13together
00:47:13we drink together
00:47:14if I want to go out
00:47:15and watch the game
00:47:16on TV
00:47:17I typically call my dad
00:47:18so I'm nervous
00:47:20to meet Annabelle
00:47:20I hope she knows
00:47:22that I'm his daughter
00:47:23I'm first
00:47:24and I don't expect
00:47:26her to come over here
00:47:26and just think that
00:47:27she's before me
00:47:28and everything
00:47:30all right I have to go
00:47:31love you back
00:47:32yes sir
00:47:32if you're back
00:47:33you'll be seeing Annabelle
00:47:33I guess I will
00:47:35I'm excited
00:47:35all right bye
00:47:36Annabelle
00:47:36and she
00:47:36Abby was like
00:47:38humming your tree
00:47:39about that
00:47:39I know
00:47:40I mean she's right though
00:47:41I mean it is
00:47:42gonna be different
00:47:42you need to also
00:47:45you know
00:47:45cut her a little bit
00:47:46of slack
00:47:46you know
00:47:46I've never like
00:47:47talked about a woman
00:47:49like this
00:47:49and you know
00:47:50I love Annabelle
00:47:51and she isn't even here yet
00:47:53I don't want y'all
00:47:53getting off on the wrong foot
00:47:54because you've already
00:47:55got an attitude about it
00:47:56well I hope it works out
00:47:57if not we're gonna
00:47:57have some problems
00:47:58we're not gonna
00:47:59have any problems
00:48:00okay we'll see
00:48:01I think I hear the dog
00:48:02is working
00:48:02is someone coming over
00:48:03I think that might
00:48:04be Nicole
00:48:05why is she here
00:48:06I have no idea
00:48:07I'm sick of her
00:48:07pulling up like that
00:48:08Annabelle's about to be here
00:48:09that can't be happening
00:48:09well I'll go see
00:48:10what she wants
00:48:11that's geez
00:48:12it's been going on
00:48:13way too long
00:48:14that's ridiculous
00:48:14I know
00:48:15I know
00:48:15let's see what she
00:48:16wants
00:48:18Nicole is ex-wife
00:48:19number two
00:48:19and she's the mother
00:48:21of my youngest child
00:48:22Madison
00:48:23it's not unusual
00:48:24for her to come by
00:48:25time to time
00:48:25but anytime
00:48:26me and Nicole
00:48:27are together
00:48:28you know
00:48:29it's just not good
00:48:30it's bad
00:48:39hey
00:48:40hey
00:48:40what's going on
00:48:45my dad remarried
00:48:46after my mom
00:48:47to Nicole
00:48:48and it was
00:48:49an absolute
00:48:49show
00:48:50as long as he
00:48:51living a normal
00:48:52happy life
00:48:53I think that
00:48:53she's always
00:48:54going to be
00:48:55in the corner
00:48:55like trying
00:48:56to ruin it
00:48:56somehow
00:48:57someway
00:48:57always
00:48:58the rumors
00:48:59I heard
00:48:59I guess
00:49:00are true
00:49:00that Annabelle's
00:49:01coming
00:49:01yeah
00:49:02getting close
00:49:02for a few days
00:49:06what's up
00:49:06what you need
00:49:08I was going to
00:49:09I was going to see
00:49:09if I could talk
00:49:09to you in private
00:49:10for a minute
00:49:10you know
00:49:11she's just
00:49:12trouble
00:49:12but I haven't
00:49:13been completely
00:49:14honest with
00:49:14Annabelle
00:49:15about everything
00:49:16with Nicole
00:49:16so unfortunately
00:49:18Nicole's got
00:49:19dirt on me
00:49:19and she's
00:49:20just can't
00:49:21wait to spill
00:49:21what oh my lord
00:49:43he is not going
00:49:44to feel good
00:49:44about the twin
00:49:45size mattress
00:49:46I've had it
00:49:47since like the
00:49:47days of the dorms
00:49:49it has a bunch
00:49:50of stains
00:49:50but I feel like
00:49:51they're my stains
00:49:52so I'm not that
00:49:53grossed out with them
00:49:53ah no
00:49:55we can just cuddle
00:49:56we can cuddle
00:49:56on the twin mattress
00:49:58he'll like it
00:50:08oh I don't wear this
00:50:10it's been about
00:50:11three years
00:50:12since I've properly
00:50:13been able to access
00:50:14all my things
00:50:15they're all in a
00:50:16storage unit
00:50:17some of the boxes
00:50:18are like really
00:50:18organized
00:50:19and then some
00:50:19are just like
00:50:20random
00:50:20yeah
00:50:21oh this box
00:50:21is sketch
00:50:22there's like
00:50:24beams
00:50:28keyboard
00:50:30olive oil
00:50:33or just like
00:50:34random
00:50:36Josh is not
00:50:37prepared for living
00:50:37with my chaos
00:50:39Josh is flying
