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In this episode of Ready to Love, singles continue their journey to find lasting romance. Tensions rise and connections deepen as the participants navigate challenges and emotional revelations. Who will find their perfect match and who will be left heartbroken?
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00:00Previously on Ready to Love...
00:30I don't really see myself having kids for, like, four or five-ish, like, years.
00:36If you would have said that early on, honestly, then I would have never got this close to you.
00:41Yeah.
00:45I felt the magic happening right there.
00:49After doing deliberations, we don't feel like you're ready to love.
00:53I know it took me some time to get to the place that you wanted me to be.
01:02But now I'm ready.
01:05I'm ready.
01:07To love.
01:08Can't do it like me, can't do it like me, can't do it like me, yeah, yeah.
01:22Can't do it like me, can't do it like me.
01:23Let's go.
01:24How you doing, all right?
01:25Pretty good.
01:26What's up, Cam?
01:26Cam?
01:27What up?
01:27What up?
01:28Usain.
01:29What's up?
01:29Chey.
01:30Yo.
01:30What's up, man?
01:31Going into this final week, I was a little relieved.
01:34Talking to Kiera, we had a great conversation.
01:36We got to the bottom of a lot of issues that we had.
01:39Then there was four.
01:40Look at it.
01:41Hey, this is close.
01:42I've been.
01:42I feel like I'm touching now.
01:44But we got to this point now where it is singled out to four of us and five women.
01:49Oh, yeah, it's getting intense now.
01:51All right, gentlemen.
01:52Y'all been nose deep in the book of love.
01:54Yeah.
01:55And we ride around the corner from graduation.
01:57Ready to put the cap and gown on?
01:58Yeah.
01:59Go to task list.
02:01We almost at the finish line.
02:04And it is time for some tough choices to be made.
02:07One thing that might help you all in your final decision making is this week's assignment.
02:12And this is a big one.
02:14This week, you will be introducing your connections to your loved ones.
02:19That's right.
02:20Your family.
02:21And we all know if you need an opinion, your family got plenty of them.
02:26Yeah.
02:27I have three connections.
02:28Rose, Sahara, and Angie.
02:30But I'm definitely excited to introduce them.
02:33I know that we're at the end of the process.
02:34So hopefully they can give me, like, the final clarity that I need in order to make my decision.
02:39End of the week.
02:40We're going to meet back here one final time to figure out exactly where we are.
02:45So call Big Mama, Junebug.
02:47Peanut.
02:47Peanut.
02:48Yeah.
02:49Whoever it is that's going to help you decide if she is the one.
02:52Right.
02:53And I will see y'all soon.
02:54Man, y'all chilling.
02:55Y'all don't need to worry about nothing.
02:57Cam, you can't take all them girls home.
03:00That can be but one.
03:01Hold up.
03:05Watch this.
03:06We're going to get it started.
03:07Welcome to the party.
03:08Nobody stay quiet.
03:09Here we go now.
03:11We ready.
03:12Turn it up now.
03:13Welcome to the party.
03:13What's up, man?
03:14How you?
03:15I don't know.
03:16What time you supposed to be here?
03:17You know I'm always a little late.
03:19Today is the day Kiara get to meet my family.
03:22My mom, my dad, my aunt, and my cousin.
03:25You're here today because y'all going to get to meet the infamous Kiara.
03:28Get a feel for her.
03:29Yeah, my vibes will kick in.
03:30Your vibes will kick in.
03:31I value my family's opinion.
03:34My parents been married for 25 plus years, so that's a perfect example of a healthy relationship.
03:40Can't wait to meet the girl that got your attention.
03:42Exactly.
03:43My attention span is short.
03:44Short.
03:46Babe, okay.
03:47Babe, why you sneak up behind me like this?
03:49Oh, y'all started without me.
03:50Hi.
03:52What's up?
03:53The men are in power this week, and I am so nervous.
03:56This is my cousin, Reese.
03:57Hi.
03:58Hi.
03:58Nice to meet you.
03:59My pop.
03:59It has been years since I've met someone's family.
04:03I'm scared.
04:04I'm nervous.
04:05Don't need to be there.
04:06Don't need to be there.
04:07Jay explained that his behavior at the getaway between him and Sahara was a mistake, so we'll
04:12see if he has gotten his behavior together.
04:15I bragged about you before they came, so.
04:17You say all this stuff?
04:17Yeah, you already know.
04:18How long y'all been together?
04:22A little while.
04:22A little process.
04:23What's a while?
04:24It hasn't been that long.
04:25Oh, so you don't know it yet?
04:27Yeah.
04:29How are you with your family?
04:30You close with your family?
04:31I'm definitely close to my family, so I'm the only child on my mom's side.
04:36Oh, Lord, she got the only child syndrome.
04:37Oh, so you kind of spoiled then?
04:41Very spoiled.
04:42A little brat.
04:42Yeah, yeah.
04:43He was, too.
04:44Yeah, I was about to say, he was.
04:46He was.
04:46I was about to say, he was.
04:46All right, yeah.
04:48So how long was your last relationship?
04:50Like 12, 13 years.
04:51Together?
04:52Yes.
04:52Your last relationship ended because?
04:55It was a lot of infidelity.
04:57Not on my part.
04:58That'll do it.
05:01Listen.
05:01You said a lot.
05:02Auntie don't play, okay?
05:04So you believe in long-term marriage, though?
05:06Yes.
05:07I'm not that old, but I'm older.
05:09Well, if anybody that old, I ain't neither.
05:13Everybody has a funny auntie that's going to say whatever.
05:17She want to say out her mouth, and that's who she is, and I love it.
05:20So you have any questions for us?
05:22Y'all feel like he really ready to, like, be in a relationship again?
05:26The way he look at you, I see that look in a while, cuz, so that's what it is.
05:30She can't stop smiling every time I'm talking to her.
05:32All right.
