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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Until I met you, my life was a nightmare.
00:00:08A part of me is alive because of you.
00:00:12No one has ever made me feel that important,
00:00:15and it really does mean a lot to me
00:00:17that he'll try to stop gambling.
00:00:19I can tell that he loves me,
00:00:21and that really is what I've been looking for.
00:00:23I adore you.
00:00:26I can't remember that I asked
00:00:28which is an American girl.
00:00:30No, no, no, no.
00:00:30You remembered last night when I brought it up.
00:00:32Now all of a sudden you're pretending you don't know her?
00:00:35I can't remember.
00:00:36I am being caught.
00:00:38I lied to her.
00:00:40Yes, I know this lady.
00:00:43It's been a long time I've not talked to her.
00:00:46I'm sorry, okay?
00:00:48I'm still hurting inside,
00:00:49but at the same time,
00:00:51all my secrets are so much more than his one lie.
00:00:55If I can let this go, maybe he'll forgive me
00:00:58when I tell him everything.
00:01:00Sorry.
00:01:02We decided that both of our finances
00:01:05would be put into a shared account.
00:01:09Actually, he doesn't have the access.
00:01:13You're not married.
00:01:15I'm really surprised that Sheena's dad
00:01:17would tell me we don't get to share a bank account,
00:01:20and Sheena is going along with it.
00:01:23I don't know if I can propose to Sheena
00:01:25if I can't trust her.
00:01:28There's some things that I do have questions about.
00:01:31We probably have to have a private conversation.
00:01:35I do understand why Aviva has fallen for stick,
00:01:39but now this all changes because I am here.
00:01:42This is you, isn't it?
00:01:47The last time I was here in Morocco,
00:01:49I was coming to visit the guy that I was dating,
00:01:54and there's, like, something else.
00:01:59We got engaged.
00:02:16I just seen this.
00:02:17Oh, no, no, no.
00:02:18I don't care.
00:02:20Oh, no, no.
00:02:27Are you seeing this?
00:02:29Have you seen this cap before?
00:02:32No.
00:02:33This to tell that I'm from Igbo tribe.
00:02:36You look like Santa Claus.
00:02:39Really?
00:02:40Yeah.
00:02:50How are you feeling since everything yesterday?
00:02:56Yes.
00:02:58I am still remembering it.
00:03:01It bothers me a little bit.
00:03:03So I tried to talk to her again to see if she would send those screenshots one more time.
00:03:09Okay.
00:03:09And she blocked me on social media.
00:03:13I thought she was a friend.
00:03:14Why did she block you?
00:03:16I don't know.
00:03:18But my thought is, I guess she's jealous of us.
00:03:22So I think I'm feeling better about it thinking about it that way.
00:03:27I can't believe she blocked me.
00:03:30It's making me believe that she's the one who was lying about Daniel.
00:03:36Maybe she wanted to be with Daniel.
00:03:38So she reached out to me to call him a scammer to deter me away from Daniel.
00:03:43I think she's mad that Daniel chose me over her.
00:03:47I think everything has been resolved.
00:03:50I'm trying to believe that.
00:03:54Baby, can you dress up?
00:03:56We are going to the king, okay?
00:03:59I want us to go there with warm mind, okay?
00:04:03For now, I just want to put this whole thing behind me.
00:04:07Because today, Daniel's taking me to meet the king in Lagos.
00:04:12Apparently, there are several kings of the Igbo tribe.
00:04:15And this is a real king.
00:04:17I am going to meet a real king.
00:04:19I am so scared and I'm so nervous I may pee my pants.
00:04:23We'll go see the king, but I need you to help me with my hair tie.
00:04:28Perfect right there.
00:04:30When you're talking about marriage, everyone don't have to go and see the king.
00:04:34But getting his blessing, it means a lot.
00:04:38You look so handsome.
00:04:39Taking her to the king is the highest honor to our culture.
00:04:43This will be the way to prove to Lisa I respect her a lot.
00:04:46And I am committed to her.
00:04:56I am very nervous.
00:04:57Is it a big palace?
00:05:00Or is it more like a mansion?
00:05:04I am allowed to be nervous about meeting a king.
00:05:08It's exciting.
00:05:10I am picturing a huge castle.
00:05:11It's going to be bigger than Disneyland.
00:05:13It's going to have towers and that is going to have a moat.
00:05:17Marble floors and this grand entrance.
00:05:20I don't know what I'm thinking.
00:05:22I'm thinking I'm in England.
00:05:26How do I greet him again?
00:05:27You have to know that answer.
00:05:31May you live long, my king.
00:05:32May you live long, my king.
00:05:34Good.
00:05:38Oh my God, I'm so nervous.
00:05:41I am so afraid that I'm going to say something wrong.
00:05:44That I'm going to kneel at the wrong time.
00:05:46That I will accidentally reveal my secrets.
00:05:49I mean, this is the ultimate blessing.
00:05:53I can't mess up.
00:05:56Oh, we're turning here.
00:05:58Where are we?
00:06:01Are we here?
00:06:02Yes.
00:06:05Oh my God, baby.
00:06:19During my last trip, when we were in Marrakesh, we got engaged.
00:06:35So that's why you are so fast.
00:06:37You want to just to be engaged and...
00:06:39No, I don't just want to be engaged, but that's just what happened on my last trip.
00:06:45Mm-hmm.
00:06:49In social media, when we speak, why you didn't say that?
00:06:53You make a story for...
00:06:56It's not a story.
00:06:57Just be...
00:06:57Be real.
00:06:59I am being real.
00:07:00You have to say it without to be scared.
00:07:02For example...
00:07:03It's what I'm doing right now.
00:07:05But you take a lot of time.
00:07:06It's like...
00:07:07Well, exactly.
00:07:08I didn't want you to be mad, so I didn't say anything about it.
00:07:14It's like, I don't know you.
00:07:17And...
00:07:17I will not trust.
00:07:19Anything you say...
00:07:22It's like, I feel like you are not good.
00:07:31She told me I was there in Morocco just to visit Marrakesh with my girlfriend.
00:07:35This is the first life.
00:07:37The second one, when we are together in cooking clothes, she told me I was healing.
00:07:44And right now, she told me another story.
00:07:47I was with a Moroccan man in Marrakesh because we are just ready to be engaged.
00:08:03Why not? Really? I don't have...
00:08:06What?
00:08:09It's like...
00:08:10I can't.
00:08:12You can't? What?
00:08:14I can't be engaged with you, and I can't propose you.
00:08:20I can't move on with you.
00:08:21It's like...
00:08:22What do you mean you can't move on?
00:08:23What do you mean?
00:08:26You're breaking up with me?
00:08:29Yep.
00:08:33I accept what you did.
00:08:34So you're breaking up with me because I was with a guy before you.
00:08:39Because you're lying to me.
00:08:41That's the problem.
00:08:44I need a minute, so...
00:08:58How is this something to break up with me over?
00:09:00What do you mean?
00:09:01How is this something for you to just leave and break up with me?
00:09:04Did I break up with you when you were talking to other girls and I had proof of you messaging
00:09:08girls, telling them to come visit you, telling them you want to get to know them?
00:09:12No.
00:09:15I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt.
00:09:17I've tried to see the best in you.
00:09:19And then you find out one little thing, and you're ready to just break up with me and go home.
00:09:22So why not I want to go to my home?
00:09:24Why?
00:09:26Zad, were we in a...
00:09:27If you don't want to meet me...
00:09:29Were we in a relationship?
