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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 Episode 12 - The Art of The Slow Fade
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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:04I told you guys about the guy that I've been talking to in England.
00:08I'm going to go and meet him.
00:11You're going to fly by yourself. You're going to be there by yourself.
00:14Why don't you go with me?
00:15Is that not too much?
00:16Go, Jamal.
00:17My mom does have this bad habit of believing everything a guy says when she starts to like him.
00:23I do think that my mom might need to pump the brakes a little bit.
00:26Just don't get your hopes up.
00:31Are you busy tonight?
00:32There is someone today that I'm going to just like meet.
00:37That's a date.
00:40We have a few days left.
00:43And you rather spend that time with somebody that you know to spend that time with me?
00:48This is bulls**t.
00:51You're going to Ibiza in a couple weeks?
00:53So you think I'm going to go cheat on you with a guy in Ibiza?
00:56What I'm trying to say is like if you're going to dance with random guys, what's going to happen?
00:59He has another meltdown while I'm away.
01:02I don't think our relationship can survive.
01:04You ruined everything.
01:05So I hope you're happy.
01:07So I talked to Colt.
01:09I guess he's coming back.
01:11Oh my gosh.
01:12Does he want to try to get back with you?
01:14I don't know what he wants.
01:16The truth is, I don't know what I'm going to feel when I see him.
01:20Colt has some type of power over me.
01:22He's just using you once again.
01:27This is my daughter.
01:28I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
01:30I didn't expect that.
01:31I'm surprised you're even here.
01:34I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself with a troll like Gino.
01:40She does not like me.
01:42If my kids don't accept him, I don't know how I can continue a romantic relationship with him.
01:48I don't want to throw up.
02:04Ooh, Jamal, we're in London.
02:08Look.
02:08Wow.
02:09Look.
02:09This is cool.
02:10I'm so excited.
02:11Look at the car.
02:12Your chariot of whites.
02:13My chariot of whites.
02:29So how long is the ride to Derbyshire?
02:32We pronounce it Derbyshire.
02:34About two and a half to three hours.
02:35You know you're going to one of the most beautiful parts of the UK.
02:39Really?
02:40Derby?
02:40That's where you're going.
02:41Yeah, Derby.
02:42See, Jamal, when I take you out of the country, I do take you to the most beautiful places.
02:46That's true.
02:47Nigeria was beautiful, too.
02:48Nigeria's beautiful.
02:51After talking to Wayne for the past three months, I am in jolly old England to meet him in person.
02:56Jamal, this place is, like, magical.
02:58Like, it does something to you, you know?
03:00I'm so excited Jamal is here with me because he's a great judge of character.
03:05And he won't let me get all googly-eyed Kim and lose touch with reality.
03:10I wonder what Wayne's house looks like.
03:13I don't know.
03:13Does he live in a castle?
03:15Is he a count?
03:16If Wayne lives in a castle...
03:18We're moving.
03:19...I'll be like, Dad!
03:20In hindsight, I really should have brought Jamal with me when I met Usman because he would have saved me
03:25a lot of drama and a lot of heartache.
03:28Look how cute this is!
03:30Where are we right now?
03:32So we're now in the town of Windsor.
03:34Ooh!
03:34We're in Windsor.
03:36Whoa!
03:37This the castle?
03:37This is the castle.
03:38No way!
03:40Yeah.
03:40Being at Windsor Castle is, like, remarkable to me because I do like the royal family.
03:46I love all their scandal and stuff.
03:47And Queen Elizabeth was the woman.
03:50Ugh, that's dope.
03:51Wow, look at this, Jamal.
03:53It's a castle.
03:54That's cool.
03:55I've actually never seen one.
03:56I mean, me either.
03:58Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
04:00Hello, governors.
04:02We are not worthy.
04:03We are not worthy.
04:05We are not worthy.
04:06No, you don't bow.
04:08Oh.
04:08You're the queen.
04:09Oh.
04:10Do it again.
04:11Hello, governors.
04:13Hello, peasants.
04:14Whoa.
04:15Hello.
04:15Why are you calling me a peasant?
04:17I thought I was your son.
04:18No matter what comes out of this trip, I will never forget being with Jamal at Windsor Castle.
04:24It's like a dream come true.
04:26This is probably one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen.
04:34Oh, here we are, Jamal.
04:36Okay.
04:37Thank you so much.
04:41Oh, Jamal, it's so pretty.
04:45This is beautiful.
04:46Look how beautiful this is.
04:48Oh, my goodness.
04:50Hello.
04:51How are you today?
04:52Good.
04:53Good.
04:53We are checking in.
04:55Perfect.
04:55Lovely.
04:56Lovely.
04:56I've got you down.
04:58Oh.