05:35What's going to be your next conversation?
05:36When y'all are together, say.
05:38We got to get the kids together.
05:39He has two, I have two.
05:41They're not far apart in age.
05:43So it's kind of just to try to, like, blend the families to kind of see if that works.
05:48Introducing the kids would be a major, major step.
05:50The only thing that has me hesitant is the argument that we had at the getaway.
05:55That's the only thing that's keeping me tread lightly.
05:58You know, I keep it transparent, so.
06:00I was telling them about the trip.
06:01Mm.
06:03Oh, she said, mm.
06:04Should we hear her side?
06:06Yeah.
06:06What was the side he told y'all?
06:08I can tell you if he told the truth.
06:09He was having a conversation with another young lady, and their legs were intertwined.
06:15She was rubbing his legs.
06:17He started massaging her neck, and I'm like, you don't see me standing right here.
06:20Oh, wow.
06:21Okay.
06:21How would you feel if it was turned around, and a dude was rubbing her head?
06:26Yeah.
06:27Yeah.
06:27Yeah, you want any type of story like that, huh?
06:29I told it.
06:30She said, hey.
06:31So what did you do?
06:32What did you do?
06:33Did you get upset?
06:33Cut me off.
06:34I just stopped talking.
06:35He did try to talk to me, and I was like, no, I don't really want to hear what you got
06:39to say.
06:39The only point is I can give is that in the blink of an eye, everything you built up
06:44can be gone, because you didn't communicate.
06:47It's just only when I'm mad.
06:48And you're going to get mad through any relationship.
06:51That's right.
06:52I made you mad?
06:52I made you mad.
06:53Oh, absolutely.
06:54I don't remember that.
06:55Oh, my God.
06:57Oh, but you know, if you shut down when you get mad, or if you do something, it's like
07:01doing from day one.
07:02You've got to communicate.
07:04Yeah, I'm working on it.
07:05I'm working on it.
07:06I'm not perfect.
07:07I realize that that is one of my flaws.
07:09It's not going to happen overnight, but it's a work in progress.
07:13I have to go check on these kids.
07:15Okay.
07:16But it was so nice to meet them.
07:17Absolutely.
07:18Me and Jay's family, I definitely think that they liked me.
07:22They were really embracing me, so now I feel like we family now.
07:25I'm not a stranger anymore.
07:27What y'all think?
07:28Thumbs up.
07:28Thumbs up.
07:29That's what?
07:29Yeah, she was good.
07:31Y'all got little issues, y'all, she's willing to work that out.
07:34Only flaw that I think she has right now is, you know, you just can't shut down.
07:38You know me.
07:39But she admitted it.
07:40She admitted that something she have to work on.
07:42That's probably my only concern.
07:43I think communication is key in any relationship.
07:45I believe that me and her has a better understanding that we need to communicate, but I think we
07:50still need to work on how to communicate.
07:52Nothing's smooth all the time.
07:55You're going to have them bumps.
07:56I'm going to provide them.
07:57I'm going to provide them up.
07:58I don't live a ordinary life, and you ain't never dimming.
08:07What's going on?
08:09I know y'all like, why the hell I got y'all here today?
08:11Good.
08:12The time is the time, and this week, I'm going to have Rose meet my brother, George, and
08:15also my cousin, Gerald.
08:16So today, I'm going to have y'all meet Rose.
08:18Okay.
08:19Me and her had great conversation.
08:21She's into what I'm into.
08:22Right.
08:22Y'all paying your account?
08:23You ready?
08:24We ready.
08:24We all here for it.
08:25Yeah.
08:26Hello, hello.
08:27Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, here's Rose.
08:29Hi.
08:30Check you out.
08:31The lavender.
08:32Thank you.
08:32I'm excited to meet Hussein's family.
08:34This is my brother, George.
08:36Hi, brother, George.
08:37Just to see what type of family I'm going to have to get myself involved with.
08:41Nice to meet you.
08:42Hi, cousin.
08:43During our getaway, my connection got stronger with Hussein, but like I told Kim, anything
08:48can happen the short amount of time that we have left.
08:51So tell us a little bit about yourself.
08:53I'm from Philly.
08:53I am one of eight siblings.
08:55You close with your family like that?
08:56My best friend is actually my sister.
08:59I know that's kind of weird, but...
09:00No, I look at my brother as my best friend, so...
09:02See, so y'all get it.
09:03Y'all get it.
09:04How many relationships you been in?
09:05In my adult life, I would say three.
09:07How many of those?
09:08I use the L word.
09:10The L word.
09:10All right, one.
09:11Only one?
09:12We were friends for 13 years.
09:14Oh, wow.
09:14We got together.
09:15We tried to make it work.
09:16Okay.
09:16And I learned that I ain't know nothing about this man.
09:18I ain't like it.
09:20You got a connection with anybody else?
09:21I do have another connection.
09:23Okay.
09:23Nowhere near on the lines of where me and Hussein is.
09:27Okay.
09:27And the other person knows that.
09:29All right.
09:29Oh, yeah.
09:30So, what's up?
09:31Tell me about Hussein.
09:32What type of man is he in a relationship?
09:35He's maturing now, so you picked him at a good time.
09:37Emphasize on now.
09:39Yeah.
09:39Bro looking forward, you know, to me getting married and settled and stuff like that.
09:43He's just seen all my trials and tribulations.
09:45I'd rather be with a man who has gotten everything out of his system first.
09:49Any kids?
09:50I do have a 17-year-old son.
09:52And he plays ball.
09:53He would definitely check on.
09:54But, no.
09:55I got this.
09:55I got this.
09:56Any more kids?
09:57Absolutely.
09:58I want to know, child.
09:58So, how's your relationship with your son's father?
10:00I don't have one.
10:01Oh.
10:02You know, he knows who his father is.
10:03I know who he is, but, yeah.
10:05Do he have a relationship with him?
