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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was, one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I'm here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he
00:00:45has a substantial amount of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about gambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if you would
00:00:57let me come out there and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:07You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here.
00:01:19So I cannot go back.
00:01:22I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit.
00:01:29But it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times.
00:01:37And I am still married.
00:01:39Slipping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will balance you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera, but she's there is camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51It's going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I
00:02:02was with the guy before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me, I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy to be with her.
00:02:12But I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00I feel you.
00:03:01How are you feeling?
00:03:04I hung over.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on with Daniel
00:03:20and what's going to happen next, and I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all, so I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel, I've lost respect, I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him, and then about 11.08 p.m.,
00:03:56I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:58He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:02I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what, and I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said he wants to be with me.
00:04:16So basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now, what he's thinking, or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days, and we're supposed to
00:04:38leave today.
00:04:39It's a really bad time for me to tell him all this when I've already paid me plans to take
00:04:44him somewhere special, and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So what I'm hoping is seeing him, telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for, and hopefully he'll
00:04:58come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night I couldn't sleep because of what she was worried.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room, so I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her, but I have to let her know that she has gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way shows that he's desperately in love with me, and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears, and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up at walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:39Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um, we have to talk to my uncle.
00:07:17So, this is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law, because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:40Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But, at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this, the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of, um, trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't, it's, there's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she have not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:28It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:23Oh, I love mountains.
00:10:24I do, too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:31I can literally see boots here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:45Boobs, mountain.
00:10:54I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:00And I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:13It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Oh, my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:19Play, revisit, emphasis.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Central DC.
00:12:41Great.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is, like, carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail and everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27Well, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49No?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:01Ah.
00:14:04I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah.
00:14:14That makes two of us.
00:14:15But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:32Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns about our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns.
00:14:48And now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:51I have concerns because you are still communicating with Michael and talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:21He already bought a flight.
00:15:29What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:38Without asking, without telling anything, nothing, this is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming?
00:15:55Yeah, yeah.
00:15:55But, you know, I'm glad you can because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So what else do you want?
00:16:26It seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:28Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me so I can get in the car because I'm really
00:16:52full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the best.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Oh, Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me a heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me your horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not, not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose, Presage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa.
00:17:43No.
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was cute.
00:17:46There's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited about being here with me, so we're taking her out on the town,
00:18:05see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:08But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Oh, you scared the s*** out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31Elise, 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:37Oh, f***, you guys working feet.
00:18:39F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing ding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52Ah.
00:18:53But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, God.
00:18:56Well, I'm down a thousand.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:09Jesus, my God.
00:19:11I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for no.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:31That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:34Like again, they're very bullshit.
00:19:36Yeah.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:05We have healthcare.
00:20:10I think we need to make a cheers.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheers is, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came because you're one of my best friends and, you know, as soon
00:20:25as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30And so, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:32Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58Let's start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to
00:21:03get here.
00:21:04So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:08So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:13Well, thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed
00:21:34down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, I could party a bit, yeah.
00:21:49Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with
00:22:19me and my cat and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:32Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:43Cheers.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:46To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not cheersing to that.
00:23:12How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing.
00:23:25He seems better today.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
00:23:29Don't let him run.
00:23:31Hmm?
00:23:32Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom, but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we had
00:23:44to run him to the vet.
00:23:46Oh, look at you and your cow.
00:23:48You don't like the cone.
00:23:50Nobody likes the cone.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream cone.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:01And so, today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast and finally get to know Jovon more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Jovon!
00:24:34I don't want to keep looking at your big American pools.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad, then.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:49The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:56I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the
00:25:03garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:09How do I do it?
00:25:09Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this, and then I just...
00:25:14Yes!
00:25:15That's the point of the water.
00:25:17Wow.
00:25:18Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:23I'm gonna go wash up Mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, Ma, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47It's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we gonna be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:58Dilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:26:00And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:05Okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig in.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:17But the food is great, and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in
00:26:23-law.
00:26:25Jibon.
00:26:26Hmm?
00:26:27Musta naman yung tulag mo kagabi?
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:33My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:40Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:42Yeah.
00:26:43Tapit bahay.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:44Pero asaya na ako na nandito ka na.
00:26:48She says she's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52Kailan hanggang kailan ka dito?
00:26:55Till when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02Ang bilis naman ano?
