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00:00Previously on A Family Business.
00:01I'm turning things over.
00:03I would like to pull back a little bit
00:06so that you guys can learn the business.
00:08This is what it is.
00:09It'll be me.
00:10Gotta come in and take the crown.
00:12I know you hate on Brand New.
00:14Tell me about what you want to do with Brand New.
00:15I'm taking off like a rocket.
00:17I got this bead in my pocket.
00:18I keep your heart dropping.
00:20Oh, snap.
00:20Am I rapping?
00:21Come on, man.
00:22All right.
00:23I'm the championship West Coast party king.
00:27I thought you were looking for love.
00:28I thought you found love.
00:29I'm done being a date show guy.
00:32Woo!
00:33Read this text.
00:34Flo Rida.
00:36I kind of like him.
00:37Flo is nominated for a Grammy,
00:38and he invited me to go.
00:42First and foremost, you know, he got to pay.
00:44When it comes to my sister,
00:46I'm going to be protected.
00:47I've only known Flo for like literally three weeks.
00:50A cool Flo minute.
00:51I really don't know what's going to happen with Flo and I.
00:54I need to make a decision now.
01:07The comedy.
01:09Yeah.
01:10You got some better?
01:11Yeah.
01:11A Grammy.
01:12Fran.
01:12Ray.
01:13Cut the crap.
01:15We should lose the fights.
01:16This family's about love.
01:18Don't be acting.
01:18No, we keeping the fights.
01:20Let's try it again.
01:22The fights, the love, the fans, the insanity, that's the business, the business of family, yeah.
01:37Beautiful day in the neighborhood, Big Boy's neighborhood.
01:39It is going down, ladies and gentlemen.
01:41Brandi and Ray J are on the air when we come back.
01:44Let's get it in.
01:46Brandi and I, we got to go to Big Boy in the morning today, Power 106 West Coast.
01:50I'm excited because we got a lot of new projects coming out.
01:54So we got to go up there and promote, let the world know what it really is.
01:57Young Fuzz.
01:59What up, Fuzz?
02:00How are you?
02:01I'm good.
02:02Thanks for having us.
02:02You smell good.
02:03I mean, I took a bath this morning.
02:06Hey, so is there anything we want to stay clear of?
02:09We want to stay clear for the love of Ray J, man.
02:12So don't mention your show.
02:13I don't want to.
02:16That's probably going to have to...
02:17I mean, maybe a little bit, but I...
02:19Don't do that.
02:19Come on.
02:20That show was a smash.
02:22How can you not talk about...
02:23That's all I'm trying to do for us.
02:24So you don't want to mention the show now?
02:26No, I do, but I just don't want to focus on my past relationships.
02:30We'll start.
02:30We good.
02:31All right.
02:31Whenever I do these interviews, what is the first thing they ask me?
02:35What's up with the dating show?
02:37I'm cool with that because I know that's what it is, but that's not the only thing that
02:42comes with Ray J. It's dating women.
02:44I want the focus to be on music, my business, and my family.
02:49Beautiful day in the neighborhood, big boys' neighborhood.
02:51Big boys.
02:52Going down, ladies and gentlemen, friends of the neighborhood.
02:55Brandi and Ray J are in the hood.
02:57What's up?
02:58Hey, man, that's the first time we had a chance to sit down with both of y'all together.
03:01I know.
03:02Isn't this great?
03:03Yeah.
03:03You know what's good about it, man?
03:04It's good to see people just sit down for real.
03:07Yeah.
03:07You know, as brother and sister, like, you can tell that y'all really love each other.
03:10I love being around my brother because, you know, even though we're working, it doesn't
03:13feel like we're working at all.
03:14And also, we have a new brand called R&B Productions, which means Ray J and Brandi, and we're trying
03:19to, you know, do projects under that banner.
03:21And your name just came first because we're thinking R&B.
03:23R&B.
03:24Absolutely.
03:25It's always, it sounds funny, Brandi and Ray J.
03:27It's always been Ray J and Brandi.
03:28Well, I must be a funny guy.
03:30And Ray J., you're trying to cross over into rap now?
03:32Well, that's, it's been a hobby of mine forever.
03:34You know, when Timbaland saw me spit on YouTube, and he was like, oh, my God, you got to
03:39come to the studio, we got to make something out of this.
03:41So he put me on his new album, Shock Value 2.
03:44It's a great experience.
03:46That's a good time to call to get those.
03:47Wow, a great experience.
03:47Yeah, it is.
03:48Hell yeah.
03:49But what about the real private lives, like the dating lives of, like, Brandi and the dating
03:52life of Ray J?
03:54You know, that's not really, that's not really happening here.
03:56Really, though?
03:56Not yet.
03:57So you're not dating anyone?
03:58Not, not yet.
03:59Mm-mm.
04:01We have good friends.
04:03Rumors about Flo and I are already spreading.
04:06I mean, I'm not going to confirm that because we're just friends.
04:09You got a good Flo to you, Brandi.
04:11Yeah, man.
04:12Yeah, I keep hearing that, that I'm dating Flo Rida.
04:14This is exactly why I told Brandt she needs to be easy on going to the Grammys so early.
04:19Flo and Brandt aren't even a couple yet, and they're already perceived as an item.
04:23What about for you, Ray J?
04:24Now, we've seen you, of course, do your reality thing.
04:27Yeah.
04:27Are we going to see Miss Barry making an appearance?
04:32I don't think so.
04:34Aw.
04:35Yeah, knew that was coming.
04:37Right now, I've just been working.
