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00:01Previously on Match Me Abroad.
00:03I don't know if it's because I had a dirty martini,
00:06champagne, and a little bit of red wine,
00:09but I'm relaxed as hell.
00:16Here I am with Keevan, but I'm still thinking about Glenn.
00:20I need Keevan to show me that he really is interested in me.
00:24Otherwise, I don't know how this relationship is going to work
00:26once I return back to Texas.
00:29Come on, take that shirt off.
00:34Cheers to an interesting birthday.
00:37Cheers to that.
00:39EJ has a lot of great things to say about EJ.
00:41Oh, good.
00:42After hearing about what he told Dolly,
00:44I am feeling more optimistic.
00:46Okay, maybe Dolly does know what she's doing here.
00:50Can he get another chance to get to know more of you?
00:54Oh, I can't wait to see him again.
00:56I would like to meet, you know, with some of your friends
01:00and get to know, you know, more of your trust.
01:02Hmm.
01:05Me and Harold, I think we have a great chemistry.
01:08But at the same time, he pushes boundaries, which I don't like.
01:12I'll be in my best behavior.
01:14Do you always call your clients difficult?
01:19If we have a list of deal breakers, it's going to be very hard to find someone who meets my standards.
01:28I have just one more match for Tony.
01:33And if he doesn't make things work with her, I'll be firing him.
01:40I have a heart that can be taped alone.
01:58Oh, hi.
01:59How are you?
02:00Good to see you.
02:01Hello.
02:02Good to see you.
02:04Thank you for coming to hang out with me.
02:06I got you something.
02:07You got me a gift?
02:08Yeah.
02:09Wow.
02:10Thank you so much.
02:19It's something cute, small.
02:20I think you'll love it.
02:21Oh, you're so sweet.
02:23Oh my gosh, I love it.
02:26It's very sentimental that you have a keychain on you because you carry it wherever you go.
02:31Did you do this on purpose?
02:32Because you knew I was going to look at it all the time.
02:35Yes.
02:36And think about you and our adventure together.
02:38This is so sweet.
02:40I'm so excited to see EJ again, and I can't believe he got me this designer keychain.
02:45I really appreciate the gesture, and it's super cute.
02:50The view is amazing, right?
02:51Yeah, it's really, really cool.
02:53I had a lot of fun with you the other day.
02:56Thank you for that.
02:57Yeah, me too.
02:58Bye.
02:59I can't believe you're leaving me in a couple of days.
03:02I really wanted to hang out more.
03:04Yeah, me too.
03:08Since my first date with EJ, we've been talking constantly, and it's been amazing.
03:12But EJ called me yesterday, and he told me that he's leaving for an overseas bodybuilding competition
03:17and that he won't be back until the day before I leave to go back to Texas.
03:22Honestly, I'm shocked.
03:23I thought we were on the same page in regards of how much we liked each other.
03:29I realized that this is something that he was probably planning on for a while.
03:32But so why even go on a few dates with me if you're not going to see where this can actually truly go?
03:40Yeah.
03:41So it's a lot about who you are as a person.
03:42Yeah.
03:43And when you come back, we'll celebrate because you'll win.
03:44Yeah.
03:45Yeah.
03:46And we'll have hamburgers and donuts.
03:47And you can cheat.
03:48You can cheat with me.
03:49Yeah.
03:50Okay.
03:51I'll bring you to my favorite cheat meal place.
03:52Yeah.
03:53Yes.
03:54Okay.
03:55Speaking of all your muscles.
03:56You should call me again.
03:57get in the pool.
03:58Okay.
03:59I'll bring you to my favorite cheat meal place.
04:00Yes.
04:01Okay.
04:02Okay.
04:03Speaking of all your muscles.
04:04You should probably get in the pool.
04:05Okay.
04:06I'll bring you to my favorite cheat meal place.
04:07Yes.
04:08Okay.
04:09Okay.
04:10Speaking of all your muscles.
04:11You should probably get in the pool.
04:12I will.
04:13Only if you join me.
04:14Normally I would, but I have my makeup done and my hair done.
04:15So probably not today.
04:16I understand.
04:17But, um, I do.
04:18I do.
04:19I do.
04:20I do.
04:21I do.
04:22I do.
04:23I do.
04:24I do.
04:25I do.
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04:27I do.
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04:29I do.
04:30I do.
04:31I do.
04:32I do.
04:33I do.
04:34I do.
04:35I do.
04:36I do.
