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00:09It's fine, it's cool
00:12You can say that we ain't nothing, but you know the truth
00:17And guess I'm the fool
00:20With your arms out like an angel through the car's sunrise
00:26And I cry, it's not fair
00:30I just need a little love and I just need a little hair
00:34I think I'm gonna call it love, even if you call it love
00:39I just don't love someone who calls me, baby
00:42You can kiss your laundry, boys and boys
00:46Shoot another shot, try to stop the feeling
00:50You can say it's just the way you are
00:55Make a new excuse, not a stupid reason
00:59Good luck with you, well good luck with you
01:02You're out to stop the world, just to stop the feeling
01:07Good luck with you, well good luck with you
01:11You're out to stop the world, just to stop the feeling
01:34I don't want you to be no slave
01:37I want you to wear the trousers
01:41Not all the time, but
01:43But I want you
01:44Even some of my closest friends were like
01:46I didn't like you when I first met you
01:48I just wanna make love
01:50I'm like how?
01:51How?
01:53How indeed?
01:54If you don't think Molly makes an adorable first impression
01:57You're having a laugh
02:00Hello
02:00Well look at you
02:03Your name please
02:04Molly
02:04Molly, nice to meet you
02:05Molly Matteo, nice to meet you
02:07Nice to meet you
02:07The smiles are there, you're a little bit nervous?
02:09Excited
02:09Did you first relax?
02:11So he's gonna be the one that's nervous?
02:12Yeah
02:12I feel like I would be at home thinking like
02:16Oh, I could say this, I could say that
02:17But then once you get in there like it all just goes out the window
02:19There's a serious set of dimples you've got there
02:22Everyone's been saying that
02:24When I was younger I didn't like them
02:26I was like why have I got too hold in my cheek like but
02:29Everyone loves them now
02:30Even in work if someone's like coming to complain
02:32I'm like oh yeah, I'm really sorry
02:33Like I can't even give out to you
02:34Like stop smiling
02:35I'm like I'm not
02:36I wish you all the luck
02:37Cheers
02:37Thank you
02:39Oh yeah, everyone look
02:42Wow, beautiful
02:43Oh, I needed that, I needed that
02:45I feel like I am a bit like
02:47Oh when it comes to dates just cause
02:49Every date I've been on hasn't really
02:52Led to anything
02:53Majorly good
02:54Maybe Zac Efron
02:55Zac Efron
02:56Okay
02:57Maybe not him
02:58But like
02:59Yeah, but like that kind of style
03:00Yeah
03:01Yeah, okay
03:02Zac Efron's like a fart, no?
03:05He's like no, he's not like
03:06Don't ever stick with my husband like that ever again
03:16No
03:17No
03:22Arriving with backup in the form of daughter Anita
03:24Kevin will either go solo
03:27Or be tempted into a sweet duet
03:30Well, I don't want to settle down again
03:34But I wouldn't mind just going out for someone
03:37And having a bit of a sing song or something like that, you know
03:41You'll never know just how much I love you
03:49You'll never know just how much I care
03:51You'll never know just how much I care
03:52You'll never know just how much I care
03:52Where are you from?
03:53Croatia
03:53Croatia?
03:55Yeah
03:55That was the song I used to sing to her
03:57Ah, you didn't love the touch
03:59Well, love is an understanding of someone you meet whom you think a lot of, you marry and you have
04:09a family
04:11And you look after the family as best you can
04:13That is what I call love
04:17How are we feeling?
04:19About the right side of the grass
04:22That's very good
04:23And what brings you on today?
04:24I see you brought flowers
04:26Beautiful
04:26Oh, I'm on a blind date
04:28Nothing to do with me
04:31Well, it does have a lot to do with you
04:32You're one and a half of the date
04:35I'm 89 years of age
04:36Jesus, fair play
04:37You don't look it
04:38I feel it
04:41Right, Santa
04:42Absolutely
04:43Enjoy
04:43Nice to chat to you
04:44God bless
04:45Good luck
04:54The music of love
04:56It hits different for everyone
04:58For Mikey, it's classic hits
05:01See when you see like a husband and wife and say now like a certain song comes on and you
05:05see it brings them back
05:06I think that's where I kind of get the thing of where I'm looking for a relationship for maybe like
05:10the 80s and 90s
05:14There's girls I met in Galway or in Donegal and they'd be chatting to you and they would carry themselves
05:19like they're not interested and they could tell you then maybe a day or two after that they're interested and
05:22you wouldn't have a clue
05:24Just I'm so glad of seeing it
05:26Jesus Christ
05:27It's Zac Efron
05:30Get me basketball out there
05:33How are you?
05:34I'm pretty good, how are you? Nice to meet you
05:36Your name?
05:36Mikey
05:37Mikey, nice to meet you
05:38You look duper, huh?
05:40I do train my best
05:40I think I had the same taste for years
05:42Everyone was just blonde, blonde hair the whole time
05:44But it all just didn't work out
05:47So darker features are kind of attracting me more now
05:49I don't know why
05:50She's there
05:51Yeah
05:51Nice, well from the paint
05:53Yeah, yeah
05:54I like you so much from behind, I'm afraid to go in front
05:57Yeah, that's all I need
05:58Used to be a very kind of anxious, quiet person
06:01And then the more I've learned to love and get out there, the less it's been that way
06:05Hello, how's things?
06:06Hello
06:07How are you? Nice to meet you, how's things?
06:08I'm Molly
06:09I'm Mikey, nice to meet you
06:10Yeah, I'm Mikey
06:11Good name
06:13Where are you from?
06:14I'm from Donegal
06:15Oh, beautiful accent
06:16Hi, I'm Mia
06:16Nice to meet you
06:17Do you want a drink?
06:18You just got Corona
06:19Corona, yeah
06:21I don't like it even
06:22Yeah, it works perfect
06:23Are you shitting?
06:24I'm not divorced, are you?
06:25No, I'm shitting
06:26Are you? Why?
06:28Guys, have you ever done nothing like this?
06:29No, it's the worst I've ever done it
06:31Yeah, it's not something you do all the time
06:32But anyway, you're from, where are Dublin?
06:35Dublin, yeah
06:36What part?
06:37Kilock
06:37Kilock, she's out in Dublin for eight months
06:40Where'd you live?
06:41I lived in Glasnevin
06:42Oh, that's not too far
06:43Yeah, it's great
06:43I'm just one of them people you'll know straight away whether I like you or not
06:46They kind of pick up by how I'd look at somebody
06:48A lot of eye contact, I'm very interested in somebody
06:51I work in the airport, I do check-in
06:53Oh yeah? Yeah
06:54What do you want on my first holiday last year?
06:56I actually grew up in Spain, I think I went on my first flight when I was like eight months
06:59old
06:59You grew up in Spain?
07:00Yeah
07:00That makes a lot more sense now
07:02I'm not Spanish
07:03Yeah
07:04What are you still doing?
07:05I can't speak it either
07:06I don't
07:07My mom put me in an English speaking skill, so I actually think I had like a bit of an
07:11English accent
07:11So he said, well mate, well mate
07:13He finally would be like, slap that out for now
07:16What do you do?