04:39I've been working, and that show was just, it had so many twists and turns in it.
04:43The reunion show is coming up, but look, after that, I'm done with the dating shows.
04:48You know what I'm saying?
04:48I'm good right now.
04:49I'm just doing, I'm doing a whole new thing.
04:51You know, he's been losing his vision.
04:52He got glasses on now and everything.
04:54I took a lot out of him.
04:56I get that Ray doesn't want to talk about the dating shows, but he can't avoid them like
05:00they've never happened.
05:01What really matters is what he chooses to do next.
05:04There's always going to be stuff going on in our lives, but what we want to do is take,
05:08you know, this opportunity and move into different, you know, areas in our career.
05:12Like, we want to do our own sitcom.
05:13We want to be, you know, because that's where our strength is.
05:16I heard that.
05:16Please believe it.
05:17Go ahead.
05:18Now, y'all stick around.
05:18Y'all radio's beautiful day in the neighborhood.
05:20Big boy's neighborhood.
05:21Big boy.
05:23The radio show was awesome.
05:25I mean, it's always fun to do interviews with Ray.
05:28Thank you so much.
05:28We love you, man.
05:29For sure.
05:30We love you.
05:30Whatever you need for me.
05:31Y'all want to buy some cookies?
05:334, 8, 12, 16.
05:34Because I'm going to eat them.
05:36What's up, big?
05:36You know we good.
05:37Oh, yeah, man.
05:38There you go, man.
05:47Come on, brother.
05:49I really just want to throw your phone in the garbage.
05:53Who, mine?
05:54Yeah.
05:54Why?
05:54I be handling business.
05:55I hate your phone.
06:00Yo, we killed that.
06:02We killed it.
06:02Yeah.
06:03West Coast.
06:04Oh, I got so much on my mind, man.
06:07Ray and I just finished Big Boy's radio show, and for the first time, I get asked publicly about
06:12flow.
06:12I got caught off guard.
06:13I really didn't know how to answer the question.
06:15I was like, oh, my God.
06:16What do I say?
06:17So, I don't know.
06:19I'm just kind of in a weird place right now.
06:21You know what I need to start doing?
06:22Meditating.
06:24Because so many thoughts just come a mile a minute, and I'm not able to just, like, let
06:30my mind just be still.
06:32Lord have mercy.
06:33I told you about that Flo Rida thing being on Super Blast.
06:36I know.
06:37I know, and I can't even get away from it, because Big Boy mentioned it today.
06:42Brandy and Flo.
06:43It's already out there.
06:44It's already out there, and it's not even like that yet.
06:48You know what I mean?
06:48That's why I'm telling you about this whole Grammy thing.
06:51It's going to be way too much on blast.
06:53Right.
06:54And you two, as a couple, as an item, y'all ain't took it there yet.
06:59Right.
06:59But y'all going to the Grammys hand in hand?
07:01That's too much.
07:02I think both of y'all need time together first.
07:05Get it together.
07:06You know me, I'm not the type of person that's going to give you major advice on love, but
07:11I can truly say, you know, keep it 100.
07:16Yeah, but then with you too, with Miss Berry, like, what's up with that?
07:21Like, you don't even want to, like...
07:22Don't talk about my love life.
07:23Ray, that's...
07:24Come on, dude.
07:25I'm serious.
07:25Like, I kind of get aggravated when you don't want to talk about For the Love of Ray J, when
07:30two seasons have been huge, and people are going to want to know about you and Miss Berry.
07:34I want to know what's up with you and Miss Berry.
07:36What's up with you and Miss Berry?
07:37Ain't nothing of...
07:39I'm confused about this whole thing, and that's why I don't want to talk about it.
07:43To keep it real, like, Miss Berry was like, yo, I'm in love with you.
07:48Already?
07:48Like, I'm in love.
07:49And with her saying that, I just got to let her know, like, right now, it's not going to
07:54work.
07:55Ray, honestly, you know I got to keep it real with you because I'm your sister.
07:58Like, you know I know you were never ready to settle down.
08:02Come on.
08:03Come on, B.
08:03I'm serious, Ray.
08:05You don't know.
08:05No, I do know, Ray.
08:06You're my brother, dude.
08:07I just want you to be honest with yourself all the way up into the reunion, even though
08:12it's going to hurt her.
08:13Like, there's no nice way to say it's over, Miss Berry.
08:16No, but I'm not.
08:17There is no nice way to say it.
08:17I know that.
08:19But I'm saying...
08:20You going to let me finish?
08:21I'll let you get it out.
08:21But I'm saying stay true to yourself and, you know, come from a good place and everything
08:26will be okay.
08:27No doubt.
08:27No doubt.
08:28My main thing tonight, I have to keep it 100.
08:31I'm not talking about keeping it 100%.
08:34I'm talking about keeping it 100,000%.
08:42I'm saying that's what it is, you know?
08:45I'm going to head over to the office.
08:46Wish me luck.
08:47Good luck.
08:48And I really wish you luck tonight with the reunion.
08:52Okay?
08:53Okay.
08:54We'll see.
08:56No, brother.
08:57Hmm?
08:58Let me walk out first.
09:00See?
09:00He's about to leave me.
09:01Those are things that you got to work on with Flo, too.
09:03Who's going to walk out first?
09:04Who's going to walk out second?
09:05Like, do you walk out like this?
09:07Stop talking about Flo.
09:07Or does he come like behind?
09:08Boom, like that.
09:09You know what I mean?
09:09You got to know how to do it.
09:13Coming up.