04:58Thanks, mate.
04:58I also have something for you.
05:02Hey.
05:02Oh, my goodness.
05:04Jamal.
05:05What is that?
05:06Oh, did I get something?
05:08Yes.
05:09No way.
05:10Those are pretty.
05:12Lovely.
05:13What did you get?
05:13Should I open mine?
05:13Should I open mine?
05:13What did you get?
05:15Look at me.
05:17Oh, he got you a hat.
05:19I got a hat.
05:19How does it look?
05:20Oh, my goodness.
05:21I have never received flowers from a man unless it was Jamal.
05:26I have never had this happen.
05:28That's cool.
05:29Oh, I'm blushing.
05:31I'm really hopeful that by the end of this trip, I do go home with a boyfriend and in a
05:36relationship.
05:37Here you are.
05:38Oh, my goodness.
05:39It's so pretty here.
05:42But I'm approaching meeting Wayne totally different than when I met Usman.
05:46I was kind of letting him determine my worth as I did in previous relationships, and I
05:52am not going to do that now.
05:53Oh, man.
05:54I am 55.
05:56I am looking fabulous, and that's the bottom line.
06:02Hello.
06:03Thank you so much for my flowers.
06:06They're beautiful.
06:08Oh, do you like them?
06:09Oh, thank you so.
06:10Such a nice surprise.
06:12And Jamal loved his hat.
06:14Oh, that's good.
06:15Yeah.
06:15That was very thoughtful.
06:17It made me smile.
06:17Thank you so much.
06:19No problem at all.
06:20It's my privilege.
06:21Well, I will see you in the morning.
06:23I'm going to take you for about 10.30.
06:25Does that sound good?
06:26That's perfect.
06:27I can't wait to see you.
06:28Okay.
06:29All right.
06:29I'll see you.
06:30All right.
06:31Thank you again.
06:32You're welcome.
06:33You're more than welcome.
06:34All right.
06:34Bye.
06:36Is this the man for me?
06:39Wow.
06:40So pretty.
06:41Ooh, I need to shower.
06:48Woke up this morning feeling kind of down.
06:51Heart in my chest.
06:53I can feel it now.
06:55It's so sad that you're happy now.
06:57That it's over.
06:59Where's the closure?
07:03Colts here.
07:05Should I do a big A for Scarlet Letter for his adulteress?
07:10Adulteress, yes.
07:30Then I actually had these flowers from a date the other day that I forgot in my trunk.
07:35Picking up Colt from the airport is going to be torture.
07:39I'm going through a lot of internal conflict right now.
07:44Like, my brain and heart are doing different things.
07:46Like, my heart cares about him.
07:48I'm like, oh, this is the sweet Colt that's my best friend that I took care of that was always
07:52there for me.
07:53But then my mind's like, this lying, cheating, manipulative son of a bitch.
08:03Hey, Courtney!
08:09Your hair looks so blonde.
08:11Your hair looks so blonde.
08:13Nice to see you.
08:15Really, it is nice to see you.
08:19What the hell is this?
08:21You're lying.
08:26I appreciate it.
08:27I got you flowers.
08:29I never got flowers before.
08:31Oh.
08:32I'm going to go get a cart.
08:33Okay.
08:36Last month after Courtney and I broke up, I decided to fly to Brazil to finally meet Diana.
08:42Give me some sugar beans.
08:46Everything started out really great.
08:48All that chemistry they had over the phone really was there.
08:51She's very caring, sweet, and I felt like I was a new person with her.
08:55I love you.
08:57But things took a turn when I told Diana that I had to come back to Orlando for my leg
09:01surgery.
09:02I told her that I'd be seeing Courtney again, and she was not happy about that.
09:07Okay, you will yourself.
09:08Yeah, I can will myself.
09:10You've got this.
09:14Seeing Colt again is kind of sad.
09:19Despite everything that happened, I still have love for him.
09:23I think we could have been great together.
09:26Now I'm single and alone.
09:29While he has this new woman in Brazil he's in love with.
09:33So what have you been up to?
09:37Trying to date again.
09:39How's that going?
09:40How's the dating going?
09:42Great.
09:43Is it?
09:44Yep.
09:45They're cool.
09:46Huh.
09:48It's like, I don't know, it's too much work, though.
09:51A hundred matches, and I have to go through and read all this stuff.
09:54I feel like a secretary.
09:55Why don't you miss popular?
09:58A hundred matches.
09:59Finally, somebody appreciates me.
10:03Appreciation was never the problem.
10:06Courtney still hasn't left my mind, but seeing her again really just makes me feel a lot of emotions.
10:13There's just a lot of feelings that I have for her.
10:16And I realize I would love to be with her again.
