Match Me Abroad follows American singles as they travel overseas in search of love and a partner. This episode, S2E10, continues their journey, highlighting the challenges and triumphs of international romance. Viewers will witness the emotional highs and lows as relationships develop across cultural divides.
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00:01Previously on Match Me Abroad.
00:05Hmm. Oh, my God.
00:08I really think it's important for you to slow down.
00:12Do you agree with that?
00:14With my time limited here in Singapore,
00:15I want to leave with a love.
00:17Proposing is strong on my mind.
00:19Oh, OK.
00:22Are you tottered, like, everywhere?
00:24Yeah, fool.
00:25I know we're in public, but can I see it?
00:27No.
00:28I'm shy.
00:30EJ is so different from his appearance.
00:33I like the bad boy look,
00:34but I don't want them to actually be bad boys.
00:36He's so kind and gentle.
00:39Maybe we should go to a beach wedding.
00:41And then I get to see you tie your shirt off.
00:44So fill me in.
00:45What's been going on with you and Darren?
00:47We got matching tattoos.
00:49You look so happy.
00:50You're like, oh, I'm loving it.
00:52Hello.
00:53Hi.
00:54Oh, we're all on Guinness.
00:55How are you?
00:56Good. How are you?
00:57How are you?
00:58I'm good.
00:59Victoria and Darren, I think they talk almost every day.
01:03But communications with Keevan are slacking.
01:06And I'm really annoyed and aggravated.
01:09Ah, he looks nice.
01:11I know, he's super nice.
01:13I'm so torn.
01:14I'm about to go on an overnight day with Keevan.
01:17And I don't even know how I feel.
01:18Let us text me every single day since I saw him.
01:19Like, he's so torn.
01:20I'm so torn.
01:21I'm about to go on an overnight day with Keevan.
01:22And I don't even know how I feel.
01:23Let us text me every single day since I saw him.
01:24Like, he wants to be the number one guy.
01:25It's my last week here.
01:26Do you want to go on this, on this overnight with him?
01:30Do you want to go on this overnight with him?
01:31I'm so torn.
01:32Do you want to go on an overnight day with Keevan?
01:33I'm so torn.
01:34I'm so torn.
01:36I'm so torn.
01:40I'm about to go on an overnight day with Keevan.
01:41And I don't even know how I feel.
01:43Let us text me every single day since I saw him.
01:46Like, he wants to be the number one guy.
01:48It's my last week here.
01:50Do you want to go on this, on this overnight with him?
02:05Oh, look at you!
02:07He's here!
02:08Hey!
02:09Give me a big hug!
02:31How have you been?
02:33Oh, look at you, all smiley.
02:36Tell me what's going on.
02:37What's going on?
02:38You look like you are in love.
02:41You look like you're in love.
02:42A little early.
02:43A little early.
02:44Yeah.
02:44Well, you tell me all about it, please.
02:46Make yourself comfy here.
02:48Yes, yes, yes.
02:50I have a week left in Ireland.
02:52This is my last meeting with Katerina
02:54because Katerina's job is done.
02:57I feel like she had some success and found me a match in Darren.
03:01I'm really hoping that I can just spend this time with Darren,
03:05get to know him better, and not go on any more dates
03:08with any other matches.
03:09I feel like Darren maybe could be the one,
03:11so I really do want to see where this goes.
03:15Something has been going on here.
03:17You have been seeing someone like Darren?
03:21Yeah.
03:22We've been talking, and then we went on the second date
03:26and all that kind of stuff, so.
03:27So tell me all about it.
03:29Um, we got matching tattoos.
03:34No way.
03:35Matching tattoos?
03:36Yes.
03:37So where is the tattoo?
03:38It's on my thigh.
03:40It's a couple ghosts.
03:42Ghosts?
03:42Mm-hmm.
03:43What ghosts?
03:45I'll just pull up my...
03:46They are really tight pants.
03:48Yeah.
03:49OK.
03:51The big reveal.
03:53I'm scared now.
03:56What is that?
