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00:00:00Previous season, before 90 days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:25If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38That she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:01But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:18She's a psycho.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You're up?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you in a cake?
00:02:25So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:30I feel like I was falling in love though.
00:02:32But that I'm done.
00:02:55Go to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:00Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:03She went off yelling, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f*** off.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:11how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:38This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:40There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:45I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:48Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:51That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:57I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:03:59It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:01So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:04I'm, um, hurting.
00:04:09I'm just angry, angry.
00:04:13Hey.
00:04:15Elise.
00:04:16How are you?
00:04:20I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:25I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:38Is that a, is that a sorry or is that?
00:04:40I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:42I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal coming up.
00:04:56I acted cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions
00:05:08for me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That should never happen once.
00:05:26There's going to be a common occurrence.
00:05:28that.
00:05:31You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still going to go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:55I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I, I, whatever, but you can go, there's a.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:20or he really likes it, but I think it was a massive overreaction, couldn't have been worse
00:06:25really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the
00:06:30relationship.
00:06:32I'm going to get ready.
00:06:34Can I have a hug?
00:06:36Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:43I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:47I'm, I'm sorry.
00:06:50Yeah.
00:06:53But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:03Well, good luck with that.
00:07:05My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am, I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:22Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32100%, yeah.
00:07:33Hi!
00:07:34Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:39Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:41We are completely hands off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi!
00:07:46Oh, really?
00:07:48Hi!
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:51She is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:57We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:00Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact, I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thank you so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15Bye.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:24I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:29everything that went on last night.
00:08:39So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay, or, like, I'm trying to just,
00:08:50I don't know how, like,
00:08:52to interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me,
00:09:03and then, what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last
00:09:15night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:20All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:23You are so much different to her.
00:09:26She's a friend.
00:09:27You are my girl.
00:09:29You embarrass her.
00:09:30You embarrass me.
00:09:32And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:34Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:40The thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you, like, I am.
00:09:46But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:03and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions, and I think just...
00:10:07I mean, you've got answers, you've got answers, and you're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:34You're giving me another chance?
00:10:39I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing, and it scares
00:10:53me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:57Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00We can, yeah.
00:11:01I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh, and that's not fair to
00:11:07him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this all away for
00:11:17one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:36What is, let's see if I can stop here.
00:11:38Come on, let's get right out.
00:11:39We can't get right out.
00:12:45I see that she is the one who wanted to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:10Maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:16Hey, baby.
00:13:18Hey.
00:13:19How was your day?
00:13:20Perfect.
00:13:21Was it okay?
00:13:23Yeah.
00:13:23I'm curious.
00:13:24I enjoyed it.
00:13:27Did you really?
00:13:29Yeah.
00:13:29He's a good guy.
00:13:32I've been saying that.
00:13:34That's a relief to hear.
00:13:36He's a good guy.
00:13:38But it turns out, you are not so good.
00:13:46Why?
00:13:47What did I do?
00:13:51He told me that you made a move on.
00:14:02There is one person.
00:14:03I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:23You make me think like Michael is the enemy.
00:14:26He's trying to break us up.
00:14:27I didn't make you think that.
00:14:28You thought that all on your own.
00:14:30But you did not avoid it.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:39This is a little thing.
00:14:40Are you sure?
00:14:41It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing.
00:14:44It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk.
00:14:47We were on the couch.
00:14:48I tried to kiss him.
00:14:49Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship, and before I met BeerCon,
00:14:59Michael and I were watching TV, and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon, we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch,
00:15:09and I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:16Although it was really hurtful in the moment,
00:15:18Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:23And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael,
00:15:27because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:15:45You tried to kiss him, okay?
00:15:48Yeah, I did.
00:15:49That means you had feelings for him.
00:15:52You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:15:59He's still in your life, and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:03Nothing happened.
00:16:06And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:08It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:17Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk, I tried to kiss him, but he refused me, but we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31Nope.
00:16:32You didn't want it to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:16:44Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:56I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me, and I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:22Nothing is going on.
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:25Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31I.
00:17:32No.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:43You're one of the young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:50I don't have to go through all of this.
00:17:52I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:53You meant you wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:00And I can't trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:13If you care this much.
00:18:15No, I don't.
00:18:16You cross the line.
00:18:18If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met, I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:26Okay.
00:18:39There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What's that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:18:50I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my d***.
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:07Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:16But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man, not just following her orders around.
00:19:29When you know, you know, that's how the story goes.
00:19:34I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:36Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:39I got this in a globe.
00:19:41It looks like we're going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo!
00:19:45Banana?
00:19:46You going to put me at the plate?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:56Oh!
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:00Hello, pa.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:03Good afternoon, pa.
00:20:04Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:08Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13All right.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:16Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:19No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:22Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other, getting a chance to be with
00:20:27each other intimately, that was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:20:35Lay down, ma'am.
00:20:36Lay down.
00:20:37Okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines, and I have a lot of
00:20:42hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:47And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to her body, ma'am.
00:20:50I agree.
00:20:52Oh, wow.
00:20:53I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:17I feel like a giant wrap tamale here.
