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90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 8 - Please Remain Seated
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04We put it there?
00:00:06Oh, what?
00:00:09I may not be able to give you everything you want,
00:00:12but everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:00:15Do you think that I'm enough for you?
00:00:18Sure.
00:00:19That's what I need to feel, that I'm enough for her.
00:00:23I really do want this to work.
00:00:25You do love me.
00:00:26Of course, baby.
00:00:29I just want the world for your daughter,
00:00:31and I was hoping I could get your blessing to marry her.
00:00:36Well, Forrest, you have my blessing.
00:00:40I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
00:00:44I feel like Chena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
00:00:48Even though her family needs her help with money,
00:00:51what I've seen, the way they live,
00:00:54it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
00:00:58So I'm really worried that tomorrow,
00:01:00my mother is going to basically flip out.
00:01:05We had that argument, and you called my sister,
00:01:09and you were a little bit unhinged.
00:01:11I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:01:17I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful.
00:01:21Here we go again.
00:01:23I thought the reason we were fighting so much
00:01:26was because we were in a long-distance relationship,
00:01:29but we're still fighting.
00:01:31What does it say about our marriage?
00:01:38I don't trust Michael.
00:01:39I want you to cut him out of your life.
00:01:42He's just my friend,
00:01:44and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
00:01:47I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
00:01:54I am shocked that Birkon decides to walk out on me.
00:01:58It absolutely feels like a sight of him
00:02:00that I haven't seen yet, and I really don't like.
00:02:04Michael.
00:02:06The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:02:10If your uncle does not give you the blessing,
00:02:12does that mean that we are not getting married?
00:02:15That's it.
00:02:17I have to try to impress his uncle
00:02:18by what kind of questions are going to be asked.
00:02:21I'm worried I may have to reveal things
00:02:22that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:02:25I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:02:36I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:03:00Yesterday, I arrived at Sheena's family home
00:03:02in the province.
00:03:03And even though the family accepted me,
00:03:06what I've learned is just leaving me confused and bothered.
00:03:15First off, I believe that the entire time
00:03:17I was coming here to save Sheena from horrific evil monsters,
00:03:21and it turns out her family has this nice, beautiful home
00:03:25and are just normal, caring people.
00:03:28So last night, I tried to talk to Sheena.
00:03:31You have to be honest with me.
00:03:32You described your family as almost like terrible monsters
00:03:36that were stealing from you.
00:03:37Are they just, are they just, is this an act for me?
00:03:41No, they're not an act.
00:03:44They're great people.
00:03:45But they're not really great people
00:03:47if they're mistreating their daughter.
00:03:49You don't have to think anything about worry.
00:03:53They gave their blessings to you,
00:03:54even though it's the first meeting.
00:03:56So it's a good thing.
00:03:59Boom.
00:04:00I wish her answers were more, you know, answers and not more like dodging around.
00:04:07Now I'm left with more questions than what I started with.
00:04:12I feel like I know bits and pieces of the most important parts of the story,
00:04:17but there's still many other things that need to be uncovered.
00:04:20I do believe my mom is going to show up and she's going to see the nice place.
00:04:25She's going to see this, this, and she's going to say,
00:04:28why did you need a bunny in the first place?
00:04:30And she's going to express herself and say exactly what's on her mind.
00:04:34I'm kind of relieved that my mom is coming because she can get the third perspective
00:04:39and see what's really going on.
00:04:41Coffee time, Jonas.
00:04:42Get my coffee time.
00:04:43Sheena's family seems to be under the impression that she's going to financially support them
00:04:48going forward.
00:04:49So I still want to tell Sheena's family that we are cutting them off.
00:04:53And hopefully my mom and Dev can back me up and kind of just get past the big hurdle that is impending.
00:05:05That's a strong cup of joe right there.
00:05:12Okay, Sheen.
00:05:13They should be here any second.
00:05:14Okay.
00:05:15Come on, dude.
00:05:16Okay.
00:05:17Yeah.
00:05:18Yeah.
00:05:25Are you nervous, baby?
00:05:27Yeah, so nervous.
00:05:29I don't know what's going to happen today.
00:05:32I know Molly will bring up the finances and it's a conversation that we need to have.
00:05:38But Forrest wanted to impress my family, so he is kinder.
00:05:43I'm quite worried Molly would act not as nice.
00:05:48Oh, yes.
00:05:49Moment of truth.
00:05:54Oh.
00:05:55Oh, boy.
00:05:57Wow.
00:05:58Hey, guys.
00:05:59Wow.
00:06:00Hi, Mom.
00:06:01Hi, Deb.
00:06:02Mm-hmm.
00:06:03This is so beautiful here.
00:06:04Well, thank you.
00:06:05Wow.
00:06:06Wow.
00:06:07Right off the bat, alarm bells are going off in my head.
00:06:14My family is out right now.
00:06:18So come here, guys.
00:06:19I'll give you a tour.
00:06:20Here's the garden stuff.
00:06:21Man.
00:06:22Sheena's told me that her family runs this struggling bed and breakfast.
00:06:28So I'm expecting something kind of quaint and rough around the edges.
00:06:35We had different kinds of plants here.
00:06:37We have fruit-bearing trees, red palm, orchids.
00:06:40Huh.
00:06:41I don't know this plant, but this is very rare to have flowers.
00:06:45Oh.
00:06:46My first reaction, holy .
00:06:49Sheena, who did your grass?
00:06:52Actually, before when he got this place, it doesn't have anything.
00:06:57So you guys did all of this?
00:06:59Yes, from no scratch.
00:07:03Sheena's expecting me to believe that if they don't take her money, that they're going
00:07:08to starve.
00:07:09I mean, they're living better than Forrest and I back in the United States.
00:07:15This is not adding up at all.
00:07:20And this is the pool area.
00:07:22Oh.
00:07:23Then if it's around the night time, it would have different color, light color.
00:07:27Well, would you look at that.
00:07:30So when do I get to meet your family, Sheena?
00:07:33At dinner?
00:07:34Yes, Mom.
00:07:35Okay.
00:07:36I'm definitely going to tell Sheena's family every single thing that Sheena has told me,
00:07:43this whole story of the past seven years.
00:07:46And then I want to see how they react.
00:07:48I want to see if they're going to be shocked or if they're part of it or whatever.
00:07:54Yeah, thank you for giving me the grand tour.
00:07:57It's just beautiful.
00:07:58Yeah.
00:07:59Yeah.
00:08:00Tonight, I will get the truth for Sheena.
00:08:02I think I'm just going to go put my legs up for a bit until dinner.
00:08:06Okay, Mom.
00:08:19Is there upper?
00:08:21I wish I can tie it to my waist.
00:08:23You can.
00:08:24Show me.
00:08:25You have to spread your leg.
00:08:27You know, I don't have much waist, so...
00:08:29I know.
00:08:30You're tight.
00:08:31Okay.
00:08:32On the side?
00:08:33Yeah, on the side.
00:08:34I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:35You look beautiful.
00:08:36Oh, la, la.
00:08:37Oh, la, la.
00:08:48You have to flourish a little bit.
00:08:50On the first one, the inner one is shorter than the...
