Becky G Cheating Rumors & People Pleasing Truth 😳 Part 1

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00:04what is up daddy gang it is your founding father alex cooper with call her daddy

00:13becky g welcome to call her daddy do i call you daddy or alex you can call me whatever you

00:19want

00:20i'll call you poppy okay i'm just kidding i will not i will not get upset about that

00:25um i have been so excited to talk to you i feel like you have had just such an incredible

00:32massive

00:32career i know you started at nine years old now your music has streamed over 20 billion times

00:40you've sold out tours you've received five latin grammy nominations you've been in this industry

00:46for almost two decades but i do still feel like there is so much to discover about you and so

00:52much of your story that hasn't fully been told so i've been really looking forward to sit down

00:57with you same thank you so much for having me of course i heard that on your rider you always

01:04have

01:04tequila and your pre-show ritual is to take a tequila shot before so i figured if you're down

01:11i poured us two tequila shots girl no i love this this is gonna be my favorite podcast i've ever

01:18done

01:18ever like it's 1 p.m i want to do a little cheers five o'clock somewhere what should we

01:25toast to i think

01:26we should toast to um being big daddies in our fields um i think we should toast to the fact

01:36that

01:36i'm sitting in this couch because i've seen so many people that i love and admire sit right here across

01:41from you and i just feel so yeah excited for this conversation so toast to you cheers cheers

01:47we'll do the barriba barriba barbajo barbajo barcentro barcentro barentro barentro oh

01:54this looks big these are really cute glasses okay you took that down nice girl well i'm trying

02:03well are you a tequila drinker i am but i'm more reposado also i was looking in your eyes and

02:08i'm like

02:08why is she not flinching so i'm trying not to flinch but i'm like i i think you wore it

02:12nicely

02:13okay okay yeah we did that right we did that right um how did that become a tradition for you

02:17with your

02:18shows that you do that before every show i'm mexican it just felt right yeah it just felt right i

02:23know

02:23that sounds really funny but i just feel like that's like our it's like a celebratory thing it's

02:29also like a warm-up thing i'm sure you've heard singers talk about like hot toddies and stuff like that

02:34that's just like i just want a tequila straight is that your go-to drink it really is just

02:38tequila straight just tequila on the rocks or it could be it could be warm it could be mixed it

02:46could be you're gonna get along i will just have tequila on the rocks and i'm happy happy um

02:52fuck mary kill tequila vodka gin oh just fuck mary tequila everything else can die you don't drink

03:00anything else you know i do i like wine i'm gonna sound like an alcoholic oh my god you're fine

03:05let me

03:05watch myself um no i love wines um so it's you know what's funny i feel like wines and food

03:12are

03:12great pairings for me i'm also like a champagne girly every now and then i love a little a little

03:17bubbles um but tequila is just my yeah i'll have a beer every now and then a little chill on

03:26the side

03:27yeah but tequila okay yeah okay we're gonna kick it off with the game oh let's go i'm gonna ask

03:32you

03:33some of your firsts and your worsts are you ready yes okay what is the first thing you do every

03:40morning

03:41when you wake up first thing i do every morning when i wake up i don't know try to get

03:46it together

03:47girl yeah it depends on the season if i'm in like recovery season it's like meditation i make my

03:55morning coffee at home um if it's a busy season i'm probably panicking at the like multiple text

04:04messages that i've missed that have you know approvals that i need to get to and deadlines that

04:11need to be met that's the season i'm in right now it's funny it's like i want to be that

04:15girl that's not

04:15like i look at my phone but i'm like oh fuck i am that person that's like i look at

04:19my phone i check

04:20and i'm like i need to stop yeah and so i do i i catch myself i would say like

04:24i try to a balance

04:26is impossible to sustain all the time it's just you have to recalibrate okay good answer what's the

04:31worst habit you have you know what it used to be biting my nails these are my actual nails y

04:40'all oh

04:40wow i do not buy my nails no more i am so bad at that and that's why i just

04:45do gel because i'm like

04:46okay who is the first celebrity that actually left you starstruck oh shit oh damn you know what's so