03:59So it's two ghosts.
04:00Yes.
04:01With and without boobs.
04:02Mm-hmm.
04:03So it's a before a boob job and an after.
04:07And what is that about?
04:09So it's like both of us.
04:10So it's like me and then like a comedy aspect, like the...
04:13Comedy aspect of your life, right?
04:14Yeah.
04:15The comedian.
04:16Because he has the exact same thing on his leg.
04:18Well, he's a comedian.
04:19He does that kind of thing.
04:21And for him, it probably doesn't even matter what kind of another tattoo he has.
04:24But this is a big deal for you.
04:26Yeah.
04:27I am not a fan of matching tattoos.
04:31Bloody hell.
04:32I would never do that in my life.
04:34I don't understand.
04:35This is just beyond my understanding.
04:37I'm sorry.
04:38I'm probably too much of an old school.
04:41I hope she's not going to regret this.
04:44We just...
04:46I don't know, like, had a good connection, got along.
04:48And while we were waiting for them to draw up the tattoos and self-future for able to,
04:51like, sit there and talk and, like, I was able to be vulnerable.
04:56He asked me, like, some deep questions.
04:57Just about, like, family, my dad, all that kind of stuff.
05:00What did you manage to do?
05:01I told him everything.
05:02He responded, like, really receptive.
05:04Like, took it in and, like, you know, was like, oh, my gosh.
05:07But then, like, no judgment type of thing.
05:09And I feel like it's, like, I don't have to be a different person.
05:12I can just be, like, completely myself.
05:16That's beautiful.
05:17Have you guys kissed?
05:20No.
05:22There hasn't been time.
05:23We haven't, I don't know, like, gone on, like, a date like that or anything.
05:26There hasn't been time.
05:28Like, neither of us are, like, a touchy-feely, which is good.
05:32Because, you know, I don't like my handheld.
05:34I don't like all that stuff.
05:35So it's better that it's that way.
05:37Is he the same way?
05:39Did he tell you that physical contact is not his love language?
05:41Mm-hmm.
05:42And can you imagine ever making love with him?
05:46Which would be kind of a natural progress in a relationship if you...
05:49Yeah.
05:50I mean, yeah.
05:51I would think...
05:52Yeah, I would think if things progressed, and yes, definitely.
05:54But does it sound like something pleasurable to you?
05:57Would you find it pleasurable?
05:58Oh, yeah, definitely.
05:59It's not, like, something I see as, like, a turn-off.
06:01Okay.
06:02You're taking your time.
06:03Fair enough.
06:04Mm-hmm.
06:05But a kiss will be nice.
06:06Before you leave?
06:07Yeah.
06:08Mm-hmm.
06:09It hurts my ears when I hear that Victoria and Darren haven't even kissed yet.
06:15Victoria is flying out of Dublin very soon, and their relationship is still very fragile.
06:21And it is extremely important that both of them experience the power of intimacy and relating on an energy level.
06:31Otherwise, they will not be able to keep the long-distance relationship like this.
06:36So where do you see this going with Darren?
06:38Um, I don't know.
06:40I mean, I guess just continuing, like, getting to know each other and stuff.
06:43He travels a lot, you know, so...
06:47That all sounds great, but somebody has to plan that.
06:51Somebody has to make that step.
06:52Mm-hmm.
06:53Are you ready to fly all the way here to spend more quality time with him?
06:59Yeah.
07:00If things progressed, then I could totally...
07:03I mean, especially with my job, I can move.
07:06Have you ever considered having a conversation with him about what he wants and what you want because you are the most important person in your life?
07:15Yeah.
07:16I mean, I think we definitely have to have that kind of conversation.
07:20I am hopeful.
07:21I am actually surprised how well the two of you hit it off.
07:25It's amazing.
07:26I feel like you made a huge progress.
07:28Mm-hmm.
07:29I am proud of you.
07:30I feel like I made a lot of progress, too.
07:31Are you proud of yourself?
07:32I am very proud of myself.
07:33I am proud of you as well.