00:27:04She said it's too fast.
00:27:05I don't know.
00:27:05Hindi bang one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:13I don't want to.
00:27:15I don't want to.
00:27:15Ah, naman tong anak ko.
00:27:16Was about my daughter.
00:27:19Sama mo na to.
00:27:21Sambil.
00:27:24Sayin ko na nakarating na si Gabon dito sa Pilipinas, sa bahay namin.
00:27:31Pero ang nararamdaman ko simpre ang taglal niyang dumating dito sa Pilipinas na ang iniisap ko kasi kung paano na
00:27:44yung anak ko.
00:27:53she said for six years as my that my daughter has been waiting for you i was so worried about
00:28:02because she was sometimes i could see she was losing hope and also me
00:28:09i'm sorry it took so long though but i'm gonna make it up we're gonna i'm gonna come back very
00:28:14soon i promise okay all right i understand why my mom is being skeptical i mean it took him six
00:28:38years to see me and we've been married for three years and we still don't have a definite plan for
00:28:48the future he didn't even apply for spousal visa what does that mean
00:28:57we can't be going on with this long distance relationship for the rest of our lives i don't
00:29:02want to right now i don't feel secure about the future
00:29:13can we just be done with the country of morocco don't be mad but don't be mad
00:29:26who is it mohammed oh my god
00:29:35so
00:29:40so
00:30:06it's been a couple days since i got dumped
00:30:09and left in the desert i didn't want to go back to the same riyadh that i was staying
00:30:16out with the ed it just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself
00:30:23luckily i was able to make some calls
00:30:26um i'm looking for a riyadh and i was wondering if your place is available for tonight
00:30:35um just one person i just got dumped
00:30:42thankfully the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to marrakesh
00:30:55and somehow i made it back to the new riyadh in one piece
00:31:03but now i'm just not totally sure what
00:31:34what i'm doing
00:31:36no i'm like really sad i like don't want to wait i don't want to cry already hold up
00:31:43sorry
00:31:43what happened
00:31:45what happened
00:31:46um
00:31:46so
00:31:48yesterday
00:31:49basically
00:31:51i like
00:31:52told zia everything about like muhammad
00:31:54i did
00:31:55and
00:31:56it literally maddie went to
00:31:59like we got into a huge fight and
00:32:01it ended up with him like fully breaking up with me
00:32:04and leaving me alone in the desert by myself
00:32:10yeah
00:32:13like i knew he was there is crazy behavior
00:32:18to leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language
00:32:22yeah
00:32:24like he obviously doesn't care about you and he hasn't spoken to you since
00:32:29he's been sending me like like rage texts
00:32:34like saying that i'm like a demon and like a liar
00:32:39and like this horrible monster
00:32:44and it's just like really annoying like i'm really upset about it
00:32:48you know it's like i did i did all this like again and like just to get like treated like
00:32:54a piece of
00:32:56like what like no i'm sorry you're a catch and for him to like act like you're a gremlin is
00:33:03crazy
00:33:04why is he i mean like he's just like ryan gosling as like morocco
00:33:11can we just be done with the country of morocco
00:33:19don't be mad
00:33:21but
00:33:23don't be mad
00:33:25what
00:33:25so i may have been texting
00:33:30muhammad
00:33:32emma emma
00:33:34maybe
00:33:46why are we doing this to yourself
00:33:49i mean i don't know i think just because things got so bad with yet it's just making me like
00:33:54go back to muhammad
00:33:56because
00:33:56because he was just as bad
00:34:00yeah
00:34:01but like the last time i was here
00:34:04like this was like a happy moment for us like when i was in marrakesh so
00:34:08it's kind of made me miss him a little bit
00:34:10are you going to go see him
00:34:13if he wants me to
00:34:16oh my god
00:34:17okay
00:34:18what are your intentions on seeing him
00:34:20i mean is your
00:34:21are you going there to get closure or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship
00:34:28engagement
00:34:31i don't know my mind is like everywhere right now
00:34:34i mean i don't know i'm like getting emotional for you
00:34:39stop maddie
00:34:40stop
00:34:41i don't know
00:35:00i don't know
00:35:07i don't know
00:35:08i guess we'll see
00:35:08hi
00:35:19hi
00:35:20hello
00:35:20uh emma interview i'll take one
00:35:23who is it muhammad
00:35:26oh my god
00:35:29i'm gonna answer it just one second
00:35:32hello
00:35:34hey
00:35:40No, I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:44I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why, you want to see me?