04:37But, um, I did have something to kind of ask you.
04:39Because, you know, I love makeup.
04:41I love hair.
04:42I love to get dressed up.
04:43Um, but Dolly keeps telling me that I need to tone it down.
04:47Um, so I'm curious.
04:49Do you think that that's something that I do need to do?
04:54You're gonna go.
04:55Which is great.
04:56Because that's who you are as a person, right?
04:58Mm-hmm.
04:59To change all that is ridiculous.
05:00Then I'm taking away a part of you.
05:02I'm never gonna do that.
05:04If I'm gonna fall in love with you, it's gonna be,
05:06I'm falling in love with you because of you.
05:08Because of who I am.
05:09Right.
05:10You're saying all the right things.
05:11So sweet.
05:12It's the real things.
05:13I know.
05:14Sarah expresses herself by beautifying herself,
05:17which is what she loves.
05:19And I will support her.
05:20And your partner has to support what you love,
05:22you know, and it works two ways.
05:24So that's why I really appreciate her supporting my competition.
05:27I mean, a part of her doesn't want me to leave.
05:29I can see that.
05:30But I can see that she genuinely want me to go and pursue what I love.
05:35So I think she respects that.
05:38So can I see your tattoo?
05:40How many times are you gonna make me ask?
05:42Come on.
05:43Okay, I'll go and take a swim.
05:45Okay.
05:46Thank you, babe, for everything.
05:49You're all sweaty.
05:50I know.
05:51I'm gonna go with change.
05:55Okay.
05:56Sounds good.
05:57The fact that EJ doesn't want me to change my look is really sweet and amazing and reassuring
06:08and honestly making me like him more and more.
06:10Oh, wow.
06:11Hello, handsome.
06:12Your tattoo.
06:13I love it.
06:14You brought me a flower?
06:15Yep.
06:16So sweet.
06:18Now I'm gonna jump in.
06:20Ah!
06:21Wow.
06:22EJ is definitely saying all the right things but at the end of the day, like, he is leaving
06:34and a part of me definitely is still a little worried that he thinks that this is all just
06:40fun and games.
06:42I truly pray that he's being genuine with everything that he's saying because I am really starting
06:47to fall for him.
06:49Best view of Singapore.
06:51Are you nervous?
06:52A little bit.
06:53I can't see.
06:54My whole arm is sweaty.
06:55Thanks to you.
07:08Okay.
07:09All right.
07:10The moment of truth.
07:11The moment of truth.
07:12The moment of truth.
07:17A few days ago, I planned an indoor skydiving date with Amber and the best part of the date
07:27was I got to show her that I could take charge and plan a whole date and that I have the leadership
07:32skills that she desires in a man.
07:34And now I feel close to her and I feel she feels the same because today Amber's introducing
07:39me to one of her closest friends.
07:42Hi.
07:44Hi.
07:45Hi.
07:46Hi.
07:47Hello.
07:48Nice to meet you.
07:49Nice to meet you.
07:50Nice to meet you.
07:52You told me a lot about him.
07:55Maybe a little too much.
07:58I'm so elated to meet her friend but the gravity is so intense because in Asian culture,
08:04you don't generally meet friends until you're more serious about each other.
08:07So this is a huge step forward and I don't want to do anything to mess this up.
08:12Um, hi.
08:14I'm going to get a Margoli.
08:16The rice pie.
08:17That would be nice.
08:18I'll get one too.
08:19Are you sure?
08:20Yes.
08:21It's alcohol?
08:22Yes.
08:23Wait, do you drink?
08:24Not really.
08:25This will be good.
08:27So what happens when you drink?
08:29Shall we test it?
08:32I dance a little bit.
08:34I can give you all mine.
08:36I can order one bottle just for himself.
08:40I have known Joel for three to four years.
08:44Me and Joel, we get along because I think we are on the same wavelength.
08:48And it's definitely very important to get Joel's validation.
08:53because ultimately, someone who wants to be in a serious relationship with me
09:00needs to pass some serious grilling from my friends and family.
09:05I really like Harold and I hope that he does very well.
09:11Cheers!
09:13Oh, it's good.
09:18Do you like it?
09:20Before our meat comes, I'll start grilling you first.
09:26Now you understand why we are friends?
09:28Yes.
09:29Yeah, we have the same sense of humour.
09:32So you chose this place?
09:34Yes, I did.
09:35So you had a Korean barbecue before?
