Dive into the world of Hustle & Heart - Houston as the series continues to explore the lives of its ambitious characters. This episode delves deeper into their personal and professional challenges, showcasing their determination to succeed in the vibrant city of Houston. Witness the drama and triumphs as their stories unfold.
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00:00Previously, Houston is the Hollywood of the South
00:04and also home of strong black female entrepreneurs.
00:07I'm with the ladies.
00:08We can just be ourselves.
00:09These women have been the epitome of sisterhood.
00:16Ava, don't cry.
00:17I feel like I never went to therapy
00:19just because I feel like I wouldn't have anybody
00:21to understand who I am and where I come from.
00:23But I'm starting to think that maybe I need to do it
00:25because I'm just on a different journey now.
00:28Do you ever feel like you are outgrowing Josh?
00:31Man, I don't think like that.
00:32Alayna, you a baddie.
00:34He's fine too.
00:35Josh is not fine.
00:36You better not talk about my husband like that.
00:40She can never pull the caliber of men that I pull.
00:43Her and I had a conversation.
00:44I think she felt like, you know, you can't pull a man like Josh.
00:58Look at this, Ro.
01:11Look at this, Ro.
01:14Hey, girl.
01:15Hey, Chloe.
01:16What you doing?
01:19Girl, I'm trying to recover from last night.
01:21You texted me last night.
01:22I was like, what is up with Ro?
01:24Talking about you outside?
01:25No, I was in the bed asleep.
01:27Where did you go?
01:29I took my little NBA advice out last night.
01:31Oh, fun.
01:32Ro's my girl.
01:33Say hi to Romeo, girl.
01:34He look like an old man.
01:35He got to get a haircut.
01:36Hey, Romeo.
01:37I feel like I can connect with her.
01:38Because she don't put on a show.
01:40She not putting on a facade.
01:41Like, Ro is Ro.
01:43And that's what makes me love her.
01:47At the rodeo, girl, Latoria told me at the bar,
01:49she said that, apparently, Elena said something like,
01:52basically, Joshua would be caught dead with someone like me.
01:55Huh?
01:56I was like, how I went from,
01:57because I said he wasn't fine, to this.
02:00Not attacking me.
02:02Ain't that crazy?
02:03Like, where did that come from?
02:05Yeah, I was speechless, too.
02:06Girl, no, she did not say that.
02:08She did.
02:09She really felt the way about that.
02:10That's taking it too far.
02:12Saying that Chloe isn't good enough for Josh,
02:17it's just a low blow to me, and I don't like it at all.
02:20But yeah, I was shocked.
02:21I was like, well, damn, where did my looks come into this?
02:24Like, me saying he wasn't fine went to now I want him,
02:27or might want him, or he don't like a woman like me.
02:31To me, that feels like that's her insecurities.
02:33You know what I mean?
02:34Like, that's the insecurities of their relationship,
02:38and is screaming.
02:39I don't even know if I'm going to bring it up to her.
02:41Like, I just want her to see me with my man.
02:43You definitely shouldn't bring it up.
02:44Because why are you talking mess behind my back?
02:45She should have said it to your face.
02:47What I said was to her face.
02:48Like, he's not fine.
02:49I just don't get why everybody just can't say
02:51how they feel in the moment.
02:52Some people think that I'm an asshole,
02:53because I say stuff when it comes to my brain.
02:56And maybe I am.
02:57Who cares?
02:58Well, at least I got it off my chest.
02:59I think if you don't nip it in the bud,
03:01it's going to be more whispers,
03:02and you're going to start hearing more stuff,
03:03and it's just going to get worse.
03:04You're right, so nip it in the bud.
03:05If not, you might, you know, get extra angry the next time.
03:08And this time, you're pulling it off.
03:10Yeah, I might spaz the next time.
03:17You can live a life so fabulous.
03:19All day, all day, so fabulous.
03:21With the one you love, so fabulous.
03:24With the one you trust, so fabulous.
03:26Hello.
03:30How nice to see you.
03:32I'm here for Labrina.
03:34So today, I shut down the spa.
03:35I invited some of the girls to get a very private
03:39and exclusive wellness experience with us at Xscape.
03:43Xscape Spa has come from a small beat-down building
03:48in the inner city of Houston to now in the suburbs in Cypress,
03:53Texas, where we have 6,000-square-foot space
03:57with all modalities of massage, corrective skin care,
04:01oxygen treatments, in contrast, bathing.
04:05Today is a day for relaxation, so I did not include
04:08Alaina and Chloe because we don't want that kind of energy
04:12in a relaxing setting.
04:14You look cute.
04:14What all have you done today?
04:16I had a couple of meetings, but luckily,
04:18it was around the house, so that's what I was like.
04:20And then I knew I was coming to the spa,
04:21so I didn't want to get, like, super dressed up,
04:23still be cute chic.
04:25Your girl is giving cutesy, okay?
04:27Not cutesy.
04:28I'm not 5.
04:29Well, you look about 11.
04:33Not too much.
04:34That's a compliment.
04:35No, I do look young, but 11 is not a compliment.
04:38It's not?
04:39No.
04:39So let me see.
04:4011 plus 11.
04:4122.
04:42There you go.
04:42That's better.
04:43There you go.
04:44I know I look young.
04:45I get it.
04:46But I'm a grown woman.
04:47You get to escape from your-
04:49Well, hey, boo!
04:50Hey!
04:50How are you?
04:54How are you?
04:55Girl, I'm so proud of you.
04:56This is boring.
04:58We're going to go this way.
05:00Come on, girls.
05:00Come on, come on, come on.
05:01Come on, girls.
05:02Come on.
05:03Come on.
05:04Come on.
05:05Come on.
05:06Come on.
05:07Come on.
05:08Come on.
05:09Wow.
05:10Oh, wow.
05:11This is nice.
05:12Girl, we still in Houston.
05:13That's why it's called Escape Gate for a reason, honey.