00:35:49So do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something.
00:35:56All right, well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01You too, bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So Muhammad just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God, hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while, so it's like...
00:36:22Um...
00:36:23What's his voice on?
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Muhammad have been through a lot,
00:36:50and we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:55So that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:37:23So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:44So you're ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:58It seems like you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:38:13I told you, yes.
00:38:14So what else do you want?
00:38:30I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around, and she gets to talking about this
00:38:58great place that her ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what
00:39:09I did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous, and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you.
00:39:24Yeah, because you said, like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you, and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:37I enjoy it.
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:42That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:01I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02Oh, okay.
00:40:03I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08I'm not.
00:40:09I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about him.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you hide your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't want to talk about my ex and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you're hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25Look what you did.
00:40:25You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:31I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:44You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:41:00That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action, not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:41Okay.
00:41:46I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after
00:42:07what I did.
00:42:09And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too much.
00:42:16I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:42:19This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:42:30I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:42:43You don't respect me.
00:42:45That's not true at all.
00:42:46And now I have doubts.
00:42:48This, us, could be a mistake.
00:42:58Michael.
00:42:59He's coming.
00:43:01Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking.
00:43:03Without telling anything.
00:43:07Nothing.
00:43:17He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming, but I woke up this morning to a
00:43:33bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight.
00:43:41The other night in Cheshmay, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:43:48relationship with Birkan.
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:43:57and said he booked his flight.
00:44:01Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:44:09Birkan and I have made.
00:44:12But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:44:29Is he out of his mind?
00:44:33Yeah.
00:44:33No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation.
00:44:37Or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have it.
00:44:45Am I right?
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:44:51He's very logical.
00:44:53He's very insightful.
00:44:55And I value his opinion.
00:44:59I see.
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out, so why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends
00:45:05meet you and have you get along with them?
00:45:09My friends doesn't want to f*** me.
00:45:13He made that move.
00:45:14It's over.
00:45:15He has no chance.
00:45:20Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:45:26And he said that I am the obstacle to those two having a relationship.
00:45:31I took it as a move.
00:45:34She said that it was meaning just friends, but I don't trust Michael.
00:45:40This is his opportunity to break us up while she is confused about our relationship.
00:45:47This is a strategy.
00:45:51Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:45:59I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:46:07Maybe you should try to, like, calm down and just meet him.
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:46:25Okay.
00:46:27Okay.
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:46:36I feel like I have no choice.
00:46:39He's already f***ing coming.
00:46:41He didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:46:45I just hope that Michael doesn't f***ing f***ing up my entire future and my relationship.
00:46:54Let's go.
00:46:55We have a reservation.
00:46:58Okay.
00:47:09You can't speak Turkish?
00:47:11Oz, Oz, Turkish.
00:47:12Maybe I can't speak English.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:15You know, when the Turkish say cheers.
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18I'm just cheers.
00:47:19I don't know.
00:47:19Sherefe.
00:47:20Sherefe?
00:47:21Yes, perfect.
00:47:21To your honor.
00:47:22Sherefe.
00:47:24Sherefe.
00:47:32Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the
00:47:48ruins, but Birkon's pissed, and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:48:00You're, like, pounding it like a shot.
00:48:01Yeah.
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am miserable.
00:48:08You're miserable.
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:48:15This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:48:19This one is the three different Turkish grape.
00:48:24Okay, let's try.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:27You're welcome.
00:48:28Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:48:54That's not true at all.
00:48:55And now, I have doubts.
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake.
00:49:07I don't know.
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:12This.
00:49:13Us.
00:49:17Here we are.
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope.
00:49:21I have booked a resort.
00:49:24The pictures online looked really nice.
00:49:27So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it.
00:49:35Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside.
00:49:38No!
00:49:40Ah!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:54Guys, where are we going?
00:49:56Lefty and we're there.
00:49:57Just up here on the left.
00:50:00Here we are.
00:50:01Well, it looks super cute.
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:50:14We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:23At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up, and I am completely delirious, completely foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face on, I went to the mother f***ing bar, and now I am beyond thankful we're
00:50:34at the rental, and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:50:37Guys, I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Someone else.
00:50:46Oh!
