In Match Me Abroad, hopeful romantics journey across the globe in search of their perfect partner, navigating cultural differences and personal challenges. This episode, S02E12, brings new developments as the participants face crucial decisions about their international relationships. Will their cross-border connections lead to lasting love or heartbreaking goodbyes?
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00:00Oh, nice.
00:03Previously on Match Me Abroad.
00:06How about if I win, you just take me,
00:09and you don't go on another date.
00:11This weekend was more than I could have ever expected,
00:15but I've really been thinking about Glenn.
00:19You got the wretch. Takes that one.
00:21So I lost my wager.
00:24You're getting ready to go on a bodybuilding?
00:28A competition.
00:29I'm supposed to leave the day after tomorrow.
00:32But I won't be doing better than you.
00:35Yay!
00:37It is kind of sexy that he is so passionate
00:40about our potential future together.
00:42So what should we do?
00:44Yeah, what should you do?
00:48He's totally into you.
00:50I can tell.
00:52Dinner was a smashing success.
00:54And now I feel closer to her,
00:56and I feel she feels the same.
00:58But we haven't solidified anything yet.
01:01No title, no ring.
01:02But I want to have a plan to make it happen.
01:05I've introduced to him so many girls,
01:12and he saw a problem in each of them.
01:15So you think it's a strain to my piercings?
01:18Not a big fan.
01:19I don't know.
01:20I'm Lila.
01:21I'm Lucila.
01:22I'm Gabi Gabriela.
01:23It's time to choose one of them.
01:24Can I say none of them?
01:26He needs help.
01:27I can't help him.
01:28We have some priorities now.
01:30And you are the top of the list.
01:32Oh.
01:33Bernardo is sexy, rough around the edges.
01:46Where, with Breno, our values truly do align.
01:50But my God, if I don't want that love and passion.
01:53You're choosing to be at the club instead of with me.
01:57Bernardo said I'm the priority again.
02:00And I'm clearly not the priority.
02:02That's bull .
02:03You gave me a reason to try, told me there's so much to see.
02:19Whoever told me they were to platforms, which was myself, was crazy.
02:22My pinky toe already hurt.
02:24I see the future through the glow on your eyes.
02:30Are you trying to get some early moves?
02:31He's trying to get some moves before me.
02:33Oh, wow.
02:34Amber, nice to see you again.
02:35I'm not a handshake.
02:36Get out of here.
02:37How are you?
02:38Amber, so lovely to meet you.
02:39Good morning.
02:40I'm Amber.
02:41Nice to meet you as well.
02:42What's your name?
02:43This is Luis.
02:44Yeah.
02:45Luis, nice to meet you.
02:46I just got back from a romantic weekend with Keevan.
02:50But Glenn has been texting me every day, asked me to take this traditional Irish dance
02:56class with him.
02:57And I have to say, like, I'm excited to see him today.
03:00This is what I came to Ireland for.
03:01Is it not?
03:02To date around, find the love of my life.
03:04So guess what?
03:05I don't feel Celtic.
03:07Today, we're going to be doing a Kaylee dancing.
03:10Okay.
03:11Oh, nice.
03:12Yeah.
03:13It's actually a lovely time of year to be doing this, because it's coming up to Bieltena,
03:16which is one of the festivals in the Celtic calendar that is associated with dance and with fertility.
03:23Okay.
03:24Dancing through the fire, like all this kind of thing.
03:26Is fire involved?
03:27No fire today.
03:28Oh, dang.
03:29We are the fire.
03:30Yeah.
03:31Exactly.
03:32Let's go for it.
03:33Okay.
03:34So you guys cross hands, and you're going to be stepping to the right.
03:37One, two, three, four, five, six, seven.
03:40Back, two, three, four, five, six, seven.
03:43Heels and all.
03:45I'm very impressed to be dancing in heels.
03:48I need a little height.
03:52Since I've last seen Amber, things have been amazing.
03:54It's like on her first date, her positive energy and spark rubbed off on me.
03:59So I really couldn't wait to see her again.
04:01Are you good?
04:02Yeah.
04:03You're good.
04:07I'm 100% sure I see this relationship progressing further.
04:10I really think we will end up together.
04:13She just doesn't know it yet, maybe.
04:15But after, I think after our date now, she'll be sure.
