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Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 16
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00:00Are you in love?
00:01No, I am in love with him.
00:02Yeah, I can't imagine my life without him.
00:04I'm in love with Daveed, completely and utterly in every way.
00:07Uncomfortable truths.
00:08I might have done my breath.
00:09F***ing idiot.
00:11I had said that I'd got a bit of the ick.
00:14Prompted damning critiques.
00:16What possessed you?
00:17Is that normal?
00:18You can't accept that.
00:20She needs to not be allowed to say s*** and get away with it.
00:23Do I let go or do I stay and fight?
00:27Tonight.
00:28Hi.
00:29Oh, hello.
00:30The dinner party's new arrivals steal the spotlight.
00:33They're hot.
00:34Blue eyes.
00:35Oh, of course you f***ing like this.
00:36I like to meet somebody and there's like that flirty vibe.
00:39I'm pissed off.
00:40But Leisha's debut.
00:42Everybody else is holding hands.
00:43Stop holding hands because you said don't hold my f***ing hands.
00:45It's done with us.
00:47It's a means that immature.
00:48Fails to impress.
00:50Do you think you should be sat on a plane talking to a boy?
00:52I've had past relationships.
00:54That's never been a problem.
00:55Oh, no, no, no.
00:57Babe, you just had a honeymoon with this man.
00:59I felt disrespected.
01:01And candid questions.
01:03Do you feel like there's a spot?
01:05No.
01:07What am I supposed to say?
01:08Cause a marital meltdown.
01:10I just can't keep doing it.
01:13I can't change my feelings.
01:15There you go, love.
01:25Hot.
01:26Ooh, that's so nice.
01:27This is your second baby massage.
01:29How many have I had?
01:30Five.
01:31Yay, happy birthday.
01:36It's the morning of the experiment's third dinner party.
01:40I love you.
01:41I love you.
01:41Me and Sarah, we're not in the best place.
01:50My best friend James coming down really kind of hit me.
01:53He was asking some questions that I've probably not answered to myself.
01:56Just remind me, I'm here for me as well as Sarah.
02:02I can't be disrespected again.
02:04We have had a bit of a tricky couple of weeks, a tricky start.
02:08You know, a lot on my part, I was, you know, maybe behaving in ways that I'm not proud of.
02:14The last few weeks have been really difficult.
02:18I can't help the way I'm feeling.
02:19I can see Dean is a great guy, but I'm just struggling to get that spark.
02:24But I'm trying.
02:29How are you feeling?
02:31Last week was just, uh...
02:32Hellish.
02:33Yes.
02:33Yeah.
02:35It was good to see my brother and sister and to see how Stephen and I are doing.
02:39But I think it just reiterated and reaffirmed that Stephen and I weren't in a good place.
02:44Right now, um, with Stephen, I just need his words back to my actions.
02:49We were clashing at that time.
02:51My sister and brother, they'll always try and see it from my side.
02:53So, you're gonna get called out.
02:55You're gonna get upset by it.
02:57They have to tell you off a little bit.
02:59Last week was a hellish week for the pair of us.
03:01I'd say Neil and I are small steps back to where we were.
03:03This week, we've been intimate with one another.
03:05But my only worry about Neil and I's relationship,
03:07she's putting on the affection a little bit too much.
03:10And it's like, come here, give me a kiss and give me a smooch.
03:12I'm like...
03:13It needs to be a calmer week for us.
03:17Deal with what happened, forget about it,
03:19and just kind of work on getting closer again.
03:22I'm hoping at the end of the party,
03:23Nelly's not too forward with things.
03:25I'll quite happily hold her hand and give her a kiss every now and then.
03:27But I think if she's one-on-one every two minutes,
03:29it's like, what do you need?
03:32What do you want?
03:37You're excited to hear how it's gone for everyone else this week?
03:42I actually am, you know.
03:43Like, I want to know what everyone else's in-laws have thought about each other.
03:47We've been all right, do you know what I mean?
03:49Yeah, yeah, yeah.
03:50Me and Joe, like, I think the relationship's going pretty good,
03:53but obviously now we need to talk about, like, what's going to happen next.