00:09:30Were we in a relationship?
00:09:31Were we in a relationship?
00:09:33Why can't you talk to me?
00:09:34Like, I came all the way here, and you're just walking away because of one thing that you're mad about?
00:09:39Can you give me a walk?
00:09:40No.
00:09:40I want to like, by myself.
00:09:42Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:43Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:46Don't touch me.
00:09:47I'm not touching you.
00:09:48So just let me go.
00:09:49I want to go right now.
00:09:50Okay, bye.
00:09:50Yeah, goodbye.
00:09:56I did all of this for us to be together.
00:09:59He's an asshole.
00:10:00He's literally an asshole.
00:10:12Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:10:14I am King Forrest.
00:10:16Dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess, my dreams have come to fruition.
00:10:25Welcome, conquistador.
00:10:26Let's go, man.
00:10:27Onward!
00:10:30Corrine, can you come here for a minute?
00:10:32It's coming.
00:10:33The girl in the photo is Corrine's friend.
00:10:36She has no reason to lie to her.
00:10:38February 7th, where were you?
00:10:41I don't know.
00:10:41I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:10:43That picture was in the Hopkins.
00:10:44You were here in Placidia with her.
00:10:56I mean, this is you, isn't it?
00:11:01Oh, s***.
00:11:02Yeah, that's you.
00:11:11This is from, like, two months ago.
00:11:17What is this?
00:11:18Is this something that you...
00:11:19That's a fan.
00:11:19That's somebody that's a fan.
00:11:21This is a fan.
00:11:23So you didn't tell her that you loved her?
00:11:25No, I didn't.
00:11:26So why is there a text right here saying, I'ma love you forever?
00:11:35And when my niece, Corrine, asked, why does that look like Stig?
00:11:39They say, that's my man.
00:11:41Is there some reason that there's text of you telling this girl you love her and her claiming that you're
00:11:46her man?
00:11:47Because these girls are super fans, and that's okay, and I appreciate that.
00:11:50So I asked you, no, this is more than super fan.
00:11:54This girl definitely says that you guys were together there.
00:11:57Cup.
00:11:59Corrine, can you come in here for a second?
00:12:01Yes, honey.
00:12:02Coming.
00:12:06So he claims he doesn't know who she is.
00:12:08Literally, that she's just a fan.
00:12:12So, okay, so I know her.
00:12:14She's a close friend of mine.
00:12:16I don't think my friend, a girl with a smile, would have lied to me about something like that.
00:12:21She mentioned when she goes to the city, she sees you.
00:12:27The fair firm, probably.
00:12:29No, no.
00:12:31So, okay, February 7th, where were you?
00:12:39Hopkins, I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:12:58I can see something's going on through the window.
00:13:01I have no idea what's being said, but I just hear a lot of commotion, and I'm freaking out.
00:13:09It is frustrating to be left out of this conversation.
00:13:13It seems very important, but I trust my aunt, and she must have a reason for wanting to keep me
00:13:20out of the loop.
00:13:20I just wish I knew what the f**k was going on.
00:13:23You guys were definitely together.
00:13:25Like, more than one instances, different dates.
00:13:29No, I don't know what the f**k is like that.
00:13:32If I was with a girl, I might tell her the truth.
00:13:34I might tell her Aviva the truth.
00:13:36I ain't no lie.
00:13:38I don't want to hurt Aviva's feelings, because I know, like, she truly and genuinely loves Stig.
00:13:45Even to bring this information forward to Auntie Spring has been, like, so traumatic to me.
00:13:52But I know that my friends and Stig have been hooking up.
00:13:57Stig bulls**t a lot.
00:13:59But if he knows that he doesn't want the relationship, he should leave.
00:14:05I mean, you're with this girl, that girl.
00:14:09Pictures, messages, don't lie.
00:14:16Thank you, Nisi.
00:14:18I appreciate you.
00:14:19You're welcome.
00:14:20F**k.
00:14:21Yeah.
00:14:22All of that is exactly, getting extra about it is exactly what my husband would do, too.
00:14:27This is all the things that I worry about between you guys.
00:14:33The girl in the photo is Corinne's friend.
00:14:36They've known each other since they were diapers.
00:14:38She doesn't know anything about him dating Aviva.
00:14:40She has no reason to lie to her about what she's doing.
00:14:44And if this is just a fan, then he needs to explain that to her, because this is overly friendly
00:14:51with the fan.
00:14:52Aviva actually cares a lot about you and loves you, and I don't want her to end up, you know,
00:15:01you living two different lives.
00:15:02And I still don't believe anything that you're saying right now.
00:15:07So do you want to explain this to Aviva later?
00:15:12You're either going to tell her, or I'm telling her.
00:15:19I have nothing to hide.
00:15:23Ann Springer's trying to put her s**t on me because of her past relationship, which is unfair.
00:15:29So now, I can't believe I have to tell Aviva what a picture of a fan that might ruin my
00:15:37entire relationship.
00:15:39We'll see, I guess.
00:15:41I don't even f**k know.
00:16:04That's weird.
00:16:05It's a cotton texture, yeah.
00:16:07That's why I call it cotton.
00:16:08Cotton fruit, yeah.
00:16:14It's sour, right?
00:16:18Oh, Lordy.
00:16:21I was a guinea pig for everybody.
00:16:30The other one is we call pastillas.
00:16:32Pastillas, it's like soft milk candy.
00:16:36Hey, Mom.
00:16:37We're going to be heading out to Venice Mall today, and I know you guys aren't, you know, the big
00:16:41mall walkers like we are, so.
00:16:44No, we're not mall people, no.
00:16:48We're thinking about going today to see a bamboo organ at a church.
00:16:54Yes, Mom.
00:16:55I'm interested in learning all about that type stuff, so.
00:16:58Okay.
00:17:00I'm glad you love my mangoes recommendation.
00:17:02I told you, I love tango stuff.
00:17:04Yes.
00:17:05Any others?
00:17:06I could try them.
00:17:08Just grab the steed, suck it out, and don't leave the toilet seat up.
00:17:12I told you.
00:17:14Slurp that seat right there.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16Let's go, baby.
00:17:18I think I'm going to tackle this baby next right here.
00:17:25Our chariot.
00:17:31Honey, are you excited?
00:17:33Heck, yeah, I am.
00:17:35I've just been really wanting to go to this place, you know, ever since I got here to the Philippines.
00:17:40I hear it's just beautiful there.
00:17:44Yeah.
00:17:44I've known about the place, but I haven't visited there.
00:17:48Oh, we can come to it.
00:17:49I'm so excited, honey.
00:17:50Yeah, me too, baby.
00:17:53Hello, we're here.
00:17:55Oh, my God.
00:17:57I learned about this place from searches online for pop romantic places in the Philippines.
00:18:04Wow, look at that.
00:18:06It's a mall that looks like Venice, and Sheena loves Italian food and everything like Italian.
00:18:13Boom.
00:18:15I've been thinking a lot about what's been happening the last few days, and we really need to have a
00:18:19hard discussion about her lying.
00:18:22Now, finally being able to be alone with Sheena without my mom behind me, I can talk to her and
00:18:29help her understand that all these lies that she's been spreading have left a scar.
00:18:35And I'm hoping to hear from Sheena that she won't lie anymore.
00:18:41Wow, look at this place.
00:18:43What do you think?
00:18:44Awesome.
00:18:45Oh, my gosh.
00:18:46Is that water?
00:18:48Yeah, it looks nice.
00:18:49Wow.