05:14Make you feel like you're somewhere else.
05:1520 out of 10.
05:16Manira and Rose.
05:17Y'all are getting ready to get y'all experiences with us.
05:20Bye, y'all.
05:21Bye, y'all.
05:22Have fun.
05:23We will.
05:24I do have a lot going on in my household, so I'm ready to get a massage because your girl is tired.
05:30Libriena.
05:31You ain't doing that.
05:32Like, for real.
05:33I walked in and I was like, okay, my girl wasn't playing.
05:37Like, she owns a spa.
05:39Elegant, luxurious spa.
05:42Make an appointment.
05:43Period.
05:44Exclamation point.
05:46I appreciate that.
05:47But I want to talk about you.
05:49Aw.
05:50The rodeo.
05:51Okay.
05:52Who was that man that walked up?
05:55Latori.
05:56What's going on, girl?
05:58Hey, how are you?
05:59How are you?
06:00How are you doing?
06:01Girl, let me tell you something.
06:02So here's the funny thing.
06:03Like, I have worked with him for years because he works in news.
06:07So a lot of my clients' stories, he's covered them.
06:11But I've never seen him without a suit-on.
06:13Like-minded industry.
06:14Sure.
06:15Change, change, change.
06:16You know?
06:19Have you followed up with him?
06:20What's been going on?
06:21We text a couple of times.
06:23My ultimate desire for a guy is more spiritual than anything, right?
06:28I want to have a guy that covers me in prayer when I need it.
06:32I'm single.
06:33I'm not desperate.
06:34Let me be very clear.
06:36It's two different things.
06:37I'm not letting you off the hook.
06:38Cool, child.
06:39Is it the jacuzzi got me a little-
06:42It's him.
06:43It's him.
06:44Girl, stay out.
06:45It's him.
06:46Got you hot and bald-ed.
06:47Oh, hot, nasty, and bald-ed up here.
06:50It's been three years.
06:51Girl, I know her cool guy called Williams.
06:56They just tangled and fighting one another.
06:59Let's dust that cat off and call him.
07:01Oh, God.
07:02Never dust the cat off.
07:03Okay.
07:04Child, let me just call him.
07:07I can't wait.
07:08Let me turn my heel on.
07:09Okay.
07:10Yeah.
07:15Coming up.
07:16Um, I heard something.
07:18Lettoria, she's like, stuck up single.
07:21What's the next milestone for you?
07:23Like, 20 would be huge.
07:25What I've gone through and dealt with?
07:28With Josh.
07:29Just wasn't enough.
07:43Child, no matter the third one year, I hang up.
07:45Mm-mm.
07:46Yo.
07:47Hey.
07:48Hey.
07:49What's going on?
07:50Nothing.
07:51What are you up to?
07:52I'm at work.
07:53What's up with you?
07:54Uh, nothing much.
07:55I was with a girlfriend earlier today, and I was like, you know what?
07:58I need to check in and see how did you enjoy the rodeo.
08:01I know you had a little bit of work to do.
08:03It was a good, good little date, you know, away from some of the unusual news that I cover.
08:08So...
08:09Listen, and I know you cover a lot of heavy news, breaking news stories.
08:14I feel like you probably need a drink or happy hour or something.
08:18So maybe we can meet up for happy hour soon.
08:22Oh yeah, for sure.
08:23What are you thinking?
08:24Um, maybe like this weekend.
08:26What does this weekend look like for you?
08:30This weekend I'm supposed to be going out of town.
08:32Oh.
08:33But next weekend, oh, my birthday's April 7th.
08:37So the weekend in between that, like the 20th, I should be around.
08:40Okay.
08:41Well, yeah, let's definitely set up something.
08:43I'll text you and you just let me know what your vibe is, where you want to go.
08:48And some birthday drinks, you know, get the pregame started for your birthday.
08:53Oh, yeah.
08:54I'm always down for that.
08:55Okay.
08:56Sounds good.
08:57All right, cool.
08:58All right.
08:59Have a good time at work.
09:00All right, Victoria, take care.
09:01All right, you too.
09:02Bye.
09:07Can we get a yee high up in here?
09:10Okay.
09:11I feel like the call was decent.
09:13I don't really know what to expect.
09:15I'm interested in seeing what Devon's follow up is going to be.
09:19I could probably be the breaking news story in his life.
09:22Come on, bartender.
09:24Can I get a refill?
09:26She'll do the wine.
09:27I'll just do the charcuterie board.
09:29You want a what type of board?
09:30Charcuterie board.
09:31You heard her.
09:32She heard it.
09:33A poochie broad.
09:34Okay, gotcha.
09:35Oh, you know we have cold press juice too, Monira.
09:37Yeah, give us some apple juice.
09:39So cold press juice.
09:40We talked about this last time.
09:41Charcuterie board.
09:42Where you had one more time.
09:43A charcuterie.
09:44Something about some apple juice.
09:45What do you want to do?
09:46Before I start going in.
09:47What go in?
09:48Let's go in.
09:49Let's go in.
09:50I'm here to have a good time and hear Latoria go again.
09:53Making a comment about how I look young and calling me apple juice because of the fact
09:58that I don't really like drinking like that.
10:00Red, orange, green.
10:01Which one?
10:02Don't say apple.
10:03It's starting to get on my nerves.
10:06Okay, I got a nice surprise for the Hungry Heroes.
10:11We appreciate you.
10:12We in Italy.
10:14I need a pickle.
10:16Oh, you need a what?
10:18Hold on, pause.
10:19You need a what?
10:20A pickle.
10:21To virginities.
10:26I truly, truly am happy that we all got a chance to do this together.
10:35I did not invite Chloe and Elena because I wanted this to be a good vibe.
10:40But there does need to be a moment where we all get together.
10:44I truly think that we need to come together and just have a good time.
10:48Let's do swimsuits, pool, music, good energy.
10:53We can even invite the guys.
10:55Norm, he coming.
10:57You think he'll come?
