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Step into the iconic First Dates restaurant where singletons meet for their very first blind date. This episode, S24E08, brings together a new group of hopeful romantics, each looking to find a genuine connection. Witness the laughter, the nerves, and the sparks as they navigate the unpredictable world of modern dating.
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00:00with all these dating apps that doesn't seem real it's like almost like a card game it's
00:09like you're just collecting people I've just been swiping and nothing there's just nothing
00:13in the heart of Britain's most romantic city Fred and his team are matching hopeful singletons in
00:24in a place where love is always on the menu mine will always get stuck on my boob shelf these
00:33daters are searching for the one oh my god in the real world oh my god for some stepping into the
00:52unknown how are you with your technology rubbish I'm a dinosaur thank goodness if I want to get in
00:58contact with you I have to whatsapp me yeah don't get too ahead of yourself can lead to surprising
01:04sparks but finding a connection what's the dynamic here isn't always easy how big is yours my husband
01:15is a bar would you like to meet him help me in the end it comes down to one hello hello big this
01:28isn't awkward question do you guys want to see each other again this is the first dates restaurants
01:37I'd love you to meet someone you're just too good an opportunity to meet when it comes to dating
01:52your family always have an opinion they're gonna need to deal with the lack of common sense
01:57I want someone to take them off my hands it's not down to her she doesn't like little men
02:06but would I trust them with my love life no way what advice would you give us Jerry just think
02:15about what the other one would do and then do a bit of that right thanks so don't be ourselves thanks
02:19yeah triplet sisters Caitlin and Lucy are inseparable but they're splitting up for love
02:28this is us three um when we're very little one thing that we got the most was I feel so sorry
02:34for your mum now that I have grown up I am also really really sorry for mum you're triplets yeah
02:40where's the third one got brother who is happily in a relationship that must have been tough for him
02:45growing up how long have we been single well we're 26 so 26 years so what do you think your sister
03:00needs someone who's adventurous outgoing likes a laugh you're very similar to be honest yeah you
03:07want someone that's a bit more family and orientated my brother he wants his son to have cousins yeah
03:12okay he's been quite direct about it he has been quite direct
03:15performer Michael makes people smile but can't find a girl to bring him joy anything to do with
03:29entertaining people I'm there I play all sorts of different characters I've been Bing the
03:34Gruffalo and lots of dinosaurs I'm like ah when I'm tell girls my children's mascot girls you've
03:42like oh wow really they might seem as quite immature what's wrong Michael how are you Fred I'm good
03:50thank you much you look very relaxed I tried to be I tried to do well it's fantastic I've tend to go
03:58for the person who's compassionate and loving and cute cute if you see the point your date is at the
04:04bar you'll never look can you see them yes I mean there's only one for you it's no you're lucky there
04:12mates we're never gonna be oh I want to cuddle like you so it's a lovely cuddle hello sir can I get you a drink
04:26I'll take a G&T please absolutely right all okay yeah yeah I'm trying myself yeah I'm absolutely fine
04:31what an amazing place he doesn't seem to want to know which one is his date does he not want to find out
04:39I have been staring at this earring for a long time now and I did it in Croatia you should have heard the
04:52stick I got from fruitcake from my son my parents yeah my daughter you know what I told them I am free
05:00to live my life the way I want to live my life so I get my nose pierced because I want to feel free
05:05am I allowed to wear it at work why not thanks I think I've got permission what do you do I work as
05:13a an actor presenter performer keep making a smile and yourselves now I'm a production designer yeah
05:20yeah set building or making yeah and yourself I'm an archaeologist archaeologist yeah right have you
05:28worked out all your dating I believe it's came in here correct correct you're allowed to be
05:34for a day then should I take care of it yes please come with me see you in a bit I'll try to make sure
05:39your sister has a nice evening oh thank you not like that but you know what I mean there you are
05:45thank you enjoy your date have fun thank you thank you thank you ah very nice by the way King thank