10:07So-so.
10:08Oh, so-so.
10:08His father is now incarcerated.
10:11We didn't talk about that, but his dad is incarcerated.
10:14It ain't my business.
10:15Boom.
10:16This was a bomb.
10:17You know, when I heard that, my heart was just like, it sank.
10:20When he called, he speaks to his son.
10:21I don't even know.
10:22Yeah, my son's 17.
10:24He do his own thing.
10:25Rose and I have built trust, and I'm just not sure if I could continue to faith in that
10:28after hearing this information for the first time on a date with you meeting my brother
10:32and my cousin.
10:33I was really confused at that point.
10:34But, um, single mom from day one.
10:38How's your relationship with your son's father?
10:42I don't have one.
10:43His father is now incarcerated.
10:46You know, he knows who his father is.
10:47I know who he is, but...
10:49Rose sharing that information about the ex with my brother.
10:51I don't think she know how heavy this bomb was.
10:53When he called, he speaks to his son.
10:55I don't even know.
10:56Yeah.
10:56My son's 17.
10:57He do his own thing.
10:58Yeah.
10:59Hey, y'all.
10:59Oh, hey, girl.
11:00Hey.
11:01No wonder why we had another share.
11:03Darn it.
11:03Today, I'm meeting Hussein's family.
11:06I'm excited about that.
11:07How you doing?
11:08Good.
11:08It's my brother, George.
11:09However, our connection is a little shaky.
11:12But after the getaway, Hussein did call to apologize about not spending very much time together.
11:18So I'm going to see what happens today.
11:21Angie, what you doing?
11:22For a living or for fun?
11:26So I work for a non-profit during the day.
11:28I am getting my license as a therapy.
11:30And, yeah, during the night, I'm a bartender.
11:32Oh, come on.
11:33Got to make the coins.
11:35Got to get the bags.
11:36You got a connection with anybody else?
11:38I do.
11:38With Cam.
11:39We actually have the same connection.
11:40Yeah, how funny is that?
11:41Oh, man.
11:42Yeah.
11:43Battle.
11:43We battling.
11:44Yeah.
11:44So y'all in a battle.
11:45Any kids?
11:46I do.
11:47I have a son.
11:48He's nine.
11:49Oh.
11:49Best thing I ever did in life.
11:51Man, I want some more kids, so.
11:53But I don't know.
11:53That's, I don't know.
11:54I'm 40, so I don't know.
11:56How far removed are you from your relationship?
11:59So it's been eight years.
12:00Okay.
12:00But we great parents and, like, cool parents.
12:02Great cool parents.
12:03Cool parents.
12:03Absolutely.
12:04I'm a, you know, she like to take care and do and do and do.
12:08Okay.
12:09And nurture.
12:10I'm going to tell you this.
12:11I've been big dog.
12:12And I'm always, like, for my family.
12:13Like, I don't know no other way.
12:15You got siblings?
12:16I have six brothers and four sisters.
12:18Oh, wow.
12:19I'm a big family.
12:20You're having a baby.
12:21I like being a baby.
12:22I have a relationship with everybody.
12:23Every five weeks.
12:24So I have brothers, sisters, parents.
12:25We good.
12:25Christmas is crazy.
12:27There's not enough pajamas for us to all match.
12:29Oh, wow.
12:30With all the kids.
12:31That's awesome.
12:32I have yet to do that.
12:32I'm looking to participate in pajama matching.
12:35So, Angie, what's your connection, like, with Zane?
12:37You know, we started late in the game.
12:38Oh, all right.
12:39Recently, we was just away, and he spent a lot of time with Rose.
12:43What strengthened that connection with us was he did say,
12:46you know, afterwards, like, you know what?
12:47We are going to spend some time.
12:49And, you know, he apologized.
12:50Right.
12:51And I love that.
12:52What is your top thing that you like about Hussein so far?
12:55I'm spicy, as you can find to tell.
12:57So I need that common spirit sometimes,
12:59him being able to leave.
13:00I said on my little crazy ass damn.
13:02On that note, I would love to stay and chat with you guys,
13:06but I do have to go.
13:08His family, they probably could tell him
13:10they see me as wifey material.
13:12Let me say bye to cousin brother.
13:13So I'm leaving this date even more happy
13:15than when I first walked in.
13:17Nice meeting you, Rose.
13:18Much love, baby.
13:19Nice meeting you.
13:19Same here.
13:20All right.
13:21Bye, y'all.
13:23I thought I was going to like Rose more than her,
13:26but I actually like Angie more.
13:28Yeah, yeah.
13:28Yeah.
13:29After meeting Hussein's family,
13:31I feel like I don't have to be anyone else but me.
13:35That feels really good.
13:36And I'm waiting for Hussein to wake up
13:38because enough is enough.
13:39We do have a strong connection
13:41and this is a good thing.
13:50I've made a connection with someone.
13:52We got past my situation
13:54and now that's more of a concern
13:56because it's like...
13:57Hi.
13:58Oh.
13:59How you doing, beautiful?
14:00Hey, babe.
14:01Today I'm meeting the school's sister.
14:03I'm definitely nervous going into this date.
14:06How you doing, Angelica?
14:07Nice to meet you.
14:07I'm not sure if she already knows the T on me
14:10or something like that,
14:11but I praise all good vibes, so we'll see.
14:14This place is pretty nice.
14:15What was y'all talking about?
14:16You.
14:17Oh.
14:18I didn't really get to meet a lot of his girlfriends,
14:20so you're like almost a first.
14:22Oh, okay.
14:23Yeah.
14:23So how was he like in his past relationships?
14:26Um...
14:27No, no, no, no, no.
14:29Don't be going to talk in that Spanish now.
14:30I don't know what you're saying.
14:31No, no, no.
14:32He's really reserved and guarded.
14:35He is guarded.
14:36So what are you looking for?