00:21:24They're going to throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're going to steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:32Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:38But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:21:44as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:55Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:21:58Yeah.
00:21:59I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah.
00:22:04I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah.
00:22:06Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:08Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything, and I feel like last night just strengthened the
00:22:23urge to be with you more.
00:22:25And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Well, I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheen and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United
00:22:57States together.
00:22:58But at this point, living in the Philippines, I feel the best option.
00:23:04It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things
00:23:14that are way out of my bounds.
00:23:17It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and
00:23:22tears out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone
00:23:29to any church, you're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but
00:23:43to us only.
00:23:47Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:59I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom's always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Deb that
00:24:19I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle you everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:24:33Even though I happen to try to do many things for her, it's time for you to grow up and
00:24:39be
00:24:39a man and try to tell mom that you want to do some things that you wanted to do, not
00:24:44just
00:24:44following her orders, her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict
00:24:57between Sheena and I.
00:25:00I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some
00:25:05space away from my mother.
00:25:07Hello, mom, sir.
00:25:09Excuse voice.
00:25:09Time's up.
00:25:10Okay, thank you.
00:25:12But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:19I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start life together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:28I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:34You just want the answer.
00:26:38You want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:54My uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent our family line
00:27:01and continuing.
00:27:03That's what we believe, and it's not going to change.
00:27:07So we only wait for you, and you know that.
00:27:12In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:19I understand that, and I would hate for Trish not to be respected by her community over this.
00:27:25If Trish didn't have a baby, I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:27:32I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:27:46But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family, and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:16Trish, if we're going to be together and get married, then I want to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:28:26I want you to feel like your life is complete, so I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you're saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why do you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:28:48Hey, you said no yes in here.
00:28:51You said no yes in here, Papa.
00:28:52You're making me hit it up.
00:28:53Hit it up.
00:28:54Hey.
00:28:55Hey.
00:28:57I'm very excited that you're going to be eating a baby.
00:29:05I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly, because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:29:19And also, my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:37I will file for the visa.
00:29:40Yeah, it's going to take at least eight months to a year, and then once she's approved, after
00:29:46we get married, then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:29:53It's time to die.
00:29:57I have a problem.
00:29:59My family is very excited.
00:30:00Why are we going to do that?
00:30:01I'm very excited to have to do that.
00:30:05Well, it's very excited to have to figure out what's going on in the land.
00:30:11He didn't eat it, but I really hope that there are all those thoughts.
00:30:14It's very positive and it's really good.
00:30:18It's very positive.
00:30:20We're going to have to do that because of all of us sent us here.
00:30:21And I'm going to be my own life.
00:30:22Say quick, quick, and make this a quick.
00:30:28So what if it's after 20 years you start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months,
00:30:36then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:30:45and he will start the process?
00:30:47If everything goes in the direction that it's been going
00:30:51in the last few days, then yes, that's what's going to happen.
00:31:12They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:31:18This is great news. I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision,
00:31:29because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:31:33and the only way that I would be able to
00:31:36is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:39But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:31:46it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:31:54of having this family with Trish.
00:31:59She would be a great mother.
00:32:01And I'm actually starting to envision it,
00:32:06and things are looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:21When you get back to America,
00:32:23you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that.
00:32:27Right. You do know I can't keep sending
00:32:29as much money as I have been.
00:32:33Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:32:50We have to snuggle before we get up.
00:32:52One last snuggle.
00:32:56Show me your love, yeah.
00:32:57Show me your love, let me show you my love, yeah.
00:33:00Show you your love, yeah.
00:33:01You carry my own, yeah.
00:33:03Do I have more sex with you?
00:33:04Before you go, before you...
00:33:07I hope so.
00:33:09Let me see.
00:33:11Baby.
00:33:12Baby.
00:33:12Here's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:33:16One promise.
00:33:18What's that?
00:33:18World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you...
00:33:23Why are you putting it off?
00:33:24I know you like it.
00:33:26And you've been talking.
00:33:27You've been hammering on that.
00:33:28You've been...
00:33:28There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:33:31And that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:33:40Because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:44Her fellow women have been giving her what else she wants.
00:33:48And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:51I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my d**k.
00:33:56Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:03OK?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:04I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry, OK?
00:34:11I will make it up to you.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay, like,
00:34:18spend, like, one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23We've got to start getting ready.
00:34:27OK.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half my trip was fighting
00:34:36with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:38And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't want to go home.
00:34:53Baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to HEPOS to find my papers.
00:35:03So that means when you get back to America,
00:35:06you have to make an inquiry how I would get to America, right?
00:35:09I'm going to do that, babe.
00:35:11My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17OK.
00:35:18We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa
00:35:21or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one's going to get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28OK?
00:35:28So that's what we'll do.
00:35:29That's OK.
00:35:33But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending
00:35:35as much money as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer,
00:35:45getting you to America, doing what we need to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money.
00:35:50I can't even spend money anymore.
00:35:51I'm done.
00:35:57That's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is, OK?
00:36:01So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:36:07Thanks.
00:36:09You have to try not to because I have to save for us
00:36:12to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:36:19I have you.
