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Step into the iconic First Dates restaurant where singletons meet for their very first blind date. This episode follows new hopefuls as they navigate the awkwardness and excitement of a potential new romance, all under the watchful eye of the cameras. Will sparks fly, or will it be a one-way ticket to the friend zone?

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00:00with all these dating apps that doesn't seem real it's like almost like a card game it's
00:09like you're just collecting people i've just been swiping and nothing there's just nothing
00:16in the heart of britain's most romantic city fred and his team
00:22are matching hopeful singletons in a place where love is always on the menu
00:30mine will always get stuck on my boob shelf these data's how old are you old enough for you
00:37are searching for the one oh my god in the real world
00:43i grace my knees falling for you oh my god
00:50for some stepping into the unknown how are you with your technology rubbish i'm a dinosaur thank
00:56goodness if i want to get in contact with you i have to whatsapp you look at too ahead of yourself
01:02can lead to surprising sparks
01:05i don't know what's going on but finding a connection what's the dynamic here isn't always
01:11easy how big is yours my husband is a bar would you like to meet him
01:17help me in the end all right it comes down to one hello hello big this isn't awkward question
01:30do you guys want to see each other again
01:32this is the first date restaurant
01:45i feel very lucky to have found love and this is what i want for all our daters
01:51i don't think you can get that kind of connection on an app there is no substitute for meeting people
01:56in for your life it's just plain and simple isn't it i think dating is like the right level of
02:02terrifying if i fancied my day i'd probably get a little bit red if i'm honest i hate that sharing
02:10plates saying very much everybody's an energetic being aren't they so like when you really vibe with
02:16someone and you feel their energy and it's going great you just bounce off for each other i like
02:20telling jokes sometimes you're gonna have a job now trying to find my male equivalent
02:29i always say i've got an amazing cleavage while i sit on it
02:34i was gonna get some little lace top knickers and sort of pan round you think it's a pair of
02:38boobs that's not it's me ass you're not filming that are you
02:41more successful with her joking than her dating is 62-year-old pensioner susan
02:54what do you do in your spare time lots of things racket sports and i just still do a bit of
03:02dancing because i still do the splits can you life's too short not to be mad thing is never
03:07to grow up you see we're all big kids really i'm just bigger than most hello hello do you look
03:14radiant in red oh thank you can i get you a drink absolutely yeah thank you very much so how long
03:21have you been single now soon uh well seven years because i lost my husband quite abruptly no well i'm
03:27sorry to hear that the thing i miss about being in a relationship is having that partnership really
03:32having someone to hold hands with and have a good cuddle with really i'm quite an affectionate
03:37little soul really and have you done any dating in that sort of i've had two coffee dates and that was
03:42from my local facebook group one of them turned out to be a brother-in-law to someone that i know
03:47very well and he had a false name whoa right oh right and then the other one was like all right from there
03:57so come on what's what's your type i like a man who's a bit like yourself well groomed sense of humor
04:03sense of humor like a nice bump someone who's intelligent enough to hold decent conversations
04:09with reasonably fit and healthy i don't mind her little love handles oh i was like a man in a suit
04:15actually has he stood me up do you think well sometimes people get cold feet i said to the girl
04:21saying i feel a bit sorry for him spend the evening with me
04:30susan's date is anthony a big believer in the power of positivity i know who i am i love who i am i
04:39love what i do i love how i do it i love my mistakes i love how i learn from my mistakes i am relentless
04:44i'm persistent i'm resilient i could go on
04:49any affirmation for your date oh wow i haven't thought about that that's a good one how are you
04:56i'm great nice to meet you i brought you some welsh cakes no oh that's very kind i got something
05:02for my date as well she's at the bar i can tell she's looking over confidence is sexy isn't it
05:08you walk into a room you know everyone looks some older women have that would you say you've got