14:37I'm looking for a long-term committed relationship,
14:41you know, that leads into marriage,
14:42and I want to have children.
14:43I can't wait to see Big Brother walk down the aisle.
14:45Seeing him walk down the aisle with his lovely bride,
14:49maybe you or someone else,
14:51is a dream for both of us.
14:53Did he tell you about my concern with him or...?
14:55He dibbled and dabbled.
14:58So we were, like, further along in the process,
15:00um, you know, some things started to come up.
15:02You know, the car and the house,
15:04and all I could think about was, like, stability.
15:07The issue is me kind of foreseeing it take place,
15:10and I'm just like, well, where do I fit in that?
15:12Seeing Tay's apprehension to my stability,
15:14I thought we were past that.
15:16In an ideal world, yes,
15:17it would be nice to not have to prove anything
15:19to the person that you're trying to build with.
15:21So I was just in a state of disappointment.
15:23My dreams and aspirations, like,
15:25I tried to keep a positive outlook.
15:27I feel, like, when I hear you having your concerns,
15:30I become solution-driven.
15:32Those minor concerns can be addressed,
15:35and they can be fixed.
15:36Even though, like, you know, I do have concerns,
15:38what drew me back was I see someone
15:41who's very inspiring and caring,
15:44a great man who's very kind and gentle,
15:48and that's why I have been attracted to you.
15:52Well, I like you.
15:54Thank you.
15:55Just sitting here talking to you,
15:57I feel like there's an organic connection.
15:59Don't worry about the little bumps in the road.
16:02Just learn how to communicate and get through it,
16:04and hopefully one day I'll get up a wedding invitation.
16:07You ain't supposed to be liking her like that,
16:09you know what I'm saying?
16:09What do you want me to do?
16:10You're supposed to give her a gut punch or something,
16:13you know what I mean?
16:13You told me to be nice.
16:15At the meeting in Angelica, I feel good.
16:17Well, it was really nice talking to you.
16:19Same here.
16:20This is the second interaction that I had with his family
16:23that reaffirmed he is a good guy,
16:25so I know what I'm getting myself into.
16:35Steppin' up, yeah, we steppin' up, yeah, yeah,
16:38steppin' up, yeah, we steppin' up, steppin' up.
16:40Bro!
16:41Yo, yo.
16:42How are you?
16:43I'm sorry, so I'm good.
16:44This week, the assignment from Tommy
16:45is to introduce our connections to our family.
16:48Sahara has been my ride-a-die-dye,
16:50but I have connections with Rose and Angie as well.
16:53Who's your favorite?
16:54Well, that's what I'm trying to figure out.
16:56Tiff has been there with me through every relationship,
16:59and Rihanna, I'm like a father to her,
17:02so they know who would be a good fit for me.
17:04Hey, y'all.
17:05What's up, Angie?
17:06Hi, nice to meet you.
17:07I'm Rihanna.
17:08Today, I'm meeting Cam's family.
17:10I'm excited about that.
17:11How you doing?
17:12Doing good?
17:12Yeah, I'm sure.
17:13Okay, cool, cool.
17:14The only thing that is concerning
17:16is Cam and I had a disagreement.
17:18You bust the window before?
17:20Yes.
17:20Oh, you should never let somebody
17:21to that point.
17:22You play with me, I'm playing with you, too.
17:24So, I just hope Cam and I
17:26focus on what's beautiful about our relationship.
17:30How y'all doing?
17:31Hi, what's your name?
17:32Hi, Rihanna.
17:33Hola.
17:33Coming by.
17:34Hi.
17:35How are you?
17:36Hey, it's the three amigos yet again.
17:39Come sit right here.
17:40Sit right here.
17:40Sit right here.
17:41During our getaway,
17:42Cam came to me and said
17:44he wanted to put in the work.
17:45You know, he's been calling me more,
17:47texting more.
17:47I do see that.
17:48But he just got to make a selection.
17:51So, what do you want yourself?
17:52I do home health care.
17:54I have no kids.
17:55You want kids?
17:56I want kids now.
17:57I look young, but I ain't young.
17:59Right now, I'm working to get my license in therapy.
18:02Oh, that's all.
18:02I deal with a lot of group therapy, teen moms, marriage.
18:07I'm a hairstylist.
18:08Oh, that's right.
18:09So, I'm an actual lawyer.
18:09Your hair is cute.
18:10I do have a 17-year-old son, who is the bomb.com.
18:13And I like Cam.
18:14That's why I'm here.
18:15That's the most important reason.
18:16That's the most important reason.
18:16Yeah.
18:17With him being a firefighter, it's a great job, but it's also at a risk as well.
18:21Yes.
18:21So, how do you kind of cope or deal with it?
18:24The fact that he's a firefighter alone just tells me he's willing to put himself to a side
18:27and focus on someone else.
18:29So, I love that.
18:30I respect it.
18:32We're going to practice making kids every time you leave the house.
18:34I'm going to tell you that I love you every single day.
18:37The way that you said that you really respect his job, I really appreciate it because the
18:41love that you have is...
18:43He needs that.
18:43He needs somebody like that.
18:45Yeah.
18:45I'm like, you're not saving the world today.
18:47Yeah, every time you sex me.
18:49Yeah, yeah, yeah.
18:49You're not saving the world today?
18:50Okay, all right.
18:51I told him that I was coming to the fire station.
18:54I was going to be in the parking lot.
18:55AKA stalking.
18:56AKA that's a lie.
18:59So, question for you ladies.
19:01What do y'all feel like is Kim's biggest flaw?
19:05He's stubborn.
19:06Yeah.
19:07You don't need to answer that too fast.
19:09How do you feel like you'll navigate that?
19:11I think everything's funny.
19:12So, we're not going to bed mad either.
19:14I don't care.
19:15We have to have angry sex.
19:17You got chores?
19:18Cool.
19:18I got mine.
