First Dates Ireland Season 11 Episode 7

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00:02this is the first state's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything

00:14is possible but you piqued my interest there's two of them no nobody's losing their cool

00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven

00:33I'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses

00:40none of these daters know what to expect I'm in a village all

00:48what happens next is up to them would you like to see each other again romantically

01:00yeah I would too oh jesus christ I was gonna have a heart I do my hair toss check my

01:08nails baby how you

01:10feel are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute future

01:18did

01:18that run not much needs to be done to this you can polish do you have any strategy when it

01:28comes

01:28to date none whatsoever no I'm going in blind it's just that thing of like just rocking up and just

01:36going for it like I do my hair washed in my poor have a bit of tan because I think

01:42whatever about

01:43your hair and makeup if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things that remind

01:46me like Alice you're great you got this you got this girl you got this rock up we look gorgeous

01:53thanks

01:57some people just can't get enough attention but miss not one of them she's maxed out do you get chatted

02:05up it doesn't know they do go out and I'm just like can people just leave me the fuck alone

02:09I'm

02:09like just fuck off sometimes I look at them I'd be like we're coming from you I'm coming from Clareny

02:19you know what's wrong with the Kerry men there's just something wrong with them especially the Clareny

02:24men really something wrong with them what hobbies have you what hobbies have I I like to go to the

02:32gym I

02:33like to go for hot girl walks what's a hot girl walk so it's when you put on your sunglasses

02:38you chew a

02:39piece of gum and you look straight and you walk you walk like you own the town

02:45describe yourself in three words for me pretty a tad bit obnoxious and funny so would you say that you

02:53are particular like do you need a person I guess that has things or is successful and has to be

02:59a certain

03:00way definitely okay okay so what would you deem as a successful person someone I guess it was a good

03:06job has a life together knows what they want is able to drive a hundred percent yeah I'm built to

03:14be a

03:14passenger princess if you don't have a full license you don't have a car I'm like immediately no I'm not

03:20driving you around the place I'm sorry not at home it can't be a car for Apollo they give me

03:27the A what

03:28are you looking for like a Bentley or Austin Martin if one wants to go my way they're like so

03:32good can

03:33you find me one well I'll try find myself one first then I'll get you one after I'll save the

03:38house

03:38siblings wow okay God love the person coming in you should ask them that straight away oh

03:48hi I'm Jack I'm 21 I'm from Kerry the lowrider is a little higher boy racer or trusty pickup

03:58who will you be the judge from the first dates restaurant to find my new woman to find a

04:03bit of love it's a bit exciting a bit exciting I could chat to a wall it's all of the

04:13charm the

04:13charm is my biggest thing uh compliments first and then a bit of laughter and that always works

04:18hello I miss that I always think so how are you nice to meet you Jack nice to meet you

04:24Jack

04:24how are you yeah like that you like that beautiful for you and you have success with that I like

04:32to

04:32think so but uh not often I wouldn't be I wouldn't be too busy on the old dating scene so

04:37it's that is

04:39what it is are you ready to do this ready to go to the bar your date is at the

04:43bar

04:43what's up yeah get your shit together a little bit I've met people before that I've you know I've

04:54brought the confidence out and and I like that that's what I love make people happy and you

04:59know feel confident about themselves but I'd love to meet someone who's confident themselves

05:12I would say definitely I am a tough cookie I am hard to impress definitely beautiful I'm from

05:21Clarny no way yeah who's up yeah I'm from Clarny Clarny told me yeah I hear it but I'm just

05:30like Castle Island

05:31Castle Island just outside yeah only down the road so how did you come up I drove up I stayed

05:37in nice

05:38last night family yeah okay journey up I was working hard to drive let's hear it no you go first

05:45now what do you do I drive for fast

05:57so I suppose I gotta get other cars in A discs by Virats I've got into cars when I was

06:00about 11 or 12 through my father and car collection has just grown

06:05okay let's hear them all I have a few Japanese cars okay but identity BMW wow okay

06:21The pain is lones.

06:26For old school romantic Liam, love is the gift that keeps on giving.

06:32Oh, life could be a dream.

06:35Love to be, you do it for somebody, you care about them, you have interest in them.

06:44You want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you.

06:48Welcome.

06:49How's it going?

06:50Very good, Mr. Yourself.

06:52Great.

06:52Your name, please?

06:53Liam.

06:53Mateo, nice to meet you, Liam.

06:54Mateo.

06:55How is everything so far?

06:56Everything is great.

06:57Yeah.

06:57Hopefully it will get better.

06:59Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:00If the attraction is there initially, bring it.

07:02I'm not going to try and impress them, purely to impress them as I used to do.

07:08I like that, eh?

07:09Bit of a gift, eh?

07:11It would be nice to cuddle up to somebody at times.

07:14Just nice, the intimacy.

07:17That would be nice.

07:19It's not for you.

07:21No, I've actually stopped focusing on you, I'm focusing on the chocolates.

07:23That's not good.

07:24I know, that's what I'm saying, it's not for you.

07:26Choco, choco, yeah?

07:27Oh, that's a decent box of chocolates as well.

07:30Is it?

07:31Oh, God, yeah, absolutely.

07:32Fair play to you.

07:33Smart.

07:34Smart.

07:34As I said, you can't eat flowers.

07:36I got married in 86.

07:38I split up in 96.

07:40I was in another relationship after a few years, for a few years.

07:45And I have not been in any relationship since then.

07:49Listen, at least you put yourself out there.

07:51That's very important.

07:52Number one, eh?

07:53Yeah, absolutely.

07:53We see what happens.

07:54We see what happens.

07:56Nothing stops Esther putting herself out there.

08:00Certainly not the neighbours.

08:04I'm 64.

08:05I'm not doing too bad.

08:07Like, I wouldn't care to opens.

08:08I go out into the back garden in my bikini.

08:10If somebody didn't want to look at me, I couldn't care less.

08:21I suppose I'm not the normal nanny.

08:24Yeah, that's what they tell me.

08:27I wouldn't like somebody to get their knickers in a knot over nothing.

08:31No time for that.

08:32Life's too short.