00:18:50Oh, my gosh.
00:18:53You first walk in, you see these beautiful buildings, and you look down, and then there's this giant swimming pool.
00:19:00You got some, like, little Italian guys just chilling out on these little boats.
00:19:05It's beautiful.
00:19:07Oh, my God.
00:19:08God.
00:19:09It took years for them to build Rome and everything, but now we are in it.
00:19:15The architectural stuff is amazing.
00:19:17I really feel like we're in Italy.
00:19:19Yeah, this is the most romantic place.
00:19:21Oh, wow, they got a chicken restaurant up there.
00:19:24I have barely traveled internationally, but I definitely believe this is what Italy would look like.
00:19:29Little clowns everywhere.
00:19:32Dancing people.
00:19:34Should we do the same?
00:19:39I'm super grateful to have this time alone with Sheena.
00:19:42Oh, my gosh.
00:19:43Look at that.
00:19:44Oh, wow.
00:19:45They have dresses and everything.
00:19:46Yeah, that's cool.
00:19:47Do you think you want to dress up a little bit and get some photos?
00:19:50Yeah, why not?
00:19:51We can try.
00:19:52Go check it out here.
00:19:53I just hope that some dresses would fit me, though.
00:19:56Do you mind the right answer?
00:19:57You're up it, too.
00:19:58Yeah, that would be great.
00:19:59Yeah, that's the third.
00:19:59I've always told Sheena that I would come over to the Philippines as her knight in shining armor.
00:20:05Oh.
00:20:07This looks nice.
00:20:08I would love that.
00:20:09Yeah.
00:20:10Sorry.
00:20:12So, dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess, it just feels like my
00:20:20dreams have come to fruition.
00:20:25Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:20:26Yes.
00:20:27I am King Forrest.
00:20:31Grace, babe.
00:20:34I wonder how Sheena's going to look, though.
00:20:36Where's she hiding?
00:20:47Sheena's going to look like a princess in a red ribbon.
00:20:48You are a princess.
00:20:52I'm like...
00:20:53Ta-da!
00:20:56You look amazing, baby.
00:20:57Don't have a brother, babe.
00:20:59Oh, that would be great.
00:21:02A parasol.
00:21:05Seeing Sheena dressed up in that red dress, I found myself completely and totally speechless.
00:21:12Welcome, King Stador.
00:21:13Let's go, man.
00:21:15Onward!
00:21:16She is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
00:21:19Do I look regal to you?
00:21:20You look like a perfect king of mine.
00:21:23I love you, my lover.
00:21:24I love you, my Sheena, so much.
00:21:29And I want to be your rock.
00:21:35But just I don't like how it ended up, you know, with the lies and whatever.
00:21:42And I need to know that you will always come to me truthfully and honestly.
00:21:51I understand, my love.
00:21:53I felt so hopeless for what I did, for not telling the truth to you.
00:21:59And I'm trying to open up everything for you.
00:22:02Every single problem that you need to learn.
00:22:07But, it's hard for me.
00:22:13And you know what?
00:22:14I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:22:20I think Forrest would appreciate if I would tell him the truth.
00:22:25He needs to know.
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:38My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:22:42that.
00:22:42I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:22:45Oh my God.
00:22:46In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet my boyfriend, Joshua, who's super sexy.
00:22:53But my parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened a few years
00:23:00ago with my ex.
00:23:01Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler.
00:23:05For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:23:07Run.
00:23:16We'll begin just by coming to a comfortable position.
00:23:22No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:26No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:31My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:34My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:39I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:44I'm doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:58Ew.
00:23:59Can I, like, touch up a second?
00:24:00Look at this.
00:24:01This is disgusting.
00:24:02Yeah, do it right now.
00:24:04Okay.
00:24:05Do I have lip hair?
00:24:07Like, would you tell me?
00:24:09How would you describe yourself?
00:24:11As a very outgoing, loving, kind-hearted person with great boobs, great nipples, great.
00:24:21I would show you if I could, but I would get in trouble.
00:24:25Just breathe, Elise.
00:24:29I'd like something mission complete.
00:24:33It's gonna hit your life, gonna hit your life.
00:24:39Just breathe, Elise.
00:24:42So I've been recently trying meditation, not the best at it, but, like, definitely in high-stress situations, meditation comes
00:24:51in handy.
00:24:52And especially right now, because I'm gonna go see my parents.
00:24:57I'm really excited to see my family, but it's hard, because I'm kind of like the odd sheep in the
00:25:03family.
00:25:04My parents have this picture-perfect marriage.
00:25:07Met on a blind date, and now been married for over 40 years.
00:25:11My brother, who's 16 months older than me, has been married with two kids, been with the same girl for
00:25:17eight years.
00:25:17And then, here I am at age 32, and I've never been married, and I don't have kids, and I've
00:25:24made some poor choices with men.
00:25:27I want to find the one more than anything in this world, but, like, my track record is bad, like,
00:25:34horrible.
00:25:37I've been proposed to five times, and three of them I said yes to.
00:25:42And I've still never walked down the aisle.
00:25:46Recently, I decided to do something completely out of the box, and I went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
00:25:52Oh, okay.
00:25:54There we go!
00:25:56I had some fun in Mexico.
00:25:58I thought I found the one, but he showed his true colors, and he turned out to be another failed
00:26:03relationship.
00:26:04I went to Tiffany to ask for her back.
00:26:12You literally told me you could see a life outside here with me and not her.
00:26:17Carlo and I tried to make it work after the singles retreat, but it didn't work out.
00:26:22It hurt, and that was a hard one to move on from.
00:26:27So I took that time to work on myself, and I think that's what I needed.
00:26:32Because now I have a new man in my life who's super sexy.
00:26:36I just don't know what my parents think about all this.
00:26:41Definitely scared that my parents are sitting in the house currently saying,
00:26:46Oh, my God, what is our daughter doing again?
00:26:49My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:26:53that.
00:26:54I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:26:57Oh, my God.
00:27:00How are you doing?
00:27:01I'm good.
00:27:02Do you want any meds?
00:27:04No, but you can't just cover me.
00:27:06Oh, cover your feet.
00:27:07Cover the feeties.
00:27:09Yeah.
00:27:11Hi, Mom!
00:27:13Hi!
00:27:14Hi, Dad!
00:27:16What's this?
00:27:16Come on, me up!
00:27:17Me up!
00:27:18Me up!
00:27:18Come on up!
00:27:19Up, up, up, up!
00:27:20Oh, I missed you.
00:27:22I love you.
00:27:22Hey, we got a gimp over here.
00:27:24Hi, Daddy!
00:27:25We have a gimp.
00:27:26My dad just had two knee surgeries.
00:27:28He's just literally been sitting in a chair,
00:27:30and that's very hard for him because he's always out and about and a big workaholic.
00:27:37Okay, you want to see?
00:27:38You want to see?
00:27:39I don't know.
00:27:40All right, all right.
00:27:41Ready?
00:27:43My dad's a venture capitalist.
00:27:45He gives money to companies in order for them to go public, or he takes an equi-
00:27:52Oh, God.
00:27:54I should probably know what my dad does, but, like, I don't know.
00:27:57You know what I found, Elise?
00:27:59Your bin.
00:28:00But I want you to take this.
00:28:01I want whatever you want in here to take it.
00:28:03Because we're renovating the house, and I need room.
00:28:06Show us all the report cards with A's.
00:28:09Oh, there are none.
00:28:11What do you mean I got straight A's?
00:28:12Oh, let's see.