03:57We've not actually thought about what we're going to do when we're out of here.
04:00You said that you were going to come to Newcastle.
04:02I said if things progress and we are together on the outside,
04:07because you've got Archie, it would be me that would have to move.
04:14I mentioned that I might move, but it's a long way to get to that point.
04:19We're still really early into this experiment.
04:22We just need to see what happens with our relationship.
04:23How are you?
04:32I'm all right, I'm okay.
04:33Energy was a little bit low this morning.
04:35Last week, I felt like we went into a war zone.
04:38I don't agree with people that, like, shout to communicate.
04:41You yelled at me multiple times.
04:43Did I not take accountability for it?
04:45I think you did, then.
04:50If I feel like I'm being attacked verbally,
04:52my body will shut down.
04:54This isn't normal.
05:00Hopefully there will be less drama this week.
05:02I'm very passionate and trying to just progress forward
05:05and just have a strong relationship with Junior Ruth.
05:07I don't think it's perfect or smooth sailing.
05:10We've both got our little things to work on in that,
05:12and we'll both just be patient with each other.
05:14I'm guessing this is all remote.
05:26As the existing couples get ready for tonight's dinner party...
05:29Oh, wow!
05:32..they're unaware that six more newlyweds
05:34are moving into the apartments and will be joining them.
05:36Oh, my gosh, look at this.
05:39Oh, look at the photo.
05:40Oh, my God, that's cute!
05:42Oh, my gosh, that was our forehead photo.
05:45That was the awkward photo.
05:47I love that.
05:47I love that.
05:52It would be good to see what the other couples are doing,
05:54how they're getting on.
05:56Yeah, definitely.
05:57I'm excited to hear about everyone's honeymoons
05:58and where they've been.
05:58It felt really good being back from the honeymoon with Leo,
06:04and the chemistry was there from the wedding day,
06:06so that hasn't really been an issue for us, I guess.
06:10But there is definitely some concerns.
06:13It's the lack of leading a conversation,
06:15or if I'm not talking, is there going to be any talking?
06:17So, yeah, I mean, that's a continuous worry.
06:22But I think it's just going to be nice now to get settled in.
06:26Back to a bit of normality.
06:28Yeah, definitely.
06:31Definitely.
06:36How are you feeling being here now?
06:41I really like Rhys.
06:43I feel like as the days are going on,
06:44I'm getting to fall for him every single day,
06:48but I haven't been getting the same response from Rhys.
06:54Do you feel like you're, like, falling for me, though?
06:57Do you feel like, you like me?
06:58I'm falling for you.
07:00Easy, girl.
07:01It's been like two days.
07:03On their honeymoon,
07:04Leisha and Rhys found themselves moving
07:06at different speeds in their marriage.
07:08I know what I want.
07:09I need to get there frequently.
07:11All you're going to do is, like, push me away.
07:13I'm just trying to be vulnerable
07:14and let you know, like, my insecurity.
07:16I'm not here to attack you.
07:17I just need to know that you're on the same page.
07:22That flight was horrendous, wasn't it?
07:25Yeah, someone had one too many, didn't they?
07:26My flight back from Thailand was very eventful with Leisha.
07:34She decided to, like, knock a few of the wands back,
07:38come up to me, covered in sick.
07:40I'm a bit of a lightweight, haven't I?
07:42That is grim.
07:42Sorry.
07:47She got changed, that was that.
07:49And then I went to get up to go to the toilet
07:51and then realised that Leisha was standing
07:53at the back of the plane,
07:54talking to some fella for about an hour.
07:56So when we landed, I just said to her,
07:59do you really like that you were speaking to a fella
08:01for, like, an hour and a bit
08:02whilst you were married, coming back from your honeymoon?
08:05You, too many wands.
08:08Way too many.
08:09Rhys is frosty with me after the journey.
08:13I am slightly worried.
08:14I can tell it's still maybe niggling at me.
08:20How do you think the dinner went with Nicole and Paula?
08:24I would never normally get angry in front of guests.
08:29This is the last time I'll mention this,
08:31but I am not speaking about Rebecca.
08:34I don't need to bring it up.