08:43But it doesn't define your night ahead.

08:46Oh, I so didn't want to get that wrong.

08:49I used to be very confident.

08:51I think I need to get my competence back.

08:54No, don't be.

08:54But you're a gorgeous lady.

08:55Why would you be nervous?

08:57Why would you be nervous?

08:58Why would you be nervous?

08:59But he's going to be nervous when you come there.

09:00Can I look around?

09:01No, he can't.

09:02No, be cool.

09:03Be cool.

09:04Be cool.

09:05She's beautiful.

09:06She's very beautiful.

09:07Yeah, yeah.

09:08They've done well here.

09:09They've done well.

09:10They've done well.

09:11I can't stop looking at your eyes.

09:13I'm blue.

09:14Same like yours.

09:15Oh, my God.

09:16No.

09:17You're so blue.

09:19Anyway, I need to behave myself.

09:21Okay, I think you're ready.

09:23You do?

09:23Okay.

09:24Good.

09:25Yeah.

09:26Let's do it.

09:27I suppose it'd be exciting.

09:29I'd kind of like to get done up, you know, and go out there and feel.

09:33Do you know what, Esther?

09:35You don't look half bad.

09:36All right now.

09:37Hello.

09:39Hello.

09:39How are you doing?

09:40I'm good.

09:41How are you?

09:42Great.

09:42I'm Liam.

09:43How are you?

09:43Are you hungry?

09:45It's nice to see you.

09:48Beautiful dress.

09:49Do you like chocolates?

09:51I do.

09:53Aw.

09:54That's so sweet.

09:58Oh, my God.

09:59I do, indeed.

10:00Somebody kind of looks okay.

10:03Hair, no hair.

10:05Whatever.

10:05You know, we're all getting a little bit older here.

10:08Will you have a drink?

10:09I surely will.

10:10Yeah.

10:11A little bit of everything that you have.

10:14One glass with about 12 straws.

10:17I'll be glad.

10:19I'll have a glass of wine, please.

10:21White or red?

10:22White, please.

10:23White.

10:24What are you having?

10:25I'm just sparkling water.

10:27Oh.

10:28Yeah, yeah, yeah.

10:29I have to behave myself.

10:30Oh.

10:33So how many siblings have you?

10:35Two sisters.

10:36Okay.

10:36Yourself?

10:37I just have one older brother.

10:39One older brother.

10:39How old is he?

10:40He's 22.

10:41Me too.

10:42We're just like a year and like nine months apart.

10:44We would be close, but we still do absolutely kill each other till this day.

10:48And is he living with you?

10:49Yeah.

10:50Four of you in the house?

10:51No, my parents are divorced.

10:53So my parents got divorced when I was like, maybe like eight or nine.

10:56So it's just myself, my mom, my brother.

10:59Oh, okay.

10:59Do you mind me asking?

11:01Did you talk to dad?

11:02No, I haven't spoken to him.

11:03I'd say like five or six years.

11:05That's mad, yeah.

11:06No, like we live in the same town and everything.

11:07Like there's no hate, no nothing.

11:08We just don't talk.

11:09Yeah.

11:10One of the same.

11:11You're the same?

11:12It's great fact, yeah.

11:13I live with my dad.

11:14Okay, so you live with your dad then.

11:16So, yeah, I haven't talked to my mom in nine years.

11:19Okay.

11:20And how old were you when they kind of got separated and stuff?

11:22Twelve.

11:23Well, they separated when I was very young.

11:25Mm-hmm.

11:26I can't even remember.

11:27I was probably a toddler, like.

11:29Mm-hmm.

11:29And then I lived with my mom until I was about twelve.

11:32Okay.

11:32And then with my father then when I was thirteen.

11:35My father just, he took me in.

11:37He taught me everything.

11:38You know, I, I was a proper little scumbag when I was younger, like.

11:43And, uh, oh, it's just, I'm happier.

11:46Way more respect for everything, you know.

11:48I feel like I'm a nice person now because of him.

11:51And, yeah, he changed me.

11:54100%.

11:54But my brother was still armed with him.

11:56So, it's, uh, it's his fault.

11:58I am in the cars, you know.

12:00Yeah.

12:01All that crap.

12:01But I love it.

12:02So, is it just the two of you living at home?

12:03Just two of us, yeah.

12:04Yeah, that's not bad.

12:09Are you divorced or are you past?

12:13No.

12:13I'm divorced.

12:14I'm married.

12:15I was, um, I met my husband when I was fifteen.

12:20Yeah.

12:21And we married when I was eighteen.

12:25And then we separated after fifteen years.

12:29Yeah.

12:30And it was a hard break up.

12:33Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

12:34But we have the best relationship.

12:36That's great.

12:37At the end, it didn't work out.

12:40And it was a difficult break up.

12:42But all we had been doing was just trying to keep stuff together.

12:45It wasn't working.

12:46And we were doing it for the kids.

12:48And I'll tell you, I am so glad I'm married.

12:53Yeah.

12:55Yeah, yeah, yeah.

12:55Because I have two daughters.

12:57Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

12:57And I have grandchildren.

12:59Yeah, yeah, yeah.

12:59It's brilliant that you get on so well now.

13:02Oh, yeah.

13:03Yeah, yeah, yeah.

13:03You know, he drives me bad.

13:04Yeah.

13:05He would not be with me for all the tea in China.

13:10Yeah, yeah, yeah.

13:10And I wouldn't be with him.

13:12But, you see, the relationship you have is, but, yeah.

13:14But I'm grateful.

13:15Yeah, yeah, yeah.

13:16How about you?

13:18Is that...

13:19Michelle and my ex, though, we could hardly be in a separate room.

13:22Oh, yeah, sure, that happens.

13:23Yeah, yeah, yeah.

13:32Yeah.

13:36Yeah.

13:37Yeah, yeah.

13:48research I

13:51Thought maybe if I take it out with my own hands it might make the situation a bit easier

13:58Welcome hello, how's everything? I'm good. Thanks. How are you when you get a little bit older you realize that

14:03love is not all rainbows and

14:05lollipops and fizzes in your tummy. All right mister. No, it's about

14:11Who's your lobster?

