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00:01this romance is the first state's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:13okay breathe is possible but you pique my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing
00:21the cool an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven i'm a big fan of
00:34your
00:34parents work or a sudden shock to the senses none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a
00:44village
00:44what happens next is up to them cute would you like to see each other again romantically
01:13style class and good looks moss as all three in a range of matching colors clothes and appearance
01:21are important to me i like to feel good and now that i'm put together i like to wear kind
01:27of blue
01:28beige white but i look very good in black as well do you get chatted up yeah i do you
01:37should buy a lot
01:37older people though the most random places like not not on a night out in the george or something
01:43it'll be like in super value it's cringy to say but be nice to have someone to cuddle up with
01:52on the
01:55couch how are you how are you buddy welcome i grew up in wicklow i don't sound it but i'm
02:01actually
02:01fairly agricultural and i grew up in a small village in the mountains everybody knows yeah you're gonna be
02:07the top of the village jesus yeah probably and then i went to secondary in south dublin and i gained
02:14this
02:14lovely someone say stuck up or posh accent would you like a drink i would love a drink i'm gonna
02:20say
02:21you're like a porn star martini kind of guy yes actually it's a gift i can be guarded around people
02:28i don't know but get a drink kind of sharpish and then all nerves gone i'm just recently back to
02:35ireland
02:35actually i've been living in luxembourg for the past year oh very nice yeah i study international
02:40hotel management um i've just come back from my second year placement which was in a very nice hotel
02:47and what is your usual one type um tall i've never gone on a date with someone the same height
02:54or taller than me i'm 6 3 jesus that's tall i don't want to be walking around with a step
03:00lather
03:09hiya they tried to put me on the cover of vogue but my legs were too long every day is
03:17leg day
03:18you might be wondering why ian is even here he's already found the greatest love of all
03:24i think i'm handsome other people might not agree which is absolutely fine everyone is so entitled to
03:28their own views well like i love myself and if i can't love myself how am i expected to love
03:34someone else a good sense of style was nice but like style can always be fixed
03:44a bit of a diva i've been called that a few times whether it's true or not who knows
03:49legs no hello how are you mr smiley a little bit nervous i think i'm more excited than nervous
03:57your date is at the bar
04:01i may as well say hello yes i would really really like if certain someone was able to talk
04:07like i don't have to force conversation out of them good looking would also be a perk i suppose
04:12maybe a bit tall hello hello pleasure to meet you i'm good and you i'm good what's your name
04:19moss and you moss ian ian lovely to meet you pleasure to meet you are you taller than me no
04:25i think you're
04:25taller than me you're taller your hair makes you taller than you i'll take that i'll take that
04:32it doesn't matter like how someone looks if i can tell they're intelligent that's really attractive
04:37are you in college i'm in college at the moment yeah i do biomedical science oh very good where
04:42are you at u sligo oh my gosh it's really you're in the back arsenal yeah i'm in the back
04:48arsenal
04:48you in college i am i'm studying in shannon college oh also the other side of the country
04:55yeah i'm in the back arsenal like you
05:03these days some people are retiring at 70 now we're going to step to the side arms outside not
05:10bernie she's not retiring at all it's strange saying that age because i don't feel it i don't act
05:19it i've been a bit nervous of meeting somebody for the first time but i'd also be excited it's
05:24an adventure it's an experience at my age it's great do i open the door if somebody says no
05:33i don't want to meet you again i'll just say hard luck and where are you from i'm from dublin
05:41oh yeah i'm living in mead now okay so i think it's officially a dulci oh god i just think
05:50i'm a
05:50bit of fun i'm lively and i'm energetic i teach tai chi and qigong can you give me some tai
05:57chi moves
05:58get your hands together you want to feel the energy right okay qigong and tai chi is energy work
06:04it absolutely got me through covid i can actually feel in my hand
06:09every time leo veradker mentions another six weeks you know you're living on your own you're
06:13kind of going oh no but i'd go into the kitchen and i do my tai chi and everything slows
06:18down
06:19imagine me what are you looking for a man