09:37Never. I've never had Korean barbecue.
09:39I wanted something new.
09:40Very adventurous.
09:42That can go to you.
09:44Oh, my.
09:45This is beef sashimi.
09:47In Korean, it's called yoke hay.
09:48It's basically raw bean.
09:54How is it?
09:56It's good.
09:57It surprised me.
09:58Really?
09:59Mm-hmm.
10:01Well, I saw the reaction when he had dance.
10:04You need to drink so that I can ask about crab.
10:09So, crab, what happened?
10:11Uh...
10:13I went to Prague.
10:14I tried to find my love and I matched with this girl.
10:18We fell in love.
10:19It was rather tragic how it didn't work out.
10:24Before the girl in Prague, like, have you dated?
10:27Yes, I did.
10:28I had five or six relationships in the US.
10:31How did you meet them?
10:32Uh, dating apps.
10:35One of them, she worked at the McDonald's.
10:37So they sell me every day, so that wasn't too hard.
10:41The cute girl at McDonald's, like, oh, hi, how's it going?
10:43Hamburger today?
10:44No, come over and see my rock collection.
10:48Rock collection?
10:49Yes, I collect rocks.
10:50Ooh.
10:54Amber actually asked me to come as her friend to sass him out,
10:58so I have to do my part.
11:02Amber is a great girl.
11:03But Amber's second guest, a lot dating in the past,
11:06even when some guy's great.
11:08But he was so anxious and so nervous when he first stepped in
11:12that I was like, oh, man.
11:14I'm just thinking maybe he's actually a serial killer.
11:19How many girls have you met here in Singapore?
11:25I've met two.
11:27I thought there was more.
11:29Only two?
11:30Yes.
11:31Really?
11:32There are more possibilities, but...
11:33I was really taken with Amber.
11:37What about the other girl?
11:38No chemistry?
11:40No chemistry.
11:42And...
11:44she didn't check all my boxes.
11:45Oh, you have boxes?
11:46Yes.
11:48I have a checklist and...
11:49Wait, wait, wait, you have a checklist?
11:54I really want Amber to see that I can fit in with her social life.
11:57But when Joe is grilling me, I feel enormous frustration.
12:01I never get to say everything I want to say.
12:04Being on the spectrum, socializing in group settings is not easy for me.
12:08I usually am just quiet.
12:10I sit in the background.
12:12So my biggest fear was if she sees something in me that she doesn't like
12:15and it doesn't go well, then it would hinder our relationship.
12:18Your pig is pretty cool.
12:19Your art is pretty amazing.
12:21Tony has been so picky and I really want him to make a true connection with Thais.
12:35What are you looking for out of a relationship?
12:37I am always attracted more.
12:40I don't know if I should tell you.
12:43Slow down, girl, don't miss my tempo.
12:45It's a holy ground just like a tempo.
12:47I'm a stamina man, I'm sentimental.
12:51Hello.
12:52Hi.
12:53Hi, I'm Tony.
12:54Hi, I'm Thais.
12:55Nice to meet you.
12:56Yeah, nice to meet you too.
12:57Woo.
12:58I like what I love.
12:59Follow my tempo.
13:01My amor, I am sin.
13:03I don't apologize, though.
13:07So I think we're going to do graffiti.
13:10Are you an artist?
13:11I can draw.
13:13But I can see the competition around here, so hopefully I step up to it.
13:17Oh, yeah.
13:18I see.
13:20For Tony's final potential match in Brazil, I'm setting him up with Thais.
13:26She's beautiful.
13:27She's artistic.
13:28She's also interested in having a family with her future partner.
13:33And when it comes to dating, they both have high standards.
13:37So I believe she could work with Tony.
13:42Oh, man.
13:43Wow.
13:44Okay.
13:45All right.
13:46They will be visiting the fun area of Beco do Batman to try their hand at graffiti art.
13:54Because I think art is like love and standards of beauty.
13:58Everything is subjective.
14:00Tony has been so picky.
14:02And I really want him to make a true connection with Thais.
14:06Even if her hair is too short.
14:09Welcome to the local studio.
14:11Are you ready for doing some art today?
14:13Absolutely.
14:17So please take a seat.
14:18All right.
14:19Great.
14:20I will bring the pen and paper for you to do your drawing.
14:22Awesome.
14:23Yeah.
14:25I didn't even recognize how short her hair was because I was so distracted by how beautiful she is.
14:32You know, like, the way she's dressed.
