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00:00:00Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:00:02Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry.
00:00:07This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:09I've been with women only.
00:00:10But Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:14I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago...
00:00:18And he was disgusted.
00:00:22He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:24I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:27He doesn't love you. That's not what love is.
00:00:30He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:32There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face.
00:00:36Then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:41We can't make more than hugs or kissing chicks.
00:00:45You said a couple weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women.
00:00:50And it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:00:53In person, it's making me question things.
00:01:00Oh, my goodness.
00:01:03It's been years to meet up with each other.
00:01:05And I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:08But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money.
00:01:12Oh, no, no.
00:01:15Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before.
00:01:21I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor.
00:01:31I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs.
00:01:34And what an impression that's going to be.
00:01:36I am nervous and I am excited and I'm scared to death because things can be different.
00:01:48What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:01:50I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:01:53I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:01:57Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time.
00:02:02And I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:06Daughter Faith brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could
00:02:11be scamming me and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:13But all I can think about is his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:17I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:02:21These are the wigs I am taking with me because they get ruined very fast.
00:02:27I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:02:30My plan is to put it on in the bathroom with my carry-on bag.
00:02:35Wearing a wig, it's a process and it's not fun.
00:02:39It sticks to your hair.
00:02:41It sticks to your skin sores.
00:02:43It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria.
00:02:46But it makes him so happy.
00:02:49I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:02:51My wig.
00:02:51So today, mom is going to Nigeria.
00:02:59I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:04She's horrible with directions.
00:03:05I am hopeful she gets in for it.
00:03:10But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:03:15Hi, Faith.
00:03:16I have some toast and coffee.
00:03:19Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:03:21That's the first thing I want.
00:03:22I know.
00:03:22All right, listen.
00:03:24Here's something really important.
00:03:26The certified letter, we have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:03:30That has to be done.
00:03:31Like immediately?
00:03:32Yes.
00:03:33Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper is on 29th.
00:03:36I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still married, but the divorce is there.
00:03:44And I want to show him the paper.
00:03:45Not only lied about the fact that, oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:03:50No, you've been married to women several times.
00:03:54Married.
00:03:57Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years,
00:04:01Daniel doesn't know that I am...
00:04:03He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me,
00:04:10and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:04:12My ex-wife and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:04:15We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:04:20If I didn't be able to trust that person...
00:04:22Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:04:26I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:04:32Just trust me.
00:04:33I'm just worried, ma.
00:04:34Don't worry.
00:04:35Don't worry.
00:04:36I got this.
00:04:37Let's get going.
00:04:38We need to get to...
00:04:39Do you have a flight to get to?
00:04:40I do have a flight.
00:04:42I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:04:48Buddy, before you're ready.
00:04:50I need to grab my phone.
00:04:52That's the last thing I need.
00:04:58Would I go against Faith's wishes?
00:05:00Yes.
00:05:03But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:05:11Jump with both feet in.
00:05:15I want to be with him.
00:05:17I want to be a part of him.
00:05:19I want to be his wife.
00:05:22So I don't know what I'll do.
00:05:25Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:05:27Yeah, I can do that.
00:05:28Woo, here we go.
00:05:36Here we go.
00:05:39Oh, 61.
00:05:42I got three.
00:05:43Oh, you've done good.
00:05:45Oh, 70.
00:05:47I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:05:52He lived up the street.
00:05:55My husband and I met in junior college.
00:05:57We loved to skate.
00:05:58So our first day.
00:06:00We went to a fair.
00:06:03And I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:06:09With anybody else.
00:06:11That was just, that was it.
00:06:15He said, I wanted you to have.
00:06:18And here it is.
00:06:19I'm done waiting.
00:06:26No more.
00:06:27Nothing more to once more.
00:06:30You got to feel it.
00:06:32You got to believe it.
00:06:35There's a whole.
00:06:36Big.
00:06:37Oh, what?
00:06:38Good afternoon.
00:06:41Lemonade.
00:06:42Oh, boy.
00:06:44My name is Siobhan.
00:06:48Who's winning?
00:06:48Who has a bingo?
00:06:49I've got several bingos.
00:06:52Oh, nice.
00:06:56You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:07:01They have no filters.
00:07:02And it's, we have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:07:08Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:07:10But it's just a low-paying job.
00:07:12I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:07:15American women, they want six-pack, six figures,
00:07:19six inches.
00:07:21And it's not me.
00:07:26That's good.
00:07:29We hear you.
00:07:30It's a trip way overdue.
00:07:32I'm going to see my wife.
00:07:35When was the last time you saw her?
00:07:37Uh, so, this would be actually our first meet.
00:07:46Oh, okay.
00:07:48Yeah.
00:07:50My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:07:52She's 38 years old, and she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:07:56It's a great day.
00:07:58It must be something, man.
00:08:00Yeah, it must be something.
00:08:03We connected online about five years ago.
00:08:06Two years.
00:08:08He said that?
00:08:10No, that's wrong.
00:08:12We have been in a relationship for six years, and...
00:08:15I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:08:23What to look at?
00:08:25Yummers.
00:08:26Even though we were on the other day, and he just made me feel like the happiest that
00:08:36I've ever been.
00:08:40Maybe a year after we in person, but when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:08:46There were flight restrictions.
00:08:50I was kind of feeling loose him, and then I was scrolling on social media, and I saw
00:08:56these couples getting married online.
00:09:00To enter the Philippine border, because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:09:09Marriages, I was just like, what the hell?
00:09:13I had doubts, of course, because I just had a lot of faith.
00:09:20When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with, you can't
00:09:23even actually put it into words.
00:09:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:09:26When you know, you know.
00:09:27All right.
00:09:29Place the rings on your fingers as a symbol of the love that you share and the commitment
00:09:33that you're making.
00:09:35How I envision, absolutely not.
00:09:37But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:09:40It is now my privilege to pronounce you lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:09:45Congratulations.
00:09:47I finally have my perfect wife.
00:09:50I just need to meet her in person.
00:09:53How could you go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:09:57The whole thing is very expensive, so, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:10:02So, that's...
00:10:03Over the years, me and Adeline have tried to meet up several times.
00:10:06But work and finances got in the way.
00:10:10And having a marriage on life, especially because Adeline has changed.
00:10:17When I first met Adeline, she was more patient.
00:10:21I'm like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:10:26I've always been feisty.
00:10:28She knows that.
00:10:30I like being told what to do.
00:10:31I don't like being controlled.