07:17I'm a HGV mechanic
07:18A who?
07:19A HGV mechanic
07:20What's that like to tell you?
07:21No, I fix all lorries
07:22I look after a fleet of lorries in Galway
07:24The wall?
07:25I look after a fleet of lorries in Galway
07:27Lorries
07:28Yeah, yeah
07:28It's the accent
07:30Lot of people have a lot of lorries
07:31Lorries?
07:32Yeah, lorries
07:32Fleet lorries
07:33I love it
07:34A lot of people do seem to like it
07:35I don't know why
07:36This is so funny
07:37This is cute already
07:38Shut up
07:43Well, if I'm in the club and they start playing rock and roll
07:46That's it
07:46I'm up
07:47I'm an Elvis fan
07:49I'm an Elvis fan
07:51Yeah
07:52You know I can't be found
07:55Sitting home all alone
07:58If you can't come around
08:00At least please tell the phone
08:03Don't be cruel
08:05To who heard it's true
08:07Woo, Georgina!
08:10Georgina has all the moves
08:12And they're not limited to the dance floor
08:15Please don't forget my pants
08:17I mean some things I'm mad
08:19I said do it for a laugh
08:21You never know
08:22He said you might have a new daddy
08:28This is gonna be great
08:29Dude
08:30This is gonna be great
08:31As a spirit you can see it
08:33Just friendship
08:34I'm a bit old now for romance
08:36Look lovely
08:38Thank you for coming
08:39Thank you
08:39It's a big step to do
08:41Yeah
08:41Yeah, lovely
08:42I like people to look well
08:44I don't like people to look shabby or that
08:47Because there's no need now a day to look like that
08:49How are you?
08:50How do you do?
08:51Very pleased to meet you
08:52And yourself
08:53Please have a seat madam
08:54Thank you
08:55Some flowers for you
08:57Ah, thank you very much
08:58They're beautiful
08:59Yeah
09:00Roses my favourite
09:01Roses are red my little
09:03Yeah?
09:04I'll get
09:05I'll put in
09:05Thank you very much
09:07I'll do it for you
09:07Pleasure
09:08My name is Georgina
09:09Georgina
09:10I'm Kevin
09:11Kevin
09:12Lovely to meet you
09:13How are you keeping?
09:15Like yourself
09:16I'm hitting
09:17Hitting the 90
09:18Yeah
09:18I'm 89 at the moment
09:20I'm 88
09:21That's what I'm playing here
09:23Hitting the 90
09:24So we're doing very well
09:25Yeah
09:26We're not doing too bad
09:27We're doing very well
09:28Not too bad
09:28And what do you do
09:29To enjoy yourself?
09:30Well, I used to play golf
09:33Oh, good
09:34I'm the energy to get round the day
09:36In holes now
09:37Yeah, yeah
09:37I go out every part night
09:39With a friend of mine
09:40We're down to the local community centre
09:43The minute I walked in
09:45Ah, Jesus, we'd have a song
09:46Yeah
09:47You're well known
09:48All at once am I
09:52Several stories high
09:56Knowing I'm on the street
09:58Where you live
10:01I think of that
10:02I'd have you answers
10:03Yeah
10:04Sorry, I dreamt you say
10:05That's what I'm gonna have
10:06Sorry
10:08Tell me, man
10:09Is gonna kill me for saying this
10:10Yeah
10:11I can't use a knife or fork
10:12It's so bad
10:13So how have you been passed
10:15Or don't want to
10:16A fork
10:17My mom
10:18My family always say
10:19If I don't say it
10:20My face will
10:22I can't even
10:22Forgot the song
10:23To yesterday morning
10:24Are you for real?
10:25I couldn't even sleep
10:26Yeah
10:26I couldn't
10:27I'm not a warrior
10:28I used to be a mass warrior
10:29Now I just kind of lost that
10:31I don't know what changed
10:32I really like your accent
10:33Yeah
10:33It's really nice
10:34I don't know why people seem like it
10:36Even the way you said warrior
10:38I thought you said warrior
10:39Yeah
10:40Warrior
10:40Warrior
10:41How are you?
10:42How are you?
10:42It sounds slightly northern too
10:44Long ago
10:44Yeah
10:46I like the idea of someone challenging me
10:48Somebody if I say something
10:49I think I'm right about it
10:50And they'll be like you're wrong
10:51And they'll argue with me
10:52I don't mind that at all
10:53I tried to get into reading
10:54I literally read one book
10:56Read one book
10:57And I was like right
10:58It's a bit of me
10:59Yeah
10:59But they're 12 more
11:00They're still sitting there collecting dust
11:02Yeah
11:02It's hard to get into reading like
11:04If the writing's too small in the book
11:06Yeah if the book's too thick
11:07Get away from me
11:07I'm not even gonna try you
11:09I was in school
11:10I was 17
11:13So two weeks before
11:14I was meant to go back
11:14And somewhere from my last year
11:16I said I'm not going back
11:17And mum said if you're not going back
11:18You're gonna do something
11:20So I started a car apprenticeship
11:21Just winged it
11:22Never touched a car in my life
11:23Ended up in the top six in Ireland
11:25Top six in worlds
11:28For...mechanican
11:28You don't drive them
11:29You fixed them
11:30Fixed them, yeah
11:31Oh
11:32A regular Bob the Builder
11:34Don't look like a
11:35Kind of fixes stuff
11:36Like I don't look like a mechanic
11:38You look like he takes out these
11:39Yeah
11:40I don't know that's a compliment
11:41You're beside the bus
11:42Yeah
11:43I went on a date before
11:45And he got the match up on a live stream
11:47And put his phone there
11:49He was like
11:50Oh I just want to catch the end of it
11:51The end of it
11:51There was 45 minutes left
11:53And as long as I'm a single since I was 15
11:55Wow
11:56I wouldn't give myself a break
11:57Busy guy
11:58I tried reading
11:59Yeah
12:00You tried dating
12:01Yeah
12:01Didn't work for others
12:02Yeah
12:05Whoa
12:07And you're still living in Cabra
12:09I'm...yes
12:10Still up there
12:11I was born in Rairdell Cabra
12:13A lot of good footballers came from there
12:15Liam Wheele in Larder Bear still
12:16Yeah
12:17I played football with Liam
12:18Did you really?
12:19Yeah, played for home farm
12:20I paled with his sister
12:21Yeah
12:22Me husband was killed going to a football match
12:25Was he?