14:34And I really like her skin tone.
14:36It would look to be very milky soft.
14:39Um, yeah.
14:41Really nice.
14:43The goal is for you to do a drawing on the paper.
14:46And then we will do on the wall.
14:48So go for it.
14:49All right.
14:50Thank you, Boz.
14:51I appreciate you, sir.
14:53I'm drawing, like, just like, I guess the moon and the ocean.
14:57Maybe you can do a little face on the moon to make it funnier, you know?
15:01Yeah.
15:02What is that?
15:03So this is, uh, this is Raphael.
15:07That's my, uh, ninja turtle.
15:10And he's got a pig as a pet.
15:12So he's taking his pig for a walk right now.
15:14Why do you like so much pigs?
15:16Well, the pig is a very underrated animal.
15:19It's actually one of the smartest land animals that there is.
15:23And a pig can turn into a, uh, a warthog if you leave it in the wild.
15:28So it can become really tough if you let it.
15:31Mm-hmm.
15:32Yeah.
15:33Wow.
15:34What other animals do you like?
15:35I like pretty much all animals, so...
15:37Do you like dogs?
15:38Yeah, I like dogs.
15:39You have a dog?
15:40Yeah.
15:41I have, like, two dogs.
15:42It's a people and a Shih Tzu.
15:44Okay.
15:45I'm, like, extremely attached to them.
15:47Oh, okay.
15:48That's cool.
15:49So you have...
15:50You don't have any dogs?
15:51Nah.
15:52Okay, guys.
15:53So let's head to the next alley to paint.
15:55Yeah, let's do it.
15:56I'm ready.
15:57Follow me.
15:58I felt like when I talked about the dogs, that I love dogs, he did not get so excited.
16:04So that's, like, I think you don't have dogs.
16:06A little red flagged.
16:07Because dogs owners understand the dog owners.
16:10We're the same people.
16:12This is the wall that we're going to paint.
16:14You go very close to do the lines.
16:16And you go further away to feel inside.
16:19I'm really looking forward to this.
16:21I have had, like, relationships with people outside Brazil.
16:25And I love Americans.
16:27But usually I like men to have long hair.
16:32Wow, that looks great.
16:34But actually something that is attractive to me is his muscle.
16:38That's nice.
16:39So let's see how things go.
16:41Cool. Let's do this.
16:43Oh, yours is definitely coming out better than mine.
16:55I like that blue.
16:56I like yours too, man.
16:57Yeah.
16:59I think my pig's been sitting out in the sun too long.
17:02I think it got some burn.
17:04I love yours.
17:05Oh, yeah.
17:06It's good. It's good.
17:07Nice.
17:08Your pig is pretty cool.
17:09I think for your first graffiti, it's pretty good.
17:12Bye, bye, bye.
17:13Give me my camera.
17:16All right.
17:17Your art was pretty amazing.
17:23So, like, what are you looking for out of a relationship?
17:26For sure, like, someone loyal, honest.
17:30That's really important.
17:31Yeah, I mean, those are kind of, like, you know, general things that every woman wants, right?
17:37Mm-hmm.
17:38Mm-hmm.
17:39You want to, like, more specific, like?
17:40Yeah, well, like, what do you want?
17:44I don't know if I should tell you.
17:45No.
17:46No.
17:47No, it doesn't make sense.
17:48It's okay, you know?
17:49You're not going to hurt my feelings.
17:50I am always attracted more, um, hair.
17:56Oh, okay.
17:57Sorry.
17:58What about you?
17:59Do you want to share a little bit, like, about everything that he wants?
18:03Um, well, before that, I have to ask.
18:06Would you consider yourself, like, a flashy person?
18:09Flashy?
18:10Flashy, yeah.
18:11What is flashy?
18:12Like, uh, kind of, like, showing off, like, hey, look at me, I'm cool.
18:17Zero.
18:18No?
18:19No.
18:20You know, it's the diamond in your tooth.
18:21Ha, ha, ha.
18:24So, like, I've never seen anybody in the U.S. with diamonds in their teeth before.
18:28Really?
18:29Except for, like, a wrapper or something like that, and it's, it's like a grill.
18:32It's not, like, a real diamond in their tooth.
18:34So, you think it's strange in my, my piercing?
18:37Um, I'm not a big fan.
18:39Mm-hmm.
18:40Not a big fan.
18:41I don't know.
18:42I believe that she doesn't like me.
18:47But to be extremely honest, I don't really care because I don't really like her anymore.