00:10:34After a period of time, I had to fight to actually speak, to be heard, getting along.
00:10:40I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:10:43But before I apply for that spousal visa and move Adeline to the U.S.
00:10:48to make sure I made the right choice.
00:10:52I'm going out there because I love her.
00:10:54I'm going to give it everything I got, but I'm the resolve.
00:10:59And if we can't, I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:11:06Oh, yeah.
00:11:08You're so handsome, always.
00:11:10I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:11:12I've been waiting seven years to be alone.
00:11:15But I'm kind of still nervous about what is a marriage.
00:11:19I don't like that we were fighting all that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:11:27What?
00:11:27What is this?
00:11:28What's happening?
00:11:33I don't.
00:11:49I wanted to get out for a bit this morning and clear my mind because my night with Emma
00:12:06was horrible.
00:12:08I want to be her husband.
00:12:09I hope things better today.
00:12:11I pictured my first morning and he would be, like, bringing me coffee in the morning and
00:12:20cuddling with me.
00:12:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:12:24We've actually just been completely separate last night.
00:12:28It's making me a little suspicious, but I'm trying not to just be in my head and overthink
00:12:34things.
00:12:34I want this to be fun and I want the positive.
00:12:37I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:12:41Hi.
00:12:42Good morning.
00:12:57Morning.
00:12:58How's your night?
00:13:00This is nice.
00:13:01Really?
00:13:02Yeah.
00:13:04Thanks, babe.
00:13:04She's adorable my favorite I don't like eggs but I'll eat it about yesterday
00:13:22what do you want to just stop for what I mean it wasn't really like a good start to my trip
00:13:28I don't like that we expected like my first night to go
00:13:32can you pour me some more tea please yeah oh you drink that all I love you yes I did want to say
00:13:40sorry to you I don't hear you I wanted to say sorry can you repeat I don't hear what you say
00:13:47I wanted to say sorry running away from your kiss and walking away from you when you were talking
00:13:56dramatic but I think it was just a long day for me because I was traveling for like 20 hours I know
00:14:03it's difficult and it was just like a lot going on there was like a lot there's something else I
00:14:07wanted to like talk to you about that like I didn't tell you yet
00:14:10what what is this what's happened
00:14:19I was just like upset the past couple like I've been there for five years
00:14:26yes and well I got fired I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm going to cry
00:14:35no no no you don't need this let's listen I just need to
00:14:42sorry no no it's uh I don't know what I'm going to do it's just a walk
00:14:54you don't have any like options right now it's difficult and it's hard but at the end there is a
00:15:15lot of jobs yeah we will find another one I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh we are together and
00:15:24everything will be good I think we definitely started this trip like on the wrong foot it was
00:15:31like a tornado but right now he's showing me that he cares but what's mean tornado like an earthquake
00:15:41like a like a natural disaster so like when I got off the plane what is an example my future hubby
00:15:52oh you know it's short for husband really yeah where's hubby uh one feet yeah exactly
00:16:11I can't believe the trees help is I'm probably gonna I can't believe how hard it is I'm gonna
00:16:23have a sunburn in about 10 seconds all right see you later Dave I just arrived in the Philippines
00:16:38with my panel of my dreams after seven years just being able to touch and hold her hand it was so
00:16:46amazing did a little more than hope yeah oh this is incredible yeah there's a lot to take in here
00:16:57if I could describe the Philippines in one word it'd be hectic it's got people
00:17:06oh man glad I'm not driving
00:17:09but it's got its own like charm to it look at that that's big
00:17:15they have converted old jeepneys from the world war ii who have been left with americans
00:17:20so they can for like taxis
00:17:23that's the condo we're gonna stay
00:17:26I wish I could stay at your place
00:17:29yeah
00:17:30sheena's parents own her apartment and parents said we had to pay for it if we did stay
00:17:36when sheena told me that it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their family
00:17:43to come stay at their house it's just absurd especially because we have been saving for the
00:17:49last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to it doesn't make sense but it's what my parents want
00:17:53it's their wishes I can't really go around that but I'm not paying them money
00:17:59all right we are here
00:18:02there you go mom that's it
00:18:07sheena is an extreme foodie and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed
00:18:16well that's the culture
00:18:18I'd like to open him up and see what he's about
00:18:20oh my goodness
00:18:20I can definitely smell him
00:18:22oh
00:18:23yeah you know
00:18:24yeah he's a little excited at the top don't go for that
00:18:27so sorry baby this is all I could get for you guys
00:18:32you can see that we have two bedrooms here
00:18:36the place is nice it's pretty but it could have been a little bit bigger
00:18:43it feels good
00:18:46it's your bag too here I'll throw these in here for you
00:18:49it's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents
00:18:52if me and sheena you know just don't hear us
00:18:55sheena
00:18:59what
00:19:00this feels more than
00:19:03oh you don't have to be I'm here with you
00:19:08oh I know I can see
00:19:09yeah you're so excited huh
00:19:11excuse me baby
00:19:14boom
00:19:16what is that