07:35It was a rough start with Katerina where I feel like she wasn't listening to what I wanted and what I needed.
07:41But now that I've gone through the process a little bit more, I can see what some of her tactics were.
07:46And, like, seeing now that she's one of those, like, brutally honest, but, like, still loving and supportive type of friend.
07:53So I'm very happy in my choice to hire Katerina and come here to Ireland.
07:58An honor to work with you.
08:00I've been on so many first dates, and she brought me to Darren, which I'm so grateful for.
08:04And I feel like I could fall in love with him if things keep going this well.
08:09But I feel like me and Darren, we need to have this relationship, future conversation before I leave Ireland.
08:16Let me say goodbye.
08:28Hey, how are you?
08:43Good.
08:44Good to see you.
08:45Good to see you too.
08:50So, what are you drinking?
08:52Caipirinhas.
08:54It's like a, how can I say, it's a traditional drink
08:57here in Brazil.
08:59It's a pretty easy drink to make.
09:02You guys want to learn how to make caipirinhas?
09:04Yes.
09:04For sure.
09:05So this is my friend, Victor.
09:07Monica.
09:08Monica, Victor, nice to meet you.
09:09Nice to meet you.
09:12Even though I had such a great date with Bruno,
09:15my attraction for Bernardo is just undeniable.
09:18He's adventurous.
09:19God, he's sexy.
09:20He brings out that part of me that, ugh,
09:24so desperately wants him.
09:26And I'm really looking to explore that connection more.
09:29He and I did spend a lot of time together this past week,
09:32dancing, laughing, kissing.
09:35He's the best kisser I've ever kissed.
09:38And I think Louisa would absolutely kill me if she
09:40heard this.
09:42So I, yeah.
09:46I put two tablespoons of sugar.
09:48Squish it down.
09:50Yep.
09:51Finally, mix it.
09:55Ladies first.
09:56I feel like Bernardo and I are just two magnets,
09:59just very strongly drawn to one another.
10:03But although I really love that connection we have,
10:08these past couple days, it hasn't been the best between us.
10:12Saúde.
10:13Saúde.
10:13Saúde.
10:14Saúde.
10:14Saúde.
10:15Good.
10:17Mm.
10:17Ooh.
10:18It's a little bit strong.
10:20A little bit strong.
10:21Um, so I don't, I don't want things to be awkward,
10:25but I have to talk to you about some things that are on my mind.
10:28Yeah.
10:28But, um, the problem I have with you is that I've been the one trying to initiate plans.
10:36I feel like unless I was reaching out to you, you are not reaching out to me.
10:40I just really don't like that I'm always having to take the initiative.
10:46I'm always the one asking them to do things.
10:49I really am looking for somebody who is going to show that they are interested in me and drive the relationship forward.
10:55It's scary because this is kind of reminding me of things that would happen with American men.
11:00It's like they're interested, but then suddenly communication drops off and they move on to the next.
11:05You know, I'm 41 years old, right?
11:07And it's like, at this point, it's like something you don't ever want to do again.
11:13What I told you never changed.
11:15I like you since I first date.
11:19When it's a difficult situation, because you have other feelings with another guy.
11:27Yes, but I just want to feel like you still want to see me more.
11:33I think my problem is it would be okay if I didn't have someone else that was showing so much interest in me.
11:39He would drop everything to see me.
11:42Okay.
11:42Okay, and then I have you who I have to, like, I feel like I have to beg to see.
11:47And I just don't want that.
11:49That will never work for me.
11:52So, are you going to try to make me important over this next?
12:00Of course, we are talking about this and understanding the situation.
12:07Really, I like you a lot.
12:10This won't happen again.
12:12I think we have this chemistry.
12:17And I think about another guy.
12:20He's her and it's a little bit difficult.
12:23I think now it's Monica will decide.
12:27Of course, I think she chose me and let's see what happened.
12:32You don't have a lot of time here in Brazil.
12:37And now I know my priority.
12:40So, I need to pay attention about this, okay?
12:44Really?
12:45I will try to protect this, okay?