14:13What's your name? Calvin. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Calvin. Yeah, like the county like the

14:17You probably get that all the time dear. Where's that? Look at the conversation starter, isn't it? Yeah, and my

14:22grandmother is from Calvin

14:23Okay, and then there's everyone that calls me Kevin and Calvin and Calvin and Gavin, and I'm just like yeah

14:28No problem. Yeah, call me Tom if you if it makes you happy. I don't know. It doesn't bother me

14:34Where are you from at least strad belly? Oh, I'm from Durham. Very good fellow leash man. Yes

14:41Dating's not that good though. It's not no no no and smile why I'm standing

14:47A few small kids as well, so they keep me occupied how many kids have three how old are they

14:52so 13

14:5411 and eight so you've only recently come out kind of really you're like recent as

15:00Like January 21. That's pretty recent

15:17How do you feel about the food or how do I feel inside?

15:23No, the food

15:24Oh

15:26I know the same thing about my teeth to come loose

15:32I'm fussy

15:33Fussy

15:34Fussy

15:34I'm not fussy either

15:35Don't eat onions, tomatoes, peppers

15:38Okay, when I get pizza red onion is a must yeah, but we can get a half-and-half

15:46In the grand scheme of things marching believes that size really matters. I'm looking for love a big love

16:00I'm I'm very soft inside when I have a bad day

16:03I have a bad day if I want to cry I do cry

16:05So I like someone who's gonna come and hug me and say everything's gonna be okay

16:09Instead of coming to me and say grow up

16:12You're a big man. I

16:15Like man kind of bigger maybe both maybe beard not skinny

16:22Come and compose, huh?

16:24How are you? Nice to meet you nice to meet you too your name, please?

16:27Marcin

16:28Spolsky

16:29Spolsky

16:29How is everything?

16:31Good. Yeah?

16:32Stress a little bit

16:33Just follow your instincts, man. We got you so far

16:38Your date is at the bar

16:39Oh, really? So I'm the second

16:41Hi there

16:42I'm gonna be very shy at the start

16:49I'm actually even thinking don't bring me a very Hawkeye

16:55Hi

16:56Hi

16:56How are you?

16:57How are you?

16:57Nice to meet you

16:59How are you? What's your name?

17:00Calvin

17:00Calvin, yes

17:01Marching my name

17:02Nice to meet you

17:03Are you nervous?

17:05I am a little bit

17:06Why?

17:06I was thinking like if I'm gonna sit down have a drink then it's gonna be okay

17:09Yeah, yeah, it'll be fine

17:11Where you come from?

17:13I live in Dublin

17:14Okay

17:14I live in Inchugor, but I'm from Poland

17:16Okay

17:16I live here 20 years

17:18Very good

17:18Where are you from?

17:19Leash

17:20Leash?

17:21Never been Leash

17:21Yeah?

17:22I don't even know actually where it is

17:24Where is Leash?

17:24Well, it's like right in the middle

17:25I feed off vibes

17:27And look, even if it's not somebody that I match with

17:31I mean, let's have dinner and have a drink and have a laugh

17:36Cheers

17:36Tell me your name, sorry

17:38Calvin

17:39Calvin one more time, Calvin

17:40I'm sorry, I'm so stressed

17:41That's okay, don't be stressed

17:57Do you enjoy your job?

17:59I do, I kind of fell into it when I was like 17 as like Christmas style

18:02So I started working in pharmacy when I slowly made my way up

18:05Sometimes it can be stressful, but at the most times I do like interacting with people from all types of

18:10backgrounds

18:10Did you go to college or?

18:12No?

18:12No

18:13No

18:13Same for myself

18:14Okay

18:15Yeah, yeah, yeah

18:16So I built wind turbines

18:18Because we go into the back arse of nowhere

18:22What I do is I take them down and put them back up, right?

18:25So those big windmills?

18:27The big windmills?

18:28Right

18:28This week now I got thrown in Tipperary

18:30The week

18:31Okay

18:31But I have the choice of like staying overnight and coming back over there

18:34Okay, and where do you usually stay?

18:36I'm on my own

18:36Yeah

18:37So I just stay away

18:38There's no point in going home, do you know what I mean?

18:39If I had a reason to go home, I'd go home

18:42I love it

18:43The lads, you know, it's like a second family

18:45The views as well when you're working

18:47Like go up there

18:48Two o'clock in the morning

18:50And then you hit the sunset at five or six in the morning

18:52It's beautiful

18:54So how long have you been doing that then?

18:56I think two years now

18:58Okay, what age are you?

18:59Twenty-one

19:00Twenty-one

19:01When's your birthday?

19:03September

19:04I'm twenty

19:04I'll be twenty-one like a week and a half

19:06On the thirteenth

19:08She's not gonna get caught for birthday presents

19:10Anyway

19:19Lovely

19:19Oh wow

19:20So I have your steak

19:21Oh, thank you

19:24And the chicken supreme

19:26Lovely, thank you

19:26Another good choice

19:28Enjoy

19:28Thank you

19:29I'd like to be somebody with similar values as myself

19:33I believe happiness is being grateful for what we have

19:37Instead of being miserable about what we haven't got

19:41So what do you do then for be it pleasure?

19:46Enjoyment?

19:47Are you like me?

19:49You do fuck all

19:51I do

19:52I get annoyed myself when I didn't do something

19:55Did you?

19:57I'm doing a good bit of walking lately

19:58Because I've booked the Camino

20:01You have not?

20:02Oh yeah

20:04My life only started when I gave up drinking

20:07It'll be twenty years ago this year since I gave her up

20:09And it's the best thing I ever did in my life

20:12My greatest achievement

20:15No, I'm not doing a whole lot of it

20:18Why?

20:19Why?

20:20It's too fucking long

20:21I wasn't happy

20:23I wasn't happy

20:24It was fair from happy

20:25And I used to go to the pub for three or four pints

20:30And that was the story of my life

20:32But I never left after three or four pints

20:35Have you ever done it?