19:18Let's go to bed.
19:19You know?
19:20I witnessed him being stubborn.
19:22You know, he was mad.
19:23He was upset.
19:24She talk about busting windows out somebody's car.
19:28I'm growing.
19:29I went to him being able to set aside everything to say, you know what?
19:33I really want to know what's wrong.
19:34And I think that that's how we would probably deal with his stubbornness.
19:38If I'm trying to elevate my voice, he's not matching it.
19:41Right, right, right.
19:42So, in return, it's making me less of a yeller, which is great.
19:47Because I'm known to get loud a little bit.
19:51So, did you have a question for us?
19:53You was around for all the relationships.
19:55Like, what exactly did you witness?
19:59I think in the beginning, I would give it toxic, but he were young.
20:01In the recent two relationships, he's been doing his best.
20:05And I'm sure of that.
20:07But I'm going to go.
20:08You need me.
20:08All right.
20:08Yes, I am.
20:09Cam's family and Cam responded in a very positive way to me.
20:14Bye.
20:14So nice to meet you.
20:16But when are you going to just realize that I'm perfect for you?
20:20Nice video.
20:21Nice meeting you as well, y'all.
20:23Make the right decision.
20:24Y'all better talk nice about me.
20:26It was cool, me and Cam's family.
20:28I enjoyed the information that they shared.
20:31We match a little bit.
20:32I know.
20:32Make a decision, sweetie.
20:34But I'm tired of the indecisiveness.
20:37Make up your mind, please.
20:39All right, let's hear it.
20:40Angie.
20:41I love her.
20:43I think Angie, one, is super pretty.
20:44And I know you say that she's breaking window, whatever like that.
20:47But you seem like y'all will come to a common ground before it ever gets really that bad.
20:51Next is Rose.
20:53She's ready.
20:54Like, she's mature.
20:55She's established.
20:56All right, so what y'all think about Sahara?
20:58She's exciting.
20:59She's interesting.
20:59All this stuff.
21:00But at some point, that wears off.
21:04I think she also kind of reminds me of, like, what you've had in the past.
21:08And I think that y'all want to clash a lot as well.
21:11I was hoping that my cousin had seen something else in her that made her good for me.
21:16But it brings up that fear.
21:18So I'm making the same mistakes.
21:19Okay, so who's y'all top and bottom?
21:21Angie.
21:22Angie's top.
21:23Yeah, for me.
21:23And Sahara's bottom.
21:25Yeah.
21:25And I value their opinions most out of anybody.
21:28So for them to put Sahara at my bottom and Angie at my top, it's something definitely that I got to think about.
21:34Thanks for making sure they're all pretty.
21:36Would have been mad.
21:37I know you would have been mad.
21:38That's the first thing you would have said.
21:39I know you would have been mad.
21:42I know you would have been mad.
21:43It's do or die.
21:44The finish line seems so far away from yesterday.
21:49From yesterday.
21:51When I introduced my connections to my family, they actually put Sahara at the bottom of their list.
21:56I know how I feel about Sahara, but maybe my family is seeing something that I'm not.
22:00So I kind of wanted to take Sahara out on a date to see if it's worth continuing.
22:05Don't be trying not to smile.
22:06Can't be smiling all the time with you.
22:09Yes, you can.
22:10All the time you see me, you can.
22:11What's up with you?
22:12I guess you're looking all nice.
22:14When Cam invited me out to the Mooshaloo, I was excited because as this process comes to an end, it's super important that Cam steps up and be the man that I know he can be.
22:31So I like it.
22:34This is my kind of like vibe rooftop.
22:38On top of this setting prepared for you, I got you something.
22:40You did?
22:41I did.
22:42Here.
22:43It's, uh, well, I ain't gonna say nothing.
22:46Just go ahead.
22:48So that's like an essential oil.
22:50Oh, this is cute.
22:51That's the food coming.
22:52Oh.
22:53Thank you.
22:54That looks good.
22:55I appreciate it.
22:56Thank you.
22:57Rose Quartz of Compassion.
22:59We need to light this now.
23:00Get the mood going.
23:02For clarity.
23:03For clarity.
23:04I honestly think you need a couple.
23:07All right, all right.
23:08Yes.
23:09This is really thoughtful and I really appreciate it.
23:12Good.
23:13I love it.
23:14I pay attention to you.
23:15I know what you went to.
23:16Like, I know you.
23:17I'm not just here just to connect with just anybody.
23:19Okay.
23:21Are you going to be clear?
23:23I'm being clear.
23:24When I was telling you to make your decision because we at the end, your ass was acting like I was speaking to you.
23:28No, I get it.
23:29Believe me.
23:30I get it.
23:31I'm not going to sugarcoat it.
23:32I had a lot to think about.
23:33But I've set all this up for you because I wanted you to have your moment.
23:36Thank you.
23:37And I want to show you that, like, this could be something.
23:41I appreciate it.
23:42I always wanted to, like, map out us.
23:44Like, what do you think a future of us look like?
23:46I mean, I feel like we want the same things.
23:49Like, the family, as far as the fitness.
23:51I see nothing but accomplishments, achieving goals.
23:55For lack of better words, like, I'm coming for it all.
23:57Yeah.
23:58I'm from the hood.
23:59I'm leaving with something.
24:00As you should.
24:01I'm not going back at all.
24:02Like, everything is forward from this point on.
24:03Everything is a constant state of improvement from here on out.
24:05And that's literally what it is.
24:06And I still have my stuff I need to work on, too.
24:08I wish you had the work on.
24:09I had to work on not being so selfish because I've been so independent for so long in my life that I didn't trust people with my heart.
24:16But I know what you do for me.
24:19I know how you make me a better person.
24:22I still think that me and Sahara can grow together.
24:25And she can be a person that I can go the distance with.
24:28But I don't want to ignore what my family said about her.
24:31I can definitely see and understand their concerns.