05:52you you look good too I do try I've got to ask was he okay yeah you like it was nice it helped that
06:02they're in the same industry as well which is nice cool I'm gonna check on your date 28 year old Imogen
06:08has a vivid imagination but she's unable to conjure up her perfect partner I definitely love to write
06:16fantasy well I write LGBT novels okay it's about these three women and two of them are vampires and one of
06:26them is a human they do become like a triangle frapple it's gonna be a nice very smutty story
06:33eventually when I finish it I loved your hair is blowing ladies hi how are you good how are you I'm
06:41very good you're Imogen Imogen yes that's me I write novels about sex and I've never actually had it myself
06:48it's a very much like how did that happen it wasn't a plan to be to be a virgin at this age oh my
06:55gosh okay right I think the right person would be fine with that I guess it's like riding a bike once
07:02you once you practice and do it I can't believe I'm comparing it to bike riding are you ready yes I'm ready
07:10I need to have a little bit of a sense of humor because I'm me hi hi nice to meet you hello I'm
07:24Lucy oh hello Lucy I'm Imogen Imogen cool whoa this is hi hello how are you good I like your glasses thank
07:34you very nice thank you what would you like oh what's fuzzy feeling what's that like it's sort
07:38of peach and Prosecco kind of thing warm and fuzzy oh my gosh that's so funny what's in like your
07:48sister woods on a day it's fine they're talking so that's something so what do you do um I'm an
07:54archaeologist that's amazing yeah it's quite nice do you like history I do I looked up the history of
08:00spoons once okay once yeah because um I just got curious and apparently they are sometimes made out
08:07of bones like animal bones yeah yeah yeah and uh so have you ever dug up any spoons I've not found a
08:13I've not found a bone spoon maybe one day you never know and I'll be like look what I found
08:18a spoon would you go on a date with a family member absolutely not absolutely not it would
08:28just be so awkward oh my god I can't imagine anything worse here to turn up the heat is Aaliyah
08:36a naked cleaner from Kent who's hoping her date tonight scrubs up nicely
08:42I'll do hoovering polishing mopping ironing I do like the heating on no one wants to work cold do
08:51they once I had to walk around black stilettos on and this banana outfit on while hoovering backward
08:58and fall oh la la he paid me like 450 pound just are you red riding hood something like that so you
09:07do much dating I mean you're a very beautiful woman oh thank you you need to come here to find a
09:11man I thought why not change do you think we can do better than what you've done before I obviously
09:16haven't done well so far come with me we'll go to the bar I don't feel really shocked by my job
09:23they're like what I'd say dating it's been hard hello hi may I get your drink yes please a shot of tequila
09:32rose a double peach snaps with lemonade in a wine glass please yes you can thank you I've been ghosted
09:38um I've been catfished I just can't find a connection so how are you feeling about things
09:44today I'm a little bit nervous I'm really like giddy and shy like I'm not usually like this I was
09:50gonna say is that normally usually I'm really confident I'd need somebody who loves me for me
09:55I want someone who's gonna be boring like who wants someone who's boring I think everyone's right
10:01yeah I look like a red-blooded man tall dark hair big broad shoulders a good stocky guy and they put
10:09the hands around you just like oh it could be like my date get some fuzzy feelings and finish all
10:14you're taking me home Louis is a chef from London whose love life is well and truly cooked
10:25the most common first question is what are you going to cook me which my heart has always been
10:33breakfast with a bit of luck obviously being a chef it's not as easy to meet up of normal times
10:39I mean no one wants to meet a date at nine o'clock in the evening unless I turn up straight from work
10:44smelling of fryers and fish and stuff how are you doing good to see you and you boss all right
10:49should I take your coat yeah go for it scarf as well my physical type is blonde and Essex-like and wild
11:00I'm hoping there won't be that initial attraction and I can be myself and relax a little bit because
11:05if they're job-dead stunning and I'm gonna melt and probably swear a lot as well something like
11:10when I'm nervous enjoy your day hi nice to meet you how you doing oh I did hope for someone not
11:19quite so pretty so I could fucking relax but now you've put me on the fucking back foot but anyway
11:24how are you thank you coming that's all right you're welcome don't worry relax you'll be fine