00:28:13Okay.
00:28:14This is wild.
00:28:15Oh, summer 2006, when you were 13 years old, third summer.
00:28:20Oh, those are letters from camp?
00:28:21Letters from camp.
00:28:22Oh, let me just say.
00:28:22I was camper of the year.
00:28:24No, no, no.
00:28:24This is when she went to overnight camp.
00:28:27Oh, look at that.
00:28:28Oh, my God.
00:28:32Remember you smuggled your phone in?
00:28:34Yep.
00:28:35We're very close family.
00:28:38The four of us have always stuck together, and it hasn't always been the easiest.
00:28:44Elise was always wild.
00:28:46We bailed Elise out of a lot of things.
00:28:50Maybe too many.
00:28:52So, what's up?
00:28:53Where are you going?
00:28:55New Zealand?
00:28:56Australia?
00:28:57Yeah.
00:28:59Um, it might be silly to me, but, like, I really like him, and I want to go.
00:29:03Well, you don't know him.
00:29:05No, I've never met him.
00:29:09So, why this now?
00:29:12I'm getting older.
00:29:13I'm 32.
00:29:13I've done a lot of self-reflection.
00:29:15Well, the way I look at it is, Joshua, he has a really nice way about him.
00:29:21He's kind of the opposite of me.
00:29:23Like, he's very calm temperament, and I like that.
00:29:27I haven't found love in Miami.
00:29:29No, you...
00:29:29I feel like I've exhausted every option in Miami.
00:29:33I haven't found love in Miami?
00:29:34Hello, Australia.
00:29:35Yeah, right.
00:29:36I mean...
00:29:37Yeah, right.
00:29:37Welcome to...
00:29:39What the...
00:29:41I know it sounds ridiculous to my parents, but I wouldn't be flying around the world
00:29:46to Australia to meet just any guy.
00:29:53My boyfriend, Joshua, is a sexy 39-year-old from Sydney, Australia.
00:30:00He is so caring, attentive.
00:30:03He's just, like, a happy-go-lucky guy, like, that everyone wants to be around.
00:30:06He's just, like, an overall, like, a golden retriever puppy.
00:30:12I met him on social media.
00:30:14He slid in my DMs, and we've been talking ever since.
00:30:19When we first started messaging, I did not think it was going to be serious at all.
00:30:23But he totally caught me off guard.
00:30:26There's something about him that's so genuine and so different from what I am used to.
00:30:32Josh has a 12-year-old son who lives with his mom, and his son's the most important person to
00:30:37him.
00:30:38And seeing Joshua as a father makes me fantasize that one day maybe we could have a family.
00:30:45Recently, it's gotten very serious.
00:30:47So, in a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet Joshua for the first time.
00:30:52And, like, oh, my God.
00:30:55I just want to get there and see him and be in his arms already.
00:31:00You know, Elise, I'm glad you're getting out of Miami.
00:31:02But I'm really concerned about your choices in who you pick.
00:31:08Well, I'm not going to stand for bullsh** anymore.
00:31:10You know, I'm not going to stand for it.
00:31:13For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:31:15But if you think, like, there's any, like, you know, what do they call them, gold digger in there, then
00:31:20run.
00:31:21Yeah.
00:31:23Run.
00:31:25Because no mouse, no mouse, no mouse.
00:31:29My parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened a few years ago
00:31:36with my ex.
00:31:37I thought he was in love with me, and I was really in love with him.
00:31:41But after being with him for a few years, he ended up stealing my identity and got a credit card
00:31:47out in my name and racked it up $500,000.
00:31:52He conned me and completely broke my heart.
00:31:54And I felt so foolish that I let a guy completely embarrass and demolish me.
00:32:01And the worst part is, who had to get me out of this trouble?
00:32:05My dad.
00:32:08Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler, another guy that's going to take
00:32:13advantage of you.
00:32:14My question is, how do you pull the ripcord if this is going south?
00:32:18What's the evacuation plan if, like, you know, this is...
00:32:21Hello, Mom and Dad.
00:32:23Like, no, I'm not, I can't do that anymore.
00:32:28I really want the love that my parents have.
00:32:32They genuinely love each other, and they're each other's best friends.
00:32:36But, like, I'm scared that, like, I'm about to go all this way, and I could have my heart broken
00:32:41again, and I don't want that.
00:32:44My dream for you is I want to see you happy.
00:32:48And I think a big part of that is being able to smell out bulls**t.
00:32:53I'm going to try my damn best to not disappoint you, to not disappoint me, you know, and I'm going
00:32:59to see where it goes.
00:33:03Hey.
00:33:04Hi.
00:33:05Michael has always given me really great advice, and I feel like I need that now.
00:33:12You're emotionally compromised.
00:33:14But if you truly want to move forward with this man, I would really appreciate it if you would let
00:33:19me come out there.
00:33:21May I come out there? May I meet him?
00:33:34Are we here?
00:33:35Yes.
00:33:38Oh, my gosh, baby.
00:33:42I don't see a palace.
00:33:44I thought I'd see a palace, baby.
00:33:58I don't see a palace.
00:34:03Hi, uncle.
00:34:04How are you?
00:34:05I'm good. How are you?
00:34:08Daniel is taking me to meet the king today, and I am thinking I'm going to this palace.
00:34:15But what the f**k?
00:34:18This is not a palace.
00:34:19Where are we?
00:34:20This is nothing like I expected.
00:34:25Oh, my gosh.
00:34:34Oh, my gosh.
00:34:44I was living here.
00:34:45I thank you.
00:34:45This is not a palace.
00:34:47Oh, my gosh.
00:34:47I look like a palace.
00:34:50I'm just a palace.
00:34:52I have to have to check it out, and then you, to have a palace.
00:34:55Oh, my God, this is a king.
00:34:57He looks like a king.
00:35:00He's wearing lion head and this headdress.
00:35:05And I feel like I'm going to myself.
00:35:07I don't know what to do.
00:35:10Mm.
00:35:34Oh, yeah, in a labor.
00:35:39Oh, one of them, OK, she's a camp for a call.
00:35:43Be a good city, why not?
00:35:45Hello, hello, yes, sir.