00:36:21So we have a game plan now.
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:24Hmm.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed.
00:36:29You have to get dressed.
00:36:30We have to get going.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:36:35Fine, because I'm not getting married to her
00:36:38because of the money she's giving me.
00:36:39No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's the one
00:36:43I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me.
00:36:47She's the one processing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:53Babes.
00:36:55What?
00:36:55This is so funny.
00:36:56You going to wear it today?
00:36:58Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:01They would say your wife is wicked.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh, my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:37:09She deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:37:12That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:37:21All I want is love.
00:37:22And she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:37:28I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying.
00:37:33It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband.
00:37:36I love you.
00:37:37I love you.
00:37:43I knew it was going to be hard.
00:37:44I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:37:46Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:37:50To you.
00:37:52Oh, my God, baby.
00:37:59This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:02I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:38:04I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:38:08I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:12I didn't imagine any of this.
00:38:14I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:38:16I mean, none of this.
00:38:18I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:38:26I don't want to go.
00:38:30But I have to go.
00:38:34I don't want to do with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon.
00:38:37When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:49Shh.
00:38:57It's okay.
00:38:59Shh.
00:38:59Shh.
00:38:59It's okay.
00:39:00It's okay, baby.
00:39:02It's okay, baby.
00:39:05I love you so much.
00:39:07I love you so, so much.
00:39:09Shh.
00:39:10We'll be together soon.
00:39:16My baby.
00:39:21I feel that I will not see her again.
00:39:25Because anything can happen.
00:39:27She might go back to her country and she might change her mind on most of the promises, like bringing
00:39:33me to her country, you know, the visa.
00:39:37I am hoping she will do it, but we are not married legally yet.
00:39:42So it's very hard for me to say goodbye.
00:39:46I miss you so much.
00:39:50I love you, baby. I can't do it. You have to walk away from me. I can't do it.
00:40:07Okay, I'll go. I'll go.
00:40:12It's very hard. I feel like I'm not going to see him again, even though I know I'm going to.
00:40:17I'm making these plans, but I'm thinking, what if they fall through?
00:40:22What if it's more than six months? What if it's more than a year?
00:40:25What if, what if, what if it's two years?
00:40:30What happens between Daniel and I? I don't know.
00:40:33Oh, my God.
00:40:37Oh, my God.
00:40:38Oh, my God.
00:40:40Oh, my God.
00:40:47Oh, my God.
00:40:48Oh, my God.
00:40:48Oh, my God.
00:40:49This is nice.
00:40:50It's a big house.
00:40:51You can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:40:55I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:40:58But she's trying to make it up to me.
00:41:00You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:41:02So the fact that I'm doing this must mean I really like you.
00:41:07Oh!
00:41:08Oh!
00:41:28Can we have everything, you think?
00:41:30Yep.
00:41:31OK, to a trip, just us.
00:41:34Chris gets the place to himself now.
00:41:37Silence is coming soon.
00:41:40It's finally peaceful on the moon.
00:41:47Blue Mountains.
00:41:48It's lighted.
00:41:50What's this?
00:41:51Uh, it's called deodorant.
00:41:57I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:42:00But Elise has realised she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me and she's
00:42:04organised a two-night stay at the Blue Mountains.
00:42:07Take me away.
00:42:09The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls and it's a different part of nature besides the beaches
00:42:15that Sydney has.
00:42:16So I'm excited.
00:42:17You know, I've never even been.
00:42:19I wouldn't say all is forgiven, but she's trying and this is a good start.
00:42:34Oh my God, are we here?
00:42:35We are here.
00:42:38It's nice.
00:42:39It's a big house.
00:42:40We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:42:44Yes, we can.
00:42:47I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains, but Josh has always spoken about it and how much he wanted
00:42:53to go.
00:42:54So I decided to book us a trip.
00:42:56And there's hot tubs there.
00:42:57So I was like, love that.
00:43:00Look, baby.
00:43:01Look what I got us.
00:43:02Whoa.
00:43:03Oh, wow.
00:43:05A lot of space for a lot of activity.
00:43:07You're the best.
00:43:09I know.
00:43:10I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi, away from Nat, away from Chris, away from
00:43:16Boat.
00:43:17I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more.
00:43:23Get out of the kitchen.
00:43:24I was cooking for you.
00:43:27You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:43:30So the fact that I'm doing this for you must mean I really like you.
00:43:33That does mean a lot.
00:43:35This should be fun.
00:43:38Oh, my God.
00:43:41Oh.
00:43:42Baby.
00:43:43What had he done?
00:43:45Ew.
00:43:46This is not the first stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth.
00:43:50Oh, no.
00:43:52Baby.
00:43:53It's...
00:43:54I'm real crying.
00:43:56This is...
00:43:57Eww, eww.
00:44:00Oh, that was process.
00:44:02Half of it went in my mouth, my face, my boobs.
00:44:05Maybe, should I take it off?
00:44:09Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:44:11I don't know how to turn on the stove.
00:44:13Oh.
00:44:15Which pasta do you want?
