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How to Stay Focused Towards My Goal? || Acharya Prashant (2021)
Acharya Prashant
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So we have often many tasks to do in our day-to-day life and we make to-do list but we fail to
00:07
complete it and the loop goes on every time. So what can be the other ways to overcome this?
00:14
Write the right things in your to-do list and then you'll be forced to complete them.
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The reason why the to-do list goes unattended and a-begging is because it is full of worthless tasks.
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You write 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 to-dos. Not one of those six is something you can love to complete.
00:47
Love is missing. Therefore, you find excuses to avoid those six tasks, six out of six.
00:57
Then you push yourself using the thing called willpower and with great difficulty you manage
01:03
to complete two or three out of the six. And two or three is enough to somehow cross the
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line and get you passing marks in whatever examination. Life has all kinds of examinations.
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And then again the list is remade next day. And again you find two out of six, three out of six.
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The cutoff has been cleared. You have survived for the next day to repeat the same story.
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The problem is not the absence of willpower or motivation or whatever.
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The problem is that you do not know the tasks to take up.
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When you pen down something, when you assign a task to yourself, ask, is it important?
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If it is not important, why must I pretend to give it importance?
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Why must I even jot this thing down?
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Let me be bold enough to simply omit it or strike it out.
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And if something is indeed important, why can't I sit with it for five minutes and appreciate its importance?
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If something is important, don't just write down four words about it.
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Give four minutes to it. Just four minutes.
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And ask yourself, why is this thing important?
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Why? What does it give to me?
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What does it turn me into?
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How does it help me, raise me, strengthen me, purify me?
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And if you have good enough answers, then you will find it has become impossible now to avoid that task.
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You will keep everything else aside and commit yourself to that task if you really understand its importance.
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So we see the problem lies not in the absence of willpower, but in the absence of understanding.
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Most of us complain of lack of motivation.
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That is hardly a problem.
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Because motivation helps nobody.
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You do not require motivation.
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You require realization.
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You do not realize whether something is important.
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Have you seen how motivated you are just by yourself, inspired from within?
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When you really know the importance of something, have you seen that?
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Somebody in your family is sick.
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Do you require to be externally and artificially motivated to call the ambulance?
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Or to put that person in some car, some vehicle and rush him to the hospital?
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Do you feel demotivated?
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No.
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There are so many things you just spontaneously feel inspired for.
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Why?
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Because there is some kind of clarity.
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You know the task holds something for you.
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And that's what energizes you.
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You know what this task is for.
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Unfortunately, as happens with most of us, happened with me as well.
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We do not know why we are doing a lot of things that we do.
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Why are we there in an engineering campus?
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Because that's the in thing.
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Why do we find ourselves in a particular department?
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That's what our rank gave us.
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Why am I in a particular hostel?
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Pure chance, randomness.
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Somebody allotted that hostel to me.
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Why do I have to attend a certain course?
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I don't know.
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I was given a timetable and a schedule.
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And it said,
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Mechanical workshop.
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Mondays 8am to 12 noon.
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So like a zombie, I am standing there.
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First of all, I don't know why I am there in Mechanical.
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Then I don't know why I am there in the workshop.
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And then the workshop assigned me some task.
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I duly wrote that down in my to-do list.
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How will you feel inspired to take that task up?
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You have no relationship with that task.
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Do you see what is missing?
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Love.
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You just don't know why that task needs to be done.
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They have sent you to the foundry.
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Or to fitting.
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Or to carpentry.
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Welding.
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How many Mechanical chaps here?
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Nobody.
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The college does not have Mechanical at all?
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IT.
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And there would be a lot of people who never wrote a proper line of code their life.
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Right?
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The entrance exam would be testing you on PCM.
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Correct?
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Not on your programming skills.
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Not on your knowledge of computer science.
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So, along with PCM,
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you might as well have had Hindi or Marathi or Sanskrit or Biology
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and you can still be here.
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Right?
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Right?
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So you come here and you look at the thing called computer for the first time.
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And then a most advanced language
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called Fortran or Kobol
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is taught to you.
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Nobody got it.
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That's okay.
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Are you virginal?
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No.
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No.
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And you are told to write a program for this, this, this, this, this.
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Arrays and stacks and this and that.
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Already been assigned that?
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Already?
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No?
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And you don't know why the hell
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should I be an expert in stacking?
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That's the missing link.
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You do not know why you should be doing something.
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Once you know why you should be doing something,
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the hows become instantaneously clear.
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Inspiration just arises.
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It is no more an external task.
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It is your own.
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I want to do it.
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I love it.
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Then you will go
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even beyond the mandate.
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Nice.
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Let me try this one out as well.
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There are additional problems on the net.
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Can I try my hand at them?
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Can I try my hand at them?
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Hmm?
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Spend time with your to-do list.
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And dare to cross a few things out.
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Hmm?
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Even if that means some damage,
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some repercussions.
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I don't know.
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Don't like it, won't take it out.
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Out of the six things,
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I'll take up only four.
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But to these four,
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I'll commit
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my effort,
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my heart,
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everything.
08:59
Hmm?
09:01
Hmm?
09:01
Hmm?
09:03
Amen.
09:12
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
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