12:26Yeah
12:26He was only 26
12:27Oh Jesus
12:28Yeah
12:30He was a big tall blonde
12:32He was ever so handsome
12:35I was only 14 when I met him
12:37In a job I was in
12:38It was called Brabison's
12:40It used to make jam
12:42And we used to wash the jam jars
12:44That time you were allowed to work at 14
12:47He was knocked down off a bike going to a football match
12:50I was young and I had to work all my life
12:53Yeah
12:53I was lucky I had my mother in Canada
12:55They looked after the kids
12:56Yeah
12:57I got no compensation for my husband's debt
13:00The other man that drove that lure
13:01He walked out with a smile on his face
13:02And I walked out with my three children to Raird
13:05There was times I had four different jobs in one day
13:09I'd go from that job to that job to that job
13:12But I'd done it
13:13And that's how I've known he is
13:14I have two artificial knees
13:15From scrubbing floors
13:18Worked awful hard but it was working
13:20Working
13:20You'd only get out of what you were into it
13:22That's it, yeah
13:23I always felt he was there
13:25I still do to this day
13:27I also have Seamus behind me
13:33It's been a while
13:36Yes it has
13:37Welcome home Simon
13:38First of the first daters
13:40Back at last
13:42So it was the first ever episode of the first ever series
13:46So yeah, one of the OG daters
13:49Home home
13:51Let me go home
13:54Home is wherever you feel
13:56Every time
13:57Hi
13:59Hi
13:59How's it going?
14:00Mr. Nice to see you
14:02Nice to see you
14:02It's been a while
14:03Do we know each other from a restaurant?
14:05Here
14:06From here?
14:07Yeah
14:07I did the first ever episode like nine years ago
14:10Yeah
14:11Hey Dan
14:11How's it going?
14:12Good
14:12How are you?
14:13Nice to meet you
14:13Simon
14:14Simon
14:16How's it going?
14:17Simon and Simon
14:18Nice knees to remember
14:20Shiny heads
14:21Shiny heads
14:23People are like
14:24They'll be looking and going
14:25Do we know you from somewhere?
14:28And it's like
14:28Well I've worked in restaurants in Dublin for it
14:30No that's not it
14:31And then it'll be like first dates
14:33Oh my god
14:34You look the same as the guy
14:37How's it going?
14:38How's it going?
14:38There's some serious boots you've got on
14:40Thank you very much
14:40Thanks
14:41Take long to put them on?
14:42It's a zip
14:43It's super handy
14:44Oh good
14:45Easy to put on
14:46Easier to take off
14:47Well that's the most important thing
14:49Isn't it?
14:49Isn't it?
14:50Or leave them on
14:51Whatever you're into
14:52Whatever
14:53The last one was great
14:55We had a
14:56It was a really lovely date
14:58Like ticked all the boxes
15:00We had a second date then after
15:02But just
15:03It didn't transpire into anything
15:05Okay
15:05But then five days after the episode aired
15:07I met my husband actually
15:09So I got married
15:10Yeah
15:11We were together like nearly
15:12Nearly nine years
15:13We actually moved to Valencia together
15:15And then I moved back last year
15:18And he still lives there
15:20But he comes home for work
15:21Like we had dinner together two weeks ago
15:23And it was
15:24It was really nice
15:25Did you have any kids with it?
15:26Or?
15:26No, no kids
15:27Any dogs or cats?
15:29Yeah
15:29I got full custody
15:31Good
15:31Yeah, yeah, yeah
15:32Of course
15:33You must have been the
15:34I was primary daddy
15:35Daddy number one
15:36Yeah, they need to like dogs
15:38But preferably not have a dog
15:40Because Buddy hates dogs
15:42Buddy is a
15:44In bed with me dog
15:45So he
15:46Oh yeah, same with mine
15:48Yeah
15:48Which can be a little bit tricky
15:50With the whole
15:51Kind of bringing people home
15:52Stuff because
15:53Would he bark?
15:54Oh, so
15:55Yeah
15:55I tried once in the last year
15:58And he had to leave
16:00Oh really?
16:01Yeah?
16:01It didn't work
16:02I'm pretty sure
16:03There's no way
16:04He's gonna let another person in there
16:05So that's gonna be tricky
16:07Buddy the cock blocker, you know?
16:13I think there's two of us
16:14They're going
16:15Drove the car down to Mayo
16:16Claimed a mountain
16:17And drove back home with you
16:18With a hangover?
16:19Yeah, with a hangover
16:19You need to be studied
16:21That's not normal
16:22I didn't really live too much
16:23When I was about 15
16:24Until I was 24
16:25Went away to Edinburgh
16:27About two or three weeks ago
16:28First ever
16:29And that's all they ever went on
16:30Would you like to go to America?
16:32I would I
16:33There's a rake of us
16:34Wanting to go away
16:3510 days next year
16:36Where?
16:37Want to go to Nashville?
16:40That is my dream location
16:42Yeah
16:42Like you don't even understand
16:43You're onto the lakes of all
16:45Like an um
16:45Yeah, I'd like to sell my family
16:47To go to Nashville
16:47That is my dream place to go
16:50Anything that you want to ask?
16:51Will you come to Nashville with me?
16:55I do
16:57Can you line dance?
16:59Can I line dance?
17:00Yeah
17:00I can't either
17:02I just love country music
17:03Cowboy boots
17:05It's just like country temple band
17:07Yeah
17:07So if I could get a fella
17:08That would come there with me
17:10It would be great
17:14I think I've found my place
17:15I've found my city
17:16But now I just need a man
17:18And a dog
17:19And a ring of my finger
17:20You know
17:21Well
17:21The band is ready
17:23The stage is set
17:24Damien
17:25The floor is yours
17:28The last 15 years
17:29I've been a professional dancer
17:30Traveled the world
17:31And uh
17:32Had lots of experiences
17:33So yeah, it's been amazing
17:34Matteo, Damien
17:35Nice to meet you, Damien
17:36Nice to meet you
17:37How's life?
17:38Yeah, good
17:38Yeah, looking cool man
17:39Looking smart
17:40Yeah, I've not been on a lot of dates
17:42I'm quite nervous to be honest
17:44But uh
17:45Anxious I think
17:46Hello
17:46Hello, how are you?
17:48How's it going?
17:49Damien
17:49Nice to meet you
17:50Lovely to meet you
17:51Yeah, yeah, yeah
17:52Good
17:53A bit more relaxed
17:54I'm here
17:55Yeah, yeah, yeah
17:56We're here now
17:57So like, I know I'm the same
17:58I'm so nervous
17:59I can't stop sweating
18:00Once I relax
18:01And I kind of bounce out the person
18:03I kind of let that go
18:04No, 37 now
18:0637
18:06Yeah, cool
18:07What about yourself?
18:08I'm 46
18:09Oh, okay
18:10Yeah, it was a lovely birthday
18:11I just headed off to Kerry on my own actually
18:14Oh nice
18:15Solo trip
18:16Yes, well, I have a little dog
18:17So I brought him too
18:18Oh nice
18:18Like I forgot a friend's wedding in the summer
18:21And I'm like
18:22I want somebody to go with it
18:23Do you know what I mean?
18:24It's kind of embarrassing
18:25It gets to this stage
18:26Where you get a bit older
18:27And it's a little bit like
18:27Oh
18:28Dragon area
18:29I've had mad weekends
18:30Mad holidays at Dragon area
18:32Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
18:33You're assured a bit of sunshine
18:35Yeah, and all the drag queens are there
18:37And all the shows
18:38Ah, gladly
18:39You like drag?