00:50:40to America
00:50:41tomorrow
00:50:41and I promised
00:50:43I would handle
00:50:44the whole
00:50:44getting an apartment
00:50:45for us
00:50:46I said don't worry
00:50:47about it
00:50:47I'll take care
00:50:48of it babe
00:50:48so I think
00:50:50he's expecting
00:50:51to come to America
00:50:52tomorrow
00:50:53and like
00:50:53see our new apartment
00:50:55what is the apartment like
00:50:57we don't have
00:50:58an apartment yet
00:51:03it's really important
00:51:04for me to find a place
00:51:05before he gets here
00:51:06because I could literally
00:51:07like live out of my car
00:51:08for like a day or two
00:51:09and I'd be fine
00:51:10but he like
00:51:11is like oh
00:51:12like even like
00:51:13one night of discomfort
00:51:14for him
00:51:14it's like
00:51:15kind of an issue
00:51:17sometimes they say
00:51:18I'm gonna do stuff
00:51:19and then
00:51:20I
00:51:22I don't do it
00:51:23exactly to his liking
00:51:25and sometimes
00:51:26it's just me
00:51:26being lazy
00:51:27or procrastinating
00:51:28but other times
00:51:29things just get
00:51:30really complicated
00:51:31because of how
00:51:31my mind works
00:51:32I have like
00:51:33severe
00:51:34or extreme OCD
00:51:36I tend to get
00:51:37consumed by
00:51:38little details
00:51:39and then
00:51:40something big
00:51:40like finding
00:51:41an apartment
00:51:42falls through the cracks
00:51:44and I definitely
00:51:45have always had it
00:51:46like I remember
00:51:46having it in preschool
00:51:48and I went to therapy
00:51:49and I was officially
00:51:51diagnosed with OCD
00:51:52in middle school
00:51:54so my OCD
00:51:55makes it hard
00:51:57to get
00:51:58the big tasks
00:51:59done in my life
00:52:00because I'm like
00:52:01focused on all
00:52:02the little details
00:52:03or I'm like
00:52:03double checking things
00:52:05a hundred times
00:52:05checking the
00:52:06door handles
00:52:08on the car
00:52:08to make sure
00:52:09it's locked
00:52:09I check the stove
00:52:11about a bajillion times
00:52:13before I leave the house
00:52:15I like to check my teeth
00:52:16and make sure
00:52:16they're not chipped
00:52:17I memorize how they look
00:52:19so I just double check
00:52:20to make sure
00:52:20they look the same
00:52:23so all these things
00:52:23take time away
00:52:25from like
00:52:25focusing on a bigger task
00:52:28I hope Josh
00:52:29isn't upset
00:52:30because that was like
00:52:31the one thing
00:52:32I feel like
00:52:33he needed from me
00:52:35because I was like
00:52:35oh yeah
00:52:36I promise
00:52:36I'll figure out
00:52:37the apartment
00:52:37you don't have
00:52:38to do anything
00:52:39because I know
00:52:40the area
00:52:40I'm going to play
00:52:41in the apartment
00:52:41but we don't have
00:52:43an apartment
00:52:43because I'm bad
00:52:45at planning
00:52:46but I did
00:52:47I tried
00:52:48I really tried
00:52:48I hope he sees that
00:52:51my OCD
00:52:51has definitely
00:52:52messed up
00:52:53my relationships
00:52:54in the past
00:52:55it's definitely
00:52:56the main reason
00:52:57why my long term
00:52:58relationships
00:52:59didn't work out
00:53:00and I can't let
00:53:00that happen
00:53:01with my relationship
00:53:02with Josh
00:53:03at first
00:53:04he was really
00:53:04understanding
00:53:05and he was just
00:53:06like go to therapy
00:53:07and stuff
00:53:08and it's fine
00:53:09and now
00:53:10it's getting to the point
00:53:11where he's very
00:53:12disappointed in me
00:53:13so Josh is really
00:53:14understanding
00:53:15but I'm worried
00:53:17that he'll be
00:53:18less understanding
00:53:19when he lives
00:53:20with me
00:53:20and all my chaos
00:53:2124-7
00:53:22and now as soon
00:53:23as he gets off
00:53:24the plane
00:53:24I need to tell him
00:53:26that we're homeless
00:53:29Josh is a really
00:53:30understanding guy
00:53:31but even the most
00:53:32understanding person
00:53:33would lose their
00:53:34over that
00:53:39um
00:53:40how's your penis
00:53:42like
00:53:42did the doctor
00:53:44clear you for the flight
00:53:45I'm not worried
00:53:46about that
00:53:46the only thing
00:53:47that I'm a little bit
00:53:48concerned
00:53:48to be honest
00:53:49with you
00:53:49is Michael