00:08:53The inner one is shorter?
00:08:54The outer one, yeah.
00:08:56Okay.
00:08:59It's okay.
00:09:01Okay.
00:09:02Beautiful.
00:09:03Beautiful.
00:09:04Look at me.
00:09:05He deserve a kiss.
00:09:06Mmm.
00:09:07Yeah.
00:09:08Daniel and I are going today to meet his uncle and get a blessing so we can get married.
00:09:14And...
00:09:15And I'm nervous.
00:09:16I don't know the traditions.
00:09:18I don't know the culture.
00:09:19And I don't know what his uncle is going to ask me.
00:09:22I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing and Daniel will blame me.
00:09:25You will be the one to hold the wine.
00:09:27Okay?
00:09:28When you kneel down there, you give me the wine.
00:09:30I will be the one to present it to my uncle.
00:09:32Okay?
00:09:33But I kneel with it first.
00:09:34Yes.
00:09:35I will be kneeling down with you.
00:09:38Okay?
00:09:39Good.
00:09:40You give it to me.
00:09:41Then I will hand it to my uncle.
00:09:43Okay?
00:09:44Okay?
00:09:45Lisa is from another country.
00:09:47She don't understand our culture.
00:09:49I have to instruct her on what to do so she doesn't prefer my uncle.
00:09:54Let's try.
00:09:56Sorry.
00:10:06Daniel wants me to have traditional attire to meet his uncle.
00:10:10And I'm expected to learn how to put it on myself.
00:10:13I think I'm going to look like a clown.
00:10:15I can't hear anything because the hair tie is like plastic and it's rattling in my ears.
00:10:20But he's telling me this is Igbo traditional attire and this is what I must wear.
00:10:25So this is going to be pretty interesting.
00:10:28Maybe my bangs should be back.
00:10:34I don't mean to laugh, honey.
00:10:35I just got you.
00:10:39All right.
00:10:40Let me try again.
00:10:41I guess.
00:10:46What are you doing, baby?
00:10:48It doesn't look too bad.
00:10:50Oh, my God.
00:10:51All right.
00:10:52Can you help me?
00:10:53But you were there when the woman was teaching you yesterday.
00:10:56I didn't have a mirror.
00:10:57Where was my mirror to watch her?
00:10:58I had my head and I was holding it.
00:11:01You must help me.
00:11:02You put on the tie, tango, all these things.
00:11:09I know them from when I was growing up.
00:11:11When my mom was alive, I used to see her when she started.
00:11:15And I remember.
00:11:17But I never knew that someday I would be the one to help my girlfriend to tie her up her.
00:11:22You have to make a crotch or it's going to fall off.
00:11:31You got this.
00:11:33Okay.
00:11:35Okay. How do I look?
00:11:36That's good. You look good.
00:11:37I'm nervous.
00:11:52Why are you nervous?
00:11:53Because I am.
00:11:54This is a big deal.
00:11:56I want to impress him.
00:11:57Impress my uncle?
00:11:58Yes.
00:11:59I want to give a good...
00:12:00I want to put my best foot forward.
00:12:05I'm scared less.
00:12:06And you're not telling me anything except to kneel in front of him.
00:12:09I don't know what he's going to ask me.
00:12:11I will do my best.
00:12:12My uncle will not ask you what you don't know.
00:12:14So don't lie to him.
00:12:15I know, but what you're considering a lie and what I consider a lie might be two different things.
00:12:19I'm from America.
00:12:20My culture is different than yours.
00:12:21Baby, lie is lie.
00:12:27I want to show him that I am willing to go above and beyond to be a good...
00:12:33Igbo wife.
00:12:39Igbo wife.
00:12:40Igbo wife.
00:12:41Igbo wife.
00:12:51Igbo wife.
00:12:52I want to make sure she's being honest.
00:12:55And I am worried that my uncle will not give us the blessing if she cannot explain herself.
00:13:00And I would have to walk away.
00:13:03she told me that she has changed for good but i want to make sure she's being honest and i i am
00:13:10worried that my uncle will not give us the blessing if she cannot explain herself and i
00:13:17will have to walk away remember what you promised me that you're not gonna talk to her again yeah
00:13:30i need you to show me that you give your promise i've been very concerned ever since he's been
00:13:37watching all this masculinity podcasts they really encourage cheating can i see your phone now
00:13:48so we're gonna go meet your friends i do not think this is an ideal time to meet memo and tuba
00:13:56but part of me really wants to ask them questions because there's a lot more i need to learn about
00:14:01beercon tell me something interesting about beercon
00:14:26i've been in the philippines for a couple of days now and me and natalyn are on our way overdue honeymoon
00:14:56it's a strange feeling to have all these firsts with me and my wife after three years of being
00:15:02married first time sleeping together first time eating together first time waking up beside each
00:15:08other together and then we had our first in-person fight so right now it seems like i'm in the doghouse
00:15:17okay she made her side of the bed and uh
00:15:29last night things got a little bit tense because i told anna not to call my sister and vent about our
00:15:36issues in our marriage last night during our couples massage i am trying so hard to show him a good time
00:15:46trying to be romantic but he's always trying to find ways to criticize me
00:15:52i would rather anna come to me about our issues in our marriage why can't i reach out to his sister
00:16:00she's my family too so why can't i confide to her when he can confide to any
00:16:06bitch
00:16:07what are you gonna brush your teeth or are you just gonna look at me
00:16:17i mean anna are we gonna talk talk about what i mean about last night i mean
00:16:23i apologize for you know bringing that up at the wrong time
00:16:30i want to enjoy the trip okay can we do that
00:16:38okay
00:16:41all right we're good okay i hope it's all right i'm happy that he apologized but that doesn't mean
00:16:50all is good last night it wasn't just really about him criticizing me it's way deeper than that it's
00:17:03about him doing things that's giving me trust issues now that i'm in person with my husband
00:17:12there are things that i question about him i noticed that it's beautiful out today yeah
00:17:19you want to head to the beach yes okay
00:17:28but i don't want to waste this moment especially this is the last day of our honeymoon
00:17:37what's going on over there uh kayaking yeah and this one is like a bicycle yeah
00:17:43yeah we definitely this one is so cool we definitely gonna do these are we interested
00:17:48in renting this yeah you can do it okay have you been one of this before no
00:17:54are you excited are you excited i'm excited all right
00:18:00woohoo bye-bye
00:18:03go on out this way
00:18:05oh it's so fun yeah
00:18:07i just love this just remember this moment
00:18:21it's just so long you're like a stork it's pedaling right yeah
00:18:28the aqua bike is a little bit uncomfortable because i'm so tall i couldn't you have long legs
00:18:33yeah it's difficult yeah they're not built for people over six foot maybe jet skis next time
00:18:46um thank you oh my god that was so fun cheers cheers
00:18:59oh it's pretty good
00:19:09so you know this is the last day of our honeymoon
00:19:12honeymoon so we're about to go back home really soon and you're gonna meet my mom
00:19:19but there's something i want to talk about okay you know what we
00:19:26argue about last night that was about my sister yeah also because you remind me why i did what i did
00:19:36because you talk to this person i don't want you to
00:19:38i need to make sure that you keep your promise