18:40Yeah, I love drag
18:41Yeah, yeah, yeah
18:41I've just actually recently got into drag
18:43Okay
18:44I've done a competition called
18:46The Divine Apprentice
18:47Oh, okay
18:48Yes
18:49The George
18:50Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
18:51That was just recently
18:51Yeah, yeah
18:52That was like
18:53I won it
18:54I won the competition
18:55You won it?
18:56I won the competition, yeah
18:57Wow
18:57My type is ever kind of evolving
19:01The whole bold and beard thing
19:03You know
19:04It's so nine years ago
19:07And what's your drag name?
19:10Roxy Diamond
19:10Of course
19:11Roxy Diamond
19:12Yeah, yeah, yeah
19:14I have
19:14I've seen the videos of it
19:15Oh, okay
19:16So I have a good friend
19:18Tina D. Parton
19:19Oh, yeah, yeah
19:20I think if I'm bouncing off someone
19:21If someone bounces back off me
19:22I'll always be a bit flirty
19:23And a little bit
19:25Tongue in cheek, you know
19:26It's so good to see you again
19:28Thank you
19:28You've been here before?
19:29Ah
19:30It's not my first rodeo
19:31Okay
19:32We can get into that over dinner
19:34Okay, grand
19:36How many in family have you?
19:38Eight, seven
19:39Oh, yeah
19:40That's a big family
19:41Four guys and three boys
19:42Oh, my God
19:43Well, it was love at first sight
19:46And I made an appointment with her
19:49To go to the pictures
19:52And I said to her
19:53I'll meet you at the pillar
19:54If it's raining
19:57Stand under the clock at Cleary's
20:00And she misunderstood what I said
20:02So we didn't meet
20:03I went back to the
20:05To the palm court
20:06The following Saturday night
20:08And she said
20:09You didn't turn up
20:11I said I did
20:11And I explained everything to her
20:14So then we clicked from there
20:17I miss her terribly
20:19Ah, yeah, you do
20:20Life goes on
20:21You can't
20:22Yeah, you have to
20:23You have to
20:24You have to struggle
20:25She was great
20:26She died of leukemia
20:27She's 13 years dead now
20:29How many have you?
20:31I've three
20:31But they all live around me
20:33Yeah
20:34One lives there
20:35One lives there
20:36One lives there
20:36One lives there
20:37I have a son
20:38An old age pensioner
20:40And a daughter
20:40Just coming to be an old age pensioner
20:43I know we had
20:44I had a very rough start
20:46What's your first name again?
20:47Georgina
20:48What's mine?
20:50Kevin
20:50Kevin
20:51Fair play to you
20:52Kevin, yeah
20:52I have to keep saying Georgina
20:55A terrible head for names
20:57I'm a bit like that myself
20:59I have to tell you
21:01We went on like a school trip
21:03To the bog
21:04I feel like everyone goes
21:04When you're in primary school
21:05Did you not?
21:07No, sure I loved in the middle of it
21:08Sure I didn't
21:08I feel like I'm an oversharer
21:11I'm like I let you know this man
21:13Like half an hour wide
21:13Does you know about my
21:15School trip
21:15I went on in second class
21:18You went on a trip to the Spire
21:19Yeah, exactly
21:20That's my idea
21:21Look at this big silver stick
21:22We literally went to Croke Park
21:24And me and I'm jailed
21:25We never went near a bog
21:26We went to the bog
21:27And I remember I was standing there
21:28Everyone was like
21:29I'm not getting in there
21:30I was like I'm not getting in there
21:31I'm going to be so real with you right now
21:33I'm not getting in there
21:34Even out home
21:34Like we have
21:35We have bog
21:36Burn up like in your turf
21:38You burn turf in your house
21:38See like I even forgot
21:40That was what a bog was for
21:41Like in my head the bog was for bodies
21:44Since when was it ever for bodies?
21:46The bog buddies
21:47The bog buddies
21:48That's a ting
21:48Is there more things?
21:49Is there more things you're
21:50No, no, I'm not making that up
21:51I know if I've fucked
21:52Could well be
21:53There's definitely
21:54Bog buddies people got buried in the bogs
21:55Probably like years ago
21:56Maybe not purposely
21:56But they did
21:57It does happen like
21:59If I say something
22:00And they give it back to me worse
22:01I'm like oh
22:02Wow
22:03This is great
22:04Are you still nervous?
22:06No, no
22:06Fresh now
22:07I think it's actually going
22:07Yeah, yeah
22:08Once you start talking to somebody
22:09I don't say anything
22:10But I don't think it's going bad
22:11No
22:12It's going grand
22:13Oh you're so bad
22:15It's grand
22:15I forgot about it
22:17It's grand
22:18It's grand
22:18I forgot about it
22:19It's grand
22:20What should I say
22:23Full disclosure
22:24I'm a little bit hungover
22:26Oh really?
22:27I kind of have friends here from the states as well
22:30So kind of entertaining them a little bit
22:33Yeah
22:33Actually a couple I met about a month ago
22:36And then they
22:37Did you meet them in Ireland?
22:38Yeah, yeah, yeah
22:39I met them in the George one night
22:40Oh nice
22:41Really cool guys
22:42They made an impression I was doing them
22:43Yeah, yeah, yeah
22:44And them on me, yeah
22:45I like to meet someone out
22:47Have I met someone out in a club
22:48And just sat at a bar
22:49And someone comes
22:50And you're like oh hey
22:51And you know
22:51You kind of kick it off
22:53A lot of people that I've met
22:54I've met that way
22:55I was engaged
22:56To be married
22:57My last relationship
22:58So we were together for two years
23:00Okay
23:01Just over two years I think
23:03Mm-hmm
23:03From my point of view
23:04One day it was all grand
23:05And the next day it was like
23:07Just collapsed
23:08My whole life
23:09My world collapsed
23:11And you know
23:11Like obviously when you're in love with someone
23:13Like you're
23:14It's the first time
23:15He actually went through like
23:16Grieving somebody
23:17Even though they're not passed obviously
23:19Yeah, yeah
23:19For a moment I was like
23:21Oh God did they die?
23:22No, no
23:23Sorry, okay
23:23No, no
23:23It was just a break off
23:25Yeah
23:25And to be honest with you
23:26My career is what saved me
23:28At the end of it all
23:29Because I was like
23:29The only other love I have
23:30Is my dance and my career
23:32And you know
23:34We have a lot of love for each other
23:36Yeah, yeah, yeah
23:36But just not
23:37Not to be husbands
23:39You know
23:39Like we had an open relationship
23:41For kind of the last
23:42Two to three years of it
23:44Which was kind of new for me
23:45I had never had a
23:47No
23:47I think that
23:48Like the problem was
23:49Was already there
23:50Like kind of
23:51You know
23:51We probably opened up the relationship
23:53Because of the problem
23:55You know
23:56Okay
23:57But I had never had an open relationship before
24:00And he had never had a monogamous relationship before
24:03I would be very open to
24:05A non-monogamous relationship
24:07You know
24:07Maybe a truffle
24:11I don't know
24:11Maybe
24:11Maybe I wouldn't be actually as jealous
24:13But I think
24:13I probably would be
24:15Yeah
24:15If I really loved that person
24:16And really was like
24:17Yeah
24:18That's my man
24:19That's the first way
24:19When I lived the rest of my life
24:20And I'm like
24:21I don't know if I want to share that
24:22Yeah
24:24Hello?