04:19Brilliant.
04:20You did a good job.
04:21Brilliant.
04:22That was great, guys.
04:23It is so good.
04:24So you guys are ready for a drink now, are you?
04:26Yes.
04:27Our tooth.
04:28I mean, like, it's five o'clock somewhere.
04:33Thank you, sir.
04:37I love a good foamy coffee.
04:40It's coffee and whiskey.
04:41Oh, is whiskey in here?
04:42Oh, yeah.
04:43It's an Irish coffee.
04:44What kind of whiskey?
04:45So you got Irish whiskey, Jameson.
04:48You got an espresso.
04:49And you got some Irish cream.
04:51Oh, my lord.
04:52What?
04:55Mm.
04:56Mm-mm.
04:57Mm-mm.
04:58You like it?
04:59It's different, isn't it?
05:02There's a few different things going on at once.
05:05You got a little milk mustache.
05:07Now you got one.
05:09Aw.
05:10I look like a little cat.
05:12Meow.
05:13Now you got to pass it on.
05:16So I am really excited that we went on our second date anyway.
05:19I know.
05:20I'm happy you came.
05:21What have you been doing here since?
05:22Oh, my word.
05:23I have been on a whirlwind.
05:24Yeah.
05:25I went to a city called Kilkenny.
05:28Yeah, yeah, Kilkenny.
05:29Yeah, yeah.
05:30And I went to an estate.
05:31And the other guy that I've been seeing.
05:32Of course, yeah.
05:33We had an overnight stay.
05:35I kind of was feeling, like, conflicted because I was having a good time, of course.
05:40Yeah.
05:41But it was only human nature to think, like, dang, what would it be like if Glenn and I came here?
05:46Like, I really do want to get to know you deeply.
05:49I'm sure this guy is handsome, but, like, I am Mr. Arlott.
05:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
05:53I know.
05:54I got to win.
05:55You have major confidence, and I love that.
05:57Fine line between confidence and cocky, though.
06:00I like a guy that's a little cocky, too, though.
06:02Really?
06:03I said a little.
06:05A little.
06:06This much.
06:07So, you ready for our third date?
06:10Have you broken up with him yet?
06:13We haven't stopped talking.
06:14Okay.
06:15But are you, like, if we're going on a third date now?
06:18On another date.
06:19And I got a hard conversation to have.
06:22Okay.
06:23With yourself or with him?
06:24Both.
06:25After this weekend with Keevan, I honestly don't have a reason to break it off with him.
06:31But at the same time, Glenn looks so good right now.
06:35He's fun.
06:36And he's just so open and honest every time I see him.
06:41It's so hard.
06:42Yeah.
06:43Like I'm telling you, this is an awkward situation.
06:44Let him down easy, okay?
06:45Oh, let him down easy?
06:46Yeah, sir.
06:47Lord, help me.
06:50Only have a few more days here in Ireland.
06:53Time is wrapping up, and I need to clear mine.
06:56Time is very well you don't even know what the island is doing.
07:14You've got all your thoughts on that.
07:17Let's go, let's go, let's go.
07:19Let's go, let's go.
07:20Let's go, let's go.
07:23Please make your message, form 9.
07:40Doesn't answer.
07:41I have no choice, but let them go.
08:11I can't help someone who doesn't want help, who doesn't see he needs help.
08:18I've done my hardest to find Tony a perfect match, a good match for him.
08:26I introduced him, all these girls, and he doesn't show up.
08:32Tony is not ready for a good relationship, a healthy relationship.
08:37He's not ready for this.
08:38Tony has his own way to find love.
08:44Let him go his way.
08:50As a matchmaker, I have never had a client do this to me before.
08:55Never.
08:56Tony is blind to the way his own trauma is preventing him to find love.
09:02He uses it to reject the women before they can reject him.
09:09Maybe he knew that matchmaking wasn't going to help him and decided to fire me before I had the chance to do it to him.
09:17I wish Tony the best.
09:22Maybe Tony's match is out there somewhere.
09:25Who knows?
09:26Love moves in mysterious ways.
09:28Okay, thank you, guys.
09:30Thank you, guys.
09:31See you again.
09:32Bye-bye.
09:32Bye-bye.
09:38I'll set one up.
09:40Okay.