05:14that i got that buckets you need to start flirting i'm going to what does real love feel like but
05:21flies in the stomach walking on the cloud smiley when you look at your phone and there's a message
05:26from them so when you hear the ringtone they say oh hello hello hello how are you i'm fine
05:34my hands are cold oh my hands are really cold i bought you some birth cakes oh thank you
05:42you're obviously from wales then i am yeah where are you from swansea no way
05:47oh you've got me's all right so where about so wales do what's the chances do you keep yourself busy
05:58um i do a lot of um sport still do my dance class ballet on a thursday night that's amazing
06:04i do something dancing oh do you are you a good mover then ish oh yeah i keep my heart off so i
06:11played rugby all my life um my brother's used to play for somerset years ago no way back in the 70s yeah
06:17yeah yeah yeah yeah oh my neck is tight today i went to the gym this morning did you i did i worked
06:37that yeah you did i did i was like let's do it i'll do that you know let's do it no please do it
06:43was great it was great and we'll just do one bicep then coffee perfect i love it done
06:4934 year old mark is a content creator from south london but he's searching for a different kind of
07:08social i'm a massive romantic i'm a libra in a coffee shop i'm like like all these bloody
07:14imaginations of just like meeting someone like oh my god i'm gonna go to a library i don't even read
07:18bending down like bumping heads or reaching for the same thing i i can't help it i know i'm so
07:23delusional but that's the sort of love that i aspire to have mind your head oh oh my goodness you
07:30are so tall are you a model oh my no not at all i wish though nobody approaches you no i've never had
07:36like a proper boyfriend i've always like sort of long for like that sort of relationship that
07:41connection with someone i've got a dry mouth thank you how are you i don't know
07:48you seem a little discombobulated yeah all over the place right hoping i get a fuzzy feeling and a
07:53fuzzy feeling yeah you can so what do you do man i am a content creator it's mental like i've been
08:00doing it for over 10 years now and i'm still like pinching myself if i'm matching with someone on apps
08:06and i feel confident enough to be like hey this is what i do they like youtube me and then
08:10i don't hear from them so it would be nice to like oh yeah it's cool you look like a nice guy
08:16let's just like but it's never happened that way are you looking for a girl or a guy by the way
08:20got me you're looking for a bloke yes right um that's my size what's that yeah that's your fuzzy
08:24penis oh i meant like inside but there's a cocktail i thought you'd ask me for oh my god i'll have it
08:31anyway yeah you're welcome yeah manifesting so um what are you looking for i feel like a nice smile
08:37kind eyes and just smell like coming as like a thing yeah someone who smells nice you smell delicious
08:43by the way why delicious thank you so good thank you so much i've been for a day in washington dc
08:54vegas milan and also luxembourg so i'm slowly getting through a few countries cruise ship brand
09:02manager chris has traveled the globe looking for love and he's hoping he can sail into the heart of
09:08his next date dating in the cruise industry it's pretty limited uh the phrase is uh don't screw the
09:16crew nice to meet you very nice to meet you i've got to ask you this are you a romantic yes a total
09:23romantic god i love it it's got an accent i always had a theme for the little mermaid i think i asked
09:31for it for my 11th birthday i don't know how my mom didn't know that i was gay at that age
09:36i think those kind of stories of love something must have sparked my dream is like yeah the total
09:41romantic happy ever after yeah a tall handsome dark stranger fun personality but if someone turns
09:47up to date wearing crocs then it's probably a no-no hello hey how are you thank you i'm good
09:53are you a hugger yeah nice to meet you good you smell great oh thank you likewise so this is yours
09:59if you want fabulous yeah thank you what is it it's a fuzzy feeling great fuzzy feeling so you have an
10:05accent do i yeah south african no oh my god new zealand no i'm actually english okay i lived in australia for
10:1611 years okay so i think i picked up a little twang so what do you do yeah i work for a cruise line
10:23so cruises really that's crazy do you know michelle
10:29surname my house oh yeah sorry yeah of all the michelles in the world yeah yeah i can't pronounce
10:34their last name so do you like a mountain or do you like an ocean or do you like both no summertime
10:41would be a beach and then the winter time in the mountains i've always wanted to go skiing yeah