04:56crazy okay obviously you've probably had the same thing where it's like this is what we do right so

05:00you're like play cool play cool and you'll meet some people and there's so much more like human and

05:04chill than you thought they would be so you're actually not as like whoo like oh my god you're

05:10actually like oh you're cool as fuck like we can have a conversation and i don't feel what i thought

05:14i was gonna feel in the best way not in a bad way but i would say when i did

05:19the oscars for the first

05:20time and i was doing the rehearsals on the stage i wasn't even starstruck by the person themselves but

05:25the photo cards that they have of them you know how they have pictures yeah yeah yeah girl denzel

05:30washington i was like i've seen him in so many movies like why is it that i'm freaking out right

05:35now like he's gonna be right there when i'm when i'm singing like huh that actually is such a good

05:40answer too because it's not like denzel washington's like finding places to get paparazzi like mega super

05:46famous people that are obviously like so worthy of like kiss the ground they walk on you know they're

05:51so incredible no that's a good answer he's a legend yeah um okay what's the worst rumor you've

05:57ever seen about yourself online look i know ai is a touchy conversation these days um but i've

06:05been seeing the craziest pictures of myself and they're fully like crazy no crazy has it ever been

06:13so bad i know what i'm gonna look like when i'm pregnant and she's giving cutesy like i'm i'm here

06:17for it dude that is that's getting scary it's scary what is the worst date you've ever been on

06:24um i remember still to this day it is i love food so like if you have me choose between

06:31you and food

06:31i'm gonna choose food because food's always been there for me you know um i remember it was so

06:39awkward and like me and this guy were like dating for some time too so it was like okay you're

06:43getting

06:43a little too comfortable and i don't like this um but it was something as simple as like the food

06:47came

06:47and i was like eating and i'm i do happy dances and like i don't chew with my mouth open

06:51but

06:51i take big bites you know i want to get a little bit of everything on the plate

06:56and this homeboy has the choice of words to say you know it's not going anywhere right

07:07like okay i would be so livid no i remember and i'm like you brought me to olive garden

07:14what did you think was going to happen okay so he brought unlimited unlimited breadsticks

07:20wait those breadsticks and the pasta they won't be there i know it's frozen technically but it's so

07:27good like it's the consistency it's just you know the fettuccine alfredo yeah wow the breadstick in it

07:35what was your reaction no i just remember i kept eating my food i was like you're just background noise

07:41right now like i'm now i'm gonna chew with my mouth open i hope you don't like me break up

07:45with

07:45me right now you're like i'm gonna finish this and then i'm gonna actually leave you but again i'm not

07:50leaving until i finish this meal yeah uh and it's unlimited soup and salad bitch so girl oh i would

07:56be

07:56livid okay what is your worst irrational fear worst irrational fear you know i had a feeling we'd get

08:07into like therapy talk eventually but like this is a little soon um i think just letting it's not

08:14really irrational i guess but just like letting the people i love down like yeah the people i love down

08:21is like letting them down is just it's a lot yeah yeah so let's get into therapy talk yes let's

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10:01growing up in los angeles like what was your community like i mean um i'm a proud um

10:08inglewood native and i'm a proud chicana mexican-american i'm one of 19 grandchildren

10:15on my mom's side and one of 15 on my dad's there's grand babies or great grand babies now so

10:21i'm a tia i

10:22have nieces and nephews um and my baby sister just had a baby too so the family just keeps growing

10:27so i

10:28grew up around a lot of community it as my grandma would say like mi pueblito like my little village

10:34like

10:35this is this was everything for us growing up so i feel like i grew up feeling supported and feeling

10:42like i was never truly alone even though obviously you go through things in life that sometimes you

10:48do feel lonely in um i always had like my tribe you had all these people yeah yeah and i

10:53would say

10:53inglewood you know it's a predominantly brown and black community um i grew up watching the airplanes

10:59take off from lax and land into lax and i would always wonder where are those planes going and where