00:50:47Her.
00:50:48Oh my God, this is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh no.
00:50:51Yes.
00:50:51This is too small!
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:57You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward and, like, be positive and show him that, like, I'm not a
00:51:03complainer.
00:51:04It's f***ing small as s***.
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of, like, Josh getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial, and, like, I would have settled for a smaller place without
00:51:19a roommate.
00:51:19Like, no offense.
00:51:20Love you, Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:23Oh!
00:51:25Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:51:26What?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa, we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:32No, I put it up.
00:51:33Did I?
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:39Oh, I didn't let him do that, but I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So, like, what, when we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird.
00:51:46When we have sex, it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:56So, I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one in such high def.
00:52:02I mean, all over my social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:52:08She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone, so it'll be interesting to see how, you
00:52:14know, we both react to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get, like, a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not, do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:52:40There's, like, literally only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm gonna need more pillows.
00:52:48Uh, we can organize that.
00:52:51Pillows, steamer, in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down.
00:52:57Thomas.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:00Okay.
00:53:01Night, guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:04All right.
00:53:06This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep.
00:53:10And go to bed.
00:53:10And we're...
00:53:11Okay, perfect.
00:53:11And I'm in the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:15Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow.
00:53:18So he's gonna sleep on the couch.
00:53:20That way we're both avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:53:27Like, he's hot.
00:53:28Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:53:30But, like, I came here wanting to do things differently.
00:53:33Like, not leading with sex.
00:53:35But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might
00:53:39be getting.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you gonna come say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's, uh...
00:54:02You know why?
00:54:03You look like someone killed you.
00:54:06Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08All right.
00:54:09Well, come say goodnight to me.
00:54:10Thanks.
00:54:23Goodnight.
00:54:24Goodnight.
00:54:26It's gonna be a hard sleep on the couch.
00:54:28But, yeah.
00:54:29It's good to try and connect more on that emotional level than the sexual level off the bat.
00:54:33I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:54:40As soon as I saw her, I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor, but, um, you know.
00:54:46I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection straight away from the moment we
00:54:51met.
00:54:52But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with, um, Elise yet.
00:54:55I'm a bit worried that she might, you know, find out some things, you know, parts of my
00:54:59life that she's not exactly happy with.
00:55:01I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person, you know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:55:05And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:55:24Okay, we have to pack.
00:55:37Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah.
00:55:42Yeah, sure.
00:55:45Since I'm now settled with Lisa, I'm still really hot with all the offense she has committed
00:55:51by telling lies, but I decided to go on this trip with her.
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget anything.
00:55:59I don't know.
00:56:00I don't think so.
00:56:01I think we're good.
00:56:03This is going to be difficult, but I will try my best to have a good time.
00:56:18Long ride.
00:56:19We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:56:21And what is the place like?
00:56:23It's a lake.
00:56:25Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at and lots of activities to do,
00:56:30so I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:56:36You're welcome.
00:56:48You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:56:51You know, we call these in America, the boonies.
00:56:54What?
00:56:55The boondocks.
00:56:56Where there's no real civilization, it's just woods.
00:57:04Here we are.
00:57:06It's a nice place, I hope.
00:57:10I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:57:15It's the western part of Lagos.
00:57:18The pictures online looked really nice, and it's in my price range.
00:57:22So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:57:29Oh, wow.
00:57:30I like it.
00:57:32What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space, right?
00:57:37It's nice.
00:57:37It's fine.
00:57:38It's nice, huh?
00:57:39Oh, my God.
00:57:43What is it?
00:57:45Yeah, it's a spider.
00:57:46No, that could be poisonous.
00:57:49I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before.
00:57:54I have.
00:57:55I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:57:58I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:58:01This thing is in Africa.
00:58:03This could be dangerous.
00:58:04Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just smush.
00:58:13It's moving!
00:58:16Kill it.
00:58:17Step on it.
00:58:18Get rid of it.
00:58:19Take it outside.
00:58:20No!
00:58:23Daniel!
00:58:25All right, stop.
00:58:26Leave it.
00:58:27I will kill it myself.
00:58:29No, don't kick it again.
00:58:31Stop.
00:58:32Stop kicking it.
00:58:37Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:58:40Okay.
00:58:42You don't kick it at me.
00:58:44I have a phobia of spiders.
00:58:46It's just a spider.