11:29hello sir how you doing brother very well you kind of Australia please mother and then coming up
11:34tequila too I have tequila rose a nice tequila rose there you go and one normal and more normal for you
11:40thank you very much being a chef I am I'm normally at work on a Saturday in there sweating my
11:46bullets off so what do you do I work in Halford you're far too glamorous to be working in there I'm
11:52also a naked cleaner a what naked cleaner really is that a thing yeah okay fucking amazing I love it so
12:08far so good I'm gonna go to the chicken stack burger you're not gonna
12:22look very lady like trying to eat I'll just cut it up oh yeah yeah I don't touch in food with your
12:29mouth you have to Korean fried chicken yeah thank you trying to decide if it's tomato or fish very
12:44similar foods aren't they it looks like it's gonna be a bush took a trial for me I'm scared to try the tuna
12:51it's interesting I don't know if I'm gonna eat more of that no I don't think I will either so
13:00what's your next job do you have anything lined up yeah so literally tomorrow I'm working down
13:05of suits you decided for this now I am guys there's me in there with a camera and a fan brilliant so do
13:12you have a dream like job to work on it used to be I used to literally want to be James Bond but I could
13:17never talk like even when you're in classrooms I used to sort of be scared to put my hand up to
13:22talk my stutter was awful it still did out I used to get bullied at school I was laughed at so I used
13:28to go to a Saturday sort of theater club on a weekend and it really really helped help me from
13:34performing I've discovered myself and in that time I've sort of I've discovered me and I like being me and
13:39oh yeah but after time I'm spending like evenings on my own there's no one to chat to yeah there's
13:45no one to talk about life with yeah there's times in your life where you're just like oh it'd be nice
13:49to have someone to do stuff with that isn't like my sister yeah I'm so sorry what's your name again
13:57Lucy Lucy yeah yeah my mind that's fine I don't mind I get called Joe I get called Caitlin so I mean
14:05that's my brother's name and my sister's name I should probably tell you that my sister's actually
14:09you know yeah it looks like it's going well it doesn't look like it's going well I'm surprised
14:16they sound so far apart but that's quite nice because otherwise I'd just be like
14:20oh wow pickles thank you thank you no worries enjoy thank you it's okay have you ever done speed
14:31dating no have you yeah I went off on different tangents with each person I talked about orchid care
14:38fun living on a house sport was another one and guinea pigs I definitely was sheltered a lot as a kid
14:48and I was very young minded when I went on a date with this girl I talked about guinea pigs for a
14:54whole hour on the day wow like when everyone else was sort of doing their makeup I was very much still
15:02playing with teddies and dolls and stuff like that because I remember when I was like 14 I used to
15:07just carry a bear on I got like orange or anything I can't see any now okay good if my hair matches my
15:14lips that's something on that it's a weird thing to say yeah that's my trouble I have no filter I
15:21just say whatever's on my mind it's not a bad thing I've never actually been in love before so I've
15:26always wanted to know what love feels like got these books that I'm writing they're LGBT really bad but
15:36it's about vampires okay that's cool and they're that well they're different and it's it's I'm just
15:49gonna say it's basically smart that's good yeah that looks nice what's the name of it we're still
16:02coming up with a name what have a sip of the drink and tell me what should the name be okay
16:06I mean I was gonna ask the kids how many I've got two beautiful stepchildren okay I've got a 16
16:23year old daughter and a 14 year old son they're step children you said yeah so I was married to a
16:27father and he is with his new girlfriend he was together for nearly 14 years he come home see he
16:35doesn't love me anymore he's leaving and he was an affair and he moved out I was so broken I stopped
16:43eating I stopped drinking I lost three stone I was hospitalized our relationship failed but he's a
16:50good dad okay good good and you kept the kids the kids chose to save me wow my daughter's like my
16:56best friend my son's like my baby the children saved me and they're the best things in my life like
17:04they really are my world we were broken and we put ourselves back together and now we're stronger
17:11ever and ever I'm cold it isn't a little bit nippy in here in here I thought you just pleased to see
17:17me yeah no jacket still yeah I think I've put it back on I'm freezing I can only try and turn the