11:05are they coming from you know and now like it's so crazy to fast forward to where my life is

11:10now and

11:10i'm still here i'm still in la i'm a proud angeleno um but i'm on the planes now and i

11:16get to see my

11:17my grandparents houses depending on which side of the plane i'm sitting on because if you know lax and

11:23you're on a plane if you're on the right side you can see inglewood on the right side and if

11:27you're on

11:27the left side you can see hawthorne and that's kind of like the south bay like that's like where my

11:32my family is from it is so crazy that like no matter how successful you get and where your life

11:37takes

11:37you you still connect that younger version of yourself where like that little girl was like

11:42i want to be on one of those planes one day and like i want to see the world and

11:45now every time

11:46you're on a plane you're looking down being like oh my gosh i'm the girl on the plane now which

11:49is

11:49really sweet yeah um i do know that at nine years old you decided to start working to help support

11:57your family which is like that is really really young that's about like third grade did it feel like a

12:05choice at the time it did i think older me now looking back at it considering the circumstances

12:14there was definitely pressure external pressure um just from the the system i think around me

12:23to to step up in some kind of way but one thing i admire about little bex is that she

12:29was very much

12:30the driver of her life even if she wasn't she was convinced she was and i i think this is

12:37a theme

12:38with like i'm the oldest of four kids i have two younger brothers and a little sister and you just

12:43always gotta know like even if i don't know i gotta know i gotta figure it out you know so

12:49um i very much

12:50knew what i was getting myself into i very much wanted to pursue this considering that no one else in

12:57my family had ever worked in the entertainment industry it was kind of out of the blue that all

13:04of a sudden because i saw random shirley temple you know uh multi uh vhs videos growing up that i

13:13was like

13:13oh she did it i can do it too you know or dakota fanning and um and so i i

13:19yeah i just i just did it

13:21and i think what's interesting is like having this passion that you were like i want to do this like

13:26no

13:26one told me to do this like i really wanted to do this but then inevitably especially i think in

13:31the

13:31entertainment industry because you're around so many adults like you are forced to grow up quickly

13:36in a way that no one can really prepare you for and like in what ways i guess did being

13:44praised for

13:45being i'm assuming getting called mature like a lot of young girls badge of honor yes like how did getting

13:52called mature and strong reinforce those traits as like the eldest daughter to like step up and to

13:59take everything on yourself i think it does feel very rewarding when you're young you're like oh i'm

14:06doing something good i'm doing something right um me today is like there's no such thing as good or

14:12bad or right or wrong there just is and i think i very much was just trying to survive the

14:17circumstances

14:18that i was living and when we lost our home which was kind of like the catalyst as well as

14:23uh and i

14:24talk about this in my documentary actually but um the addiction kind of playing a huge part in in

14:31the four walls that i was growing up with with my dad being an addict um we had nothing we

14:36found

14:36ourselves living in my grandparents converted garage it's six of us and you know there was no insulation

14:43uh we we did have carpet it was just rolled out on the ground though it's concrete on the other

14:49side so it wasn't soft or plushy but it was carpet um and it was it wasn't tough though like

14:55you're a

14:56kid there's a bit of naiveness that i think was in my favor if that makes sense because i was

15:01like oh it's

15:01a big sleepover every single night like oh i'm sharing a bed with my baby sister like oh cuddles you

15:07know

15:07like it was never looked at as something that i was like ashamed of at least not yet because in

15:14that time you're so young you don't really know what's happening or you do you have an idea but you

15:20can't really do something about it you know so you're just you're just making with what you got

15:25and like when you talk about how you know addiction in those four walls like when you look

15:31back like how long do you feel like you were in survival mode of like there's nothing i can really

15:36do i just gotta i just gotta get up every day and go do my thing i mean the truth

15:42is is it's

15:42generational yeah it's generational and i i think when you and anybody i think who's probably tuning

15:51in knows if you you've grown up around addiction um it is there's something there it's it's not always