00:58:48No, it's not just a spider.
00:58:50It was huge.
00:58:51It was like tarantula-sized spider.
00:58:54You are so rude.
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders.
00:58:59I told you to kiss a spider.
00:59:00Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02I have spandled arms.
00:59:03Just spider.
00:59:04Ordinary spider.
00:59:04It's not an ordinary spider.
00:59:06It's a vicious spider.
00:59:07This is room you paid for.
00:59:08You know where the spider's coming from.
00:59:10Kill the spider.
00:59:11Kill it.
00:59:11No, you kill it.
00:59:14We're here now, right?
00:59:18So, what are we here for?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway.
00:59:23Romantic?
00:59:24Yes.
00:59:25Yes.
00:59:30She wants us to have a romantic trip.
00:59:34But it's very hard for me.
00:59:36I am feeling tense.
00:59:40Because I don't know what my uncle is going to do.
00:59:43Whether he will cancel this marriage.
00:59:46I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:59:50You should enjoy it.
00:59:51You came.
00:59:52Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest.
00:59:56You know why I'm here, right?
00:59:57No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:59:59You don't have idea?
00:59:59No.
01:00:01I'm here because I don't want the money you paid to be a waste.
01:00:08That's the only reason why you came.
01:00:20Why don't you just wait a couple days?
01:00:27Just a couple days.
01:00:29We can make this work for a couple days.
01:00:32Daniel, I need a couple days.
01:00:34To do what?
01:00:35Just to get my head together.
01:00:37And then we call your uncle.
01:00:42I need a couple days because I have to come cling to Daniel
01:00:45about the rest of everything before he goes to his uncle.
01:00:49But he's already so angry with me.
01:00:52How am I going to get through it?
01:00:55I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever
01:00:58once he finds out.
01:01:00I need a day or two.
01:01:02That's all I'm asking for.
01:01:04I want to have a day or two with you.
01:01:07Finally.
01:01:13This is what never ends.
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:17Is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
01:01:24Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:01:27You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter.
01:01:29You don't want a bitchy wife.
01:01:31Don't be a asshole.
01:01:36All right.
01:02:00Let's go.
01:02:01We'll talk to you later.
01:02:02I'm so sorry.
01:02:03Let's go.
01:02:16what's wrong really yeah really you don't help me with anything like this laundry and this
01:02:26this one never ends why do you do this what the
01:02:34it's been nice having Javon in my house but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our
01:02:42long-distance relationship on top of that now that Javon and I are living together in one house
01:02:50slowly a baby I get to see how he is
01:02:58he's very messy and I just put the clothes and the towels everywhere I feel like I have a toddler
01:03:07and I always have to pick up stuff from male to male is your mom always just bossy
01:03:15what I heard we just haven't got time I heard that no me too loves me yeah well I love
01:03:24you too
01:03:25Nana I mean doesn't mean that you're not bossy what's wrong with telling your husband to pick up
01:03:30their socks there's nothing wrong with that Anna it's how you're delivering Anna what do you want
01:03:36from me instead of coming in the room say Javon pick up your stuff you know you can just say
01:03:43boo if you don't mind could you just pick up your stuff
01:03:48Javon yeah no matter how much I put it if you really would like to pick up that socks you
01:03:53would
01:03:53have see you don't see that I do actually you do but you don't do it
01:03:59no and like every time I talk to you you leave the room
01:04:18we all we do is talk that's all we do all right well I'm gonna try a little action today
01:04:25would you like to go get our like a manicure like our feet done
01:04:33well you definitely need a pedicure okay
01:04:47I feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet
01:04:51damn how bad do you think my feet is Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough
01:04:59but it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot still you thought it'd be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for Anna to show her you know what I appreciate what you do
01:05:14I just hope that she sees that I'm making a real effort here
01:05:19mmm so it's like Barbie threw up in here
01:05:24suits you so well look at you yeah sitting like a queen it's all pink I like it I know