18:52I was so distracted by the diamond in her tooth.
18:55I don't even know where you go to get a diamond in your tooth.
19:00So, I am getting tired.
19:02I should've, like, I guess I should've, like, maybe go.
19:04Okay, yeah.
19:05It's getting a little late.
19:06Yeah.
19:07I'm extremely disappointed in Louisa.
19:10And her inability to, to try to find the woman that I want to be with for a long-term relationship.
19:23What do you want to wager?
19:24If I win the rest of the time you're here, you just take me.
19:29Yeah?
19:33Did she tell you about our kiss?
19:35Oh, .
19:37You got a kiss?
19:38No, she didn't.
19:39.
19:40What?
19:41Oh, gosh.
19:42You naughty girl, you didn't tell me everything.
19:44It was not planned.
19:45Oh, Glenn!
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21:58For the rest of the time you're here, you just date me and you don't have any other dates.
22:05Okay.
22:06Yeah?
22:07Okay.
22:08Let's see what you got.
22:09Okay.
22:10Let's see what you got.
22:12Oh, nice.
22:15Come on, let me see what you got, daddy.
22:18Damn!
22:19Boy!
22:21Three, two, and go.
22:31So, yeah.
22:32You got the reg.
22:33Thanks for that one.
22:34Nice.
22:35But I ain't mad about the bit.
22:38You got a hairy kiss.
22:39So I lost my wager.
22:42I love that Keevan is starting to show me that he's interested.
22:46He wants me to stop dating other people.
22:48It makes me feel like he's fighting for me and really cares.
22:51It sounds like he did have some jealousy of me going on other dates.
22:55And that's definitely why he didn't reach out.
22:57But him showing me emotions is what I wanted all along.
23:02That's amazing.
23:03Heck yeah.
23:04Now I feel like I want to do something else.
23:05Careful.
23:06Oh.
23:08Nice.
23:09Nice.
23:10My phone just fell out.
23:11Yeah.
23:12My boob did too, actually.
23:13Hold on.
23:14I like that Amber has kind of a childlike sensibility.
23:19She's not afraid to kind of just give in to, like, little impulses.
23:23It's a very likable trait.
23:26Katerina gave me some nice advice.
23:29And, yeah, I'm really, really glad.
23:31We're at a good place at the moment I feel.
23:33It's just really nice.
23:37Oh, my gosh.
23:38Thank you for this weekend.
23:40No problem.
23:41You've had a good time?
23:42I've had an amazing time.
23:44Gosh, this is so pretty, man.
23:49Have you ever, like, say we go on a few more dates and we decide we want to keep in touch,
23:53keep, you know, potentially seeing each other?
23:55Is a long distance thing anything you've experienced or what are your thoughts on it?
23:59Um, I've never been in, like, a relationship where my boyfriend literally lives 4,000 miles away.
24:06That's why I was like, we're going to have to work on our communication because if we were girlfriend and boyfriend and we live that far apart and I didn't talk to you for, like, three, four days, yeah, I'm calling the local hospitals and seeing what's going on.
24:19Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
24:20No, no, you're right, you're right.
24:21Like, a lot of challenges to it.
24:23But there's always a potential of being here, living here.
24:27Yeah.
24:28Or, like, Fort Worth.
24:29Or we could go anywhere in the world.
24:31We don't even have to be secluded to just being in these two places.
24:34Yeah, yeah, that's true.
24:35Yeah, yeah.
24:36Like, a lot of Irish people go to Canada and they give visas.
24:41So that's something I was considering anyway.
24:43It was like...
24:44Oh, that's cool.
24:45It was like, yeah, something I've been looking into.
24:48Finally, you're chiseling away and telling me what your heart's desires are.
24:53I'm liking him the more that I learn about him.
24:56And it may take him a minute to open up, but that's not a bad thing.
25:00In terms of living abroad, it's something I am pretty open to at the moment.
25:05Yeah, I am too.
25:06I actually am too.
25:07Yeah.
25:11This weekend was more than I could have ever expected, especially from Keevan.
25:16It's reignited my excitement for him.
25:18But I've really been thinking about Glenn.
25:21Glenn has been texting me every day since our last date,
25:24and I know that I still have to explore what the possibilities could be with Glenn.
25:30I'm torn because both of these guys are two totally different
25:34characters.
25:35I'm trying to tap into future Amber and see, what does she want?
25:40Does she want a life with Glenn that's exciting but also unsettling?