08:35It doesn't need to be a thing.
08:36I just want to move forward.
08:39Ahead of the dinner party,
08:42Leisha and Rhys have decided to pay a visit
08:44to one of their neighbours.
08:46I'm so excited!
08:48I'm so excited to meet everyone.
08:50I want to see if they're happy and they're couples.
08:56Hello!
08:56Hello!
08:58Mwah!
08:59Come in.
08:59Hi!
09:00Hi!
09:01How are you?
09:02What's your name?
09:02Leisha.
09:03I'm Leigh.
09:04Leigh and...
09:05You all right?
09:05Leigh.
09:06When did you just get here just now?
09:07Yeah, literally.
09:08Let's go.
09:08Just right.
09:0912-hour flight.
09:10Oh, really?
09:11Where have you been?
09:12Thailand.
09:12Is it good?
09:13Unreal.
09:14Yeah.
09:14Sick.
09:15Are you, like, well-matched?
09:19A couple of little Barneys.
09:20Oh, really?
09:21Are you each other's type?
09:23Yeah.
09:24Oh, well, that's good.
09:30First impressions of Rhys and Alicia is fit and fit.
09:35I can definitely see them being a few people's types.
09:39Including myself.
09:44We needed something to spice it up.
09:46Because of my past, I'm a little bit hypersensitive to flirty behaviour.
09:53There's been a lot of emotions and a lot of things going on that have been getting to my
09:56head a little bit.
09:57Me and Leigh have been through the situation with Rebecca and me feeling like Leigh was
10:00being too flirty with Rebecca.
10:02And now she's doing it again.
10:04I'm so excited about it as a party.
10:16How are you feeling?
10:16Same.
10:18I'm looking forward to showing everyone my wife.
10:21And now my husband.
10:22So what do you think of the new couple?
10:35I think they look gorgeous together.
10:37She's definitely a girl's girl.
10:39I like it when someone's tactile straight away.
10:41It means that they're quite friendly.
10:42Well, here we are, almost at the midpoint in the experiment.
11:01And this is where things start to get real.
11:04Now, of course, we have three new couples.
11:06Very exciting.
11:07And coming off the back of In-Law's Week, the couples are forced to really rehash and
11:12relive every bit of their experience.
11:21How first are you?
11:22Happy days, eh?
11:23Oh, my God.
11:23More drink for me?
11:24More booze for you.
11:26I can't wait.
11:27Just us.
11:27Maeve and Joe looking like a united couple on the back of both of them saying that they
11:32love each other.
11:33It's obviously helped them to grow closer together.
11:35And I think that's what we're seeing here.
11:37Very quiet while no one else is yelling, isn't it?
11:39You look great.
11:40Thanks, darling.
11:41So do you.
11:41See you again.
11:42Hello, Machi-Machi.
11:46Whey!
11:48Whey!
11:48Hello!
11:50Hello!
11:51Hi, guys.
11:52How are you doing?
11:53All right, you?
11:54Is Devani and Julia Ruth?
11:56Last time we saw Julia Ruth and Devani, there was quite a bit of friction going on there.
12:00So hoping there's been some progress.
12:03All set terms together, yeah?
12:05Yeah.
12:05What's been happening?
12:06So we had Tia, who is Devani's cousin, come.
12:09Yeah.
12:09And then I had my two best friends, JJ and Drew, come as well.
12:13It was just really intense because they were both trying to defend and protect us.
12:18Yeah.
12:19Why was it heated?
12:19Why was it heated?
12:20We just went over the stuff that we went through already in our honeymoon.
12:24Literally opening up a wound that was already closed and then it was just raw emotions bringing it back, you know what I mean?
12:29Right.
12:30I think Devani is indirectly saying that he doesn't see any benefit in bringing up old wounds.
12:36Not every bit of conflict needs to be resolved, but if you can't go back and address it, it means that it still is an issue.
12:43That's right.
12:44Yeah.
12:49Hi!
12:50Hi!
12:51Hello!
12:52Sarah and Dean.
12:53Last time we saw Sarah, we had to give her some home truths around the disrespect that she gave Dean, so hopefully they've had a better week.