06:24hope he's not ai
06:26you can tell that i haven't had romance in a long long time
06:30it's not because it's very hard to know because i particularly wasn't i'd given up
06:33i'd literally given up i think you're kind kind-hearted man is nice but you don't want
06:39a saint because i can be very bold
06:49enter jerry immaculately attired but still looking for something to tie it all together
06:57love i think it's the greatest feeling in the world hard to match
07:02i can manage on my own but at the same time you do need love you do need companionship
07:09what do you go for physically in a woman not too small obviously not too tall
07:13i haven't got the right words to say good cleavage however you say you're a boot man yes absolutely
07:22jerry jerry yeah nice to meet you jerry ladies over here yes ladies first do you find the dating
07:30landscape has changed a lot oh god yeah obviously i've changed by a few decades
07:35it's a very different animal all together hello hello hello hello how are you how are you
07:42how you feeling nervous is it the word of the day really isn't it easy is it all that wine
07:47wouldn't cool it down really i swear but you look over here we're here for a laugh and you know
07:53whatever and enjoy this one yeah just amazing yeah where are you from mead tara can't you meet
07:58oh right i'm living in mead yeah your neighbor already oh my god do you want a drink yeah give
08:04me
08:04a little bit of water please water yeah thank you thank you you don't have a billy do not i
08:09do
08:09do do do okay yeah but uh what's it behave
08:20i can't hack wine i can't hack it darling i can't are you a wine person okay so i'm a
08:26wine person
08:27because we have to study wine as part of my course really yeah oh no i can't i actually can't
08:33i wish
08:33you're drinking nice wine i don't i don't mean i don't mean petrol station spec
08:39i think humor is a really really important thing in a person because it's just a really good way to
08:44get along with someone oh lovely look at that especially if they're not too sensitive have you
08:50been on many days before five or six maybe in dublin oh okay i had a situationship for a while
08:56with a lawyer oh yeah that was like kind of like two months or so that just didn't work out
09:01now i realized i could do better
09:06okay not the lawyer thing personality and stuff yeah i would i would hope so
09:12you what have you ever been on a date before you have oh my god yeah i've been on a
09:18date like drink
09:19dates dinner dates no i've been on like breakfast dates like when i work that's clever actually
09:24because everyone like you have to go and do ship the rest of your day yeah i'm very driven so
09:28i kind
09:29of would like someone who's actually like has their kind of stuff together there was one guy we went on
09:34like a few breakfast dates i didn't really like him so i just left him on open and soft chat
09:38and then
09:39you like to ghost people no like he didn't really do anything with himself i'm like that's kind of like
09:44a
09:45turn up for me as well like he he did like a waste like he did he was a waster
09:49yeah someone who's
09:51not ambitious doesn't have goals or doesn't have desire to set goals i i find that really
09:56unattractive we left so many puts in the effort yeah it's amazing
10:07this is nice good choice nice restaurant
10:15thank you very much very becoming indeed for me it really is when you meet somebody
10:22it's about the personality isn't it you can say somebody's very handsome but after a while you
10:28don't notice that well how did you end up with me life i i suppose marriage at 23 you had
10:36to try to
10:3624. it was a good marriage i think we just grew apart divorced and i met somebody and well i
10:43didn't
10:43meet somebody i knew him for 30 years yeah yeah yeah and we ended up together and he had a
10:49house down
10:49there and um three years later he died of cancer oh righty that was 18 years ago oh gosh 18
10:58years
10:59sorry to hear that yes what about yourself divorced from a lovely lady i was married for about 10 years
11:06i'm not now for the last 17-ish years we're on good terms yes you have to be yeah that's
11:14good
11:14i'm the same yeah it's not always easy but it's a blessing isn't it yeah yeah i'm kind of a
11:19conundrum
11:19because while i say i'm happily unmarried simultaneously looking for love
11:25and have your children no no i never had thank god i just say thank god in a callous way
11:32you're worried to say that because i never want them really yeah yeah yeah i might be too hedonistic or
11:40or um just short of commitment a bit um if i'm honest and i'm here to be honest whether i
11:47ever come to
11:48regret that or not i can't be sure but you're probably you're probably regretted now yeah yeah
11:54yeah it's all right so i think at this stage i'm content with that i don't know why i get
12:01on greater