25:47Because I feel like he's trying to pressure me into something too fast.
25:50Or do I want something that's simple, quiet, and just...
25:55You don't know where you're going to go.
25:57I don't know what to do.
26:03Your hands feel like a freaking ice cube.
26:05Let's just get in and out of the cold.
26:06Yes, please.
26:07Yes, please.
26:08Let's do it.
26:19So you have a checklist for Amber?
26:22Very true, yes.
26:23Did she check the boxes?
26:26She checked them all.
26:27She checked them all?
26:28That you didn't tell me?
26:30I didn't know I checked them all.
26:33Joe is grilling me kind of hard.
26:36With this being the ultimate test of our relationship up to this point,
26:39I'm very alert and very focused.
26:41But I'll just be myself.
26:42And if I can use this opportunity wisely, she can ask me the right question,
26:46then I'll have another advocate and another voice on her shoulder to say,
26:49Yes, Harold is the one.
26:51Don't hesitate.
26:52Go, go, go, go.
26:55Tell me more about the dates.
26:58Dating is expensive in Singapore.
27:01That's why I work all year and save on money and...
27:04To splurge.
27:05To splurge.
27:06But I'm dating with intention.
27:08I want to...
27:10Dating with intention.
27:11Intention for marriage and family and partner and...
27:17What?
27:19Me, it's too hot.
27:28Did she tell you about our kiss?
27:30Oh, s***.
27:32Did you guys kiss this?
27:33No, she didn't.
27:34Oh, s***.
27:35What?
27:38Oh, gosh.
27:40You naughty girl.
27:41You didn't tell me everything.
27:42It was not planned.
27:44It was not planned.
27:45Ma'am.
27:46It was an accidental kiss.
27:47Yeah, right?
27:48Yes.
27:50I was leaning to kiss his cheek.
27:52And he learned my kiss on the cheek to a mouth-to-mouth kiss.
28:02My friend missed the most important thing out about her date.
28:09I guess she was too shy about it, maybe.
28:11That's why I think she likes him too.
28:14Otherwise, you know, why would she didn't tell me?
28:16Who?
28:20I'm gonna just enjoy my grilled meats.
28:21You too.
28:22You do the grilling.
28:23He be grilled.
28:24I'm flame retardant.
28:25I don't burn.
28:26I'm flame retardant.
28:27I don't burn.
28:32Tell me more about...
28:33She told me about you being on the spectrum.
28:36Yes.
28:37It's something that bothered me in childhood because I used to have to make a list of things just not to say in front of people.
28:45No filter?
28:46Is that what you...?
28:47No filter.
28:48Is that what you're thinking?
28:49Yes, no filter.
28:50I would put my foot in my mouth.
28:52Yes.
28:53Actually, I do that too.
28:54I do.
28:55She does too.
28:56I know.
28:57She does.
28:58I do.
28:59A lot of men generally are very socially awkward.
29:02Which is true.
29:03In Singapore, yeah?
29:04In Singapore, definitely, yeah.
29:06So...
29:07Sometimes I think autism and maybe autistic could be just another word for super smart people.
29:14No.
29:15It could be.
29:16Neuro diverse.
29:17Yeah, but...
29:18I like that.
29:19I like that term better.
29:20What he always says is he...
29:23He's an open book.
29:25He's easy to read.
29:26Very easy to read.
29:27Easy to read is good, right?
29:29Why do you want complications?
29:30Simple is...
29:31Simplicity is great.
29:32Yes, I agree.
29:33I agree.
29:34I think Harold has done a fantastic job of getting Joe on his side.
29:40I think she's totally smitten with him.
29:42And it's definitely nice to get Joe's validation that Harold and I were good for each other
29:51even though I may not feel it as strongly yet.
29:53I mean, of course, I'm happy.
29:55But at the same time, I'm a little scared that, you know, he might fall too deep too fast.
30:02Is this good?
30:04He's got a good sense of humour.
30:06Okay.
30:07He just haven't met the right girl.
30:09Uh-huh.
30:10Right?
30:11Just like you haven't met the right guy for a very long time, I must add.
30:14Yes.
30:15He's totally into you.
30:16I can tell.
30:19Dinner was a smashing success.
30:21I have a new friend and new advocate.
30:24But the thought of leaving Amber in two days crushes me because we haven't solidified anything yet.
30:31No title, no ring.
30:32I don't want to go home empty handed.