09:40You take a look.
09:41What kind of bait is that?
09:43It's liver.
09:44It's liver?
09:46We have been having so much fun together, but we have a lot of things to figure out for sure.
09:51I want to find someone I can start a family with, and I hope that maybe that someone could be you.
09:58I mean, I like them both.
10:04But, like, Bernardo is, like, some debonair French man who makes love to you all day and all night.
10:12Monica is putting more weight on chemistry, and she's not thinking logical.
10:17I have something to help you making this decision.
10:39Hello.
10:39Hi, Lily.
10:39How are you?
10:41Good.
10:42Good to see you.
10:44Aren't you ready?
10:45I am.
10:47Let's rock and roll.
10:49Let's rock and roll.
10:51Ready to pass out, cause all we need is love.
10:55All we need is love to risk it all.
10:59I haven't been seeing you for a few days.
11:01How have you been?
11:02Great.
11:03I, you know, I mean, it's been really wonderful.
11:06He's a really incredible human being.
11:08And, yeah, I'm enjoying getting to know him.
11:14Since he did decide to skip his bodybuilding competition,
11:17I've been making the most of my time with EJ.
11:19And we've been talking pretty much all day, every day.
11:22We have gone to a comedy club and we've also gone gracha dancing.
11:28We've been on a few dates now and I'm wondering why EJ hasn't tried to kiss me.
11:34Part of me does really appreciate the fact that he is taking his time, but he's, he's overdue.
11:41Regardless of the no kiss, we have been having so much fun together.
11:45But we might be having too much fun together, cause we haven't had a serious talk about our future.
11:51We have a lot of things to figure out for sure.
11:59Hello.
12:00How are you?
12:01You look cute.
12:02I'm good.
12:04How are you?
12:04Good to see you.
12:05Okay, so today, we're going to catch these bad boys.
12:11Okay.
12:12And then we're going to barbecue them and eat them.
12:14Are you afraid of them?
12:16Um, I mean, I don't really want to touch one.
12:19This is kind of like a Singaporean thing where, you know, you go out, you go proning, sit down, talk, have a couple of drinks.
12:29Okay.
12:29And catch some prawns.
12:31Okay.
12:31We're going to set up there.
12:33It smells funny in here, right?
12:36I'll set one up.
12:37Okay.
12:37You take a look.
12:38What kind of bait is that?
12:40Um, it's liver.
12:41Liver?
12:43What kind of liver?
12:45Chicken.
12:46Chicken?
12:47Yes.
12:48Okay.
12:49I have a thing about touching dead animals, and honestly, if EJ thinks that I'm going to
12:54put dead animals on the hook, then he's crazy.
13:00So look at the boy.
13:02He'll get pulled in.
13:03All the way?
13:03Yes.
13:04Okay.
13:05Let's have a competition.
13:06Let's say who gets the first.
13:08You're a professional.
13:08No, I'm not.
13:09I mean, this is luck, right?
13:10And you have to get this luck.
13:11How many times have you done this?
13:12Um, 500 times?
13:15No, I'm just kidding.
13:16Maybe 10 max.
13:1810.
13:20Okay, mine go under.
13:21See?
13:21Uh-huh.
13:24At the end of the day, life is just about balancing.
13:34You have good days when you go out, you have nice dinners and all that, but there are
13:37days that I just want to chill with you, you know, and get to be really real.
13:43And Sarah so far has shown me that she can do both.
13:47Whoa, guys.
13:49I think we are connecting even deeper.
13:51Definitely, I want to be with Sarah.
13:53And I hope that we can try to make this work.
13:57So, are you going to catch a bird for me?
13:59Hopefully.
14:00It's going to be our lucky one.
14:02But, well, I'm still waiting to catch one.
14:05Yeah.
14:06It'll come.
14:10I do want to bring something up.
14:13You know, I want to find true love.
14:15I want to find someone I can start a family with.
14:17And I, I hope that maybe that someone could be you.
14:24From the bottom of my heart, I feel the same way about you.
14:30So, in a perfect world, when actually would be your timing to have children?
14:35I mean, like, my biggest concern right now is my business.
14:41Like, I definitely feel it.
14:43It's going to be, like, at least, minimum of at least two years to get my business sorted.
14:49Okay, so, you don't want to have kids in the next two years, like...