13:04You all good?
13:05No.
13:06My best mate came, threw me off a bit.
13:08He's like, I know you protect everyone, it's in your nature, but are you making sure you're okay?
13:12And I was like, yeah, and I was like, well, maybe I need to take it on board.
13:15To hear it from your best mate from home, you're like, okay.
13:16After that, I kind of left a little bit deflated, to be fair.
13:19So I think for Dean, hearing his best friend question, are you looking after yourself in this relationship, is going to have a really strong impact on him.
13:27But I wonder if Dean's friends are actually saying what he knows deep down.
13:31It doesn't sound like he's shocked by this feedback at all.
13:35No.
13:35I think he knows this.
13:36Yeah.
13:37How was it in-laws' week?
13:40Um.
13:41It was just good to sort of hear both of their, you know, like, advice.
13:45Yeah.
13:45So, yeah, onwards and upwards.
13:48Um.
13:50Yeah.
13:52And what about you, Miss Maeve?
13:54Um.
13:55Sarah's completely dodged that question.
13:57Yeah.
13:57Deflect.
13:58Mm-hmm.
14:04Hi!
14:07Hello, Bubba's.
14:09Hi!
14:10Nellie and Stephen.
14:13Hello!
14:14How are you?
14:14Last time we saw Stephen and Nellie, they were not in a good place.
14:18And it looks like they're at least signaling that they are a united front.
14:24How's your week been?
14:25Well, obviously, last week was hell.
14:27We've had in-laws' week.
14:28It was really nice seeing my brother and sister.
14:30I feel like the start of last week, I felt like there was this big, massive, dark cloud over Nellie and Stephen.
14:35And it was such a 180 from the honeymoon that I was like, what's happened?
14:39Because I'm fully the same, do you know what I mean?
14:40Yeah.
14:41Yeah.
14:42Yeah.
14:43I think it just reiterated to me that we were in such an awful place and that made me sad.
14:47But this week has been better.
14:48Yay!
14:49This week I've been more present, which has been good.
14:50There's been no dramas, I don't think.
14:52Unless she says otherwise, I don't know.
14:54Yeah, but she really is.
14:55I was in last week.
14:56They gave me a brilliant.
14:57Oh, did they?
14:58Yeah.
14:59For saying if I need it to her.
15:00Which I expected.
15:01Yeah, of course.
15:02They're a bit like, let's make sure that doesn't happen again.
15:04Oh, fair.
15:05It was just here at the moment.
15:06People say things out of turn they don't actually mean.
15:10I think for Stephen, you call your partner something like that, then it needs to be addressed.
15:14And I'm not seeing any remorse here at all.
15:16Nor any regard for how it made Nellie feel.
15:18No.
15:25Hello.
15:26Hi.
15:27Hey, welcome.
15:28Here's our gorgeous girls, Lee and Leah.
15:31A bit grunge.
15:32A little bit grunge.
15:33A little bit grunge.
15:34A little bit grunge.
15:35Last time we met Lee and Leah, Leah's comments about Rebecca were making me feel jealous.
15:40And so the two of them were navigating their way through this.
15:48We've got a secret to tell everyone.
15:51Ooh.
15:52What?
15:53We met a new couple today.
15:55What?
15:56Where?
15:57Yeah, they came to our apartment.
15:58Wow.
15:59So we've got Rhys and Leisha.
16:01Oh, exciting.
16:02She's brunette.
16:03Blue eyes.
16:04Yeah.
16:05Of course you fucking notice.
16:06Oh, that's interesting.
16:07I think we need to kind of establish what this jealousy or insecurity is about.
16:11Is it an ego thing or is there something there?
16:15You know, this is my partner and actually I feel quite uncomfortable about this.
16:19But you're like definite girl's girl.
16:21Tactile, nice, huggy.
16:22Leah's type, basically.
16:23Yeah, she's my type.
16:26The hop.
16:28Straight away, it's comments about Leisha and the way she looks.
16:32And I don't feel she's taking my feelings into consideration when she's making comments.
16:38Those comments.
16:39About Leisha.
16:40Yeah.