00:19:47remember what you promised me when you were on the phone before you came down here that you're not
00:19:54gonna talk to her again yeah but i need you to show me that you keep your promise okay so can i see your
00:20:04phone now
00:20:12okay
00:20:15i know that checking juvonne's phone is bad i wish i don't have to do that but having an online marriage
00:20:22we are not together physically for me to know what is really doing
00:20:27i have been very concerned ever since she's been watching all this masculinity podcast because they
00:20:36really encourage cheating
00:20:41you okay yeah are you nervous
00:20:44they really say that if he cheats it's okay as long as he provides
00:20:53it really scares me a little bit so for my peace of mind i need to be totally sure that there's nothing
00:21:01going on
00:21:05wow
00:21:23just gonna leave me
00:21:24you're just gonna leave me in a hut in a village and you are making conversation about michael
00:21:31person i hate i don't care about michael you don't care about a lot do you
00:21:45beer con's plan for us today was to make evil eye beads and then go meet his friends memo and tuba
00:21:56but i'm just really unsure of everything right now after keeping some pretty big secrets from me
00:22:07beer con has a lot of balls to try to tell me who i can and can't be friends with
00:22:13i i knew that beer con had a lot of issues with my relationship with michael but
00:22:19to tell me he wants me to cut my best friend out of my life this is a whole new controlling
00:22:25side of him and it's really concerning to me you left me sitting in a hut alone because i don't like
00:22:35him actually i have nothing in common with him okay you both care about me you have that in common
00:22:42i think he's more than caring about you but you always said you trust me
00:22:49yeah you have to trust me on this because man knows man okay step back and see your relationship
00:23:00with him
00:23:01and so you think he has some sort of intention that's other than just being my friend yeah exactly
00:23:11i don't agree okay
00:23:14so we're gonna go meet your friends and i want to do that i would like for you to give me that same
00:23:24respect so could you at least at some point be open to meeting him or calling him
00:23:33you are pushing my will
00:23:37i'm not trying to push your will i'm trying to make you see the like the hypocrisy in it
00:23:44because otherwise it feels like you just get to determine who's important in our lives
00:23:49in our lives okay i don't want to talk about this discussion anymore so okay
00:23:55i do not think this is an ideal time to meet memo and tuba
00:24:04but part of me really wants to take the opportunity to meet them to ask them questions
00:24:10especially since the last few days have proven that there's a lot more i need to learn about beer con
00:24:18so this is my usual table maybe we should sit here okay you know everyone yeah i know
00:24:39it's so good to meet you
00:24:45i'm laura i'm tuba nice to meet you
00:24:50nice to meet you
00:24:53even though i am feeling bad about the argument i think this is the best time for memo and tuba
00:25:00meet laura because they're the best two people can teach her that i'm not a bad guy i'm just trying
00:25:09to protect the one i love i will translate you guys are gonna mix up and i'm gonna ask lots of
00:25:18questions about you okay yeah this sounds like a threat it's not a threat it's not a threat okay
00:25:27laura hakkında çok samimi ve cana yakın olduğunu düşünüyorum ben laura'nın yaşına oranla genç
00:25:34göründüğünü düşünüyorum how long have you known birka kaç yıldır beni tanıyorsunuz üç
00:25:41sene üç sene oldu three years three years birka'nın laura'yı gerçekten bir şeyler hissettiği için
00:25:48birlikte olmak istediğini düşünüyorum ve hala tam anlamında hani bir şeyleri laura tam anlamıyla
00:25:54anlatmamış olabilir bu da beni korkutuyor laura ile problemler çıkartması açısından thank you sir
00:26:03birka'nın hayatı
00:26:06ah şişe
00:26:08life of birka'n he said no this is my life actually
00:26:11oh
00:26:12this is actually what i do every day this is something for relaxing it's like medication
00:26:17i have my tea i have my şişe i will be fine
00:26:20while it's fun to see this side of birka'n hanging out with his friends it's also kind of eye-opening
00:26:28he knew everyone when we walked in he has a regular table and now i'm hearing that he comes
00:26:36here literally to smoke şişe every day i mean he just told me about this massive amount of debt that
00:26:43he has i feel like he should be doing something more productive with his time
00:26:48tell me something interesting about birkan
00:26:52birkan hakkında ilginç bir şey söylemeni istiyor
00:26:54that's the new translator here
00:26:56nice job
00:26:58insanlar buna ulaşamadığı için onu sert görüyorlar
00:27:04people can't reach the inside inner me you know that's why people think i'm tough and i'm angry 24 7
00:27:12people can't reach the inside inside i have a little cheese
00:27:20but i also like the dark parts and the protective
00:27:25nature it's a good combination
00:27:33birkanın bilinmeyen bir yanı var
00:27:40biren
00:27:46birer
00:27:48bak
00:27:49birer
00:27:50birer
00:27:51birer
00:27:54birer
00:27:56birer
00:27:58So this is the time to talk about it.
00:28:00I can't put a time frame on that.
00:28:03I'm 52 years old, getting up there in age,
00:28:06so I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:28:10What do you want?
00:28:15Ooh, my mouth is watering.
00:28:17Ooh!
00:28:19I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:28:22Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom,
00:28:24or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard,
00:28:26battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:28:27I want to talk about Sheena.
00:28:29There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:28:57Oh, baby, I love to see that smile on your face.
00:29:02The lemurs here are kind.
00:29:07You just bring banana, and you just give them,
00:29:10and you're playing with you.
00:29:12Sound like fun.
00:29:13Do lemurs make good pets?
00:29:15You know, like a cat or a dog.
00:29:17Oh, no, no.
00:29:18That's illegal with you.
00:29:19Oh, it's illegal.
00:29:20OK.
00:29:21Today we're taking a boat to Nosikumba to see some lemurs.
00:29:26This is something that I've been looking forward to,
00:29:28because I think that Madagascar is the only place
00:29:32that you can find lemurs.
00:29:34Here, huh?
00:29:35Also, for a long time, that's the only thing I knew about Madagascar,
00:29:39from the movie.
00:29:40So I'm really excited to see them in person.
00:29:44Oh, oh, oh.
00:30:00So cute!
00:30:01Look at the black one.
00:30:02There's three of them.
00:30:03So do they ever come down?
00:30:05Yeah.
00:30:06They run like this everywhere.
00:30:08And what do they eat?
00:30:10What do they eat?
00:30:12Whenever they see the fruits, like that,
00:30:14they eat all of it.
00:30:16Huh.
00:30:17These lemurs, they're cute and they're
00:30:19strange at the same time.
00:30:23To me, they act similar to monkeys,
00:30:25but they're not as human as monkeys are.
00:30:29They look like squirrel monkeys.
00:30:33Oh, look.
00:30:34There's one right next to us.
00:30:38Hey, man.
00:30:39What's that noise you're making, baby?
00:30:41That's their-
00:30:42Is that their language?
00:30:43I can't leave it.
00:30:45I sound more like a pig.
00:30:49You close your mouth and do it like that.
00:30:53Monkey, monkey, monkey.
