00:00People think this is my homeboy, but we're really lovers.
00:02The age gap in our relationship is 19 years.
00:05People say all kinds of things.
00:07He's too young for me, he's using me.
00:11He's definitely robbing you of your you.
00:13Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.
00:15Why even post this garbage?
00:18Three men don't kiss each other.
00:21You both should .
00:23Today my cousin will be here.
00:25He's extremely opinionated.
00:27He want me to be with a woman.
00:28You better tread carefully.
00:30I was like, who is this little boy?
00:32Go dicker.
00:34Man, you want to have fun on ATV?
00:35Let's do it.
00:36Let's go.
00:37All right, you know we'll beat you there.
00:40Hop on your horse.
00:41I'm Janelle, and this is Giles.
00:44And we are gym bros by day and hubbies by night.
00:48People think this is my dog, but this is really my lover.
00:51I'm 43, and I own three companies.
00:54I'm 24, and I'm a benefit consultant.
00:57I don't fit the criteria of what the average gay male looks like, and of course, my hubby
01:04doesn't either.
01:05People are definitely surprised to know that we're a couple.
01:09Let's go, baby.
01:10Let's go.
01:10Let's go.
01:11Let's go.
01:11So we first met years ago.
01:14It was 2018.
01:15He slid into my DMs.
01:17I was already with somebody, and he was too young.
01:20The reason I slid into his DMs is because where I'm from in Belize, you can't just go out there
01:25and find somebody gay like how you are.
01:28So I feel like most of the stuff that I did was online.
01:31And then in 2022, I got my visa, came to America.
01:36I slid into his DMs.
01:38I felt like now I'm in a place where I could actually see him and, you know, meet up with
01:43him.
01:44That, oh, I'm here.
01:45Let's link up.
01:47Finally.
01:47Babe, I'm ready.
01:48Are you ready?
01:49Yeah, I'm ready.
01:51Not like that.
01:52Hold on.
01:52Let me go pick you out something.
01:53We got married February 2024.
01:57The age gap in our relationship is 19 years.
02:00He's Gen Z.
02:01I'm millennial.
02:02People say all kinds of things, such as he's too young for me.
02:06I need to be with somebody at my own age.
02:09He's using me.
02:11We're going to log into one of our accounts and read some of the negative comments y'all
02:16be putting online.
02:17Your brain ain't even fully developed yet.
02:19Yikes.
02:19He's definitely robbing you of your you.
02:21The trips look nice though.
02:24The trips are nice.
02:26I know that's why you're hating.
02:27The trips are nice.
02:29What's this nonsense man to man?
02:31Just nonsense.
02:32Okay.
02:33That's your opinion.
02:34Girls are beautiful outside here.
02:37What is this?
02:38Yeah, we know.
02:39We know girls are beautiful.
02:40We never said they weren't.
02:42You both should .
02:44That's a little dark.
02:45That is dark.
02:46That energy is horrible.
02:47I'm a real happy and you sad.
02:49A miserable broke pit.
02:51His legs twisted and broke as F.
02:55Like they pockets.
02:57Well, I was born like that though.
02:58Bow-legged.
02:59They always want to have a reason to say something negative.
03:02Whose sons are these?
03:04Mama, where y'all at?
03:05We need to put a stop to this.
03:07Mama, I'm okay with me.
03:08Y'all need to worry about y'all moms.
03:10What y'all moms doing?
03:12He said, who call them men?
03:13These are boys.
03:15Real men don't kiss each other.
03:20Real men.
03:22Grown men.
03:23Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.
03:25Why even post this garbage?
03:27Here we go with the Bible talk.
03:30Everybody's a pastor now.
03:31Right, when it fits them, when it comes to gays.
03:35Y'all only know the Bible when it comes to gays.
03:37We get comments online.
03:39I get more love than hate.
03:40We got one that says, let's start normalizing these type of gay relationships.
03:45Y'all one of the cutest couples in the world to me.