10:45break my leg or no you're right it's fine well maybe maybe you're just to go to the après skiing
10:49what's that is that when you sit down with it
10:55hi hey angel any feedback on the view everyone loves it and everyone's like who's the dish behind the past
11:01oh i saw that giggle is that a little bit of flirting
11:14oh oh you see that little look back we see you we see your little look back
11:19you look sexy in glasses what yeah thank you no one's ever told me that you don't wait a minute
11:32you eat sporting as well as brilliant yeah so i try and keep fake i've got a triathlon sunday port over
11:39all right i'd like to be able to do it but i was told in my 20s not to jog on a hard surface because i did
11:45a lot of um horse riding when i was young really my knees are sort of like high mileage yeah gosh
11:51well i've been out of the horsey circle for about seven eight years yeah so the thing was i lost my
11:57mum my three horses and my husband all in like three years tripping heck i lost my husband seven years
12:03ago ian was my whole world i met in through the amateur dramatics i think the first show we did was
12:11guys and dolls so that guy had this doll i went away for the weekend he had um a cold which he
12:19couldn't shift when i came back i was really unhappy with how his chest was sounding and his breathing was
12:26so short um i said right in the morning i'm going to take you up to wayne i'm not happy took him up on
12:32the tuesday morning and he died on the saturday
12:34so my life was just empty i can't really remember much about the first two years it was just all a
12:42dark blur really 25 years married oh yeah okay it's hard you know but you cut it out yeah
12:56so i cremated in my last silver wedding but i chose that date because i could remember it for the wedding
13:04not for the funeral so it's like a bittersweet date but i remember it for the good day
13:10i managed to sort of deal with the the loss of my husband and i've actually turned that page now so
13:16that chapter is done so i'm looking to try and start a new one really you never know there might be
13:21someone out there that can come and love me i got a poem for you all right my date's name is soon
13:31she's very pretty it's also very exciting and i can't wait to see until the end of the day to see
13:37if she picks me it doesn't matter if she don't we can always still be friends you can never have
13:42enough until my life end yeah you do like that yeah it's on a little blank on the names
13:47hello hello hello this is such a bright and shiny table i really appreciate it thank you
14:08am i shiny oh okay oh a shiny table yeah she said oh god
14:20so what's your actual history then when did you get divorced 1999 how long we married then six years
14:28all right we just drifted apart really quick i don't really talk about like that side of my life
14:36because i very much moved on it's history yeah yeah you know we had two children i think she just
14:43perhaps she just wanted a family and not a husband maybe my marriage fell apart because we were just
14:50totally different people you know i should have seen that but i didn't
14:54uh but i stuck at it as long as i could and i couldn't cope with her you tough it out you tough
15:00it out and then you come to the stage and you go i've only got one life yeah it's gotta quit that was
15:06hard i have to take responsibility for my actions you can't just blame everybody else and you don't hold
15:15grudges because that's just ridiculous it's a lot of energy to waste holding a grudge is like swallowing
15:20poison hoping the other person today makes no sense i mean i know people that are stuck with it
15:25because they don't want to leave the wife for the kids yeah they've just gone along and not really
15:29unhappy life you only got one life exactly yeah life is not simple anyway and kids make it more
15:37complicated probably when i didn't have but i never wanted children anyway you haven't gone no no no
15:42you're gonna love you fine oh thank you yeah you are they did such a good job matching us every day you
15:52see something i'm like flip it have you ever had a date um a date a day no i've never had a day
16:04have you ever had a blind date before no i think you'll be back in union probably before smartphones
16:08so you know have you or when was your last blind date first one oh wow no pressure yeah yeah i'm
16:13joking that's all right i love it i love a challenge i dated a guy for about seven and a half years
16:18oh okay we had a house we have two dogs we're still really good friends oh that's nice yes that's cool
16:22how about you i had like a couple of situations when you say a situation that makes it sound quite