12:50And you know you got me stuck on you all night.
12:55And now you got me feeling dizzy, oh, that's all I'm going to say.
12:59Really?
13:00We have some priorities now.
13:02And you are the top of the list.
13:06Oh.
13:07Yes, of course.
13:08It's possible that Bernardo is telling me all the right things in order to, you know,
13:13make his way to my room later and sleep with me.
13:18It's possible.
13:20If he ends up being a bull , I'm going to be heartbroken.
13:24But I'm going to take that risk because I can't get Bernardo out of my mind.
13:29I feel better.
13:30I like you so much.
13:34I like you so much.
13:35Okay, and you can believe me, okay?
13:39Okay, I believe you.
13:42It's all good.
13:43I think you know you got me stuck on you, stuck on you.
13:48Am I supposed to know what we are going to be doing?
13:55On the way there, we'll talk about it.
13:57Okay.
13:58I want Amber to see that I have a fun and spontaneous side to me.
14:01So, I planned a crazy adventure date for Amber.
14:04It might be the craziest thing I've ever done for love so far.
14:07Ahoy, to the airport, please.
14:08What?
14:09Happy date.
14:10Huh?
14:11So, what you been doing since Thursday?
14:16I haven't talked to you in so long.
14:18It's like, you know, it's important for you to have your space.
14:20Are you next?
14:22No, don't give me space.
14:24Apply pressure.
14:25La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la.
14:37Thank you, Paul.
14:38How are you?
14:39Thanks very much.
14:40You look great.
14:41Thank you, sir.
14:42So, what you been doing since Thursday?
14:53Friday.
14:54I did it in Friday.
14:56I got to the gym.
14:57And yesterday I caught up with a few friends I hadn't seen in a while.
15:00One of them recently told us that his wife is pregnant, so I hadn't congratulated him.
15:07Oh, exciting.
15:08Yeah, yeah.
15:09It's nice to have a drink.
15:10His next phase of life.
15:11Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
15:12Yikes.
15:13Keevan and I are on our way to a beautiful romantic weekend away, but I'm being extremely cautious
15:22because I don't have all the information on why Keevan's communication is falling off.
15:27Yes, I am annoyed, but I want to hear his side of things because he's a great guy.
15:32And I can see his, I hate to say this word because you're not supposed to say it, potential.
15:37So I decided to try something different.
15:39Today, I'm really just going to go in very calm, relaxed, because what I've noticed in
15:43the past, I have been super direct and he never gives me a clear answer.
15:47So, I want to ease into the conversations and allow him to tell me without me having
15:52to pressure and ask him.
15:55Um, what have you been up to the last couple of days?
16:00Friday, I went to Cork County.
16:03Cork?
16:04Mm-hmm.
16:05Oh, lovely.
16:06What did you get up to in Cork?
16:07Uh, in Cork, I went on another date with somebody.
16:10Right.
16:11And I met his family.
16:13You met his family?
16:14I met his family.
16:15On the first date.
16:16On the first date.
16:17Yeah, yeah, yeah.
16:21Well, because I hadn't talked to you in so long.
16:23Well, look, I told you from the start, like, uh, I have no problem with you going on other dates and stuff.
16:30Look, it's part of the reason you're here.
16:32That's why, you know, I wasn't texting.
16:36It's like, you know, it's important for you to have your space.
16:39I got you.
16:40Okay.
16:41Thank you, Carl.
16:42Thank you, sir.
16:43Hey, how's it going?
16:44How you doing?
16:45Welcome to Mount Shuttle.
16:46I'm going to grab those bags off you there.
16:47Thank you very much.
16:48I got you.
17:01Thank you, sir.
17:07Hey, how's it going?
17:07Hey, how you doing?
17:08Welcome to Mount Shooter.
17:09I'm going to grab those bags off you there.
17:10Thank you very much.
17:10I'll help you in.
17:11So I'm going to show you up to the room.
17:12Is that okay?
17:13Perfect.
17:13Yeah, thanks.