10:58Yeah, he should be available.
10:59I'll check and see.
11:00I also want Elena and Josh to come.
11:03Okay.
11:04Chloe and Jordan better still.
11:06And they better come on point.
11:07Is Jordan coming?
11:08If it's a guy's thing, that's the only person we know that she'll bring.
11:12I heard something.
11:13Me and Chloe had a conversation on the phone the other day, right?
11:16And she told me that one of the ladies told her that Elena was kind of talking a little mess about her.
11:23And one of the ladies is here right now.
11:26Lettoria.
11:27Me and Elena?
11:28I don't consider it a mess.
11:32When Elena was at my house, she legit said that Chloe talked about Josh not being fine.
11:39And she said, Chloe can't get a man like mine.
11:44And that's just what was stated.
11:46So it's not mess.
11:47It's...
11:48This is a plot twist, baby.
11:49I was trying to go to Kumbaya and we have just went to Sin City.
11:53I think we all need to acknowledge there's a defense wall up with Elena.
11:59That probably has nothing to do with us.
12:01I'm a no drama type of girl.
12:03And I really just want Chloe and Elena to figure it out.
12:07Maybe they could go to friendship therapy.
12:10So if we was to shift gears from them, let's talk about...
12:15Latourious call.
12:17Well, LaBrina didn't tell you, but while we was in the jacuzzi, she kind of challenged me to call.
12:23The rodeo guy.
12:24The whole issue.
12:25We're going to happy hour soon for his birthday.
12:28When last time you had sex?
12:29It's been three years.
12:30Child.
12:31She said she a child of God.
12:33Manelia.
12:34Manelia.
12:35A child of God for me.
12:36You knew me saying that.
12:37I said it once.
12:38You said it a couple times.
12:39I said it once.
12:40I said it once.
12:41Okay.
12:42Twice.
12:43We have this amazing dinner at Hudson House.
12:45It's me, Ro, Chloe, LaBrina, and Manelia.
12:49Out of nowhere, Ro starts talking about sex.
12:52Ro asked me, like, what am I doing?
12:55Like, am I dating?
12:56Do I got a man?
12:57And she digs deeper.
13:00Do you have toys?
13:01Do you do this?
13:02And I'm like, girl.
13:03I don't do toys.
13:05I just be out here.
13:07Dried up.
13:08Like nothing.
13:09Celebrate.
13:10So I tried to deviate and say, hey, girl, I'm a woman of God.
13:19I don't really talk about that stuff.
13:21Not here.
13:22Not over this raw sushi.
13:24Ro is an open book.
13:26But sometimes you have to close the book and leave the library.
13:29Like, this is me.
13:30I'm a woman of God.
13:31And, you know, I don't do those type of things.
13:33And I'm like, girl, you done.
13:35You done did something in your day.
13:37You said you made me feel uncomfortable.
13:39Okay, how I make you feel uncomfortable.
13:40Because I feel like I can't be myself.
13:42Like, I have to kind of like watch what I say around you.
13:44Because like, are you going to judge me?
13:45That's crazy.
13:46Because when you stand 10 toes down on who you are, you could be yourself wherever you go.
13:50No, no, no.
13:51It's not about that.
13:52It's not about that.
13:53It's about me making people feel uncomfortable about how I talk.
13:55You know, you can never make me feel uncomfortable with how you talk.
13:58I just don't normally talk about sex.
14:00That's just not my thing.
14:02You know, with the Southern Bell and me,
14:08don't really talk about sex a whole bunch with a whole bunch of people.
14:13Like, I don't know.
14:14That's kind of sacred for me.
14:15We got to talk about sex.
14:16I ain't have any, so what is there to talk about?
14:19Yeah.
14:20Coming up, you have that resting, you know what, face.
14:26All right.
14:27Well, I get it.
14:28And?
14:29It came off as bully.
14:30It's been a lot going on.
14:31Right.
14:32Do I need to remove myself from the fingrew?
14:43Romeo, I can't believe it's your birthday.
14:46Romeo don't have no friends, y'all.
14:48So I'm inviting Latori over.
14:49I feel like she would understand because she's a dog mom.
14:52So we're going to celebrate this birthday.
14:54You look cute.
14:56Where you going?
14:57Where you coming from?
14:58I'm going to meet up with some friends afterwards.
15:00Oh, nice.
15:01Yes.
15:02Where y'all going?
15:03To the spa again?
15:04Girl, don't do that.
15:05Let me take my shoes off.
15:07I'm taking it personally that I wasn't invited to the spa,
15:10because I'm like, wait a minute.
15:11I've been dying to go to the escape spa,
15:13and y'all went without me.
15:15Because of the issue between me and Elena.
15:21We need some wine.
15:22Please.
15:23Is red okay?
15:24I know that's red.
15:25You know that's what I drink.
15:26Come on, red.
15:27Labrina, you owe me a spa day.
15:29So what happened to the old boy from the rodeo?
15:32Well, when I was at the spa, I talked to him on the phone,
15:35and Labrina was like, flirt, girl, flirt.
15:37What did he say?
15:38I was like, well, you know, when are we going to grab a drink
15:41or something?
15:42And he was like, well, you know, next week I'll be out of town,
15:45but the week after that's my birthday.
15:47So that's like two weeks away.
15:49I feel like, where's the urgency?
15:51Baby, I'm talking like tomorrow.
15:52Like, what we doing this week?
15:54What we doing?
15:55Girl, I'm going to stick to my little young man and...
15:59No, that's...
16:00Because it's too much going on.
16:01So let me tell you something.
16:04We're at the spa.
16:05We all chatting, and Ro goes,
16:08I kind of feel like I can't be myself around you.
16:11Ro said that?
16:12Yes, and I said...
16:13As open as you are with her?
16:15Chloe, when I tell you, I just, I'm like, okay.
16:19I said, well, why?
16:20She was like, because that night we all went to dinner.
16:23The conversation was sex, right?