16:41I've sat on a couch and I've told you I've been through these similar situations before.
16:47I've been humiliated in the past.
16:49I find it disrespectful.
16:51New girls come in.
16:53Again, your type.
16:54First thing you've done.
16:55Yeah, she's fit.
16:56Lovely eyes.
16:57It's all about her physical appearance.
16:59Yeah.
17:00Okay, so this is starting to become a little clearer.
17:02She's being triggered based on her past relationships and she's feeling fearful.
17:06This is the second time that Leah has crossed Leah's boundaries.
17:10And Leah's made it clear that she wants a level of respect when it comes to their communication.
17:15Leah's not able to deliver on it or she's intentionally provoking her.
17:19I'm just going to keep my eyes peeled.
17:21Yeah.
17:22As to what happens from now, we will see when she comes in.
17:25Yeah.
17:31Hello.
17:32Hello.
17:33Hello.
17:34Oh.
17:35Our first new couple.
17:36Reese and Leisha.
17:39Hey.
17:40Yay.
17:41Oh, this must be a new couple.
17:43A new couple.
17:45I'm so excited.
17:47Woah.
17:49Oh.
17:50I don't want you to do that.
17:53Only.
17:55Hello.
17:56Hello.
17:57Hello.
18:00Hello.
18:02Hello.
18:04Hello.
18:05Hello.
18:06Hello.
18:07Hello.
18:08Hello, hello.
18:10Whoa.
18:16Only.
18:18Yes, darling.
18:20Hello, my darling.
18:22I'm good. How are you?
18:24I'm good.
18:26Do you want to present out?
18:27Yes, please, thank you.
18:28Well, nearly everyone.
18:29Yeah, you've met almost everyone.
18:31Thank you so much.
18:32Yeah, so, yeah.
18:34Cheers, darling.
18:35Welcome, welcome, welcome.
18:36I honestly need to bother that.
18:38I know, it's kind of stunning.
18:42Shall we take a seat? Do you want to sit down?
18:43Yeah, yeah.
18:44Let's come sit down here.
18:45Tell me, tell me, tell me, what is going on?
18:49Have you said the snog?
18:51Oh, yeah, yeah.
18:52Oh, yeah.
18:53Look, I'm from that department.
18:54Do you know what I mean?
18:55We had a little bar name.
18:56Ask the question, do you think you're falling from anything?
18:58Oh, in a week?
19:00Oh, hell.
19:01Oh, my goodness.
19:03I said three days.
19:04Why did you ask him?
19:05I was just...
19:06It's not like that.
19:07Is it?
19:08It's a lot.
19:09Is it?
19:10Oh, shit.
19:11After three days, honey, I can't say that.
19:12If I got asked after three days, I would have been like,
19:14I'm pushing you in the pool and I'm swimming off.
19:16Shit.
19:17I think this is quite a good reality check for Leisha.
19:20Because I think in her world, she does move very quickly.
19:23I wonder if maybe she's not getting what she needs from Rhys right now for her to feel secure enough so she doesn't need to ask that question so early on.
19:31So how are you two getting along?
19:33Yeah.
19:34She's quite fast moving, you know?
19:35Right.
19:36The second day, she was like, are you falling for me?
19:38What?
19:39I thought she was joking at first.
19:40I don't normally move that quick.
19:42I don't know what kind of speed she likes to move, but it's obviously a lot faster than myself.
19:46We had a bit of a row about my development of the relationship.
19:49Okay.
19:50So this issue of pacing comes up a lot.
19:52It doesn't have to be a problem.
19:54You know, as long as there's good communication around this is where I'm at and what I need.
19:57This is where I'm at and what I need.
19:59Let's find the compromise and the common ground.
20:02But I think what we're observing here is the two of them are not talking to each other about that.
20:06On a plane on her own, she was banged back a load of wine.
20:10And then she's come walking up to me like a sickle down her.
20:14Nah.
20:16What?
20:17Oh.
20:18She's like, knelt down, like she's just like looking at me like shaking her head like.
20:21Oh, man.
20:22And then she just walked off and got changed.
20:24She's gone for ages.
20:25I'm watching the film, so I know like an hour has passed.