17:13I'm confused that Keevan would think giving me space is a good idea, considering I'm only
17:20in Ireland for such a small amount of time.
17:24Are you next?
17:25No, don't give me space.
17:27Apply pressure.
17:30I feel like I should not even have shoes on anymore.
17:32I know, I know.
17:33Let me take them off.
17:34Come on.
17:37So beautiful.
17:39I need Keevan to step it up.
17:41Show me that he really is interested in me, and that he can be direct and tell me what
17:47he wants.
17:48Otherwise, I don't know how this relationship is going to work once I return back to Texas.
17:53To our first overnight stay together.
17:56To our first overnight stay.
17:59The bar is high now, though.
18:02Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
18:04I don't know.
18:25Hey.
18:26Hi.
18:27I should have known you were here when the rain started.
18:29Yeah.
18:30Guess I've been the rain, right?
18:31Oh.
18:32Oh.
18:32Oh.
18:32Oh.
18:32Oh.
18:33Oh.
18:33Oh.
18:34Oh.
18:34Oh.
18:34Oh.
18:39Am I supposed to know what we are going to be doing?
18:42On the way there, we'll talk about it.
18:44Okay, okay.
18:45Let's keep the mystery on, then.
18:46Yes.
18:46Let's go.
18:47Mm-hmm.
18:49After talking to Dolly, I'm feeling a little nervous and wondering how things are going
18:53to go with Amber.
18:54And to be honest, I'm a little confused.
18:56I was under the impression that things are going so well with Amber and I.
19:00Then Dolly says I'm moving a little bit fast in my relationship, but I need to show
19:04Amber my leadership qualities and my maturity level.
19:08There you are.
19:10I was good.
19:11Over.
19:14So I did a lot of thinking on how I can prove to Amber I can take the initiative.
19:18I also want Amber to see that I have a fun and spontaneous side to me.
19:22I planned a crazy adventure date for Amber.
19:25It's going to be so great.
19:26It might be the craziest thing I've ever done for love so far.
19:29So, do you want to tell me what I'm in for?
19:34Yes.
19:35Hoi, to the airport, please.
19:36What?
19:37I'll be there.
19:38Huh?
19:39Yeah.
19:40What?
19:41I'm just kidding.
19:43Okay.
19:43It gave me a scare.
19:46Why did you decide to do this, whatever that is?
19:51I wanted to show you that I could plan something fun.
19:54Wow.
19:55Okay.
19:55Okay.
19:55Okay.
19:59Let's go.
20:05Oi.
20:06Oi.
20:07Oi.
20:11We're here.
20:13Oh, wow.
20:14Indoor skydiving.
20:15That's what you have in store for me.
20:17Yes.
20:17Awesome.
20:18I can't wait to try it.
20:22Right.
20:22Here we go.
20:23I chose skydiving because it is showing that I'm adventurous.
20:31It's showing that it's something unexpected.
20:33And it gets the heart pumping, and I need her to feel emotional and excited.
20:38That way she can feel emotionally excited about me.
20:41Is this a good surprise?
20:42Yes.
20:43Yes, it's a good surprise.
20:44I'm also hoping that taking amber skydiving will show that I'm slowing down by taking gravity
20:51out of the equation, because it keeps me from running full speed ahead.
20:56Okay.
20:57I guess I'm good.
20:58Go.
20:58Okay.
20:59Okay.
20:59Okay.
20:59Okay.
20:59Okay.
20:59Okay.
20:59Okay.
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20:59Okay.
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21:09Okay.
21:10Okay.
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21:12Okay.
21:13Okay.
21:14Okay.
21:19I can hardly believe I'm here.
21:21I feel like a stuffed sausage, with a wind suit.