10:19Was everything fake for you?
10:21Were you just lying to me the whole time?
10:23I wasn't lying to you about my feelings for you.
10:27You have feelings for multiple women.
10:30Were you planning on moving to Brazil and being with her, or what?
10:33No.
10:35I plan on running away from all my problems and go to the land of milk and honey.
10:42Did you get a lot of honey in Brazil?
10:46Actually, I don't think if I had any honey there.
10:48You didn't sleep with Diana?
10:56Well, I can't say I didn't do that.
11:01Well, I'm glad your d*** worked for her.
11:05To know he couldn't get it up for me, and then he banged her.
11:08So I was the issue.
11:10It wasn't his broken leg or his medication.
11:13And I don't like that it hurts.
11:17I thought I was past him, but clearly I'm not over him.
11:24I should never have went straight to, okay, let's meet my daughter, when our relationship
11:29was just getting started.
11:31When I visited Natalie a few weeks ago, she gave Bella the power to reject our relationship.
11:37How can I invest in my relationship with Natalie if it's like this?
11:41I've just been looking for a clear sign, you know, to go ahead.
11:44So, are you breaking this off?
11:57Last time I was actually single, I was 17 years old.
12:03And if I'm ever going to get in a relationship, I do need this time because, well, I'm going
12:07to jump into a relationship, to another one, to another one.
12:10That's not healthy.
12:21I hope this guy's cute in person.
12:24Tonight I'm going on a date with a local guy named Brian, and he popped up on my social
12:28media when I landed in the DR.
12:30I thought he was super handsome, so, you know, I followed him.
12:34And we've been talking online for a couple days.
12:38Please don't be a catfish.
12:40I'm not in the mood for a catfish.
12:42I'm going to be really pissed.
12:52Hello.
12:55Hi, nice to meet you.
13:02Let's go over there.
13:06So, he is not a catfish, and he's actually just as cute in real life as he is in his
13:12photos.
13:23I feel like being in the DR, that's what I'm supposed to be doing.
13:26Like, there's so many good-looking guys here.
13:28I kind of just want to have fun and experience being single in my 20s.
13:41So, I'm going to go over there.
13:45So, I'm going to go over there.
13:50So, I'm going to go over there.
13:57I like it too, that goes according to your body.
13:59I like it a lot.
14:00Yes, it's like my type.
14:03What do you do to work or something?
14:07I have a gym.
14:08Oh, that's right.
14:10I want to see your tricks.
14:14Gymnasial tricks.
14:16Now?
14:16Yes.
14:18Okay, just that.
14:20Like without this? No.
14:22Yes, yes.
14:23Yes.
14:38Okay, okay.
14:40Let me touch it.
14:43Okay.
14:44Oh, wow.
14:45Okay.
14:45Okay.
14:46Yeah.
14:47Tienes muy bien.
14:50Es muy bien.
14:52Yeah.
14:55Okay.
14:55Okay.
14:56Okay.
14:57And what?
14:57What do you want?
14:58Something more to take?
14:59Yes, another one more.
15:00Another one more.
15:01Another one more.
15:01Wow.
15:06It's hot.
15:07I hate the striped shirt, but it's okay.
15:09He took it off.
15:10I said, what striped shirt?
15:12He's really nervous and I'm like, oh, that's cute.
15:15A nervous big guy?
15:17Hell yeah.
15:27Oh, cheers.
15:29Cheers for your body.
15:31Wait, wait, wait, wait.
15:33For a kiss.
15:37A little one.
15:38Huh?
15:39Mm.
15:40Mm.
15:41Mm.
15:41Mm.
15:41Mm.
15:41Mm.
15:42Mm.
15:42Mm.
15:42Mm.
15:44Mm.
15:57Oh, who else?
15:58No, who else?
16:00OK, now I'm chilling, I'm chilling, I'm chilling.
16:03Yeah.
16:07OK.
16:11OK.
16:12OK, I'll see something.
16:13Say something, come on.
16:14OK.
16:15Um, let me think.
16:19OK.
16:20All right.
16:21Come on.
16:24Brian's really sweet and the kiss was very passionate.
16:27But the conversation didn't really flow,
16:30and there wasn't really much of a connection
16:32besides, like, the physical, obviously.
16:42Um,
16:45I'm going to talk to my friends
16:48and chill a little bit at my resort.
16:50Yeah.
16:52Yeah.
16:56OK.
16:59If I'm being honest, I kind of miss Pedro.
17:02OK.
17:02Bye.
17:03Nice to meet you.
17:04Nice to meet you.
17:04Nice to meet you too.
17:06Sometimes Pedro just needs time to, like, calm down
17:09and think things through.