16:30dramatic or quite bad i'm very dramatic and one of them was quite bad i don't know why it was just like
16:36he just wasn't quite sure of where he was in life and like didn't treat me that nicely yeah yeah um
16:43it was six years ago i think when i cut off completely from someone who at the end of the
16:49day messed me around i definitely was in love with him he was basically saying everything i've ever
16:57wanted to hear from someone but he just never delivered at the time i thought they were out but
17:03i guess they're not it was a case of me just being like i'll wait forever that just shows you're
17:08you're too much of a nice person you shouldn't have to wait for anyone he would make me feel like i
17:15wasn't like worthy i had no confidence i felt very unlovable it was rough i just feel like i'm just like
17:24stuck stagnant i don't want to like have these years where everyone else they are all moving on
17:32i think because for so long i tried to be someone for someone else so now i'm 100 myself i go in
17:38balls deep guns blazing take the first thing i just set out yeah i go in guns blazing
17:45oh god
17:56hello how are you does it feel strange yeah it's very weird this is chris a design engineer looking for
18:10someone special to help sketch out the plans for a future built for two i'm like always on the go my
18:16brain is always on the go my body always wants to be on the go i don't know if i need someone completely
18:21opposite who's a lot of karma who can calm me down because two people with all that energy there might
18:26be a recipe for chaos good afternoon nice to meet you nice to meet you what have you got there i've got
18:31a little gift oh well but tell me you're a very handsome guy surely the girls would be flocking to
18:37you like bees on honey i've not found the right one yet it's more impersonal these days there's no
18:42energy transferred when you're just through a phone it's like you can't you can't feel anything i'm
18:47ready to meet someone who wants to settle down and wants to do life together i've deleted all the apps
18:55i'm leaving it up to fate hi mate you all right how are you doing i'm very good first things first
19:00what would you like to drink something light fruity um hoppy you've got something for me i've got stuff
19:05let me see what i've got and so have you got any hobbies gym hiking sledge pushing like and just the
19:11outdoors i just know that's nice cool and talk to me like so what sort of girl do you want then a
19:16similarly outdoorsy just an outdoorsy girl yeah someone who is up for doing fun things in life
19:22i like pretty eyes is into fitness someone who can run up a mountain with me i mean we can always stop
19:28that i'll fight up i'll bring snacks all hearts katura is ready to fall in love i'm very clumsy i've
19:41been doing a few adult gymnastics classes and cheerleading classes and it reminded myself of
19:47how bad i am at it i went to a competition once and i had to do like a standing back flip and i literally
19:55landed on my head how are you i'm doing well how are you lovely to meet your kids around and you
20:01you know something i recognize this bag why is that you will see in a second okay oh my gosh tell
20:07me do you have much experience in dating no no i don't um i've just come out for 10-year relationships
20:12right i don't really know what i'm doing coming out of that relationship feels like i have a dating
20:18cast that's for sure your date is here there you are thank you hello hello hi you're all right how
20:33are you doing doing really well thank you what's your name it's kachora you look beautiful by the way
20:38you're absolutely stunning thank you thank you what the hell no way what the hell no we've got the same
20:46bag have you opened the bag no no do you want to do it now well i just thought that you might need
20:53a little bit of alcohol after spending two hours with me thank you so much i appreciate that
20:59i got us a disposable camera oh that's so sweet so that we can like take photos just enjoying this
21:04moment yeah that's really thoughtful it's so lovely thank you so much you're welcome where do you live
21:10and where are you from i grew up in milton keen's but i live in northampton now in a village lots of
21:14countryside it's really nice i love it do you love the outdoors yeah i do do you as well i'm obsessed with
21:21the outdoor i can't be in the house for a full day like i'm such a fidget bomb i go crazy
21:26yeah i need to be like doing stuff like all the time oh i love that i love that you can relate
21:31yeah so i totally relate to that hey should i take a picture of you at the bar let's do a selfie
21:37of the three of us okay brilliant
21:44after you