12:01children do you know yeah so that's the inner child isn't it yes it's most important it's most important
12:07yeah it really really is sounds like you the inner child hasn't left you no no absolutely
12:22in the game of love it's probably wise to let leah make the first move i'm one of those people
12:28that
12:29if i think someone is attractive i would not wait for them to come up to me i would more
12:33than likely
12:34go up and be like hi you are gorgeous can i get your number but then there's been a couple
12:40of times in
12:40clothes where some fellas come up to me and hey girl how's it going but you know what i mean
12:46like
12:46straight up and simple but yeah strong independent woman you don't need no man but i mean if the
12:52right one comes along don't push them away well hello hello you where are you from leah i'm from
13:00artane in dublin north side you're dublin what does it matter what side i know i know
13:06i'd like someone that can have a bit of banter with me my mom loves you say hello to mama
13:12for me
13:14hi how are you i'm pretty good at flirting spontaneous bubbly and i could literally talk
13:22to absolutely anybody so what's your time oh god you should see the men that i've gone out with before
13:30sorry that's actually horrible i've heard it from other people not me i'm getting references i'm
13:37pulling quotes here as long as you can get along with me i'm like fabulous you know what i mean
13:42but
13:42i have like weird little niches love the mullet mustache combo a lot of people would say it's a red
13:48flag
13:48five means a green one very very green
13:58well how are you it's all business in the front but there's a party in the back when i'm
14:04mullet shake it gives all the girls a heart attack jake's mullet sure is the business but the party
14:12ain't limited to the back how do you get ready for a date to get ready like this
14:40is that not a man jesus christ it sounds like that doesn't it oh no
14:47mullet moustache is looking for his man how is everything jake surviving and thriving a little
14:52nervous but what is love jake can you describe it for me i don't think i can because i think
14:58i've
14:59fallen in love with every girl i've ever met i think i'll know what love is when i find it
15:04hi nice to meet you nice to meet you so what's your favorite color
15:10oh my god
15:18when it comes to me being myself that can be kind of terrifying because like
15:24maybe they don't like someone that's quite outspoken or confident what are you drinking i'm drinking a
15:28gin and tonic may i copy her please absolutely
15:40that's a good way to be at the start of a date
15:47so do we just slag this off get the wedding planned
16:19i don't know what's going on
16:19it's not past 10 o'clock and you're already a few beers in with uh like a bit of liquid
16:24confidence
16:25no but i've never done like a like a sit down like dinner date unless i've been in like a
16:29long-term
16:29relationship i've never done like a long-term relationship yeah how many years three the last
16:36guy i've seen we said i love you after three days and we were together for a year and a
16:41half
16:42i realized i kind of had to find myself a little bit more which is what i've been doing
16:46i've been single now a year and a half i'm glad because now i do know what i'm looking for
16:54are you like vegetarian or vegan no you're not are no i don't want to say it too late just
16:59in case
17:00in case they get us they'll get us online later now oh hello oh apologies is that noise because you
17:07haven't looked at the menus she did she looked at the menu for both of us she told us she
17:11knew what
17:11she was going to order i'm not quite sure oh perfect no no no no no no go on oh
17:17i hate you i hate you
17:18too if you're you're an accomplice in this i am so could i get the steak please for me how
17:24would you
17:24like it cooked uh medium please and what would he like for his mates oh okay
17:33also you also steak person or burger no don't do that to me no don't do that to me
17:42burger burger thank you so so much no problem at all good luck
17:53i did you do language in second year i did german from first to third year okay and then i
17:59went to
17:59boarding school for fifth year and sixth year okay i love war in school if i could redo it all
18:03again i
18:04would did you come home on the weekends or did you stay down no i said i remember going into
18:09the board
18:09in school i was small i was quite thin and i came out much taller much broader much more independent
18:16do you have a big family uh immediate family no okay immediately like it's just my dad my brother
18:23and myself really because my mom's passed oh really yeah that's pretty hard
18:31she passed away in 2018 from cancer i it was a week or two before i started first year of
18:37secondary school
18:39i couldn't need that drink i'm sorry i know it's fine like i think she'd be very proud of what