00:44:17That's so embarrassing.
00:44:19What packet was that in?
00:44:21I'm making you two types of pasta.
00:44:23Perfect.
00:44:28Nope, not ready.
00:44:30Oh, God.
00:44:31This feels really good.
00:44:36Oh, my God.
00:44:40I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall.
00:44:45So, like, if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall, then you know it's ready.
00:44:49Yeah, but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta.
00:44:54Let's throw in the pasta.
00:44:57Oh, my God, there's water in you.
00:45:00I think I just ruined the sauce.
00:45:03Baby.
00:45:05The kitchen is definitely not her element.
00:45:08I love seeing the side of Elise that's doing something that she's not used to doing.
00:45:13Alright, that will do.
00:45:15Elise, she keeps me on my toes.
00:45:17I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale.
00:45:21And I know it's not going to be dull with her.
00:45:23Let's see how we go.
00:45:25Is it good?
00:45:26It's actually not that bad.
00:45:33It's horrible.
00:45:35Be honest.
00:45:36I'm not picky.
00:45:37It was the most fun I've had making dinner.
00:45:41I laughed my head off.
00:45:42And I needed that.
00:45:43Me too.
00:45:45You know what's so cute about Josh is, like, when I f*** up or I do something stupid or I
00:45:50feel really awkward, like, he makes so light of it.
00:45:52But, I don't know, it's like, it's the little moments, like, then, that I'm like, you know what, like, I
00:45:58feel like he could be my forever.
00:46:00But there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on, and it's been constantly playing in the back of my
00:46:05mind.
00:46:06I don't know if I can go back to Florida, not having met your son, to see how you are
00:46:14as a father.
00:46:15You would have met him already.
00:46:16I would want you to.
00:46:17But he's moved away.
00:46:19So, for now, like, can we FaceTime?
00:46:22Will that work?
00:46:23Yeah.
00:46:25I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through, but I'm leaving soon, and I
00:46:30haven't met anyone in his family.
00:46:31I haven't met his son.
00:46:33And this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing out on.
00:46:37So, I really, really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip.
00:46:42Pretty full.
00:46:44Me too.
00:46:45Me too.
00:46:48We're looking for wedding bands.
00:46:51I like classic stuff.
00:46:53It is really important for me to have the wedding ring.
00:46:59$268.
00:47:01I think he's not sure.
00:47:04I don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:47:09Take it happy.
00:47:10Okay.
00:47:12Okay.
00:47:18Oh, my God.
00:47:24That's awesome.
00:47:26Sure.
00:47:28Why not.
00:47:28We have a wiener!
00:47:33Yeah, you really wanted that, don't you?
00:47:40Bowie!
00:47:41Ready, boo?
00:47:49Oops!
00:47:55That tickles my belly!
00:48:05That was fun, yeah.
00:48:06That was so fun.
00:48:08Oh, look at those shops.
00:48:11That's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses.
00:48:15Like, really pretty.
00:48:17Nice.
00:48:19Can't wait for the anniversary party.
00:48:22Yeah.
00:48:22Yeah.
00:48:25Things with Javon and I are really good.
00:48:28And now, in a couple of days, we're having our anniversary party,
00:48:31where we're going to renew our vows.
00:48:36Since we never had a wedding in person, basically, it's just like a second wedding to me.
00:48:42You know?
00:48:45Because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face.
00:48:50I've been dreaming about this.
00:48:52And now it's happening and I just can't wait.
00:48:57Okay, boo.
00:49:00Are you ready?
00:49:02Yeah, I guess so.
00:49:06Now that we're going to renew our vows,
00:49:09Good afternoon.
00:49:11We decided to look at rings.
00:49:15We've been married almost three years.
00:49:18And sometimes I still can't believe that Javon hasn't put a ring on it yet.
00:49:24I feel like I'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band.
00:49:31Hi.
00:49:33Hello, what are you looking for?
00:49:35We're looking for wedding bands.
00:49:37We have different styles.
00:49:39Okay.
00:49:39What are you prepared for?
00:49:41Well, I'm okay with a simple, plain wedding band.
00:49:44I want it more classic.
00:49:47I like classic stuff.
00:49:53This one.
00:49:57It is really important for me to have the wedding ring, my symbol of love.
00:50:03You need a ring to symbolize that?
00:50:05I assume you don't want someone mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:50:11They can have you.
00:50:12Okay.
00:50:14Okay.
00:50:15She's on the market.
00:50:16I'll go, I'll go.
00:50:17I'm playing.
00:50:18Relax.
00:50:19When is your wedding?
00:50:22Well, we're actually married already.
00:50:24We don't have an official wedding rings yet.
00:50:28We did our marriage online.
00:50:29That's why.
00:50:30Lying.
00:50:32You know, to be fair, you know, I did get you a ring.
00:50:37Okay.
00:50:38You send me your money and I bought a ring that's under $100.
00:50:44That's turned my finger green.
00:50:45But that's what you wanted.
00:50:48I thought.
00:50:48No, I thought it's just a substitute ring.
00:50:51Mm.
00:50:52How about poor sir?
