00:06Mga ka-RSP, kumusta po kayo?
00:08Dito sa Usapang Wow, talakayin natin ng mga paksa na may kaugnayan sa wellness and well-being.
00:13Particular na, ang mga usapin sa ating mental health.
00:16Makakasama natin ang multi-awarded life coach ng bayan na si Coach Mike.
00:19Magandang umaga, Coach Mike.
00:20Magandang umaga, Joshua.
00:22Sa ating mga ka-RSP, tuwing biyernes, it's all about life and wellness.
00:26It's all about wellness, Dagdagalaman, para sarili ay mas maalagaan.
00:29Ako po si Coach Mike Smith.
00:31Myths, nurturing relationships.
00:34Yan ang ating tatalakayin ngayong araw.
00:37Yes, Joshua, pag-usapan natin yan gamit ang wow kung agree or wow kung disagree tayo
00:43sa mga popular na myth or opinion or misconceptions sa may kaugnayan sa pag-nurture ng relationships.
00:50At kasama pa rin natin ng ating RSP Barkada at si Atty. Archibald
00:53kasama ang gino at binibining Bulacan para sumagot.
00:56Kung wow o aw.
01:00Yan, simulan natin sa myth number one.
01:03Mas makakabutin balikan ang totga o yung tinatawag na the one that got away.
01:11RSP Barkada, wow o aw.
01:13O di wow.
01:15No, no.
01:16Wow.
01:17Aw.
01:26Tignan natin pa yata siya, di ba?
01:29O sige, mga RSP, lumabas rin tayo ng ating himpilan at nagtanong sa ating kawaw na si Matthew.
01:36Kung ano ang kanyang sagot, narito.
01:40So, wow.
01:43Gusto mo balikan.
01:45Pero, siyempre, it's the one that got away.
01:48It's yung pinaka, hindi lang nagkatugman ng circumstance.
01:51So, yeah.
01:52I would like to get back with the one that got away.
01:57Ako, coach, conditional aw, tsaka wow.
02:00Kasi, yung asawa ko, siya yung one that got away.
02:04Ah.
02:04Ah.
02:06Okay.
02:06Kasi, so, ano yan eh.
02:07Depende eh.
02:08Kung baka kasi siya yung taong para sa'yo eh.
02:12Ganon.
02:13Sa ating RSP Barkada.
02:14Ay, hindi kasi galing si Josh.
02:16Naginig sila na rin before.
02:18Ah, ganon.
02:18Crush ko siya nung college.
02:20Yes.
02:21Ah.
02:23Code Mike pala.
02:24Sige, ako, conditional din.
02:26Now, ah, kung Totga siya at single ka naman at may unfinished business.
02:31Yun.
02:32Walang problema.
02:33Now, if you're committed already, please take note na kaya nga siya Totga.
02:38Kasi may reason kung bakit you ended up with the one you're with.
02:42Yun.
02:42So, dapat huwag natin overlook yun.
02:44Yun, tama.
02:45Ah, RSP Barkada, wow, wow, aw.
02:47Yung mga aw, kayo, kayo, kayo, kayo, kayo.
02:49Si Atorio.
02:50Aw.
02:52Bakit aw?
02:53Atorio, go.
02:54Atorio.
02:55Personally, hindi ko pa kasi na-experience.
02:58Ah, kayo, kayo, kayo.
02:59Wala akong Totga.
03:00Huwag naman sana, pero of course, I'm in a happy relationship for more than 10 years.
03:05So, I think, um, may joy.
03:07Ready sana.
03:08Sana, sana, aw.
03:10Sana, aw.
03:10Sana, aw.
03:10How do you know, Mr. and Ms. Bulacan?
03:13Ako kasi pag wala, wala na dapat.
03:15Ay, wow.
03:17Yes.
03:18Sin Mr. Bulacan?
03:19Ako kasi, ano, eh, single since birthday.
03:23So, wala tayo pa.
03:23Ay, talaga.
03:24Yan, mo ka RSP, ano, gina.
03:26Wala ba naman, eh.
03:27Ah?
03:27So, so weird.
03:30No, because mag-at-kanina pa, ang galing.
03:33Ah, ah, ah, ah.
03:35Ang galing.
03:35Ay, pinalikaw kay Totga ko, walang nangyayari.
03:40After twist, bye-bye.
03:43Oh, ayos.
03:44I don't, I don't make, uh, I don't know why, but I don't make friends or interact with people from
03:50the past.
03:51Ah, ah.