17:27fucking flirting up a little bit more it might warm it up a little bit how's it going good yeah good
17:37yeah I think I think so okay okay yeah I mean I have no idea though what I know they've got cold
17:54cold chips man because it could just be like a friendly nice yeah nice chat yeah I'm not going
18:03to think about that we'll do you look nice has he complimented you yet yeah I think when I sat down
18:15he was like oh you do come on let's go I'm still sitting here thinking about your job and it's very
18:29nice to not think about oh sorry this is naked cleaner fucking love it I love it my bad shock she
18:36then the next thing's gonna shock you oh god here we go what go on so the reason my children my step
18:43children it's cuz can't have children okay no that's all right I'm unexpected anymore there
18:49means I can't have children it's cuz I wasn't born female Wow okay or post-surgery oh fuck you know okay
19:17okay do you know I like a surprise well I did think I'd surprise you you done that well done yeah
19:27I probably aren't the girl you imagine to turn up for you do you know what I've been on dates where I'm
19:40really excited because they look like they're absolutely stunning got there and there's not
19:44much conversation there's a little bit dry and I'm like yeah and then other times I've gone where
19:48I'm not really holding much hope and I've actually turned out to be quite nice people and so it's yeah
19:53as I've realized not to judge a book by its cover so to speak and so I've been single what three and a
20:01half maybe four years now I was married seven years and I think that main sort of stress on the
20:08whole marriage was me never being there you know working weekends holidays birthdays and so yeah
20:13throughout the marriage I would go home to see me wife and kids and they'd just be going to bed I've
20:19got twin girls at 14 and then a younger one who's eight all three daughters it's kind of changed the
20:26course of my life shall we say it was hard having to get out and go to work every day and not see him
20:31not spend those times together yeah yeah it's hard I know so many people that don't see their kids or
20:48I don't know how they could live with themselves you know I wanted to be close to them be around for
20:52them someone that's going to be part of my life they need to understand me three doors will always come
20:58first so yeah and because I'm a chef it's not been easy to meet and date people but I'm here and I
21:05have so it is what it is Yorkshire lad Asher is a jokester but in the pursuit of love he's ready for
21:17someone to take him seriously I like having a laugh and a joke you'll often see me probably in the pub
21:22just laughing to myself I'll just kick little people what are you laughing at hello who doesn't
21:28want to laugh you in his bed probably yeah yeah I don't know what I'm saying probably yeah 100%
21:34you're good can I hug you yeah of course how you doing man how you smell thank you very much
21:41nice to meet you Asher so tell me how old are you now 40 40 you don't look it man thank you
21:46you don't need a single gray hair what's coming on it's nice isn't it I can musterize as much as I
21:51want I'm still gonna look like this come with me thank you to the bell man I'm at an age now I
21:57would like to settle down basically I'm sick of third wheeling my best mates relationship
22:01Merlin the legend how are you I'm fantastic yourself very well what's your name Asher Asher yes are you
22:09brim full I am always brilliant would you like a drink I would so how are you feeling about wish
22:18yeah it was a little nervy this morning socially it's quite hard where I live yeah like a little
22:22town there's only like one kind of nightclub I mean I try try no good try I know all my friends
22:29love me but being in love I don't quite know what that does feel like who's your dream date then
22:36Rita Rara yeah don't think she's single at the minute though I do like a woman with long dark
22:43hair and a kind heart well I'm gonna keep my eyes peeled for anyone who looks like a pop star
22:49right there they're obviously here for you splendid honestly yeah hoping to harmonize with her date
22:57is support worker Abby I actually just love people I love seeing everybody grow and succeed together
23:06and if there's something I can do to help that journey I'll do it you are so beautiful
23:13oh bless you should I take your coat I've been lovely thank you
23:16love your dress love the color of love yes indeed what's been going wrong with dating I think maybe
23:27I've been matching the wrong people I'm hoping that that'll change tonight I remember actually being
23:32catfished and he's like well you wouldn't have been attracted to me and I said well I'm not