00:53:50I've been divorced
00:53:52for six years now
00:53:53a dad that has boys
00:53:55is always gonna feel
00:53:56a little threatened
00:53:57when a new man
00:53:58comes into
00:53:59the life
00:54:00if Michael
00:54:01comes in
00:54:02with anger
00:54:03or aggression
00:54:04it might turn
00:54:05into a disaster
00:54:09I'll be up
00:54:10for playing
00:54:11fun and games
00:54:15oh yeah
00:54:16so easy
00:54:17even if it isn't
00:54:20keep it easy
00:54:21breezy
00:54:21yeah
00:54:21oh
00:54:22let's make it
00:54:23speechy
00:54:24yeah
00:54:25oh
00:54:26hello Marissa
00:54:28how are you
00:54:28I'm good
00:54:29how are you
00:54:29if you need anything
00:54:30please let us know
00:54:31congratulations
00:54:32thank you Marissa
00:54:34everything's peachy
00:54:36oh that's so easy
00:54:39honestly
00:54:40we're free
00:54:41chilling out
00:54:42keeping it peachy
00:54:51hi
00:54:51can you hear me
00:54:53yeah I hear you
00:54:53okay
00:54:54hi
00:54:56how was your day
00:54:57it was busy
00:54:59I haven't spoken to you
00:55:00all day
00:55:00oh my god
00:55:00oh no
00:55:01it's been a long day
00:55:02at work
00:55:02but it's like a really
00:55:03pretty like summer day
00:55:04in New York
00:55:04so like this is what you
00:55:05get to experience soon
00:55:07you see it
00:55:08yeah
00:55:08it's a big building
00:55:09it's really nice
00:55:10it's a big building
00:55:11I don't think that
00:55:12you're used to this
00:55:14my biggest concern
00:55:15about Edward
00:55:15moving to the United States
00:55:16is a little bit of
00:55:17culture shock
00:55:18I'm a little
00:55:18I'm a little concerned
00:55:19first of all
00:55:20you've never been
00:55:21on a plane before
00:55:23there's a lot of
00:55:24things that I don't know
00:55:24I was trying to google
00:55:25you know like
00:55:26what I'm supposed to do
00:55:28like screen
00:55:31I think that it's
00:55:32kind of cute
00:55:32that Edward really
00:55:33doesn't have any
00:55:33experience in anything
00:55:35outside of his country
00:55:36and you know
00:55:37the fact that he has
00:55:38to like google
00:55:38how to get through
00:55:39an airport
00:55:39or google like
00:55:41what you have to
00:55:41put in your bag
00:55:42or what you can't
00:55:42put in your bag
00:55:44but it does concern
00:55:45me a little bit
00:55:46that he just doesn't
00:55:47have the same type
00:55:48of life experiences
00:55:48that I do
00:55:49here's a good example
00:55:50when I would go
00:55:51to visit Edward
00:55:52in Punta Cana
00:55:53and we stayed
00:55:54at a hotel
00:55:55I hadn't even realized
00:55:56that he had never
00:55:57even experienced
00:55:58being a guest
00:55:59at a hotel
00:55:59he's only just
00:56:00worked with them
00:56:00his entire life
00:56:02it's you know
00:56:04vast differences
00:56:07before we even get
00:56:08to that
00:56:08because I don't want
00:56:08to forget
00:56:09because you know
00:56:09I forget everything
00:56:09in like a second
00:56:11um how's your penis
00:56:13how's your penis
00:56:15are the stitches healed
00:56:17like did the doctor
00:56:17clear you for the flight
00:56:18do you know what's
00:56:19crazy I would see
00:56:20I would see my doctor
00:56:21today when I was
00:56:22walking in the street
00:56:24the doctor yourself
00:56:26yeah
00:56:27he's saying
00:56:27he's asking me
00:56:28how is your penis
00:56:29and everything
00:56:30and I was like
00:56:31it's just typical
00:56:32typical conversation
00:56:33how's your penis
00:56:34but he's my doctor
00:56:35you know
00:56:36what's funny
00:56:37because what was
00:56:38in front of everybody
00:56:38and everybody
00:56:39was the ass
00:56:39you know
00:56:40like
00:56:42I feel like maybe
00:56:43we are gays
00:56:44or things like that
00:56:45I don't know
00:56:46my penis
00:56:47is supposed to be
00:56:48ready
00:56:48for next week
00:56:49because my life
00:56:50depends on it
00:56:52my life depends on it
00:56:53my life too
00:56:54it's two people's lives
00:56:55affected by this
00:56:56not just yours
00:56:57I'm not worried
00:56:58I'm not worried about that
00:56:58the only thing
00:56:59that I'm a little bit
00:56:59concerned
00:57:00to be honest
00:57:01with you