20:36I have not and I never will

20:37I'll be feckin' taken off

20:39You must be joking me

20:43Relationships when I was younger

20:45People

20:46I grew up with people

20:48And women

20:48And it wouldn't last long

20:49And they'd all tell me

20:51I'm a lovely person

20:52But

20:52They never told me the but

20:54But I am convinced now

20:56That but was

20:57I was an alcoholic

20:59Something I want to do

21:00I'm totally on my own

21:02Because I never really went anywhere

21:03Without people before

21:05There was somebody with me or whatever

21:07And it's meant to be a spiritual kind of journey

21:10Yeah

21:11It's how it would come for us own totally

21:13You know

21:14But I

21:15It's a challenge

21:17Well done you

21:18I haven't done it yet

21:19It doesn't matter

21:21When I got married

21:23I found a girl that loved me

21:26And I was afraid to let her go

21:29Because I believed nobody else is going to love me

21:33And that's part of the reason I married that girl

21:37You know

21:37I'm so insecure in myself

21:40And that

21:41I put all that down to alcoholism

21:45I've learned to be comfortable on my own

21:46Be happy again

21:48Yeah I'm content

21:49I've learned to like myself

21:52I think

21:53Because I never liked myself too much

21:56But since I've been on my own

21:57I've learned to like myself

21:58That I'm not that part of hers really

22:00Believe it or not

22:01Nice

22:02I'll give you a reward

22:11I have my sister with me

22:13She lives with me now

22:14Oh

22:14I brought her here

22:16Two years ago

22:17Good

22:18Good

22:18You have siblings?

22:19I have two brothers and a sister

22:22Yeah

22:22Who is the oldest?

22:24I'm the oldest

22:24You're the oldest

22:25Oh you're taking care of everything

22:26Yeah

22:27Yeah

22:28I'm not nervous about being rejected

22:29But

22:31Sometimes people are not willing to date men that have kids

22:36And that's fine

22:37That's on them

22:38But

22:39I feel like it's not something that I need to declare

22:41But then sometimes they're a bit shocked

22:43Like oh you didn't say you had kids

22:45I'm like well

22:45Did I need to?

22:47Um

22:48So

22:49I also have

22:50Three kids

22:51You have three kids?

22:52Yeah

22:52So they keep me busy too

22:54Nice to hear

22:55Yeah

22:56Do you like kids or?

22:57I do like kids and I have son

22:59Oh do you?

23:00Yes

23:00Wow

23:01That's another reason I came to Ireland

23:03Is he here?

23:05Is he here?

23:05Of course

23:06And how old is he?

23:07He's 21 years old right now

23:09Wow

23:09He lives in Leeson Varna

23:10Okay

23:12So after one year when I got the job and everything and I was feeling safe

23:16Yep

23:16I brought his mother and him

23:20And does she still live in Leeson Varna?

23:22He's still there with him

23:23We've been friends forever

23:24And we still love each other

23:26I can't say love each other

23:27But like you know what I mean

23:27Like we've been in this together

23:30Yeah

23:30You know what I mean?

23:31Yeah

23:31So I have one song you know

23:34But you have three

23:35So you have fun

23:36Yeah they're great kids

23:38I wanna know more

23:41They're the love of my life

23:42Yeah we have a lot of fun

23:44So when I do

23:45When I see them

23:46I really make the most

23:47And we do stuff

23:48But then

23:49Like I won't lie

23:50I get really lonely

23:51Then when they leave

23:53And

23:55I don't want it to be just me

24:06What would you say?

24:08You're looking for then?

24:10What am I looking for?

24:11Yeah

24:11It's a cool question that

24:12Yeah

24:13Um

24:16Uh

24:19I'm just looking for someone

24:21Someone I can like uh

24:22Be around

24:23Yeah

24:25Put the foot life and forth down

24:26I get a bit serious like

24:28Okay I'll put it on too

24:29Go

24:32No

24:33I'm looking for someone

24:33I can come home to

24:35Do you know what I mean?

24:35Yeah

24:36When I'm working or something

24:37Yeah

24:37So I want someone to give money

24:39Free time to

24:39And look after them

24:41Like I know what I want

24:42And when I do find someone

24:44Who has everything I want

24:45I'll go for it

24:46Until then I won't

24:47Like what are your interests like?

24:50Clothes

24:51So you like dressing up

24:52Well you look lovely

24:52So I'll give you that one

24:54Thank you

24:55I'd say people think

24:56Right off the bat

24:57That I'm like so like

24:58Self-obsessed

24:59And just like a bitch really

25:00But like

25:01Like once you get to know me

25:03People do think I'm lovely

25:05Well you look after yourself

25:06That's the main thing

25:07That's lovely

25:07Yeah like I like to look done up everyday

25:09Yeah yeah yeah

25:09Like I wake up at 5.45 most mornings

25:11I start work at like half seven

25:13So I like to have like my hair and makeup done

25:16For like half seven in the morning

25:17Hold on now

25:18So you wake up

25:18Just under two hours before work

25:20Mhm

25:22To get ready

25:23Yeah

25:23I gotta look perfect everyday

25:24Yeah I think I drive you mad

25:26Do you wash your face in the morning?

25:29Don't even answer it

25:30I don't know

25:31I don't wanna hear it anymore

25:32Ew

25:32I'm hardly like

25:37I'll tell you auntie now

25:38I will come back here tomorrow for that steak

25:40It's lovely

25:41Sweet cheese

25:42It's lovely

25:42It's gorgeous

25:44And the pepper sauce

25:45Sorry my tea

25:46I don't wanna lose here

25:47I don't worry about it

25:54Your grand

25:55Your grand

25:57What's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on?

26:00We met and we had dinner which was quite nice and it was lovely

26:04And he said can I give you a kiss?

26:06And I said yeah okay

26:07I said we'll have to buy him dinner or whatever

26:09I'll have to give him a kiss

26:10If I'm at home now they come out

26:12I don't have to

26:12What?

26:13Okay obviously wear them

26:15But when I'm at home they come out

26:17Oh I would not

26:19Would you not?

26:20I would not

26:22He kissed me and he says to me

26:25I have a present for you in the car

26:29And he went

26:31Maybe come out with a bag of fish

26:36Do you not use fixin?