20:28And she still ain't come back.
20:30So I've got up, like, she's chatting to some geesey outside the toilet for like a straight hour.
20:34Wow.
20:35Jesus.
20:36I'm thinking, I mean, we just come back from the honeymoon, like, we was doing this.
20:39Like, well, disrespectful.
20:40I wouldn't do that to you.
20:41Yeah, yeah.
20:42So that caused a rift.
20:43Nah, I think you're fair enough there though, lugs.
20:45You know what I mean?
20:46Of course, it's still such early days, Felicia and Rhys.
20:50They're just starting to get to know each other.
20:53But getting drunk and then spending a significant amount of time talking to another man isn't
20:58exactly ideal behaviour to display in front of your new husband.
21:01Absolutely.
21:02It's understandable that Rhys would be upset and left questioning what's really going on.
21:08How are you?
21:09Where are you at?
21:10She's in her little love bubble.
21:11Your little bubble.
21:12That's all lovely.
21:13Yeah.
21:14But how are you actually feeling?
21:19I am happy, but yesterday when I had a chat with Sophia, she was like, what are you going
21:26to do after this?
21:28Because she was like, you are so on your bubble now.
21:31What's going to happen when you actually get out of here?
21:33And I was like, I have not actually thought about this.
21:36This is the power of in-laws week, where those big questions about the real world start
21:41to come up.
21:42And quite often our couples haven't considered that yet.
21:45Last week I was going to say something and he was like, don't get involved.
21:48But I felt like I had to say something.
21:50Oh, what, when I was on the sofa?
21:52Yeah.
21:53And I thought, that's not who I am, but then I didn't want to make him feel uncomfortable.
21:56Do you know what I mean?
21:57Not saying that I'm being a different person, but...
21:59If that is who you are and you do want to give your opinion, you shouldn't have to dim yourself
22:02down or not speak on that, because it's not something he would do.
22:06You can really see the conflict in Maeve.
22:09She's not quite sure who she should be.
22:12You know, should she be the maid that she knows?
22:15Or should she be the maid that Jo wants her to be?
22:18And you can see that she's kind of going backwards and forwards.
22:21How are you doing?
22:22How have you been getting on?
22:24It's coming there slowly.
22:25There's no pressure on it.
22:27Sometimes when you're on that couch, you want to fucking shake you.
22:30Sometimes I feel like you just support her every time.
22:33It always plays on my mind what you said at the stack.
22:35I want to be the prize.
22:36You want to be on a pedestal.
22:37And you always put the other person on the pedestal.
22:39And I'm watching that play out in real life.
22:40Yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:41You need to have your feelings out there as well.
22:44So here, what we've got is Leah essentially reinforcing what Dean's friend said to him.
22:50He's telling himself that he's in this great relationship with this beautiful woman who he really likes.
22:56And I think because his self-esteem is underdeveloped, he doesn't believe that he deserves more.
23:12Kia and Daveed.
23:13Yes.
23:14Happy as ever.
23:15And we can always trust them to raise the energy.
23:17Yes.
23:18Yes.
23:21Held each other's hands all the way through until they greeted a couple.
23:25Yeah.
23:26And their smiles.
23:27Yes.
23:28Hello.
23:29Hello, nice to meet you.
23:30Lovely to meet you.
23:31Where did you go on honeymoon?
23:32Thailand.
23:33Oh my God, amazing.
23:34Yeah, I got back yesterday.
23:35And do you like your husband?
23:36Yes.
23:37Hi.
23:38Rebecca and Bailey, a golden couple.
23:51Hello.
23:52Hi.
23:53How are you doing?
23:54Good to see you, sir.
23:55Good to see you, mate.
23:56Hello.
23:57Nice to meet you.
23:58Nice to meet you.
23:59I'm Rebecca.
24:00Reeves.
24:01You look amazing.
24:02How are you getting on by your arm?
24:03All right, bro.
24:04Cheers, bro.
24:05Yeah, cheers, bro.
24:06What I love about Rebecca and Bailey is they always put on this united front.
24:10How are you?
24:11How's all week been?
24:12All week has been quiet.