17:11So I'm hoping he just kind of gets over himself
17:14and sees that this is really nothing to be mad about.
17:17I hope I haven't pushed him away with this.
17:23Oh, keep yourself mysterious, but I can't let you leave without your name.
17:29Oh, something tells me that you know.
17:37And this game is off the show.
17:40I'm a little stressed because I know I'm going to be calling Natalie in a few moments.
17:45And basketball has always been a way for me to distress, you know.
17:52Oh, baby!
17:53Woo!
17:53Woo!
17:55You say nothing serious, but I don't think I'll ever be the same, be the same.
18:05When I visited Natalie a few weeks ago in L.A., her daughter was calling me a lot of bad,
18:12nasty names, and I could tell she did not like me.
18:16And Natalie was basically saying that Bella's opinion mattered a lot to her
18:23and gave Bella the power to reject our relationship.
18:27And that scares me.
18:29I mean, how can I invest in my relationship with Natalie if it's like this?
18:40Hey, how are you?
18:42Hey, Natalie, what's up?
18:43You look very nice today, by the way.
18:46Oh, thank you, so do you.
18:47Well, how have you been?
18:49I've been okay.
18:50You know, it's been like a little bit over a month now since I've seen you.
18:54And, you know, we haven't talked too much.
18:59Yeah, so when I left L.A., you know, I was thinking that and hoping that at some point
19:05you would talk to Bella to see how she feels.
19:08Because I know at the time you were saying if she didn't like me that, you know, we wouldn't have
19:14a relationship.
19:16Has that changed at all with her?
19:19I mean, she has her feelings.
19:21I can't take that away from her.
19:23I value her opinion.
19:25And I should never have went straight to, okay, let's meet my daughter, when our relationship was just getting started.
19:34I just think it was too soon, and that was my fault.
19:39Bella's only seen me in one toxic relationship after the other.
19:43So I understand why she has her doubts about Gino.
19:47If Gino makes an effort to show her that he is serious about me, that he really does want a
19:55second chance, I know that she would come around.
19:58But it's not going to happen overnight.
20:01I've just been looking for a clear sign, you know, to go ahead, you know.
20:07Even if we're doing good and we're building a relationship, you know, and, you know, if she was to come
20:13in and she could reject our relationship any moment.
20:16That was my concern.
20:19I mean, regardless of how anybody else feels, I truly have a connection with you.
20:26Yeah.
20:28And I care about you now.
20:31You know, of course, her opinion matters.
20:34You know, I mean, my family is very important to me.
20:39I think that you are an amazing person.
20:43You are very friendly and kind with a good heart.
20:48Like, we get along and I love that.
20:54But, you know, like, I mean, ever since L.A., I guess, I feel, you know, I've just been thinking
21:02about it.
21:03And I feel like you and I make very good friends and that we could be very good friends together.
21:15Okay.
21:17Do you know what I'm saying?
21:19Yeah. So, are you breaking this off?
21:24I mean, as far as boyfriend, girlfriend kind of thing, I don't think that's for us.
21:32Yeah.
21:34I pictured a lot with Natalie.
21:36I was really excited to become part of Natalie's family.
21:40And that might have made it okay if I never had my own kids.
21:46But even if Natalie and I stayed together, I don't think Bella would have given me the chance to have
21:52a relationship with her.
21:54And realizing that hurts.
22:01And I don't want to put my heart and energy into something that could be pulled out from underneath me
22:06at any moment.
22:08I understand how you feel.
22:10You know, if it's not there for you, it's not there for you.
22:13I'm not, you know, I'm not here to try to force things in any way.
22:18You know, I care about you.
22:20I want you to be happy.
22:22I think Gino didn't want to put in the work.
22:24I just don't think he has the emotional maturity.
22:27I don't know. I guess this is goodbye.
22:29I mean...
22:30Um...
22:32Who knows what's going to happen in the future?
22:34You never know.
22:35I'm done with mediocre men.
22:37I am done with the bare minimum.
22:39Because I really set the bar low for myself.
22:43And I 100% think I deserve way better than Gino.
22:49Okay.
22:49It ends another way, but I know...
22:53Bye.
22:54Alright, bye.
23:00Well, I feel sad.
23:02But, um...
23:04I feel like...
23:05a little guilty like I disappointed her.
23:10I would be really hurt if she didn't want to continue our friendship.
23:15That would suck.
23:19Last night, he sent me a message and another and another.
23:22You're ruining my night.
23:23I just feel like you just wanted to be single again.
23:26What are you insinuating?
23:27It's just crazy to me that he's the one having trust issues here.
23:31I have been nothing but transparent.
23:33Every time we're apart, you blow up.
23:36And this is not okay.
23:43I'm so excited.
