Becky G Cheating Rumors & People Pleasing Truth 😳 Part 2

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00:01like what is going on and it's like what's so crazy because i have siblings too and i'm the

00:07youngest but it's like when you have dynamics with your siblings no matter how old you get

00:13you still kind of see each other in those four walls that you grew up in and so when you

00:18are

00:19around your siblings like my siblings and i have had some really beautiful conversations around like

00:23regressing almost when we're around each other because like i still feel like the baby and

00:27you still feel like my oldest sister and like there's so much history that you meet adults and

00:34you're a complete different person to these people that you're interacting with they don't see you as

00:38the oldest daughter they don't see you as someone who was trying to help provide for them so there's

00:43like so much ingrained in family dynamics that are so beautiful but also like they can be really big

00:50wounds that you have to like actively recognize and be like girl your baby sister is fine you took her

00:56to disneyland and she's a big enough adult that she could have managed herself you can't ruin the

01:00party continued like i sat in the room i ate some chicken nuggets and i definitely was like i need

01:04to sober up and take a shower but the party continued with the vibes and the disney of it all

01:09and everything

01:09was fine everything was totally fine what a concept by the way i was like is there pictures is there

01:14videos like did somebody catch me off guard they were like no like you were so normal like you're so

01:20fine but i was going through so much panicking that i like completely shut off and like you know i

01:27think that that that is like a really good example of like just how far on the spectrum you can

01:33go of

01:33like codependency people pleasing like you don't give yourself any space and grace to just be a young

01:4020 something year old figuring it out i was gonna say it also feels like from your upbringing like you

01:46really had to be in such control at all times because there was no plan b there was no safety

01:53net it's like you need to figure this out because there's no other option and um i know you had

01:59a

01:59complicated relationship with your father how did that dynamic influence just like decisions you made

02:07growing up as a child you know it's really interesting looking back at it now i think i had a

02:14lot of anger

02:14anger um anger wasn't an easy emotion for me to process obviously they say anger is sadness uh what

02:24is it sadness is a bodyguard and so my anger i would put towards my career i just thought that

02:31the more

02:31successful i became the more uh i made uh the less this would be an issue and if i became

02:40a better

02:40husband to my mother and i became a better father to my siblings then you know maybe he'll figure it

02:46out

02:48you can't do the work for someone else you know and i i wish yes of course you can't go

02:54back in time but

02:55i wish younger me had someone to to lean on and also hear that from because it is this like

03:05unspoken

03:06permission that you give yourself to say you know what not my problem it takes a long time to get

03:14it takes a lot and when it feels like the whole entire family system depends on you for that and

03:20by the way every person who plays a part in that system feels the same way right so it's like

03:26like

03:26i said it's this like unspoken thing but yeah it's definitely something that i wore for a really long

03:30time and there was a lot of avoidance with that um with my dad and i i just tried to

03:37out dad my dad

03:38that's how i became a big daddy you know how do you think like that essentially it sounds like yes

03:46anger and resentment towards your father like how do you think it impacted your view of like just like

03:51authoritative figures at a young age like did you respect male figures and adults were you scared of

03:58them i think it made me more vulnerable i didn't necessarily respect my dad and we've had many

04:03conversations about this um i had no respect for him and and the choices that he was making i still

04:10had love for him and so the care to want to continue to move things along for the sake of

04:15my

04:15siblings and their mental health and their emotional well-being that desperate need was was very much

04:20present but it made me vulnerable to looking to other men in the industry to be like the one who

04:25was

04:26going to look out for me like big brother figures or other father figures and like these people are

04:31not your daddy they are not your big brother they are they can be healthy partners actually in business

04:37but if you put this like very young filter on it you are you're like wow no one's ever looked

04:44out for

04:44me or believed in me in that way and you you hold the keys to to to the the treasure

04:49box that i'm

04:50trying to unlock of of what's gonna get me to where it is that i i know i can get