00:35:50the lord of couple comes to me because i'm his royal majesty i'm like i'm an oracle a prophet
00:36:00and as a loyal father your blessings is enormous it's not like every other blessings
00:36:06if this thing if it's going to work well i will ask our ancestors
00:36:31um okay i'm getting more nervous because this is so not what i expected
00:36:39what if the ancestors don't give us a blessing does it erase the uncle's blessing does it erase
00:36:46how daniel feels about me i have no idea he's the king
00:36:54i'm showing signs that i'm falling for you
00:36:57you're in my mind when you're blind now is the time you know what i'm gonna do
00:37:13hey hey how's it going i just found a heater sounds good yay um yeah i was checking in with
00:37:27some
00:37:27people at home and i was wondering if i could have like i don't know 30 minutes or so
00:37:33no you don't need a long time yeah is that cool yeah you know what am i gonna do
00:37:40probably go find some shisha yay all right have fun see ya
00:37:48i have a mix of emotions after the boat ride today beercon opening up to me was really sweet but
00:37:58i
00:37:58definitely still have some hesitations when it comes to beercon's gambling and his debt
00:38:07and i feel like i need to talk to someone who can ground me help me understand and process
00:38:14all of the things that are going on
00:38:20hey hi long time no see stranger how's it going uh i'm doing well-ish well-ish why well-ish
00:38:33best i can help for when you're not here oh
00:38:36i know it's been a while i'm sure you missed me
00:38:42nope meryl liar liar i missed you too
00:38:49i have been messaging michael a little bit since i've been in turkey but he definitely doesn't have
00:38:54all the details i trust him respect him and he has always given me really great really sage advice
00:39:04and i feel like i need that now coming home
00:39:11you know i've thought about it a few times honestly
00:39:15i mean he's super sweet and he's really really putting in effort to make me feel special okay
00:39:24but it's like he's given me some information that's like straight up a lot to think about
00:39:30you have me all ears girl i mean
00:39:41what's substantial in turkish terms well in u.s dollars it's 50 000
00:39:51yeah so i mean that's not good but um i think probably the thing that like
00:39:58concerned me the most he talked a lot about gambling like he'll take money and instead of
00:40:04putting it towards his debt he'll gamble it to try to win more i'm just so concerned what's he going
00:40:13to do in the states like burn through my money gambling i don't know what to do but at the
00:40:19same
00:40:20time he's ridiculously thoughtful and like so intentional and sweet no one has ever put this
00:40:31much thought and care into things that they planned for me like today he took me out on this amazing
00:40:39boat cruise and he told me because of me he's started to feel alive again and like he's starting
00:40:47to be like himself and i don't get people very often in my life who make me feel cared for
00:40:55so that is
00:40:56a huge huge win for me in the in the pro category i would feel best if you came home
00:41:05honestly
00:41:08you'd feel best if i came home yeah because you're emotionally compromised
00:41:16i can tell you he's running an incredible con game right now his job is to woo you to make
00:41:23you feel
00:41:23like the love of his life to make you feel incredibly special and you've been deprived of these experiences
00:41:29for so damn long that a guy like him that's all he has to do and you're falling head over
00:41:36heels for
00:41:36him when there are far far far higher quality men that can do the same thing and don't come with
00:41:43that
00:41:43baggage
00:41:50you're willing to sacrifice common sense because a vote ride was enough to win your heart
00:42:02i know that the red flags sound crazy but i also think it's easier
00:42:13to hear about red flags than it is green flags the green flags are harder to see
00:42:17unless you see them with your own eyes
00:42:23if you truly want to move forward with this man i would really appreciate it if you would let me
00:42:30come
00:42:30out there and see him for myself before you make that level of commitment that level of decision about
00:42:38your life may i come out there may i meet him
00:42:46i don't know
00:42:48i don't know
00:42:50that's a really big deal i feel like that could really push him away and create some big problems
00:42:58for me as i do move forward in this relationship
00:43:07i really don't know what to do here on the one hand it might be nice to have a third
00:43:12party
00:43:13to give me their perspective but on the other hand beer con already doesn't like my friendship
00:43:20with michael and i feel like michael showing up here that would piss him off
00:43:26and and honestly i've always thought that he had some sort of underlying feelings for me
00:43:32and the fact that he's willing to just fly out here and rescue me from myself really does kind of
00:43:40concern me about what his intentions are i want to talk to him about it first
00:43:48before we decide for sure okay i can respect that and i will let you know how it goes
00:43:55okay thank you for considering it
00:44:02so your hand actually came with the screenshot of some message from me saying
00:44:08i'm gonna love you forever
00:44:12i can't be with somebody who's been lying and cheating on me this whole time
00:44:16i don't know who the that is
00:44:25you know what i have been waiting to tell you something
00:44:34to be honest it's it's really hard for me to talk about this
00:44:46the truth is that most of people that i love happen not to be serious with me
00:44:54they just wanted to play with my feelings and my previous partner that i was expecting that guy to
00:45:01love me but he never loved me he already had someone with him he had been cheating me for long
00:45:10three years and it appears me that i would suffer the same fate like leaving behind
00:45:20i did that live because i'm afraid that i would lose you
00:45:26my previous partner i finally discovered after the longest years that this guy already had a partner
00:45:33while dating with me i just felt unwanted
00:45:40and i really blame myself for not being a perfect woman
00:45:46like i had done something to drive him away
00:45:51if i was ever to do anything to push force away i would feel so much in pain it's an
00:45:59indescribable pain
00:46:08sheena that guy did not deserve you at all i'm not like him i won't be like him
00:46:16i would never leave you if for having issues if you just tell me up front what the situation is
00:46:24i'll be there to support you i hope you have the courage to come to me from now on because
00:46:36i can't
00:46:37i can't have you lying to me
00:46:41and i will do my best and i will put up my negatives feelings aside
00:46:48but i cannot promise you in words but in actions open up and trusting more with you is the best
00:46:56way
00:46:58i knew that sheena was in a relationship before but i didn't know that it affected her to this extent
00:47:05things are not perfect but i feel that sheena and i were able to talk things out and i'm glad
00:47:11she's willing to work with me it's making me feel better i'm falling more and more in love with her
00:47:16every single day i just really wish that i could feel more confident that this won't happen again
00:47:32bye auntie bye i love you love you
00:47:39is everything okay it's pretty good okay
00:47:51tonight was a total disaster i wanted my aunt to grill him and get the answers however i was hoping
00:48:00deep down they would like each other and she would end up having good things to say about him
00:48:07clearly that's not what happened and at this point i i don't know what's actually going on
00:48:17are you gonna tell me what happened um yeah a lot okay
00:48:27so your aunt actually came with quote unquote truth truth in her mind
00:48:36proof of what proof of me not being fearful to you okay
00:48:45and continue to me she gave me an ultimatum she said if i if i don't tell you who she's
00:48:52gonna tell
00:48:52you it's gonna be worse and all that so i'm like well anyways go ahead
00:49:00she pulled up with a picture of me hugging a girl and with a kiss on her cheek
00:49:09from when probably recently like maybe a couple weeks ago
00:49:18but that's what i do though i take pictures with fans and sometimes i do that nothing bad
00:49:24so this was just a random girl
00:49:29yeah probably just a fan apparently corinne she's like that's her friend and the girl is like oh she's
00:49:37messing with me and she was with me in this city or whatever i'm like girl i don't even know
00:49:41who the that is
00:49:46oh no and apparently some uh i think they they asked the girl about the picture and she