16:25I just don't openly talk about sex.
16:27Yeah.
16:28That's just not me.
16:29So my way of deviating, I was like, Grandma, what would've got?
16:32And I just started laughing, and then we went on to the next conversation.
16:35Ro tells me that because I said I'm a woman of God...
16:40Like you were judging her or something?
16:42Yeah, like...
16:43These some sensitive women, baby.
16:44Chloe.
16:45I ain't never been no women more sensitive than these.
16:48Baby, more sensitive than my eczema.
16:50Do you hear me?
16:51Yes, like, what is going on?
16:52Ro and I are two of a kind.
16:54We don't care about what other people think.
16:56So I am very shocked that she feels like she can't be herself around LaToria.
17:00LaToria is the most easy-going person to get along with.
17:03Wow.
17:04Okay.
17:05If you want to talk about your sex life, I'm all ears.
17:08First up, I told you I hadn't had sex in three years.
17:10Yeah.
17:11That was big of me.
17:12Oh, I'm sorry.
17:13No, child.
17:14Help me, Lord.
17:16Oh.
17:18Baby.
17:19You know?
17:20So that was that.
17:21And I was like, no, like, be yourself.
17:23This is what our friend group is supposed to be about.
17:26So I thought, for me, it really took me back to, like, my childhood where, when I was in school, I couldn't hardly say anything.
17:34Because anything I would say, whether it was funny, whether it was true or whatever, it came off as bully.
17:38You know why?
17:39Yeah.
17:40Because I was the big girl in the class.
17:41And that looked aggressive.
17:42And it's like, whoa.
17:44You know, growing up, being dark-skinned, being a bigger person than most that's in the room, you have to kind of fine-tune your words.
17:53But as I've gotten older, I've healed.
17:56And I don't want to step on eggshells around people.
17:59I want to just be myself and be understood.
18:02To be amongst friends and to not be received and to be misunderstood, that also makes me feel some type of way.
18:09It's just like, ooh, okay.
18:12There's been a lot going on.
18:13Why?
18:14Do I need to remove myself from the friend group?
18:16No, you're not going nowhere.
18:17You can't please everybody.
18:18Oh, and I won't.
18:20For real.
18:21And you mean well every time.
18:23Oh, you know what I mean well.
18:24Like, it's...
18:25Ain't no shade in your...
18:26No, you can be a little funny.
18:27You know, it's funny, but it's like nobody wants to see me turn it up a notch.
18:32I thought Latoya was a woman.
18:33I thought she was classy and cutesy.
18:36Surprise!
18:37Surprise, bitch!
18:38I gotcha!
18:54Hello!
18:55Hello!
18:56Hey, girl!
18:57How you been doing?
18:58Everything good?
18:59Yeah!
19:00You want some juice?
19:01You want something else?
19:02Some apple juice?
19:03Some apple juice?
19:04You crazy!
19:05When she come over here, I'm going to have some apple juice.
19:06Girl, that's going to be too funny!
19:08And be like, here you go.
19:10Like, I promise, I'm so fun.
19:12Like, I don't really take a lot of stuff.
19:13I know you are.
19:14I don't take a lot of stuff personal.
19:15But when we were at the spa, the little comments kept coming out about the way I look.
19:20I get it.
19:21I do look young.
19:22It's the fact that every single time I see you, you're talking about, oh, girl, you look
19:2711 today.
19:28You look 12 today.
19:29Or, get her some apple juice.
19:31And it's like, okay, the joke is done.
19:33Like, move on to something else.
19:34Right.
19:35I'm a bigger girl, right?
19:36I've been taller.
19:37And my butt's been big my whole life since I was probably, like, 12.
19:40You know?
19:41So I've always had to deal with people saying, oh, oh, my God, your butt is so big.
19:44Or, oh, my God, you're so tall.
19:46And it's like, okay, like, what else?
19:48Right.
19:49Like, I get it.
19:50My butt's big.
19:51My breasts are big.
19:52I'm tall.
19:53Whatever, right?
19:54The opposite of that is someone telling you all the time that you're small or that you
19:55look young, right?
19:56It's like, it could be a trigger that might, maybe not even like a trigger, but something
19:59that makes you be like, all right, well, I get it.
20:02And what else?
20:03Right.
20:04Subconsciously, I don't know.
20:05Maybe I'm irritated because when I was working in a workforce, I have to keep proving myself
20:09because the fact that I look so young and I have authority over a lot of people, and
20:14they can't get past that age that I look like.
20:17And a lot of times, they end up talking to me like I'm a child, even though I'm a grown-ass
20:21woman.
20:22So, hearing Latoya referred to me as a child, and it was just something I just had to let
20:26her know, okay, girl, that's enough.
20:28That smile you just had, you probably did that smile when you told her that, too.
20:31Y'all be saying I be making faces, and I just be looking like, what are y'all talking
20:33about?
20:34How you don't know the faces you make?
20:35I don't know.
20:36And guess ma'am, you make faces.
20:37You're right.
20:38Do you have that face that we all told you that Reston, you know what face?
20:43RBS?
20:44Yeah.
20:45Is it bad?
20:46Sometimes.
20:47You just have this face that you're like...
20:48What's the face look like?
20:49Show it to me.
20:50Let me see.
20:51Right?
20:53Coming up...
20:54This is your first time coming to therapy, right?
20:57Yeah, this is my first time.
20:59The thing is, with you being the way you are, it is going to move away those people that
21:04are being inauthentic.
21:05You never know when the chips gon' fall.
21:06It's why you gotta roll, why you gotta roll to the wheels for love.
21:12I realized after talking to Muneer that, I mean, all of us have triggers, right?
21:19And I have never been to therapy in my life.
21:34But a lot of the ladies have recommended therapy for me.
21:37So, yeah, I'm like, well, maybe they telling me something.
21:39Maybe this is God talking to me.
21:40God trying to tell you something.
21:42So, I asked Elena about her therapist, and I just went ahead and booked.