26:37I do

26:38When you start eating it seems to come loose

26:41Top or bottom?

26:43Top

26:44Really?

26:45Yeah yeah yeah

26:46Maybe I'm doing something wrong

26:47No you're not used enough

26:49I said gone are the days of the military and roses

26:55A fucking bag of fish

26:57If you'll excuse me

26:58I'm going to go and take them back here

27:03What?

27:06I hope she died

27:13How does a penguin build a house?

27:16He glues it together

27:19Why do the Norwegians put barcodes on their ships?

27:22So when they duck they can Scandinavian

27:27Did you hear about the cheese factory that exploded in France?

27:30The brie was everywhere

27:35Will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian

27:40It's all in the delivery

27:41Hey, how's it going?

27:43Men with a gift

27:44Absolutely

27:45100%

27:46How are you?

27:47Nice to meet you

27:47Will

27:49I'd never dated in secondary school

27:50I just didn't feel like anybody liked me

27:54That sounded really bad

27:55I felt like I had no flirting game whatsoever

27:58How do you feel buddy?

28:00I'm a little nervous

28:00But like I think they're good nerves

28:02As I've grown up a bit

28:04I've kind of become more confident in myself

28:06And just trying to put myself out there a little bit now

28:09You know

28:09And what's your regular type?

28:11Or do you have a type?

28:12That's a great question

28:13I don't necessarily have like a particular type

28:15Erm

28:16Just somebody who I can just get on with

28:18It's a bit of a offer

28:19Like someone who loves to talk

28:20Maybe someone who shares the same obsession for football as I do

28:23You know

28:24Oh

28:25Ah yes

28:25The beautiful game

28:26Until that is Cuiva

28:28Starts handing out red cards

28:31Since 2022

28:32I have been compiling like an ick list

28:36Someone who doesn't like garlic dip

28:38Now that's a strong one

28:40Malibu and milk

28:41Being your choice to drink on a night out

28:43Apparently it's like called a Malib moo or something

28:49I bet you're proud of yourself now

28:50You didn't do it properly

28:52That was like the scariest part

28:53How many people are you?

28:55I'm Cuiva

28:56Cuiva

28:56Mateo and ask me to

28:57Well look at yourself

28:58Cuiva, yeah girl

28:59You look lovely

29:00Thank you so much

29:01He's gonna be very nervous when he sees you

29:04So what kind of person then are you looking to meet?

29:08Tall

29:09Handsome

29:11Family orientated

29:13A kind, considerate person

29:15But also is willing to listen to me

29:17Yeah

29:18He's looking over there in a mirror

29:20So he's getting nervous

29:21Okay

29:22Let's go there

29:22Enjoy it okay?

29:23Okay

29:27Alright

29:27Hey

29:28How are you?

29:29I'm Cuiva

29:30I'm Cuiva

29:33I got you some chocolates

29:34That's so sweet

29:36So good

29:36You're very welcome

29:37No worries at all

29:38Is there anything that you definitely want to find out about them?

29:41Oh that's a great question

29:42Their football alliance

29:44I go back and forth to the UK quite a bit

29:46What part?

29:47For football matches

29:47Just like different areas

29:48Okay now who do you support?

29:49Cause this is gonna be like a deal breaker now

29:51Is it?

29:52Oh my goodness

29:52So I'm a Chelsea fan

29:54Okay, it's not too bad

29:56Who do you support?

29:58Liverpool

29:59That's actually okay

30:00Yeah

30:00If you said like United or United

30:02Yeah

30:03If you said Spurs or Arsenal

30:09How old are you?

30:11How old do you think of it?

30:12I'm 40

30:12You're 40?

30:13I'm 39

30:14Yeah

30:15You're behind the corner

30:16Yeah

30:18Just about

30:19Exactly

30:20And the sir like the steak

30:22Oh brilliant

30:22Thank you so much

30:23Thank you so much

30:25Do you feel bad that you're getting old?

30:27Older?

30:28It's funny

30:29Like I feel

30:30I feel a lot better now

30:33I feel like I look better

30:35And I feel a lot more confident

30:37Cause I think I'm a bit more me now

30:39I'm so happy to be 40

30:41And sometimes I even think like

30:42If I'm gonna be 45

30:43I'm gonna be even better than that

30:45If I'm 50

30:46I'm gonna be like

30:47On the top of the world

30:48Like people used to say

30:50Oh I wish I'll be younger

30:51I would like to go back

30:52To being 30

30:53Never

30:53I think I was so stupid

30:55I was 30 years old

30:56Well

30:57No

30:57Not the same

30:58Like I think

30:59My priorities were different

31:00Like

31:01For my 20s

31:03And for a lot of

31:04For half of my 30s

31:06I feel like I just

31:07I had my head down

31:09I was married

31:11I was trying to raise babies

31:13You know

31:14I just didn't have time to think

31:15About anything

31:16But

31:17I definitely

31:18Know more now

31:20Than I did

31:21When I was in my 30s

31:23I had

31:24My situation

31:24A little bit

31:26Easier

31:27I would say

31:27Because

31:29When

31:29My son's mother got pregnant

31:31She knew that I'm gay

31:33Right

31:34Oh

31:34I told her that

31:36I don't want to be gay

31:37Okay

31:37Please take it away from

31:38Right

31:39I have to be honest

31:40I was so in love with her

31:42I was

31:42We were together for like

31:44Four years

31:45And I was

31:46I got very protective

31:47About her

31:47Yeah

31:48I loved her to bits

31:50Okay

31:50As a human

31:52Yeah

31:53You know what I mean

31:54You need to kind of learn from your mistakes

31:56And

31:57Grow

31:58You don't trust the mistakes

31:59You learn those mistakes for the reason

32:01You know

32:02They brought you here

32:03You know

32:09Hi

32:10How are you

32:11Would you like sour sweets now?

32:15Sour sweets?

32:15Yeah

32:15No one gets sweetened on

32:17Chocolate sweets

32:20Right

32:20We'll say

32:21Movie night

32:22Bang

32:23Right

32:24What are we getting?