09:14Hello?
09:14I get a call and it's Flo.
09:17Grammys is off again.
09:18Not to whack.
09:19And later.
09:20This is the For the Love of Ray J 2 reunion special.
09:23And now I'm getting real nervous.
09:26For the Love of Ray J 1.
09:27Miss Cocktail.
09:29Cocktail?
09:29What kind of is this?
09:31I'm so head over heels over you and you're over here doing season two.
09:34How do you think that makes me feel?
09:35I need to know you're head over heels for me.
09:36You broke my heart.
09:44That is so awesome, yeah.
09:46What is this?
09:47This was the other day I was out on Robertson.
09:50Mm-hmm.
09:51My dress, and I didn't even know it was from H&M.
09:54It was like $24.
09:55It's what you like.
09:56You know that idea I was telling you about this?
09:57They could go to your website and custom do their own prom dresses.
10:02Right.
10:02That's part of your fan base.
10:03Mm-hmm.
10:04That goes to the prom.
10:05I love Pops.
10:06He's always coming up with ideas for, you know, new ventures in my career.
10:11Good.
10:11Ideas are just ideas.
10:12I know.
10:13You know, because if you come up with the ideas, it's in the air.
10:15I got a phone call.
10:16Okay.
10:17But thanks for the little talk.
10:19But I want to inspire you, Brandi.
10:21Hello?
10:21To do what you should do.
10:22I get a call, and it's Flo, and I'm in front of my dad.
10:26Come on.
10:27I'm not going to take this call in front of my dad.
10:28I had.
10:29So I had to excuse myself.
10:36I know.
10:37You know you've been so good, even though we've been on the opposite sides.
10:41I appreciate that.
10:43Thank you so much.
10:45Bye-bye.
10:52Hey.
10:53Hey, Mom.
10:54Hey.
10:56I think we should come up with you here, huh?
10:58Yeah, I kind of want to.
10:59I said I went on that side with you?
11:00Yeah.
11:01Just come.
11:09Hey.
11:10Grammys is off again.
11:11Really?
11:12Why?
11:13He called me, and he basically told me that it would mess up our personal relationship.
11:18I have my own doubts about going to the Grammys.
11:21But at the same time, there is a part of me that's hurt by this, and I'm taking this very,
11:28very personal.
11:29Very personal.
11:30And I shouldn't, but I am.
11:32It's a fine line with me between business and personal.
11:35What's silly is, is that I had the same concerns as Flo.
11:39It's just that I didn't realize how much I wanted to go until we called it off.
11:43You asked me to go to something that huge, you know, to be seen with me.
11:48That says something about how you feel about me.
11:50That was big to me.
11:52For him to renege, it makes me feel like, okay, well, then really, what's good?
11:56He does want to take you.
11:57I know.
11:58The problem is not him, Brandi.
12:00The issue is all of the things that will come with you once you step out of the car on
12:06that red carpet.
12:06Then don't talk to me.
12:08Okay, but he doesn't understand that.
12:09Then don't invite me.
12:10Then don't do all of that.
12:12Because he's a—
12:12You have to understand that, do you?
12:13No, no, no.
12:14Because he was—because he is just as excited about it as you are.
12:17I know I should be more understanding, but right now I'm just not—I just don't want to be understanding.
12:23It's hard to make the right decisions because if you're not strong enough, people can tear your relationship down.
12:29Well, what is she doing with him?
12:30Or what is he doing with her?
12:31He can do a lot better.
12:32Well, she can do a lot better.
12:33Nobody ever thought that they would be together.
12:34That's not a good look with the media, the press, the blogs, or whatever they have to say.
12:38It's not a good look for you to take Brandi.
12:40You can't go there because paparazzi is going to be there.
12:42And then, boom, you're starting to believe what they're saying about you instead of how you're feeling about the person.
12:47And that's whack.
12:48I just don't like it.
12:49I don't—I don't like the way I feel towards our friendship.
12:53Let me tell you how I truly feel about it.
12:55I wanted you to go because you wanted to go, and it was making you happy.
13:01But if it had been left up to me, you wouldn't have gone either.
13:05The media will take whatever opportunity that they can to exploit and sensationalize, but my daughter really wanted to go.
13:16So even though I felt from a manager's point of view that that would not be good for her,
13:20it was more important to me as her mom for her to go because she wanted to.
13:24I get it.
13:27Thank you, mom.
13:28I love you, boo.
13:29I love you, too.
13:40I love you, too.
13:43Ray, I got to go grocery shopping.
13:45You can—you can drink that.
13:47It's okay.
13:47Because it ain't—it's already been open.
13:50I know, because, you know, that's what we do on Sundays.
13:52Man, ain't nothing in here to drink.
13:54I know.
13:54I got to go to the grocery store.
13:56What about that?
13:57Yeah, yeah, yeah.
13:58White cream?
13:59Uh-huh.
14:00I'll try it.
14:01What's going on, Ray?
14:04Well, I got to—I'm going to the reunion today.
14:06I want to go.
14:07You going to go?
14:08Should I go?
14:09You should come up here.
14:09I want to.
14:10I'm going to see what Miss Berry got to talk about.
14:12I ain't talked to her, and I don't know what's going to happen, but I'm going to go see.
14:16Usually, my mom is always right about relationship advice, and so I always look to her for that.
14:23But I'm—I'm a little bit nervous about letting Miss Berry know what it is, and I'm shaking in my boots.
14:30Like, Miss Berry saying she love me.
14:32It's like, how do you love me?