14:53Yeah, that would be ideal for two years.
14:56I, I want you to have your thing going, you know?
14:59It's important to me.
15:01But, I'm 36.
15:05I don't want to wait until I'm 38 to decide if I want to have a baby with someone.
15:10I know EJ and I have only been on a few dates.
15:13So, you know, talking to him about kids so early might seem a little weird.
15:17But the whole reason why I wanted to use a matchmaker was to help me find a guy that wants to get married and have children in the near future,
15:25because it's been hard for me to find that on my own.
15:28So, this whole, like, two-year plan is definitely concerning to hear.
15:34My ideal plan would be to spend max a year with someone, you know, spending time with them, making sure that it's the right fit, and then family.
15:44I think you can figure it out much faster than two years.
15:50So, that means you just have to be a bit of patience.
15:53But if it happens, you do the next two years.
15:56You make it work, yeah.
15:57Yeah, you make it work.
15:58Look, look, look, look.
16:00Hey, got it.
16:02I got it.
16:02I got it.
16:04Yeah, all the way, all the way, all the way, all the way, all the way.
16:08Yes!
16:08Yes!
16:09I told you!
16:13What should we name him?
16:15I guess they're not pets.
16:19I don't know if I'm willing to compromise on any sort of timeline in terms of having children.
16:24I've had guys tell me long after being in a relationship with them that they don't want the same things as me.
16:30So, I am maybe a little paranoid that that could be happening again.
16:35But at the same time, I'm scared to lose him.
16:40Well, I hope you did go yourself.
16:42I did.
16:42And, yeah, so sad to let you go.
16:47Yeah.
16:48It's okay.
16:49I'm going to see you again, yes?
16:50Mm-hmm.
16:51Okay?
16:51Yeah.
16:52Okay.
16:54Bye-bye.
16:54Bye.
16:58Bye-bye.
16:59Bye.
17:00Bye.
17:00There's literal fireworks.
17:06When he kissed me, he went for it, and I'm glad that he did.
17:11So, I want to be hopeful that we can compromise on EJ's two-year timeline, because I do feel like I met an amazing person, and I'm looking forward to explore the potential of our relationship.
17:23Bye-bye.
17:53Hi, Monica, here.
17:55Oh, my gosh.
17:56Oh, welcome.
17:57Good to see you.
17:58Good to see you, too.
17:59Oh, you look beautiful.
18:10Oh, thanks.
18:11Do you like my dress?
18:11Yeah, I love your dress.
18:13I invited Monica to meet me here today, because she has been seeing both Bruno and Bernardo, and I know she's having a hard time deciding between the two of them.
18:29As her matchmaker, I feel that it's my job, helping Monica making a decision.
18:35So, I have a lot to tell you.
18:38Last time, I think, I hadn't had my second date with Bruno yet, but he cooked me a beautiful dinner.
18:45It was just a really great date.
18:47Bruno handles things like, I would say, like a real man.
18:51Like a confident, you know, secure man.
18:55This is good, right?
18:56Oh, this is great.
18:57I don't know that I...
18:57I mean, for life.
18:58Oh, yeah.
18:59No, this is fantastic.
19:01How about Bernardo?
19:02Okay, so I went on great dates with Bernardo, too.
19:06But then he actually stood me up.
19:09What?
19:10And I was disappointed that he didn't want to see me as much as I wanted to see him.
19:13Yeah, it doesn't match with a man saying he wants to prioritize you.
19:18Yes.
19:19His actions don't match what's coming out of his mouth.
19:23Ugh.
19:25But I like that you are thinking about this.
19:29Bernardo has apologized repeatedly for standing me up.
19:32He said he didn't think he committed to the time that he committed to.
19:35But I do accept his apology because I believe he is an authentic person and that he does appreciate me.
19:43I am now very confused and very conflicted because I have two incredible men and I am...
19:52I like them both very much.
19:56And I'm still unsure of what to do.
20:00So, Monica, you have the dates with Bruno and Bernardo.
20:04How are you feeling about making this decision?
20:08Because grown-ups make decisions, right?
20:12I feel like I don't want to make a decision.
20:17Because, you know, Bruno's made no mistakes.
20:21But...
20:23I like Bernardo.
20:28He is very attractive to me.