24:34So right now, I'm just as confused as ever.
24:37I don't know how every conversation we have, like, I start to like you more and more.
24:42I can't explain it.
24:43He explained it well enough.
24:45Come here.
24:47All right.
24:48Well, then let's get it done.
24:52Leaving the day with Cam, I feel good.
24:55I really appreciated it because I asked him to step up.
24:59And that's exactly what he did.
25:01So moving forward, I know that we can grow together.
25:05I get nervous, man.
25:07For what?
25:08For all my kids.
25:10Do you feel the light shining inside?
25:16Listen, let me tell you something.
25:18With that kiss comes decisions.
25:22So make her.
25:24Shut up, bro.
25:25You might have to fight you.
25:27Stop playing with me.
25:29Hey, whatever.
25:31Yeah.
25:32Know that I got you on my mind.
25:37I just really want to get to know you.
25:41Think about you all the time.
25:43So after hearing from Rose about the ex, I got some more digging to do.
25:47You know, was I really connecting enough?
25:48Was I asking the right questions?
25:49Because where did this come from?
25:51How are you?
25:52Check you out.
25:53Oh, imagine.
25:54He was in my closet.
25:55I see Hussein looking all good, smelling all good.
25:59Oh, I like that shirt.
26:01I like everything you got going on.
26:03Thank you.
26:04I left the date with Cam's fam.
26:06Feeling great.
26:07But of course, it's Hussein, so any chance I can get to see him, I'm going to take it.
26:11So, uh, you know, I gotta ask, how was it, uh, you know, meeting my family?
26:14How was that?
26:15I liked it.
26:16I was definitely ready for whatever questions.
26:18You know, I'm a big girl.
26:19Speaking to my brother, it had came up about the ex in prison.
26:23Oh, okay.
26:24Yeah, and that wasn't something...
26:25My son's father.
26:26Yeah, that wasn't something that was, like, you know, mentioned through the process.
26:30And I feel like, wow, I gave myself, I was open to find this out now.
26:33It was a bomb.
26:34It was, like, a secret that you held onto, and I just wanted to give you the opportunity
26:38and let me know why you felt like you didn't, like, you know, deliver that earlier.
26:42I'm going to first apologize for not mentioning it.
26:44Thank you.
26:45And then second, his ass been locked up for probably six, seven years.
26:49I'll honestly be forgetting about him.
26:50Kiera's, you know, situation.
26:52You ain't feel like it should have been that moment where you say,
26:54Hussein, this is something that I'm also dealing with.
26:57She didn't openly express that to the women.
26:59I just heard it through the grapevine.
27:00So, I would have never had that opportunity to be like...
27:03You know, to meet the ex.
27:04That was just, like, you know, the perfect opportunity.
27:06Even my ex don't know my son's father's situation.
27:10So, going into this conversation with Hussein,
27:13I feel like he's coming at it with the intent of catching me in a lie
27:18versus wanting to get to know my story because he wants to allow me the chance to explain.
27:23He could have definitely approached the situation a little bit different.
27:27Hell, a lot different.
27:28And I can say that my feelings was hurt.
27:31The main thing was that it came out during family,
27:33looking like a sucker to him.
27:35Like, bro, you ain't tell me about that.
27:36It was just like, damn.
27:38Like, I wish I'd have got it.
27:39That's all.
27:42Yeah.
27:43I'm sorry.
27:44It's okay.
27:46I just try not to relive those moments
27:48because he's just a constant reminder of a hurtful period in my life.
27:53Yeah.
27:54So, you messed up my makeup up.
27:57No, we're not going to mess it up.
27:58No, no, no.
27:59Yeah.
28:00You want to, uh, put this here?
28:02No, I'm fine.
28:04I hate this.
28:06It definitely was an emotional moment for me.
28:09He made me unlock the door that I once locked
28:12because there's times I didn't eat at night, I would cry.
28:16I literally was at my rock bottom, being a single mother
28:19and raising my son on my own.
28:20So, how do you think things will look when he gets out
28:22as far as coming to look to check for you, to look for your...
28:25His ass better not.
28:26You could feel one way, but this person can come home
28:29and they looking for everything they feel like they owed
28:31or that was theirs, you know.
28:33Hey, snooze you loose.
28:34You don't got to worry about.
28:36Trust me.
28:37I'm going to take your word for it.
28:38Oh, I need you to take it, write it down, take a picture.
28:40Okay.
28:41Yeah.
28:42The purpose of inviting Rose out tonight was to get some clarity.
28:44Seeing the effects on her that it had, you know, explaining it to me.
28:47I totally get it, I understand it.
28:49Moving forward, it's okay to be open so that blindside doesn't happen.
28:53But we started off on a lie almost to find this out damn near at the end.
28:57So, definitely a game changer.
28:59So, better communication.
29:01Better communication.
29:02There we go.
29:12Coming in as the power forward, Hussain.
29:25Ah, ah, ah.
29:26Jay.
29:27How you doing, man?
29:28I'm good, baby.
29:29I'm good.
29:30I need this right now.
29:31We know you need that.
29:32Let's break the bottom, brother.
29:33Let's go.
29:34My man.
29:35You all right, baby?
29:36I'm pretty good today.
29:37There's a bittersweet moment.
29:38We're heading into the final vault.
29:39Decisions need to be made.
29:40But, K, I'm grieving already now.
29:41Sure, sure.
29:42Don't go focus on me right now.
29:43We have to see who's gonna fall off and not find love in this experience.
29:47Gentlemen, this is our final time in the vault, baby.
29:50This is it.
29:51It's been an emotional journey.
29:52Y'all done made some bonds.
29:54But hopefully, there's something bigger and better waiting for you on the other end.
29:57A long-term love story.
30:00Right.
30:01That's why we started the journey, right?
30:02Right.
30:03Right.
30:04Let's get down to business.
30:05How did your families receive the ladies?