14:34That's because Ray said—because that's the one thing—
14:36Like, no, I'm talking about not like, Ray, I love you.
14:39No, I know, but I'm just—
14:40I'm talking about, Ray, I'm so in love with you.
14:43Yeah, but Ray—
14:44I'm so in love.
14:44You can't determine what another person's feelings, the measure of another person's feelings.
14:48No, no.
14:48And that's what's tricky about it.
14:50Because, no, because when she first said it, I was like, I don't know.
14:53And then, when she said it again, I looked, and I was like, wait a minute.
15:00I kind of believe her.
15:02Truthfully, like, I don't know how somebody can fall in love that fast.
15:07It's never happened to me.
15:09And so now that she's consistent with it, I feel bad because it's like, she's a nice person, and—
15:15You would feel better if she says, I just—I was just putting on.
15:18And, uh, I don't wanna—I don't know.
15:20I don't know what to do.
15:22I think the best thing that you can do, Ray, always is to be honest.
15:27I'm ready to have some babies, you know what I mean?
15:30Give me a couple baby mamas.
15:32No, Ray.
15:33Ray, see, now those are the kind of things that you say just upset me.
15:36And you know it.
15:37You know—you know how to just—
15:40You know how to push those buttons, and then you say—
15:42You know how to give me a couple baby mamas, you know, different cultures.
15:45See, that's the kind of stuff that I don't want people to think that that's who you are.
15:48That's not who you are, Ray!
15:49I know, but I'm talking to my mama.
15:51I can be—I can create in my heart and my head what I put out.
15:53You can create, but I don't—your mama doesn't even wanna hear that, talking about baby mamas.
15:57What do I wanna deal with five or six different baby mamas across the country?
16:01So do it.
16:01No, all right, all right, all right.
16:02I wanna get married and be faithful.
16:05Well, yeah, when you get to be about 35 or 40.
16:07Nah, mama.
16:08I'm starting not soon.
16:09Faithful doesn't come, but right now.
16:11Mama, I'm winding down.
16:12No, you're not.
16:13No, you're not.
16:14Mama.
16:14You're not fooling nobody, Ray.
16:15Mama, I'm winding down.
16:17Whatever.
16:17I done pay my dues.
16:18Yeah, whatever.
16:19You say that every week.
16:20I pay my dues.
16:21Every week.
16:22Coming up.
16:23Brandi!
16:24Shea and Lotta invited me to go bowling.
16:28Brandi!
16:28What up, what up?
16:29I should've known that Shea had a trick up her sleeve.
16:31She always does.
16:32Yeah, hug.
16:33Yeah, hug.
16:34I'm not sure I'm in the mood for it, though.
16:36And later.
16:37Miss Barry, it's your moment.
16:39Come on out.
16:40I gotta explain to the producers that I gotta break this off with Miss Barry.
16:44She wants to give us a shot.
16:45She wants to give it a shot?
16:46Give it a real shot.
16:47How can I go out and hurt this girl?
16:49I don't think I can do it, man.
17:01So, I arrived on the lot of the reunion show.
17:05And here I am.
17:06Like, let's get this over with.
17:07I mean, that's definitely an option.
17:09Yeah.
17:10This is, like, I'm good with this, too.
17:11Listen, I'm a little nervous because I gotta go here and explain to the producers that I gotta break this
17:17off with Miss Barry.
17:18And that's just what I'm gonna have to do.
17:20Yo!
17:21What's up?
17:22Ray Go!
17:23What's up, man?
17:24You survived last night?
17:25Yeah, man.
17:26I'm scared.
17:27This is Walt.
17:28Walt's the executive person in the reunion.
17:30Yeah, you did the first one, right?
17:31Yeah, exactly.
17:32He does them all.
17:33Alright, cool.
17:33How you doing?
17:34I'm good.
17:36Look who's here.
17:37Hey.
17:38What's up, mama?
17:39Hey.
17:40I need therapy after this, Chris.
17:42You mind?
17:43Because it's like, you know, you see all of these girls' emotions in your head every night and all of
17:47the, you know...
17:48Do you have nightmares?
17:48I do have nightmares.
17:50I'm serious.
17:51I do have nightmares.
17:53Not just of me, but I have nightmares of like their parents and their brothers and sisters.
17:57Where's your head out of this?
17:57I mean, what are you thinking before Walt starts into it?
18:00It's just some, at some point with Miss Barry, I don't wanna make it seem like we're gonna be together.
18:07I mean, the real way in real life is just to say, you know, we're friends. Let's see what happens
18:12with us in the future.
18:14That's pretty much the way to go, but in a more dramatic setting.
18:17Well, we were gonna release 500 dubs. We may not do that now.
18:22But listen, where you're at, because you haven't seen her.
18:24Act five is you being reunited with Miss Barry.
18:27We're gonna actually bring her out first. We're gonna, at the top of five, we're gonna have you offstage.
18:32We're gonna talk to her a little bit about what's been happening, what she's feeling, where she's at.
18:36And then we're gonna bring you out, and we'll just let it play out.
18:39She wants to give us a run, man. I mean, she wants to give us a shot.
18:41She wants to give it a shot? Give it a real shot. Yeah.
18:45Oh, man. But it's, uh, you don't. You don't.
18:47Does she know that I don't? No, no, she doesn't. But, uh, what do you think about that?
18:53So it makes me feel bad. Yeah.
18:56She's really nice, and she deserves a good person, you know?
19:00Is that not you? No, I'm good. I'm good.
19:03Why does this have to be so complicated? I don't wanna hurt Miss Barry.