24:13I mean, we're like mum and dad in the career.
24:15You are mum and dad.
24:16Yeah, have a lot.
24:19Hi.
24:20Hi.
24:21Hi.
24:22Hi.
24:23Hi.
24:24Abigail and John.
24:25Our second new couple.
24:27What's your name?
24:28I'm John.
24:29Nice to meet you.
24:30What's your name?
24:31I'm Abby.
24:32Hi.
24:33I'm John.
24:34Hi.
24:35Nice to meet you.
24:36How's, like, everything going?
24:37I feel like I've missed so much.
24:38Hey.
24:39Tell me about you first.
24:40What's going on?
24:41So, yeah.
24:42See, obviously, we just come back from the Seychelles.
24:43I was really nice.
24:44Like, we're going on, like, really well.
24:45He's literally kind of everything that I asked for.
24:48Oh.
24:49Yeah.
24:50It's been really, yeah, it's really, really sweet.
24:51So, so far, so good.
24:52Oh, well done us.
24:54Yeah.
24:55Pat on the back.
24:56Nice.
24:57Nice work.
24:58So, how's everything going?
24:59Honestly, mate.
25:00Like, brilliant.
25:01Really?
25:02Yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:03The wedding, fantastic.
25:04Like, the vows, she said the vows, I could have written them.
25:07Like, honestly, they said the same things.
25:09We've been flying, to be fair.
25:10Yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:11Oh, that's good, mate.
25:12You can see Dean's trying to put on that positive exterior, but he's really feeling it.
25:18It's clear that Dean would love to be in John's position.
25:21Yeah.
25:22Oh, oh.
25:23Oh.
25:24Oh, hi.
25:25Why don't you cry?
25:26Oh, no.
25:27Oh, no.
25:28Grace is alone.
25:29What's happened?
25:30Where's Ash?
25:31Oh, no.
25:32Oh, no.
25:33Oh, my.
25:34Oh, my.
25:35Oh, no.
25:36Oh, my.
25:37What?
25:38Oh, my. What?
25:40Ah!
25:42Oh!
25:44Oh!
25:46Thank Kale. Oh, I like that.
25:48Well, they've come in high energy, having a bit of a laugh,
25:52so hopefully they're in a really good place.
25:54It's a good sign. Yeah. Why would you do that?
25:56Sorry. It's so easy.
25:58It's so nice.
26:00Ashley and Grace.
26:02What was your name again? John. John. Yes.
26:04I want to know about your in-laws speak with you.
26:06With me? Yeah, with you. Yes.
26:08It was good. We saw two of my bridesmaids.
26:10Aw. And then we saw Asha's
26:12mum, Maxine, and sister Jess.
26:14It's really helped us.
26:16No, we're all right. We're in a really good place, to be fair.
26:18I feel like she's really working at it, so, yeah,
26:20couldn't have gone any better. Really? That's good, man.
26:22Grace and Ashley have so many shared values,
26:25and it's important for them to remember that,
26:27and it appears as if they have, and that's the core
26:29of the success of the relationship they've had so far.
26:34How are you doing? You guys are getting on okay?
26:36Yeah, everything seems perfect.
26:38Erm, are you actually happy with your partner?
26:40Erm, initially, for me, the attraction
26:44and that sort of spark wasn't there.
26:46OK. Erm, he makes me laugh.
26:48He's got the same values.
26:50The only thing for me was just that attraction, like...
26:53OK. Do you feel like the attraction grew, though,
26:54or is it at all... I don't... It's hard.
26:56We're taking it sort of step by step.
26:58And have you had anything they say? No, no.
27:00With, like, held hands and, like, cuddled and things,
27:02but, no, we're just taking it slow.
27:06It's interesting the way Sarah says,
27:08we're just taking it slow,
27:10as though it's a joint decision between the two of them.
27:12And it's clearly not.
27:14There really isn't any evidence
27:15of them moving beyond friendship at this point.
27:17Hey, guys.
27:27Oh, here's our third new couple,
27:30April and Leo.
27:32Hi, nice to meet you.
27:34Nice to meet you.
27:35Hello, again.
27:36Stephen, nice to meet you.