00:19:17this is something amazing
00:19:20and I want you
00:19:21wow what that's what's that thing
00:19:25I think it is a cloth
00:19:26that goes on your body
00:19:29it essentially
00:19:30oh that's nice
00:19:33I love the color
00:19:34oh yeah
00:19:35I guess guess what there's even more
00:19:38what you have
00:19:39oh wow
00:19:40I got you a pretty thong
00:19:42wow
00:19:43to be honest I feel quite nervous
00:19:47the horse makes me feel confident
00:19:50of my body
00:19:51this is another one for you
00:19:53in case you want to
00:19:55oh that's pretty
00:19:55that's cool
00:19:56that's beautiful
00:19:57you're so handsome always
00:20:05I'm gonna go brush my teeth
00:20:06everything went down
00:20:08you know when I was making like sexy talk with her
00:20:13I was really just trying to like
00:20:14put her to calm the mood
00:20:16I've been waiting seven years
00:20:19to be alone with sheena like this
00:20:21but to be honest I'm actually
00:20:24I'm kind of
00:20:24I mean I'm
00:20:27I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off
00:20:29but
00:20:29having sex with sheena
00:20:32I feel like mindset
00:20:34it's it's just a big deal
00:20:38I love you
00:20:39I love you
00:20:40do you want the lights on or off
00:20:41it's absolutely wild
00:20:48that I'm finally on the ground here
00:20:50and so I am nervous
00:20:53that beer con won't be as attracted to me in person
00:20:57oh my god
00:20:59here we go
00:20:59we are in the process of landing
00:21:03and I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich
00:21:06or beer con
00:21:07but I'm excited
00:21:08so this is the most to look good you know
00:21:19for our big meeting
00:21:22for first time
00:21:23everything has to go perfect
00:21:25so I will
00:21:27Laura is arriving tricky today
00:21:30and
00:21:31today might be
00:21:34first day of my rest of my life
00:21:36beer for us
00:21:37I never saw this big
00:21:40of place
00:21:41it just
00:21:43chills me
00:21:44staying with
00:21:46different friends
00:21:47sometimes Izmir
00:21:48sometimes Istanbul
00:21:50that's why
00:21:51Laura couldn't stay with me
00:21:53but it's gonna be nice
00:21:55because we have a lot of things to discuss face to face
00:21:59it's absolutely wild
00:22:09that I'm finally on the ground here
00:22:11out of this airport
00:22:13and leave all my luggage here
00:22:14oh my gosh
00:22:22she come early
00:22:24slightly cold
00:22:31that I am having a heart attack
00:22:33or I am excited
00:22:34yeah we will see
00:22:35I am unaware
00:22:39be a lot cuter than
00:22:40the hot mess
00:22:42that I'm currently wearing
00:22:43I'm really proud of the progress
00:22:46that I've made
00:22:47over the last four
00:22:48flaws and imperfections
00:22:50and so I am nervous
00:22:51that
00:22:52beer con
00:22:53won't be as attracted
00:22:55to me in person
00:22:56alright
00:22:58the woman I love is coming
00:23:04so I'm thrilled
00:23:06and go to America
00:23:07live together
00:23:09and get married
00:23:10but
00:23:12maybe she will hate me
00:23:14nobody knows
00:23:15this is it
00:23:17I can't believe I'm about to meet him
00:23:20I wasn't fine till you came
00:23:24oh my god
00:23:26here we go
00:23:27she lies in truth
00:23:31now the old
00:23:33how are you?
00:23:36good, how are you?
00:23:37I am good
00:23:38how was your doing?
00:23:40it was so long
00:23:41yeah I know
00:23:42yeah
00:23:42perfect
00:23:51right now
00:23:53yeah
00:23:53that's really sweet
00:23:54yeah it was
00:23:56I know
00:23:56I know
00:23:58yeah
00:23:58okay
00:24:01these bumps are a pain
00:24:03with suitcases
00:24:03he looks amazing
00:24:05exactly the aesthetic
00:24:07that I've been describing
00:24:08which is
00:24:09when you look at her
00:24:10what do you think?
00:24:11she's perfect
00:24:12I don't need to look at her
00:24:13I don't need
00:24:14because I feel it
00:24:15you know
00:24:16I'm complete
00:24:17so
00:24:17that was like the best flight
00:24:24I've ever taken
00:24:25yeah
00:24:26seriously
00:24:26yeah
00:24:28it's good to see you
00:24:41you too
00:24:42it's very awkward right now
00:24:48I really wasn't expecting that
00:24:54because you know me
00:24:54and then we sit on this train
00:24:56and it's like he doesn't know who I am
00:24:58and I don't know who he is
00:25:01I'm hoping that as time moves forward
00:25:10that this will turn around
00:25:12fine
00:25:12but right now
00:25:14something is off
00:25:15and it's freaking me out
00:25:17Anna called me like it were
00:25:24talking about
00:25:25your brother
00:25:26your brother
00:25:26I know that Anna is
00:25:281000% unhinged
00:25:30like
00:25:30kind of
00:25:30that woman
00:25:31who is the woman
00:25:36who is the woman
00:25:36this is nice
00:25:51really
00:25:52this is screaming
00:25:54I failed a pottery class
00:25:56but she doesn't like
00:25:57good purchases
00:26:07yeah I don't have a lot of faith
00:26:09in that shirt
00:26:10it'll be fine
00:26:12it's gonna be fine
00:26:13I'm flying to the Philippines
00:26:16in a couple of days
00:26:17to meet my wife
00:26:18for the first time
00:26:20in person
00:26:20I'm excited
00:26:22and I'm super nervous
00:26:24never been in the same room
00:26:26or even the same continent
00:26:27with each other
00:26:28so
00:26:30are you all packed up
00:26:32you ready
00:26:33I'm gonna be
00:26:34and you know
00:26:35me and Anna's relationship
00:26:36it's just been this
00:26:37spiraling
00:26:38like
00:26:38up and down
00:26:39loopy loop
00:26:40rollercoaster ride
00:26:41but when things are
00:26:42Anna's very funny
00:26:43yeah
00:26:44like Anna seems like
00:26:46she's a good time
00:26:47she's just a lot
00:26:49it's actually wild to me
00:26:53I do think they love each other
00:26:55but I don't know
00:26:56like
00:26:57I wouldn't just call this
00:26:58like a normal marriage
00:26:59this is
00:27:00you know like
00:27:02Anna
00:27:02actually called me
00:27:05you spoke to her?