19:07So why am I put in this position like this?
19:10I signed up for the dating show, but never once did I think it would have to get to this
19:15emotional stage.
19:17Any thoughts that you wanted us to tell you?
19:19Yeah, I'll tell you what I think. Tell me what you think.
19:21I think that he should have sent them all home.
19:23He can't be committed. Yeah. And that's... And that's honesty.
19:27I want Ray to be honest with Miss Barry because I know my son does not wanna hurt anyone.
19:32But I also know that he's not ready to settle down.
19:36Thanks, Ray. Yeah. Grab me the flowers.
19:38I love him, by the way.
19:39Yeah, I know you do.
19:42We're just looking to lighten everybody. Just a couple of tweaks.
19:46Seconds away. Seconds away.
19:48Alrighty, guys. Good on the floor.
19:51In five, four, three seconds.
19:55Hey, everybody. I'm Tanika.
19:56And this is the For the Love of Ray J2 reunion special.
20:00And applause, please. Come on.
20:01I can feel the energy from the crowd. I can feel them. I can hear them. And now I'm getting
20:06real nervous.
20:10Walking in now.
20:11And now please welcome a man who has redefined the genre of dating shows. Ray J!
20:16I haven't seen these ladies in a minute. Don't know if they got hard feelings or not. But here we
20:22go.
20:22Nice to see you.
20:23Nice to see you.
20:24Nice to see you.
20:24Sit on down. Welcome.
20:26Cool.
20:27To your house.
20:28Yeah.
20:28What up? What up?
20:33I guess they're not happy to see me.
20:53Terrible.
20:54Okay.
20:54Nice.
20:55Oh, I love that.
20:56Your turn.
20:56So tonight, Orsha and Lotta invited me to go bowling at Lucky Strike in Hollywood.
21:03Oh, my God! She's good at this!
21:06Oh, yeah?
21:08Well, take that!
21:09Oh, my God!
21:11Oh!
21:13You better work!
21:15She's trying to distract me a little bit from the Grammys.
21:18And, like, that's something that I definitely want to put in the back of my mind.
21:25Brandi!
21:26What up? What up?
21:27Well, look who it is! Surprise!
21:30Hi!
21:31Hi!
21:32Hi!
21:32Cam!
21:32Hi!
21:33Yes!
21:34Me too!
21:35Brandi!
21:36Good to see you!
21:37I should've known that Shay had a trick up her sleeve. She always does.
21:40I'm not sure I'm in the mood for it, though. But I'm gonna pretend that I am.
21:46Let's go, Brandi!
21:47Let's go, Brandi!
21:48Let's go, Brandi!
21:49Let's go, Brandi!
21:49Excuse me!
21:51What's up, baby?
21:53Woo!
21:56Woo!
21:56Woo!
21:57Woo!
21:58Baby!
21:59Woo!
21:59Woo!
22:02Hey, what does this mean?
22:04Strike.
22:05Oh, what's this, Bear?
22:08Yeah, yeah. We just made it up. That's gonna be the...
22:11Yeah!
22:12I love my friends for showing me a good time. Bowling always seems to cheer me up. You know,
22:17getting my mind off of flow and the Grammys, you know. So, it's a good thing.
22:21Yeah!
22:23Yeah, yeah! Yeah, yeah!
22:29Yeah!
22:30Yo, I'm going through the taping of this reunion right now, and so far, it's been intense.
22:35Wait, did you get a new wig? Or what, you just didn't afford one?
22:38Does this sound like a wig to you?
22:40Why don't they just get up and fight? Why go back and forth?
22:44But the big moment is still to come, so the producers pushed me off the stage.
22:48Miss Berry, it's your moment. Come on out.
22:55She looking good.
22:56You had such a strong connection to him, so you thought, right? What was it about?
23:01You know, sometimes life happens, you meet somebody, and the chemistry is so strong,
23:06you don't really have an explanation for it. Ray is very special to me.
23:09In what way? Can you explain to everybody?
23:11I'm not doing this to her, Doc.
23:13Man, listening to what Miss Berry is saying and how genuine she is, and like,
23:17this makes it so much harder for me to break this off and keep it real with her.
23:22He's somebody who liked me for me, and so for this man to see the good person that I am,
23:30to love the positive energy that I brought, it made me feel really good.
23:33How can I go out and hurt this girl? Like, I don't think I can do it, man.
23:38I gotta keep Miss Berry, dog. I can't let her go. I'm not about to break up with her on
23:42this show.
23:45Coming up.
23:46For the love of Ray J.
23:47What?
23:48Miss Cocktail.
23:49Cocktail?
23:50When it comes to relationships, he's just not ready.
23:53What kind of is this?
23:55You out of line, Cocktail.
23:56I'm out of line, Ray J. What you talking about?
23:58You're gonna put that .
24:00You're so wrong. You are wrong.
24:02And later, tonight I'm having dinner with Kelly Rowling.
24:05I can confide in Kelly. I trust Kelly, and I feel like her advice is genuine.
24:10I love you.
24:13You're so silly.
24:14You silly?
24:21You know, sometimes life happens, you meet somebody, and the chemistry is so strong,
24:26you don't really have an explanation for it.
24:28Ray is very special to me.
24:29In what way? Can you explain to everybody?
24:31I'm not doing this to her, dog.
24:32She's a beautiful girl, and her heart is in it.
24:36Cocktail, the winner of For the Love of Ray J won.
24:39What?
24:39Miss Cocktail.
24:41Cocktail?