21:45so what about growing up tell me about who you are growing up i was a bit of a weirdo
22:09believe or not okay wasn't into football like a majority of my friends growing up in school were
22:14like mostly like girls and stuff which was amazing found myself at uni it took a while
22:18for me to come out to my parents yeah yeah yeah um but they were amazing totally fine yeah what about
22:24you were you a weirdo i probably was actually i was really shy as a child i think i went to boarding
22:31school did you yeah yeah what was that like i always thought if i had kids i wouldn't send them to
22:37boarding school it was a very traditional schooling system being gay was was not allowed effectively
22:46it was a boys school so there were always you know horror stories of bullying if people were
22:49seen to be even slightly effeminate some of my friends made fun of me effectively so you sort of
22:56boxed that up a bit i didn't really like sports but we had to play it but i remember once we were all
23:00standing on the rugby pitch like once again whenever the ball was like over there i'd make sure i was
23:05far over there yeah at school we were taught you go to school you go to university you get married
23:10you get a job you have kids and you carry on the cycle but that's not where it's all my life going
23:14and then yeah went to uni and came out of uni and it was all fine yeah amazing now i'm getting a bit older
23:20i would like to settle down you know we always live in hope that there might be someone out there
23:25that we can share this with there we go that's me thank you so much thank you so much see in a bit
23:33what's your usual type then do you have a type it's more about personality for me yeah yeah what about
23:38you i'm definitely personality as well okay like funny i think yeah okay sorry i'm not very funny
23:44no no i haven't cracked a smile since yes i'm joking um can you tell while i'm single like stop stop stop
24:03did you know the chef is ifu's boyfriend she didn't tell us no she didn't tell us brilliant
24:15here you are a little surprise for you trio of cheesecake i'm really curious about you doing
24:20the splits what i'm doing splits yeah are you going to show us i can do yeah okay i need one you need
24:26to watch this oh my goodness oh my god
24:34brilliant she's a lovely girl now easy to get along easy to talk to looks after herself it's just like
24:48well done good match do you want something else i'll have a latte please thank you it's a bit like
24:54for you having coffee innit yeah it is a bit yeah you'll be doctor in your room i'm hoping i won't be on my
24:59own hello hello you again yeah me i've enjoyed the day oh good yeah it's been fun would you guys like to see each other
25:14again yes yes i think so oh cool i went well that'd be nice to get to know you a little bit more in a
25:26in a more normal environment well how would you like to pay oh my god go halves no no thank you very
25:33much yeah oh gentlemen thank you very much uh i like your sense of humor how pretty you was again
25:39glamorous i like uh you doing the splits i like you said i said since you didn't you did yeah i've only
25:45got one such of humor i'm always laughing i'm always up for a joke so i don't want some boring
25:51boring or fart it's going to be someone who laughs when i laugh you know and you were laughing when i
25:55laughed yeah so what did you think of your blind date then oh she's lovely was she yeah oh you might
26:04know her mine wasn't bad actually really yeah tall handsome good looking yeah very much so after you
26:11thank you what a gent
26:27it's weird like how technological the world is now like i've been to shops where they don't even have
26:32a cashier anymore like you just have the self-checkout no way it's a completely different world it feels
26:37like the amazon places isn't it yeah have you ever been to one of those like a jungle no that you
26:43know the amazon
26:59okay have you been to the jungle
27:07look at these they are beautiful sparkly sparkly
27:24hi
27:27boardroom boss joe is ready to close the deal only this time it's in the game of love
27:34i deal with a lot of i don't know if i'm allowed to say this willy wavers people tend to think because
27:41of my business that i'm i'm really tough and i can be in business but personally i'm not like that at
27:47all i've got a very soft heart nice to meet you joe thank you what do you do for leaving tell me i'm
27:53i'm chairman of a few companies are you are you a dragon
27:59has been said when my children were little and they had to go to school and say what does mummy do
28:04we'd watch pretty woman and i said look you see richard gear that's what i do and they went into