01:05:32you did
01:05:36there you go yeah yeah see I told you
01:05:44it just feels weird oh that's nice
01:05:49oh my god boo that's a lot
01:05:52you doing okay over there
01:05:56I'm so tired
01:06:02is this being romantic
01:06:05yeah did I pass the test today
01:06:07kind of yeah
01:06:08thank you some cool points
01:06:10I like that
01:06:13you still have to be nicer to me though
01:06:16and I'll do more nice things
01:06:19like if I leave like underwear or sops on the floor
01:06:24you know will you be nice
01:06:28no
01:06:28no
01:06:29I mean you can be nice to me but not by not dropping them on the floor
01:06:38I know but Anna you know you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and you know more patient
01:06:44with me
01:06:45you know what I think it is it's just I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere and you
01:06:49got comfortable
01:06:53being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like okay well I got this person
01:06:59I don't have to try anymore you know he's always going to be there no matter what
01:07:06don't ever get too comfortable ever
01:07:13I don't understand where did this come from do you get it from those videos that you've been watching
01:07:21about masculinity and other things
01:07:24no that's my that's that's that's all my idea I take full credit for that
01:07:32it's just odd because I feel like over the couple of years watching all these
01:07:38videos you've changed and
01:07:41I love who you are
01:07:43but Anna this is who I was when you first met me
01:07:46no you're not
01:07:47you were not that prideful before
01:07:50I feel like your idea of being a husband changed
01:07:55you see it's like a power
01:07:57I don't have any that's the problem like I feel like
01:08:00that's probably you need to feel powerful
01:08:02no
01:08:02and you're not
01:08:03I feel like I have all the responsibility with no authority
01:08:07because when I tell you to do something you don't listen to me so what are you talking about
01:08:13you want traditional roles when it when it applies to you I always have to take care of
01:08:19everything financially so as your husband I feel like having to say is nice you know it just means
01:08:26you just respectful
01:08:30ah just done with this conversation
01:08:37why did you bring me here
01:08:40well I wanted you to have a good time
01:08:42yes
01:08:43but if you were going to
01:08:44do I look like I'm having a good time
01:08:45but you set me up
01:08:46you were asking me questions and I just answered them honestly
01:08:51you ever heard the term you know you don't want to hear the answers so cease from asking dumbass questions
01:08:57you ever think about that
01:08:58and you don't want a bitchy wife don't be a asshole
01:09:04I can just sit here and get my feet done
01:09:06like I don't have to
01:09:09then let's just stay here okay don't come home
01:09:11you need to calm down
01:09:17I don't want to see you ever again
01:09:22don't come home
01:09:23ever
01:09:26jerk
01:09:29you're disgusting
01:09:33hey I will see you soon
01:09:35all right
01:09:36I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey
01:09:41he said to tell you hi
01:09:43I'm not saying hi
01:09:47you want to open it
01:09:49hey
01:09:50hi friend
01:09:51oh my god
01:10:12I have a phone call
01:10:20hello
01:10:22hey good morning
01:10:24good morning how are you
01:10:28are you doing well
01:10:30oh
01:10:30my hotel won't be ready until like 2 o'clock
01:10:34uh
01:10:35is there any chance I can point in my
01:10:37say hello
01:10:40it's totally fine with me
01:10:42I mean
01:10:42I was just gonna say I pin-drop you my location
01:10:46I will see you soon
01:10:50I wish for walking your direction
01:10:51all right
01:10:52be careful
01:10:55thanks
01:10:55bye bye
01:10:56bye
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here
01:11:09now that this is real and he actually showed up in Turkey
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself
01:11:18I'm incredibly nervous and feel like I'm about to die
01:11:27hey
01:11:29hey
01:11:30that was Michael
01:11:32what is he saying
01:11:35he said to tell you hi
01:11:37what
01:11:40why
01:11:41because
01:11:42I'm not saying hi
01:11:43well
01:11:46he's gonna be here
01:11:48at this apartment
01:11:50this apartment
01:11:51and about
01:11:52Turkey is okay but this apartment
01:11:5510 minutes
01:12:01I cannot believe
01:12:03that Michael is actually
01:12:05here in Turkey
01:12:06he dropped everything
01:12:08to get on a plane for me
01:12:10I mean it does feel pretty good
01:12:12that someone cares about me enough