20:32I don't know how else to explain it.
20:34But, like, you ever heard that analogy of, like, you go to Paris and you meet the love of your life underneath the Eiffel Tower.
20:40Some debonair French man who makes love to you all day and all night.
20:45Yes!
20:46That's how I want to say Bernardo.
20:49It's...
20:50I don't...
20:50It's just...
20:51That's how I think of him when I think of Bernardo.
20:53I know.
20:54But we are talking about chemistry.
20:57And it doesn't work for a long time.
21:00Yeah.
21:00I know.
21:02Bernardo's not obviously perfect.
21:05But...
21:06I feel a bit smothered by Bruno.
21:11Monica is putting more weight on chemistry than compatibility.
21:16And she's not thinking logical.
21:17Monica came to Brazil for forever love, not chemistry.
21:22So I want to analyze the situation for her because she only have a few days left.
21:28And it is vital Monica makes a decision before she leaves Brazil.
21:34I have something for you to help you making this decision.
21:40Okay.
21:40Okay?
21:41Okay.
21:41I invited Bruno and Bernardo here.
21:47Together?
21:49Together.
21:50For you to make a decision.
21:54They're going to come in right now?
21:56I'm going to go get them right now.
22:07So this is El Buda.
22:09Maybe you can tell Buddha that you want his blessing?
22:14This is a special occurrence.
22:15I don't normally pray.
22:16But I've fallen for Amber.
22:18I'm ready for the next step in our relationship.
22:21What did you pray for?
22:30Hi, Dolly.
22:31Hi, Harold.
22:33Hi.
22:33Hi.
22:34Yeah, so you wanted to come here.
22:42Yes.
22:42Yeah.
22:43Harper Village.
22:44Harper Villa.
22:46Harper Villa.
22:48Yeah.
22:48Kinda.
22:49Kinda.
22:50So the founder of Tiger Balm, this used to be his house.
22:53And he was such an eccentric guy.
22:55You're going to see it in the artwork there.
22:57And there's a hell museum inside this.
22:59Uh-huh.
22:59Oh, you did your research again.
23:01Oh, yes.
23:02Mm-hmm.
23:02Mm-hmm.
23:04My time with Harold is coming to a close.
23:06And he is leaving Singapore in a couple of days.
23:09So Harold's meeting me at Harper Villa to discuss how the dinner went with Joe and Amber last night.
23:15Harper Villa is a very unique and eccentric place.
23:18There are creatures with their tongues sticking out.
23:21It actually used to scare me.
23:23But it's a great thing for Harold to learn and understand the culture here in Singapore.
23:31Let's check this out.
23:32Oh, how cool.
23:35So this is Buddha.
23:37Mm-hmm.
23:38You can read some of the things here.
23:40Pagagata?
23:41Yeah.
23:42It means either one who has thus gone or one who has thus arrived.
23:46So coming or going.
23:47Mm-hmm.
23:47And you're just coming to Singapore, so maybe you can tell Buddha that you won.
23:51It's a blessing.
23:56I think I should probably hold it.
23:57Okay.
23:57Oh, there it goes.
23:58This is a special occurrence.
24:11I don't normally pray.
24:12But I prayed for the very best before me and Amber.
24:15And I hope that we're very happy and we work out together.
24:18And I'm glad I'm not wishing on a birthday candle.
24:21As I just told you about my wish, it wouldn't come true.
24:25So share with me, what did you pray for?
24:28I prayed for love.
24:30Mm-hmm.
24:30I had two awesome dates with Amber.
24:32I got to meet one of her friends.
24:34Yes, yes, she mentioned.
24:35Yes, I met Joe.
24:36First on the walk up, I was so nervous, I was sweating buckets.
24:39So you were under pressure.
24:40Yes.
24:41But by mid-meal, it was starting to flow better and I was finding my rhythm and it was good.
24:46Okay.
24:46And I think by the end, I have an advocate.
24:49She even said that I was good for Amber.
24:52That's amazing.
24:53Amber wanted to see Harold in a casual, social environment to get confirmation that, yeah,
25:03he's actually a great guy.
25:04So it's great that at the end of the day, he's got the endorsement from the friend, they got
25:08along and that she likes him.
25:11I feel like Harold has evolved since the first time I met him.
25:15I do see a lot of maturity.