30:34I think it's good for you.
30:37I think you guys just might be able to make it work.
30:40Oh, thank you.
30:43I wish to learn her love languages.
30:45I wish to know that magic phrase I could whisper and have her fall in love with me.
30:49But I'm kind of in a rush.
30:50I want to have a plan to make it happen.
30:54I made it out okay.
30:55I'm relatively unscathed.
30:57What are your intentions?
31:03I don't fall in love with fun.
31:06How recent was your breakup?
31:08One and a half months ago.
31:10Are you serious?
31:20Please, you have a refill of Destiny Challenge.
31:22Thank you, Hoi.
31:23Thank you, Hoi.
31:24Welcome.
31:33My mom is my best friend, and obviously I've already told her everything about EJ.
31:45So after I found out that EJ is leaving so soon, I rushed to put together a meet and greet for him and my mom.
31:55Because, you know, her opinion really means a lot to me.
31:58Oh, hello, hello.
32:01Hello.
32:02EJ, this is my mother, Kitty.
32:04Hi.
32:05Nice to meet you.
32:06So nice to meet you.
32:08So good to see you.
32:09Love you someday.
32:11Aw.
32:12Happy Mother's Day.
32:13Oh, my God.
32:14That is so sweet.
32:18That's very sweet.
32:20That's so nice.
32:21All right.
32:22Even though I really like EJ, I have been caught up in love in the past.
32:28When you are into someone, you tend to have rose-colored glasses, but my mom is a great judge of character, so she might be able to see any red flags that I could be ignoring.
32:41So, you know we live in Houston, obviously.
32:43Yeah.
32:44Have you ever been to the U.S.?
32:45No, no, no.
32:46No?
32:47You've got to come to Houston.
32:48There's a lot of places, yeah.
32:49We'll show you the rodeos.
32:50Oh, nice.
32:51We'll get you some boots.
32:52We'll have a cowboy hat.
32:53You look really cute in a cowboy hat.
32:56That'll be fun.
33:01He knocked it out of the park with the first impression.
33:03He's self-assured, confident, very masculine as well.
33:08But still, I'm here as, you know, extra eyes and ears.
33:12I might be a little bit forward, but I intend to ask a few hard questions about intentions.
33:18She mentioned that you had been married before.
33:22Yes.
33:23Been divorced now for...
33:24About 13 years, correct.
33:25About 13 years, okay.
33:26Correct.
33:27So, what is your philosophy going forward?
33:30Would you ever get married again?
33:33With the right person.
33:34Yes.
33:35With the right person.
33:36If you don't mind me asking, Sarah, my amazing, incredible, beautiful daughter,
33:41she wouldn't have come all this way if she weren't serious.
33:45You know, she's looking for love.
33:47So, what are your, what are your intentions?
33:54Breakup that I just had recently was actually...
33:58If not for the breakup, I would not have worked with Dolly.
34:03Okay.
34:04And then because of the breakup, I decide to say,
34:07okay, I'm going to give myself a chance to go and find love again.
34:11So, how recent was your breakup?
34:13One and a half months ago.
34:14Okay.
34:17That's pretty recent.
34:18I mean, that's why I say if I fall in love, I fall in love.
34:21I don't fall in love for fun.
34:23I want to be with someone who can actually lift me and make me a better person.
34:29Right?
34:30So, to me, that's very important.
34:32I couldn't agree more.
34:35You're being awfully quiet over there.
34:37I'm just letting y'all get acquainted.
34:39Yeah.
34:40Letting you ask him the hard questions.
34:42Hopefully that hasn't meant to you.
34:43I mean, you haven't seemed daunted by any of my hard questions.
34:48There's nothing to hide.
34:49I mean, it's okay.
34:50I like that.
34:52So, you're getting ready to go on a bodybuilding?
34:56Yeah.
34:57Competition.
34:58I'm supposed to leave the day after tomorrow.
35:02Okay.
35:03But, this is all the time you have here in Singapore.
35:08and some things can never be repeated.
35:13The moment, the feeling, the time that we spent.
35:16So, I won't be going for that conversation.
35:21Are you serious?
35:22I can't have you not go.
35:28What I feel, there will always be a conversation.
35:30But I may not be able to always spend this time together with you.
35:36Yay!
35:39That's so sweet.
35:42That's awesome.
35:46Things between me and Sarah are doing really well.
35:48I mean, I thought about it all day.