03:51Same, same, same.
03:53Nakablack lahat.
03:54Now, let us move on to myth number two.
03:58Para mas maging masaya, ang isang relasyon, dapat opposite kayo ng partner mo.
04:03RSP, ba kadang, wow o aw?
04:06Conditional.
04:07Conditional.
04:10Ow.
04:10Nag-iisip pa.
04:12Conditional.
04:13Again.
04:13Ow.
04:13Medyo na-hate, no?
04:15At narito naman ang sagot ng ating kawaw na si Neil.
04:20Disagree po.
04:21Kasi hindi naman po requirements sa isang relationship na opposite kayo palagi.
04:27Ah, ano lang po yun?
04:28Ah, compatibility, tapos effort.
04:33Ako rin.
04:34Well, ako, conditional aw.
04:36Tsaka wow.
04:36Kasi hindi pwedeng parehas kayo ng wavelength palagi.
04:42Para mag-grow kayo, minsan dapat opposite kayo.
04:44You have to compromise.
04:46And you have to learn from each other.
04:47Ako, conditional din.
04:49Di ba?
04:50Very interesting ang ano natin ngayon.
04:52Conditional kasi, sa una, di ba, exciting if magkaiba kayo.
04:55Di ba, sabi nga nila, opposites attract.
04:58Yes.
04:58However, in the long run, kapag nagpo-progress na kayo sa relationship nyo, Joshua,
05:02dapat may similarities din kayo.
05:04Ano yung values nyo, ano yung goals nyo.
05:06Kasi that's the only way you can move on and forward with the person you chose to be with.
05:11Yan.
05:12Ating RSP, Parkada, wow o aw, bakit?
05:15Conditional.
05:16Ano ba yung, wow, conditional, or aw?
05:19Conditional.
05:20Conditional.
05:20Ako, titlala, kasi, di ba, Vincent, hindi rin natin gusto yung mga ugali natin.
05:24So kung magkaugali kayo, parang hindi din magmamasyo.
05:28Para balance.
05:31Ako rin po, conditional po, kasi, sabi nga po nung ni Sir, ano daw po, we need to compromise sa
05:39relasyon.
05:40Next.
05:41Sir Thorny Archie.
05:42Well, ako, personally, I think, it's aw.
05:45Well, I believe na similar interests result to, similar results.
05:51So I think, if and when magka, same kind of wavelength and everything,
05:55it's a very good help dun sa kung ano yung gusto nyo mangyari sa relationship.
05:58Chao, yun.
05:59Baby.
06:00Bakit ako, guess na ako?
06:02Yes.
06:03Hindi.
06:04Ang funny kase, I believe na, ano, aw.
06:07Okay.
06:07Kasi, ano, parang parehas kami, pero hindi kami nagprosper sa wala din.
06:14Showbiz!
06:17Ganun din, conditional.
06:19Kasi may mga bagay na similar kami, pero meron din, like, sa ugali, matahimik siya.
06:24Ako, madalday.
06:26So parang, parang, parang, pa.
06:30Atorny, kasi, bala kong sirayin yung 10-year relationship.
06:33Ano ba, yay, why?
06:34Papasok na.
06:36I'm wowing.
06:36O, break, or break.
06:38Pag ganun.
06:40It's nice to be different and, you know, para exciting.
06:43Oh, my God, you should have a good meal.
06:45May sarili kang, ano, interest to arrest.
06:48May sarili siya.
06:49Very nice.
06:50O, kanyang bagay, bagay nila rinay.
06:52Tingnan mo, ang gulo sa bahayin niyo.
06:54Ako, iba na s*** naman niyo.
06:57Now, let's move on to myth number three.
07:01Never to bed na magka-away.
07:04Wag kayong matutulog na magka-resolve agad.
07:06Ars, ribarkada, wow o aw.
07:08Wow!
07:11Or, aw.
07:14Okay.
07:15I'm tired of being able to talk.
07:18Let's see what our wow is giving you today.
07:27Wow!
07:29I agree.
07:30Because if there is a situation where you have to be a while or a while,
07:35you need to be able to get it right away.
07:38Kasi kapag pinabot pa ng kinabukasan, mas lalong laralim at masasaktan ang isa't isa.
07:48Coach Mike?
07:49Okay.
07:50Ako ang pananaw ko dyan, conditional.
07:51Kung kayang i-resolve, meaning maliit na bagay lang, pwede.
07:56However, there are times that you really need to sleep on it
07:58for you to be able to stabilize your emotions.