32:25Like a pack of fingers

32:26I can inhale

32:27A pack of fingers

32:28I feel like that's a luxury then

32:30I've never had fingers

32:32Fingers?

32:32Like a pack of Cadbury fingers?

32:33Right

32:34Then we're gonna have a pack of

32:35Cadbury fingers

32:36Are we now?

32:37Yeah

32:39Lovely

32:40She's gorgeous

32:41You were nervous?

32:42Well yeah

32:43Nervous

32:43And I don't get nervous

32:45No

32:46But she brought it out of me

32:47She brought it out of me

32:49Like I'd say

32:50I'd kind of more go for like

32:52Crisp

32:53Than popcorn

32:54Jeez what do we have in the opposite

32:57Opposites do attract

32:59It's uh

33:00I'd say the biggest problem

33:01Is not deciding

33:01If I want to go on a second date

33:02But deciding what to do

33:04On the second days

33:05Are you happy you came?

33:07Oh yeah

33:07Deadly yeah

33:08Yourself?

33:09Oh no no no

33:10You can't roll your eyes

33:11No I didn't roll my eyes

33:12No I didn't

33:14Would you like to see each other again romantically?

33:18Will we go three two one?

33:20Yeah go on

33:20Okay

33:21Three

33:22Two

33:23One

33:24Yeah

33:25You were hesitating

33:26No no no

33:28I didn't know

33:28Of course

33:30Thank you so much for that

33:31You're good

33:32Don't worry

33:33Don't worry

33:34I think you're very down to earth

33:38Yeah

33:38You're very like humbled

33:40And like down to earth

33:40You're like the opposite of me

33:41Whereas I'm like very jumpy

33:43And like intimidating

33:43Whereas you're more like

33:44I wouldn't say you're intimidating

33:45I feel like you're an honest person

33:47I feel like you'd be good at communicating now

33:49Yeah

33:51Yeah

33:52That's really nice

33:53I like it

33:53What does it say?

33:54Beautiful for you

33:55Don't look at the label

33:56Don't look at I am

33:57Wait till you get home

33:58Stay with me forever

34:00Do you guys fancy each other?

34:03Yeah

34:04Yeah

34:08He's lovely

34:09He did win my heart over

34:11Like he's so much time for people and stuff

34:13And like the main thing is really

34:14Finding someone who has time for someone

34:18Hello

34:18How are you?

34:20How are you doing?

34:22How are you doing?

34:22Good

34:23Good

34:38Can I have a glass of wine please?

34:40Of course

34:41White wine

34:43All good?

34:45Absolutely gorgeous

34:46Brilliant

34:47And how's the company?

34:49Yeah

34:49Well he's a lovely man

34:51Yeah?

34:52Yeah

34:52Like it was so sweet

34:54He brought me chocolates

34:55It can be something

34:57That will lead to something else

35:00Yeah

35:01Which you can

35:02Yeah

35:03I'm doing teaching in college

35:05Oh wow

35:06Yeah

35:07Secondary school

35:07I love that

35:08Do you?

35:09That's great

35:09I've always wanted to be a teacher

35:10When I was like five or something

35:13And because my mum works in a school

35:14Yeah

35:15She'd like bring home like stamps and stuff

35:17I love that

35:18And I used to like always pretend to play school

35:20I qualified as an SNA there

35:22Oh my god did you my mum's an SNA

35:24Stop it

35:24Yes

35:25No way

35:25Yes

35:26Yes

35:27What got you to do SNA?

35:29I do like voluntary work with Barrettstown

35:32Oh my god

35:33So real

35:34Yeah

35:35Then kind of that led me to doing like the special needs kind of aim then

35:38Yes

35:38But like I don't do it per se

35:40I just have the qualification

35:42Still trying to find my feet

35:43Do you know that way?

35:44Like I think that's the same way

35:45Everybody around my age

35:46It's like you're still trying to find out what you really are passionate about

35:49You know?

35:50I applied actually for a firefighter paramedic a couple of days ago

35:54So see how that goes

35:56That could be another route as well you know

35:58What do you do in your spare time?

36:00That's a great question

36:01What do I do in my spare time?

36:02Um

36:02Hanging out with mates obviously

36:04The boys

36:05The boys

36:06Yeah the boys

36:07The lads

36:08Definitely feel like I'm better in person

36:11I'm shocking at texting for the life of me like I can't text at all

36:15Like

36:15I love just going for like ice cream or something like with the girls

36:17I love a sweet treat

36:18Yeah

36:19At Easter I love mini eggs

36:22Mini eggs are like my

36:23Do not say you don't like them

36:25I love mini eggs

36:26Okay I thought you were going to say you don't like

36:28So at Easter I stockpile

36:30Stock? No we're the same person

36:32I do the exact same

36:34Do you?

36:34I do the exact same

36:36I'd rather it be like you swiped and then all of a sudden they're right in front of you

36:40And you're on the date right there and then

36:41Cause then you actually get to know the person you know

36:44What is your favourite food?

36:45That's a great question

36:46I love a bit of coleslaw

36:47Do you?

36:48Would you have on everything now?

36:50If I'm making like a toasty or something

36:51I thought you were going to say like you get a spoon and eat it

36:53That was like

36:53No no no

36:54I wouldn't just get a top of coleslaw slamming in front of me

36:56Start to spoon it in

36:58If I'm out like

36:58Stop

37:01That's sick

37:03Ew

37:05I'm just imagining dude

37:08You know what you want

37:10I don't know

37:10I haven't been looking at it to be

37:12I just goes glass in the conversation in the moment to be honest

37:17Take as long as you need

37:18Can we have one more minute?

37:19Is that okay?

37:19Yeah of course you can have as long as you need

37:20Thank you

37:21Thank you so much

37:22We're having a great conversation

37:23You're interrupting actually

37:24Sorry sorry

37:27And so what made you come to Dublin then?

37:29I was looking for life

37:31Right

37:32And I wanted to have some kind of gay scene as well

37:35Yeah

37:35Which I'd never seen before

37:37Did you go out on the scene much?