23:36attracted to you you're right but um I just felt really sorry for him and I ended up being like a
23:41bit of a therapist so your date has already arrived I like quite masculine man with like lots of tattoos but
23:50I'm quite old school so I do like a gentleman
23:53hi hello Asha nice to meet you it's Abby Abby oh lovely I like the pink thank you brave I feel like we're very coordinated
24:04oh what are you drinking I'll just ask Merlin for a rum have a little try if you'd like oh are you sure
24:10yeah you don't mind lipstick no no no crack on fill your boots okay hello you're on to your nip-tis drink already
24:18yeah would you like one could I just have a prosecco please
24:23not a fan no I mean I feel like it might be a little bit strong what is it you do for a living
24:31um I work in mental health all right yeah to support people in crisis I absolutely love it
24:37oh I love that yeah yeah how about you what do you do support work for foster kids
24:48fuck you know I would have liked to fall bin and they knew I was a chef they would have made a bit
24:54more of an effort it's a little bit disappointing I'm not gonna lie but I'll have a bit hey but
25:02it's just bad why is she gone opportunity to have a great smoke
25:07can I not have him first date
25:21it's great too much hello Lucy how's it all right yeah I think it's going all right yeah a little
25:33sparker yeah we'll see stick yeah sticks good how do you think the sisters days go in huh I don't know
25:41she said she said what yeah she said a bit we I just spoke to this okay she's all right I think yeah I
25:45think I'll do it seems lovely in all fairness it seems very charty which does help for a day
25:49definitely help it so how's it been going I'll see in terms of your your dating life I've not
25:57really been on many dates I kind of probably can count them on both my hands how many dates I've been
26:04on oh um like I just didn't really try for like at uni and stuff I was just focused on like studying
26:10studying yeah like my mum was ill I spent time like looking after her after I finished uni mum was
26:20diagnosed with breast cancer being a carer for someone who you know you love so much watching
26:29them get weaker it's devastating breaks your heart she okay she better now no no she passed away but oh yes
26:38our mum passed away six days after our 24th birthday you jumped straight into funeral prep and and you
26:47struggled to grieve a little bit more than we did Caitlin is a lot more insular and won't really show it
26:56if she's hurt that was like three years ago yeah just to bring things down my mum was so supportive she
27:08always thought we'd find people and that I would I'd be right for someone so yeah so now I just feel
27:14like things are a little bit more normal and I can be like okay like what do I need now I'm quite a carer
27:18yeah I think just like that's in my nature I'm quite a carer I tried to be yeah I took care when I
27:23can't scared the intentions there I do try how was your food looking mm-hmm state's gone cold oh
27:30oh just take a lot because after time it goes cold before I finish it you didn't touch your
27:35standard yet nobody into salad just I don't know why'd you have cold veg
27:40mother's pretty awesome she's good I like that's lovely that makes the characters we are today yeah
27:50do you know I mean I agree and how's your mommy and daddy I lost my mom when I was 14 oh my dad is
27:57amazing for a man that's lost so much in his life like he's lost his parents he's lost my mom but he
28:03just shows up still and it doesn't doesn't have to at all but he wants to be eyes water he's just a
28:08beautiful oh my god all right sorry he is just a great person oh my god well it shows him if you
28:16love your dad yeah he's awesome did you think I've done a runner oh no I just took the opportunity to
28:30get to see smoke okay I knew I'd get told up at least once fuck you know do you swear yeah more
28:46recently since I moved out than I used to I used to be like God will be angry not that I'm religious at
28:53all I'm not well your parents are they religious no my mum was really my brother is slightly religious
29:04slightly really yeah I think he's more religious than he wants to say is no that's interesting yeah
29:12we were a year from mom passing away and then Joe got diagnosed with leukemia and he had a six
29:20month old at the time actually Joe getting leukemia put us off grieving for our mum and then we were
29:26grieving for Joe even though we you because he never knew what was going to happen
29:30phone's gone on
29:33I don't know but I think she's forgotten that exists so that's a good thing
29:38keeping very good eye contact
29:40as triplets we've gone through everything together and this was the first thing
29:46that we couldn't help him with he was so so ill he wasn't far off passing away because it it was so