21:46Hello.
21:47I'm broke.
21:48Nice to meet you.
21:49Come on in.
21:50Take a seat right here.
21:51I still was apprehensive about it, but, you know, I'm just on a different journey now.
21:54You know, I just want to actually, like, step outside my own box and do something different
21:57to help myself.
21:58So this is your first time coming to therapy, right?
22:00Yeah, this is my first time.
22:01How are you feeling today?
22:02You know, a little uncomfortable, but I'm here, you know.
22:06All right.
22:07Well, just know that everything we talk about is up to you.
22:10I'm not going to force you to talk about anything you don't want to talk about.
22:13If you do feel uncomfortable, or you feel like, hey, I'm not ready to talk about that,
22:17just make sure you let me know.
22:19This is for you.
22:20This is tailored to you, and I want you to be comfortable as much as you can, okay?
22:24Okay.
22:25What is it that you hope to gain from this experience?
22:29Like, the type of stuff I go through, I feel like, it's like, who do I talk to about
22:35in my regular life, in my business life, in my, like, even my mentors.
22:39Like, it's just, I think it's certain things I go through that I just don't have nobody to talk to it about.
22:43Because, like, you're always so busy, you always put everybody before you.
22:46Just, who do you talk to?
22:47But you just said you put a lot of people before you.
22:50Mm-hmm.
22:51People see what you're doing.
22:52People see that you are sacrificing yourself all the time.
22:54Do you understand why you do that?
22:56Do you know where that comes from?
22:58I just put everything before me all the time, and I never really known that I did that until I was sitting in therapy.
23:07I just, I always take everything on the, on the chin and just keep moving because, I mean, it's like, I'm not able to have feelings, you know?
23:18So, when it comes to work, my career has been before everything.
23:22I can feel it right now.
23:24I can feel that your energy is like, I compartmentalize my life, like, over here.
23:28This is work.
23:29This is, you know, motherhood.
23:31This is being a family.
23:33And you keep them very separate.
23:34I do, yeah.
23:35But they all mesh.
23:36And when they're meshing together, it sounds like it probably makes you very uncomfortable.
23:41My relationship with Sophia was in a bad space because it's me sacrificing time with my child for my career.
23:47Even times I come home and I'm stressed out, Sophia says, I'm like, Sophia, get out of my face.
23:51Leave me alone.
23:52Like, I just need some time.
23:53And then I think to myself, damn, she ain't saw me all day.
23:56I go and I'm like, baby, can you hear me?
23:57I'm sorry.
23:58Like, me is telling my child sorry.
23:59See, but you telling her you're sorry.
24:00Yeah.
24:01Yeah.
24:02Because I can't even remember a time anybody ever told me sorry in my house.
24:05You know what I'm saying?
24:06Growing up.
24:07Realizing, like, the love and the forgiveness and even the fact that you telling her sorry at this young age is something that's going to be permanent for her and for the rest of your life.
24:15So you're inserting these things in her that you never had.
24:18You are trying to break what has happened to you as best as you can.
24:22I've been through a lot in my life and I don't like to trauma dump on people because I feel like I go through more than anybody else around me, right?
24:31And I don't want my life to affect the people around me.
24:33I don't want anybody to get hurt from that from being around me.
24:35I just just try to just keep everything to myself.
24:38And in this moment, I'm thinking to myself, like, wow, I'm burying myself and all my problems when I could just talk about them.
24:47In therapy, you want to live your authentic self.
24:49You got to practice that in every single space, especially with your daughter, because you are the first picture of a woman for her.
24:58Right.
24:59And she's learning from you.
25:01So if you are constantly taking on and putting on different hats for different groups, she's going to learn to do that.
25:06She's going to learn to mask.
25:08So this feeling authentic, it probably feels like you shouldn't be doing that.
25:13Like, uncomfortable?
25:14Yeah.
25:15Yeah, sometimes.
25:16Like, even with the group of ladies that we have, like, I had a conversation that day.
25:18I was like, I feel like I'm the eyeball out of everybody, right?
25:20Mm.
25:21Like, I don't have anything to hide.
25:22Like, my life has been on Front Street for years now, right?
25:25So, like, I can't even hide if I wanted to, honestly.
25:28Because of that, I'm more comfortable with being who I am truly and not trying to hide and, like, have this mask.
25:33Mm-hmm.
25:34And when I have conversations with the ladies sometimes, I feel somewhat uncomfortable because I feel like I'm being myself and this is who I am.
25:41And you're like, well, this is just how I am.
25:44Like, I just, you know, like, it's like a thing.
25:46And, like, that's what makes me feel uncomfortable with the girls.
25:48Like, not all of them.
25:49But, um, there's Latoya.
25:51She's a publicist.
25:53And, uh, she's single as well.
25:55But she's, like, stuck-up single to me.
25:57What do you mean by that?
25:58Like, we were talking about sex one day.
26:00She was like, oh, I don't do that.
26:01I go to church, and I'm a woman of God, and I felt like she was judgmental.
26:05That's a moment.
26:06See, because the thing is, what I'm trying to help you see is you being yourself is, like, a gift to other people.
26:11But the thing is, with you being the way you are, it is going to move away those people that are being inauthentic.
26:18You'll make inauthentic people uncomfortable.
26:20Right.
26:21I do feel like everything I say is, like, I have to, like, watch what I say because I'm being super real.
26:28And everybody else is being, you know, they have their mask on.
26:32People try to live up to what people want them to be and, like, what they think they should be.
26:37But you got to take that mask off sometime and, like, just be yourself.
26:40I want to have you challenge yourself in the next couple weeks.
26:44You tell me about this group of ladies that you're around.
26:46And when you're with them or when you're talking with them, find yourself in them and connect with that part of them.
26:53Find yourself in them.
26:55And it's going to make each relationship authentic but really tailored to you.
27:04Coming up.
27:05Oh, this is Jordan.
27:06Y'all never met Jordan.
27:07I forgot.