28:09school and said our mommy does what that person does in pretty woman how are you feeling about your impending date
28:18apprehensive this is a natural feeling so tell me what do you do i do all sorts of things we buy and
28:24sell businesses correct me if i'm wrong it breeds very strong resolute people are you one of those and
28:31men find it frankly scary it's just in my job you have to deal with difficult things yes but you have
28:39to be tough what kind of man are you arguing somebody um interesting and it doesn't feel they
28:46have to compete with me it's actually i'm quite a nice person i'd like to meet somebody i don't want
28:53to be on my own i really do want to dance in the kitchen to nice music watch a netflix film go to the
29:00theater how something to go on holiday with because this is my last chance at this works for you delicious
29:08hi
29:13hoping for a smooth ride on today's date is speed skater keith
29:22speed skate is just going around the ice as fast as you can i've been the the scottish british
29:28european world and olympic masters champion we reach speeds up to about 30 miles an hour
29:34what does that feel like exhilarating i get an absolute buzz how are you i'm super how are you
29:40yeah very good thank you very much have you been doing much dating lately or no
29:43why not i'm just a busy guy are you work involved in a little bit of sport are you good at flirting no
29:50useless and quiet just generally shy i couldn't walk into a pub and just like she looks nice and
29:58go over to talk to her i couldn't do that let's go then enjoy thanks man you're kind of looking for
30:03someone who's unique who is confident in himself certainly a confident woman's gonna be a good
30:09conversationalist hi hello it's nice to me this is kind of bizarre isn't it it's nice to me oh what are
30:18you drinking uh vodka martini i've not even asked your name it's joe joe keith okay so it's nice to
30:24meet you where are you frankie sheffield oh okay do you know sheffield i do i've worked in sheffield for
30:30eight years actually so how come you're single i'm a bit i'm busy what do you do we've all been
30:38ice skating oh right okay are you a skater i've had my moments but it's speed skating not not figure
30:46skating oh okay we could have been told indeed shall i take you to your table sure okay
30:53can i ask you a question go for it how old are you how old do you think i am i reckon you are 32.
31:02i love you uh no i'm 42 42. oh amazing okay how old are you now i'm 29. oh yeah a lot younger than me
31:11how old are you i'm 37. how old are you how old do you think i am i'm gonna say like 25 or 28.
31:17i will take 25. i am 10 years older than that okay yeah so how do your 30s feel tell me wild
31:23do you ache a bit more now yes age is just a number at the end of the day exactly first time
31:31i saw chris i was like blonde bombshell really good looking well dressed smell great definitely
31:37fancied him i honestly have no idea what he was thinking new opportunity will present itself be
31:43ready to seize it what does that mean very culturitous what does that mean
31:48would you like to see each other again million dollar question will you go first i would definitely
31:59like to see you again you would but i've got a preface okay a friend okay like yeah i think you're
32:05really amazing but i would love to see you again yeah i'm yeah i feel sort of the same
32:10how are we six organists yeah thank you yeah super please help me you do not need any advice
32:21uh but i'm gonna give you some anyway no you just need to not apologize no no be yourself all right
32:27you got your lolly oh yeah i must have to get my lolly thank you sorry for like speaking at you so
32:32what do you should apologize oh my god okay i'm not a public i love that i was speaking at you please
32:36do thank you so much thank you so much thank you so much thank you thank you there's a local gay
32:41bar there is is there yeah why not yeah we might meet the love of our lives there
32:49thank you for the order of the cocktails of course it's like yeah very nice catch back yeah
32:53do you know what you guys fancy for food by any chance
33:11yeah just a couple minutes no it's all good thank you
33:14hi hello you are so welcome lovely
33:26enjoy is that what you're supposed to do with chips when it comes in a bowl i don't know if i've done
33:30it right or not i don't know if there's a way is there is there chip etiquette i've never done that
33:34before there you go we were saying that we like home where did it go things on the floor oh my god
33:44save the chip are you a foodie yeah i do usually get a steak when i go out for dinner so i was
33:49hopeful snap i took my son to the farm and we had like a burger for lunch and i was like this