37:39Very no

37:39Very shy

37:40So I was trying and trying and trying but still very shy

37:43Are you going like the gay scenes?

37:45Yeah like I'm still relatively new to this

37:50I used to go to the bar beside the George

37:53Yeah

37:53I could hear the fun inside

37:55But I was too nervous to go in there by myself

37:58I always had to be a little bit drunk to walk in and stuff you know

38:02Especially panty bar

38:03Cause you know how you walk in

38:05Yeah it's a bit daunting

38:06All eyes on you

38:07Yeah

38:07You know what I mean?

38:08It's like a walk of

38:09Yeah

38:09You know

38:10I couldn't live my life in Poland as a gay person

38:14So that was the first main reason why I left the place I lived you know

38:19It was like gangs everywhere, drugs everywhere

38:23Everybody expect for me to prove what a man are you

38:26You know

38:27Everybody will fight with you and everything

38:29And I was none of that

38:31And I was pretending to be someone else for a long time

38:34And it was painful

38:36To hide how soft I was inside

38:40I had to become

38:41You know

38:42So I was like

38:42I'm doing all of these bad things and everything

38:44But inside me I was terrifying

38:46Okay

38:47You know

38:47Every day was a challenge for me

38:49Just because I was scared that if they will see that softness inside me

38:53I'm going to be in trouble

38:55So then after school when I was going back home

38:58And there was nobody at home

38:59Closing the door and Britney Spears straight away

39:03Yeah

39:03Hit me baby one more time

39:10Oh my god

39:11What was I saying there?

39:13I don't care what you were saying

39:15I'm just eating a bloody raspberry

39:17You don't like them?

39:19I don't

39:21Beautiful

39:23You'll have people out there over there and say

39:25I want whatever she's having

39:28Yeah

39:29She looks alright

39:32She's a lovey, lovey woman

39:34Good crack

39:35Are you driving?

39:37I am not

39:38Where do you have to bus?

39:40Erm

39:40I have to get to Lewis from here

39:42Yeah

39:43To Bus Aris

39:45Yeah

39:45And then I get a bus

39:48I'll escort you back to Bus Aris if you want

39:50That'd be great

39:51Cause I'd get to Lewis as well

39:54That'd be great

39:55Yeah, yeah, yeah

39:56Yeah, I'd appreciate that

39:57There was a little something there, you know

39:59But I wouldn't give up on the romantic bit

40:05Thank you so much

40:06Thank you

40:07Gentlemen

40:08And everything was lovely, thank you

40:10Oh, it was just perfect

40:11I'm so happy to hear that

40:13Would you guys like to see each other romantically again?

40:16I'm not answering

40:20I'd like to see Esther again

40:22I'm 50-50 on the romantic bit

40:24But I don't mean any offence to that in any way

40:28Same

40:29Are you?

40:30Yeah

40:30That's good

40:31I would

40:32No, I would like to see you again

40:34Good, good

40:35I think he's a lovely guy

40:38You know

40:38I am, yeah

40:40Oh, are you?

40:41I think he's great

40:43Really?

40:44So thank you again so much

40:46Thank you

40:47It's been lovely to have you

40:48Aw, thank you

40:49Thanks

40:50Alright, bye now

40:51Thank you

40:53You think if you were to have a friendship meet-up, what would you do?

40:56We discussed that on the Lewis-Bex and Bessards

40:59Oh, Jesus

41:11Jesus, my face

41:12You're all right

41:13You're all right

41:15You're all right

41:15Last year, I went to Liverpool three times

41:17Haven't been this year yet

41:19Need to go

41:20I try and get there at least once every season

41:22I try and get over the Stamford Bridge at least once

41:24Did your family, like, kind of bring you up into, like, football

41:28Or is it something that you did?

41:29That was my grandad

41:30Gone kind of five years now

41:31But, like, that memory, but having those memories of being able to go there with them

41:36I do find it emotional

41:37My mum, like, she'd be one of my best friends

41:40Like, I could tell her anything

41:41Really?

41:42That's what I love

41:42And she'd never judge me

41:43Like, like, she definitely

41:44She would be, like, my role model

41:46She's someone I look up to

41:47Really, yeah

41:48Oh, yeah

41:49That's lovely

41:49That's so nice

41:49I love my family

41:52I love my family

41:52My mum is, like, my best friend

41:54My mum got sick when I was young

41:56That was definitely a bit of a oof

41:57Then she got sick again

41:59And they were like, okay

42:01I remember, as well, the second time

42:03Me and my brother moved in with my nanny

42:05And it was my birthday

42:07And she'd just got chemo

42:08So I couldn't spend it with her

42:10I couldn't even give her a hug

42:11And I suppose, like

42:12I think that's maybe why I love birthdays so much now

42:15Because I miss that one little birthday

42:17Do you have many siblings?

42:19Just the one brother

42:20Oh!

42:21He's older than me

42:22Oh, yeah, yeah

42:23We're chill

42:23That's class

42:24But we're very different

42:25Really, yeah?

42:26He's so introverted

42:28I'm so extroverted

42:29Really, yeah?

42:30Yeah

42:30My dad, brother

42:32They used to watch matches

42:33When I was younger

42:34I was like, turn that off

42:35Like, I wanna watch telly

42:36But now then

42:37Since I've got, like

42:38An interest in that

42:39We've become closer as well

42:41What's your dream date?

42:43Dream date?

42:43That's a great question

42:45It really depends

42:46I suppose, like

42:47For me, ideally

42:48Like, I'd love to do

42:49Like an activity date

42:50So it's like

42:50You go bowling

42:51Or you go play a couple games

42:52At pool or something

42:53And then, like

42:54Maybe go for something to eat after

42:55What about you?

42:56What's like your dream date?

42:57My top, top date?

42:58Yeah?

42:58Going to a match

42:59Going to a match?

43:00Mmm

43:01Alright

43:02Yeah, that is

43:03Like, that would be, like

43:04Top of my list

43:05I mean, that's second date

43:06So I'd know

43:06But alright

43:07Like, are you coming to Anfield?