30:08Kiara met my mom, my dad, my aunt, and my cousin.
30:11You brought out the guns.
30:12Brought out the guns.
30:13How did it go?
30:14The moms.
30:15She dropped a little wisdom on her.
30:16What'd your mom say?
30:17The getaway, we had a little issue.
30:19And Kiara was real standoffish.
30:21My mom letting her know, like, look, you gotta know how to communicate with my son.
30:24Because if you disappear or don't want to talk, how do you expect him to try to make it work?
30:28And when you just, she said, I'm gonna work on that.
30:30But outside of that, they love how she down to earth.
30:33All right.
30:34So let's go.
30:35Got an opportunity to bring my sister to meet Tay.
30:38It went well.
30:39But she had some concerns.
30:40What concerns?
30:41Me and Tay kind of drift apart early in the process.
30:44That if something else is still robbed, will she react the same way?
30:47What does she say?
30:48Tay now, she's wrapping her mind around how we can navigate this.
30:52But she's impulsive.
30:54We still got some talking to do.
30:55Mm-hmm.
30:56My past maybe is still too much for her.
30:59Then it makes me think, like, how is she gonna react when something else arises?
31:03All right, Cam, what about you?
31:05My family met Angie, Sahara, and Rose.
31:08At the same time?
31:09Yeah.
31:10Yeah!
31:11Who do they like the best?
31:13They like Angie the best.
31:14They had a good energy about her.
31:15They really like Rose.
31:16They say that Rose is ready for her husband right now.
31:18And they put Sahara at the bottom because my cousin, she was like,
31:22Yeah, she reminds me of your past exes.
31:25But I set up a date with me and Sahara.
31:27And even if she has her flaws, if she likes you, she gonna rob us you no matter what.
31:32No ride or die.
31:33Yeah.
31:34And that's something that, with her, I would never have to question.
31:37But I value my family's opinion a lot.
31:39So I'm like, damn, am I going backwards?
31:41Can she be a better part of your past?
31:44I mean, yeah.
31:45I feel like you bringing in old baggage and then you dumping it on Sahara.
31:49Because when you speak of her, you speak of her highly, bro.
31:52I don't know what to say.
31:53I'm like, what about us?
31:54Right.
31:55You respect your family members, of course.
31:57Right.
31:58But at the end of the day, it's gotta be your decision.
32:00Yeah.
32:01All right, who say?
32:02So I had Angie and Rose meet my brother George and my cousin Gerald.
32:06What did the family say?
32:07I had Rose at my top and I thought the two of them was going to pick her.
32:10But like Cam said, the both of them saw Angie for me.
32:13Really?
32:14Yeah, just because they know how laid back and chill I am.
32:17And they saw the spice with Angie and, you know, how much motion she has.
32:20They thought that that would be a good mix.
32:22Where with Rose, I found out some new things.
32:25My brother questioned Rose about, you know, past relationships and family and stuff like that.
32:29And Rose brought it to the tension that the baby father was in prison.
32:33He's in prison right now?
32:34Yeah.
32:35But that had me like, you know, why am I finding this out when you're meeting the family?
32:41I thought we spoke enough.
32:42Okay, hold on, hold on.
32:43Cam, you heard this?
32:44Nope.
32:45I was kind of shocked.
32:46That's a part of her story.
32:47It's kind of concerning.
32:48It took this long to learn that information and it kind of slipped out.
32:51So for me, it was kind of like...
32:52I wonder if she know Kiara, uh...
32:54That was the main thing.
32:55That was the perfect opportunity to give it to me.
32:57To lay it all out?
32:58Yeah.
32:59How we did Kiara, she must have held that because she knew it was going to affect the situation.
33:03It's too late in the game to be like high and stuff.
33:06Listen, that's a lot to unpack.
33:08But, um, at this point in the process, in my opinion, you should speak with her.
33:13Yeah.
33:14I always try to put myself in everybody's shoes.
33:17At that moment, Rose wasn't being painted in a good light without giving her the opportunity
33:23to explain herself.
33:24Can I tell y'all something, man?
33:25Yeah.
33:26What's that?
33:27I don't want us to judge anybody by their past.
33:29Everybody's on a different journey.
33:31And the biggest thing we need is respect.
33:33That's right.
33:34That's real.
33:35Now, everybody knows it's been Hussain and Rose.
33:38Is that a deal breaker for you then?
33:39Yeah, it's definitely a deal breaker.
33:41Damn.
33:42Yeah.
33:45You had to make a decision who you continue this journey with.
33:48Who is that?
33:49Angie, because I know that I can handle her.
33:51Where you at now, Cam?
33:52Three different connections.
33:53You've learned some things.
33:54Yeah.
33:55Yeah.
33:56If you got to walk out of here right now, who you rolling with?
33:59My family love Angie.
34:00And I honestly could see myself with her, too.
34:03But Rose to her has always been neck and neck, neck and neck, neck and neck.
34:06Whose signal has gotten weaker?
34:08At the getaway, Rose seemed to be so locked into Hussain.
34:13And so, by default, man.
34:18You know, then you got something figured out, and then you don't.
34:21I understand your situation.
34:23We don't want to throw anything away until we at least get clarity.
34:26And I still want my time.
34:27Well, Cam?
34:28Yeah.
34:29Well, how about you take her out?
34:30You find out exactly where she is, and you determine if she's ready to lock.
34:35It's got to come from you.
34:36Yeah.
34:37Learning this information now about Rose from Hussain, it's becoming clearer.
34:42She's just more interested in him.
34:44I think it's about conversation.
34:45Let me know what I'm riding with.
34:47You know what I mean?
34:48So, I'm definitely interested in gaining clarity if she's still interested in me.
34:52You got to make that last decision.
34:54And good luck.
34:55So late in the process.
34:56That's what makes it hard.
34:57Yeah.
34:58That's crazy.