23:45New adventures begin.
23:53I have been traveling Europe for the last week.
23:56And, uh, everything has been going pretty great with Tony, uh, up until last night.
24:03Like, I just don't understand what came over him all of a sudden.
24:07I've already seen the world.
24:10I'm not just a little girl.
24:13Time is up, I've had enough.
24:16Give me a seat at the table.
24:19For the last week, I have been really making it a priority to stay connected with Tony.
24:25And he's been great.
24:27But now I'm in Ibiza.
24:28And last night, Sanal and I were on our way to go listen to a DJ perform.
24:33And Tony started blowing up my phone.
24:36He was upset that I was going out.
24:38And I spent the whole night on the phone with Tony arguing.
24:44I'm about to have a conversation with him again.
24:46And I just feel like we need to go over this and try to come up with a solution.
24:51I don't want this to be the running theme for the rest of the trip.
25:02Good morning.
25:04Hey, babe.
25:06How's it going?
25:07Good.
25:08Um, what do you have planned for today?
25:11We're going to go grab breakfast and probably hang out at the beach for a little bit.
25:15I just wanted to kind of, you know, touch base with you again.
25:18Yeah.
25:18Talk about last night.
25:20You sent me a message and another and another.
25:22You're ruining my night.
25:23But on top of it, I'm there with my cousin.
25:26And she has to see all of this.
25:27And I'm embarrassed in front of her all over again.
25:30I don't know.
25:31Like, I need to understand what caused you to do what you did.
25:35I just feel like I'm not a priority.
25:37I thought communication would just be more than, hey, let's just talk for five or ten minutes before I head
25:41out.
25:41That's not communication to me.
25:44Sorry.
25:44I'm not going to put my plans on my cousin on hold because you have this vision of how this
25:49communication is supposed to work.
25:52I just feel like you just wanted to be single again.
25:55Party and dance all night.
25:56Like that's to me is not what I signed up for when we start dating.
26:00What are you insinuating?
26:01That I'm not trustworthy?
26:02No, I'm insinuating that communication should be intact when you're out.
26:05And especially for two and a half weeks when we just start dating.
26:07I mean, that makes sense to me.
26:09Am I not trustworthy?
26:11I mean, my whole thing is this.
26:13Yeah.
26:13When I say.
26:14Answer the question.
26:15Answer the question.
26:16Am I not trustworthy?
26:16If we agree on communication twice a day and you're not doing it, what do you think the answer is
26:21though?
26:21Oh, okay.
26:22So now you don't trust me.
26:25Every time we're apart, you blow up.
26:28And this is not okay.
26:29That's not true.
26:31Yeah, we've been apart twice now since we started dating and you started an argument both times.
26:36It's just crazy to me that he's the one having trust issues here when he's the one who had a
26:41secret girlfriend.
26:42He's the one who dropped me off and went to a bar by himself.
26:47But I have been nothing but transparent.
26:50Unfortunately, yeah, I do have a little bit of doubt.
26:51I'm not going to lie.
26:52I do have a little bit of concern.
26:54I just want to make sure our communication is consistent and strong.
26:57And the last three days have shown me that it kind of waivers.
27:00I'm trying my best here.
27:02I want to make sure that you feel that you're kept as a priority, that you're kept abreast of everything
27:09I'm doing and that you're appreciated.
27:10And I just, I wish that that would come across to you and that you realize that.
27:16I have always lived my life to the fullest.
27:19I love traveling.
27:20I love exploring.
27:21I'm a really social person.
27:23But the longer I am with Tony and the more that he continues to have these meltdowns, the more I
27:30worry that the things about myself and my life that I love are just going to fade away.
27:36So if Tony wants to be with me, he's going to have to change fast.
27:42I don't want to keep arguing about this.
27:44Right.
27:46All right.
27:47Well, we'll talk soon then.
27:48We'll talk soon.
27:49Okay.
27:50Bye.
28:01Bye.
28:03Bye.
28:05Bye.
28:10Good morning.
28:11Bye.
28:13Bye.
28:14Bye.
28:16Bye.
28:16Looking forward to seeing you.
28:18How cute is he?
28:32This is way too dressy.
28:35Boots.
28:37Jeans.
28:39Come in.
28:42Hello, governor.
28:43Hello.
28:44How's it going?
28:45Good.
28:45You look nice.
28:46What are you doing?
28:47Just going to roam around the manor.
28:50Are you coming with me today?
28:52No.
28:52No?
28:52That'd be weird.
28:53How are you?
28:54Good.
28:54How's my makeup?
28:55Do I look OK?
28:55Yeah, you look great.
28:56OK.
28:57Are you excited?
28:57I don't know what to wear.
28:57Yeah, I'm wearing those jeans.