00:49:53sent a screenshot of some message from me of saying
00:49:57i'm gonna love you forever bro from him who the hell is in me apparently i'm him not him in
00:50:05that message
00:50:07uh okay so there's photos and text messages apparently but not real text message
00:50:17you have the photo i don't have it i don't know who the that is i don't know how else
00:50:25can i say i
00:50:25don't want to curse not even like that i could show you like a million more pictures like that
00:50:31corinth is saying it's her friend and that she knows that you guys are hooking up that's what is
00:50:36concerning to me so they're kind crazy if you're messing with her then you're messing with her why
00:50:44would they lie about that if i was messing with her i would tell you the truth then i would
00:50:48have been
00:50:48like let's have a tree but i'm joking i'm joking babe i'm joking because i have no reason to lie
00:51:01i just don't know what to believe at this point
00:51:06i need to see the photos and i need to see the text messages and from there i can make
00:51:11a decision
00:51:13make a decision about what if i can trust you if i can believe you if i want to continue
00:51:21that's all i can say right now
00:51:25this is gonna ruin our night i'm tired i'm not gonna get mad at you tonight
00:51:39it's not gonna be like that tonight i mean i'm just i'm not feeling it tonight
00:51:46i came all the way to belize and i was ready to start a family with him
00:51:50and then he pulls back on the babies he won't say he loves me and hearing that he's possibly in
00:51:57another
00:51:57relationship it's just crazy after everything i've put into this relationship don't forget today
00:52:04even happened to be honest with you
00:52:12all right yes
00:52:15i really hope that he's telling me the truth because i can't be with somebody who's been lying and cheating
00:52:21on me this whole time this could really be the end for me and stick
00:52:34i'm going to australia everything's great between joshua and i but i do have some worries about him
00:52:41when you get there are you guys staying in the same room yeah hold on where are you staying okay
00:52:45so he
00:52:46admitted to me that he lives with his parents
00:52:56so baby yes there's some things i kind of want to talk to you about
00:53:02today spending time alone with shena it's been great
00:53:09okay but it's been one heck the curvy road being here in the philippines
00:53:46i love you baby
00:53:53stelly mommy just got home from grammy and grampies
00:53:57feels so good to be home i'm happy i'm with my little kitty you want some catnip come here stella
00:54:04come here stella look so i was considered a crazy cat woman because i literally had three cats
00:54:11cats and a dog and a dog and then i don't know if i'm a crazy cat woman anymore because
00:54:17i only have
00:54:18two cats now but stella is pretty much my life i hated cats cats were actually pretty disgusting to me
00:54:28and when i was a young kid i got told i was really allergic to cats right stella
00:54:33and then once i got stella i became obsessed with cats
00:54:41i love your breath
00:54:44and if i kiss you too much you're gonna yap at me
00:54:51yeah you want another treat one more treat oh god did you fart stella
00:54:58oh stella smells i feel like she like licked her butt and i just put my mouth in her butt
00:55:04she it's when she's really excited actually
00:55:07is stella a girl stella is a boy stella is transgender stella's all the sexes i got stella
00:55:16i went to go get her spade and they're like hey just to let you know yeah your cat yeah
00:55:23she's um she's a
00:55:24male and i said you know what my ex and i named her stella and i'm keeping it stella has
00:55:32a penis
00:55:32but i call her a girl she's gender confused it's 2025 it's acceptable come on come to me here come
00:55:39on stella right here try and get off me here oh you're not doing my tricks come on jump up
00:55:45a little
00:55:46jump up for mommy oh dad my kitty stella is my life like if stella can be in a man's
00:55:54body i i would
00:55:54i would you know date her to date her
00:56:01i know it's confusing i don't like women i like men i like penis too much actually
00:56:33i'm happy to be back in miami after a few days with my parents but every time i see them
00:56:39it reminds me of how much i want what they have
00:56:42like i may seem like the crazy wild girl that like doesn't give a but like deep down i want
00:56:48love
00:56:49and i want to get married and i want children and i want like my husband to be my best
00:56:53friend in my
00:56:54forever and even though we have never met in person i know josh is just so amazing he's sexy and
00:57:02he's
00:57:02hot and he's adventurous and he's active like i'm so infatuated and i would literally be the happiest
00:57:10girl in the world if he was the one oh my god joshua just texted me right now hi babe
00:57:16how are you xl
00:57:18he just sent me a picture he looks big his hands look big love a good big hand
00:57:28even though everything's great between joshua and i i do have some worries about him
00:57:35i held back some information with my parents about joshua because they have enough on their plate
00:57:39i don't want to worry them so i think meeting up with my girlfriends i can get a different point
00:57:44of view and perspective and in like kind of dig into the worries that i have look what the cats
00:57:51brought
00:57:52in oh my god my dress is so tight i miss you blonde hi look how blonde she is oh
00:58:02my god come here let me
00:58:03give me a hug you look so cute wait are we drinking of course we already had espresso martinis
00:58:13before we got here pre-game you're getting here oh my god so what's going on i'm going to australia
00:58:22i'm doing it i'm going i can't believe you're i mean listen it's like the miami
00:58:28men suck you know yeah and josh is kind he's super sweet he's someone i typically wouldn't go for
00:58:35okay he he's not a typical miami guy elise is one of the funniest kindest people i know and i
00:58:43also feel
00:58:44like she is a hopeless romantic elise gives these guys her whole heart and she gets nothing in return
00:58:51for it so when elise told us she was going to meet some guy in australia i gently thought
00:58:58what the f i thought you're insane and you're crazy yeah yeah so when you get there are you guys
00:59:05staying in the same room is he getting in your own room yeah hold on where are you staying okay
00:59:10so i
00:59:11asked him when i got my plane ticket to send me his apartment and like video it yeah okay every
00:59:17single
00:59:17day i was asking him for for him to send me the video and then he admitted to me that
00:59:22he lives with his
00:59:23parents no so i don't think he has much money i was like so joshua like i'm gonna come and
00:59:32i'm gonna
00:59:32live with your parents he's like no i will get a rental and split it with a roommate because he
00:59:40can't
00:59:40afford a rental by himself okay we listen the money situation's not the big thing i can work with a
00:59:51guy
00:59:51that doesn't have money but here's the thing about josh he makes me feel special and he makes me feel
00:59:58important i'm much rather a guy with not that much money that gives me emotional love yeah i've had
01:00:07every single man spend everything on me with no emotional love i think it's a good thing that he
01:00:13is more caring more kind because she's looking for something different she's looking for a genuine
01:00:20connection but no girl man at 39 should be living with no roommate that's crazy or with the parents
01:00:27parents it was crazy yeah we sound like another miami pack of girls but like finances are important
01:00:33they provide safety they provide stability food on the table you have a house you like the bills are
01:00:38being paid exactly i am concerned as your friend like i'm wearing red like i feel the red flags
01:00:46everywhere right but every single time i talked to him on the phone i get off feeling so energized and
01:00:52so
01:00:53cared about and so giddy i am going to australia because i truly believe that he could be my future
01:01:01husband but joshua sent me a text last night that was super alarming and it kind of
01:01:08threw me off i'm almost embarrassed to even tell anyone about it and if i tell my girlfriends about
01:01:14this they would probably tell me not to go and that's the last thing i want i'm hoping to get
01:01:21down there and figure this all out because i want this so badly to work out
01:01:34i was wondering if you wanted to take a gondola ride with me oh really that's just right here it
01:01:38would be it oh my gosh here we go baby
01:01:55i wonder how much pouring it that takes
01:02:05this is so beautiful honey yeah i miss being in my night outfit really i know what you're thinking