24:26Hey, what's up?
24:28Grace
24:29Nice
24:29No real awkwardness
24:30Yeah, I slipped
24:31I don't really shut up anyway
24:32So
24:33She seems like she talks a lot as well
24:35Yeah
24:35She's like a lot of energy as well
24:36Yeah, so it's nice
24:37Do you know what?
24:38I can't even stop myself
24:39I feel like I keep being like
24:40He's like car
24:41I'm like car?
24:42Car?
24:45The fella's probably sick of me
24:48She's from
24:49Dublin
24:49Dublin
24:49And you're from?
24:51Dunninggal, but I live in Galway
24:53That's not that bad
24:54It's not the worst now
24:54I feel like usually I'm really good at thinking like what they're thinking
24:58But I actually cannot tell
25:01I'm really embarrassed to say it's going good
25:03Because he doesn't think it's going good
25:04I'd say he thinks it's going good as well
25:12Meet former rugby international Matt
25:15He's still got game
25:17His sisters?
25:18Not so much
25:19We just had a family holiday in Greece
25:21They bought their boyfriends
25:23And I bought my two best mates
25:25And my Dex
25:26So
25:27The boys got the call out
25:28But they were only delighted
25:29Matt
25:30Matt
25:31Nice to meet you Matt
25:32Where are you from?
25:33South Africa
25:34South Africa
25:34Yeah
25:35My grandparents are Irish
25:36And
25:38Moved to South Africa
25:39So my Irish grandparents
25:41Is where I play for the national team
25:43That's why you were moving like a
25:46Like a whole thing
25:47I was thinking man I have to tackle you now
25:49Yeah
25:49Who are you playing for?
25:50I played for the Irish Evans team
25:52Wow
25:53When I got my jersey
25:54My grandma was one of the first people I gave
25:56I gave the jersey to
25:57So she often sends me pictures of her wearing it
25:59It's cute
26:00I was a rugby player
26:02I'm a DJ now
26:03So you're still looking for yourself huh?
26:05Pretty much eh?
26:06The journey
26:06The journey that never ends
26:07The journey that never ends
26:08Is very summery
26:09Like it's vibrant house
26:11So
26:11It wasn't really suited to
26:14Like Ireland's conditions
26:15Which is not really summery
26:17Do you play in anywhere or?
26:18Few spots around Dublin
26:20A few
26:20In Europe
26:21Very cool
26:22Yeah
26:22I did a boat in Greece
26:24Cruising around there
26:26I had like
26:27The crowd was just
26:28Electric too
26:29Like
26:29How long did you play rugby for?
26:31Well 27 now so
26:32Now?
26:32Yeah like
26:3313 years
26:3413 years okay
26:35She doesn't necessarily need to be funny
26:37But if she has a good sense of humour
26:39Like that's the one
26:40Do you know what I mean?
26:41Not that one
26:42But that's
26:43But like that's huge for me
26:44Good smiles
26:47How are you?
26:49Oh
26:49Cause I got the door right
26:51Good girl
26:51No no no
26:52Your mind is playing the games with you
26:54That's it
26:54What's your name?
26:56Sally
26:56You look lovely Sally
26:57Thank you
26:57Sally's learned there's a downside
26:59To keeping a casual
27:01No risk
27:02No reward
27:03Oh
27:04Oh my god
27:05A lot of lust
27:06But definitely no love
27:08We have your date at the bar
27:09Oh god
27:10Okay
27:10Yeah
27:11Is that him there?
27:13Yeah
27:13Oh my god
27:14I love making friends with my friend's boyfriends
27:17Cause I'm like so myself
27:18Cause I'm like
27:19Well there's no chance here
27:19So it's fine
27:21I can just be myself
27:22Hello
27:23Hey what's up
27:23How are you?
27:25How are you getting on?
27:26What's your name?
27:28Matt
27:28Matt
27:29You?
27:29Sally
27:32Yeah not too bad
27:33How are you cubing?
27:34Matt
27:34Yeah
27:34Where you coming from?
27:36I live in Dublin
27:37But I'm from Galway
27:38Galway girl
27:40Galway girl
27:40Yeah that's it
27:42That's it
27:42Where you from?
27:43I'm Bullsbridge
27:44Are you from there?
27:46Well
27:46No
27:47I grew up in South Africa
27:49But
27:49No way
27:50I know it is personally
27:52And I think my friends and my family would vouch for that too
27:55But I do
27:55Don't get me wrong
27:56Don't get me wrong
27:57I do want a hottie
27:58That is true
27:59Where were you on holidays?
28:00In Malaga
28:01Okay nice
28:02Yeah
28:02So you got your tan in Malaga for it?
28:05Yeah
28:05No
28:05I wish
28:06I wish
28:06I wish
28:08But yeah let's go
28:09Yeah
28:09I did
28:10I did exactly
28:11I went for it
28:12When people have the same humour as me
28:15Like that's someone I get like get on really well with
28:19Were you sending it?
28:20Huh?
28:21Were you sending it?
28:22Was I sent?
28:23Sending it
28:23Sending it?
28:24Yeah
28:24What does that mean?
28:25It's like sending it
28:26I know honestly
28:28Do you know?
28:31No I would never do that
28:32I'm a really quiet girl
28:33I don't do that kind of stuff
28:34Okay
28:34Is this like this must be like DJ lingo is it?
28:38Are you a DJ?
28:39Oh shit sorry
28:40Are you a DJ?
28:41I'm giving away all the secrets
28:42No way
28:43What?
28:44Are you a DJ?
28:45I don't know
28:45All you came over is waving the white flag over here already so
28:48The white flag or is it the red flag?
28:50I don't know about that reaction
28:52Maybe in South Africa it is a little bit more like that
28:54You kind of say what is kind of going on
28:56We're over here
28:57No you have to
28:58You have to read
28:59You have to get the Sherlock Holmes investigator out
29:02This is very different to my job
29:04Okay what do you do?
29:06Oh I love this game
29:07I love this game
29:08I have something in my head but I don't want to blur it out
29:10No you know it's well in there
29:12No
29:12Well you seem like kind of kind and sweet
29:15I'm going to say like nurse
29:16Not a nurse no
29:17We're close
29:18Teacher?
29:20Yeah
29:20There you go
29:21Congratulations
29:26Are you long retired from work?
29:29Two years
29:30Two?
29:31My god you worked from good age
29:34When I retired out of the bakery business
29:36Got me to have a taxi
29:37Very good
29:39When I was 65
29:41Something just come over me I said I've had enough
29:44And I retired out of government buildings
29:46The first few weeks now I was saying to myself
29:49What am I going to do it myself?