18:48like
18:48i've become my dad he took the role of a mother and a father at the same time which would
18:56not have
18:56been easy for him but he did it he raised two sons he's a great father and what do you
19:02think he'll think
19:02about this well he doesn't know about it yet it is his favorite tv show so the plan is when
19:08this
19:08airs i'm going to sit with him and put it on i know for a fact he will love it
19:13chips look nice
19:22can i taste one no you can't please yeah we're all friends here
19:31what do you work at or do you work for you tired here i'm tired from air lingus only three
19:36months ago
19:37really i've worked on the ground in air lingus in dublin airport for just about 40 years i'd go back
19:44tomorrow probably which i did i liked it back then you knelt in in the hold of the aircraft and
19:51this
19:51fella threw 50 bags into you and you put the 50 bags up there and you're on your knees bent
19:55down like
19:56this inside of the hole you didn't bang them all in throw them very careful very careful except on a
20:02bad day
20:05i'm not fully retired yet really what's what's your feeling i teach tai chi and qigong really well
20:15i don't believe either of those you don't believe me i always called it qigong i've never heard of
20:23that one it's obviously similar to tai chi yeah yeah which is nice and relaxed movements which is very
20:28good okay well do you know your chakras yes yeah oh do you so you're interested yeah seven important ones
20:37there's loads there's loads there's loads more as well right okay yeah so are you interested in that
20:41ah i've read something on it no that's great because a lot of men don't i know a little of
20:47everything
20:47and a lot about nothing
20:57looking at my friends like does your husbands and boyfriends not have somebody for me somebody
21:02something like just give me something love doesn't always come easy but in rachel's case
21:08it's really playing hard to get i don't know what it is but nobody approaches me i don't know if
21:15it's
21:15with me or maybe there is no fish in the sea i'm quite happy being alone but there is times
21:23when i'm lonely
21:24all right saturday evenings going on holidays and then weddings oh i hate weddings so much
21:34everybody is so in love and i'm just so lonely
21:41you ready for some dating very scared why are you scared look at yourself come on
21:48i have been single since 2016. there has been like the situation ships come and go
21:55they've kind of just reaffirmed there's nobody out there for me yeah yeah better better save than
22:01sorry yeah i'm definitely an introvert but people probably think i'm extroverted nervous oh
22:08really oh my god terrified whenever i go home in the evening i'm like all i want to do is
22:12watch kardashians
22:13because it takes that much brain power and like you have to be happy happy all the time and then
22:19people are asking what your hobbies are and i'm like so what was your normal type of a guy be
22:23okay
22:25one step back on a scale of evolution hairy strong kind of like big like an ape bearded yes long
22:34hair
22:34no no no no no no no long hair he can't have better hair than me
22:42hello sir how are you mr you will your name please gerald gerald gerald how are you personality
22:48wise i'd like to think of an eight or nine looks wise who knows 12. i'm pretty easy going you
22:55know i
22:55like a bit of fun i like a bit of outgoingness and on an old saturday night an old cuddle
22:59at home is nice too
23:01is he talking to my tail yeah is he good looking yeah i don't really have a preference look wise
23:08you
23:08know i mean black hair maybe and somebody that's you know proud of their appearance as well man bun
23:15other than that i'm not too picky that's that's cuttable offable isn't it all right my beautiful lady
23:24hello how are you how are you rachel how's it going how's it going how are you good good good
23:29where are you from rachel monahan monahan do you know what no i'm not gonna let you i've probably
23:34never in my entire life stepped foot in monahan why not yeah i don't know where are you from cork
23:39yeah yeah that's fair isn't it it's a mad accent just because i've never really come across
23:44anything really go in so you've never been in cork either so no i was in carrie really yeah two
23:49different
23:49countries now as well am i a good dude i can talk but no strategies whatsoever no i just go
23:59in and
24:00talk and talk and talk are you nervous no not at all are you you know really oh my god
24:05absolutely
24:06terrified i would kind of overthink things as well i'm like i have to build myself up to something
24:10and then i come across confident but i'm sweating i have sweating have you never been on a date before
24:16no i have i have i have been like this all it like just people yeah i know i'm just
24:20be all right
24:20be fine 12 30 minutes but it's all right