00:50:54What do you think?
00:50:55When it comes to bands, like, I prefer, like, black like this, silver in the middle.
00:51:02Kind of sporty, but they don't sell that.
00:51:04Right here.
00:51:07I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married.
00:51:12And I like it a lot.
00:51:15I'm not a jewelry person.
00:51:17And I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need or want.
00:51:23You know what I mean?
00:51:24That's how I'm married.
00:51:24You know what I mean?
00:51:24How much is this?
00:51:24It's too skinny.
00:51:30Like, do you have something that's a little bit wider.
00:51:33I have different kind of pustani.
00:51:35Okay, this one.
00:51:39This one is good. I like this one.
00:51:42More simple, but really looks like I'm married.
00:51:46You know what I mean?
00:51:48How much is this?
00:51:50Per gram, no?
00:51:52Yes.
00:51:5215,510 in peso.
00:51:5415,510.
00:51:55How much is that?
00:51:56That's 268 in dollar.
00:51:59268, yeah.
00:52:00Do you have anything budget?
00:52:03No, we didn't really have a budget.
00:52:05But...
00:52:09He's not sure.
00:52:11Are we going to buy this?
00:52:13What do you mean today?
00:52:15Yeah.
00:52:17I can come back.
00:52:24We can come back.
00:52:27Yeah.
00:52:27Yeah.
00:52:29Because I got to sort out my bank stuff.
00:52:31Okay.
00:52:35Why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not going to buy anything anyway?
00:52:41What's the point of going out?
00:52:44Just to get an idea of what you want.
00:52:54Thank you so much.
00:52:56Bye-bye.
00:52:58I feel so humiliated that I can't even have the cheapest ring.
00:53:05It's not just a jewelry.
00:53:07It's a symbol of our marriage.
00:53:10I waited six years to be together in person.
00:53:15He never applied for a spousal visa.
00:53:18And now, I still don't have a ring.
00:53:23Once again, he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship.
00:53:31That was embarrassing.
00:53:33A little bit.
00:53:35You just don't care, don't you?
00:53:44I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with him.
00:53:49I really don't.
00:53:49I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:53:54I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:53:59There's a lot of layers there.
00:54:01And, I mean...
00:54:16Oh.
00:54:20Hey.
00:54:21Hey.
00:54:22A little concern from that phone call you gave me.
00:54:24Yeah.
00:54:25Me too.
00:54:36I'm assuming you've talked to Miracon?
00:54:38Yeah, I did.
00:54:39It was super great.
00:54:41Thanks for that.
00:54:42I kind of partly blame you.
00:54:45OK.
00:54:48I don't know.
00:54:49You don't know?
00:54:50I don't know what was said between you and him.
00:54:53I only know my end of the story.
00:54:55OK.
00:54:55So we have to come together.
00:54:58OK.
00:54:59Super curious.
00:55:00What was going through your head telling him that I hit on you?
00:55:06Like, I don't understand how that even came up.
00:55:09We never did anything.
00:55:11And he's pissed off about it because I didn't tell him.
00:55:14Told me that he wishes he never met me.
00:55:17And I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you
00:55:20to bring that up.
00:55:22OK.
00:55:23And I'd like to know why you did.
00:55:24OK.
00:55:27I brought it up because Miracon was under the impression that I was in love with you.
00:55:32So that man kept pushing and pushing and pushing.
00:55:36And at some point, I needed him to understand that I said no to us having a relationship.
00:55:44But you were the one that asked.
00:55:46And from that, he got very upset.
00:55:48And I tried to reassure him.
00:55:49It was a year ago.
00:55:50It didn't.
00:55:51I mean, it was before you met him.
00:55:53I feel like, honestly, it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it.
00:56:00How long have you been here with him?
00:56:03How long have you been here with him?
00:56:05How long have you been here with him?
00:56:05Two and a half weeks.
00:56:06And in two and a half weeks, you cannot convince him that I was not a threat?
00:56:16But that's not on me.
00:56:17I did everything I could to defuse that situation.
00:56:21I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you.
00:56:25I really don't.
00:56:27I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:56:31I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:56:37There's a lot of layers there.
00:56:40But no, that's not something I want to happen.
00:56:43Anyhow, we're friends.
00:56:47I don't want to be more.
00:56:50At the end of the day, I want you to be happy.
00:56:53All I ever heard was little stories here and there about him from you.
00:56:56You said all these bad things, and just, why does she keep talking to this guy?
00:57:01So I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff.
00:57:05And you don't have to worry about him and I anymore.
00:57:08You just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you before you make a commitment.
00:57:13But I don't even know what to do right now.
00:57:15Like, there's part of me that just wants to, like, go have another conversation with him.
00:57:18But I don't even know what to say.
00:57:19Because he just told me he wishes he never met me.
00:57:22Okay.
00:57:22But the opposite of love is not anger.
00:57:24It's apathy.
00:57:25Yeah.
00:57:25So angry means he still loves you.
00:57:29I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all, romantically.
00:57:36But I think, ultimately, he does have my best interest in mind.
00:57:40And I think he does care about the future of my relationship with BeerCon.