29:50And I went up to a recruiting agency to look for a job
29:54And the man looked at me
29:55He had a social welfare
29:56And he looked at me
29:57And he said
29:58Will you go home and have a rest?
29:59Do you know all the years after working?
30:01And I said
30:02Yeah
30:02Join a club
30:03In the clubs I'm in
30:05We go away on holidays together
30:06We all mix together
30:08It's great country you know
30:10They ring me
30:11They'll call me
30:11Clerk
30:12Clerk
30:12We'll go in such a place
30:13And I say
30:14Right
30:14Pack a bag
30:15I'm gone
30:16And I just say to myself
30:18I enjoyed life
30:20When I retired
30:21And I'm not going to stop
30:25And that means that we're alive and well this time next year
30:30My grandparents
30:32They're 93
30:33Luckily we still have them
30:34Yeah
30:35And like their connection is just
30:37Oh my god
30:38My grandfather is like
30:40It's actually sad to say
30:41He's keeping himself alive
30:42To be with my grandmother
30:44Like you know my grandmother
30:45Well all is still
30:46Like they're both in a nursing home
30:47You know
30:47Yeah
30:47My folks are actually in a nursing home too
30:50Okay
30:50So they're not great
30:51They're old you know
30:52Dad is like 92
30:55I think
30:56Oh my god
30:57That's a great age though
30:58It is
30:59Yeah
31:00So mum was like a fabulous dresser
31:02You know
31:03She loved her style
31:04And she used to go to mass every Sunday
31:06And I was sitting in the kitchen
31:08And she walked in
31:09And she had this like fabulous
31:10Kind of suit jacket on
31:12And I realised
31:13She had no trousers on
31:15She just had like a pair of
31:16Kind of like fishnet tights on
31:18And I was like
31:19Mum
31:21You're not wearing any trousers
31:22And she kind of looked down
31:23And she's like
31:24Am I not?
31:25And she's like
31:25How do you know?
31:26And I said
31:27Because I can see your knickers
31:29And she went
31:29Oh Jesus
31:30And wasn't I just at mass
31:32And went up to communion
31:33And everything
31:34And I was like
31:35And I was like
31:35Okay was she
31:36Or
31:37And then I was like
31:38Cutting the grass
31:39And a neighbour came
31:40And she was like
31:42Simon
31:42Simon
31:43And called me over
31:43And I was like
31:44Fishnet tights
31:45Mask
31:46She's like yeah
31:46I was like thanks
31:47We have it under control
31:49So that was like
31:50One of those moments
31:51But we just like
31:52When mum realised
31:53Like we laughed
31:54Like the tears were like
31:55Rolling down our face
31:56You know
31:57So it's times like that
31:59Like we kept them at home
32:00For kind of as long as we could
32:02And kind of cared for them there
32:03Yeah
32:04And then it just you know
32:05Gets to a point
32:06Where it's just not
32:06Really feasible anymore
32:08Yeah
32:14I feel like I'm usually really good
32:16At knowing what my people are thinking
32:17But I have no idea
32:18What you're thinking
32:19Me?
32:19Well I think it's more interesting
32:21I was kidding
32:22Yeah
32:23I just kind of keep my cards
32:24Close to my chest
32:25But it just kind of
32:25Play as what it is
32:27And if it goes somewhere
32:28It goes somewhere
32:29I don't really worry
32:29I think your friends comes first
32:31And then I think
32:32I feel like if you really like it
32:33When it's easy
32:34To have a happy balance
32:35Yeah you need a balance about it
32:36Oh I love this accent
32:37I work on cars
32:38I was like
32:39Yeah you do
32:41This is so awkward
32:43Why is it awkward?
32:45It's not at all
32:45He's made this very easy for you
32:46Perfect
32:49So
32:51Would you like to see each other again romantically?
32:54Would you like to go first?
32:55Hmm
32:56Yeah I would
32:56Yeah same
32:59You have a memento now
33:01To take her all with you now
33:02Thank you very much guys
33:04I think he was like
33:05Trying to keep you guessing
33:06Maybe
33:06Yeah I was fucking worried
33:09Why didn't you take one?
33:10Do you not want to remember our date forever?
33:12I don't remember that
33:12It's kind of a bit rude
33:13Yeah
33:14I think she is spectacular
33:16Yeah you do
33:17Yes I do
33:20Yes I do
33:20You have a riot
33:23I see one of the times
33:24Have you ever gone to America
33:26And he's at Nashville
33:26What was that?
33:27Well it might happen
33:28You never know
33:30I guess I'll look
33:33It's a crown down hook
33:35Yeah it was crowned
33:35Could be worse
33:37Don't fix the car
33:44Sorry
33:45So sorry I like to say you you did play rugby
33:47Yeah
33:47And you know
33:49Now I go through midlife crisis
33:50Yeah
33:51And becoming a DJ
33:52Pretty much
33:53Pretty much
33:54So the World Cup is the biggest tournament that I've played in
33:57It was in South Africa
33:59In Cape Town
34:00Like 67,000 people
34:01Obviously the whole crowd
34:03Oh no
34:03Oh no
34:05You're into rugby
34:06Then what happened to rugby?
34:07I got
34:08Injuries
34:09Yeah I got a bad injury
34:10So I retired
34:11No where did the DJ think come out of them like?
34:14Then I was chatting to my sister about it
34:16I was like I really want to do something that I enjoy
34:18Yeah
34:18And so she's actually also going to become a DJ
34:21No
34:22Yeah
34:23Family affair?
34:24I think it's going to be
34:24Yeah
34:25I think it's going to be a thing
34:26Honestly
34:27Yeah yeah
34:27My family are actually like really into music
34:30Oh really?
34:30My dad kind of writes music
34:32My sister plays the drums
34:33We've drums in the house
34:33Like I'll try and play the piano
34:35While she's playing the drums
34:36Like you know
34:36It's a huge passion
34:38Have you asked them to write a song about you?
34:41So
34:41So cringe
34:43The lovely lady in yellow
34:45What's my name?
34:48Sally
34:50You just think about that for a second
34:51Yeah I did
34:54Yeah
34:54Yeah
34:55Yeah
34:56Could you like DJ a song about me then?
34:58I don't know if that's a thing
34:59I don't know if that's a thing
35:01I don't know if that's a thing
35:01You can make it a thing
35:02All right
35:03I'll get some beats
35:04Some sally beats
35:06New genre started
35:07I love that
35:08I actually love that
35:08I'd say you do
35:09I'd say you do
35:32Telling me about his wife
35:33Yeah
35:34Yeah
35:34Yeah
35:35Have you any children?
35:36Yeah I have three
35:37Oh brilliant
35:37And I'm a widow since I was 22
35:4022?
35:41Yeah
35:42It's just the way we were talking about
35:43I never married together
35:44Did you not?