00:57:01is Michael
00:57:05I've been divorced
00:57:06for six years now
00:57:07it's taken a few years
00:57:08but my ex-husband
00:57:09Michael and I
00:57:10have really developed
00:57:11a strong relationship
00:57:12and we're really good
00:57:13at co-parenting
00:57:15but
00:57:15a dad that has boys
00:57:17is always going to feel
00:57:18a little threatened
00:57:19when a new man
00:57:20comes into
00:57:22the life
00:57:23I know
00:57:24that he's very
00:57:25protective of his kids
00:57:26and I feel like
00:57:28Michael can feel
00:57:30that I'll try to steal
00:57:32the love of your kids
00:57:36I think that
00:57:37we all can play
00:57:38a really important role
00:57:39in their lives
00:57:39and I don't want anybody
00:57:40to feel threatened
00:57:41by like you know
00:57:41one another's
00:57:42interaction with them
00:57:45there's still
00:57:46some forms of resentment
00:57:48some forms of animosity
00:57:50some disappointment
00:57:51and that's why
00:57:52I have never
00:57:54brought another man
00:57:55into my parenting
00:57:56relationship before
00:57:57and I've explained
00:57:58this to Edward
00:57:58that if Michael
00:57:59comes in
00:58:00with anger
00:58:01or aggression
00:58:02please don't respond
00:58:03to it
00:58:03because it will not
00:58:04make the situation
00:58:05better
00:58:05now
00:58:06I've said this
00:58:07to Edward many times
00:58:07will he listen to me
00:58:09I don't know
00:58:12you're going to
00:58:13meet Michael
00:58:13you know
00:58:14like pretty soon
00:58:15I think
00:58:15because he's like
00:58:16around all the time
00:58:17I think that we have
00:58:18to have like
00:58:18a serious conversation
00:58:19and you and him
00:58:20have to put your
00:58:20like boundaries
00:58:22in place
00:58:22like what would
00:58:23upset him
00:58:23or what would
00:58:24upset you
00:58:25I know that
00:58:26I'm a person
00:58:26and I have a good
00:58:27bar
00:58:28and I love Cole
00:58:29and I love Derek
00:58:30and I just need to
00:58:31show that
00:58:34I think when Edward
00:58:35and Michael
00:58:36finally have
00:58:37the talk
00:58:38I am a little
00:58:40concerned
00:58:40emotions are going
00:58:41to flare
00:58:42people are going
00:58:43to get territorial
00:58:44protective
00:58:45if that happens
00:58:46Michael will
00:58:47you know
00:58:47get very upset
00:58:49and aggressive
00:58:49and it might turn
00:58:50into a disaster
00:58:51and it's going to be
00:58:52very hard to repair
00:58:53after that
00:58:57you look upset
00:59:00well
00:59:00it's okay
00:59:16so I'm making cake pops
00:59:17and I think
00:59:17I'm going to make them
00:59:18red and blue
00:59:19on the inside
00:59:21for America
00:59:22normally I wouldn't
00:59:23be this messy
00:59:24or maybe I actually
00:59:25probably would
00:59:25but
00:59:34wait why is this
00:59:35backwards
00:59:37do you understand
00:59:38this
00:59:39in no world
00:59:40this is right
00:59:40maybe if I go
00:59:41in front of a mirror
00:59:42or something
00:59:43oh yeah
00:59:44look
00:59:44America
00:59:45haha
00:59:47Josh arrives today
00:59:48and I got us
00:59:48a hotel room
00:59:49because I definitely
00:59:50didn't want our
00:59:50first night together
00:59:51to be sleeping
00:59:52on an air mattress
00:59:52in our friend's house
00:59:54I don't think
00:59:55he'll be expecting
00:59:56a hotel
00:59:56I think he'll either
00:59:57expect the apartment
00:59:58magically to appear
01:00:00and be done
01:00:00which unfortunately
01:00:01isn't the case
01:00:02or something
01:00:04like less comfy
01:00:07even though
01:00:07it's not ready
01:00:08to move into yet
01:00:09the big news is
01:00:10I actually signed
01:00:11a lease
01:00:12on a new apartment
01:00:12so I looked
01:00:14at a couple
01:00:14of photos
01:00:15of the apartment
01:00:15online
01:00:16but I haven't
01:00:17seen it in person
01:00:19yet
01:00:19so it could be
01:00:20crazy
01:00:21like I don't know
01:00:21what it's gonna
01:00:22look like inside
01:00:24I'm nervous
01:00:25because I feel
01:00:25like I haven't
01:00:26seen him in a bit
01:00:26and I'm worried
01:00:28he'll be jet lagged
01:00:28and I really want
01:00:29to have like a good
01:00:30you know fun