25:17So I hope that Amber can feel a lot more confident in taking the next steps with Harold.
25:22It kind of brings me to a question.
25:26I don't know if it's time to ask her where she stands because I'm afraid that if I try
25:32to finalize, it'll be a no.
25:33Yeah.
25:35She likes taking the relationship really slow.
25:38Now that she's met you, she likes you.
25:41I hope that you know that.
25:42Yes.
25:43You got to meet her at her own pace.
25:44If you're going to rush it, you're going to push her away.
25:46You're going to lose her if you do that.
25:47So can you be patient with Amber?
25:54I think so, yes.
25:56Okay.
25:57It's possible that I could extend my stay.
25:59Yeah.
26:00I think if I stay longer, it might be something good.
26:04But, you know, I don't even know if she wants me to stay longer.
26:09So this is a good question for you and Amber to have.
26:12And I think this is so important because this is the maturity part that she was mentioning.
26:18Just tell her, I'm staying here because I want to explore this place on my own.
26:23It shows independence.
26:24It shows that you're able to thrive on your own and have an adventure.
26:28And when you have that space, there's so much more to talk about.
26:31If you're seeing her every other day, there's no mystery there.
26:36My intention behind extending my trip is I need to meet Amber on her own terms
26:40so that she can really see me in her own life rather than on my schedule.
26:44And I also hope that it'll show Amber that I am serious and I'm here for the long haul.
26:49I've fallen for Amber.
26:51Amber's amazing.
26:52I feel such a strong connection.
26:54And I just hope she feels the same.
26:56I can't wait to see.
26:56This journey is going to continue as you go along and I'm always going to be there for you.
27:04Thank you, Dolly.
27:05Mm-hmm.
27:06Okay.
27:08All the best.
27:10I cannot imagine not getting to know him more, but I don't know if he's my love.
27:19If things don't go her way, she simply switches the guy and moves to another one.
27:25Both of you are so proud.
27:27I can't even believe that you are proud and he is proud.
27:40You have my heart, don't let it go.
27:44Open one up and door eyes.
27:48Hey.
27:49Hello, Kiva.
27:49This is Katarina.
27:51How have things been going with Amber since you had this romantic getaway?
27:56Yeah, it was just so lovely.
27:58Like, getting to know her better.
27:59Like, to be honest, I cared about her a lot.
28:03I really do.
28:04Mm-hmm.
28:04Okay.
28:05So, did you tell her that you care about her a lot?
28:10Um, I don't know if I use those exact words.
28:14Well, maybe she needs to hear how much you care for her.
28:19Just like...
28:21Amber was honest with me and she told me she was dating other guys.
28:26I do like her.
28:28So, you were hurt.
28:29I just felt a little bit hurt.
28:30Who wouldn't be?
28:31It's natural.
28:32If you have feelings for her, if you care for her, of course you were hurt.
28:40It's been a while since I last saw Katarina, so I want to talk to her about where my head
29:08is at when it comes to deciding between Keevan and Glenn.
29:12I'm really just drawn to both of them.
29:14So, I just hope Katarina today can set me straight.
29:17Set me free, girl.
29:18I'm tired.
29:19I'm stressed.
29:21I just need help.
29:23Oh, my goodness.
29:24Katarina, I know so much to talk about.
29:27So much has happened in this.
29:27Tell me everything.
29:28You wouldn't believe.
29:30Mr. Ireland, he's funny, very personable.
29:35He said that I was, like, perfect.
29:37Wow.
29:38He knows what to tell a woman to impress.
29:41Yes.
29:43He took me to meet his parents.
29:44No way.
29:45No way.
29:46On the very same day?
29:48On the same day.
29:50Do you feel he's genuinely interested in you?
29:53I do.
29:54I do.
29:55And me and Glenn are spending a lot more time together.
29:57We finally went on another date.
29:59And it's been going really good.
30:02How have things been going with Keevan?
30:04Oh, my word.
30:06It's been an emotional rollercoaster with me and Keevan.
30:10We ended up going on an overnight.
30:12It was so romantic.
30:13Like, everything that I could have ever wished for.
30:16Like, when I think about my honeymoon
30:17or when I think about going on go-aways with my husband.
30:20He's such a romantic soul.
30:22He really is.
