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The Truth About Selfless Action || Acharya Prashant (2025)
Acharya Prashant
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Selfless action is not possible without seeing the hollowness of the self.
00:07
You may say you love someone wholeheartedly.
00:10
You will still be selfish towards that person.
00:13
Not because you are a cheat or a deceiver or an exploiter.
00:16
But because it is not possible to be selfless without knowing the self.
00:21
People drop Gods.
00:22
This one didn't fulfill my desires.
00:25
That's the usual center and one doesn't see what's wrong with that.
00:29
But the self is such a beautiful thing.
00:32
It deceives itself and very successfully so.
00:37
Very firmly so.
00:39
And as long as one doesn't see what's wrong with that.
00:42
Selfless action is obviously impossible.
00:49
Please see why do we act and how do we act.
00:52
We act from the ego as per the dictates of the ego.
00:56
The ego tells us act in this particular way and you will be gratified.
01:02
Go to that direction and you will get something.
01:06
Strike a relationship here and you will be fulfilled.
01:11
Get a new job there.
01:13
Enter that market and fetch that coited good and you will have contentment.
01:24
All our action is action from the self for the sake of the self.
01:32
You could call it self-ish action or action arising out of self interest.
01:43
And that's the norm.
01:45
Why would anybody be an exception to that norm?
01:48
It seems okay, doesn't it?
01:50
I feel like buying this, I'll buy.
01:53
I feel like reading, I'll read.
01:56
I feel like sleeping, I'll sleep.
02:00
If I enter that business, I'll make profit.
02:03
So I do.
02:07
I like that house, I'll stay there.
02:09
These are the mannerisms that appeal to me.
02:16
I adopt them.
02:18
That's the man or the woman.
02:21
I find attractive.
02:22
So I approach them.
02:27
That's the usual center and one doesn't see what's wrong with that.
02:30
And as long as one doesn't see what's wrong with that.
02:35
Selfless action is obviously impossible.
02:41
Selfless action is not possible without seeing the hollowness of the self.
02:50
Selfless action is possible only when one sees the self as beingless.
03:05
What is selfless action?
03:07
Selfless action is to see that all action arising from the usual ego self is stupid.
03:19
Because the assumption of the ego self is that action will fetch it peace or completeness.
03:29
And that assumption itself is a borrowed one.
03:33
And that assumption, that hope has been belied repeatedly in the past.
03:40
And yet the self wants to entertain that hope.
03:43
If the hollowness of the self is not seen in the first place, selfless action is just not possible.
03:57
Selfless action is not a practice, it's not a technique.
04:00
Selfless action is a result of having seen the void that is the self.
04:13
Otherwise you will keep telling yourself, I want to be selfless.
04:18
Nishkam.
04:21
I want to operate from a center of universality or something.
04:27
There are a lot of neo-spiritual terms.
04:32
My life is for others.
04:37
Now all this is good social media material, but doesn't mean much.
04:48
Not because you are lying or you are being hypocritical.
04:59
But because what you are saying is impossible by rule, by law.
05:06
You may say you love someone wholeheartedly, you will still be selfish towards that person.
05:16
Not because you are a cheat or a deceiver or an exploiter.
05:22
But because it is not possible to be selfless without knowing the self.
05:26
The self is the default. That's what we are born with and we die with.
05:33
You cannot just put away the self.
05:36
Because it is nice and more moral to act selflessly and selfishness is chichi.
05:45
All that is good copy, good quote, good slogan, but will never fructify.
05:58
And you will be torn trying to practice it.
06:02
You will say I want to act selflessly, but you will find it's impossible.
06:10
Sometimes you will rejoice that you have managed to be selfless.
06:14
And then later on, when you are more collected and see more finely,
06:23
you will discover that which you called as selflessness was just masked selfishness.
06:31
Because the self is the doer, the actor, the operator, the center.
06:41
Which self are we talking of? The truth? No, the ego.
06:45
We are programmed to operate from there.
06:49
You cannot wish it away.
06:50
And then there are lies and deceptions and heartbreaks and breakups and all of that.
07:00
All my life I was devoted to you and I acted so selflessly.
07:06
And yet you don't care for me.
07:09
And it becomes very difficult to explain to the other.
07:12
No, you cannot act selflessly, not because you are you, but because you are homo sapiens.
07:23
Our species, just like the other biological species, is not designed to act selflessly.
07:30
Just that we are different because we carry the potential to rise a little above the self.
07:37
Other species don't even have that potential.
07:40
They will act as per their biological framework.
07:45
But the self is such a beautiful thing. It deceives itself.
07:56
And very successfully so.
08:00
Very finely so.
08:02
Aren't we all convinced that a lot of our actions are selfless?
08:07
Yes.
08:08
And we will find it rather humiliating and disgusting and annoying.
08:18
If someone tells us, even in this you are just selfish.
08:21
And in this your selfishness is even more vicious because it is masking as selflessness.
08:34
We will react.
08:36
We might even slap the speaker.
08:39
You understand? A safe distance has to be maintained.
08:42
You donate to the temple and you say, you know, this is just selfless donation.
08:53
Come on.
09:00
People drop gods and that's why it is convenient to have so many of them.
09:05
You can do god hopping.
09:07
God hopping.
09:10
This one didn't fulfill my desires.
09:16
Forty-two coconuts.
09:20
Fifty-six shrines.
09:24
And yet he is just smug and egoistic.
09:27
You keep sitting atop your skies.
09:29
I am not visiting you anymore.
09:31
Anymore.
09:36
There is a new god or goddess in town.
09:39
Some new Babaji is making this one fashionable.
09:48
Getting it.
09:53
Our kids.
09:56
Oh, we are so selfless towards our kids.
09:58
Come on.
09:59
The very structure of the sentence.
10:05
Notice it.
10:07
I am selfless towards my kids.
10:10
I am selfless towards my kids.
10:13
My kids.
10:19
Is it possible to be more blind?
10:20
And then we expect compliance and returns and obedience.
10:29
Basically ROI.
10:31
Hmm?
10:33
No.
10:35
None of that.
10:36
So, trying to practice nishkam karma, selfless action, without knowing what self is, is self-deception, not selflessness.
10:51
In fact, it is far better, more honest and cleaner if someone says, this is what I am giving to you because that is what I want in return.
11:04
Saral kam.
11:05
Saral kam.
11:06
Saral kam.
11:07
The desire is there and the desire is openly expressed for what it is, a desire.
11:17
Yes, I am giving you something because I want something else in return.
11:32
This is fine.
11:33
At least better than desire wield, than expectations masked.
11:47
Are you getting it?
11:48
So, those who think of karma yoga and karma yoga, when Shri Krishna talks of karma yoga in the Bhagavad Gita, it simply means nishkam karma yoga.
12:07
That is not karma yoga.
12:09
Karma yoga does not mean doing anything with total immersion and intensity.
12:18
No, that is not karma yoga.
12:20
Karma yoga is getting into it because it is right.
12:25
And because it is right, I don't care for the results.
12:33
That's karma yoga.
12:35
The first thing, karma yoga is always nishkam karma yoga.
12:41
Second thing, nishkamta is not possible, desirelessness is not possible without encountering the falseness of the ego self.
13:05
And the moment, Ela says, is certainly not too many, who obeys.
13:11
Are you so much others?
13:14
In all you have hope that you will take part of your mind.
13:17
All right.
13:20
Dalamita- Above.
13:21
The next day and D-G cricket was just with Mitchell Evans Robert.
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