01:02:13huh always you're thinking of fun sexy stuff no you're not doing that not me oh no it sounds like
01:02:20no you're not doing that thing i think i know some of your secrets i know i know i'm not
01:02:28today spending time alone with sheena it's been great to just spend time together and finally
01:02:36get to talk to each other and really put everything out
01:02:41i hope with my love and support sheena will come to understand that she doesn't need to lie
01:02:47anymore she can move forward and tell me stuff from now on instead of just leaving me in the dark
01:02:57that's a nice place to visit i wish i knew some italian songs so i could sing them to you
01:03:24i love you
01:03:28machine hello baby there that's so sweet you're so sweet you taste like toothpaste
01:03:43it's been one heck of a curvy road being here in the philippines ever since i got here
01:03:48but one thing that's been consistent the entire time is how i feel with sheena one-on-one
01:03:54okay guys grab me thank you thank you when you take away all the distractions and everybody else's
01:04:03opinions what's left is a love that i've never ever felt before so much fun it feels great to
01:04:14finally have someone who accepts my quirks and oddities 100 and that's what i love about her
01:04:24look at the beautiful flowers oh that's cool there's a lot of busteria
01:04:32wow this place is so beautiful i love it
01:04:36oh actually it's like past next time but it's okay
01:04:40so baby yes there's some things i kind of want to talk to you about
01:04:47well over the last seven years i've been wanting to come here and be with you and get to
01:04:55you know see you and i know that we've had some ups and downs since i've gotten here
01:05:01but i think it's only going to make us stronger because you are my one special person
01:05:10there's a glimmer in your brown eyes
01:05:13okay yeah but sheena thank you for being in my life and let's continue to be in each other's
01:05:23lives from now on so here we are two kindred songs if you would do me the honor oh my
01:05:31god
01:05:31will you please marry me these are the moments that make up all of the memories
01:05:40and all the first time
01:05:44i love you i love you baby i love you baby yes i do
01:05:50okay give me your finger is it right this is everything and six years now i had this ring
01:06:01thank you my love it's so beautiful
01:06:08i i want i wanted to be with you for the rest of my life thank you my love
01:06:28i love you baby bear thank you so much for being my bear
01:06:35thank you for staying with me all this time i'm sorry i didn't come sooner
01:06:47i've never felt super happy in my life and this is the best day of life ever
01:06:55i can't even think straight you know to think that i finally got the woman of my dreams after seven
01:07:00years just keep following your dreams everybody and you will get what what you need you'll get there
01:07:11i love you baby
01:07:20i'm super happy and super satisfied with how everything went any nerves about telling your
01:07:27family for us sort of yeah but i'm gonna tell my mom that it's the right time it's the right
01:07:34time
01:07:34and i've been waiting for this long yeah and we've been waiting for this the entire time and
01:07:39it was our decision welcome to the tunnel of love that's amazing you know what's something
01:07:46funny about this tunnel of love wow it may be hot outside but after we entered here
01:07:51i think it got a little hotter i think it got a little hotter
01:07:56so funny huh i love you my love i love you machine
01:08:03are you sure you are going to take good care of him yes my king i don't think so you
01:08:10don't think so
01:08:11no no no no no no no why are you laughing do you see me laugh i get to go
01:08:17and sit down
01:08:20i can't spend that so now i'm worried because if the king would hold his blessing i don't know what
01:08:27i
01:08:35will do
01:08:36okay
01:08:38the ancestor has spoken
01:08:43i can't see me
01:08:54i can't see you
01:08:57i can't see you
01:09:13Are you sure you are going to take good care of him?
01:09:18Yes, my king.
01:09:21Are you sure?
01:09:22Yes.
01:09:24I don't think so.
01:09:27You don't think so?
01:09:28No, no, no, no.
01:09:30Why are you laughing?
01:09:34Do you see me laugh?
01:09:38No, my king.
01:09:44I get to go and sit down.
01:09:49I just meant that.
01:09:52Laughing in the presence of a king.
01:09:55It means that you think the king is talking trash, telling lies.
01:10:00He's very disrespectful to the king and to his palace.
01:10:04So now I'm worried, because if the king would hold his blessing,
01:10:09I don't know what I would do.
01:10:12Who are you laughing at?
01:10:13You are laughing at me?
01:10:18No, my king.
01:10:20I'm laughing because I'm nervous.
01:10:22I have a nervous laugh.
01:10:25You have a nervous laugh?
01:10:30I'd either laugh or cry.
01:10:32Your husband did not tell you.
01:10:37Um, may you leave my change?
01:10:42She's the wife I want to marry.
01:10:45And she has been nervous.
01:10:48Okay.
01:10:49No, she has been trying to know most of our tradition.
01:10:53She's trying her best.
01:10:57Good.
01:11:00Say that.
01:11:08Come.
01:11:09Come, my daughter.
01:11:13Come, my daughter.
01:11:20You don't laugh before a traditional majesty like me.
01:11:25Hmm?
01:11:26Unless I laugh.
01:11:30Why you laugh now?
01:11:36Laugh, laugh, laugh.
01:11:37I tell you to laugh now.
01:11:39Okay.
01:11:41Come, my brother.
01:11:43Come and hold your wife.
01:11:48So,
01:11:50our ancestors accept you.
01:11:55It shall be well with you people.
01:11:58God will bless you people.
01:12:01God will make this union to be fruitful.
01:12:04God will give you people happy home.
01:12:07I bless you in a marriage.
01:12:09I say it shall be well with you people in a case.
01:12:14I say this will you know.
01:12:16We'll walk well.
01:12:23Enjoy your wife.
01:12:24Wife, enjoy your husband.
01:12:27Uh-huh.
01:12:28Uh-huh.
01:12:29I wasn't sure I was going to get the blessing.
01:12:31I was on pins and needles.
01:12:33But when the king says we are blessed,
01:12:38it's a relief.
01:12:40Lisa,
01:12:42you are now one of us.
01:12:44My final thought,
01:12:46which is very, very, very important thing.
01:12:51I want to see how our waifu dance.
01:12:54Dance anyhow, you know how to dance.
01:12:57You must dance with me.
01:13:03I've made it.
01:13:04There's nothing more ultimate than a blessing from the king
01:13:07so that we can get married.
01:13:11But at this moment,
01:13:13I'm still married to a woman.
01:13:17And he doesn't know.
01:13:20I've held on to these secrets so long.
01:13:22It's weighing on me heavily.
01:13:24I have to tell him soon.
01:13:26And I'm hoping that he can understand
01:13:29and accept me for who I am
01:13:31and what my past is.
01:13:34I'm hoping we live happily ever after.
01:13:36I want this so bad.
01:13:38My wife's gotten done very well.
01:13:47Sied,
01:13:47you're going to talk to me now?
01:13:49You just waste your time.
01:13:51Sied, you're an asshole.
01:13:53You want to act like you're perfect.
01:13:54You want to put on this whole front
01:13:56like you're this great guy,
01:13:57but you're a liar.
01:13:58Do you want to tell everyone how we had sex?
01:14:02Good.
01:14:02Bye, guys.
01:14:04It's the end.
01:14:15I can't.
01:14:17I can't.
01:14:18I can't.
01:14:46I'm really upset right now.
01:14:48I thought we'd at least be able to, like,
01:14:51talk about what happened.
01:14:55And I didn't think he was going to break up with me.
01:15:01I just feel like he took any excuse
01:15:03and any reason to just end all of this and walk away.
01:15:06And I think he was just waiting for a reason to walk away.
01:15:12What are you thinking about right now?
01:15:14And me, I'm not someone to be in a king.
01:15:21I want just to go.
01:15:23That's all.
01:15:30I'm so mad because she lied for everything.
01:15:34So maybe tomorrow she's going to tell me another story.
01:15:37So I can't give her another chance.
01:15:41I make a lot of my energy to be with her,
01:15:44but I feel betrayed.
01:15:50All what I want right now is to leave everything about her
01:15:53and forget her name, too.
01:16:16Where is he going?
01:16:20You're going to talk to me now?
01:16:23You're just wasting your time.
01:16:25I'm waiting for someone to pick me to go home, so...
01:16:29So you're not staying here tonight?
01:16:31No.
01:16:34You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
01:16:37You can't enjoy it with the view.
01:16:41So what about the two weeks that I'm here?
01:16:44You can't wait now, call the gay, and you can come.
01:16:49Zid, you're an asshole.
01:16:51And you're a liar.
01:16:52How about that?
01:16:53How about you're a liar?
01:16:54Do you want to tell everyone how we had sex?
01:16:56Do you want to tell them that?
01:16:59You want to act like you're perfect.