24:43What the is Cocktail doing here, dog?
24:48I'm here to just kind of let everybody know, when it comes to relationships, he's just not ready to be
24:57committed.
24:57And it just really...
24:58We're ready for a breath.
25:00Go get him, Ray.
25:01Right, man.
25:02Don't let Cocktail pull no crap out of you.
25:04No, no, don't.
25:07Ray, put Cocktail in her place, or I'm not gonna be proud of you.
25:11You understand?
25:12Yo, mama, you crazy.
25:13The mom's side of me wants to go out on the set to make sure that I was there in
25:20case my son needed me.
25:22The manager would have stayed in the trailer.
25:25When it got a little bit heated, I could quickly see that management role go out the door.
25:30When you walk in, you're gonna land in the middle of the two women, okay?
25:34Wait a minute.
25:35I'm already dealing with a girl that I have to go out and break something off with.
25:40And now I'm seeing a girl that I've already broken it off with in the past?
25:46What kind of is this?
25:47Woman to woman, you know?
25:49He's just not ready to settle down.
25:51All right, well, let's get Ray in here.
25:53Ray?
25:59I'm trying to figure out why Cocktail is coming at me like this.
26:02Like, I thought we were cool.
26:04Hold on.
26:05When you're telling everybody, misleading these ladies, you know what I'm saying?
26:09Making them think that you are really like a one-woman, ready to settle down.
26:13And then you're over here, you know, we're on tour, doing our thing.
26:15And then you're, like, going room to hotel room with other girls.
26:19And I'm supposed to be cool with that?
26:20Yo, Cocktail, don't even sit up here and play me like that, for real.
26:23Because when I was going to the other room with another girl, you had another girl in another room with
26:27you.
26:27Oh.
26:27So let's get that straight.
26:29What's killing me is that Cocktail is coming out here acting like I hurt her.
26:32We were cool.
26:34Like, you're over here running a love show.
26:36Like, you're really trying to settle down.
26:37First off.
26:37And then you're telling me you're being a good friend to me.
26:39And then you cut me off and you're sleeping with my friends.
26:40Ray, obviously this threw you for a loop right here, but I didn't even know she was, what is she
26:44even doing here?
26:45I think she came to give Miss Barry some advice.
26:47That was season one.
26:48You coming on here trying to play me and you know we supposed to still be cool.
26:51You haven't seen her in five months.
26:53You've seen me the next day after filming.
26:55So check yourself.
26:56Check yourself.
26:57You know what?
26:58I don't even have to deal with , dog.
27:00Why is she even on the show, dog?
27:02Keep it 100, right?
27:08Oh my God.
27:09Miss Barry?
27:10Miss Barry?
27:10I don't have to take this, man.
27:12I didn't do nothing wrong to Cocktail.
27:14I've done nothing wrong to Miss Barry.
27:16So why am I being treated like this?
27:18You out of line, Cocktail.
27:20I'm out of line, Bridget.
27:21What you talking about?
27:21You way out of line.
27:22You way out of line.
27:22Stop that.
27:23Cut that .
27:24You're going to put that .
27:26That .
27:27Hell yeah.
27:28Really?
27:29Talk about all.
27:30I ain't Hollywood.
27:31Really?
27:31I mean, I'm not Hollywood.
27:32I've never done you right.
27:33Really?
27:33I've never disrespected you.
27:35At all.
27:35No, I didn't.
27:37I didn't.
27:38Come on.
27:38I loved you.
27:39Stop playing.
27:39No, stop playing with me.
27:40I did love you.
27:42Hell yeah, I did.
27:43You're so wrong.
27:45You are wrong.
27:46Excuse me.
27:46You know what?
27:47You really need to leave, though.
27:49Don't be fired up.
27:51Miss Marwood, I'm sorry.
27:52Okay, I understand that.
27:54I'll leave.
27:54I'm sorry, Miss Marwood.
27:55I really apologize.
27:56Okay, I appreciate that.
27:57I apologize.
28:01Miss Cocktail Live.
28:02You know, I need to make sure Cocktail is okay, straight up.
28:05I had no clue she was still in love with me, and this is all brand new to me.
28:11Hi.
28:12What was that?
28:13What was what?
28:14What are you doing?
28:15We're supposed to be cool.
28:16We're supposed to be family.
28:17Like, why are you doing that to me?
28:20I'm so head over heels still, over you, and you're over here doing season two.
28:24How do you think that makes me feel?
28:25I didn't even know you were head over heels for me.
28:26You broke my heart.
28:27Okay?
28:28You know, Cocktail's telling me that I broke her heart.
28:32And I'm confused like hell, because I never knew I did that.
28:36I thought we were cool.
28:38I thought we were friends.
28:39You kept it 100 with me, okay?
28:42Exactly.
28:42And that's what made us strong friends.
28:44And I thought that's what made us have an understanding.
28:46Like, yo, even if we did have other situations, me and you, when we roll, we like a team.
28:51Then can we, like, squash this, and can we, like, respect each other?
28:54Because I can't do this.
28:56This is too much.
28:56When I see you, I...
28:58Listen, listen.
28:58I got the utmost respect for you, okay?
29:01We're friends.
29:02I love you.
29:02You're my peoples.
29:04This whole thing is out of control.
29:06Cocktail and I, we've had a great time together, and we've had a wonderful relationship, just
29:10as friends.
29:12But I guess that it was more than friends with her, and it was more than that.
29:16And I didn't even see it.
29:17And I apologize for making you feel any kind of way you feel.