24:26how amazing thank you so so much sorry why are you apologizing nothing to apologize for i'm trying
24:34to get as close to him as i possibly can from across the table i don't blame her i love
24:38it
24:39do you see the size of the thing take a big boy i don't want to watch it do it
24:42is this is this
24:43why you're into it it's actually you want to introduce yourself yeah yeah i don't blame it no go on
24:51i like someone that can make me laugh but isn't as funny as me and i can be like myself
24:56around
24:57because the more you get to know me the weirder i get
24:59i was so nervous going over here because i'm embarrassed i thought i was going to be stuck with
25:05some bloke who just doesn't say anything before excuse me excuse me or some coat with brown shoes
25:12i was like i put a truck on i was gonna bring brown shoes no i didn't you're lucky
25:20what's wrong with the shoes it's actually quite nice thank you my mom bought this did you say your mom
25:26oh my god you're so from the south side it's actually not even funny sorry okay
25:35i like where this is going
25:42do you want to try some beef hey i'll try some there you go go on go on
25:52oh this is very nice it is nice to know
25:55i'm fairly confident i can read people very well my job and stuff like you have to be quick
26:00be able to read guests and stuff and know when people are happy or not but in my personal life
26:05that can lead to overthinking about what others think of me you have um you have like gravy or
26:11something across your mouth there i'm so bad okay yeah there you go it's gone
26:19oh can we talk about musical instruments yeah go on play small bit piano i play piano really yeah
26:26well you trained though i just picked a bit no i'm training clarinet how long have you been playing
26:31clarinet you to like play the clarinet for the first no the recorder first yeah to learn how to finger
26:42because you need to make sure you're fingering the recorder correctly you know what i mean
26:47so you practice your fingering
26:50so you're professional
26:52professional finger and after my fingering was really good
26:56and then you feel onto the clarinet
26:58yeah i'll have to take your word first oh
27:11i'm a very fussy eater i don't eat vegetables at all no that's all right that's fine now are you
27:16are you a picky not really like the only thing that i won't be i hate beans
27:22rotten absolutely stink it's the texture
27:25they're stink it they're stink it you get the rats after that all right okay
27:28i like to make people laugh that's very very important i think you have to make somebody
27:33laugh you have to make somebody comfortable it relaxes everybody as well you know you know
27:36do you have any tattoos no do you not no one no how do you feel about your date having
27:40those
27:41yeah you're all for tattoos what have you got show me that's a teenage mutant ninja turtle
27:45oh christ that's a beetlejuice one well because why not like oh that's my look of a daughter
27:50that's my daughter's name is her name is her name she's 12 and she is probably my best friend as
27:57well so yeah so you have daughter have you been married yes we were together for let's say eight
28:03years there was no animosity when we broke up or anything so we stayed living together for a few
28:08years to raise island things and uh yeah i'm still one of my best friends do you think that ever
28:13intimidates people that you date when i was a little bit younger it was intimidating for people
28:18then as i got older less so but you know i don't want to be with somebody that that has
28:25a problem
28:25with that anyway so we bought um like a big plot and end okay so we kind of halved it
28:30yeah so she
28:31gets one half okay i made her log cabin on on my half then so yeah and i can tip
28:36over yeah she just
28:37goes back and forth between the two then like yeah yeah it's really nice yeah that is actually a lovely
28:41yeah it's really cool
28:48did you enjoy that lovely i'm having a steak for a while now good irish beef
28:55we don't take enough of our good first i love cake
28:59do you let's go for jesus please oh my god the whole side of them i do oh yeah i
29:06love sweet but
29:07there's nothing like a good laugh and we don't do enough that we don't experience enough of a laugh
29:12it's so fun but that's american miss grammar it's so much fun
29:20it's amazing what makes us tick or doesn't as the case may be you know and that's why i take
29:25on my
29:25experience i take every experience that comes my way does love and what you're looking for change
29:31as you get older it gets deeper like you know when you're young love is romantic but it's it's deeper
29:39it takes all kinds of different people doesn't it absolutely we're introverts and we're extroverts
29:44so we have to just accept who we are yeah and the more different various experiences that you have