08:02Diba?
08:02Kahit medyo magtalikuran muna kayo ng una, it doesn't mean you love each other less.
08:06Yes.
08:06It only means you're giving each other space na kailangan for you to process your own thoughts.
08:12And upon waking up, it might be a new day for you.
08:14Yes.
08:15Ako rin, conditional.
08:16Kasi akala ako noon, dapat talaga bago ka matulog, makipagbati ka sa asawa mo.
08:21Kasi, ginawa ko yun eh.
08:23Napilit ko na,
08:24Teka, mag-usap muna tayo.
08:25Kailangan natin pag-usapan to.
08:26Hanggang sa natulog ako mag-isa sa sala.
08:29Hindi na ako sinundo dun sa sala.
08:31Natulog din siya mag-isa.
08:32So, tama yung sinabi ni Coach, minsan kailangan itulog natin.
08:35Kasi minsan pagod na rin yung isip at puso natin eh.
08:38Yes.
08:38RSP Barkada, tao o wow.
08:40May sinasabi si Audrey.
08:40May sinasabi si Audrey.
08:41Sample, sample.
08:42Hindi kasi ito yan ano.
08:43Minsan, gusto na lalaki matapos na agad yung problema.
08:46Yes.
08:46Ma-resolve na.
08:47Pero minsan kasi kailangan ng tayin ng mga babae.
08:49So, conditional ka din.
08:51Conditioner.
08:51Si, conditioner.
08:52Hindi na mo pwedeng diktador tayo.
08:54O, sorry na ah.
08:55Pamayin mo ka na.
08:56Pati na tayo.
08:57Hindi na mo pwede yung gano'n, diba?
08:58Galit ka ba sa akin.
08:59Hindi po.
09:00Gusto mo pang sit canton?
09:02Opo.
09:04At only.
09:04At only.
09:06Oh my god.
09:07Ako, laging ah.
09:08Well, sa wow ako.
09:09I think ah.
09:09It needs to be resolved as early as possible.
09:12Pero dyan nagmula yung joke, diba?
09:20Matutulog hanggat hindi nag-aayos.
09:22So, tatlong araw na kayong piseng.
09:24Ah!
09:25Ah!
09:27Ah!
09:28Ah!
09:29Ah!
09:30Ah!
09:31Ah!
09:32Ah!
09:33Ah!
09:33Ah!
09:34Ah!
09:35Ah!
09:35Ah!
09:36Ah!
09:36Ah!
09:36Ah!
09:36Ah!
09:37Ah!
09:37Ah!
09:39Ah!
09:39Ah!
09:39Ah!
09:39in the mood of your girlfriend or your partner,
09:43you can't always impose it.
09:45I feel like you've been working for three days,
09:46and you don't have to wait for a while.
09:49That's why I'm going to be a bug.
09:53No, but I'm still a buggy.
09:56How about you, Lawrence?
09:58Yes, I'm wowed.
09:59Because as a communication major,
10:01wow!
10:03If you want to tell us,
10:05we need to communicate all your thoughts.
10:07Yeah.
10:08And comprehension.
10:10Comprehension.
10:13I agree.
10:15And I agree.
10:15And I said,
10:16you can see what the partner said
10:18that maybe it's not okay.
10:20But since I'm a girl,
10:21I should talk immediately.
10:23I don't want to cry, cry.
10:27It's based on O.J.
10:29So when we leave,
10:30there's a space for a while.
10:32So, but...
10:33...
10:33...
10:36...
10:38...
10:38...
10:38...
10:39...
10:39...
10:40It's hot, it's hot.
10:44Silence for a while.
10:46Yes, I was really hard, John,
10:48because I fell asleep and I didn't see anything.
10:51I didn't even know what to say.
10:52To be serious, if one day,
10:54you don't have to talk,
10:55you can't talk two days.
10:58If you can't talk two days,
10:59you don't have to talk two days,
11:01you can't talk one day,
11:03two weeks, one month,
11:05until you're not talking.
11:10Back to you, guys!
11:12Well, maraming salamat, multi-awarded life coach
11:14ng Bayan Coach Mike Celis,
11:16at sa ating RSP Barkada at mga ka-ARSP na sumagot
11:18sa nabas ng himpila.
11:20Lagi po natin tatandaan na lagi natin gawing wow
11:22ang ating buhay.
11:23Pag may aw, huwag paliwalain
11:26dahil our wellness and well-being,
11:28especially our mental health, matter.
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