00:27:08mmhmm
00:27:08I'm with customers
00:27:11and she's just
00:27:12you know
00:27:13talking about
00:27:14your brother
00:27:14your brother
00:27:15I don't know
00:27:15what to do with him
00:27:16rah rah
00:27:17rah rah
00:27:18yeah
00:27:19she was just
00:27:21talking about
00:27:21that woman
00:27:22uh
00:27:26yeah
00:27:27so who
00:27:28who is the woman
00:27:29so
00:27:35the woman
00:27:36is just
00:27:36that I've known
00:27:37for a long time
00:27:38we communicate
00:27:40so well
00:27:41and we can stay on the phone
00:27:43for hours
00:27:43I think because we're both
00:27:45I think because we're both having
00:27:45it's definitely more easy going
00:27:47and it's more positive
00:27:48so
00:27:52but what is it that
00:27:54that Anna's like
00:27:55what
00:27:55what is it
00:27:57because I feel like
00:27:57I'm missing something
00:27:58yeah I mean
00:28:01there used to be
00:28:02this
00:28:03but
00:28:04we're bad
00:28:05also
00:28:05that
00:28:06so
00:28:06so
00:28:07Javon
00:28:08that's not okay
00:28:09that is no good
00:28:10I know
00:28:11you know
00:28:12me and my friend
00:28:15we never officially dated
00:28:16but there was
00:28:17feelings for one another
00:28:19we lost touch
00:28:20for a while
00:28:21because
00:28:22I was going
00:28:23through a rough time
00:28:24in my marriage
00:28:25and I needed
00:28:26someone
00:28:27that knew me
00:28:28and that understood me
00:28:30I came out
00:28:31and told Annalyn
00:28:32I was talking
00:28:32to this other person
00:28:33I don't think
00:28:35it's a big deal
00:28:36but obviously she does
00:28:37because she's
00:28:38extremely pissed off
00:28:39and
00:28:39I'm not saying
00:28:40she don't have
00:28:41a valid reason
00:28:42to be upset
00:28:43but it's just
00:28:44completely platonic
00:28:46you know
00:28:47and
00:28:47she don't have
00:28:48I have
00:28:50but
00:28:51you know
00:28:51she
00:28:52she blocked me
00:28:53for real
00:28:56I'm like
00:28:58this is how
00:28:58this is why
00:28:59I had to go
00:29:00outside of
00:29:01our
00:29:02marriage
00:29:03to talk
00:29:04to somebody else
00:29:05about
00:29:05our marriage
00:29:06obviously
00:29:07Anna feels
00:29:08disrespected
00:29:09and I do
00:29:11get that
00:29:12I know that
00:29:12she's
00:29:131000% unhinged
00:29:15like
00:29:15I feel like
00:29:16he presses her buttons
00:29:17Javon just needs
00:29:18to say sorry
00:29:18and try and talk
00:29:20to her
00:29:20and if they don't
00:29:21know how to talk
00:29:22then they don't
00:29:22need to be married
00:29:23don't need to be
00:29:25in the middle
00:29:25of a fight
00:29:26I don't know
00:29:28what to do
00:29:29I don't know
00:29:30what to do
00:29:30seen things
00:29:34from your
00:29:35guys' bedroom
00:29:36last night
00:29:37did you guys
00:29:39do the old
00:29:40knockin'
00:29:41knockin'?
00:29:42you know
00:29:43now
00:29:44now you're
00:29:44kind of
00:29:45now you're
00:29:45kind of being
00:29:45really disrespectful
00:29:46hey guys
00:30:08we're gonna go
00:30:08down and have
00:30:09talk to you in a bit
00:30:11later
00:30:12mmm
00:30:15mmm
00:30:15mmm
00:30:17mmm
00:30:18mmm
00:30:18mmm
00:30:19mmm
00:30:19mmm
00:30:20mmm
00:30:20mmm
00:30:21mmm
00:30:22mmm
00:30:23mmm
00:30:24mmm
00:30:26mmm
00:30:27mmm
00:30:28mmm
00:30:29mmm
00:30:30mmm
00:30:32I arrived in the Philippines
00:30:33yesterday
00:30:33and
00:30:34the first night
00:30:35with the woman on my
00:30:36oh man you're strong
00:30:37there's a lot of
00:30:46new and fun things
00:30:48I'm finding out
00:30:48being with Sheena
00:30:49physically
00:30:50I found out
00:30:51there's a night Sheena
00:30:52what
00:30:53and she's kind of
00:30:54into being physical
00:30:56night Sheena
00:30:57you know
00:31:02just finally being able
00:31:03to pull
00:31:03felt awesome
00:31:04and
00:31:06I know that I talked
00:31:07of a big game
00:31:08last night about
00:31:09sex and everything
00:31:10like that
00:31:10but
00:31:11I
00:31:12wait
00:31:13you know
00:31:14till we know
00:31:14each other a bit more
00:31:15you know
00:31:16in person
00:31:16I understand
00:31:19my love
00:31:20there's me coming
00:31:22here to the Philippines
00:31:23and just having sex
00:31:24with Sheena
00:31:25straight up
00:31:25it's not what
00:31:27I want to do
00:31:28yeah I agree
00:31:29that
00:31:29I just want
00:31:30I was right
00:31:31I agree to them
00:31:32also probably
00:31:34when my mom's not around
00:31:35yeah
00:31:36we'll see you later
00:31:41I don't need a coat
00:31:43that's for sure
00:31:44ooh nice and cool
00:31:46in here
00:31:47so where exactly
00:31:55are we
00:31:55you're taking us again
00:31:57it's only one of the oldest
00:31:58Chinatown here
00:31:59in the whole world
00:32:01because Chinese people
00:32:03have been trading
00:32:04with the Filipinos
00:32:05before Spanish
00:32:06there's a lot of historical sites around
00:32:08and good foods
00:32:09I'm ready
00:32:10to eat it all
00:32:12so
00:32:15ask you guys
00:32:16I heard some
00:32:19interesting things
00:32:20you know
00:32:20coming for your
00:32:21from your guys' bedroom
00:32:23last night
00:32:24the little
00:32:24did you guys
00:32:26do the old
00:32:28nookin nookit
00:32:29no
00:32:32no
00:32:32no
00:32:33no
00:32:33so
00:32:34why
00:32:35why didn't you guys
00:32:37well
00:32:39just wasn't the right time
00:32:41or place to do that
00:32:42you guys can always come
00:32:44and talk to us
00:32:46if you have questions
00:32:47it's not an embarrassing
00:32:48subject to me
00:32:49it's
00:32:50interesting
00:32:50yep
00:32:51yep
00:32:52my parents
00:32:55are
00:32:56just
00:32:57it's a little too much
00:32:59it's a little bit
00:33:00a privacy
00:33:01between us
00:33:02you know
00:33:02I respect you guys
00:33:05for