29:54advanced I have a nephew and um I'm not good at looking after things I just panic every time they
30:02like Lucy look after him and I'll be like why I'm so panicky it just means you care
30:10I do believe that my nephew is what got my brother through cancer it gave my brother something to
30:19live for and that happened because of love I have so much love to give and I would like to give that
30:25to someone I like your jacket thank you I don't really do dresses so I thought I'll wear a little
30:32suit that's very nice I forgot to bring socks with me but this outfit oh what color socks are you
30:40wearing they're they are grayish aren't they they got little vespers on I thought that was Donald
30:46Beck for a minute I do have a pair of Donald Beck socks do you so do I do you yeah did you get them from
30:51Primark I did I can't get no signal in this place I can't do no calls I can't do no taxes I can't do
31:03anything so your emergency get out of fucking jail for calls gone out the window oh no if I want to
31:09go I just sound going I was very attracted but I don't know it was hard to tell whether she liked me
31:18or not oh my god cut my guys cut your nose if he's been up and come up my nose oh come out
31:29listen you can't do it I'm gonna take the credit for that
31:44would you like to switch over again ladies first no okay okay I would have been happy to go for a
31:56drink but there you go if the feeling's not really Jordan that's that's just fine I could eat chips all
32:02day it's a very highly lucrative business is the old fucking chip I know exactly how much they cost
32:09where they come from fucking ridiculous you're really pessimistic do you think yeah okay I'll
32:16take that on board you just complained about everything are you not eating that no no I'm done
32:22it's breaking me heart seeing that burger there babe waste killing me I really want to fucking eat
32:27it it's nerves that make me swear a lot I don't normally swear well no I don't I'm in the kitchen so
32:32yeah I apologize do you smoke no just smoking what advice would I say don't smoke yeah I'm gonna
32:41see what a bath has to offer I might bump into you you might do no see you soon gorgeous take care take
32:46care thank you anyone likes me smoking and I will try harder to not smoke especially while I'm on a date
32:54learning curve in it this is why they stopped doing them at weddings no nothing broke Fred's a
33:10legend doesn't it I had to hug him when I came in cuz I've always wanted to know what he smells like oh
33:14what did you smell like lovely everything you imagine so yeah they did much lately or like nothing
33:26serious at all I feel like now there's a lot of like game playing and it's like you know everybody's
33:31trying to like gets one better back in our day you didn't really have like a world of options did
33:36you yeah yeah and you'd probably get maybe a little bit more local like and you'd know people's families
33:41maybe like how I grew up in the community where you knew people's backgrounds you knew people's
33:45values I was raised in quite a traditional religious community dating was chaperoned at
33:51the time no sexual contact before marriage so that drives very different dating norms so I've
33:59actually been married before I was divorced last year but we've been separated quite a while
34:07before that so like a good few years I feel like I've been single for quite a while what's
34:11relation like with your ex-husband really good yeah so I married at 24 which I think is quite young
34:18looking back and then we didn't live together before we married so I'm not sure if the romantic spark was
34:24there I think when I first started like dating again it was quite unusual because I'm quite a polite
34:31person anyway I think like the first time I went on the app I felt like you had to reply to everybody
34:36I'm dating in a completely different way to how I used to when I was younger you know it is difficult
34:45but I'm not a little girl anymore I'm a grown woman and I'd love to you know experience love in my grown
34:50woman area been on these strange dates and I've only had to have an emergency phone call once the guy
34:57was like basically saying I think we need to like get matching tattoos on our privates it's on the first
35:08first day yeah it was on the first really yeah I mean you've got to at least wait till the second day
35:14for matching tattoos so dating wise like what type of like people are you attracted to I've done not
35:25really dated this is probably number fourth day ever like I'll sit and have a laugh by myself like no
35:31no bother literally laughing to yourself yeah yeah literally okay okay okay that's interesting I find
35:37myself I find myself hilarious yeah hi girl do you know what he's really lovely there's a couple of