01:00:31kind of night
01:00:33I don't know
01:00:33how to say that
01:00:35correctly
01:00:35but yeah
01:00:38my sex life
01:00:39with Josh
01:00:40has been
01:00:40a little bit
01:00:42dull
01:00:45and we're not
01:00:45having sex
01:00:46enough
01:00:48I told him
01:00:48to get condoms
01:00:49I just said
01:00:50oh can you
01:00:50pick them up
01:00:50I forgot
01:00:52so I did that
01:00:53because I was like
01:00:54oh I want him
01:00:54to like
01:00:58think about it
01:00:59at least
01:01:00I'm worried
01:01:01I'm worried
01:01:01that moving
01:01:01in with Josh
01:01:02will not
01:01:03improve our
01:01:04sex life
01:01:04he's super
01:01:05British
01:01:06and super
01:01:07reserved
01:01:07so he tends
01:01:08to avoid
01:01:08conversations
01:01:09about sex
01:01:10it just like
01:01:11doesn't come
01:01:11up as much
01:01:12no not
01:01:13sorry that
01:01:13sounds sexual
01:01:14oh
01:01:15it drives me
01:01:16crazy because
01:01:17I'm the exact
01:01:17opposite
01:01:18and I'm very
01:01:19open about
01:01:19sex
01:01:19so I know
01:01:20we have to
01:01:21get on the
01:01:21same page
01:01:22before we
01:01:22get married
01:01:27oh
01:01:29no
01:01:32that's okay
01:01:32Josh won't
01:01:33eat that one
01:01:38I think
01:01:38the thing I'm
01:01:39looking forward
01:01:39to the most
01:01:40when I see
01:01:41Josh is giving
01:01:41him a kiss
01:01:42I want to
01:01:43make out
01:01:43for like
01:01:4310 minutes
01:01:45but he hates
01:01:46PDA
01:01:47maybe we'll
01:01:48save that
01:01:48for the hotel
01:01:49I'm so excited
01:02:07cool
01:02:26Okay, it seems like he should be here, like, any minute or something.
01:02:33Uh, yeah, I'm excited, but I'm stressed out, because I just want him to appear as soon as possible.
01:02:39He's gonna freak out when he sees this.
01:02:43Well, at least he'll spot me, probably.
01:02:48We've waited for this a long time. We've literally waited over a year for the visa to be approved.
01:02:54Where's he?
01:02:56Where's he?
01:03:01Uh...
01:03:02I know I see you tonight. I'll find my way to you.
01:03:11I'll never give you what to me.
01:03:14Woooo!
01:03:17This is love.
01:03:21Hi.
01:03:22This is weird. I haven't seen you in a minute.
01:03:24Oh, no.
01:03:25This is love.
01:03:29This is my fiancé, Josh, and he's from...
01:03:31Can you say it first really fast, and I'll copy it.
01:03:34Uh, Cambridge, England.
01:03:35Cambridge, England.
01:03:41We make out.
01:03:42Mm-hmm.
01:03:44For four minutes.
01:03:45Four minutes.
01:03:48Mm-hmm.
01:03:56Hey.
01:03:58When I see Josh, I want to make out with him for a while, but it felt like only four
01:04:02seconds.
01:04:04Um, I've never been super hot on PDA.
01:04:09I just feel self-conscious.
01:04:11Like, not always, but I don't think I'm the only person who's like that.
01:04:18Do you want to make out for four minutes now?
01:04:21Uh, I actually...
01:04:27Can I put the hat on you?
01:04:31It's Uncle Sam. I don't know who... I forgot who Uncle Sam is, actually.
01:04:35But he's like an American icon from the past.
01:04:39Yeah.
01:04:39Or he's a fake person, I don't know. I'm not sure.
01:04:42So I got us a hotel for the night, and the apartment got approved.
01:04:47Nice.
01:04:48We might have to wait a few days to move in.
01:04:50Sure.
01:04:50But for tonight, and maybe tomorrow night, I have a hotel for us.
01:04:54Yes.
01:04:55And then I have some sexy red lingerie for tonight.
01:05:02Okay.
01:05:02Laundry in the airport.
01:05:04Do you want me to put it away now?
01:05:06I mean, it looks lovely.
01:05:08Are you excited?
01:05:09Yes.
01:05:10I can't wait to, like, wake up next to you every day.
01:05:12I feel like now we're moving in together.
01:05:15I don't super know what to expect.
01:05:17We are really different.
01:05:18Like, we're, like, so contrasting.
01:05:20You're quite chaotic and wild and lovely.
01:05:25But we're choosing to be together because we love each other.
01:05:28It just feels like we fit.
01:05:34Do you need help carrying stuff?
01:05:37I'm good.
01:05:38No, I'll just, like, try not to hit my face with the balloons anymore.
01:05:41I love those.
01:05:43Do you want to make out for four minutes now?