15:58just drugs it's not always just alcohol you know sometimes it's work um there's a an avoidance

16:04of type that fuels this this deeper wound and that is absolutely generational you know so this is

16:11before my parents this is before my my grandparents even um and i have a lot of empathy around that

16:18for

16:18sure but i i would say then the the moment i came out you know i had young high school

16:24sweetheart

16:25parents who who got married straight out and were like we want to have a family and by the time

16:30my mom

16:30was 23 she had all four kids and i think what's so interesting when something is generational it's

16:36like it inevitably is so hard to not have it just be this like normalized understood thing that it

16:46actually takes someone going against the grain and making things like a little uncomfortable or

16:51calling things out to actually have it not continue to be this transgenerational trauma

16:56but that takes such an effort to break and so when you are such a young child

17:03how are you going to do anything other than like fall in line and play your role and then eventually

17:08when you have some more autonomy then you'll be able to look back and be like huh what would i

17:13have

17:13changed about that dynamic but until you have that there's nothing you can really do and i think

17:19something that could be really relatable to the audience watching is like it makes me think back to

17:26that word mature as a young girl like you shouldn't have to be mature at such a young age so

17:32when you

17:32are given that validation that makes you feel like you're in the inner circle of adults it's

17:38intoxicating but what it really is when you get older you look back you're like that's really

17:41fucking dangerous to tell a young woman like you're so mature you're so strong it's like but should i have

17:46had to be that mature and strong like did you ever feel like why am i carrying a lot of

17:52this weight

17:53when did that click for you because i'm assuming it did it absolutely did it manifested physically

17:58before it did uh with like full conscious awareness so a lot of my symptoms were uh full-blown panic

18:06attacks multiple a day um chronic people pleasing i just the words no like the way my body would just

18:17like literally like contortion in a sense if i like really felt to know and i had to say it

18:21and then and

18:22most times i would fold and i'd be like okay well maybe not like because i'd see the reaction on

18:26the

18:26other side growing up in this industry longer than i've ever not been doing it it was like the perfect

18:32storm

18:33so it starts within the household right the four walls that i grew up in but then the conditioning

18:39that happens in the industry it's very rewarding when you start to gain success for being such a

18:46chronic people pleaser because you're like wow you love me you you choose me when i'm doing what you

18:54want me to do but what you're also though saying becky is like you grew up in a place where

19:00you were

19:01people pleasing how many times did i have to say yes right so no wasn't it wasn't really an option

19:06it didn't feel like it can you also talk about you mentioned earlier which i think so many people

19:11will relate to is also the added level of complexity of being the eldest daughter oh girl you want to

19:18get

19:19into uh birth order theories we can do that we can do all the attachment theories i i am definitely

19:27someone who i think in the beginning was like oh i'm just an empath like that just is you know

19:34like

19:34and and i am i am somebody who chooses to lead with um you know kindness and awareness around

19:42how someone is allowed to feel how they want to feel even if it doesn't align with where i'm at

19:47but that's like the progress part that i've gotten to if we rewind a few years ago

19:53yeah i was like oh i'm just i have to be a self-sacrificer i have to give up mine

20:00for the

20:00greater good i have to you know think logically and not about how i actually feel and i think a

20:09lot of

20:11firstborns feel that way but what's cool about learning about birth order theory because i'm the

20:15oldest of four and i will stand 10 toes down for my brothers and my sister i'm so thankful that

20:22they

20:22exist and they are my best friends um they didn't have it easy either you know so it's not that

20:30like

20:30firstborns have it the hardest but it's that we have a different version of our parents all of us do

20:38it's such a good point because i have friends who are the oldest child and that is so in line

20:45with what

20:46they've said and then also i think any of my friends who are the oldest and had some instability in

20:50their home a lot of times we talk about how a parentified child develops such a high eq

20:59because you're so hyper aware of every single person's emotions in your family and it almost

21:05forces you to be one step ahead of every situation so that you know like this is how i'll solve