00:33:05for waiting
00:33:06and there's nothing wrong
00:33:07with that
00:33:07there are
00:33:09other things
00:33:09the nookin nookit
00:33:11there's
00:33:12oral sex
00:33:13there's fondling
00:33:14now
00:33:16now you're kind of being
00:33:17really disrespectful here
00:33:18mama
00:33:18you know
00:33:21if we want to talk
00:33:22about sex with you
00:33:22we'll come up
00:33:23and ask about it
00:33:24okay
00:33:26I thought it was nice
00:33:30that he was defending
00:33:31her honor
00:33:32that's admirable
00:33:33but I was very shocked
00:33:36by her much
00:33:37well Forrest
00:33:39why is this a
00:33:40you know
00:33:40a total 180
00:33:41from our normal discussions
00:33:43where you're right in there
00:33:44using the same language
00:33:45the same
00:33:45drastic night and day
00:33:47I see where this is headed
00:33:49oh my god
00:33:50I miss this place
00:33:51still sat home
00:33:52let's not forget
00:33:56she was lying to him
00:33:57for years
00:33:58getting all of her money
00:33:59to her parents
00:34:00instead of saving
00:34:01for their future
00:34:02and I don't know
00:34:03if we need to get
00:34:04some answers
00:34:05I know
00:34:14I know everything
00:34:14about your life
00:34:15you don't know everything
00:34:17I really want to tell
00:34:19Zia
00:34:19about my last engagement
00:34:21because
00:34:21oh look at the mirrors
00:34:34wait I want to check my outfit
00:34:37here hold that
00:34:39I can see you
00:34:42can you see yourself
00:34:43I don't see you
00:34:44excited to go shopping
00:34:54it's always crowded
00:34:56yeah
00:34:57today I want to take Emma
00:35:00to old me
00:35:00you know
00:35:01I feel so bad
00:35:02because Emma
00:35:03she loves her job
00:35:05I want to make her
00:35:06oh look at those bags
00:35:09those are cute
00:35:11the market place
00:35:12in the middle
00:35:13they have
00:35:13a thousand stores there
00:35:15you can find
00:35:17anything you want
00:35:18oh look at these rugs
00:35:20those are nice
00:35:21yes
00:35:22oh wait there's bags
00:35:24let's go look at the
00:35:24oh this is so cute
00:35:28can you hold this
00:35:29I want to look at everything
00:35:30hey look for anything
00:35:31you want
00:35:32I think I like
00:35:33these little wallets
00:35:33I think I'm going to
00:35:35buy these three
00:35:35not you me
00:35:37you're going to get them
00:35:38yeah
00:35:39hey
00:35:40it's like my gift to you
00:35:42maybe
00:35:43is that okay
00:35:45yeah that's okay
00:35:45can I do that from now on
00:35:46yeah yeah yeah
00:35:47I'll just give you air kisses
00:35:48whenever I want to kiss you
00:35:49yeah
00:35:49Zia had offered to buy me things
00:35:54and buy gifts for me
00:35:55that was so romantic
00:35:56because that's never something
00:35:58I've had in the past
00:35:59okay
00:36:01where are you taking me babe
00:36:03this
00:36:04it's popular here
00:36:05in Marrakesh
00:36:06what is this
00:36:08what is that
00:36:11what's we called them in English
00:36:13snails
00:36:14snails
00:36:15I like don't want that
00:36:16really
00:36:16no
00:36:17it's like
00:36:18I literally would throw up
00:36:20it's so delicious
00:36:26that is the grossest thing
00:36:27I've ever seen
00:36:28and you just
00:36:29stuck it down
00:36:31for me
00:36:31it's delicious
00:36:32that's like really
00:36:36what you've ever tried
00:36:38like snails
00:36:39would be weird
00:36:39for you
00:36:40for me
00:36:41no
00:36:41so
00:36:42for me
00:36:42sushi for example
00:36:43I love sushi
00:36:44yeah
00:36:45patable
00:36:46thank you
00:36:54what can we do
00:36:55like while we're here
00:36:56did you like horses
00:36:57I love horses
00:36:59I think we have to choose
00:37:01this one
00:37:02I like the white one
00:37:03one
00:37:04one
00:37:05one
00:37:06oh my god
00:37:08this is so romantic
00:37:09this is like a romantic
00:37:12this is three kisses
00:37:18you kiss me
00:37:18today
00:37:19yeah me too
00:37:22it was big difference
00:37:24between this day
00:37:25and last day
00:37:25yesterday was like
00:37:29really hard for me
00:37:30it like brought up
00:37:30no I've like been
00:37:31lying to a lot
00:37:32like in my past
00:37:33like with past
00:37:34boyfriends
00:37:35so when
00:37:36when you kind of
00:37:37lied to me
00:37:37it was like a trigger
00:37:38for me
00:37:39past
00:37:40it's bad
00:37:41your bad experience
00:37:42care about my past
00:37:42no
00:37:43I know you right now
00:37:45not in past
00:37:45so
00:37:46yeah but don't you
00:37:47want to know
00:37:47about my life
00:37:47yeah
00:37:49I know
00:37:50I know everything
00:37:50about your life
00:37:51you don't know everything
00:37:52no I know everything
00:37:54I know your family
00:37:55I know
00:37:56where you live
00:37:57happened in my life
00:37:58that you don't know about
00:37:59like I thought
00:38:03we can live in past
00:38:05something past
00:38:06I want to be vulnerable
00:38:09I want to share
00:38:10you know details
00:38:11about who I am
00:38:11and my past
00:38:12and I really want
00:38:14to be able to
00:38:15tell the only way
00:38:16that we could move
00:38:17forward
00:38:17but for him
00:38:20to shut me down
00:38:21it does make me wonder
00:38:22if Zia just doesn't
00:38:24want to talk about
00:38:24the past
00:38:24or that he doesn't
00:38:25want to tell me
00:38:26since I've gotten to Morocco
00:38:31I've just felt really
00:38:33rejected by him
00:38:33about everything
00:38:34I need you to be able
00:38:42to look at us all along
00:38:43I was so fearful
00:38:46of my parents
00:38:47they would say
00:38:48bad things to me
00:38:48they would say
00:38:49bad things to other people
00:38:50and in effect now
00:38:52I need that direct answer
00:38:54as to why
00:38:55you continue