01:05:48I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
01:05:52It's not going to happen when she's here.
01:05:54Why is it okay that it's happened for this long that she's not here?
01:05:58This is her last-ditch effort to try to screw things up again with Annabelle and I.
01:06:04You do know when she gets here, I'm going to talk to her.
01:06:06If he thinks that I'm not going to tell Annabelle all the dirt, all the things that I know about
01:06:10him, he's wrong.
01:06:24What's up, what's your name?
01:06:26I was just wanting to see if I could talk to you in the prom for a minute.
01:06:29Sure.
01:06:39What up?
01:06:43So, Annabelle's coming, right?
01:06:46A few days, hopefully.
01:06:49You do know when she gets here, we are actually going to have a conversation.
01:06:52Like, I'm going to talk to her.
01:06:53There's no way around that.
01:06:56My marriage to my ex-wife, Nicole, it only lasted four weeks.
01:07:00And our relationship was volatile because, I mean, she did a lot of things I didn't agree with.
01:07:04And I guess I did a lot of things she didn't agree with.
01:07:06So we weren't really, like, a match for a relationship.
01:07:10She's a mother of one of my children, so I don't know.
01:07:13I mean, she'll always be around in some capacity.
01:07:15But she's very jealous and vindictive and doesn't really want me with anyone, but I guess her.
01:07:23Okay, so are you going to, like, what are you going to talk about?
01:07:27She needs to know the things I think about Angie.
01:07:30She needs to know about the things that you've said to me.
01:07:35What about Angie?
01:07:36To me, it seems that you are, like, having some kind of relationship.
01:07:39Maybe it was just physical or whatever the case may be.
01:07:41So are you?
01:07:43I have not cheated with anybody and definitely not Angie.
01:07:48Angie is my good friend Greg's daughter.
01:07:53It ain't a cookout unless we get it on us.
01:07:56Lift up your shirt a little bit.
01:07:58She got recently divorced.
01:08:00Me and her just kind of hit it off as friends.
01:08:02And, heck, you know, Friday nights we might go catch a band and catch dinner.
01:08:07But it's just a good friendship.
01:08:10I think Nicole's just trying to get under my skin.
01:08:12She sees that I'm happy and probably thinks this is her last-ditch effort to try to screw things up
01:08:18again with Annabelle and I.
01:08:20So, in your opinion, flirting and telling people things that would obviously upset Annabelle is, okay, that's not cheating.
01:08:29You know, that's, everybody's perception is different.
01:08:34He led me on for years and then we got together and we got married and that ended very quickly
01:08:40and he, and come to find out.
01:08:42He was talking to Annabelle while we were married and if he thinks that I'm not going to tell Annabelle
01:08:47all the dirt, all the things that I know about him, he's wrong.
01:08:50With Angie and Shay, I saw it with my own eyes.
01:08:52Something's not right with that situation.
01:08:54And I don't want Annabelle to make the commitment and walk down the aisle without her knowing these things about
01:09:00him.
01:09:01I don't believe that you have told her most of the stuff that you do.
01:09:06I mean, like, we've been out before and you're drinking and she calls and, of course, the camera goes this
01:09:12way where she can't see me.
01:09:14And, like, you know, I just feel like that's very, very unfair for her.
01:09:18Anything that, you know, I've done is not like, you know, it's like if we go out and have a
01:09:24few too many beers, I might, like, you know.
01:09:26Say something vulgar.
01:09:27Or pat on you or something.
01:09:28But, I mean, it's not like I'm like, I want to rip your clothes off or anything.
01:09:32There's no way I'm going to stray even if I drink too much, you know.
01:09:38Yeah, I may flirt, but that's the extent of it and that's my personality.
01:09:47I'm not going to be like, oh, let's sneak around the corner and give me a kiss or something.
01:09:53It's not going to happen when she's here.
01:09:55OK, so why is it OK that it's happened for this long that she's not here?
01:09:59Because she's 8,000 miles away.
01:10:01Shay, I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
01:10:08And she called and I answered the phone.
01:10:10Yeah, we went to a concert or something.
01:10:12Yeah, we were in the same bed together.
01:10:14Yeah, I remember.
01:10:15And after that incident, I mean, Annabelle didn't talk for a while.
01:10:19You know, she had to kind of cool off.
01:10:23So there was a situation a few years ago between Annabelle and Nicole and it wasn't good.
01:10:28After Nicole and I divorced, we were actually out of town, several of us, five or six people.
01:10:33We had a few hotel rooms and drank too much.
01:10:37She took me to the hotel room.
01:10:39I got in bed, still in my clothes, passed out.
01:10:43And then I just remember I'm in the bed with my clothes still on.
01:10:49And I've got a phone poking in my face with Annabelle crying.
01:10:54And I've just kind of woke up enough to see Nicole holding the phone.