21:10it

21:10this is how i'll handle it like this is going on with my parents like this is how i'm gonna

21:13save my

21:14siblings this is how i'm gonna save myself this is how i'm gonna fix the situation and you're

21:17constantly having to be ahead and thinking of everyone but yourself and it's hard to realize

21:24that everyone's emotions are not your responsibility yeah and i'm curious if you have any advice now as

21:30you've like clearly done a lot of work on yourself and lived a lot of life to anyone who is

21:35watching

21:35that has still that like weight or burden of being the oldest child and taking on so much responsibility

21:43yeah okay wait as you're saying this is literally making me think about there was a time

21:50where i oh my god this is gonna be really embarrassing to share i don't think i've ever

21:54shared this story but um i remember i was we were going through a lot as a family and i

22:01was like i was

22:02offered this opportunity to be a part of like this like disney holiday experience and i was gonna perform

22:08it was gonna be the coolest thing ever and i me and my family we're from cali like we loved

22:12going to

22:12disneyland growing up and my baby sister had never been a disney world before so i was like oh my

22:17god

22:18like you know things are not so good at home i'm gonna take my baby sister to disney world this

22:23is

22:23gonna be amazing um i'm gonna do some work but we're gonna have a good time

22:31i do drinks around the world and epcot and have one too many and i wake up in my hotel

22:41room

22:42and i'm like wait the sun hasn't even gone down yet like what happened like i was in full panic

22:48mode

22:49palpitations like i'm sweating i'm looking at my sister and the moment i look at her i just start

22:55crying and i'm like i'm so sorry and my sister's like crying but she's like laughing she's like

23:02this is my baby sister guys and we're because we're going through so much at home i was like i

23:06wanted to like take her to have a break from everything that we've been going through and

23:10then here i am getting all topsy-turvy upside down yeah but it sounds like becky it's because you

23:16needed a break you need a complete breaking point and i'm over here crucifying myself right and i'm

23:23like i'm the worst sister on the planet like i can't believe i did this like i ruined the trip

23:27like i'm so sorry i'm like profusely apologizing to her i'm apologizing to my girls who were on the

23:33trip uh morgan who we were talking about earlier my stylist shout out to morgan um you know and

23:39so it was like a very small group of us and i i call them to the room and i

23:42like i'm like putting

23:44on this like you know confessional like apology of like why i did what i did and i'm explaining myself

23:50and they're literally looking at me like are you serious right now as they're still tipsy by the

23:56way right they're like girl they're like do you know what i have done blackout drunk and also like

24:02girl like you all of us are here because of you you you were looking at your sister being like

24:07i am

24:08going to give you the reprieve that you need meanwhile it's like what we just talked about like

24:12hey actually seems like someone may need it a little bit more me i needed it a little bit more

24:18and oh yeah and i was just like

24:24and it i walked away from it being like wait and so it just led to an a much more

24:29open conversation

24:30around other young women my age who were like wait don't do this to yourself like by the way you

24:37know that's like a thing right people go drinking around epcot and it's like a challenge of like how

24:42far can you go and bitch you made it to frozen like you were like let it go let it

24:47go and we were like

24:48yes like let it go and you're in your head thinking you ruin everyone's time yeah and you're like oh

24:54my

24:54god i ruined this whole thing and it's like girl you why couldn't i just because of those pleasing

25:00tendencies where you're like yes it's you're so hardwired essentially yeah ready for the worst

25:07case scenario ready to make sure that everyone else is comfortable and everyone's like becky

25:12go back to bed you're like oh yeah that's that's just like a good example like you know some people

25:18are just like girl i don't even remember what happened wasn't that so funny no i was like oh

25:22my god i don't even remember what happened like how did we get back like oh my god i put

25:26my baby

25:26sister in the worst position as if she's not also like a whole like grown-ass young woman herself

25:32you know and so it was just like one of those times where i was like yo i need to

25:37check in with

25:37myself and i need to like dive into this like why am i hanging myself up for something that

25:43myself up for something that should actually lead me to more curiosity yes

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