28:59But I think I should just wear like a sweater, right?
29:01What coat are you going to wear?
29:03This one.
29:03I like that.
29:04And then with this shirt, those jeans, and black boots.
29:08Nice.
29:08Yeah?
29:09Yeah.
29:10Yesterday, I traveled from San Diego, California
29:13to Derbyshire, England to meet my friend, maybe boyfriend, Wayne.
29:18I'm going to change.
29:19You stay here and tell me how I look, OK?
29:20All righty.
29:21All right.
29:21We're definitely interested in each other.
29:23But we decided we weren't going to put a label on anything
29:26until we meet in person.
29:31Yeah, that's cute.
29:32Yeah?
29:32Yeah.
29:32With my black boots?
29:33Yeah, yeah.
29:33That's really cute.
29:34Mm-hmm.
29:36So I know you're nervous about you liking him,
29:39but are you nervous about him liking you?
29:40Yes.
29:40What if he sees me and is like, ew, you're on Amazon or something?
29:43You know what I mean?
29:44Oh, because you're so tall?
29:45Yeah.
29:45Or like, what if he sees me and just doesn't think I'm pretty?
29:48Well, he's been seeing you on social media this whole time.
29:50Yeah.
29:50That's all video chat and stuff?
29:52Yeah.
29:53Yeah, you're right.
29:53So I don't think it'll be that.
29:54I think I'm just overthinking it.
29:56In past relationships, men have made me feel really insecure,
30:00not just about my looks, but just about my whole vibe.
30:04All right.
30:05Good luck.
30:05Make good choices.
30:06Bye.
30:07I want somebody that's going to make me feel attractive,
30:11desirable, despite all my flaws and all my past.
30:17Oh, my hands are shaking.
30:19And I really think that Wayne could be that person.
30:29I love you.
30:30Oh, wow.
30:32Hello, you look amazing.
30:34You look amazing.
30:35You too.
30:36Yeah, you.
30:36Oh, my God.
30:37I like your sweater.
30:38Yeah, I like yours as well.
30:39Oh, it's so happy to meet you.
30:40Yeah, nice to meet you too.
30:42Oh, my God.
30:43It's crazy, right?
30:44Yes, I know.
30:44It's after all this time of talking.
30:46Oh, my gosh.
30:47Wayne is so cute.
30:49He is so handsome.
30:50And his height really is not that bad.
30:52He comes to, like, right here on me.
30:53I am good with that.
30:55He smells good.
30:56He's dressed nice.
30:57And he's genuinely so happy to see me.
31:00You look amazing.
31:01Do I look better than I do on video chat?
31:03You look a lot better than you do on video chat.
31:04OK.
31:05You do, too.
31:06Oh, thank you.
31:07I'm so happy to see you.
31:09When I first seen Kim, the first thing I thought is, well, she's not that much taller than me.
31:14She had a nicer smile on her face.
31:16She looks a lot prettier than she did on the video.
31:19Are you ready?
31:20Yes, yes.
31:20OK.
31:20I just bought a little bag because I didn't know what to bring, so.
31:24I think a sexual spark could possibly happen.
31:27We just need to get to know each other a little bit more first before we jump into bed.
31:34Thank you, governor.
31:35I'm going to keep calling you that just because I'm in England.
31:38It makes me laugh when you say that.
31:39Oh, is this your car?
31:40Yeah, it's my work van.
31:41OK, cool.
31:43It's this side.
31:44Oh, that's right.
31:46That's right.
31:47I keep forgetting.
31:48I was like, is he not going to open the door for me?
31:50OK.
31:52All right.
31:56This is so sweet.
31:57I'm so glad I'm here.
31:59I know.
31:59I was really happy to see you.
32:01You're not going to tell me where you're taking me?
32:02I'm trying to find out.
32:03No.
32:03And I'll give you a clue.
32:04OK.
32:06It's got wheels.
32:10It's got wheels?
32:11Are you taking me on a boat?
32:15Does a boat have wheels?
32:16OK.
32:17Well, no.
32:18Do boats have wheels in America?
32:19They have trailers that carry it that has wheels.
32:21I'll give you another clue.
32:23It's got some steam that can come out of it.
32:25Are you taking me on a train?
32:28You're taking me on a train.
32:29Whoa, what a guess you got there, didn't you?
32:30I did.
32:30Well, you said steam and wheels.
32:32Now I get it.
32:33OK.
32:33Oh, I'm excited now.
32:35We are here.
32:36I see a train.
32:37Does that mean we're here?
32:38That does.
32:39I see the steam.
32:39I see the steam.
32:45Wow.
32:46This is so sweet.
32:47This is Rousley.
32:49Rousley.