35:51And I think we have to spend a little bit more time
35:55to really figure out, you know,
35:59even more tougher questions that we need to ask
36:01to see whether we were the right match.
36:03There are going to be many, many other competitions
36:05and only won Sarah.
36:06So, I had to make the choice.
36:09I'm so happy.
36:10I was honestly really sad when you told me that you were leaving
36:13because I really did feel like we connected.
36:15So, I'm honestly extremely excited.
36:17I know that this bodybuilding competition meant a lot to EJ,
36:23but I do appreciate the sacrifice, though, that he's making for me.
36:27And it is kind of sexy that he's so passionate about our potential future together.
36:31I really love to feel special.
36:34And you just made me feel really special, so thank you.
36:38I can tell that my mom is impressed, which is a huge relief.
36:43On our next date, I'm hoping that EJ and I can figure out where this is going.
36:48And maybe EJ will try to kiss me.
36:51So, what should we do?
36:53Yeah.
36:54What should you do?
36:55I'm not going to third wheel on that one.
36:58Let me plan something.
36:59Okay, perfect.
37:00We can't wait.
37:05I got this message saying it was the worst date.
37:11I'm meeting up with Tony, and I don't know there is much more I can do for him.
37:15I'm not going to do this anymore.
37:17I know you've been hurt It's written on your face
37:30But I see your words And we've all made mistakes
37:35I know that you want to change
37:40Got me feeling so alive
37:44It's been a couple of days since I sent Tony out on his date with Thais.
37:58So, I'm meeting up with him today to talk about how things went.
38:05I got this message from Thais, not happy, saying it was the worst date she had.
38:14I'm sending this message to you to know how to talk about the date.
38:18I'm pushing the conversations because I'm not sure, I'm pushing the most part of the conversation.
38:24Okay.
38:25Another important thing I think to comment was that
38:30I think he's a person who's very important for appearance.
38:34And he doesn't like people different.
38:37Thais is the last match I had left for Tony.
38:41He has rejected all his potential matches without trying to get to know them better.
38:47And I don't know there is much more I can do for him.
38:52I've introduced to him so many girls.
38:56And he saw a problem in each of them.
38:59He's not open.
39:01He's not doing things differently.
39:02He's saying everyone is damaged and traumatic people and things like this.
39:09He's talking about himself.
39:10He is the damaged one.
39:13He is the insecure guy.
39:17He can meet all girls in the world.
39:21Nobody's gonna fit in here.
39:22It's his criteria.
39:23He needs help.
39:24I can't help him.
39:29I'm not going to do this anymore.
39:33Because if I introduce him another one, he's gonna find a problem in her and he's gonna offend her.
39:42I'm ready to fire him.
39:46Next time on Match Me Abroad.
39:56I had two awesome dates with Amber.
39:59It's possible that I could extend my stay.
40:01Yeah.
40:03I hope that it'll show Amber that I am serious and I'm here for the long haul.
40:07She likes taking the relationship really slow.
40:11She is still making up her mind if she wants to be in a relationship with you.
40:17So can you be patient with Amber?
40:22One, two, three, four.
40:24Heels long.
40:26I need a little height.
40:28I'm 100% sure I see this relationship progressing further.
40:31I really think we will end up together.
40:33She just doesn't know it yet maybe.
40:35You ready for our third date?
40:37Have you broken up with him yet?
40:41Hey!
40:43You should like take it as a pet, not eat it.
40:46We have been having so much fun together, but we have a lot of things to figure out for sure.
40:52In a perfect world, when actually would be your timing to have children?
40:57Like at least, minimum of at least two years.
41:03So Monica, you have Bruno and Bernardo.
41:05How are you feeling?
41:07I feel like I don't want to make a decision.
41:11As her matchmaker, I feel that is my job, helping Monica making a decision.
41:18I have something for you.
41:21I invited Bruno and Bernardo here.
41:23They're going to come in right now?
41:25Right now.
41:26I am going to leave you for now!
41:27I am right now!
41:28I am running away with me.
41:29I am so proud to have a great day.
41:30It is the first time we will beAlright.
41:32I am so proud to be a great day.
41:33It is the first time we have a great day.
41:34I am ready to leave you to have a great day.
41:36I am so proud to be the best day today.
41:37We have a great day up late now.
41:38If I have a great day, I will do that!
41:39And the next time we have a great day.
41:40We are working for now.
41:41I have not done this job, not done this job.
41:42I have no idea.
41:43And we asked that if we can do this job every day.
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