01:12:14to do that
01:12:15but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated
01:12:22so you think this is normal
01:12:27well
01:12:29I think he's just concerned about me
01:12:33yeah
01:12:34sure
01:12:37that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:12:40yeah I believe him
01:12:42he's such a good heart
01:12:50I'm not five years old
01:12:51I don't eat that
01:12:55your friend is trying to
01:12:57this connection
01:12:58and you're like
01:12:59yay
01:13:01okay
01:13:03it's like I don't get it
01:13:06I never wanted him to come
01:13:08and I still don't want him to come
01:13:10I think he's coming in Turkey
01:13:14to mix up Laura's mind
01:13:16maybe talk some about me
01:13:18give Laura more doubts
01:13:22but if our relationship is gonna end
01:13:26because of Michael
01:13:28I don't blame Michael
01:13:30I will blame Laura
01:13:37you want to open it
01:13:39yeah I do actually
01:13:41thank you
01:13:47hey
01:13:48hi friend
01:13:49oh my god
01:13:51I cannot believe you're in Turkey
01:13:53is it safe to come in
01:13:55yes
01:13:55oh my god
01:13:57wild
01:13:57oh my god
01:13:59you're making a palace here
01:14:06I cannot believe you're in Turkey
01:14:09I know
01:14:09this is amazing
01:14:11it's the most spontaneous thing I've ever done in my life
01:14:13and I do it for you
01:14:15I do it for you
01:14:18so
01:14:19oh my god
01:14:21absolutely
01:14:22oh wow
01:14:23yeah this is fantastic right
01:14:25I hope my hotel room looks like this
01:14:27holy cow
01:14:28hi Michael
01:14:30nice to meet you finally
01:14:33I've heard so much about you
01:14:34yeah
01:14:35it probably hurt
01:14:38okay
01:14:45make yourself at home
01:14:46okay
01:14:47you want something to drink
01:14:49tea
01:14:50yeah anything like that
01:14:51okay
01:14:52just have a seat right here
01:14:53I don't know how it works
01:14:54do the women make tea here
01:14:56or do the boys do it
01:14:58boys
01:14:58the boys make the tea
01:15:00they call men
01:15:02if they are grown up
01:15:03oh okay
01:15:07um
01:15:08would you like anything
01:15:10nope
01:15:12I am perfect
01:15:13thank you
01:15:27so buddy
01:15:28what you watching
01:15:30Scarface
01:15:36you like American classic movies
01:15:38no
01:15:43I like mob stuff
01:15:45I enjoy pretty much violence
01:15:53do you like
01:15:55do I like this movie or
01:15:58violence
01:16:05golly
01:16:06I
01:16:07I'll be honest with you
01:16:08I don't know what to make of beer con
01:16:10I know I just kind of dropped it on him
01:16:11but
01:16:12he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:16:15if that's truly who he is
01:16:16then
01:16:17I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura
01:16:20my first impression of beer con
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:16:23than I think
01:16:23than beer con and she are
01:16:25so
01:16:26I want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:16:35I love you so much
01:16:37but
01:16:37stop telling me that
01:16:39stop
01:16:39which hurting some secrets
01:16:41all I can think about
01:16:43is how
01:16:44there is more to tell him
01:16:45and I have to get it said
01:16:47before he goes to his uncle
01:16:48it has to be tonight
01:16:50so I have more to tell you then
01:16:52more to tell me
01:17:01is this really how it ends
01:17:05can we go back to
01:17:07where it all began
01:17:10oh
01:17:11I really want for things
01:17:14is to go back to
01:17:17where you love me again
01:17:19good morning
01:17:25I'm gonna sleep
01:17:26you're going to sleep or I'll
01:17:28get me awake
01:17:28I'll try tonight
01:17:30I know
01:17:30I didn't mean to keep you awake
01:17:32I couldn't help it
01:17:33I was sad
01:17:33now you almost went in bed
01:17:35with tears
01:17:35Can I ever find another home?
01:18:05I have to tell Daniel my secret.
01:18:08And I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever.
01:18:10But Daniel held me all night.
01:18:12So I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful.
01:18:16Today is a new day.
01:18:18And I'm hoping that we can explore and have some fun together.
01:18:22Yes, hello.
01:18:22Where are we, Brandon?
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake.
01:18:25And I'd like to walk around and see what else there is.
01:18:28That's fine.
01:18:29All right, let's get dressed.
01:18:41Come on, let's go down towards the water.
01:18:46Oh, my gosh.
01:18:50This is a whole resort, and there's nobody here.
01:18:59It's not like it's pictures.
01:19:03It's pretty desolate, actually.
01:19:06And it's a bit run down.
01:19:10No.
01:19:13But maybe that it's desolate is going to help me with Daniel.