04:55and so you are you

04:56absolutely are vulnerable to it but that was something that i needed to work through that

05:01wasn't anyone else's fault you know that point too and i bet so many women will relate to what

05:05you're talking about is like the feeling of never ending like you just said like i wanted to out dad

05:11my

05:11dad yeah that is like such a heavy thing to feel because you're you're never gonna be the dad of

05:20your family but you tried clearly and then that's gonna like linger yes into these male relationships

05:25where you're like can you play this one role that i needed in this role like what did out dad

05:30and your

05:30dad look like in your childhood for you yeah i mean i became the sole provider for my family by

05:3516 years

05:36old girl yeah and it looked like being at you know peaks on charts and not having any health

05:44insurance because when you work in the entertainment industry you know how that goes like it's not you

05:50don't health insurance isn't built into a record deal you know like these are things that you know

05:55uh i was able to provide for myself but like when it came to my family i was like my

06:01dad's losing his

06:02job like my siblings got to get through school tuitions have to get paid like and they deserve

06:07to play sports if they want to like because they're good at it and and i i i have an

06:13escape they deserve

06:13an escape too so it was like i just needed to produce more than for myself but for everyone else

06:21since

06:22yeah since my very very early teen years it's so much pressure to put on yourself yeah it was it

06:28was a

06:28lot was anyone there to support you i think that people were there to support me in the best ways

06:36they knew how to yeah i think my mom oh my god my mom is my girl like my mom

06:43is is somebody who

06:44even when she didn't know what was going on i think she had a good read on things i remember

06:53they're

06:53getting uh it getting to a point where um i had worked so hard to to to get far in

07:01my career and

07:02optically things were very successful behind closed doors things were not very successful

07:07um financially you know i was carrying a lot of weight and so if i was just a single girl

07:12living

07:12on her own like i'd be just fine but i'm providing for my whole family and you know it looks

07:18a lot

07:19different and so i remember just kind of like finally like looking up and being like wow i'm

07:27still here like i'm still here and not in a good way like i haven't moved forward like i'm still

07:34in

07:35the same neighborhood i grew up in i'm still dealing with the same shit when it comes to like my

07:40parents

07:40and their marriage i'm still carrying these weights i'm still and i and i thought i i reached like a

07:47milestone at that point that many my age hadn't even really reached and i was still hung up on the

07:54fact that like but we're still here like you know and and i think that my mom when she's witnessing

08:01me in that moment you know it gets to a point where you're at a breaking point you're like i

08:05this pressure is unbearable that like i don't even want to exist anymore and i remember my mom grabbing

08:11me by the face and telling me you could choose to never pick up a microphone ever again and i

08:17promise

08:17you it's okay like you you're good we'll figure it out we've always figured it out like it's not on

08:25you this isn't on you and she took that off of me were you able to fully hear that though

08:30like could

08:30you believe it i did not receive it girl that's a whole other thing was i willing to receive it

08:35no

08:35because again the system isn't it's subconscious it's not i don't think our parents go through

08:41life saying i want to cause our kids harm i don't think our grandparents do that saying i want to

08:46cause my kids harm you know these are just things that systemically exist you know and so when i say

08:53it's generational like it's generational and so i'm like yeah but somebody's got to do it because if i

08:58don't who else will and that was the voice that kept me going for a really long time until i

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10:20check app for availability delivery fees may apply i feel like so much of our dynamic with our parents

10:28shapes the partners we choose and how we show up in relationships like looking back how do you think

10:36your upbringing influenced the relationships that you were drawn to oh tremendously tremendously i think

10:44the first time we ever experience love is through our parents eyes you know and it's yes of course in

10:53the way they love us but also in the way they love each other and i think i grew up

10:59in a culture i mean

11:00it's gonna sound funny but it's like very ride or die and like me today is like if i ride

11:05why do i gotta

11:06die like why are we gonna die where are we going i want to know like if i'm riding there's

11:11some conditions

11:12here there's some boundaries that i'd like to put in place you know but it was very much this like