21:24suit i am very surprised of what harold thought of to do on this date it's great to see him taking
21:46the lead that's something i talked to dolly about and he got me right because this is totally up my
21:54i'm very adventurous and i love to see the more adventurous side of harold
22:03you guys enjoy yourself that was great you were like a leaf in the wind just
22:10you know it's so cute you know you know yeah i felt like i was being spun around like a washing
22:16machine yeah that's true definitely one of the experience that i want to but now that we know
22:22how indoor skydiving actually works i'm interested to try the actual one we have skydiving in texas
22:30right so more incentive for me to go there yes
22:37i love that amber is so adventurous it challenges me to take more risk and sure i'd go skydiving in
22:43texas it doesn't really give me that much fear i'm more afraid of having a honest conversation with
22:49someone that's almost terrifying compared to jumping out of a plane you go in first oh i go in
22:55first yeah in the back of my mind i hear dolly telling me to take things slowly but i do think
23:02that amber and i reach a nice compromise to understand where i'm coming from that was really fun
23:10well i wasn't expecting that but that was a good choice
23:17i'd love to see you again i think we will be seeing each other a lot i think i hope i hope so too
23:24yeah but i would like to meet you know with some of your friends and get to know you know more of your
23:30trust hmm i want to know you i want to meet your friends and become a part of your world wow that's fast
23:38it is but i'm here for a short time yeah harold i think we have a great chemistry but at the same
23:48time he pushes boundaries which i don't like he hasn't met my friends and family yet because you
23:55need much more interaction to actually know the person and to know whether the two will fit together
24:01i understand because of the time constraint he's in a rush but i kind of want him to also respect my
24:07wishes so i just i just need to think about it i'll be in my best behavior
24:16i'll see
24:21i spoke to ej earlier today what did you have to say about um remember i'm on your side what are you
24:26going to tell me the first impression that he had of you um was that oh no is she height maintenance
24:37i'm gonna be ready getting ready for you
24:46hi tommy hi sarah so good to see you again so good to see you have a seat okay perfect
24:53so i noticed you're flying solo today yes i am my mom's just relaxing today okay so now it's just you
25:04and i yeah we'll talk girl talk yeah kitty has been in my corner you know we have been singing the same
25:11song to get sarah to focus on more substantial things in her dating life instead of just looking
25:16for someone masculine handsome and wealthy but i'm still glad to be speaking with sarah one-on-one
25:21today especially because i want to hear all about her date with ej that i've been having such high
25:26hopes for i spoke to ej earlier today and i just wanted to check in with sarah to see if they're on
25:31the same page so i want to hear all about your date with ej um he's he's great we did boxing at his gym
25:39which was really fun and different and got me out of my comfort zone for sure and then we watched
25:44sunset which was beautiful and had a couple glasses of wine and it's just some really really good genuine
25:49conversation and ej has a lot of great things to say about you oh good what did he have to say about
25:55me um are you ready for it yeah and also remember i'm on your side okay okay you're gonna tell me
26:01no no no so um the first impression that he had of you um was that oh no is she high maintenance
26:11yeah i get that all the time right yeah i'm used to it but after the date went on he said there's so
26:16much more to you than what you look right he said that you end up revealing a lot of yourself that showed
26:24your true self that you got real with him i felt like he genuinely was interested in me and i felt
26:30extremely comfortable opening up to him it means so much to me when people actually take the time
26:36to get to know who i am not just you know what i look like on the outside so that means a lot
26:41and that's exactly that's exactly what he saw i'm so glad that ej was able to see the real me
26:48during our date i was a little bit worried that we wouldn't have the same connection but i'm so happy
26:53to hear that we're on the same page it's not common for me to find a man that is genuine and real
26:59so after hearing about what he told dolly i am feeling more optimistic about potentially leaving
27:06here with a relationship or who knows maybe even a husband so tell me about the conversation that you
27:13both had um honestly i thought it went really great we connected on a lot of different levels and on a lot
27:18of different things about our past relationships and family and all the things that are honestly
27:23really important to me he's the guy that can challenge you in in different ways are you proud