00:30:54Is it monkey or what do you say?
00:30:56Maki.
00:30:56Maki.
00:30:57Maki, Maki.
00:30:58Maki, Maki.
00:30:59Yes.
00:31:00You see it?
00:31:01Oh, he's looking around.
00:31:02Let's get a picture.
00:31:04Come on, let's get one together.
00:31:09Man, the kids will love this.
00:31:11Yeah.
00:31:13My boys, I miss them.
00:31:16But it'll be worth it if I can bring a step mommy home.
00:31:20Yeah, I'll be there.
00:31:23I envision that we can have this family unit, just the four of us.
00:31:27You know that I love your kids, Ray, but I cannot just, you know, being a step mom, like, forever.
00:31:41I want to have my own.
00:31:44I mean, I love kids, but, like, right now, I'm not in a position to have another child.
00:31:53What's the issue?
00:31:57Well, there's...
00:32:00I know it's a hard time, but I know what it is.
00:32:03I know.
00:32:05I took care of my little brother and sister without any help, like, my dad going to work,
00:32:11and only them and me was in the house.
00:32:15And before, when I told you that I want my own kids, then you say,
00:32:20oh, uh, we should talk about it when you're coming here.
00:32:24So this is the time to talk about it.
00:32:28You should decide...
00:32:32you want what you don't want.
00:32:35I don't know, Trish, I'm not ready to make that decision right now.
00:32:43At this point in my life, I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:32:48I'm 52 years old, and I'm getting up there in age, so having another child is going to
00:32:55be, like, starting all over again, and it's hard enough as it is dealing with my two little ones.
00:33:05And I haven't even told her about what I did in Columbia.
00:33:11She might not even want a child with me after she finds that out.
00:33:18What do you want?
00:33:19I mean, I'm not totally closing the door on the idea of having a child.
00:33:25For how long you'll be, you'll decided, like, okay, now I want to have kids.
00:33:32I can't put a time frame on that.
00:33:34I wish he would stop making excuses and tell me what he really wants.
00:33:45I need to know, and it's very important, and not only for me, but for my family.
00:33:52In my culture, it's very important to have kids, and it's not a question.
00:34:01I'm going to take Rick to my hometown in a few days, and I'm worried.
00:34:08If he decided he does not want to have kids anymore, I'm not sure if I will be able to stay with him.
00:34:15I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:34:29She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would threaten her and mistreat her.
00:34:39You forced her.
00:34:41Do you shave it?
00:34:43I'm angry.
00:34:49My panic.
00:34:52I'm sorry.
00:34:53I've got it.
00:35:01I have turned off myself.
00:35:02I'm not���айki.
00:35:04No.
00:35:05I am sorry.
00:35:08I'm sorry.
00:35:11Wow.
00:35:14It's not very ripe.
00:35:16Hello.
00:35:17Hello.
00:35:18Hello.
00:35:19Mom, Dev.
00:35:20And this is my sister, Katrina, and my dad, Steve.
00:35:23Hello.
00:35:24Hello.
00:35:25This is my mom, Molly, and my dad, Dev.
00:35:27So very nice to meet you, sir.
00:35:29There's Dev.
00:35:30Hello.
00:35:31Good to meet you.
00:35:32Steve, Dev.
00:35:33Steve.
00:35:34Dev.
00:35:35Dev, yeah.
00:35:36Hi.
00:35:37I'm Molly.
00:35:38So very nice to meet you.
00:35:39It's a pleasure.
00:35:40Good to meet you.
00:35:41Good to meet you, Katrina.
00:35:42Hi, Forrest.
00:35:43Hey, Pops.
00:35:44How's it going?
00:35:45Yeah.
00:35:46So, Mom, we're just trying to show you on how we make jackboots.
00:35:49That is a knife.
00:35:50Yeah.
00:35:51Tonight, I'm worried about, you know, everything that's going to happen.
00:35:56Anyone want to try it?
00:35:57Oh, I sure do.
00:35:58Oh, thank you.
00:36:00I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:36:03Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom who loves and cares everybody?
00:36:06Or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard, battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:36:11Wanna go sit down for a while?
00:36:13Yeah.
00:36:14Oh, yeah.
00:36:15That'd be great.
00:36:16Yeah.
00:36:17At the same time, I'm starting to get kind of tired and overwhelmed with learning new
00:36:21things every single time about Ashina.
00:36:24So I'm hoping that we can get the truth all out on the table.
00:36:29Oh, look at that.
00:36:31So these are banana leaves.
00:36:33We use this as a boodle fight.
00:36:35Very traditional.
00:36:37This usually was practiced in the military when they went up the mountains.
00:36:42Yeah.
00:36:43So no plates, just the banana leaves.
00:36:44Yes.
00:36:45All the food.
00:36:46All natural stuff.
00:36:47Yes, it's wonderful.
00:36:50A boodle fight is like a traditional Filipino culture of everyone to eat in one whole dime leaf.
00:36:57So it's like this.
00:36:59They have to do like this in a line.
00:37:01Ah.
00:37:02I just thought Molly would really enjoy this because she's interested in learning about my culture,
00:37:08especially when it comes to food.
00:37:11Ooh, my mouth is watering.
00:37:13Ooh.
00:37:14I hope that the boodle fight is the only fight that would happen tonight.
00:37:20Next batch.
00:37:21Next batch, the whole thing?
00:37:22Seafood.
00:37:23Ooh, shrimp.
00:37:24Oh, my gosh.
00:37:25Those look delicious.
00:37:27Mussels.
00:37:28The big fish goes in the middle.
00:37:31Yes.
00:37:32My first impression of Sheena's family was they're hospitable.
00:37:35They're very welcoming.
00:37:38I mean, I've never quite seen a spread as nice as this.
00:37:42Usually make a rice ball, for instance.
00:37:45Just pick around then.
00:37:46Scoop it in your mouth.
00:37:47Shove it in your mouth.
00:37:48Shove it up.
00:37:49Shove it up.
00:37:50Shove it up.
00:37:51Shove it up.
00:37:52Mm.
00:37:53Mm.
00:37:54Mm.
00:37:55Mm.
00:37:56That be told, that does not line up at all from what I heard about them from Sheena.
00:38:02God, the flavors that just come through.
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06Mm.
00:38:07Mm.
00:38:08Mm-hmm.
00:38:09I was under the impression that they were these money-grubbing, cruel people that pretty
00:38:16much locked Sheena away and wouldn't let her out only to go to work and then to hand over
00:38:21her check.
00:38:22That's what I was led to believe.
00:38:25I just wanted to say this meal that you prepared is just incredible.
00:38:32I'm just so grateful.
00:38:34Mm-hmm.
00:38:35And you have created such a beautiful home, I must say.
00:38:40It must have been so expensive.
00:38:42But I was actually quite surprised to see how it really is.
00:38:51I expected something very different.
00:38:54But you guys made us feel very, very welcome and I appreciate that so much.
00:39:00So I wanted to ask, are you guys okay with Sheena moving to the United States?
00:39:07Actually, that is already her dream years ago, to work there in the U.S.
00:39:16Oh.