11:17my grandma would say this phrase to my mom with my dad and in regards to their marriage like

11:23put your gloves on like you're gonna fight for your marriage and i remember being young and being

11:29like well that's very one-sided like shouldn't it be both sides like shouldn't it be but you can only

11:35meet people as deep as they've met themselves and i think my mom had a very profound way of loving

11:41loving um and my dad did too but it just looked very differently you know it looked very different

11:48i know you grew up in a household where one of your parents cheated and then in your documentary

11:54you opened up about being betrayed by your partner how did you decide to share that with the world

12:02you know i remember going into that process with the documentary and particularly and there being

12:08conversations about are you going to talk about this you know very public situation are you not

12:12going to talk about it and i was like well we're going to talk about it we have to to

12:16me i've always

12:16believed like half the truth is still a lie and uh there was conversations about like why i just

12:23wouldn't even mention it like some people don't even know what happened like some people don't even

12:26even are looking for it and i'm like yeah but how can i have been in a relationship with someone

12:31for so many years and do a body of work you know uh that's supposed to really

12:40capture where i am in this time in my life and also my history

12:45and control all delete and pretend that this person never existed you know and i was

12:50in many relationships but particularly in a long-term relationship since i was 19 years old

12:56and i know that there's like things online about like the 19 theory like you know when you go i

13:01think

13:01anybody who gets into a serious relationship at a young age isn't conscious of the fact that you are

13:08going to shed and you are going to go through seasons and that doesn't stop necessarily but in your

13:14younger adult years i think i had a very strong sense of self based off of old programming

13:21and when i went through this very public situation with my partner it was like

13:30this like awakening it was this like moment of like oh there's a massive misalignment and who i thought

13:40i was and who i actually am and i think that that happens a lot for people who grow up

13:47in family systems

13:48where it's like you can see it on someone else it's so easy to judge someone else and say oh

13:52my god

13:52like don't you see it you know and then you can find yourself on the other side of that table

13:58the next

13:59day and be like wait hold on not everything is what it seems and also i am not my mother

14:06and he is not my

14:07father and so there's also the possibility that there's an opportunity here for there to be some healing

14:14whether together or not um an opportunity though nonetheless to really practice

14:23what it is to be the person that i know i want to be in this world versus who i

14:29thought i was

14:30right and and and that's like going so far back into again the conditioning of the chronic people

14:35pleasing and like wanting to just say yes and wanting to be like sweep it under the rug and keep

14:42it moving you know yeah and even like i appreciate you saying that because i think

14:47having had like you just like we're talking about like watching your father cheat on your mother and

14:54being like okay i have a documentary moment where i have something playing out in my life

15:00that to me at face value could look like i'm reliving what happened to my parents

15:07but now i need to assess it and be like i can't let my my shit from my past influence

15:14like what is

15:15how i feel right now with this partner and what do i want to do like do you mind talking

15:21about just like

15:21when you found out like how did it affect you because you're obviously in such a more healed place

15:26now but like i've been there i have been there girl where like i stayed with someone who cheated and

15:32i

15:32wanted to stay but i was it was so complicated because those decisions are like people are

15:38judging you don't know how to react like how did you handle all this in the moment i think also

15:43you

15:43saying like you wanting to stay it's interesting because your want isn't enough like you can want it so

15:49bad but that's just not enough you know and i think that understanding where that want comes from

15:56is also really important because if you're just doing it to want to prove other people wrong

16:01then you're just doing it for others and that's not a good place you know to come from and it's

16:06interesting because well i've first off i've never talked about this so it is uh i'm thankful for the

16:12safe space to be able to talk about it because some of the stuff that i was challenged with um

16:16there's a

16:18private heartbreak that's taking place and then there's a public heartbreak that's taking place

16:22and both are extremely painful but what was i think the hardest part for me to navigate through was

16:28giving myself that space and grace to make that decision for myself um and that was one of those