36:00things we might not align on like he's not had to like very much dating experience and obviously
36:05I've been married so I'm just not sure how's the date going yeah really well you like flirting and
36:13stuff um I'm quite bad at flirting are you yeah this is like the fourth date I've ever been on
36:17my life yeah so you're doing great we'll just see we're still we're still like halfway through the
36:24May bye darling love you oh hello you're good I'll pull out your chair out for you oh you're getting
36:35into it now yeah thank you bless you what you're gonna run of them oh no absolutely not they're on
36:44a little chat with CC asking me my flirting game strong what would you be saying to me that I'm not
36:49really like a line kind of person I feel like you should just create one now no pressure the pressure
36:55the pressure's too much but I mean you look you look stunning anyway yes your job will never
37:02hopefully like get boring or you know you won't ever not like I'm determined it's not gonna be boring
37:07yeah it always means I have to do a pigeon at one point there was a standoff there was another
37:11pigeon character came in which is new instinctively this is a jewel now so the scene just parted then we
37:19just ran up to each other just like barely home would you like to see each other again
37:27oh I'm gonna go first I can go first or you can go first you go first come on fine yeah I would
37:35like to see Michael again yes of course yes how would you like to do the bill oh I'll get this one
37:42payment all together perfect very generous do you seem really nice and really kind and
37:48yeah oh wow thank you no one's ever said that wow thank you thank you very much thanks
37:57sorry my sister didn't wave at me oh look at this so nice and warm so I've been in some botanical garden
38:06oh you told me that you care for your family your siblings so it'd be nice if you can be cared for
38:13by me actually that architecture it's really nice I know you're gonna see bath let's go have a dream
38:19okay let's go let's go let's go let's go let's go after you oh sorry
38:26Eva can you help me a second absolutely I don't think I'm going to ask you to guess how old I am
38:38how old do you think oh please don't ask me that 35 oh I'll take that 40 you look younger than 40
38:48thank you very much I've got no grades I think because I plucked them all out before that's why
38:52did you do just for men yeah yeah just for men just for me just for you brilliant I love it
38:57asha's a really nice name does it have a meaning thank you it means happy originally my birth name
39:06was asha spelt with a-s-h-a which means hope and then when I was adopted the spelling got changed to
39:13a-s-h-e-r happy that's really nice yeah I feel like your name really suits your story yeah that's what
39:20I feel yeah how was it like growing up in the foster system me I was one of the lucky ones I was
39:25adopted at the age of four the foster care from the age of two that's incredible I was found on
39:32the street basically running around in my nappy and then kind of put into foster care from that
39:38situation it was challenging the years I've been in in care myself that's exactly what I'd applied for
39:45support work to kind of give back so I can understand where you know young kids are at I meant me and stuff
39:51being abundant at such a young age by the one person that you'd expect to love you for unconditionally
39:57for your whole life it's like it was quite traumatic and so you're always questioning what love is
40:03because you don't really know it's very rewarding knowing that you're helping one of the lads have
40:11been quite challenging all day but then he hugged me at the night time just for that little hug it was worth it
40:17you know I mean yeah I feel like when you do that kind of work you have to have faced your own
40:24performance I've never met my birth dad I'm growing up I thought I was Jamaican for 39 years okay and
40:32then I found out I'm actually half African so how did that feel like you know you having a different
40:39perspective on it shocking but it's not that's life live and learn now I'm fully aware of who I am
40:47where I'm going in my life I'd like to be in love with my dream woman so what's your heritage on my dad's
40:55family are like from Jamaica and my mum's family are from Montserrat so you make a good curry goat then
41:01yeah it's my signature oh really yeah I mean I used to make a decent curry goat maybe we could have a
41:07curry goat off
41:08yeah
41:09yeah
41:11yeah what kind of man the bait took you old school
41:15do you have a favorite music? Wicked. Wicked. Heather's is an amazing musical. She had a unique name the one who played Veronica. I'm really bad with a name.