00:39:17Okay.
00:39:18That's interesting.
00:39:23Yes.
00:39:24But yesterday, Forrest made it clear that he's a little low on budget also and so I don't
00:39:33know what the situation is, you know?
00:39:36Actually, let's put Forrest's finances to the side and I want to talk about Sheena.
00:39:45There's been quite a bit of confusion and I had heard that you guys had been taking all
00:39:58of Sheena's earnings.
00:39:59And she told us that if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would threaten her
00:40:17her and be cruel to her and mistreat her.
00:40:24That you forced her.
00:40:26No?
00:40:27Did you say that?
00:40:28No?
00:40:29Did you say that?
00:40:30If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:40:35Dear Dan, don't you know your culture?
00:40:36I'm here to make sure that Pisa is a good woman.
00:40:40It is our tradition.
00:40:41You are not an Igbo woman.
00:40:42Tell me, do you drink?
00:40:43Do you smoke?
00:40:44Are you a practicing Christian?
00:40:45I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:40:52I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:41:05Wow.
00:41:26A lot of photos here.
00:41:39It's all Zoe's photo.
00:41:44My dog.
00:41:47I was ready to find something to prove that I can't trust him.
00:41:54Instead, I found a bunch of cute photos of his dog.
00:42:01And photos of me that I sent him.
00:42:04Actually, lots of photos of me.
00:42:07I'm realizing that maybe I should cut him some slack.
00:42:12But I guess I'm still learning how to trust him.
00:42:18Well, for now, I don't see any red flag, honestly.
00:42:23You know, I told you I was going to stop talking to that person.
00:42:30And I did.
00:42:33I mean, did you think I wasn't telling the truth?
00:42:36I think I never know.
00:42:39So.
00:42:40Well, now you know.
00:42:45It's a little bit offensive that she feel like she needs to look through my phone in order to feel comfortable.
00:42:51Anna's supposed to trust me regardless.
00:42:54She's actually supposed to trust me before, you know, we got married, you know.
00:43:01But at the same time, I watch a lot of relationship podcasts.
00:43:06And one of the hosts, he sometimes makes good points about a little paranoia is healthy.
00:43:13I mean, most women only act right when they feel like they could be replaced.
00:43:18So I'm not saying go out and cheat, but a little bit of paranoia, a little bit of fear is healthy.
00:43:27Are we good?
00:43:29I do want to trust you, but I'm not going to lie.
00:43:33I'm not still like 100%.
00:43:41Mm-hmm.
00:43:43And if you talk to her again, I'm going to break this phone.
00:43:48I don't care.
00:43:49I mean, Anna, just look at it this way.
00:43:54I mean, I passed all your tests.
00:43:56For now.
00:43:57OK, for now.
00:43:58For now.
00:43:59For now.
00:44:00Do you want to go through my luggage up in the rooms?
00:44:02Yes, I will.
00:44:03All right.
00:44:05Do you have extra phone?
00:44:07I'm just kidding.
00:44:08Not at all.
00:44:09I'm with you.
00:44:10I'm with you.
00:44:24As soon as I go in, do I kneel down before him?
00:44:37OK.
00:44:38Stop being nervous, OK?
00:44:39OK.
00:44:41I am in a very uncomfortable situation.
00:44:44I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know about me.
00:44:51He doesn't know that I'm still married.
00:44:54He has no idea I've only been with women for 21 years.
00:44:58And right now, I'm feeling scared because I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I don't
00:45:02want to tell him any of my secrets.
00:45:04I want us to have this blessing more than anything in the world.
00:45:08I want to be with Daniel.
00:45:10We're going to do this.
00:45:17If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:45:21Hey.
00:45:22Uncle, we're here as a...
00:45:38Come up.
00:45:39He's down there.
00:45:42I'm here to make sure that Frisa is a good woman before I give them the approval to go
00:46:12ahead and worry. It is our tradition. Stand up. Come on, have your seat.
00:46:23Come on.
00:46:34This is the wine.
00:46:42My good lady, how are you?
00:46:54Nervous, uncle. I'm very nervous today.
00:46:58You are not an Igbo woman. I want to know you more.
00:47:07I am a Native American. I am part Irish also. I come from a mother who gave me up for adoption
00:47:27at a very young age. I have a family that adopted me and they took very good care of me. I am
00:47:35a hard worker. I make sure I take care of my household. I make sure when Daniel needs money
00:47:40that I take care of his household.
00:47:45Are you a practicing Christian or Christian by name?
00:47:50I am a practicing Christian.
00:47:51I have not always been a very good Christian, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
00:47:59He makes me into a stronger Christian.
00:48:01Do you drink?
00:48:02I do drink very, not a lot, but I do drink some, yes.
00:48:11Do you smoke?
00:48:13I do not smoke. I do not smoke. I have smoked in the past. I have given it up.
00:48:19I do not smoke. I do not smoke. I do not smoke.
00:48:37Are you or were you a lesbian? Do you practice lesbianism?
00:48:40Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:48:44I do not want to make things bigger.
00:48:48Wait. What did she say?
00:49:07Aslında...
00:49:10Birka'nın bilinmeyen bir yanı var.
00:49:18I'll tell you what I'll tell you.
00:49:21I'll tell you what I'll tell you.
00:49:27What?
00:49:29I'll tell you what I'll tell you.
00:49:37Because I'm still in debt,
00:49:39we always have to try to find a new way to find money.
00:49:43When I'm not working and I can't find a job,
00:49:47the gambling comes in here.
00:49:50I gamble every day, every opportunity I have.
00:49:54It's what I do for a living.
00:49:57Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:50:02I don't want to make things bigger.
00:50:10But what?
00:50:17What's the difference?
00:50:19Birkan's a lack of weakness.
00:50:21Birkan's a small village, a small village.
00:50:24Birkan's a small village in the ceiling.
00:50:27He's a small village.
00:50:28He needs to discuss this issue.
00:50:32I don't like pressure, I hate it.
00:50:57Birkan, don't do that, Birkan, don't do this.
00:51:02I hate that.
00:51:04Good to know.
00:51:08This is really awkward because the three of them
00:51:11are just having this conversation in Turkish,
00:51:14and nobody is translating for me
00:51:17or filling in any of the gaps.
00:51:19This definitely feels kind of off and a little shady.
00:51:24I'm already feeling unsure.
00:51:26And now I definitely think it's possible
00:51:29that he's hiding something else
00:51:31that his friends know about,
00:51:33and for whatever reason, no one's telling me.
00:51:36And I don't like that.
00:51:39We're having a picnic. Is that the blanket we're laying on?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:53Your splash pad.
00:51:54I mean, it's kind of...
00:51:58That would have been better.
00:52:00The splash pad would have definitely been better.
00:52:02Is this where we're gonna eat?
00:52:03Yeah.
00:52:04Wow.
00:52:05Fried fish.
00:52:06They put some garlic and ginger and little salt.
00:52:08And that's what they're stirring in now?
00:52:09Yeah.
00:52:10With the ginger and the salt.
00:52:11Yeah.
00:52:12They mix it up like this.
00:52:13It makes me miss home because we are doing the same thing like this when we are home.