29:53more fulfilling you know yeah if i have any regrets in life i regret that i wasn't i'll say the
30:01word
30:01more promiscuous all the good things are illegal immoral or making fat isn't that the song that's
30:10perfect isn't that so true i'm definitely prudish in ways even though i'm very open-minded it's like
30:17the catholic church teaching comes up in your mind all the time i think we're kind of slightly coming
30:23out of it but sex is taboo taboo taboo i keep saying we're a strange species but we're all similar
30:30absolutely everyone has the same feelings emotions and i love sex of course i do i'm human i love to
30:39just
30:40enjoy life you have to we're romantic and physical i would really like definitely i have the energy
30:50here's to that song cheers
30:57ma'am i'm in the jacks oh my god he's so cool and like i swear like five minutes in
31:06we were
31:06already talking about marriage he is so funny he's from uh south side so he's from he's a dubliner like
31:17what what does it matter if he's evoking north order or south side so how's it going it's going
31:28it's going fairly well i'm glad she's i'm glad she's my kind of person the same sense of humor
31:34and she's not afraid to be herself that's great yeah i'd be terrified to talk to her if i saw
31:40her in the
31:40like a foot yeah i don't think i have the balls to talk to her yeah but now that i'm
31:45here 100%
31:47i met mateo as well and i said my mom loves you
31:55oh that looks so good you won't be eating that spinach i'd say will you
31:59i've never had one in my life well don't worry about it like it's tasteless enough like it
32:04wouldn't add to your steak in any way you can draw some of this
32:08oh no i'll get rid of all the green bits for you have a little pop off of there and
32:11see what you
32:12think go on you'll enjoy this i promise
32:19do you not like that no no that's a taste sensational you spit it over
32:23do you not like that no go away they definitely need to be patient with me definitely because it's worth
32:29it like my friends and family are just number one to me i am a home bird i live at
32:36home with my
32:39pair parents i call them my housemates i quite like it but they're always trying to set me up with
32:46people there has been people who have like i don't like you at all but like i'll yeah i'll go
32:51on another
32:52day i'm sure it's something to be out that's awful is that awful people are like why don't you just
32:58move
32:58out it's like what am i going to move out to a house on my own because i know i
33:02get on with my
33:03parents so so well you do want a bit of privacy as well sometimes yeah but like i was spoiled
33:08at
33:09home yeah but that's okay the first time i kissed a fella and then he turned around and he was
33:15like oh
33:16like i'm not gay that was a mistake i'm like that really upset me would you say you've been in
33:22love
33:22before the romantic kind now but i mean i'm still like really young so i'm not kind of worried about
33:28that you're here oh am i being fed off yeah that's good isn't it if someone's interested in me i'm
33:39completely blind to that like i haven't a clue if we're having a good conversation i'm completely lost
33:45in the conversation let me just close my phone oh yeah sorry i forgot you're a professional
33:51getting hints of top during a day i don't think someone will know if i don't like them or not
33:57i think i can be quite talkative and kind of give off the impression that i am very attracted or
34:02into
34:02someone that's for you to do it if i was going to reject someone i think i'd be fine but
34:10if i was
34:11going to get rejected i think that's kind of where like you're kind of vulnerable now are we happy
34:18to settle up yeah yes please no we split it i can pay for it i don't mind no one
34:26split it being
34:28rejected or rejecting someone is completely natural as long you do it in a respectful way
34:32okay go on let's split it please like if they're not your person absolutely fine they're not your person
34:45so would you like to see each other again romantically who goes you go first first
34:52um i would really like to see him again yeah i would like to see him again as well
34:58i thought you were going to say no really i thought you were going to say no because when i
35:02offered to pay the bill you're like no no no we'll spit it we'll spit it i was like oh
35:05okay i see i was
35:06okay right if you'd really wanted to you could be like no like like i'm paying and i'd be like
35:11how
35:12many times did i offer to pay twice only twice two times the charm okay thank you though no worries
35:18that
35:18was lovely that was a relief oh yeah you are tall so you guys fancy each other yeah i i
35:28think that's
35:28i have to say him obviously like more than me right right right thank you very much bye he's really
35:36nice he's really chatty thank you he was really attractive both personality wise and physically
