00:00We're a polyquad with three children.
00:02The negative feedback we get is people have like
00:05an expiration date on our relationship.
00:07Oh, that's cute.
00:08It's not going to last.
00:09It will screw the kids up.
00:11My sister took a little bit of an issue.
00:14Now, how do you feel about Kylie
00:15going into the relationship?
00:18Hey, hey, hey.
00:19What's up, everybody?
00:21So check this out.
00:22A lot has changed in our lives since the last time we saw you.
00:24We are a polyamorous triad.
00:26We met Ally, and we've been together now for two years.
00:28OK, OK.
00:29So as you guys know from the last episode,
00:31this is my wife, Ally.
00:32This is my wife, Emily.
00:33Of course, she remembers Rain.
00:35And this is baby Chicago.
00:38She's two months old.
00:39So, you know, everybody say hello.
00:42And also, we have a new addition to the family.
00:45Hey, guys.
00:47This is Kylie.
00:48Show some love now.
00:50Here, baby.
00:53How does life feel different since Kylie joined your family?
00:56Life has been easier, I'd say.
00:59She's definitely another helping hand.
01:01She's Rain's favorite by far.
01:03She forgot all about us since Kylie's been here.
01:06We wasn't looking for another person to join our relationship.
01:09It just naturally happened that way.
01:11When we met her, she just had a different energy.
01:14We were stuck like glue.
01:16You were saying this is the first time you've been in a multi-partner relationship?
01:20I've always been an open person, so this isn't, like, far out of my scope.
01:24It's something I was definitely was open to.
01:27It just happens to be my first time being in a multi-partner relationship.
01:34Kind of through mutual friends, we were around each other, and then we just ended up with
01:41Yeah.
01:42And then you stayed.
01:43We stole you.
01:44We stole you from the world.
01:47It was, like, an organic thing.
01:48It wasn't, like, will you be my girlfriend or will you be our girlfriend?
01:52Yeah.
01:53It was more so, like, you came and then you just never left.
01:56Well, Trell and I are married.
01:58We're not yet married to Ali and Kylie yet.
02:01It's just about the proper timing, you know?
02:04Every woman deserves the proper proposal, I would say.
02:07We do not sleep separately.
02:09That's not our dynamic.
02:10We're literally just, like, piled onto the bed.
02:14Exciting.
02:15Were you worried about how the kids would react when Kylie joined the family?
02:19I think our oldest daughter had a little time adjusting to it, though, because all she's
02:24known is Emily and Ali.
02:26Thank you, man.
02:27Now they like this.
02:28Do you like having a three-mom thing?
02:30No.
02:31No?
02:31Well, she always says...
02:33I like two moms.
02:33Yeah.
02:34She always says two moms.
02:35Kylie's newer to this situation.
02:37Yeah.
02:38So, she definitely looks at Kylie like a parent figure.
02:40She loves and adores Kylie, but she's still, you know, new to that situation.
02:44She's still says two moms.
02:46You got the seat up?
02:47Yeah.
02:49Society tends to think of poly relationships as inappropriate for children, but that's
02:54not the case.
02:55They are not in our love life.
02:57They are in our life, as far as we take care of them, we provide for them, and we love
03:04them.
03:04So, that's all they know.
03:05All they know is they got more love in our house.
03:09Ali is Chicago's biological mom.
03:12Emily is like, you know, her mom as well, so she does the mom duties.
03:17I help with Chicago as well.
03:20We all take care of Chicago.
03:22Everybody is here to make sure the children are being well taken care of.
03:25I don't know how single moms do it, because even when it was just like me and Ali, we're
03:33still tired.
03:34If I just get like a little bit of a power nap for a few hours, I'll get back up
03:37and she'll
03:38go back to sleep, so we can just like alternate.
03:40Kylie kind of just like comes in when we need her outside of like what we're doing.
03:44Yeah.
03:44How many more children would we like to have together?
03:46We don't have a number, but that's just more of a natural thing.
03:49If something progresses and it happens, it happens.
03:53I would say one of the challenges of being in a polyquad, sometimes dating.
04:00Just like any other group of people, we have to align our schedules with each other to be
04:05able to spend that quality time.