34:59Yeah.
35:00That's crazy.
35:06If it ain't love, if it ain't love, then I don't want it.
35:09I'm giving it up.
35:10Everything I've done, I did it for you.
35:12In the vault, Hussain expressed some concerns about Rose's situation.
35:15And as a result, she fell out of his top spot.
35:18So now, I guess that leaves me as her only connection.
35:21But I don't know, I kind of just moved on because she chose Hussain over me.
35:25Hi.
35:26What's up?
35:27How you doing?
35:28I'm okay.
35:29So, I need to gain clarity from Rose if she's genuinely still interested in me.
35:35I just need this coffee.
35:37I didn't sleep too well last night.
35:39That makes the two of us.
35:40Yeah?
35:41Yeah.
35:42I get invited to come out to brunch with Cam.
35:45He mentioned before he wanted to step up his connection with me.
35:48I ain't get no sleep.
35:49My spirit is troubled a little bit.
35:51Knowing that Hussain would like to have learned about my son's father sooner, do I feel the
35:56need at this moment to have a conversation with Cam?
35:59No.
36:00If Cam has an issue with it, he can ask, and we can talk about it.
36:04All right, cool.
36:05Thank you.
36:06Thank you, sir.
36:07Why you got me out here this morning?
36:08All right.
36:09You hear this voice?
36:10Yeah.
36:11You ain't wake up yet?
36:12Yeah.
36:13So, I always tell you, you's always been, through the whole time, the top connection that
36:18I had.
36:19Really?
36:20Yeah.
36:21I mean, ever since I...
36:22Because this time, I ain't know where I sat with you.
36:24I know, but that's because you would assume, man.
36:26You was like, yeah.
36:27But, um, the retreat, that was kind of tough for me.
36:30I know what you and Hussain got.
36:32That trip just made it seem like that y'all was just locked in.
36:36You do know how I feel about Hussain.
36:39You know, I don't hide it.
36:41My connection with Hussain, you know, is stronger because, like I said, he was consistent in the
36:46beginning.
36:49This is, the conversation for me is just to gain clarity.
36:51Yeah.
36:52On everything.
36:53Yeah.
36:54The whole stuff that I did here in the book.
36:57Your child's father.
36:59And was there a reason why?
37:01Like, that information was withheld.
37:03I don't have anything to hide.
37:06My son's father, he is incarcerated.
37:08Okay.
37:09Am I thinking about it?
37:10Hell no.
37:11But, at the end of the day, we're all putting our out there.
37:14It makes us feel slighted.
37:16I cannot apologize for that.
37:18Okay.
37:19By now, if y'all don't know that Rhoda's gonna keep it raw and uncut, we have a problem.
37:25I'm getting agitated because where's the loyalty?
37:28You know, I hear about certain things the ladies say in the vault, and I never not once
37:33allow that to break the connection that I had with him.
37:36As well as the same for Hussain.
37:37You know, the date we had yesterday, did you really gain clarity?
37:41I mean, I just think it's funny how, you know, sitting here and talking to me about withholding
37:46information and you do the same thing.
37:48Withholding information from you?
37:49Absolutely.
37:50In regards to?
37:52On his getaway, you knew I was sharing a room with Hussain.
37:56So why did I find out after the fact that you and Sahara shared the room?
38:00It's like the pot calling the kettle black.
38:02But it's not though.
38:03It really is.
38:04Because that's not insisting, like withholding information from you as far as like-
38:09It was.
38:10Because I see you and Hussain share a room.
38:12Why would you care from that point on who I spend the night with?
38:15Because I still have a connection with you.
38:17So you just raised the-
38:18And I have a connection with you and you acting like husband and wife with Hussain without
38:22giving a about what I thought.
38:25Hmm.
38:26When I see my other connection playing house-
38:28Like you're being like kind of petty.
38:30I'm not being petty at all.
38:31It came to a point where it felt like I was being let on.
38:36Wow.
38:37You had three women.
38:39Yo, you gotta cut this thing down.
38:41See who you need to get rid of so it can be me and somebody else.
38:44Look, I feel like I'm being punished for trying to stay true to the process.
38:51No matter how much I might care or like if energy is not being matched, what am I doing?
38:56Who?
38:57So based off of that and based off of you either withheld information or was it being truthful,
39:02whatever the case.
39:04I don't think that shit ready to love.
39:14For y'all to take this one situation and totally ignore everything else that we had going on, it tells me a lot about you guys.
39:27It's a complete shocker, but that's telling me in the future if we would have had any type of doubts or if anything got serious, your ass would just up and leave.
39:36You guys really don't see rose for rose.
39:39If I'm disappointed in anybody, it's Hussain.
39:42Why did this happen?
39:52I really thought he was my guy. I liked him.
39:55It shouldn't have been that easy for you to want to walk away.
40:01All right, so on that note, I'm gonna be out.
40:04All right.
40:06I'm hurt right now, but I'm gonna bounce back.
40:12Y'all grow up, always do it.
40:23Next time on Ready to Love.
40:25I have one last assignment.
40:27Ladies, I want you to introduce your connections to your family.
40:33I don't know, she already like, she ready.
40:35I'm just like.
40:36She ready.
40:37What do y'all see the biggest barrier to overcome?
40:40Probably my career choice.
40:42Just making sure that Tay is taken care of.
40:46Like, I know who I am.
40:47Well, you can't be giving everybody the smirk and the wandering eyes and the blink and all that.
40:51Because you got a nice smile.
40:52I get you. I get you.
40:53This is what you're doing. I get you. I get you. That's flirtatious.
40:57Like, the decision is at that heart.
40:59Like, if the vibe is there, the vibe is there.
41:01The vibe is there.
41:02The vibe is there.
41:03And he's still just dragging me the f*** along.
41:05Today, the singles will choose a special place to meet, bare their souls, and find out.
41:10And find out.
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