29:21Give me a hug.
29:23All right?
29:26Okay.
29:28My head is spinning.
29:31I had no clue on what was going to happen, and I'm still shocked.
29:35And what's so crazy about it is that I still gotta find Ms. Berry and tell her how I feel
29:42about the situation and what's gonna happen.
29:44I have no idea where Ms. Berry's head is at.
29:47I don't know what I'm gonna say.
29:48I don't know how I'm gonna approach the situation, because everything is so out of control right
29:54now.
29:55Well, that's it for the second, and I have a feeling probably the last for the love of
29:59Ray J. Reunion.
30:02You guys standing just up there.
30:04Sorry, baby.
30:07All right, stay by.
30:08We're gonna get one more.
30:08Sorry.
30:09For what?
30:10For what?
30:11For acting crazy.
30:12Yeah, because, like, she gonna come out here and try to taint how you feel about me and
30:16try to, you know what I'm saying, ruin whatever we got.
30:18I don't know how to handle things right now because I wanna make things better, but this
30:22whole thing has gotten me just tired, upset, and I just feel like I'm in over my head with
30:28these girls right now.
30:29What do we have, Ray?
30:31Hmm?
30:32What do we have?
30:32Don't have anything?
30:33I'm asking you.
30:35What do we have?
30:36Don't play with me.
30:36What do we have?
30:37I did not just ask you that.
30:40Yeah.
30:40No, I'm right.
30:41All right.
30:43It's just so confusing.
30:45I'm just gonna tell you this, and this is just really what I feel.
30:48I'm not that girl or the woman that's gonna allow you to come into my life playing around
30:57and doing whatever, so I'd rather you figure out what it is you're doing and then holler at
31:01me later.
31:03What do you mean?
31:05Holler at you later like when, tonight?
31:06No, like later when you, when you feel that you're really ready, Ray.
31:10I wanna be honest with Miss Barry.
31:12I do.
31:13But I'm not trying to hurt this girl.
31:15I haven't seen you.
31:16You haven't seen me.
31:16You know I like you.
31:18I know you like me.
31:19But we gotta spend time together in order to see what it is.
31:23Let's, let's, let's see where this is gonna go.
31:25I don't know if you're really ready.
31:29Goodbye.
31:30The applause in three, two, one.
31:33Come on, man!
31:59I didn't have the heart at the time that let Miss Barry know.
32:03that we couldn't be together, but I think she understands it.
32:07And I feel horrible, man.
32:09You want Miss Barry to wait in the trailer?
32:11That Ray...
32:12I mean, if she wants to.
32:14No, I'm gonna go back to the hotel.
32:17Ray doesn't know what he wants to do, so make a decision.
32:20Somebody ask you a question.
32:21Come on.
32:22Throw my shoe at him.
32:28Coming up...
32:29You're gonna continue to feel like crap if you don't make the effort to apologize.
32:34Things are gonna eat me up inside until I take care of the situation with Miss Barry.
32:38I don't know.
32:39Like, I'm still confused about it.
32:50You do your makeup like a professional.
32:53This way?
32:53I have to.
32:54I know, but I have to as well, but I still don't know how to do it.
32:58Tonight, I'm having dinner with Kelly Rowland, and this woman is such an inspiration in my life.
33:02She is the type of friend that I talk to about everything.
33:05I can confide in Kelly.
33:07I trust Kelly, and I feel like her advice is genuine.
33:10Oh, boy.
33:11What are we gonna have?
33:11I think we should have...
33:14Oh, they have a crunchy duck salad.
33:16Corn and crab meat soup.
33:18Oh, we should try that.
33:20We should.
33:20Mm-hmm.
33:23Oh, red king crabs and butter sauce.
33:28That sounds so good.
33:30I want a cocktail.
33:32Kelly, are you serious?
33:34I'm being good.
33:35You will end up changing your mind right when you decide.
33:37You'll be like, you know what?
33:39I want a cocktail.
33:39I don't need a cocktail.
33:40I want a cocktail.
33:41Let's get a cocktail.
33:42I want a cocktail.
33:43I want a cocktail.
33:45Shut up.
33:48Okay, you know about me not going to the Grammys now.
33:51You're not gonna go at all?
33:53I'm not going.
33:54I think he just got spooked a little bit, which is understandable.
33:57Yeah.
33:58You know, but I took it hard.
33:59Do you still want to talk to him?
34:05I do.
34:08But why?
34:10I'm protective.
34:11I'm protective.
34:11So the same way you feel about Ray and you being protective of Ray, which you are.
34:17I'm going to be like that with you.
34:19So a dude come in and get in your space and, you know, well, let's do this.
34:23You don't think that through?
34:24Get the crap out of me.
34:25No, I get that.
34:26But I mean, as artists, we should be able to understand people in our ears all the time.
34:31Exactly.
34:32But at the same time, it's the fact that if you didn't think about something that's minor,
34:37this is when it comes to the majors.
34:39What are you going to do?
34:40I really don't know what's going to happen with Flo and I because it's too early to say.
34:45Being two celebrities, it's going to always be complicated.
34:48But you know, this will blow over.
34:50I think it will definitely blow over.
34:52We're going to do a toast to 2010 being our year.
34:58I love you.
35:03You're so silly.
35:05You're silly too.
35:12You want to talk to me, Pops?
35:14You know, I want to just say to you that I'm proud of what you're doing,
35:18where you're moving, how you're moving up, and all that kind of stuff.
35:22And you know, I see so much of myself in you.
35:25Both good and bad. Both good and bad.