01:17:01You want to put on this whole front,
01:17:02like you're this great guy, but you're a liar.
01:17:05Okay, say anything you want.
01:17:07Okay, so did that not happen?
01:17:08Did we not have sex?
01:17:09For me, I will finish all things.
01:17:11Did we not have sex?
01:17:12I will not continue.
01:17:14Did we not have sex?
01:17:14You can't say anything you want.
01:17:15Because we did.
01:17:16It's okay.
01:17:17For me, it's the end.
01:17:27Goodbye, guys.
01:17:28Let's go.
01:17:39Let's go.
01:17:40Like, when I didn't even do anything.
01:17:42Like, that was before we were in a relationship,
01:17:44and he's done so much to me since I've been his girlfriend.
01:17:48And I, like, accepted it because I loved him.
01:17:56I just feel like I wasted my time again,
01:17:59and I did all of this to try to be with someone,
01:18:02and, like, I get broken up with again.
01:18:09And now I'm single and alone,
01:18:11and he gets to just go home.
01:18:15Yeah, he left me in the desert in the middle of nowhere.
01:18:31I just don't understand.
01:18:32Like, it's, like, I try so hard to, like, find love
01:18:38and to, like, make it work,
01:18:40and it just never, it never happens for me.
01:18:43Like, it never does.
01:18:44And I always get left.
01:18:46I always get dumped.
01:18:47It's always me.
01:18:51And it's, like, that's the only thing I want.
01:18:53Like, all I want is to find love
01:18:55and, like, get married,
01:18:57and it just never, it never happens for me.
01:19:00I, like, love you.
01:19:32I have a feeling that my mom's going to have a lot of questions for us.
01:19:37It just felt right to kind of propose to Sheena.
01:19:43You guys happy?
01:19:45Oh, yeah.
01:19:46I'm ecstatic.
01:19:49What the f***, Forrest?
01:20:02What you do to me, I could write a book on screen.
01:20:08Ripples run around your plight.
01:20:10Back to where you started.
01:20:17Wee!
01:20:18Blah!
01:20:19You crazy best.
01:20:21Get in there!
01:20:21Get!
01:20:22Go!
01:20:23Shivers on my skin.
01:20:26Head is in the spin.
01:20:29Oh, you have the happiest bear ever.
01:20:31Yeah, and I'm the happiest bear.
01:20:32We're bears in love.
01:20:33Yeah, for life.
01:20:35For life.
01:20:37I'm seeing the stars.
01:20:40I just proposed to Sheena, and she said yes.
01:20:43So, now, we're heading back to tell Mom and Dev my world is just amazing.
01:20:52Just filled with so much light and so much happiness.
01:21:13Sheena and I have been talking for a while about when would be the perfect time to have sex, and
01:21:18now, knowing that we are going to be committed to each other 100%,
01:21:22we're both afraid to let out that sexual tension, and maybe even get a little bit freaky.
01:21:29Don't worry, I told you, I'm going to get you some dog chains, some dog collar, and some dog balls
01:21:35you want.
01:21:36Well, you are a vet, and I know that you're well supplied.
01:21:39Don't worry, this is free when I'm the vet around.
01:21:43Oh my gosh.
01:21:46I'm happy you said yes.
01:21:48Of course.
01:21:49Yeah.
01:21:50One in a million yes to the most wonderful bearded I ever had in my life.
01:21:55I feel a lot of weight off my shoulders.
01:21:57Me too.
01:21:59But I have a feeling that my mom's going to have a lot of questions for us.
01:22:06But I'm ready to take the jump with you.
01:22:10Even if she has doubts, I'm pretty sure my mom's going to be happy for us.
01:22:16At least I'm hoping she's going to be.
01:22:21I just got a text from my mom.
01:22:23She's down by the pool.
01:22:24Okay, my love.
01:22:25Let's go.
01:22:26Okay.
01:22:31Baby, just breathe.
01:22:32Yes.
01:22:33Everything's going to be at peace.
01:22:36Hey, guys.
01:22:38Hey, mom.
01:22:40Did you have fun?
01:22:42Oh, yeah.
01:22:43We went to the Gondola Mall.
01:22:45We got there.
01:22:46Oh, really?
01:22:47Yeah.
01:22:47We walked around.
01:22:49Did you ride the little boat thingy-mabobber?
01:22:51No, of course we did.
01:22:52Oh, how nice.
01:22:52Yeah, I figured.
01:22:54Yeah, we got there, and it was fun.
01:22:56It was pretty cool.
01:22:58All right.
01:22:59Yeah.
01:22:59Then we just walked around.
01:23:01We looked at a few stores.
01:23:02And then we came to a little point with tons of nice little flowers and lights and just a whole
01:23:10lot of people.
01:23:12And it just felt, you know, like the right place to, you know, kind of propose to Sheena.
01:23:27And she said yes.
01:23:40You guys happy?
01:23:45Oh, yeah.
01:23:46I'm ecstatic, Forrest.
01:23:51I asked you to hold off and wait so she could prove herself.
01:23:55And then you just go walk up and pull this little sneak.
01:23:59If you are not going to be willing to listen, what the am I doing sitting over here in this
01:24:06country then, Forrest?
01:24:10I think you're just being a stubborn ass, and you just don't want to accept our happiness.
01:24:17Excuse me?
01:24:21Don't be shaking your head and agreeing when you weren't there.
01:24:23I agree, because this is why we talk as couples.
01:24:26We work, we talk about this.
01:24:30And this is our decision.
01:24:31Then don't answer for him if you weren't in his head and you weren't there at the time when he
01:24:36decided to do it.
01:24:36I am a dog, and I would decide for what we want to do.
01:24:40Hey, Mom.
01:24:40Do you think maybe it would have been nice if he would have included us?
01:24:44Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
01:24:48Hmm.
01:24:50Oh, jeez, Forrest, your life.
01:24:52It's over.
01:24:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:25:02Give me one free shot.
01:25:06Trish is very hard to read.
01:25:08I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
01:25:12If the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
01:25:16So pick the good one.
01:25:18Oh, no, no, no.
01:25:19Hey, referee.
01:25:22Go, go, go.
01:25:25Sydney, Australia, I'm coming for you.
01:25:29I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend after talking for six months.
01:25:33Elise is beautiful, but at the same time, she's very fiery.
01:25:37I'm nervous, very nervous.
01:25:39How do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
01:25:42Do you think American girls are more jealous?
01:25:44I don't know.
01:25:44If she has a problem, it'll definitely be not.
01:25:48The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
01:25:51And do we know if this is still going on currently?
01:25:57Are we actually calling?
01:25:59Oh, you're going to...
01:26:00Oh, get your questions ready.
01:26:03Hello?
01:26:05Why didn't you make her prove herself before you proposed?
01:26:09When she starts to lie, it's because she has traumatic experiences.
01:26:15Everybody's got stress in their life.
01:26:17And then to say, I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie.
01:26:20And you're going to accept her, just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying.
01:26:25Of course, you're more bull than a Christmas goose.
01:26:29I really want to tell you something.
01:26:34Um, I've been married five times.
01:26:37Five times?
01:26:38And I filled out the divorce papers.
01:26:41But I am still married.
01:26:45I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:26:47Someone...
01:26:48I'm sorry.
01:26:49I came here to tell you the truth.
01:26:52I tell you everything.
01:26:53I want you to go home, please.
01:26:56She called me a liar.
01:26:58She called me a scammer.
01:26:59What?
01:27:00She's the real scammer.
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