00:52:16Got some nice big ones in here, baby.
00:52:21Mm-hmm.
00:52:22So whatever you catch is on the menu.
00:52:24Yeah.
00:52:25So whatever you catch is on the menu.
00:52:26Yeah.
00:52:27Yeah.
00:52:28Yeah.
00:52:29Yeah.
00:52:30Yeah.
00:52:32This type of food is saying, you know, it's like this.
00:52:33It's like this.
00:52:34It's like this.
00:52:35It's like this.
00:52:36It's like this.
00:52:37It makes me miss home because we are doing the same thing like this when we are home.
00:52:43Got some nice big ones in here, baby.
00:52:46Mm-hmm.
00:52:47So whatever you catch is on the menu.
00:52:49Yeah.
00:52:50This type of food stands on the beach are very common in here.
00:53:04I love them since they have fresh seafood.
00:53:08This is how my family prepare food also.
00:53:11Lighting a fire and making a barbecue or frying something.
00:53:17So it's nice to have a reminder of home.
00:53:23You want to try?
00:53:24Try what?
00:53:25How to cook it.
00:53:26I don't know anything about it.
00:53:27You've never done that?
00:53:28Nah.
00:53:29I've never been fishing either.
00:53:31So I've never dealt with, you know, live fish.
00:53:34I'm going to teach you.
00:53:35And when you are in my hometown, you can do the same thing to impress my family like you know how to do it.
00:53:41I mean, that sounds like kind of a good idea.
00:53:43I'm nervous that Rick is going to meet my family.
00:53:49I hope they will love him.
00:53:51But the conversation we had earlier about kids is making me doubt that it's possible.
00:53:58And also, there are other things working against us that Rick doesn't know about.
00:54:06What's your problem, Rick?
00:54:19You don't even help.
00:54:20I mean, I'm old.
00:54:21I'm not used to being in this type of position for long periods of time.
00:54:25In my home, you will sit on the ground like this.
00:54:30I'm a city boy, baby.
00:54:32You're a village girl.
00:54:34You want to sit on a chair?
00:54:36If there's a chair available, yeah.
00:54:38That would be nice.
00:54:39What?
00:54:40You complain a lot.
00:54:42So what can I expect when I meet the family?
00:54:46They will ask you some questions.
00:54:49Who are you?
00:54:50What do you want from my daughter?
00:54:53What's your plan for her?
00:54:55Okay.
00:54:56I know that this is a big step.
00:54:59And I feel honored that you want to introduce me to your family.
00:55:07And when I'm about the same age as your dad, right?
00:55:10You're older than my dad.
00:55:13Older than your dad?
00:55:15Yeah.
00:55:16Fifty.
00:55:17But your father does know how old I am, right?
00:55:21Mm-hmm.
00:55:22You haven't told your dad my age?
00:55:25No.
00:55:30I didn't say that she already married twice.
00:55:34I didn't say that she have kids.
00:55:36Aw.
00:55:37Trish.
00:55:38My dad, he doesn't want a man older than me.
00:55:44And a man who have a lot of kids.
00:55:47And a man who already been married, divorced.
00:55:52So that's why I didn't tell my dad much about Rick.
00:55:57Otherwise, I think my father would just refuse to meet him.
00:56:01But blessing for my dad, it means a lot for me.
00:56:06So what's going to happen to us if your dad doesn't accept me?
00:56:13My dad would say, oh, you have to choose then between you and my dad.
00:56:19And if you don't have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:56:28It's really important to my family.
00:56:32I'm being put in such a disadvantage.
00:56:35She hasn't given her family any information about me.
00:56:39They don't know my age.
00:56:41They don't know that I've been married, have kids, nothing at all.
00:56:45I'm just getting thrown into the lion's den.
00:56:48They really want Trish to have a baby.
00:56:52And that's the part that I'm most worried about.
00:56:55Because at this point, I don't know if I'm ready to make that decision.
00:57:02I just want to go in there and be as open and honest as I can.
00:57:09And, you know, show them that I'm a good person, that I'm a loving father.
00:57:15And that I'm here for their daughter, and I'm going to treat her well
00:57:21and do the best that I can to make you happy.
00:57:25I mean, hopefully that's enough for him to accept me.
00:57:34I know that this trip is very important.
00:57:37I know that I need to meet her family, get to know them,
00:57:41and get to know more about Trish through her family.
00:57:44But I feel even worse about not telling Trish about spending time with my ex in Columbia.
00:57:54I have to tell Trish before we meet her family.
00:57:58And I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:58:07Welcome to the Alo Alo Bar.
00:58:09We have sweet potato and gulaman, some cheese and corn.
00:58:13I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
00:58:16Most Americans would find that very weird.
00:58:19This is just a very delicious dessert.
00:58:23It's not like an execution.
00:58:25There's Vianity.
00:58:28It's an aberration.
00:58:30And it is not in our blood.
00:58:32Uncle.
00:58:33She told me this was one time chain.
00:58:36Do you lie?
00:58:40Is she saying the truth?
00:58:42It's a nice night.
00:58:43Yep.
00:58:44You hear those waves?
00:58:57Yeah, I do.
00:58:58It seem like they're louder at night.
00:58:59Oh!
00:59:00My shoes.
00:59:01Did they break?
00:59:02They break.
00:59:03Oh, .
00:59:04Well, you can be my Trish Charming and carry me.
00:59:05In your dress?
00:59:06Like, oh, if you don't want to, that's fine.
00:59:07I mean, I want to, but it's like you're in a dress, though.
00:59:13What?
00:59:14What?
00:59:15What?
00:59:16You're the most unromantic guy I've ever met.
00:59:17Okay.
00:59:18It's like we've never been with a woman before.
00:59:19Tonight is the last night of our honeymoon, and I'm glad that we were able to work through
00:59:43some trust issues, because after this, we're going to Cavite, where Anna Lynn lives.
00:59:50And while I'm there, we're going to have our vow renewal with our family and friends, and hopefully that'll be good.
00:59:57Well, I can still walk with one straw, but it's just...
01:00:00You sure?
01:00:01Yeah.
01:00:02I'm not really unhappy that our honeymoon is ending, because I think the real test for us is day-to-day life.
01:00:09Are we able to live in the same space for long periods of time without trying to kill one another?
01:00:16You know, we'll see.
01:00:18Hey, say Halo-Halo.
01:00:21They have a Halo-Halo set up.
01:00:23Okay.
01:00:24Welcome to the Halo-Halo bar.
01:00:27We have the sweet potato and gulaman.
01:00:30We have purple yam and some cheese and corn.
01:00:34Okay.
01:00:36Halo-Halo is a popular Filipino dessert.
01:00:40Halo-Halo in English means mix-mix.
01:00:43So you have to mix all the ingredients together with the milk and ice.
01:00:50It doesn't count unless I put the cheese in it.
01:00:53No.
01:00:54Cheese and corn, okay?
01:00:55Okay.
01:00:56This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:01:03It's not like an execution.
01:01:05I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
01:01:11Most Americans will find that very weird.
01:01:14I'm not forcing you to do something you don't like.