00:57:45BeerCon is the person I need in my life.
00:57:48And I want to fix this.
00:57:50I just don't really know how to go about it.
00:57:54So what do I do?
00:57:55I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal.
00:58:00Do you acknowledge that he felt the way he did?
00:58:03It didn't matter whether he was right or not.
00:58:06No, I never said that.
00:58:08At the end of the day, the relationship is more important than the argument, which means
00:58:15somebody has to say, I'm sorry.
00:58:18It's amazing how the words, I'm sorry, when said truly can diffuse the situation.
00:58:25Okay.
00:58:25I see your point.
00:58:28I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that.
00:58:37I'll let you know how it goes.
00:58:40Yeah.
00:58:58How are you?
00:59:01I'm good.
00:59:02How are you?
00:59:04I'm okay.
00:59:07I was just wondering if we could talk.
00:59:14Not today.
00:59:16I'm sorry, did you say not today?
00:59:19Yeah.
00:59:23Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
00:59:26I'm sorry.
00:59:28Just give me the space.
00:59:32Okay.
00:59:33I guess I will get a room somewhere.
00:59:37Okay.
00:59:38We both need time.
00:59:41Yeah.
00:59:41And we both need to think about what's going on.
00:59:44Mm-hmm.
00:59:47Okay.
00:59:49Okay.
00:59:50Okay.
00:59:51Bye.
00:59:53Bye.
00:59:59I don't want to force you, but like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:00:04When Elise asked to meet my son, I can see that she really, really cares.
01:00:08But honestly, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts about trying to let
01:00:12her in to the most important part of my life.
01:00:22Oh, my God.
01:00:23Oh, that's hot.
01:00:24Oh, that's hot.
01:00:25Oh, it's really hot.
01:00:28That's burning me.
01:00:30Oh, you found the champagne I got.
01:00:32It did.
01:00:33So good.
01:00:35I think we should open it.
01:00:39Wow.
01:00:41Cheers to that.
01:00:49What a perfect ending to a perfect little guy.
01:00:53Good drive.
01:00:56Good cooking.
01:00:58It's so funny, huh?
01:01:00So funny.
01:01:01Okay?
01:01:01I tried.
01:01:03So am I making it up to you?
01:01:05Am I doing a good job so far?
01:01:07Yeah, absolutely.
01:01:10Well, have I made it up to you enough that, like, you can let me in your own world?
01:01:16You have.
01:01:19Well, I want to be with you, and I'm scared that I've came literally around the world and
01:01:25all I've met is, like, a few friends.
01:01:28And I don't want to force you, but, like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:37When Elise asked to meet my son or, you know, talk to my son, I find that endearing.
01:01:42But honestly, the last couple of days, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts
01:01:47about whether I'll introduce him or not.
01:01:50Obviously, I'm very protective of my son.
01:01:52So I want to be confident that this relationship is going to work.
01:01:57I understand he's young, and it's, like, a video call, and it's probably, like, a lot
01:02:03to explain to him.
01:02:04Yeah.
01:02:05I do want to prove how much you mean to me.
01:02:08But, um, that's been playing on me heavily.
01:02:14What's been playing on you heavily?
01:02:15Explain that.
01:02:17It's just been, you know, a tough year.
01:02:21I didn't move him away, but, you know, he's an hour and a half plane ride, and I don't
01:02:27see him as much as I want.
01:02:30I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can.
01:02:33So it's just a guilty feeling for me at the moment.
01:02:39So I'd miss him, you know, especially when you're here, you know.
01:02:45Really?
01:02:45Well, yeah, well, because when you're here, I think, you know, if he was here as well, it'd
01:02:49be like, I'd love you two to get along, and then it'd be like a perfect little world.
01:02:57I guess it's just painful to think about it.
01:03:02It's okay to have feelings.
01:03:04It's okay to be upset.
01:03:06If you weren't emotional about your son, and you didn't feel this way, I would be worried.
01:03:11I'd be very, very worried.
01:03:13It means you're a good dad, and it means you care.
01:03:20You know, it's like having a son's responsibility and, like, excitement, and you do things with
01:03:24him, and then when something like that gets taken away from you, you're like, I feel like I lost myself.
01:03:31Yeah, I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself.
01:03:36My relationship with my son, we're really tight.
01:03:39I've been there since he was born.
01:03:41He's my little partner in crime.
01:03:43We go camping, we go fishing, surfing, you know, we kick footballs, we go and play golf.
01:03:48It's such a good part of my life.
01:03:51So it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that.
01:03:57I want to help make you feel like you're back together.
01:04:03I want to be that rock for you.
01:04:07Are you going to do that?
01:04:10Be there for you, support you in any way I can, but you have to let me into your life.
01:04:15I can't do that without getting brought into your life.
01:04:20This is very emotional because being away from my son affected me, you know, more than I thought.
01:04:26But I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life.
01:04:30I can see that she really, really cares.
01:04:33She's shown that she's worthy of, you know, getting to know my son.
01:04:37But at the same time, it is scary to let her in, the most important part of my life.