00:38:56to hide it
00:38:57hello Javon
00:39:16I'm leaving
00:39:24for the Philippines
00:39:25tomorrow
00:39:26to meet with my wife
00:39:27Anna
00:39:27for the
00:39:27we haven't spoken
00:39:28to each other
00:39:29in about a week
00:39:30my sister talked
00:39:32to Anna Lynn
00:39:33and she actually
00:39:34unblocked me
00:39:34but she's still
00:39:36really up
00:39:37the ones
00:39:37that had feelings
00:39:37for
00:39:38there's so much
00:39:40riding on this trip
00:39:41Anna being as angry
00:39:43it's just
00:39:44not good
00:39:45what's going on
00:39:46what's going on
00:39:48ask yourself
00:39:49what's going on
00:39:50Javon
00:39:50I mean
00:39:52you know
00:39:53Anna don't
00:39:54you
00:39:55told me yourself
00:39:58if we're going
00:39:59to be married
00:39:59we can't be
00:40:01keeping
00:40:01anyone special
00:40:03you're doing it
00:40:04and I'm not saying
00:40:08that you're cheating
00:40:09on me
00:40:09but it's like
00:40:10a baby step
00:40:11for any
00:40:12much over here
00:40:13by myself
00:40:14I'm dealing
00:40:15with your problems
00:40:16I'm dealing
00:40:16with my problems
00:40:17and sometimes
00:40:18I don't feel like
00:40:19I'm being
00:40:20emotionally supported
00:40:21but I was just
00:40:22a little bit desperate
00:40:23just to
00:40:24just to be
00:40:25understood
00:40:26and just heard
00:40:27to me
00:40:31you have siblings
00:40:33you have a dad
00:40:35you have a mom
00:40:36but
00:40:37in your big circle
00:40:38there's still not enough
00:40:39for me
00:40:40I mean
00:40:42but like
00:40:43who can afford
00:40:44therapy right now
00:40:45any accountability
00:40:49that
00:40:50you know
00:40:51she played a part
00:40:52in why I reached out
00:40:54to a friend
00:40:55I need to be able
00:40:57to rely on my wife
00:40:58even when I'm like
00:40:59at work
00:41:00and you're going
00:41:01through something
00:41:01I always try
00:41:02to be there
00:41:03for you
00:41:03emotionally
00:41:04you know
00:41:05when do you show up
00:41:08for me in that way
00:41:09oh god
00:41:10like
00:41:14hello
00:41:15I mean
00:41:15I have
00:41:16devoted
00:41:17invested
00:41:19so much
00:41:20love
00:41:20waiting
00:41:25for you
00:41:26for that
00:41:26love
00:41:26I don't know
00:41:29what is
00:41:30I know
00:41:36you've made
00:41:36you know
00:41:37some sacrifice
00:41:38by waiting
00:41:39for me
00:41:40for this long
00:41:41and
00:41:42I do apologize
00:41:43okay
00:41:46okay
00:41:48so you're gonna
00:41:50stop talking
00:41:51I can stop
00:41:53but
00:41:53can we at least
00:41:54work on
00:41:55our communication
00:41:56okay
00:41:58okay
00:42:00with Javon
00:42:02coming out
00:42:03to the Philippines
00:42:04I do feel like
00:42:06I could let go
00:42:07of some
00:42:08negative feelings
00:42:09about
00:42:09so he agreed
00:42:11that he's not
00:42:11gonna talk
00:42:12to that woman
00:42:13anymore
00:42:14do I believe it
00:42:15we'll definitely
00:42:20talk about this
00:42:22again
00:42:22in person
00:42:23do you think
00:42:25we can
00:42:25like move
00:42:26past it
00:42:27like
00:42:28baby
00:42:28wow look at this
00:42:44place
00:42:44this was a
00:42:45church
00:42:46here we got
00:42:48celebrations here
00:42:49dad
00:42:49what's this
00:42:50you guys
00:42:50yes
00:42:53dad's
00:42:55precision
00:42:55oh my goodness
00:42:58we call that
00:42:59fiesta
00:42:59oh yes
00:43:00that's a culture
00:43:01for Catholics
00:43:02here in my country
00:43:03goodness
00:43:03it's really cool
00:43:04look at this
00:43:05ah
00:43:06I decided to take
00:43:10Boris and his family
00:43:11the Chinatown
00:43:12because
00:43:12Chinese descent
00:43:14so I wanted to show
00:43:16how Chinese culture
00:43:17interbonded with
00:43:18Filipino culture
00:43:19smell that place
00:43:22that they make
00:43:23handmade noodles
00:43:24I eat that air
00:43:26hello
00:43:26oh
00:43:27yesterday
00:43:28I was quite a little
00:43:30nervous to meet
00:43:30okay thank you
00:43:31thank you
00:43:32there's been
00:43:33problem between me
00:43:35and Molly
00:43:35but I'm so glad
00:43:37that she happened
00:43:37to accept me
00:43:39this day here
00:43:40in the Philippines
00:43:41yum
00:43:43oh thank you
00:43:45slurps up
00:43:46soups up
00:43:46and slurps up
00:43:47huh
00:43:47yeah actually
00:43:48noodles
00:43:49though that's a good sign
00:43:50so no louder
00:43:50the best right
00:43:51yeah yes
00:43:52here I go
00:43:53yeah you are the king
00:43:56of slurps
00:43:57forest
00:43:57so good
00:43:58yeah
00:43:59well
00:44:00Sheena
00:44:01I wanted to
00:44:04to thank you
00:44:04for your apology
00:44:06yesterday
00:44:06um to me
00:44:07but I did
00:44:09I did want to
00:44:10ask you about
00:44:13a few things
00:44:14and I need you
00:44:17to be able
00:44:17to look me
00:44:18in the eye
00:44:18and I need you
00:44:19to be truthful
00:44:21with me
00:44:22100%
00:44:23about giving
00:44:26your parents
00:44:27the money
00:44:27this was supposed
00:44:30to be
00:44:30you saving up
00:44:32money so you
00:44:33could come
00:44:33to AmeriPlans
00:44:34all of these
00:44:35years
00:44:36and then for it
00:44:37to just find out
00:44:39now
00:44:40before we come
00:44:41here
00:44:42why have you
00:44:44lied to us
00:44:45all along
00:44:46I really owe
00:44:51you
00:44:51I hope you
00:44:52can listen
00:44:52to my situation
00:44:53the reason why
00:44:56that I happen
00:44:57to give my money
00:44:58to my parents
00:44:59is because
00:45:00we are obligated
00:45:02to help
00:45:03our parents
00:45:04around
00:45:04I mean
00:45:06I completely
00:45:06understand
00:45:07giving your parents
00:45:07money
00:45:08needing to help
00:45:09your family
00:45:09that's
00:45:09the issue
00:45:11with it
00:45:11is that
00:45:12you lied