33:54doesn't feel right yeah i've got two sons do you one is just turning 11 and then the other one is six
34:04so how long have you been single for three years okay roughly yeah you must have been together a long
34:09time for 12 years in total yeah so we had two years without the kids and then 10 years since the
34:14kids you have kids you buy a house you do all the things that you're supposed to do and
34:22things are great and then they started to not be great there was always this thing of something
34:29wasn't right but i just carried on because you just carry on just over three years ago driving home we'd
34:35left the kids at my parents because we'd just been to watch a fireworks show and the the tension in
34:40the car was like you could cut it with a knife it was like just this odd ominous feeling i was like
34:45oh something's something's gonna be said here we came home and she sat me down and she said um chris i'm
34:53gay oh yeah i know wild the thought process in my head was what the hell but at the exact same time
35:07it was oh this makes sense it was like this deep fear that the relationship is is now gone but also
35:16a very light bulb moment and like everything just clicked into place has she ever explained it to you
35:22she always felt that way she said she had always been gay that's not like a can we work on it no
35:29that's it there and then it's done and that's your family separated yeah how did you feel it was a
35:36really hard time and i didn't process it for quite a while but i never take away from the fact that it
35:41was a courageous thing like that she did and i can't take that away from her do you know what i mean it
35:46must have been tough because it was tough for her as well and i totally appreciate that
35:52we just get on amicably it was difficult but yeah we had to had to work it out because for the
35:58sake of the kids i don't think i'm there yet i've almost found chris again and that's that's quite
36:05big i think at the end of the day i've got two beautiful little boys from yeah everything has been
36:11with yeah oh what have we got here just whisking up something uh off the cuff bereaper said she was
36:22hungry so oh look at you this is a perfect boyfriend can't help it can i so tell me about this ice skating
36:32then when i was 15 i got a job working at the ice rink in sheffield yeah i saw people speed skating
36:39and i thought i can do that so i organize events worldwide wow you like to travel then yeah yeah
36:48so can i stand so i'm 64 what's the age difference between us well you should never ask a lady her
36:55i lost my husband last year we were married 30 years he was 20 years older than me wow can i
37:01ask him what do your husband die of dementia right he was very poorly for 10 years it was a terrible
37:08time for the last five years of my husband's life i may as well have been single because
37:16there were times when he didn't know who i was or where he was they call it the long goodbye with
37:23dementia you say goodbye a long time in advance yeah suddenly he started to forget things and it just
37:31got worse and worse the man i'd married had been a hugely charismatic person and you see them just
37:39disappearing in front of your eyes what can we do just get with things i don't want to be on my own
37:48i don't want to put myself out too much and then get hurt i just want to have a bit of fun and why
37:56why not you're entitled to it are you a yorkshireman there were you born in your lived in sheffield
38:04virtually all my all my life i did ask for a yorkshireman yeah no i am but it's all it's all intent
38:09yeah so do you have children here yeah so two growing up my first relationship was when i was
38:17kind of young we did in those days but unfortunately through divorce i don't see them oh no yeah it's
38:22pretty sad you have two children and but you don't see either of them i'm very sorry yeah yeah i can't yeah
38:34so i would have been 19 when my wife was pregnant by the year 2000 because of really my sports my work
38:45probably my selfishness the relationship broke down and then um tried and then gave up so it's my own
38:54fault the good thing with social media is you can see your kids and you know where they are and what
38:59they're doing so i know they're both well and both successful so that's good you must miss them
39:08oh terribly but do they have children you don't know how long ago since you've seen them then
39:19four years okay what is going on here it's all my doing why is it you're doing this isn't the sort of
39:27things you should be telling a new day quite like a glass of wine actually
39:45is that nice um
39:51you know um like space like i'm really interested in space like do you ever think about it