30:23But the problem is,
30:26he doesn't open up to the sensitivity
30:28or to the things that he's feeling.
30:30Really?
30:31That's not what I saw at the deep dating, though.
30:34What if something else was going on in his mind?
30:37Do you know what that mean?
30:38Absolutely.
30:39But, honestly,
30:40he gets kind of, gives me insecure vibes.
30:45With Keevan,
30:46I cannot imagine not getting to know him more.
30:50But I don't know if he's my love.
30:51Keevan really opened up with his feelings to me.
30:59And I think the main reason why he didn't open up to Amber is
31:03that he's afraid of being rejected.
31:05And he doubts that Amber could choose him over Mr. Ireland.
31:10Even though I set him up,
31:13I can see now that Glenn is exactly the type of guy
31:17that Amber used to date in the past.
31:20The kind of guy who can make grand majestic gestures in the beginning,
31:24have a great intro,
31:26but that's about it.
31:28Amber needs a solid, stable character
31:31to support her emotionally.
31:37Your face looks so disappointing.
31:39I want to cry.
31:40I do too.
31:41Keevan really cares for you.
31:43He's being really pragmatic.
31:46This is something that you too can work on.
31:49My thing is, Katerina,
31:58I feel like
31:58we are just getting to know each other
32:02and I'm already walking on eggshells.
32:04It's all about trust
32:06and creating trust takes time.
32:08It does take time,
32:09but I don't have that time.
32:11It seems to me that Amber is still looking
32:15for some kind of a perfect fairy tale.
32:18And if things don't go her way,
32:21she simply switches the guy
32:22and moves to another one.
32:24But things will never be exactly
32:26as she wants them to be.
32:28Every guy is just a human being
32:30with his flaws
32:31and she has to accept that.
32:33And I believe that Amber
32:34hasn't been direct enough with Keevan.
32:37She has to communicate
32:38what's going on inside her.
32:40But did you tell him
32:41what you needed?
32:43I feel like that's something
32:44that you do
32:45and ask someone
32:46that is open
32:47and being vulnerable with you already.
32:50I can't be the only one
32:51being vulnerable, Katerina.
32:52I cannot be the only one.
32:54You want him to be vulnerable,
32:55but you are not willing
32:56to step into a full vulnerability yourself.
32:59Both of you are so proud.
33:01I can't even believe it.
33:02I'm not being proud.
33:03You are proud and he is proud.
33:05Both of you are proud.
33:06How do you say I'm being proud?
33:07I'm not saying
33:08what I'm doing wrong.
33:09Just tell him what you need.
33:09Just tell him what you need.
33:11I'm not about to beg no man.
33:14I'm not going to do that.
33:19Do you know why
33:20you were here today?
33:22Talk about decisions?
33:23Yeah.
33:27I know that there's one here
33:29that has a lot of potential.
33:37On the other side
33:39On the other side
33:42I realize inviting Bruno and Bernardo
33:52seems crazy,
33:54but I'm concerned about her ability
33:56to make good decisions
33:58when her head is clouded
34:00because of chemistry.
34:01as soon as she's with one man,
34:17she only thinks about him.
34:20So Monica being in the same room
34:22with Bruno and Bernardo
34:24will help her compare
34:26and to think
34:28more rationally
34:29about her decision.
34:32Are you Bernardo?
34:33Bernardo.
34:34Nice to meet you, Bruno.
34:35Nice to meet you.
34:38Do you know guys
34:39why you were here today?
34:43Talk about future?
34:45Talk about decisions?
34:46Yeah.
34:48You're here today
34:50because I want to help
34:51Monica decide
34:53who is the best match.
34:58So, explain me
35:00what is important for you
35:01in a relationship?
35:03What do you look for?
35:06Okay.
35:07I'm looking for a partner,
35:09looking for a girl
35:10to share my life
35:11and I see all these things
35:14in Monica.
35:17Why?
35:17She's what I'm looking for.
35:21I think she's
35:22an unbelievable person.
35:24Explain me
35:25a little bit more.
35:27Agora,
35:27conhecendo mais a Monica,
35:30você planeja o futuro?
35:32É.
35:32Eu acho que é importantíssimo
35:33pensar nisso,
35:34mas eu prefiro
35:35pensar mais no dia a dia,
35:37o que que...