43:08Or am I gonna have to, like

43:09I mean, because they're off a daily

43:11I'm going to park and watch the balls first

43:12And then

43:13And then go over there

43:14Yeah?

43:15I'm gonna introduce me to the League of Ireland

43:16Yeah

43:24Wow

43:25The cheesecake

43:26Thank you so much

43:26That looks sexy

43:28And the chocolate heart

43:31Enjoy

43:31Thank you so much

43:32Thank you

43:33Nice at all

43:36Where do you like to holiday?

43:38Usually

43:39Usually

43:39Every year I'm going to

43:40Blancanaria

43:42I went most recently

43:43In

43:44May or April

43:47And the second one is

43:51Citrus

43:51I was just about to say

43:53Like, you would go there

43:54And you have old Dublin

43:55Standing in front of you

43:56Yeah, I'm going to Citrus in September

43:57Are you?

43:58Yeah

43:58Me too

43:59Really?

44:00I am, yeah

44:00For Bear Week

44:01Yes

44:04We're so basic, aren't we?

44:06Yeah, I know

44:09What is your like

44:10More far away place

44:11Have you ever been?

44:13I've been to Canada

44:14To

44:15Play rugby

44:16You play rugby?

44:17I didn't really

44:18Show me your tights

44:21I like the way I look

44:22I think I've done the best

44:24With what I have

44:25You look good

44:26You look

44:26You have a good shape

44:27Thank you

44:27I like your tattoos

44:28Thank you

44:29But

44:30Somebody could be hitting on me

44:32And I am

44:33Completely oblivious

44:35I love you

44:36I love you

44:37Thank you

44:39I'm just like

44:39Wasn't that a really nice person

44:41To come up and chat to me

44:42Okay, bye

44:45Would you like to?

44:47No, sorry

44:47Thank you

44:48I should have asked you

44:49Thanks

44:50Thanks

44:55It's absolutely a pleasure

44:56I have to tell her to meet you

44:58Oh

44:59Thank you so much

45:00It's been a total pleasure to meet the two of you too

45:02Thank you

45:05So

45:07Moment of truth

45:08Yeah

45:09Would you like to see each other again romantically?

45:14You

45:15You

45:15You want to go first?

45:15Or would I go first?

45:17I can go first

45:18Okay

45:18Yes

45:20Yes

45:21I would like to see you again

45:22Okay

45:24For me

45:25Not romantically

45:26Okay

45:27That's okay

45:27Yeah

45:29How has everything been overall?

45:31It was lovely

45:31Yeah?

45:32Good food

45:32Good company

45:34Yeah

45:35You're a great guy

45:36Yeah

45:36I really enjoyed speaking with you

45:38You're a handsome guy

45:39So it was

45:39It was really enjoyable

45:41Yeah

45:41I suppose I just didn't feel a spark

45:43Yeah

45:44Thanks again so much

45:46Thank you

45:47I was kind of pretty sure you would say no romantically

45:50But I still wanted to say yes

45:52I'll meet you

45:56See you soon

45:57Good night

45:58I do like him and I would definitely want to meet him again

46:00But it's like I don't feel devastated

46:02Or heard by that

46:04You know what I mean

46:04It's fine

46:13It's going really well

46:14Yeah?

46:15I think it's going bad

46:16From my perspective anyway

46:17I think it's going really well

46:18Excellent

46:18She's lovely

46:19She's honestly

46:20She's gorgeous girl

46:21The moment she walked in

46:23I was like yeah

46:24Definitely

46:25It's definitely been the easiest day

46:27I've ever had

46:28Like it's just been so smooth

46:29Like you know that way

46:30So you're a happy man

46:31I'm very happy man

46:32Yeah but game face on

46:34Absolutely

46:34Yeah yeah

46:35Play it cool now

46:35Play it cool

46:37I've never been with a girl

46:38That's kind of been as much as my type

46:40As she has

46:42Conversation was just so natural

46:44She was just such a yapper

46:45Which I love

46:46Humour as well

46:47Which is always good

46:49Just so nice

46:50Just such a wonderful person

46:51Like you know that way

46:52Like you know that way

46:55But uh

46:56Where

46:57Where were we?

46:59Where were we?

47:01That's a great question

47:03Hello

47:04Hi

47:06I'm going to get this

47:07No no no no

47:08No no please

47:08No no no

47:09We can split it

47:10It's okay

47:10No let me get this

47:11Honestly

47:12No you don't have to

47:14But I want to

47:16Please let me get this

47:17Mmm

47:18Mmm

47:20Would you two

47:21Like to see each other again romantically?

47:24Ladies first

47:28Yes I would

47:29Yes I would

47:33Thank you so much

47:34Thank you

47:34Bye

47:37I had a ball

47:38Good vibes from the onset

47:40I felt very comfortable

47:43He's really cute

47:48Mini eggs as well

47:49That's a huge huge plus for me

47:51I'd share a bag of mini eggs with you

47:53I would as well

47:53And I

47:57Know the way

47:58Where will the second JP?

47:59A ball's match

48:00Okay

48:01Going to daily round park

48:01Oh yes

48:02I'm going to go watch the balls

48:03You're going to bring me to Anfield now

48:05Are you?

48:05Of course I am

48:06We'll do the stadium tour

48:07I've already done the stadium tour

48:08An Anfield?

48:09What?

48:10You kept this quiet

48:12Something to talk about now

48:13Ah

48:15I just woke up from my dreams

48:18Because you guys had great crack

48:20Yeah

48:20Absolutely

48:21It was enjoyable

48:22Yeah

48:22It was

48:23Yeah I think so

48:24And I don't know what it all means

48:28But since I survived I realised

48:32Are you going to bring them on a hot girl walk?

48:35Two gum

48:36Two airpods

48:37These ones will be free

48:38And walk straight

48:40A bit of music going

48:41Don't know what she said

48:42Yeah

48:42So I would love you every night

48:44Like its the last night

48:46Like it's the last night

48:48If the world was ending

48:52I'd want to be next to you

48:55Woo!

48:58Do you want to maybe go and go for a drink maybe afterwards?

49:01Yes, yes, it's amazing.

49:03Cool.

49:04Gets in.

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