35:46It must have been our babies already
35:47My last child was born after his father died
35:50Oh Jesus
35:51Yeah
35:51That's terrible
35:52I had a pal that had a brother that was in a bad place
35:55He had four children and they were all and after just
35:57And I ended up taking them and rearing them
36:00With me own children
36:01I got him a house beside me
36:04And his daughter is 68 now
36:06She's a great kid
36:08She lives in Spanish
36:09She rings every Sunday
36:10What lovely meeting you
36:11You too love
36:12I hope I see you again
36:14Please God
36:15Leave me to claim a bingo or something
36:16Great love
36:17I always had like Roxy
36:19And I was like Roxy Rouge
36:21Roxy
36:21Roxy
36:22I don't know about Roxy
36:23How should I spell Roxy then?
36:24Yeah
36:24Yeah
36:26So she's Oro XXY
36:28Yeah
36:28And there was no one else in Dublin calling us
36:29You could have done the 3X as well
36:31XXX
36:31Yeah I could have done that
36:33Yeah
36:33A bit saucy
36:35Diamond is come from my mother of drag
36:38I like to say
36:39So Betty likes Diamond
36:40She's a world renowned drag queen from the UK
36:43I definitely have seen you in drag
36:45But I just can't picture her
36:47Because I know Tina put on
36:48Put up like definitely
36:49She's so nice
36:50She's so smart
36:51I was actually supposed to see her on Saturday
36:53But in the Vintage Inn
36:55I actually was there
36:57The couple that I've been hanging out with
37:00The Americans
37:01The Americans
37:02I'm listening you see
37:03So I booked a table in the Vintage
37:04To go
37:05To see the drag
37:07If we had sat there
37:07And had a drink
37:08And not even known
37:09Because we definitely would have met each other there
37:11Because Tina would have been like
37:12Simon this is Damien
37:14Or whatever
37:14Yeah but luckily now
37:14Because I probably would have been like
37:15Oh I'm going on the tape
37:16Next week
37:17And I would too
37:18And lo and behold
37:20Here's Mrs Roxy in Ireland
37:21Oh my lord
37:24Wow
37:24Dude that makeup is amazing
37:27Yeah
37:28That's stunning
37:31I do
37:32I do
37:33I do love dancing
37:33Like a dance party
37:35That kind of surprises me
37:36When I asked you about a night out
37:38No
37:38Now you tell me you love dancing
37:40You're kind of making me feel like
37:41I was being sarcastic
37:42Oh
37:43I was absolutely sarcastic
37:44Oh really
37:45Yeah
37:45I was trying to be hilarious
37:47But I forgot
37:48I forgot that you don't know me
37:49So you obviously wouldn't know
37:51That was literally the first thing you said to me
37:53And now I'm going to understand
37:54That you've been sarcastic
37:55Wow
37:56Okay
37:57Sorry that was already the wrong time
37:58To bring out sarcasm
37:59Yeah
37:59But I'm actually going to Ibiza
38:01And then one day
38:02Wow this is not stopping me
38:04Wow that was serious sarcasm
38:06Yeah yeah
38:07I was really
38:08I was like
38:09I was like
38:10He's not getting this at all
38:11At all
38:12At all
38:12Yeah I was like
38:12You can't go back in the night
38:13Yeah
38:16I'm into the ballroom dancing
38:17The ballroom dancing
38:18Yeah
38:18Yeah
38:19I still adopt our professions
38:20Oh wow
38:22Yeah
38:22I sit down and do the table
38:23Oh
38:24Yeah
38:25And would you do any dancing?
38:27Myself and my wife
38:28Yeah we won
38:30The competition in Carroll
38:32Doing dancing?
38:34All time once
38:35All time once
38:36Yeah
38:36Any chance you'd share a bit of your voice?
38:38Yeah
38:39There's one song
38:40Matt Monroe sang
38:42And it was called I Wonder
38:43Okay
38:44I wonder who paints
38:47The sky so blue
38:50Who makes the snowflakes white
38:54Who wakes the sun up every day
38:57Then lights the stars at night
39:03I wonder how each rainbow
39:10Follows rain and thunder
39:13I wish that I could tell you why
39:23But I can only wonder
39:37You seem like a guy that would go on a day or two
39:41I seem like a guy that would go on a day or two
39:42I seem like a guy that would go on a day or two
39:43What are you trying to say?
39:43I get around
39:44No!
39:45I just get the vibe you like going on a date
39:48Well if you go on first dates you have to somewhat enjoy it
39:51Yeah I actually don't enjoy going on dates to be honest
39:54Oh really?
39:55No
39:55So what made you do this?
39:56I actually have no idea
39:57To be honest I had a lot of wine in me when I applied
39:59Did you?
40:00I seem to be coming across a lot of characters
40:02Who aren't like looking for anything serious
40:04Which is fine
40:05Like you know that's nothing against them
40:06But
40:08I just seem to be always like it's just rotation of all these characters
40:12Are you happy you did it?
40:14Yeah
40:15There we go
40:16Happy about the food not sure about the company
40:19I'm joking
40:20Sally Beats
40:20Don't be like that Nick
40:22Sally Beats
40:22Come on don't be like that
40:24Come on you've hit me with all your sarcasm today
40:26It's only fair if I get you back with like one
40:31Hold on my bike is outside
40:34You hold on
40:38That's that now
40:40Very pleasant lady
40:42I must say
40:43Well it was unusual
40:45At my age
40:47To have a date like that
40:48Oh that was beautiful it was
40:51You still have it
40:52Fair play to you
40:54What was there will always be there
40:55Absolutely very pleasant man
40:57And we had a great lot to talk about
41:01His past life
41:03And I was the same
41:04It was great
41:05And your company was even better
41:07Ah thank you very much
41:09At the end of this month I'm going away to Luritz
41:12Say a prayer for me then
41:13I will
41:13I'll put your name there at the mass
41:16Do you think you would both like to see each other again?
41:21Yeah
41:21I'd say so yeah
41:22Yeah
41:23If you keep up singing I'd say yeah
41:26Ha ha ha ha
41:27Give you a little hug
41:28It was lovely
41:29Because I'm a hugger
41:30It was lovely
41:31Thank you
41:31You were very very well matched weren't we
41:34Good job we didn't meet 50 years ago
41:37Ha ha ha ha
41:38Yoo hoo
41:40Smile though your heart is aching
41:43Smile even though it's breaking
41:46When there are tears
41:47There be endless appears
41:50I don't
41:51Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
41:53Very well matched
41:55I feel like he's maybe looking for something a little bit more
42:01Kind of serious
42:02A little bit more
42:03You know
42:03Committed monogamous
42:04Commogamous
42:05Commogamous
42:07Commogamous
42:09That's it
42:09I'm going with it
42:10Like a month ago, I randomly met a couple here on holidays and we kind of spent a few days
42:16together and that was a first for me, like being in a trouble, you know, which was, it was interesting,
42:24you know, I don't think it's something I could do full time. Like that is quite intense.
42:28You're the, what they call the unicorn. You don't have to deal with that jealousy. Is that what they call
42:32it? Yeah. I'm a little unicorn. You're the unicorn. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because it's like you're shiny and new and
42:37exciting and I don't know, there's something, yeah, yeah, I've heard that. It's not a full time thing, but nice,
42:43nice for a short time. Like maybe I'm just scared to, to give that commitment again, you know? Thanks very
42:49much. Like when they come in to us, we act like they know nothing. So like we teach them from
42:54the beginning.