27:29of me i'm doing a lot of things i would never do 100 and are you proud of you yes yes it's been so fun
27:35yeah i love that i love that he's a very masculine i told you yes did you take photos uh yeah i took
27:41some of us of course yeah i would love to i took a few oh this is so sweet yeah darling he has great arms
27:53oh my gosh i can't believe guess what i did dolly i asked him to take his shirt off and did he and did he
27:59now that's so funny i wanted to see his tattoo i mean you were right about setting him up with me for
28:09sure he's he's darling yes and and that's that's exactly what i was going for when i have a positive
28:16reaction from both parties or even just one of them i feel the excitement for them too that's my job
28:22i'm here to play cupid right and my inner cupid loves that she is connecting on a deeper level with
28:28her dates now so when i got that call from ej and he really liked her i'm like yes that's a match
28:34so ej is so smitten by you oh yay he just wants to know can he get a second date he's been texting
28:40me he was like can i get a second date when can i see her are you setting me up again i'm like well
28:45we'll see um that's why i want to chat with you can he get another chance to get to know more of you
28:52i can't wait to see him again wow no okay thank you so much for pushing me i love that i know
29:04i don't know if it's because i had a dirty martini but i'm relaxed as hell
29:11here i am on this beautiful weekend getaway with kevin but i'm still thinking about glenn i texted him
29:19and he said you're thinking of me not gonna lie that's kind of hot
29:34oh my word yes thank you your drink looks thank you very much pretty looks amazing thank you cheers
29:50i'm gonna be real goofy you want to go down yeah okay oh this is so fabulous i just can't even
29:58you outdo it yourself i think so i think so for sure cheers oh this is gonna be so funny i haven't
30:06had a dirty martini in like months months yes it looks great oh it smells good
30:15here i am on this beautiful weekend getaway with kevin and it's very sweet and romantic
30:23but i'm still thinking about glenn i texted him and said hey i was thinking of you you're doing okay
30:30and he said you're thinking of me i don't know this word this is the irish word or maybe just
30:34people in texas don't say it but whilst w-h-i-l-s-t whilst staying overnight with the other guy
30:44he said not gonna lie that's kind of hot i'm not a jealous guy it's not now that matters it's who
30:50you end up with and hopefully it's gonna be me okay let's break bread literally i have been craving
31:00pasta since i've been in ireland yeah oh my gosh do you know how to cook um yeah but like
31:07like not great oh but at the same time i'm really always willing to learn okay you know uh when you
31:19have children they can't just be eating buttery noodles they gotta have some other stuff too
31:24that's true
31:27i'm delighted to see how happy amber is with it i always knew whoever i was gonna go on a date with
31:33who's gonna be dating other people but um people develop feelings at a different rate and i wouldn't
31:39put pressure on anyone like i feel like things are going well between us and that's just what i'm
31:44going to focus on i know that you're very much a go with the flow and you know life is gonna happen
31:52kind of a guy and i used to be that way too and then once i started manifesting and like meditating
31:59then i started really seeing my future self and being like oh these are my actual desires like what
32:05life desires do you have life desires um they're kind of they're not centered around anything physical
32:14really it's just like as long as i find myself in a situation where i feel happy it doesn't really
32:22matter where i am so like what type of meditation to do a self-guided meditation is what they're
32:29called you want to do a guided meditation tonight yeah i understand don't feel that yeah and i feel
32:34like that's how we really connected the first time yeah that's how it started like we sat down and
32:39started with before we even spoke is like okay you're breathing together like yeah it was it was cool
32:45like it's really different really interesting oh i'm gonna take these lashes off yeah yeah
32:54going for pajamas i'm gonna make up some sort of pajamas
33:01glenn is an open book compared to kevin but i had high hopes that this place would inspire him to want
33:07to like express his feelings for me and be more open and honest about his future and instead it made me
33:13feel a little discouraged let's just lay across the bed and okay it's lying down are you like i always
33:21first of all lay on my back yeah or in a comfortable position right and uh put one hand over your heart
33:30and then hold my other hand okay because i feel like we connect really well when we touch each other
33:36and then just you know start your breathing we'll just take deep breaths through our through our nose and
33:41breathe out through our mouth so now what i want you to do is empty your thoughts and focus on your breath