00:45:14and the reason
00:45:19I was so scared
00:45:20because
00:45:21my parents
00:45:22my mom
00:45:23happened to
00:45:24guilt tripping me
00:45:26from time to time
00:45:27if I'm such a selfish
00:45:29person
00:45:29and it hurts me a lot
00:45:31okay
00:45:32if I'm asking you
00:45:33a direct question
00:45:34I need
00:45:35that direct answer
00:45:36an answer
00:45:37as to
00:45:38why
00:45:38you continue
00:45:40to hide it
00:45:41watching Sheena
00:45:45under my mom's
00:45:45pressure
00:45:46I'm wanting to
00:45:47step in
00:45:48and defend her
00:45:49and protect
00:45:49Sheena
00:45:50but at the same
00:45:51time
00:45:52I don't understand
00:45:53what fear
00:45:54she had
00:45:55I was so
00:45:55fearful
00:45:56of my parents
00:45:57they would say
00:45:58bad things to me
00:45:59they would say
00:45:59bad things
00:46:00to other people
00:46:01and it affects me
00:46:02emotionally
00:46:03mentally
00:46:03very bad
00:46:04no
00:46:04no
00:46:05Sheena
00:46:06I'm not
00:46:06asking you
00:46:07that
00:46:07I'm asking
00:46:08you why
00:46:09you did
00:46:10not
00:46:11tell
00:46:12I'm trying
00:46:25to have
00:46:26Sheena
00:46:26acknowledge
00:46:27actions
00:46:28that she did
00:46:29that weren't
00:46:30acceptable
00:46:31reason
00:46:31to give it
00:46:31all to her
00:46:32parents
00:46:32what's the
00:46:34motivation
00:46:34for hiding
00:46:35they gotta
00:46:36get answers
00:46:37oh my god
00:46:41this is really
00:46:42happening
00:46:42oh my god
00:46:45I can't believe
00:46:46I'm doing this
00:46:47I love
00:46:48this
00:46:48bicycle
00:46:49with a woman
00:46:50my jaw
00:46:52leg
00:46:53and walk
00:46:53how did you
00:46:54mm-hmm
00:46:56my one
00:46:56here
00:46:57here
00:46:57here
00:46:58here
00:46:59here
00:47:01here
00:47:02here
00:47:03here
00:47:06here
00:47:07awesome
00:47:08here we go
00:47:09yep
00:47:10here
00:47:11here goes
00:47:11everything
00:47:12thank you
00:47:17oh my gosh
00:47:19I'm finally
00:47:20on my way
00:47:21to meet
00:47:21the love
00:47:22of my life
00:47:22Daniel
00:47:23in Nigeria
00:47:23for the very
00:47:24first time
00:47:25I don't know
00:47:25mom
00:47:25what are you
00:47:26doing
00:47:26certainly
00:47:27not what
00:47:27I would
00:47:28be doing
00:47:28it still
00:47:31feels surreal
00:47:31to me
00:47:32that after
00:47:3221 years
00:47:33to meet
00:47:34a man
00:47:35and I
00:47:36love him
00:47:36I love
00:47:38him
00:47:38you're
00:47:39gonna see
00:47:39when I
00:47:40come home
00:47:40how excited
00:47:41and happy
00:47:41I am
00:47:42you're
00:47:42gonna see
00:47:42when not
00:47:43to be
00:47:43happy
00:47:43for me
00:47:44I just
00:47:45I don't
00:47:47want it
00:47:47to ruin
00:47:48your heart
00:47:49I'm gonna
00:47:52clean my
00:47:52pants
00:47:53oh god
00:47:54please
00:47:54don't
00:47:55here we
00:47:57go
00:47:57okay
00:47:59don't get
00:48:01married on
00:48:02the trip
00:48:02even when
00:48:02the divorce
00:48:03comes through
00:48:03yes
00:48:04and I
00:48:05would
00:48:05complain
00:48:05about
00:48:06everything
00:48:07it'll be
00:48:07a foundation
00:48:08and if
00:48:08you have
00:48:09questions
00:48:09I love
00:48:11you
00:48:11I love
00:48:12you too
00:48:12I'm gonna
00:48:13miss you
00:48:13so much
00:48:14stay safe
00:48:16oh god
00:48:17this is the world
00:48:19to another country
00:48:20to Nigeria
00:48:21Africa
00:48:22to be with a man
00:48:23I have never met before
00:48:25I can't believe
00:48:25I'm doing this
00:48:26oh my god
00:48:28oh my god
00:48:29oh my god
00:48:30oh my god
00:48:31I can't believe
00:48:31I'm doing this
00:48:32happy dance
00:48:34happy dance
00:48:35I am
00:48:37and who I am
00:48:38and that he will
00:48:39become my sixth
00:48:40and final spouse
00:48:42ain't no hope
00:48:45coming
00:48:45yeah
00:49:08no happy
00:49:09yeah
00:49:10no
00:49:10my name is
00:49:24Daniel
00:49:24I am
00:49:2539 years old
00:49:26I am a Christian
00:49:30from the
00:49:31traditions
00:49:31as an
00:49:32able man
00:49:33we love
00:49:33competition
00:49:34we work
00:49:35hard
00:49:35and
00:49:36we have
00:49:37to be
00:49:37honest
00:49:37I grew up
00:49:45very poor
00:49:46sometimes
00:49:46we eat
00:49:47once in a day
00:49:47because
00:49:48there's no food
00:49:49the best
00:49:49they can do
00:49:50and I am really
00:49:51close to my family
00:49:52but some years ago
00:49:54I lost my mom
00:49:55before she
00:49:57she died
00:49:57that a white woman
00:49:59protected her
00:49:59and I have to
00:50:01make sure that
00:50:01I get married
00:50:02to a white woman
00:50:03so I decided
00:50:04I will do it
00:50:05and that's how
00:50:06I found this
00:50:07burn it up
00:50:07time to burn
00:50:09Lisa is 52 years old
00:50:10she lives in Pennsylvania
00:50:12she's a beautiful woman
00:50:13she has
00:50:14she has what I want
00:50:18she don't hide anything
00:50:21she supports me financially
00:50:23she makes me
00:50:25I fell in love with her
00:50:26brother
00:50:28who will
00:50:32love
00:50:33I
00:50:35I
00:50:35I
00:50:36she
00:50:36she
00:50:37she
00:50:38I
00:50:38she
00:50:38I
00:50:39she
00:50:40she
00:50:40she
00:50:41she
00:50:43she
00:50:45she
00:50:48she
00:50:49she
00:50:51she
00:50:54I
00:50:55she
00:50:55In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult.
00:51:11I love this, but I am worried about some things.
00:51:16One, she viped.
00:51:18Two, she...
00:51:19And three, she was physical with a woman one time.
00:51:24This is the worst.
00:51:25We don't believe that same-sex exists in our culture.
00:51:35Anyone caught in the arts, we don't accept it here.
00:51:39She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
00:51:43But I'm nervous.
00:51:43She gave me her promise that she gave me her promise.