35:45thank you thank you like everything just seems to be pretty good you know
35:53ow my head that really hurt
36:13go go road go road actually do you know what up your neck of the woods is probably different
36:22it's probably garage like a learage yeah like a learage yeah balls cotter they call me
36:29the most important thing is to be myself if you're not yourself on the first date and you turn out
36:34to
36:34be somebody totally different that's very very bad um so tell me what are how are you finding dating and
36:41stuff i don't do it at all no at all i'm actually quite reclusive okay like i've met the odd
36:48person but
36:49i just i'm not good with small like i don't i can't be honest with the shite yeah i think
36:54it's a
36:55lot to do with covet as well i turned very strange after covet like i but you know you're locked
37:00up for
37:00like two or three years so i think you're gonna be a wee bit odd out of practice maybe we'll
37:05say out of
37:06practice had a boyfriend whenever we broke up i was like jesus i don't even know who i am i'm
37:12like
37:12it's not easy especially if you're together with somebody for so long yeah everybody else has moved on
37:17people are having children and getting married and stuff my last relationship i was definitely
37:23quite dependent on them so i worked on myself a long time to get that independence back so i think
37:28that's why my walls are up but i want them to come down like i want to be a wee
37:33bit softer people are
37:34like oh how are you single you're great crack blah blah blah and beautiful as well like let's go on
37:40sorry thank
37:41thank you like i have been in love before so i know that side of me is there but it's
37:46just wrapped
37:48in concrete you actually wouldn't usually be a dinner and drinks man no i'm never i don't i'm not a
37:55huge fan i think that's why i was so nervous yeah because like i don't like obviously i'm weird with
38:00food
38:00ah you're not don't be worried about that people don't give a shit about that
38:11oh look what i got here's the heart will we share absolutely you have to haven't you don't go breaking
38:18my heart so we can't go breaking the heart jesus
38:25bill here thank you thank you very much you want to look at that and see how much it is
38:31there's no hurry
38:34he's a lovely man and i think he was interested in some of the things i was interested in
38:40a lot of things that i know most males aren't interested and i said oh i like that
39:04so what you do do you want to go halves on that yeah why not yeah please
39:11the whole thing for me was about going halves
39:15it's just my generation men paid because women didn't have money now i know women do have money
39:20but he didn't even offer can we split it of course it shows a lot about his character to me
39:27lovely
39:29would you like to see each other romantically again
39:34i i wouldn't particularly i wouldn't jump at it i'm not a date date but
39:40a coffee date or something let's call it no no no problem but yeah yeah i agree
39:49i totally agree thank you both so much for coming it's been lovely thank you
39:55we all enjoy new experiences while we're afraid of them it's nice to step outside your comfort zone
40:01but there wasn't a physical attraction um i'm sorry to say yeah
40:06a lovely man nice conversation but there was no spark there sure there wasn't no if we're honest
40:12it's an open saying no no there wasn't a spark it just wasn't that i want to see him again
40:21thank you
40:23very much i would have loved in specs i would have
40:36okay what are some stuff that you're into i'm weird like i'll do anything i'll bother but like i'm
40:41i'm hard to keep something up as a hobby okay like i was really into my naval history for a
40:46year there
40:47what is that what do you mean history about chips oh history about ships i don't know what
40:54what are your hobbies i love singing but that's like i'm gonna have to test that later
40:59i can do a really mean liam gallagher impression i've never been more raised in my life by the way
41:06where do you stand in relation to sex on a first date
41:12my mom's gonna watch this with my dad as well take off your top i wouldn't be going into the
41:17day
41:17and meeting a person for an hour and then being like right go on i have a room in the
41:20hotel upstairs
41:21go on go on with you um i'm not nearly confident enough to be trying that
41:27my tattoo you miss out because before i had the full mustache gone
41:32oh my god the mullet mamosash why did you get rid of it i look like i have accusations
41:42i can't risk that no mullet mamosash is so hot i'll go back in various i do like two years
41:49and i'll go back
41:55you'll enjoy that it's like a kind of um it's like the top of a cheesecake it's very loving
42:02i'm always gonna say yeah so how would you like are you looking for kids is that your near future