33:55i want kevin to do like a self-guided meditation with me to get that spirit of our first meeting again
34:09where we're just quiet absorbing each other's energy just so that we can you know breathe together become
34:15one if you will and i'm praying that this will bring me and kevin back together
34:20i don't know if it's because i had a dirty martini champagne and a little bit of red wine but i'm relaxed as hell
34:35i'm like oh my god i got a little too relaxed i'm relaxing my own self oh gosh yeah
34:42come on take that shirt off give me smooch all right let's turn these lights off yeah
34:51we're going to bed
34:53i don't think we are on the same page i'm so super disappointed
35:23this is terrible this is never this is exactly what i was concerned about like who do they think he is
35:37you are very important and i would like to see you but i need to come here to the club
35:50and i will see you later
35:53it will be a little bit late and it's not a problem right
35:58i'm so bummed i was feeling really good after i talked to bernardo yesterday feeling like we're on
36:10the same page so i got really excited about our date today we were gonna do dinner at five it is now
36:176 30 and he just thought to send me a message as to why he isn't here on time bernardo blowing me off for a
36:24game of foot volley has me spiraling he's been playing all day long and also he does still
36:31want to meet up later tonight are you kidding me what am i a booty call i don't know what to think
36:36anymore he would rather be like why send me
36:54videos of a party or wherever he's at when he knows he committed to seeing me at a certain time
37:02and he's choosing to stay there instead of seeing me that's insane to me dude i'm not even here that
37:09much longer he just texted me right now he just responded i really want to see you serious today i will
37:14see you i i i don't think we are on the same page you committed to 5 pm you did you were choosing
37:30to be at the club instead of with me i'm so super disappointed
37:42i told him that he needed to make more of an effort and he said i'm the priority again
37:48and i'm clearly not the priority that's bull
37:51i thought when we were together god he was so good he's so delicious and he's he's awesome but
38:00this is terrible this is never this is exactly what i was concerned about but there's some toxic
38:08trauma or something in me that like still wants to see him later because i want to like argue
38:16or like understand where he's coming from because it seems to me that he thinks this is totally fine
38:23but i also don't want to see him because that's because then then this is just going to set a
38:27pattern for how you can treat me that he thinks i'll allow because what'll end up happening because i
38:33know myself is it's going to be all kisses and hugs and and i'm going to give him exactly what he wants
38:37so no i'm not going to see him i will not see him i could call bruno right now i could call bruno right
38:47now and he would be here he would never ever ever have
38:55not been here
38:56at this point i'm just so exhausted i'm stressed out and i don't know what's best for me
39:07if you think of the movie titanic it's like bernardo is my leo dicaprio he is my sexy rough
39:16around the edges let's get steamy in a big boat whereas bruno is more like cal in the movie he's
39:26better on paper he's the right one for my life but my god if i don't want that love and passion
39:34that dicaprio brings to kate winslet and now i i don't know what to do you know bruno has to
39:41work coming up and he's trying to figure out how he can get out of it so that he can spend one more
39:46day with me before i leave remember bernardo won't even leave volleyball game
39:52to be here on time come on like who does he think he is
40:05come on let me see what you got daddy damn
40:09next time on match me abroad what do you want to wager if i win the rest of the time you're here
40:15you just date me he then definitely is back in the running as a contender for my love
40:22and we had an amazing time we slept like two little bears in hibernation it was some good sleep
40:27did you and kevin have sex last night
40:33she mentioned that you had been married before yes i might be a little bit forward but i intend to
40:39ask a few hard questions so how recent was your last breakup one and a half months ago are you serious
40:45yes hi hi i'm tony hi i'm tiny it's nice to meet you yeah nice to meet you too i didn't even recognize
40:54how short her hair was because i was so distracted by how beautiful she is so uh like what are you
41:01looking for out of a relationship um how many go have you met here in singapore two what about the
41:11other goal she didn't check all my boxes oh you have boxes yes i must have that circle of trust to
41:18proceed to the next level i have to win her friend over i need it to go well i'm dating with intention
41:25for marriage and family
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