01:19:20Maybe it's a little bit more intimate for the two of us.
01:19:25Yeah, it's so big, the water.
01:19:30I don't know.
01:19:33Oh, look at this.
01:19:35This is neat.
01:19:36Let's have one.
01:19:38Two, please.
01:19:41I feel that things are going back to normal.
01:19:44Like, Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship.
01:19:48Oh, wow.
01:19:51Delicious.
01:19:52Let's go for a bike ride.
01:19:54Can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know.
01:19:57I will try.
01:19:59To me, I welcomed it.
01:20:01I want us to be together, because I love her.
01:20:07You know, it takes muscle to pull this.
01:20:09Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling,
01:20:12and I'm doing the steering.
01:20:13Pick up the pace.
01:20:15No, not that fast.
01:20:16Thank you, baby.
01:20:17Not that fast.
01:20:20Don't go so fast.
01:20:24I feel so light and so good in this moment with Daniel.
01:20:28He is having fun.
01:20:30And seeing the smile on his face as he's doing it,
01:20:33I really feel like we're reconnecting.
01:20:36Are you having fun?
01:20:38Yes, I am.
01:20:39See, this is exactly what we needed.
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself.
01:20:45But I can't, because all I can think about
01:20:47is how there is more to tell him.
01:20:50And I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
01:20:53It has to be tonight.
01:21:16It's a bonfire, honey, with dancers.
01:21:20I'm enjoying the sun.
01:21:24This is beautiful.
01:21:26Have a seat.
01:21:28Let's watch him.
01:21:29Let's enjoy it.
01:21:33It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:21:37It's beautiful.
01:21:40Woo!
01:21:42This is nice.
01:21:45Are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:21:50I'm enjoying spending time with you.
01:21:52This is what this few days is about.
01:21:54Do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit?
01:21:58Yeah.
01:21:59I really want us to reconnect.
01:22:01You know, I miss the way we used to be.
01:22:05But I'm trying to respect our tradition.
01:22:09We have to call my uncle.
01:22:11When I call him, I will beg on our behalf.
01:22:14I love you.
01:22:15I love you too.
01:22:16I want to make you...
01:22:19I want to, you know, love you forever.
01:22:22But stop telling me lies.
01:22:24Stop with hurting some secrets.
01:22:27Okay?
01:22:29I understand.
01:22:31Okay.
01:22:33So I have more to tell you then.
01:22:36More to tell me?
01:22:41What do you mean?
01:22:44So, like, in Nigeria, it's not legal for men to marry men or women to marry women, right?
01:22:52It's not legal?
01:22:53It's not, yeah.
01:22:54In America, it is.
01:22:56Yes.
01:22:56Yes, I've had all of that.
01:23:02So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
01:23:12And I've been with more than one woman.
01:23:17You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
01:23:25Because I'm...
01:23:30It's not...
01:23:31Don't...
01:23:32It's not as bad as...
01:23:33Don't come close to me!
01:23:39Next time on Before the 90 Days...
01:23:42Hey!
01:23:44Hi!
01:23:47Having female friends can be hard to juggle.
01:23:49But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:23:52Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:23:54Yeah.
01:23:54Yeah, I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:23:59No!
01:23:59Financial hold, big words.
01:24:01Are you jealous of me?
01:24:03And our relationship?
01:24:08We're officially on the jeepney.
01:24:11I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
01:24:14And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
01:24:18So, I have to be very clear here.
01:24:21If you file today for the K-1 visa, it will be denied.
01:24:31I just feel really hopeless because I'm putting in massive effort.
01:24:37And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
01:24:40I don't know how to move forward.
01:24:41I'm excited to see my family.
01:24:49Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:24:51Yeah, to see me.
01:24:53What about me?
01:24:54I don't know.
01:24:55I feel scared.
01:24:58My family won't accept Rick.
01:25:01When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
01:25:06Rick doesn't know what he's in for.
01:25:09They want babies.
01:25:20You have a lot of secrets.
01:25:23I have no more secrets.
01:25:24Shut your mouth.
01:25:25You don't have to.
01:25:25You have been bitten by a woman.
01:25:27Not even women.
01:25:28Women.
01:25:30Where they range?
01:25:34Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
01:25:37You know what?
01:25:38him.
01:25:40him.
01:25:43He's us.
01:25:44He's us.
01:25:45He's us.
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