27:08Jordan walked in.
27:09All the ladies.
27:10Jaws dropped to the floor.
27:11Merry ones and all.
27:12You have a tendency that I've noticed every single time I come around is, oh, you look 11.
27:17Oh, you drinking apple juice?
27:19And you start saying it consistently over and over again.
27:21I said it twice.
27:22You said it way more than that.
27:23No, no, no, no.
27:24It was every, no.
27:25Am I tripping?
27:26Oh, yeah.
27:27It's going to plan.
27:28All is everywhere now.
27:29It's going to plan.
27:30My night was cool.
27:31I don't need lights on the road.
27:32I party at home.
27:33So who all you have coming?
27:34All the girls.
27:35Ro, Chloe, Elena, Manira, Latouria.
27:39I'm inviting the ladies over for just kind of hanging, kicking our feet up, bringing our spouses
27:53together.
27:54Little East tension.
27:55And baby in Houston, we love crawfish.
28:03How it's coming?
28:04How long we got?
28:05How long we got?
28:06It smell good.
28:08Hey, girl.
28:09Oh, look at you.
28:10We're getting fired.
28:11Hey, y'all.
28:12Girl.
28:13She sounds so cushy.
28:17How's it going?
28:18Look at you.
28:21Hi.
28:22Hey, y'all.
28:23Hey.
28:26Where's your drink?
28:27We a couple today, so we are plus one right here.
28:30Not for long.
28:31It's okay.
28:32It's actually nothing wrong with being solo.
28:34Uh-uh.
28:35No.
28:36One husband, two husbands, three husbands.
28:37Y'all got three friends somewhere.
28:40Hey.
28:41How y'all doing, Chloe?
28:42Hi.
28:44Y'all look bored.
28:45The party's here.
28:46We can turn up.
28:47Now we look bored.
28:48Uh-uh, girl.
28:49You late.
28:50At least you married gifts.
28:51Right.
28:53So I'm like, oh, okay.
28:55This is her take on what's fine to her.
28:59Hmm.
29:01Y'all right?
29:02I guess.
29:03What did I miss y'all?
29:04What y'all been doing?
29:05We just was waiting to see if Jordan was fine tonight.
29:07What y'all think?
29:09Yes or no?
29:10The verdict is in?
29:11What is it?
29:12Oh, we already know he's fine.
29:14Let them cancel.
29:15Chloe arrives with her boo, and I will say I had nothing bad to say about him.
29:20I love a little vanilla chocolate moment.
29:22Okay, Chloe.
29:23I see you.
29:24I see you.
29:25Chloe.
29:26You did good.
29:27I did good.
29:28You did good.
29:29You did good.
29:30You were a publicist, baby.
29:31You've been around the best of the best, so I know you know.
29:34Okay, Chloe.
29:35I get it.
29:36I see why you acting the way you do.
29:37He's looking like a Nubian prince.
29:39Tall, dark, handsome chocolate.
29:41Girl, he look good.
29:42Y'all eat yet?
29:43Not yet.
29:44We was waiting on you.
29:45They over there, baby.
29:46They done cooking.
29:47You so late.
29:48When Jordan walked in, all the ladies' jaws dropped to the floor, baby.
29:52Merry ones and all.
29:53Elena, y'all look like a photo shoot.
29:55You're glowing, right?
29:56Am I?
29:57You're glowing, like...
29:58It's the sun.
29:59I'm sitting towards the sun.
30:00No, no, it's you.
30:01You're glowing.
30:02I hadn't seen you smile like this, and it warms my heart.
30:04So let me ask y'all this, because I know y'all been together for a while.
30:08Mm-hmm.
30:09Chloe does weddings.
30:10Would y'all ever think about, like, renewing y'all vile?
30:12What do y'all think?
30:15This is super awkward.
30:17Elena don't want to engage in this type of activity.
30:21We know what she's going through.
30:23We cannot put them on display like that in this very moment.
30:27Like, do better, guys.
30:29We gotta do better.
30:30The next huge milestone.
30:32Yeah.
30:33I thought you was about to say next week.
30:34Damn!
30:35Leave it alone!
30:36Latoria, you over here talking about, you know, you're a woman of God, and you like,
30:40you got a little devil in you.
30:42Girl, mind your business.
30:43Come on.
30:44What would be the occasion for next week?
30:46What's the next milestone for you?
30:48Um, I mean, to be honest with you, like, 20 would be huge.
30:52For you.
30:53Okay.
30:54I get a big vow renewal at a major milestone, but what I've gone through and dealt with,
31:01I think I would want my spouse saying immediately, just wasn't enough.
31:07Hey, I got some good news, y'all.
31:08The conference are ready now.
31:09I ain't gotta tell me twice.
31:10I see y'all over here.
31:11Oh, my gosh.
31:12That looks so good.
31:13That's a good note, y'all, baby boy.
31:14Oh, my gosh.
31:15This food is top notch.
31:16I didn't get this for a number.
31:17Yeah.
31:18You so fancy.
31:19You just poured on the table.
31:20How y'all found him, Lebrina?
31:21He do all of our crawfish balls.
31:22Oh, my God.
31:23For past years.
31:24Yeah.
31:25Yeah.
31:26Yeah.
31:27Oh, my God.
31:28Oh, my God.
31:29Oh, my God.
31:30Oh, my God.
31:31Oh, my God.
31:32Oh, my God.
31:33Oh, my God.
31:34Oh, my God.
31:35Oh, my God.
31:36Oh, my God.
31:37Oh, my God.
31:38You so fancy.
31:39You just poured on the table.
31:40How y'all found him, Lebrina?
31:42He do all of our crawfish balls.
31:44Oh, my God.
31:45For past years.
31:46Thank you for having us out here, too.
31:47Yeah, thank you.
31:48Y'all so welcome.
31:49So, not to be off topic, but I want to go back to what we were talking about initially.
31:55And Josh mentioned, like, at the 20-year mark.