32:49OK.
32:50Wayne, this is so nice.
32:52Something a little bit different, isn't it?
32:53Yes, I love it.
32:56Right here.
32:57Oh, this looks nice, don't it?
32:59Oh, this is so pretty.
33:00Thank you so much, Wayne.
33:02I'd like you to keep that.
33:03A little souvenir.
33:05These look nice, don't they?
33:06Yeah, they look nice.
33:07What are they?
33:07Tell me what they are.
33:08Scones.
33:09Scones.
33:10I know what that is.
33:11That has cream in it.
33:13Eclair.
33:13Chocolate.
33:14Say chocolate again.
33:16Chocolate.
33:16You're so cute.
33:19You can't get any better than this in England.
33:21Like, tea and pastries and sandwiches and a train?
33:26Who takes somebody on a train date?
33:30OK.
33:31I guess we're taking off.
33:33So, yeah.
33:34I think he knows how to treat a lady.
33:36Oh, here we go.
33:38Wow.
33:40Here we go, guys.
33:42Thank you so much.
33:43You're very welcome.
33:44So pretty.
33:45Do you want to just bring your tea cup over here a little bit?
33:48Yeah.
33:48There you go.
33:49Enjoy, guys.
33:50Thank you very much.
33:52Cheers, mate.
33:52Cheers, mate.
33:55I feel really privileged that you've come over.
33:58And I'm not disappointed.
34:00Oh, well, thank you.
34:00I'm not here.
34:02But I want to just, like, see how it goes.
34:05And then, you know, we'll determine it from there, you know?
34:08Yeah.
34:08But...
34:09So far, so good.
34:11Yeah.
34:11I think so.
34:13Now, I have to ask you.
34:14Okay.
34:15Are you dating now?
34:16Do you date here?
34:17No.
34:17Really?
34:18No.
34:18So I'm the only one?
34:19You're the only one I'm dating.
34:20Good answer.
34:20Yeah.
34:21Yeah.
34:23I haven't been either.
34:24I have dated in the past.
34:26But when I met you, when we started talking, I was like, I just felt this, like, spark.
34:31Yeah.
34:31And I haven't felt that since my last relationship.
34:34Yeah.
34:35I felt like I needed to know now if he's 100% single before I let my feelings get involved.
34:40So now I know.
34:41And I feel like I can, like, really let go and have fun now.
34:44So, yeah, you're about to see fun, Kim.
34:47So how come you are not in a relationship?
34:49Like, you're such a good catch.
34:52I think...
34:53You're such a good guy.
34:54And I think after my last relationship, I just want actively looking for a relationship.
34:59I think me, too.
35:00Yeah.
35:00I think that when you've been through so much in relationships, it's just, like, I really
35:04needed to, like, learn who I was.
35:06And I've had a couple things happen that I'll tell you later on.
35:08Yeah.
35:09From my past that came out.
35:10And I had to focus on that.
35:12But now I feel like now is my time.
35:14Yeah.
35:14You know what I mean?
35:16Spending time with Kim in person is just totally different.
35:18It's like I see her facial expressions.
35:20And I love her facial expressions.
35:23Look at the sheep.
35:24It makes me feel at ease.
35:26And it makes me smile at the same time.
35:28It's just so much better.
35:31Like, I feel like I'm in a dream or something, because it's just so pretty here.
35:35I'll tell you what's nice as well.
35:36It's not raining.
35:37I told you the sun came because I'm here.
35:39Yeah.
35:39You brought the sun with your smile.
35:40I brought the sun with it.
35:45Well, we're back.
35:47Thank you all for coming.
35:48If you'd like to just exit this door here when you're all ready.
35:52Okay. Thank you.
35:53Thank you, Wayne.
35:54You're welcome.
35:55I really can't imagine this date going any better.
35:59Wayne is everything I hoped for.
36:01He's handsome.
36:02He's a gentleman.
36:04He's attentive.
36:05It couldn't get any better.
36:07Our first date.
36:08Our first date was a train.
36:10Yes.
36:10Now, the real test will be tomorrow when I introduce him to Jamal.
36:15Jamal has never liked anyone I have dated, and I really, really hope that he gives Wayne a chance.
36:21Best date ever, honestly.
36:23Say that again.
36:24Best date ever.
36:25Oh, I heard it that time.
36:25This was really nice.
36:26Thank you very much.
36:27This was really cool.
36:28We'll have to do this again when I come back.
36:33Despite everything that has happened, I still have a lot of feelings for you and a lot of emotions for
36:40you.
36:40I cannot believe what I'm hearing right now.
36:43This man, seriously, he has no shame.
36:48I love you, Courtney.
36:49Good evening.
37:04Really nice to see you again.