01:10:59And she was just doing it to be vindictive and break me up.
01:11:04And it just made it really tough on our relationship early on.
01:11:10So, I mean, you seriously are adamant about talking to her?
01:11:13Yeah, that's definitely happening.
01:11:14She needs to know what she's signing up for.
01:11:16I don't want her to make the same mistake I did, especially coming from way over there.
01:11:19Ours is completely different.
01:11:21I mean, it is what it is, but I don't want you coming back here and doing it.
01:11:27So just figure it out.
01:11:29I mean, I'm not.
01:11:30I'm definitely going to figure it out.
01:11:31Well, you know, there's no trespassing.
01:11:33I don't want you back here.
01:11:36She's going to understand who you are by the time I get done.
01:11:39So, I mean, and as long as she understands that.
01:11:40There's plenty of people that can contradict you on that.
01:11:42So, I'm not, I mean.
01:11:43There's plenty of people who can also say they've seen me with you and the way you act with me.
01:11:47You just need to go on home.
01:11:48I can't deal with that.
01:11:49No problem.
01:11:50Just expect that when she's here, we're going to have that conversation.
01:11:52Well, I just can't deal with it anymore.
01:11:53OK, well, see you, O'Shea.
01:11:55What a .
01:11:58I'm scared that if Nicole gets to her before I explain some of this stuff,
01:12:02she may want to head straight back to the Philippines.
01:12:07But I worked hard to get Annabelle to trust me again,
01:12:10and I'm not going to let Nicole or anybody else ruin it just because she's jealous.
01:12:17Good Lord.
01:12:21God, my God, my God.
01:12:40The blood.
01:12:41The blood.
01:12:49Thank you, Lord.
01:12:51Thank you, Lord.
01:12:53Thank you, Lord.
01:13:03Grace and mercy, Heavenly Father.
01:13:07Amen.
01:13:08Thank you, guys.
01:13:09Bye.
01:13:10Bye-bye.
01:13:11Love you.
01:13:13So, actually, tell me what's going on.
01:13:17Basically, today, Maxwell went in with his best friend, Silas, for their K-1 visa interview.
01:13:24Maxwell got called up first.
01:13:27The interviewer approved for his visa.
01:13:31He came outside.
01:13:34He took a picture of it.
01:13:36He showed it to me.
01:13:37He called me, just excited.
01:13:39Next thing I know, he was like, baby, let me call you right back.
01:13:43I got to go back into the embassy.
01:13:45I was like, okay.
01:13:46Then he sends me another picture.
01:13:49And in this form is saying that he had been denied.
01:13:54And so, of course, he's bawling.
01:13:57I'm hardly able to get him to answer the phone.
01:13:59So when he does answer the phone, he starts explaining to me that when his best friend went in for
01:14:06the interview, his term, they looked at the photos and saw that me, him, and my best friend and his
01:14:12best friend were in the same pictures.
01:14:15And with that, they decided that it looks like fraud.
01:14:19And so then, not only that, he yelled at them and told them, not only am I going to file
01:14:27this under fraud, but I'm also going to ban you from the U.S.
01:14:34I am completely blindsided.
01:14:37I never in a million years, the thought never crossed my mind that he would get denied.
01:14:45I felt like God was on my side and he would get approved.
01:14:50But Maxwell getting banned is beyond words because that prevents Maxwell of ever applying for any visa or ever coming
01:14:58to the U.S., ever.
01:15:02I don't know how the devil snuck in, gave my fiancé a visa in his hand, let him walk out
01:15:10the door with the visa, let him celebrate for 0.2 seconds, and then tell him to come back in
01:15:16and give it back.
01:15:17And I cannot understand it.
01:15:19And we've just been, you know, praying, not only have we bombarded heaven, but we've literally bombarded that embassy because
01:15:26I told Maxwell, I said, listen, do not leave that embassy.
01:15:31I said, you talk to whoever you got to talk to to get inside that building.
01:15:35You know, explain yourself, what is going on.
01:15:38And there was a security guard kind of was going back and forth to the point to where the people
01:15:43inside the embassy got tired and they're waiting to be with the agent again right now.
01:15:48But I know one thing.
01:15:50He got to leave with that darn visa.
01:15:53And that's for sure.
01:15:56Lord, I ask that you protect my future husband, Lord Jesus.
01:15:59These are the prayers that I ask in our petitions I put before you, Heavenly Father.
01:16:03I ask that you do it right now.
01:16:05In Jesus name.
01:16:07Amen.
01:16:08And thank you, Lord.
01:16:14Literally, I am terrified.
01:16:16It's terrifying that one person can say one thing and then that's my life.
01:16:23That's my future.
01:16:24I would lose the love of my life.
01:16:30Okay, this is Maxwell.
01:16:34Okay, sweetie, what'd they say?