01:01:18However, I wish you will be more open-minded that when I suggest something, you will try it at least once.
01:01:25Just once.
01:01:27I mean, I try almost anything just once, but cheese and corn and ice cream and jelly?
01:01:33Really?
01:01:35Yeah.
01:01:36But I'm willing to accept the challenge.
01:01:38Mm-hmm.
01:01:39Yeah.
01:01:40Mm-hmm.
01:01:41So cold.
01:01:42Is it?
01:01:43Mm-hmm.
01:01:44But you enjoying it, though.
01:01:45Enjoy it.
01:01:46Mm-hmm.
01:01:51So we just mix it, right?
01:01:52Mm-hmm.
01:01:53All right.
01:01:54Mm-hmm.
01:01:56Oh, my God.
01:01:58Do you realize this is our first halo-halo together?
01:02:02Yes.
01:02:03Really nice.
01:02:08I mean, Anna, there's a lot going on in here.
01:02:11Mm-hmm.
01:02:12But it is good, though.
01:02:14Excuse me, ma'am.
01:02:15I'm sorry.
01:02:16Do you need anything else?
01:02:17Ah, yeah.
01:02:18Can you please take a photo of us?
01:02:20Sure, ma'am.
01:02:21We're at a honeymoon.
01:02:23Okay.
01:02:24Is that okay?
01:02:25Yes, ma'am.
01:02:26And one, two, three.
01:02:30There you go, ma'am.
01:02:31Uh-huh.
01:02:33I hope you enjoy your halo-halo, ma'am, sir.
01:02:35Look at that.
01:02:36Yeah.
01:02:37Aw, yeah.
01:02:38That's a good photo.
01:02:41I don't think so, but okay.
01:02:44What's wrong?
01:02:47You know, the face that you're giving me,
01:02:50you look miserable.
01:02:52You know I don't mean to, though.
01:02:56But I don't believe.
01:02:57You don't believe?
01:02:58This is your thing.
01:03:00Whining and being unromantic.
01:03:03Uh-huh.
01:03:04I mean, how am I unromantic, though?
01:03:08Like the faces that I make?
01:03:09Yeah, and then, you know, how you say things.
01:03:13Okay.
01:03:18For example, on our second anniversary, I said,
01:03:22hey, boo, you know what it is?
01:03:24You're like, oh, yeah.
01:03:27And then you just move on.
01:03:29Oh.
01:03:30Like, wow.
01:03:31You forgot.
01:03:32I mean, I work 15 hours a day, so it's kind of a luxury
01:03:37that you can, you know, keep up with days like that
01:03:42because you're just sitting at home.
01:03:44I don't have that luxury.
01:03:46And I'm just so drained all the time.
01:03:49Some other people are working, too.
01:03:53But they don't do that.
01:03:54They still have time to be sweet to their wives.
01:03:59Well, I'm sorry.
01:04:01Maybe I'm just not a good husband.
01:04:12It's frustrating because, for me, this is love.
01:04:15I'm showing up.
01:04:16I'm providing.
01:04:17I mean, I thought that meant something.
01:04:20But Anna, seeing it through the female lens,
01:04:23she has this perception built up in her head
01:04:26that I have to be just over-the-top romance for her
01:04:29living in a fantasy.
01:04:30I don't know.
01:04:31My love language is physical touch
01:04:34and words of affirmation.
01:04:36I always make sure that my partner knows
01:04:38that I find him attractive.
01:04:41But just because you are supposed to provide and protect
01:04:46it doesn't mean you always have to have this machismo energy.
01:04:49Like, you can't show vulnerability.
01:04:51You're still a human being.
01:04:54I am afraid that Juban is never going to understand me and my needs.
01:04:59He hears me but he doesn't really listen.
01:05:02I just want you to have just more understanding
01:05:07because what I do is not easy.
01:05:08I mean, is that not romantic?
01:05:10Like, making sure your lights is on
01:05:13because, you know, you're at home and then I'm working.
01:05:17I'm getting tired of this.
01:05:18OK.
01:05:19Every time you do something for me, you throw it to mouthpiece.
01:05:24Because you have to remind me that you're the man.
01:05:27That's what man does.
01:05:29I'm not trying to, Anna.
01:05:31I'm just trying to get you to understand, like,
01:05:33what I do is just not easy.
01:05:35And I can't remember everything, you know?
01:05:38Anna, why are you so emotional?
01:05:47Something you will never understand if you don't have that.
01:05:54Well, I mean, I'm sorry, Anna.
01:05:57It seems like I can't do anything right around you, so.
01:06:00From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
01:06:03I will never miss any of my children.
01:06:13Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:06:15Sorry.
01:06:18Your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship
01:06:23and just, like, throwing it in the trash can.
01:06:25She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys,
01:06:41that you would mistreat her.
01:06:47No.
01:06:48Did you say that?
01:06:49She said that you guys mistreated her if you didn't give her the money.
01:06:58I don't know how to mistreat her.
01:07:00Well, that you, um, that you called her names
01:07:04and you threatened to throw her out and make her homeless.
01:07:09What?
01:07:10No.
01:07:11You know.
01:07:12That would have been...
01:07:14I will never mistreat any of my children.
01:07:17Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:07:21Sorry.
01:07:26Why do you feel like you have to lie all the time?
01:07:35I want to admit that I lie.
01:07:38It is absolutely insane that Sheena would lie about her family in the first place.
01:07:43It makes no sense.
01:07:44It makes no sense.
01:07:45And the hysterical theatrics aren't helping at all to clear everything.
01:07:49any of this up.