16:34moments where it was an opportunity for me to heal and look inward as to okay whether it's

16:40this person or another person that i get into a relationship with i'm capable of still making

16:45these same decisions so this is more than just like a well let me be the barbie that everybody wants

16:53me

16:53to be and play uh cupid with all of these cute guys in the industry that everybody wants me to

16:58be with

16:59and because my life is supposed to be entertainment for other people or um let me um you know really

17:07listen to what other people's uh perception is on what an empowered woman is um you know this very

17:15binary thinking right i wanted to go there i really did oh man the therapy sessions that i had of

17:21this

17:21like very black and white space that i was existing in it's like you know and and it was

17:27very clear to me that it was a space where i needed to decide for myself but that's so hard

17:33becky

17:33because like i i think we all know like there especially because you were handling it in the

17:38public and private like you just said there is such a loud narrative especially for women of like

17:43if you stay you don't respect yourself if you stay you're weak and like what what is your take

17:52on that assumption and how did you manage to like block that out and be like what do i want

18:00it's interesting you say that there's a uh a quote that esther perel who i know you've even spoken to

18:07who i love i have the biggest girl crush on her she's amazing i remember hearing something along

18:12the lines of like you know back in the days women used to be shamed for leaving it was just

18:17a mistake

18:17how could you leave how could you throw it all away you know he can change and then now it's

18:23like

18:23the opposite now it's like if you stay you're a dumb bitch you you're a dumb bitch you so stupid

18:29i cannot believe her oh my god i could never i could never and it's like the girls who would

18:35say i

18:36could never like i actually love that for you i love that that's where you started that that was

18:40your ground zero that was not my ground zero my ground zero was people pleasing self-sacrificing

18:47doing what other people wanted me to do forgetting that i mattered in that equation and this was an

18:53opportunity in my life to unlock and go inward and make this about me which was so uncomfortable

19:01uncomfortable you know it was really really uncomfortable to go inward and say wait this is

19:05about me and what i want and if you know me you know that i do not make decisions passively

19:10and it

19:11was so hard to shut out the noise and the insiders say she didn't she didn't even say anything they

19:18just

19:18swept it under the rug and kept it moving like no i called off my engagement i took off my

19:25ring like

19:25there are things here that took place behind closed doors privately between me and this person who i

19:32love and care for deeply who i've been betrayed by and we could go into the spectrum of betrayal

19:38because it looks different for everybody but the thing about betrayal is it doesn't just make you not

19:43trust the other person you don't trust yourself anymore and so that was like this ain't even about you

19:52anymore this isn't even about them anymore this is about me and there was something so empowering

19:59about that process to say no i come first this is about me what do i want and there has

20:07to be

20:07alignment with the person on the other side like i said earlier like the want isn't enough the love

20:13isn't enough like it love is it's a beautiful thing to experience for someone but i mean considering

20:20everything i went through with my family like i i walked away from my dad like it wasn't something

20:25that i wasn't willing to do and so i think the misalignment from how from a public perspective how

20:32it was so uh and i'm not really like a controversial person you know maybe getting getting by got drunk

20:37in

20:37disney world is probably the most controversial thing i've done so it was so unfamiliar for me to kind

20:42of like wear this like uh i don't know this thing that was projected onto me that i am like

20:48not an

20:48empowered woman that i'm a contradiction about what i sing about and it's like no those feelings

20:53are real what i sing about is real like those there's so much more nuance to emotions like

21:00you're putting me in a box and everything i've ever worked for is now being squeezed into this tiny

21:08like i'm put to be this small all of a sudden and it's like everything else i had ever worked

21:14on

21:14didn't matter anymore and like of course i was you think i was mad at everybody in the world i

21:20was

21:20mad at him too i was like come on why do i got to be put in this position you

21:24know it's so hard it's

21:26like almost like when someone experiences it with their friends and family not wanting them to go back

21:32like imagining that heightened to the 100th degree where the world is like what are you doing what are you