39:56no way i'm obsessed really are you actually ryan cox i could listen to him for hours i think i just
40:04miss having someone to offload to and like you know have that i really miss that yeah being able
40:08to watch the show and talk about like what you think is going to happen and a lot of it is just
40:13being in a relationship from so young you're used to being so dependent on someone like we were a two
40:18for like as i was growing up we were together from when i was 17 like a 10-year relationship so we
40:24yeah we were living together we broke up about two years ago and i really tried to fix things for
40:30such a long time i think it's really hard to let go especially when you've got children involved just
40:35i'm sure you can imagine going through a breakup i work full time had a little boy and i had to
40:42sell the house all by myself and buy a new one okay it was really like that's made you very strong
40:48i need to uh believe in myself a little bit more definitely believe in yourself and you're a
40:56beautiful person oh thank you i don't actually have a lot of confidence in myself you should
41:02it just needs a little bit more time i only moved into my new house in october so we're settling in
41:07how are you settling in i've been able to do a bit of diy well you're with the right guy because i'm
41:13very handy why are you so good to me this is actually insane it's so easy it's the easiest thing to do
41:26thank you so much so tell me about you because you've asked me lots of questions do you have
41:35any political views because of the business i'm in what's your business i'm chairman of six companies
41:45and i've written a few books like romantic novels or something no business books
41:52the guy's a nice guy but he hardly asked me anything about myself which i found very disappointing
42:01i went to new york last september and i came back on the queen mary
42:10i mean sometimes my flights are organized for me through your through the skating thing
42:16he does what a lot of men do which as soon as you say something oh i've done that
42:20he'd done it instead of saying well tell me more
42:25with a bell i would like to pay split no no no no no you mean get this are you sure yeah that's very
42:31kind thank you would you like to see him teller again do you want me to go first yes for me i
42:41thought it was a great day and we kind of opened up more to each other towards the end so i would say
42:47yes we were good to meet again to find out more thank you for me i'm afraid it's a no no that's
42:55fine mine says the road to love isn't always smooth but every step teaches you something valuable
43:00mine says you should have split the bill it doesn't
43:03you're a lovely guy but there was no spark i'm afraid really different lifestyles thanks for being
43:11so honest and you it was nice yeah and i wish you all the best oh thank you and likewise thank you
43:21you're gonna pause this yeah yeah yeah you're gonna have to reach that
43:41nothing broke
43:42hi a couple of treats for you oh i love thank you thank you what is that these are prosecco jello
43:50shots have you had a jelly shot for no they're quite hard to get out i'm just pre-warning you okay
43:55you're gonna teach me okay three two one wait wait wait wait cheers cheers three two one
44:00i've just got little herbs you've got a minute all over your lips first impression is just beautiful
44:14her eyes gone her eyes are very attractive
44:22that's gonna be such a good
44:25we seemed to vibe quite well that was the impression that i got
44:28it's gone it's gone it's gone it's gone you've ruined your dress
44:35hi hi
44:45so would you like to see each other again are we are we gonna what we're gonna do are we gonna do
44:50all three or do you want to go first what do you want to do i can go first i'd like to see you again
44:54i was such a relief because i'd really like to see you again too oh okay i'd really like to see you
44:58i had fun i had so much fun yeah it was so nice getting to know you thank you oh this is pretty
45:04how pretty is this i can see that you're such a beautiful person like inside and yeah i'd really
45:12like to get to know you more 100 what was your favorite bit of the day what did you like the
45:18most well the laughs i just love how funny it was i loved how funny it was as well i didn't think we
45:23were going to do so much of a laugh to be honest but it turned out amazing should we take one more
45:26selfie let's do it yeah
45:38can you tweak your buttocks yeah so can i oh yeah
45:43you've got a nipple good oh that's pretty cool
46:04no jetty shorts ever again how bad is the green is it like the herbs
46:08i won't yeah
46:19so
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