03:47Y'all still inspire me and show me that true love does exist in this cruel world.
03:52Love y'all with a whole bunch of hearts.
03:55I really like him for you.
03:57Y'all match well together.
03:59I'm from the Caribbean, and as you know, Caribbean folks don't play that thing.
04:04You know, that batimanting and all of that stuff.
04:07So, I recently came out, well, I was forced out of the closet in 2023,
04:12when I posted him and my close friends and somebody screenshotted it.
04:16When they posted it on Facebook, it just went crazy.
04:21People calling me slurs, unfriending me, unfollowing me.
04:25It was real bad.
04:26So, my friends and family reacted as shocked, surprised,
04:31because it was just on the simple fact that they didn't know him.
04:34He was a foreigner, and they don't know if he's using
04:38or if he's trying to come up with green card citizenship.
04:43He don't even know what I do for a living.
04:45He slid in my DMs years ago, living in Belize, so he didn't know anything.
04:49So, when they say something like that, I'm like, they don't know what they're talking about.
04:53So, my cousin and Tari, we've been close since almost birth.
04:58And my cousin was unsure.
05:00He want me to be with a woman.
05:01Back in the day, didn't your cousin try to force them girls on you?
05:04Yeah, he did force.
05:05When we first became a couple, my cousin kind of hated a little bit on it,
05:09telling me stuff like, you know, that's not right.
05:12Why don't you try out on one man?
05:14So, today, my cousin will be here, and he's extremely opinionated.
05:18He's not going to hold back on anything about how he felt.
05:20You better tread carefully.
05:22Remember back in college, even, no, it started in high school.
05:25You used to peer pressure me to have sex with girls.
05:28I actually lost my virginity because of you.
05:31You remember that?
05:33True story.
05:35I remember that night.
05:36I said, ooh, it was violent then because, I mean, I wanted the sister.
05:41When I found out that he was into guys, I couldn't understand.
05:45Like, a lot of women that he talked to and a lot of women that wanted to talk to him,
05:49they were beautiful women.
05:51And I just couldn't see somebody passing up on that to go towards a man.
05:56That was crazy, but do you remember how the family was acting
05:59when I said, I'm going to get married to a 22-year-old?
06:04Yeah, they didn't believe it.
06:05They was like, why is he marrying this little young boy?
06:08What you have to offer him?
06:10When he first introduced me to Giles, I was still like, who is this little boy?
06:15It was because, like I said, the age difference.
06:18Yes, go Dick.
06:20Basically, I thought that he was trying to use my cousin for his money.
06:23I think we didn't came around each other a few times then, so we was good.
06:28Like I said, I accepted everything, but they don't be around y'all like I am.
06:32Right.
06:33So they don't see everything that I see.
06:35The actual love stuff.
06:38I think the only biggest thing that everybody had towards you is your age.
06:42My age.
06:43But you wrong.
06:45I'm a grown man.
06:46Legal.
06:47Yeah.
06:48Fully legal.
06:48You know, the lifestyle you live, it didn't change the way I look on things.
06:54People are quick to judge, just like I did.
06:57And I judge by things from the past, things that I was raised on and I was taught.
07:04So now my mind is open.
07:07I have no issues.
07:08I understand them.
07:10What I love most about my partner is his outgoing spirit, his energy.
07:16What I love most about my partner, he loves to make money, always busy, no time for idleness,
07:22you know, and also his bow legs.
07:25Oh yeah, he love my bow legs.
07:26See, they hated on me online.
07:28I hate comments, but I'm between the bow legs.
07:31What I want to say to the people that's hating, please keep hating because we get so much love
07:36when they read the hate comments.
07:37So, the love always outweighs the hate.
07:40So I like it.
07:40I welcome it.
07:41Keep hating.
07:43Stay tuned.
07:45Go, go, give me a kiss.
07:46Come on.
07:47Give me a kiss.
08:02Come on.
08:03Give me that.
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