35:29You know?
35:29I totally understand where he is.
35:31And I want to let him know that this happens and that he has my support.
35:36Because Ray J takes after me in a lot of ways.
35:39You know, that's why I understand Ray J.
35:42Let me ask you this.
35:43What really happened with Cocktail and Miss Barry?
35:45You know, Cocktail wasn't supposed to be there.
35:48So it's like, instead of me and Miss Barry getting up there explaining what's going to happen in the future,
35:54Cocktail was talking about how I don't like her, I don't love her, I'm a terrible person.
35:59I don't care about women.
36:00All this stuff, I'm like, yo, that's just so unreal.
36:04Like, this supposed to be my reunion.
36:05Why would Cocktail even be on there?
36:07So I called out her name.
36:09And then Miss Barry was like, call me when you not a player no more.
36:14So I just felt like she bit into that.
36:17All this stuff basically that you're doing.
36:20Even though I did it in another time period, basically the same thing.
36:23And at some point, you know, you're going to come to that point in your life
36:26where you're going to want to settle down with somebody.
36:31When you talk pimp game, when you talk game period, I know what you're talking about.
36:35Pops, you know I know.
36:36And I know where you're coming from.
36:37I know where you come from because that's where I come from.
36:39I just, I'm burnt out of trying to be with somebody or, you know, hook up with somebody.
36:46Like when we talking about the future and the business and careers and being competitive
36:53and taking over, then I'm back on track.
36:57But when we talk about women and love and settling down, burnt.
37:03Done.
37:04Done.
37:04I got to start focusing just on my responsibilities as a man and trying to do positive things.
37:11And I'd rather get there first and checkmate that situation and then come back to love.
37:16Let me tell you what.
37:17When real love hits you, you can't do nothing but the right thing with it.
37:21There's no planning.
37:23It takes you like a tidal wave.
37:25When I met Sonya, it was just it.
37:28It was like, I know love.
37:30I know real love.
37:31Once you know it, you always want to be acquainted with it.
37:34And if you stray, you're going to always find your way back to the real thing.
37:37And so when it happens to you, you know it.
37:40You just know it.
37:41Yo, listening to my dad, I realized that I haven't gotten hit with love yet.
37:46And when it does happen to me, I'll see it and I'll understand it.
37:50It never was my intention to hurt girls like Cocktail and Miss Berry, but I wasn't ready for love like
37:56they were.
37:56Do your dating, set your priorities and stuff like that.
38:00But when it happens, it's going to happen.
38:03And it's going to happen strong.
38:04You know what?
38:05I'm going to find it one day.
38:05I promise you that.
38:06But for now, I'm going to focus on the business.
38:09I'm going to focus on my career and let that just happen.
38:12I really enjoyed our talk.
38:14I enjoyed our talk too, Pop.
38:15And we need to have more of these.
38:17Well, when you go into anything, Ray J, whether it's love matters or anything, know that you can find me.
38:23Oh, yeah.
38:24All the time.
38:25Love you too, son.
38:36Ray, it's me.
38:37What up, B?
38:38I talked to mom.
38:39She didn't tell me everything, but she told me a little bit of what happened at the reunion.
38:46What happened, brother?
38:48Man, it got carried away.
38:51You know what I'm saying?
38:52And Miss Berry came back and was just like, you know, call me when you ready to not be a
38:56plater.
38:57Oh, my God.
38:58So you never got a chance to tell Miss Berry the way we discussed at lunch?
39:03No.
39:04Oh, my God.
39:04I never got a chance to say it because I let my emotions get to me and I shouldn't have.
39:08Oh, my God, man.
39:09We still didn't get an understanding the right way.
39:12And this whole thing has got me mentally messed up.
39:16I wanted to tell Miss Berry the real.
39:19I didn't want to break her heart, but I can't even get a chance to do that now because it's
39:23all messed up.
39:24Like, I don't know what to do.
39:27I just, I don't know.
39:29Like, I'm still confused about it.
39:31Yeah.
39:32When you're in love back with somebody, it's not like this.
39:35It's not crazy.
39:36It's not scary.
39:37It's none of that.
39:38It's just that you're confused on how to end things and to come clean.
39:44The love thing hasn't hit me.
39:45I haven't felt that.
39:46But it can happen for some people because clearly it has happened for Miss Berry.
39:50You feel me?
39:51Every time, every time anything like that comes in, I just, it's a flashback in my head of Grandma telling
39:57me,
39:57Ray J, you can't find love.
40:02Love has got to find you.
40:05Don't, Grandma.
40:06That's wisdom.
40:07I mean, it's just so simple.
40:08You're gonna continue to feel like crap if you don't call and make the effort to apologize and make the
40:15effort to end things the correct way.
40:17Brandi was right.
40:18Things are gonna eat me up inside until I take care of the situation with Miss Berry.
40:22I think I was so focused on not hurting her to where I make the situation worse.
40:29Love you.
40:30Love you, too.
40:31Bye.
40:31Alright, B.
40:40Miss Berry, what's up?
40:44Listen, I know you laid it out for me and told me to call you when I was, you know,
40:49ready to stop being a player or, you know, I know.
40:56I'll, I, listen, I'm not ready.
41:00I'm not ready to take it to the next level yet.
41:04Miss Berry's a great girl all the way around the board.
41:06So I gotta tell her the truth for how it is because that'll help me move on and that'll help
41:12her move on.
41:13Alright, and it's still our love.
41:15I think you're a great person and I hope you find happiness.
41:20Alright.
41:22Alright.