01:07:50you guys because you need all the help but every time that i want to save it's not even enough for
01:07:55me to get these i cannot save it yours is so hard for me it is absolutely insane that sheena would
01:08:05lie about her family in the first place it makes no sense and the hysterical theatrics aren't
01:08:12helping at all to clear any of this up i'm just disappointed that we got uh told that we were
01:08:20kind of abusing you i'm i just don't understand why she would tell us stories that she's given every
01:08:41penny to you guys and it's uh no she she gave it to us and it's all listed you know so when
01:08:50the time she needs it we can i don't know give it back to her really of course it's always alone
01:09:08sheena i'm really kind of surprised here i thought they were mistreating you and taking all your money
01:09:16and finding out that they were just borrowing it is a it's a way different story than everything
01:09:20you told me no i i'm sorry my family beat all my help thinking being bread better is hard for me
01:09:33and i don't want to lose you because of course you told me that they have to save money that you
01:09:40shouldn't give money to your family but now i'm feeling even worse because your lies are just taking our
01:09:49perfect happy relationship and just like throwing it in the trash can i haven't told you the right
01:09:55things because i'm worried that you might give up on me
01:09:58i don't approve of the stories and keeping everything hidden from everybody yes that's not
01:10:15something that was cool but for years you've been fighting for yourself and sort of unfortunately got
01:10:23all mixed up we knew that she was trying to save up for a visa but we didn't know how would she even
01:10:29acquire that she doesn't tell us what's the process we're not gonna guess it she wasn't really telling us
01:10:37the real truth you know maybe what's really happening sheen
01:10:43you need to make sure to say i'm never gonna lie to anybody again and i will be open with everybody
01:10:54to everyone i promise i would never lie again for what that whatever i said to you guys
01:11:03i regret for doing everything i'll do my best to be much more open up to you guys
01:11:08it hurts to find out that for the last seven years sheena had you know lied about everything
01:11:16with her family and the money situation i thought she had more more faith in me but i'm glad that
01:11:23everything is out of the open now and i hope that we can finally work towards our future
01:11:28i think i'm gonna jump in here pops let me understand here so you mentioned that you're borrowing the
01:11:39money right yes so you know how long would it take to provide you know if she asked for her money back
01:11:51you haven't given us uh asked us for a certain amount so we don't we don't know i'd say about maybe
01:11:57four thousand dollars we'll have to check the our finances
01:12:11i was surprised because if they plan to get married it's a guy who should provide for her
01:12:18we didn't expect she'll be asking us for that amount and no yeah
01:12:22not nagulat nga din ako nung unang sinabi niya na mention yun but kasi nungalingan regarding us
01:12:30it's uh painful for us uh first impressions molly and the stepfather
01:12:36maang ano no first impression all of us is separate ganun ka masama kagad no
01:12:43if if she came and said hey i can't keep you know giving you guys loan would you guys not be taking the loan
01:12:50i think uh if it's uh you know if it's feasible you know that that for us not getting any help
01:13:06why we would do that you know but i i just wish that she talked to us and explained it to us more
01:13:15see after all these years sheen we could have just came and did this instead of going and you know
01:13:23making stories putting things around about sorry i lied because i fear of losing him sheen you're
01:13:31going to lose me if you don't stop lying you got to be honest with us yes
01:13:36i'm very very sorry and i'm trying to strive my best to work hard for me to say that's all i wish
01:13:49i'm relieved that the truth is out but i'm afraid that forrest is taking everything he heard tonight
01:13:55at face value now it's just to the point where i gotta just say you need to think about
01:14:02what what's happening in this relationship that all she's doing is lying maybe someday she'll come
01:14:08down the road and tell us some other secret that we don't know that will tear the relationship apart
01:14:13i don't trust her as far as i could throw her but time will tell
01:14:17you practice the girl if she wants to live with my nephew she must abide by our culture
01:14:35there are things we don't practice in our place please tell me the truth
01:14:40i am so guilt-ridden i just want to be open and honest and see if he'll take me for who i am are you okay
01:14:56you practice the bianism
01:15:08dalia told me that lisa practice lesbianism in the past i know lesbianism the rampant in america
01:15:18here we don't do it at all if she wants to live with my nephew she must abide by our
01:15:27culture and tradition please my young lady don't be offended I'm not insulting you but there's
01:15:38anything it's an aberration and it is not in our blood there are things we don't practice in our
01:15:48place please tell me the truth what the is happening I am shocked by the question I don't know what to
01:16:04say about it my sexuality being called an aberration hurts me a lot I am who I am and I'm not ashamed of
01:16:14it at all and I just want to be honest and tell the truth but I'm struggling inside with what's
01:16:20right and what's not right and what I want to do and what I don't want to do it's it's an inner battle
01:16:24I have been with a woman before yes sir
01:16:30you don't practice it anymore no sir
01:16:44it was a fling it was one time
01:16:49do you lie
01:16:54I think everybody says a fib once in a while that doesn't make it right
01:17:02I have lied in the past but I am not a liar
01:17:06is she saying the truth
01:17:15tell me
01:17:17yes uncle she's telling the truth
01:17:20okay
01:17:23I am not a liar uncle
01:17:25okay
01:17:27what time we tell Daniel to monitor you
01:17:30you make sure
01:17:31you never do that again
01:17:33why does your uncle ask me if I partake in lesbianism
01:17:41why would he ask me that
01:17:42I told him that you have you have done it before
01:17:45but it was a mistake
01:17:47yeah
01:17:47you told him everything
01:17:49you told him everything
01:17:50that wasn't for you to tell anybody
01:17:52that was between us
01:17:53no no no no
01:17:54no no I have to
01:17:55you're wrong
01:17:56it's my uncle
01:17:56I don't care if it's the Pope of the Catholic Church
01:17:58you don't tell anybody
01:17:59I'm not insulting anybody
01:18:01I'm telling you you don't tell people certain things
01:18:04my uncle is like father to me
01:18:05so I have to discuss everything with him
01:18:07you don't even tell me what you've already spoken to your uncle about
01:18:10I ask
01:18:10I don't have to tell you
01:18:11I ask you what kind of questions he's going to ask me
01:18:13and you're like I don't know
01:18:14I don't know
01:18:15I don't have to tell you
01:18:17you don't want me to know
01:18:18but you want him to know everything
01:18:19oh my god
01:18:20yes
01:18:21oh my god
01:18:22are you okay
01:18:25yes uncle
01:18:27I don't have to tell my uncle
01:18:38they just said they can you talk about
01:18:40I know
01:18:40and I want you
01:18:41if I talk about your soul
01:18:45when you say God
01:18:46I don't care about your mother
01:18:49because
01:18:51I went home
01:18:53I'm sure
01:18:53not Caggy
01:18:54I can
01:18:55I below
01:18:56I've been hearing from you
01:19:22and I will give you guys my blessing thank you son
01:19:34I am thrilled I have the blessing but I feel guilty as all hell because he kept bringing up the fact
01:20:00are you a liar we do not lie we do not and and that's making me feel guilty because I am lying
01:20:07I want Daniel but I have the secret that I've been with women for the past 21 years I have
01:20:29the secret that I'm married still to a woman but it's 21 years it's not a mistake it's who I am
01:20:36and I'm so scared he's not going to understand that stop crying that is yours you are his
01:20:43I am so guilt-ridden because I love this man and I just want to be open and honest and get this
01:20:53over with and see if he'll take me for who I am but it's getting harder and harder as the time goes on
01:20:58next time on before the 90 days I get to be the princess and now in the castle
01:21:17now I'll always be a princess we're on this surprise romantic getaway but I'm honestly
01:21:23having mixed feelings about it I'm worried he's hiding more secrets can you tell me where your
01:21:29debt came from do you want the truth yeah when the call it hits I bankrupt I find another way to pay
01:21:39that debt do you realize everything you said about me since I got here has been negative
01:21:45it makes me feel like we're never gonna get married we're never gonna get engaged this whole trip was a
01:21:51waste of my time I'm just at my breaking point I deserve some answers am I the girl that you want
01:21:59to be with screwed on to the point where my wig is like bubblegum right now stuck to my head I have
01:22:07to take it off oh my god I've been keeping my way on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair I
01:22:15have no idea what he's gonna think but if he's gonna marry me he has to get used to it hey hey
01:22:22oh my god all I hear is like you're just constantly complaining about me all the time I mean you tell me I'm a downer you tell me I'm not romantic
01:22:39sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines and I don't know how to navigate around the landmines
01:22:47I mean Anna do you regret like marrying me
01:22:54baby there's something I've been keeping from you
01:22:57explain yourself
01:22:59in those five days when you weren't talking to me I decided to book a trip to Columbia and be with my ex
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