21:39doing and then putting the world aside for a second because i think this can be really relatable

21:44because again i went through it like how did you navigate the emotions of feeling so hurt but loving

21:52someone so much i think that emotions aren't forever they're temporary they come and they go i can't make

22:03life decisions based off of other people's emotions in my comment section you know i think when you are

22:09a person on a platform or of some type of celebrity uh and fame you are a bit of like

22:15a mirror to other

22:16people sometimes and they think they're seeing you but really what they're seeing is themselves and so

22:21maybe they've gone through something and that's why when when a girl stands on her i could never i'm

22:25like girl from not this point on i could never trust me when i say i just had to get

22:30there like i said

22:31their zero was that mine had to be learned experienced felt processed um and and really

22:40like worked on with real professional intervention before i could make that decision and that was that

22:45that's what was really i guess um important to me when it came to the documentary and like talking about

22:50it i was you know some people were like it's very unresolved like are they together are they not and

22:54i was like well that that's what it was it was three years ago and it was unresolved we didn't

22:58know

22:58what was we were gonna we were committed to working on it and we were committed to figuring it out

23:03because when you spend that much time with someone it's not that you want to forgive and forget

23:11you almost have to remember you have to remember what you come from and the hurt that's been caused

23:20to know that you don't want to be capable of ever doing that to someone else ever again

23:25and i got to experience that and i did there were close people to me with enough i think

23:31discernment to know that people who don't know me don't should not have a say in what i do with

23:35my

23:36life um but there was people in my close circle who were protective of me of course who were just

23:41as

23:41hurt and and upset about what happened but also just as curious and also just as um supportive

23:49of the figuring it out because if if this was going to end it was going to end amicably it

23:55was

23:55going to end with clarity and with real resolution and with respect because that's that's what i deserve

24:02you know and if it's going to continue uh in the words of esther perel i i love her um

24:09it's got to be a new

24:10relationship because what was can no longer be anymore and i know that there's a lot of things with like

24:16betrayal you know in relationships any type of betrayal trauma in general it's like it'll never

24:20be the same again but maybe that's the point you know yeah it's such a it is such a great

24:25point can i

24:26ask are you still together girl yes yes okay so can we talk about like one how does it feel

24:35right now

24:35just like talking about this for the first time butterflies well i'm happy for you because i remember

24:40in the days weeks and like month following when this happened to me um when this happens like your

24:47your reality is so shattered because like you said you don't trust yourself you don't trust him you're

24:54like wait what what just happened i'm really struggling to understand how we got here how did

25:01you stabilize your reality and what questions did you need to start asking yourself that you're kind

25:07referring to that got you to the place where you knew you wanted to move forward i think removing

25:12myself from the relationship yeah and in a way that was um about not just like self-preservation

25:21obviously like i was distraught and and broken in a lot of ways but i think it was more like

25:27removing

25:28myself from the context of anyone i've ever had to be something to so it was much deeper like what

25:34came

25:34from this revelation wasn't just like my romantic relationship with this particular person it's

25:41like every romantic relationship i've ever been in uh every family relationship i've ever had every

25:46business girl every business relationship i've ever had how how many dynamics have i been in where

25:54this version of myself has been in the driver's seat and and really taking the time to evaluate it

26:01feel it understand it and then come to a place where then my needs my wants are a lot more

26:09clear

26:10and then getting to you know a what is it called like conscious uncoupling you know like conscious

26:16uncoupling to then be like this is the new baseline is there still alignment and where it is that we

26:22see

26:22ourselves you know and that was really empowering not just for me i think for the for the both of

26:27us

26:28but um but especially for me like getting to a place where i was like oh no like i'm allowed

26:33to

26:33change i'm allowed to evolve and i'm allowed to exist in this so much differently and if i'm capable

26:38of doing it what actions are you doing that proves that you are committed to the same thing

26:44and that takes time like that doesn't happen in weeks that doesn't even happen

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