01:04:42What if things don't work out?
01:04:43You know, that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us.
01:04:47Well, I'm here for you now.
01:05:09I mean, after getting her family's approval.
01:05:17I just f*** it up.
01:05:21Thank you very much.
01:05:22I don't want anything to approach.
01:05:41And Eric, what are you doing?
01:05:42Yeah.
01:05:51My family's happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:06:04Hello, man.
01:06:05Now.
01:06:06Oh, my God, they're crying.
01:06:10Hello, man.
01:06:15I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes, that I'm willing to have a child.
01:06:21But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:06:25Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family, but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:06:33Now, Trisha and I, we can sleep together and, you know, take a nice warm shower together and not have
01:06:39to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:06:44They were really happy.
01:06:46Oh, wasn't it?
01:06:48Wasn't it?
01:06:49Wasn't it?
01:06:50I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off after I sent it out after I agreed to
01:06:57have that baby.
01:06:58They're so sweet.
01:07:00They're so sweet.
01:07:00Gonna miss them.
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby.
01:07:06But what if you change your mind?
01:07:13Maybe, as long as we're going and moving in the right direction, I'm all on board with having a baby
01:07:20with you.
01:07:21Because I know that it'll make you happy.
01:07:23I know that's what you really want.
01:07:27I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially ready to
01:07:34have another child.
01:07:36But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises, this could be Trish in a very bad
01:07:44situation with her family.
01:07:46I know how much her family means to her.
01:07:49So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:07:54I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:08:03Yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:08:07Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out in our future.
01:08:16You're...
01:08:18Do you love me?
01:08:19Baby, I love you more than anything.
01:08:33You have to use the restroom or anything?
01:08:35No, I don't.
01:08:36I don't eat anything like this dog.
01:08:38I already checked for you.
01:08:40Okay!
01:08:44Well, damn.
01:08:46My flight's been delayed.
01:08:48Thats it.
01:08:50We wait for one hour.
01:08:52I hope this bad boy is going straight to Tana.
01:08:57Couple of days in Tana before my baby.
01:09:02Get out of bed.
01:09:06That's really sad.
01:09:09Sad story.
01:09:12It's just all beginning.
01:09:15Oh, God.
01:09:39We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:09:44The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her,
01:09:48and I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:09:52Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:09:56And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:10:01It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone,
01:10:10and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:10:15Is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:10:19Yes.
01:10:23Some of the most beautiful times of my life has to be with you.
01:10:27So with me was that the beautiful time.
01:10:31Why would you tell that to her?
01:10:33A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex.
01:10:40And she was telling me that, you know, she misses the times that we had together,
01:10:47and I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:11:17Why?
01:11:20Why?
01:11:21These killers can help her Spanish person.
01:11:24And I'm the princess.
01:11:26She was saying, no, you cannot.
01:11:28And she's watching her aunt and she was listening to me?
01:11:29She was watching her woman.
01:11:42She was playing!
01:11:50He makes me sad.
01:11:58Like, I love him.
01:12:01We talk about the babies, the future, and my dad just give him blessing.
01:12:24I mean, after getting her family's approval, everything felt different than it did the whole couple weeks prior.
01:12:35How did I come so close to getting what I wanted, and then I just f***ed up?
01:12:46And I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:12:50And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:13:03Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:13:09We are leaving tomorrow.
01:13:11I know my mom is not going to accept it, but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:13:17to ensure Shana and I are together.
01:13:18I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:13:23This is our choice.
01:13:25What the f***? You just came out of your mouth?
01:13:46Man, I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today.
01:13:49I know he feels relaxed when mom is sitting around, and we're bad and sorry.
01:14:05So when I talked to Forrest, he's like, oh, surprise, mom.
01:14:09I went and met with a lawyer, and the lawyer says he has to have, like, a certain amount of
01:14:14income, something like that.
01:14:16He didn't do anything right at all.
01:14:20I'm upset right now.
01:14:22Forrest is coming back, and for the last few days, Deb and I haven't heard anything from Forrest or Shana.
01:14:28And we've just felt like we've kind of been left in the dark.
01:14:31You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation.
01:14:40I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:14:46We're supposed to be flying out tomorrow, and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all.
01:15:03Hey, mom.
01:15:05How's things going?
01:15:07It's going pretty good.
01:15:08How are you guys?
01:15:13Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:15:16Yeah.
01:15:17I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:15:19Yeah.
01:15:21That's kind of why we're here.
01:15:22Yeah.
01:15:25Today is supposed to be my last day in the Philippines, but Shana and I have made the decision for
01:15:31me to stay here
01:15:33and basically start a life here with her.
01:15:36You ready?
01:15:37Yeah, we're going to have...
01:15:38Oh, let's go.
01:15:38All right, guys.
01:15:40I know that my mom is not going to accept it, but she has to understand that I'm not the
01:15:46child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:15:49I have changed a lot this trip, and I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Shana
01:15:55and I are together.
01:16:00Oh, my God.
01:16:03Wow.
01:16:04Look at that.
01:16:06They moved to every ethnic race.
01:16:09Look at that.