37:19I'm still upset that Colt had sex with Diana, but he called and begged me to go to dinner with
37:25him.
37:25I know I look like an idiot, but I'm kind of curious what he has to say, and also, like,
37:31who doesn't love a free steak?
37:33Hey.
37:33Hey, guys.
37:34Welcome to Reduce the Grill.
37:35I'm going to be some water for now.
37:36Yeah.
37:36And then two glasses of Cab.
37:39This Cabina Sauvignon?
37:40Yeah.
37:40Oh, thank you.
37:47I have missed Courtney a lot.
37:51While I'm having a lot of sex with Diana, there's still a lack of connection that I had with Courtney.
37:57I want Courtney to know that I still love her and that I made a mistake, and I'm sorry for
38:02that.
38:03I've missed you, Courtney, and everything, I just, it feels really good to see you again and be with you.
38:10So you said you were dating somebody?
38:12Online, like, talking to, like, guys.
38:14I've gone on a few dates.
38:16You know, I don't know.
38:17I don't want to rush into anything.
38:19Sure.
38:21So are you still talking to Diana, or you guys are exclusive?
38:25You guys are together?
38:26Like, what's going on with that?
38:29Well, it's complicated.
38:32She doesn't trust me.
38:34We fought here and there.
38:37About what?
38:39Well, at first it was you.
38:41I missed you.
38:42I, obviously, I mean, I care about you.
38:44That's why I came back.
38:45I wanted to see you again.
38:48No, you came here to go to the doctor.
38:50Like, what do you mean?
38:51You came here?
38:51I've been wanting to see you again.
38:53Yeah, and the doctor, too.
38:55I want to, I want to do a lot of things while I'm here.
39:02But you need to keep boundaries and make sure, like, things don't get romantic or whatever.
39:08Despite everything that has happened, I still have a lot of feelings for you, a lot of emotions for you.
39:16Yeah.
39:21I love you, Courtney.
39:23And I promise you, I'm not going to disappoint you again.
39:28I cannot believe what I'm hearing right now.
39:31He wants to be back.
39:34You just flew in from Brazil.
39:36You just told me you were this other girl.
39:38But now you're sitting here at dinner telling me you love me and you want to be with me.
39:42I'm like, what the hell happened to Diana?
39:45This man, seriously, he has no shame.
39:50I don't know what to do now.
39:54Yeah, but you were probably telling her that last night.
39:56You were probably her last night.
39:57So what am I going to do, sit in my room and cry every day?
40:01No, you shouldn't.
40:02I was crying.
40:03Oh, my God, I don't want to cry again.
40:04Like, I was crying for, like, a month.
40:09I'm sorry.
40:12Don't cry, honey.
40:18Yeah, I cry every day.
40:20So it's like, I try to go out.
40:21I try to date other people.
40:23I want to distract myself.
40:24I want to move on.
40:25Like, then you're in Brazil with the woman you cheated at me with.
40:28You love her.
40:31So it's just a lot.
40:36And I'm sorry for that.
40:37I'm sorry for everything.
40:38I want you to know that.
40:39I'm sorry for lying to you.
40:40I'm sorry for hurting you.
40:42But everything I felt for you is real.
40:44I wish I could believe you.
40:46I don't know.
40:52I'm going to be there for you.
40:54But, like, as friends.
40:57I want to believe Colt, but I'm never going to trust him.
41:00I can't get sucked into his web of lies and deceit anymore.
41:04I am never going to give him another chance.
41:08Because I never want to get duped by another lying, cheating, selfish man again.
41:18Next time on The Single Life.
41:20Actually, they go to church almost every day.
41:23Tony's parents are very religious.
41:25And I am not.
41:27What about you, Anya?
41:29Do you want to come to church?
41:31I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.
41:36Which courts are we going to?
41:38Court five.
41:40Save that for later.
41:42Phil is my new boyfriend.
41:44I think older men is where it's at because they're more appreciative.
41:47And sex is great with Philip.
41:53How was your day?
41:55Tell me.
41:56Have you kissed a guy?
41:57Yeah.
41:59I invited to my country to share my country.
42:01It should be looking another guy for my country.
42:04What the hell?
42:05That's what you want?
42:06Yes, literally, yes.
42:09I need to have a conversation with Wayne about the kids and stuff.
42:14Honestly, I'm getting really frustrated about this truth of my siblings.
42:17She just needs to tell everyone it's time.
42:20I'm not going to lie about anything.
42:21I'm just letting you know that now.
42:23I came here with every intention of telling Wayne once we're in a relationship.
42:27But I have to handle things my own way.
42:29You don't have to be a dick about it, though.
42:31Well, bro, you have the kids.
42:33Stop it.
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