00:51:51She gave me her promise.
00:51:53She gave me her promise.
00:51:55She gave me her promise.
00:52:02When I meet her at the airport,
00:52:14I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
00:52:20If I marry her and if I should make her to America, this will change my life to good.
00:52:28They will.
00:52:28I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
00:52:39After all of this excitement and anticipation and buildup of coming to Turkey and meeting beer con, a little bit awkward.
00:53:07But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
00:53:12It just feels so right.
00:53:16Here you go.
00:53:18Oh, you want me to go first?
00:53:19Yeah, of course.
00:53:20Oh, you want me to go first?
00:53:21Okay.
00:53:22Oh, my God.
00:53:23This is huge.
00:53:24It's bigger than it looked in pictures.
00:53:27This is amazing.
00:53:29This kitchen is bigger than almost mine.
00:53:34Incredible.
00:53:35You like this?
00:53:36Oh, my God.
00:53:37I love this.
00:53:38I'm going to move here.
00:53:39You can see.
00:53:41Wow.
00:53:42This is amazing.
00:53:43I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
00:53:48Yeah.
00:53:49I know.
00:53:50It's worth it.
00:53:51Yeah, I know.
00:53:52It's worth it.
00:53:53Yeah, I know.
00:53:54So, how about you change and because?
00:53:58That sounds awesome.
00:53:59Let's do that.
00:54:00Let's do that.
00:54:01Okay.
00:54:02This is incredible.
00:54:03I would love to, like, live right there, like, with this view every day.
00:54:17Yeah.
00:54:18Yeah.
00:54:19Architecture is the art we live in.
00:54:25I love that.
00:54:27Yeah, I love it.
00:54:28Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things.
00:54:31And he has a way of taking things that are just very simple and create.
00:54:37It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
00:54:40When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's just the sunset.
00:54:47I guess we got to go this way.
00:54:49Go back this way?
00:54:50Yeah.
00:54:51I feel like a walking zombie right now.
00:54:53Actually, not you.
00:54:54The people.
00:54:56I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
00:55:00I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately.
00:55:04Ugh.
00:55:05How was your day?
00:55:07Yeah, it was good.
00:55:09I enjoyed it.
00:55:11How about you?
00:55:12Here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights.
00:55:17I'm exhausted, and I have got to get some sleep.
00:55:24OK.
00:55:26You want to go to bed?
00:55:28And I have no sleep.
00:55:33OK.
00:55:34So why don't you go some sleep, and I will watch some TV and enjoy.
00:55:40Good night.
00:55:41Have a nice night.
00:55:42All right, good night.
00:55:43Good night.
00:56:01Um, Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
00:56:06He landed to say, I saw you landed.
00:56:09And then he just kind of checked up on me.
00:56:12I said, everything's good.
00:56:15And then excited my dear.
00:56:17So I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
00:56:23But him just staying out there watching TV, it's just, I don't know, different, maybe,
00:56:32than what I was, like, magical moment.
00:56:36Just feels off.
00:56:37I don't know how to explain it.
00:56:38Just feels off.
00:56:39It is that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway
00:56:48around the world to meet.
00:56:51And I don't know.
00:56:52Maybe he's hiding something.
00:56:54Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:56:58But either way, it's funny.
00:57:07Thank you, Michael.
00:57:09It's been working.
00:57:14Does this story make any sense to you at all?
00:57:16I can't handle it anymore.
00:57:17Yeah.
00:57:18It doesn't make any sense to me.
00:57:19Forrest, does it make...
00:57:20You're acting all hostile?
00:57:21I'm not.
00:57:22Yeah, you are.
00:57:23Forrest.
00:57:24my family had been the one who had been influenced since i was a kid
00:57:33where they should be helping me around they kept always
00:57:37you have to speak you have to be strong and you got to speak
00:57:42clearly
00:57:44point blank you were giving your parents money why did you feel it was so necessary
00:57:55because i feel so scared give them money they would say bad things they say so many big things
00:58:09that i don't want to accept it story make any sense to you at all honestly when you try to look
00:58:17at it and without the tears and without the pieces aren't just lining up i'm sorry but they're not
00:58:25lining up very concerning because how do i even know that your feelings and plans are actually
00:58:37genuine it would have come to me and said mom i gotta get it on a freaking plane right now
00:58:44i gotta go over there and save her but it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared all that
00:58:49years and hiding horace does it make sense to you
00:58:54yeah i understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them you would try
00:59:06to do anything it's hard to say no to a parent especially when that still didn't answer the
00:59:12question it's hard for me to say no to you it's hard for me
00:59:15i believe sheena is not trying to lie or use things as excuses i think sheena honestly doesn't
00:59:25know she gets so overwhelmed all she can get is you know diary of the mouth
00:59:31sheena if i just sat there and watched her flounder obviously she knows she did wrong
00:59:41what's your goal here i think what we have to do is we need to get sheena away from her parents
00:59:51sheena i need we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward
01:00:01i'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents it is the only way to end this kind
01:00:09of problem yeah years and years ago we can sit there we can talk about the past and he said she
01:00:15said he could do that she cannot do that it's time to move forward now now
01:00:19i don't even want to talk about the parents anymore i don't want to talk about anything
01:00:25you're acting all hostile you're causing sheena a lot of stress you're causing me a lot of stress
01:00:32i tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into
01:00:36i now see that forrest is too deep he's just got the blurb
01:00:46now he sees us as the big bad bad nasties that attacked his poor sheena
01:00:52but still i really loves her and i will not stop trying to find out why she lied
01:01:01next time on before the 90 days
01:01:07i'm about to meet my wife for the first time this is so surreal
01:01:11come on something online and we're just excited to unpack the package
01:01:17before i came to turkey i did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon i have some like
01:01:27loose skin in places that i'm looking to have removed but i'm immediately regretting having
01:01:34fear calm come with me i will just show you some pictures
01:01:37i've been looking at your page
01:01:41every day you follow new girls just girls girls girls girls girls girls girls yeah
01:01:47i downloaded this owes you who people follow this morning i saw that he was still following
01:01:53thousands of women so since we've been dating have you talked romantically to any other had a
01:01:58discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents and how it's important that i meet them
01:02:03before mom and dad meet them i can't even imagine what her parents need to be there with with forrest
01:02:10sheena your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all now the story
01:02:17changes again i still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either
01:02:22i love him with everything i am but he doesn't know that i've been married five times
01:02:34what are you doing
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