31:57Why not at the 15?
31:59Because for the 10-year, we were supposed to go to, like, South Africa.
32:02Yeah.
32:03And it was COVID.
32:0420 years ain't guaranteed.
32:05You know what I'm saying?
32:06And your 20-year renewal, the stuff I done been through, I feel like don't put anything
32:11off for tomorrow that you can do today.
32:13Like, you ain't got to do nothing fancy.
32:15Girl, I got married at the courthouse in a Fashion Nova dress.
32:17I ain't mad at it.
32:18It was about love.
32:19That's it.
32:20I'm happy that Josh has decided to go to individual therapy, but I hope that Josh understands
32:25the level of effort that I need in order to move forward.
32:28But I honestly feel like I've been in the same space for a very long time.
32:31I want to reach with him.
32:32We got married in Jamaica.
32:33Girl, they went and went viral before.
32:35It did, before viral was a thing.
32:37You had destination, right?
32:38Our win was beautiful.
32:40We got married in Napa.
32:41Y'all had a lot of people there.
32:43The Negroes and Neggets was in Napa, baby.
32:46It was crazy.
32:47Y'all look like money out there.
32:48I love it.
32:49But that was the thing.
32:50They knew how to still.
32:51It was a standard.
32:52Your standard.
32:53My girl got a standard.
32:54The standard is the standard.
32:55Right.
32:56The standard is always the standard.
32:59And if I marry Jordan, it's going to be the same thing.
33:04Chloe, would you be ready to marry him?
33:11I'm ready to be married again tomorrow, if I could be.
33:13I love being married.
33:14Okay, slow down.
33:15I care about Chloe.
33:17Man, that man's so intentional about me, child.
33:19He's...
33:20Yeah.
33:21We see.
33:22Considering everything that's going on, you know, Chloe has been through a tremendous amount
33:28of grief.
33:29Losing a husband is crazy.
33:30Raising your kids by yourself.
33:32Intense.
33:33I need to make sure that Jordan's MO is in the right place.
33:40Like, what's your intention?
33:41We got married when we were 23, 24.
33:44So we understand that there could be maturity there.
33:47But where I am right now, I can't imagine dating someone younger.
33:54Right.
33:55Just simply because...
33:56Don't knock it till you try it.
33:58But I'm saying, I've always dated older.
34:01Since I started dating, everybody I've dated has been older than me.
34:04So dating younger was never my thing.
34:06I'd be like, a young dude can't do nothing.
34:07I think me personally, I'm just not...
34:09I'm serious, so...
34:10Me too.
34:11I mean...
34:12I don't know.
34:13It...
34:14Just the thought of it, but everybody's in their own phase at different times.
34:18But talking to me, would you think I was 28?
34:21I would have.
34:22I would say like 25.
34:23You know, I was 25?
34:24You thought he was 25?
34:26That's a compliment.
34:27I mean, but...
34:28Damn.
34:29When I looked at him, I was like, this boy ever been a 33.
34:32You definitely get mature.
34:33It's a beard.
34:34Yeah.
34:35It's a mature vibe, but it ain't a bad vibe.
34:37Yeah.
34:38Yeah.
34:39You thought 25?
34:40There's guys like that in high school.
34:42That look like that.
34:44Elena, we are not in high school.
34:47That's a grown ass man.
34:49We don't play games.
34:51The End
34:52The End
34:53The End
34:54Are you gonna drink today?
34:55You chill?
34:56Nah, I'm chill.
34:57Come on.
34:58Jordan, let's talk.
34:59Let me see if this guy is good for Khloe, just to make sure it's not all just six and games.
35:14Chloe speaks so, so, so highly of you.
35:17Mm-hmm.
35:18And I'm just basically trying to see
35:20if you, like, feel that same way about her, too.
35:23For sure, without a doubt, yeah.
35:24And you could see yourself with her, like, in the picture.
35:26Yeah, like, I didn't cut out everything for her.
35:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
35:31Mm, it's tasty.
35:32Where is Jordan?
35:34Like, I mean, I'd be crazy to, like, just sit up here
35:35and try to waste her time, waste my time.
35:37I mean, she didn't brought the kid into my life.
35:39I didn't brought my kid into her life, you know what I mean?
35:41So it's like, it's like, I feel like we're on a different level.
35:44Oh, I was looking for Jordan.
35:45Y'all good?
35:46Yeah, I'm just trying to make sure he value you
35:49like you value him.
35:50Like, he wants you.
35:51Take care of it for me, LaBrina.
35:53Yeah. OK.
35:53OK.
35:55LaBrina's kind of tough, so in the back of my mind,
35:59I'm a little worried, but I'm not worried, if you will,
36:01because I know LaBrina has my best interest.
36:03So she gonna make sure that Jordan is ready for this ride.
36:06This is not like a play toy, just a girl.
36:09Like, you could see family.
36:11She want to have more kids.
36:11I know she do, yeah.
36:12It's just the age thing.
36:14That's the main thing.
36:14We had that conversation, so.
36:16Well, I mean, judge, the judge is finished.
36:20I think Jordan has good intentions for Khloe.
36:24Do I think he will be able to execute those good intentions?
36:28Probably not, because he's 17 years younger.
36:31He hasn't lived enough life.
36:33I don't know.
36:34We will see what happens.
36:47I sold.
36:48I started therapy.
36:49Oh, good.
36:50Because that's all y'all told me I needed therapy.
36:51Right.
36:52Girl, we got to fix some stuff.
36:53I'm sure you feel, do you feel better after you went?
36:57Yeah, it was cool.
36:57She, she.
36:58You like her?
36:59I do like her.
37:00Like baby?
37:00Y'all want to know what my homework is?
37:03It's about y'all.
37:05OK.
37:05OK.
37:06What?
37:07Do I want to say what happened in my session?
37:09Yeah.
37:09This is the same thing.
37:11So.
37:11No judgment.
37:12I'm telling like how hard it is for me to have female
37:14relationships.