04:07And then we have to get the kids in order and stuff like that.
04:09And then, of course, sometimes, you know, if we go, if we all go out as a group, I'm
04:14out with three beautiful women, right?
04:16Who in the hell is going to assume they're all mine?
04:20That's true.
04:21Like, it's not like that's a normal thing you come across.
04:23It just is.
04:24We always get the, oh, yo, who is shorty?
04:28Which one?
04:29Which one can I?
04:31And then they think I'm hating.
04:32They think I'm hating.
04:33They be like, nah, you trying to claim them all.
04:35You trying to claim them all.
04:36They not like, bro, these really my ladies.
04:38They're in a real relationship.
04:40So sometimes they don't realize until they know us.
04:42They're like, oh, this is real.
04:44They really together.
04:44Or we'll bring up the Instagram.
04:46Look.
04:47I would say the negative feedback that we get is people have, like, an expiration date
04:54on our relationship.
04:55So I feel like a lot of people go, oh, that's cute.
04:58It's not going to last.
05:00No, none of them should procreate.
05:02Okay, if we love each other and we have a family and we're building a family,
05:08what does that have to do with you?
05:10Like, why do you have, you know, other people's families?
05:12You know what I mean?
05:13So I think that's just people just projecting their, yeah, it's ignorant, pretty much.
05:19He's a , one of his girls needs to give him an offspring.
05:23New age nonsense.
05:24So let me make this clear.
05:26The person that commented that has no sense because this is the thing.
05:31If I was a , why would I be trying to have children?
05:35Yeah, that makes no sense.
05:37I don't want to create kids for myself.
05:38No, it will screw the kids up.
05:42They said that six years ago.
05:44Just living proof.
05:46They probably will say it again.
05:46They need to focus on raising their own children.
05:49It's a blessing to have multiple people in the home that's caring for you.
05:52Have any of you lost any friends or family along the way?
05:55I personally have lost a couple friends due to the relationship,
05:59just because of their own personal opinion on it.
06:02And for me, then, good riddance.
06:06Like, if you can't accept how I choose to live my life and love the people that I love,
06:12then, you don't need to be alone.
06:15If you love one person and that's what you want to do with your life,
06:18we completely support that.
06:20We love that for you.
06:21It's just not for us.
06:23It's not what we want to do.
06:24We don't shame monogamous people.
06:26We love love, period.
06:27So, if you love one person, if you love 10, that's your business.
06:30Because if you have multiple kids, you're not going to love one child.
06:33There we go.
06:39My sister essence took a little bit of an issue only because she's spoiled.
06:45So, she likes her brother to be focused on her for the most part.
06:49I've been meaning to ask you, you know,
06:52how do you feel about me being in a poly relationship?
06:54I don't think I ever actually asked you that question.
06:56It'd be like my only little dynamic through it is the sharing part.
06:59But that's been since I was little.
07:01But I feel like it takes a village.
07:03So, it doesn't really, like, affect me in no way.
07:05Or do I feel like it affects my nieces?
07:07So, it's like, it's a good thing for me.
07:09It's just heavy on the sharing part.
07:10No, that's real.
07:11And then, you know, you a mother.
07:15How do you feel about being poly?
07:17Do you think it impacts children negatively?
07:19No, I think being poly is like, it is what you make it.
07:22A parent is a parent.
07:23It don't matter how many parents it is.
07:25Rain gets to go to school, she can teach the other kids.
07:27Like, this don't affect me at all.
07:28I just know I'm getting loved by multiple people.
07:30That's it.
07:31I appreciate that, sis.
07:32Of course.
07:36We just want to keep building, keep doing content.
07:39I know that's our goal.
07:41Everybody, you know, used to say, they'd say,
07:43Oh, you guys weren't going to last, and this is just temporary.
07:47And look at us now, six years later.
07:51Now in a new relationship, a great relationship with Kylie.
07:55We know the future for us will be everything we dream of and imagine.
07:59We are at that relationship with Kylie for a few years later.
08:04We are at it with Claritas who's a band here.
08:09And from a particular relationship with Kylie shares, it's very guaranteed.
08:13See you .
08:13You
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