35:38mais nessas situações.
35:41Bruno.
35:43Então,
35:43minha ideia é junto.
35:45Tudo que eu planejo
35:46sozinho ou acompanhado,
35:48eu penso quando...
35:50se daria para encaixar
35:51a Monica,
35:51eu daria para encaixar alguém.
35:53É claro para mim
35:55que o Bernardo
35:57está fazendo
35:57o mínimo.
35:59E aí,
35:59temos o Bruno
36:00que está fazendo
36:01muito mais esforço.
36:02Essa é a minha opinião,
36:04e eu posso ajudá-la,
36:06mas ela é a pessoa
36:07que viverá
36:08com a sua decisão.
36:10Ela vai se acordar
36:11todos os dias
36:12com essa decisão,
36:13não eu.
36:13Ok, Monica?
36:16Você está aqui
36:17para isso, certo?
36:19Um...
36:20Você está ok,
36:25Monica?
36:28Ah, não.
36:29Não.
36:31Não, não me sinto isso.
36:33Eu não estou ok.
36:34E até mesmo
36:37que é um pouco tempo,
36:39eu sou uma pessoa
36:42diferente por causa deles.
36:46Mas eu sei
36:47que há um aqui
36:48que tem um potencial
36:49muito.
36:54E então,
36:55medo de ver
36:58onde vai.
37:09É um...
37:11Eu estou tão feliz.
37:14It's a hard decision.
37:18Oh, it's a very hard situation.
37:21Oh, I'm so happy.
37:23I'll be your best friend.
37:25You can count on me.
37:27Yeah?
37:28I'm so happy.
37:35Okay.
37:37Thank you, guys, for being here.
37:39Yeah.
37:40Thank you, Monica.
37:41So, I'm going to watch him out.
38:11Like, I'm sorry that we're in this situation.
38:20It's okay.
38:23I wish I could hang out with him more.
38:26But I don't think that you're ready for what I'm ready for.
38:29Okay.
38:29And I just think he has more potential to try.
38:35It's your choice, and you have to accept this.
38:41Okay.
38:42Wow.
38:45I like you a lot.
38:46Me too.
38:47Okay.
38:48Thank you very much.
38:48You're welcome.
38:49Take care.
38:50Good luck.
38:52Bye-bye.
38:52Bye.
38:52I traveled so far, and I went through this matchmaking, get on a plane, go to another
39:02country, cross the equator, leave your family, leave your daughter to find love.
39:07And I am proud of myself for finally allowing love into my heart.
39:14However, in making a decision, I should be feeling like a huge weight has been lifted
39:20off my shoulders, but I'm not feeling that relief.
39:24And I don't know how to make sense of what I'm feeling.
39:31Hey, baby.
39:32Are you okay?
39:34Yeah?
39:39No.
39:44Next time on Match Me Abroad.
39:48Oh, we're moving.
39:50Yay.
39:51I've decided to extend our time together, but I'm feeling kind of nervous to tell Amber
39:56I don't want to put pressure on her.
39:58I'm sad to leave.
39:59I want to get to know you better, and I don't want to scare you away, but I'd like to spend
40:03more time in Singapore with you.
40:08I like where this is going.
40:10It's here.
40:11But I want to make sure that we're on the same page.
40:14EJ and I only have one more night, so I'm hoping we can figure out a compromise on his
40:19two-year plan.
40:21Like, it puts me in the kind of a rock and a hard breeze.
40:27The other night was extremely hard on me.
40:31My gut has been upside down.
40:34I feel like a horrible person.
40:38What's going on?
40:39You're supposed to hang out yesterday for my last night.
40:46It doesn't show up.
40:47I feel like I normally back down, but I feel like what he did just triggered so much that
40:54there'd be no way I could back down.
40:56I can turn you up, but I can turn you on.
41:01Oh.
41:02I think Glenn and I have a lot in common.
41:05We mesh well.
41:07We're able to just play and have fun.
41:11Did you not receive my text when I told you where I was in the building?
41:14You went home on your own accords.
41:15I did not go home on my own accord.
41:17I went home because you left me.
41:19You've called me an attention, her.
41:21You've also called me a liar.
41:23Because you're lying.
41:24No wonder you're single.
41:26Get the out.
41:27Get out.
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