01:16:38Yeah, so we just came out of jail now, right?
01:16:42Can you hear me, baby?
01:16:42Okay, I'm listening.
01:16:44The man called us.
01:16:45You're no longer banned.
01:16:46The ban has been lifted.
01:16:48The ban has been lifted.
01:16:49We're no longer banned.
01:16:50We should go continue our relationship and apply for the spouse officer.
01:16:54Do you understand?
01:16:55And for the K-1, there's nothing that can be done.
01:16:58So he won't let us get the K-1?
01:17:01No.
01:17:03The only thing you could do was to take out the ban.
01:17:06Mm-mm.
01:17:07I'm not accepting it.
01:17:08I'm not really accepting it.
01:17:10That ain't sitting right with me.
01:17:11I don't want to let the K-1 go because I don't want to start over.
01:17:14The spousal visa take a longer time.
01:17:16That's the problem.
01:17:17Like, that's not fair.
01:17:19What about the appeal?
01:17:21He is like, we can't appeal his decision.
01:17:25I'm going to talk to the attorney because that's not right.
01:17:30You know what I'm saying?
01:17:31If he made a mistake, we need to talk to an attorney and see what they can do.
01:17:36They have definitely missed with the wrong woman because, you know, I feel like looking over my life,
01:17:44God has not denied me anything.
01:17:47And Maxwell and I were destined to be together.
01:17:51Let me just call my family and get this to them.
01:17:53Okay.
01:17:54I'll talk to you.
01:17:54All right, sweetie.
01:17:57Ain't that a mess?
01:17:59I am 100% going to do everything in my power, as long as it is in the will of
01:18:07God, to get Maxwell to the USA.
01:18:09You can be the king, you can be the president, you can be whomever you think you are, but you're
01:18:16not more supreme than God Almighty.
01:18:22This season on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:18:25You ready?
01:18:26Let's do it.
01:18:27Come on.
01:18:27I have my circumcision.
01:18:29I'm ready to be an American now.
01:18:34You want to feed him?
01:18:37I'm afraid they bite to me.
01:18:38I'm a city girl from Sao Paulo.
01:18:42Animal crap is not my s**t.
01:18:48It has a rear wash pulsating action.
01:18:51Yes, this is...
01:18:52I need to be there.
01:18:54Paper don't help.
01:18:55Are you talking about dingleberries?
01:18:57Dingleberries.
01:19:02You're not sure if you want to knock on me or not?
01:19:05I just don't want to close off all my experiences.
01:19:08Katie wants to talk about openness so close to the wedding day.
01:19:12What the f**k is that about?
01:19:14I really, really want to make out with people.
01:19:16Then what do we do?
01:19:17That's concerning.
01:19:22It's your second time getting married.
01:19:23If you are not certain, do not get married.
01:19:27I love Edward, but I have started to question whether this is the right situation for me.
01:19:32I'm sorry for you what's born like this.
01:19:35This is so sad.
01:19:36Do you really want to spend your life with me?
01:19:37Do you really want to get married?
01:19:38In Brazil, it's so easy, but I'm fighting so much here.
01:19:42I'm tired.
01:19:47Are you happy when you see him?
01:19:50You're the one I'm marrying.
01:19:51What is this issue?
01:19:52In Turkey, we don't be friends, ex-boyfriend.
01:19:58Don't call my fiancé, never.
01:20:01Get the f**k off my tailgate.
01:20:05Mother f**k.
01:20:07People are like, who is this person?
01:20:10You might be like Camille or the bride.
01:20:13People saying about you?
01:20:15Well, I mean, it has come up.
01:20:21I don't want to lessen your crap.
01:20:26I'm just frustrated.
01:20:27I'm just frustrated.
01:20:28No, you can f**k that slut in Egypt, but you can't be compassionate with me?
01:20:33Get out.
01:20:35She pushed me too far.
01:20:37It's finished.
01:20:37It's over.
01:20:38I'm done with the whole f**k thing.
01:20:40He's going home.
01:20:48She's like, how are you doing?
01:20:48She's going home.
01:20:48I'm not
01:20:49She's going home.
01:20:49She's going home.
01:20:49Oh!
01:20:49I've jumped.
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Amanda Holmes3 hours ago
She seems like a good representation of what women would be like if they acted like most men. 😂
Amanda Holmes3 hours ago
Jesus Christ. I used to be that red head girl. She sounds like she has ADHD, and OCD is a bi-product of that. I go from one obsession to the next even to this day, but the making bad decisions while drunk is not an ADHD/OCD thing... It's a drunk thing. Quit drinking and you'll quit making out with random guys. I wasn't an attention seeker like that, but I have made bad decisions with men while drunk. i have been sober for 11 years now. If you can't control yourself, stop drinking. 👍🏻

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