41:25Same. Lucy. Imogen. Yep. Yes. Yes. It's hard to tell she fancied me as I know um be nice if she did she did fancy me that'd be nice but if not it's cool.
41:39I do have a fossil. Do you? Yeah. That's so cool. Yeah. Oh is it like it looks like a little seashell. It's a little seashell yeah. That's awesome. You can have them.
41:51She don't want them. No sure I find loads of them. Not that they don't mean anything. Whatever. They're quite nice.
41:59Wow. That is so cool.
42:01Mmhmm. So would you like to see each other again?
42:06Yes. I would. Yeah. I would. Yeah. I'm glad you said that. I was a little bit nervous.
42:13Take it easy. Thank you very much. Bye bye. Bye. Here we go. Let's go.
42:19Yeah I just thought the archaeology. Oh my gosh. Archaeology. Archaeology. I thought that was like super cool. I find it very interesting.
42:32Makes me sound like such a fucking nerd doesn't it? No I mean I'm a nerd too. Uh huh.
42:37Does he want to see you again? Yeah. Did he want to see you? Yeah. Cool. Aw well done.
42:43Joe will be pleased. Joe will be pleased. We could go grab a drink. Yeah. Double date? Yeah. Double date.
42:52I guess you learn how to love from your parents. I think you do but you also learn from books, movies, grandparents, aunties.
43:04Julia Roberts. Yeah. Oh don't. Yeah. Wow. It was as easy as that. Where's my Richard Gere looking husband? That's what we're supposed to have.
43:12Yeah. I'm doing it all wrong. I'm doing it all wrong. Thanks Julia. Yeah.
43:19Do you want it dipping in? Oh dip away. I don't want to wear all this all over you. That's okay. I'm going to bite it.
43:29Nice. Mmm. Mmm. That's really nice. Go on then feed me. Feed me.
43:34Do you not like being fed strawberries on the first day? I don't think I've been fed for so many nappies for me.
43:39Too much chocolate on it. Mmm. Come on.
43:42Right are you ready? I am. Okay let's do it.
43:49Oh you did the whole thing.
43:52I wasn't sure if it went romantically or friendly like. I'm quite bad at reading the kind of vibes so I'm not sure.
44:00Well cheers. Are we going to do it? Cheers. Yeah it's nice. Do we just chuck it down?
44:04Yeah you'll have to get your tongue right in there don't you?
44:07On a first date? Do you want to send it?
44:13Would you like to see each other again?
44:16I'm going to let you answer being the lady and all.
44:20I feel like we should answer together.
44:22If Jenny's after suck it.
44:24I don't think I like it.
44:27I mean I'd see you again yeah.
44:28Yeah definitely. I think we had a really nice date.
44:32Like I say I've not really dated before so.
44:35Definitely the best date I've ever had I can say that.
44:37Oh bless you. That's so sweet.
44:39I'm actually not crazy as a bonus.
44:41I mean I am crazy.
44:43But hopefully like they're funny crazy.
44:45You made me feel at ease.
44:47You got up and you pulled my chairs out and you gave me the princess tree.
44:51It is quite romantic isn't it? Oh how pretty.
44:54How sweet.
44:55Let's go for a drink.
44:57Let's go get a drink.
44:58Alright.
45:00I don't think we'll find any curry goat tonight.
45:03I mean here's hoping.
45:05You have a lot of different aspects to you which is really nice you know.
45:16That's definitely true.
45:17Pretty woman.
45:19I don't believe you.
45:22You're not the truth.
45:24No one could look as good as you.
45:30For a second date.
45:32Second date.
45:34Yeah.
45:35If we were to come back again as a mascot suit.
45:36I'd be.
45:37It's a flammable mascot James Bond.
45:39And I thought you could be a platybus because they're cool.
45:43And they cruise through life.
45:44Oh pretty woman.
45:46And you look lovely.
45:48If we were to come back again as a mascot suit.
45:50I'd be.
45:51It's a flammable mascot James Bond.
45:52And I thought you could be a platybus because they're cool.
45:56And they cruise through life.
45:57Oh pretty woman.
46:07Oh pretty woman.
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