01:16:15It came from originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put their feet, and
01:16:21they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet.
01:16:24It's just such a...
01:16:25It tells a whole story.
01:16:26Yes.
01:16:27It's just a dare.
01:16:27I agree.
01:16:28Oh, my goodness.
01:16:29Oh, look at that.
01:16:31Yay!
01:16:32Oh, thank you.
01:16:33Oh, that's beautiful.
01:16:35Gracias.
01:16:36Good job, guys.
01:16:37That's awesome.
01:16:38Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo, but you have to be
01:16:44in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time.
01:16:46Kind of like life.
01:16:49Well, I think Shana and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:16:55Yeah, definitely.
01:17:02So, Sheena, do we get menus, or how does it work?
01:17:05I think there's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:17:10Here is one.
01:17:12See me going with the gentleman back.
01:17:13Oh, good.
01:17:15Thank you so much.
01:17:19So, with the...
01:17:21Where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give me all the details.
01:17:28Um, yeah, I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded.
01:17:35In more ways than one.
01:17:44You had sex, didn't you?
01:17:49You know what?
01:17:50Yeah, we did.
01:17:53About time.
01:17:55I enjoyed it.
01:17:56It was fun.
01:17:58Yeah.
01:18:01You guys think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:18:07Yeah.
01:18:09I feel like our souls have really connected, and now we can really understand each other.
01:18:18I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity, finally, you know.
01:18:24Nookie, nookie, nookie.
01:18:26Bang, bang, bang, bang.
01:18:29And also, too, that's an important aspect, to know if they had compatibility on all aspects,
01:18:35including sexuality.
01:18:38Well, that's good.
01:18:40I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized, finally.
01:18:42That's, yeah, Mom.
01:18:48Well, you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:18:54tomorrow.
01:18:55But it must be very painful.
01:18:58But are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get you over to the United States?
01:19:10Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:19:14Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:19:20Yeah, we talked a lot yesterday.
01:19:24With the K-1 visa, I found out that being on disability, I don't make enough money.
01:19:32So, she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:19:41Forrest?
01:19:42I'm tired of being alone.
01:19:45Oh, my God.
01:19:46I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:19:50Oh, you didn't expect to eat full.
01:19:53I want my love with me in my second half.
01:19:55This is our choice.
01:19:58What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:20:01Mom.
01:20:01Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:20:05Was that in between the...
01:20:07Excuse me?
01:20:08You can say one thing something you want to say, but for me, I have him.
01:20:12He had me.
01:20:12I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:20:14I'm doing my best for the part for your son because I love your son.
01:20:17And I've worked everything hard for him, for our future.
01:20:20I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:20:27I trust my son.
01:20:29I don't trust you.
01:20:34I'm sorry.
01:20:35I just want to need space.
01:20:37Sorry.
01:20:40Excuse me.
01:20:47Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:20:50When do you plan on applying for the fiancé visa?
01:20:53I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
01:20:59No.
01:21:01Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the U.S.
01:21:04It's two hours before I'm leaving.
01:21:06It's just really weird timing.
01:21:08You won't be able to make any money.
01:21:10I saw you're going to be my sugar mama.
01:21:13I wish we could have talked it out last night.
01:21:16You've been texting with him this morning?
01:21:18What has he been saying?
01:21:19I asked him if we could talk and he said sure.
01:21:22So.
01:21:23I want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how I ever felt about
01:21:30Michael.
01:21:30Why did you mislead me while Michael made the move?
01:21:34I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
01:21:44Are you excited about today?
01:21:46I think I should ask you that question though.
01:21:50I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
01:21:53It's just going to be like the basics.
01:21:56I just wanted today to be full of love.
01:22:01But it just feels like any other day for him.
01:22:05I don't know.
01:22:06I can't pretend that everything is fine.
01:22:12I love your son and I'll do anything my best for him.
01:22:15Love doesn't pay the bills, Gina.
01:22:17You know, I'm like in panic mode that he's going to move to the Philippines.
01:22:21It's not going to work.
01:22:23It won't work.
01:22:24How much do you think that you're going to make working here?
01:22:28Where are you going to live for us?
01:22:30Have you even factored how much it's going to cost?
01:22:33I don't know what to do.
01:22:37All the messages in the text.
01:22:39Why did you betray me?
01:22:42Why don't you block her?
01:22:44If you want this relationship, tell her that you don't want her anymore.
01:22:49That I'm with you.
01:22:50I love Trish, but love isn't so black and white.
01:22:57I need to be honest about my feelings.
01:23:00I don't know what to do.
01:23:04Oh my God.
01:23:06Stunning.
01:23:07I don't think Elyse realized, you know, what she'd signed up for.
01:23:10Mom!
01:23:12I'm done, baby.
01:23:13I'm so done, man.
01:23:15Come on, baby.
01:23:17What did I do?
01:23:18Yeah, at first, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen.
01:23:23I start to think, oh, is she okay?
01:23:25I can't go.
01:23:28Help me, girl!
01:23:30Help!
01:23:30I can't go.
01:23:30Oh, no.
01:23:31Oh, oh!
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