37:15Then I said stuff I always felt like I was something weird
37:17about y'all, too.
37:18Not everybody, but some people.
37:19My homework is to figure out what each one of y'all have
37:23that I, I guess, like, can connect with.
37:26Can connect with?
37:27Aw, beautiful.
37:28I like that.
37:28Yeah.
37:29Let me just say, I feel like you're opening up more.
37:31And even, you know, the other day at the spa when you was
37:33like, so I just, I just gotta let you know I feel like you
37:36holier than thou or whatever the case.
37:38That's obviously some, a part of you opening up.
37:40It made me feel like, like, I can't be myself.
37:43Like, if I say this and she gonna be like, well, girl, the
37:45Lord, I'm like, I love the Lord, too.
37:46Had I ever said that?
37:48I never said the Lord said anything to you.
37:50No, no.
37:51You've opened it.
37:51Right.
37:52No, but you said, you made a comment one day, like, I'm,
37:54I'm a, what you said?
37:56I said I'm a woman of God.
37:57A child of God, that's what it was.
37:58No, I said I'm a woman of God.
37:59And so the reason I say it was, it was a joking thing.
38:02Like, I know, cause you know, we can learn each other.
38:03Right.
38:04So I was like, should I not say this stuff?
38:05But I laughed.
38:06I don't remember you laughing.
38:08I remember you be like, girl, I'm a child of God.
38:09Girl, no.
38:10I'm a woman of God, stop it.
38:11No, never that.
38:12I don't want to make nobody feel uncomfortable.
38:13No, I'm not.
38:13That's my thing.
38:14If I was uncomfortable, I would tell you.
38:16Oh.
38:16Like, like how I told Chloe, like, I think you made Elena
38:20uncomfortable.
38:21Oh, yeah, yeah.
38:22I did, yeah.
38:23Speaking of uncomfortable, just how you corrected her when she
38:26said a child of God, and you was like, no, I'm a woman of God.
38:29But you have a tendency that I've noticed every single time I
38:32come around is, oh, you look 11.
38:35Oh, you look 12.
38:36Oh, you drinking apple juice?
38:38And it's like, the first couple of times, it was okay.
38:41Like, key, key, key.
38:41We both laughing about it.
38:43But when you start saying it consistently over and over again.
38:45I said it twice.
38:46You said it way more than that.
38:47No, no, no, no.
38:48It was every, no, you said it multiple times.
38:50At the end of the day, I'm not 11.
38:53It's okay that I don't drink alcohol.
38:54It's okay that I choose to drink juice.
38:56It's definitely fine.
38:56But what I'm saying is, when you consistently have a comment
38:59to say, oh, you drinking juice today.
39:01Oh, Mania gonna get the apple juice.
39:03After a while, it's like, can you come up with another joke?
39:06You get what I'm saying?
39:07I won't come up with no jokes with you.
39:09This is not to say that you can't joke.
39:11What I'm saying is, you didn't stop after it was said, though.
39:14That's all I'm trying to bring to your attention.
39:16You said, I don't look 11.
39:18And I said, okay, double 11, 22.
39:20That was still a compliment to you.
39:22We don't have to go back and forth about the details.
39:25But what I'm saying is, you're saying it's a compliment.
39:27So the tone that you spoke, that's coming across the shade.
39:31Am I tripping when, if somebody gonna tell you,
39:33oh, you 11 today.
39:34We can agree to disagree,
39:36because I'm kind of done with it.
39:41It gets tiring having the same conversations with her
39:43over and over again.
39:45And no matter what I say,
39:46I feel like she just doesn't get that.
39:49Y'all go to the bar.
39:50We're gonna go to the bar real quick.
39:50Right.
39:51Let's go to the horses.
39:54Girl, bye.
39:55I'm not with the attack, Latouria.
39:58So can I, let me tell you my opinion of my body?
40:01She's a smaller woman.
40:02Right.
40:03She does look younger than she used to, you know,
40:04then she doesn't look like she's close to 40.
40:06No, she doesn't.
40:07But you don't know what she went through
40:09as her being a small woman.
40:10Like, people say, maybe she looks,
40:11she probably dealt with her whole lifetime of, you know,
40:13she looked, now that she's older, it's a compliment.
40:15Maybe when it's her growing up, they want to compliment.
40:17Yeah.
40:18You know what I'm saying?
40:19So you don't know what it triggered in her
40:20to make her feel like that.
40:21You know what I'm saying?
40:22Girl, I hear everything you're saying.
40:24That's all I'm saying, that's all I'm saying.
40:25That's the point I was trying to make up.
40:26So if it's a, I just won't do it no more.
40:29No, Tori, I don't want you to shut down.
40:31No.
40:31You've drunk two girls, right?
40:33Yep.
40:34Let's do a shot first.
40:34Let's do that.
40:35I don't want you, I want you to do this.
40:36No, that's enough.
40:37No, you're saying you want to do this.
40:38This is enough.
40:39I'll take a shot with you.
40:40But you know what I'm saying?
40:41I want y'all to actually, like, get an understanding of it.
40:44Because I feel like I go through this too.
40:45Me and Manira was on a good page.
40:46I feel like Manira saw a target, and she went for it.
40:54Next time.
40:55How I feel about you, now it's going to be the same in 15.
40:58You sure about that?
40:59Now what if Nico still live with me?
41:01You can't keep providing for him.
41:04You do not like being called cute.
41:05It's not the word.
41:06It's not the word.
41:07I'm being for real right now.
41:08No, you don't like the word.
41:09OK.
41:10I know I look young.
41:11But you don't.
41:11She's just like, ugh.
41:14We want to bring a new friend, and we want to ask her a question.
41:15We can ask her a question.
41:16I'm here for all the questions, because I have the receipts.
41:19This right here, this is crazy.
41:20You printed this out.
41:21Bitch, it's no weird.
41:22Bitch.
41:22Yeah.
41:23Bitch.
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