42:10i'm realistic in that the body clock is ticking yeah yeah i'm not mad for them but if they happen
42:18you wouldn't be upset like oh no i wouldn't i wouldn't be upset at all i do love kids like
42:23but
42:23i um can't have kids anymore yeah so i like i never you know we hear people going to australia
42:34and
42:34and yeah i never did that like yeah i go on holidays but like yeah you know not to monstrously
42:40exotic
42:41places like the first you want to do your 20s in your exactly i want to be able to do
42:45that yeah
42:46yeah so you actually went and did it yeah yeah but that's mad i got it there about two years
42:50ago
42:50what have you what have you met somebody who was like mad for kids well you can you can reverse
42:55it
42:55like it's not you know look if somebody did want kids i would have the discussion about it like you
43:00know what that's not a make or break yeah it's not a make or break for exactly yeah yeah
43:14purple i've destroyed the love heart i don't know if that's a good sign i've never like like
43:22really gotten along with someone so quickly i'm worried i don't yeah i don't think we're supposed
43:26to get on i think it's supposed to be awkward for a little bit you're you're coming home with me
43:31that's a quote that's a reference that's a reference come here you've got nice hands i do my best
43:42nails i fucking love it don't know what's best about them
43:48i don't know how that's not nice yeah that's the problem
43:59hello sir this is a moment of truth thank you what are you what are you doing there what
44:06this is just a piece of paper it's nothing can i not go out no why do you think i'm
44:12somebody else
44:14thank you absolutely not you can get me 10 drinks there later
44:24hi you're a capricorn capricorn yeah you're responsible disciplined self-control and you have
44:30good manners you do have good manners to be fair i have this um forever erect nipple because i used
44:36to have it pierced years ago i just don't know about that sort of thing maybe that's that's what
44:44of course people do i don't know your greatest compatibility is taurus and cancer oh yeah what
44:50are you not taurus or cancer i'm on the fence what does yours say cool sophisticated beautiful intelligent
45:00how are you all right
45:09all right guys would you like to see each other again oh my god you're going straight for it
45:15straight for straight for it it's gonna be so cringe i would yes
45:22oh no
45:26i don't think i would i don't think i would
45:30that's fine now that is so awful that's not awful jesus almighty you're a really really nice person
45:36sorry but i just don't think you're for me that's okay don't worry about it that's totally fine
45:41no problem party oh no i don't think you're a bad person what because you don't want to go on
45:47another
45:48date yeah oh i'm sweating so much i won't that's very inappropriate i'm not gonna do that at all
45:58we'll be best friends now in about six months would you be my friend i'll be your friend yeah
46:02i'll be happy to yeah i'll search out for some dating tips yeah i need them yeah
46:08thanks for the nice days thank you bye
46:11that's okay should look at that every day it works out
46:20well your thumb on top of my thumb oh for fuck's sake and then also this is like i'm not
46:25making this
46:25up this is the next how did you know i know i'm just that good the next level i figured
46:31there'd be
46:31a mouth involved at some point if i saw her like when i was out 100 i go that's my
46:38type and then i never
46:39talked to her throughout the night i'm so distracted it's crazy you were saying what do you mean do you
46:47think she fancied you it makes feelings but i hope so how no i can't say that i was gonna
47:00say how crazy
47:01would it be because wouldn't be too wild
47:13jesus won't my mother think of me
47:27so moment of truth time would you both like to see each other again romantically not a chance
47:34nah never couldn't be done not a chance
47:37yes i really didn't expect him to match my personality as much as he has he really really did
47:47have you not got any land no land i'm not walking out here she's beautiful the eyes are very
47:55not intimidating but like i had a reason to be nervous and how was the kiss i'm going red here
48:07so when is he going to see your liam gallagher impression
48:22i didn't think there was such thing as spark before it was like honestly the best first day i've ever
48:28had
48:37sure we'll go we'll go to the beach we'll go swimming yeah we'll go surfing or something like that
48:41yeah yeah yeah there i'll do that second day
48:44so
48:45do you fancy each other
48:57strong word yeah
49:00She'll make the Paris jealous, that's all I know.
49:03She made the Paris jealous, got me looking so crazy right now, got me looking so crazy right now, got
49:12me hoping you'll save me right now.
49:57I'll see you next time.
50:04I'll see you next time.
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