42:55I was the last person in the school to get my, my pen license. Do you guys do pen licenses?
43:02They do love the other. You're actually breaking my heart and stuff. The little rogue in the corner.
43:08I don't know. Don't mind that. Blind. Don't mind that. Yeah. So sorry, is the rogue me like completely done
43:14now? Yeah. Really? Done skis. Was it, was a really, really bad injury? It was just a head knocks. So
43:20head knocks? Like concussion.
43:25Stop. That's scary. I just tell it to my family and you just said it's not worth it. Not worth
43:31it? Like, no.
43:31I had one in high school and I just said I need to just take a break. And unfortunately that
43:37break went down. I went down the wrong path.
43:40And eventually ended up just missing it too much. I said, I'm going to come back. But it just ended
43:45up being that I've, I've had too many now and I started getting symptoms.
43:48You know, I had really bad anxiety. I had really, really bad anxiety. One of the symptoms actually was that
43:55I was forgetting names. So that's, that's why I forgot your name, Sally.
43:58Got it now though. We're back, baby. Yeah, I know it's bad. Oh my God, I'm so sorry. I made
44:03such a joke about that.
44:04No, it's like, it's, I don't have that emotional attachment to it anymore because I found DJing. Like, I want
44:12to give you a hug.
44:13Give me a little hug. Can I? Yeah. Oh, that is so sad. Sorry. Is this your hugging the rogue?
44:19Yeah. Oh.
44:20When I had this, this last knock, I was really, I was lost. I've always had something that's pushing me
44:26like day in and day out.
44:27Like just to dedicate my life to. And I was just like, what is going on? And so I'm very
44:32grateful for what I found now because it's, it's, it's, it's ignited that fire, that passion in me. I'm back.
44:38Be so back. I felt like you're the teacher I never had. Like the little rogue, like all he needs
44:43is a little hug.
44:44All he needs is a little hug. Yeah. A hug actually can fix a lot of things.
44:48Hugs. You're not, you're a natural hugger. You're an absolute natural. I was going to say, break my hug. You're
44:54a natural.
44:54You're a natural. When I'm stressed, you know what I do? I cry. Do you? Oh, I am. Everybody has
45:02seen me cry. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm a big cry. I hate goodbyes.
45:05So you're going to, you're going to cry when this date's over? Like, goodbye, Matt. Well, if it's goodbye, yeah.
45:10I probably will. Goodbye, all right. No, I don't know.
45:12Lovely. So, uh, we're going to split. We're going to do 70 each. Lovely. Is that okay? Absolutely. Thanks.
45:19I need to really have that connection. I need to wake up in the morning and, like, think about that
45:25person. Go to bed at night, think about that person.
45:28You know, like, wake up and that they're there for me, that they're messaging, they feel the same way.
45:32Your tattoo is lovely. Thanks. It's my dog's, uh, paw prints.
45:39How are you? How are you? Oh, sweet. Love a hug. Love a hug.
45:44Would you guys like to see each other romantically again?
45:47Like, we got on really well. Yeah. Loads in common. Loads to talk about. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
45:53I feel like you could be my next, you could be my first drag mother.
45:57I think we were more sisters, to be honest. Yeah.
46:00Where you going? The sun's splitting the rocks.
46:03But it's just one of those things. The spark wasn't there, hon.
46:06That's it, you know? And that's, yeah, but that's, that's life.
46:11When you're in a relationship and you're married, especially as a gay couple, like, I'm open to maybe branching out.
46:17But these are the rules. You know what I mean? Because you trust each other. You've built that.
46:21But not initially, not straight away. Absolutely not. No.
46:23It was an absolute pleasure. Take care.
46:25So, look, we'll, we'll see each other again, for sure.
46:28Yeah, yeah, yeah. Hopefully you'll put me in drag at some stage.
46:31Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
46:32A bit of glitter, you know? A bit of glitter.
46:34A bit of glitter. That's all I need. A little gloss and a bit of glitter, you know?
46:37My name would be Mighty Susanne.
46:41Your name would be Croatian sensation.
46:43Oh, stop it, Susanne. 100%.
46:46And you?
46:48Ginger Galore.
46:52You're not going to have any more?
46:53I will, yeah. Just enjoy the views, like, you know what I mean?
46:56Some view. Some view, babe.
47:01Yeah, okay, fair. He is a hottie.
47:02I can't, I can't.
47:03Not like that one.
47:04Okay, well, I'll ask you a random question now.
47:06Could be fun.
47:07So random.
47:09Post eggs?
47:10Fried eggs?
47:12Scrambled eggs or boiled eggs?
47:13Is this, is this, you're asking me how, because you want to cook them for me?
47:16She's just such a stunning girl.
47:18So, maybe, I don't know.
47:22It's, this, this is the unknown, isn't it?
47:24A boiled egg.
47:25That is nice.
47:26Rotten.
47:26I was all...
47:26Like, you put on toast a bit of butter. It's nice.
47:29I would never sit here and be like, oh, yeah, he definitely was interesting.
47:32So, I really, like, you may just saw it as a friend thing, which is so fair enough.
47:36No, I've got it.
47:36I would never, ever take a girl out on me for a second and make up her.
47:39You're joking.
47:40Would you guys like to see each other again romantically?
47:45So, I'm not sure whether, like, we'll grow romantically, but I think we may as well give it a shot.
47:54Is that a yes or no? I actually don't know what that was.
47:57Yeah, it's like, I'm unsure, but I want to give it a go.
48:00You're unsure?
48:01Yeah.
48:01Okay.
48:02Well, I would say yes.
48:03Thank you, Matt.
48:05It's an absolute pleasure, Sally.
48:06It's a lovely time.
48:08The right thing would be to do is to say yes, let's go and just give it another shot.
48:12If there's something more, then we'll explore that.
48:15Great.
48:16Gee.
48:17All gee.
48:18Bring it in, your love.
48:22So, is that a yes, then?
48:24Are we going on a second date?
48:25Yeah.
48:26You put on some McDeezy.
48:28That's my DJ now.
48:30Is it?
48:31Oh, get a bit of a plug in.
48:33Get a bit of McDeezy on there, please.
48:40Are you going to go out now?
48:42No.
48:43You can wear me.
48:44Yeah.
48:44Yeah.
48:45Good.
48:47I'll never forget the moment we kissed the night of the hayride.
48:51The way that we hug to try to keep warm while taking a sleigh ride.
48:57They say I'm never too old for love.
49:00Is that right, Kevin?
49:01Love is a many splendid thing.
49:03Yeah, yeah.
49:07Magic moments
49:08When two hearts are kept
49:12Great hugger.
49:13You have to give people hugs.
49:14Hugging the rogues.
49:15Making the rogues feel loved.
49:17It's the memory
49:21Beyond these magic moments
49:27Beyond these magic moments
49:51God bless you.
49:53Okay.
50:12You
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