27:37Stephen and Leo.
27:38How's it been, like, since the video and the honeymoon?
27:40We have got a lot in common.
27:42I can really see why they pair this together.
27:44There is some, like, niggles and stuff,
27:46but at the end of the day, it's still so early on, like...
27:48What kind of things are you guys not really gelling on?
27:50I was just concerned that I very much leave the conversation.
27:53I feel like if I wasn't talking,
27:54there would be a lot of silence.
27:55Okay.
27:56I have addressed that with him.
27:57Yeah.
27:58I know I said, you know,
27:59I do feel like I'm leaving the conversation a lot.
28:01It's a bit of a worry for me,
28:02and he just sort of, you know,
28:03explains that he's not been in a relationship a long time
28:05and sort of said his side of things, so...
28:07Did you ever try and just leave it?
28:08Just let the silence, just see what happens?
28:10I find it really, really difficult.
28:11Right.
28:12Yeah, but I did.
28:13I tried.
28:14And what happened?
28:15Literally, they could not have picked a better match for me.
28:18Really?
28:19It's like the female version of me, but better looking.
28:23The main concern around it is emotional connection
28:25is built off conversation, emotional connection
28:27is built off very much getting deep,
28:29and that's what's more concerning me.
28:30I mean, I'm worried that that won't build.
28:36Do you feel like he's the man for you?
28:38I hope so.
28:39Like, I don't know.
28:40There's certain things I'm doing with Rhys,
28:42and I'm like, I'm too much, I'm too much.
28:44Really?
28:45Yeah, they're like Leisha.
28:46No, I don't mind you.
28:47You won't be too much.
28:48He's like, you've had about three cups of coffee,
28:50and I've literally just woke up.
28:51I'm like...
28:52I'm like that.
28:53I'm like that.
28:54I feel like I like the outdoors,
28:57don't like to be stuck on my couch.
28:59Yeah, I hate that as well.
29:00I like to get up in the morning, seize the day,
29:02crack on with it.
29:03That's like me.
29:05Where I live is, like, on the beach.
29:07Oh, nice!
29:08So I like getting all...
29:09Yeah, having a coffee outside, getting the natural, like...
29:14Would you say when you normally get in a relationship
29:16you're, like, instant connection, fireworks, passion?
29:19Yeah, yeah.
29:20I like to meet somebody,
29:22and there's, like, that flirty vibe straight away.
29:24Do you know what I mean?
29:25For me, I much prefer it when I meet somebody
29:27and there's, like, that flirty connection.
29:29Yeah.
29:30That's important for me.
29:31Especially something like this,
29:32that you want to have that.
29:35I'm fucking pissed off.
29:36I can see Leah's been flirty with Leisha.
29:39It's not that I don't trust the other girl.
29:41It's more on Leah's behaviour.
29:49Where are we going?
29:50Oh, I like the colours.
29:51Excuse me.
29:52Where are we?
29:55Everybody's holding hands apart from us, right?
29:58Hold my hands!
30:02We're walking at the dinner party,
30:03everybody else is holding hands,
30:04and I'm just looking over at Reece going,
30:05what are you doing?
30:06Where's my husband?
30:07Why are you not holding my hand?
30:08Like, give me some support, please!
30:12No, you fuck off now.
30:13Put some help.
30:14There seems to be a real disconnect here with Leisha talking about how symbolic and meaningful a handhold is to her.
30:26Yes.
30:27Maybe it's not Therese.
30:28You're not being a brat, are you?
30:30Enough of that!
30:36Everybody else is holding hands.
30:37He doesn't grab my hand.
30:39I feel like that means quite a lot to women as well.
30:42It means so much to me.
30:43It's the little things like that.
30:45Like, fuck's sake.
30:46Why are you not holding my hand?
30:47Yeah.
30:48You all right?
30:49No, it's just like...
30:50Everybody else is like holding hands, man.
30:51You're just fucking walking off and leaving it.
30:52I was holding the hand.
30:53I stopped holding the hand for two seconds.
30:54I was fucking holding my hand.
30:55You didn't hold my hand.
30:56She's very pissed off at me right now for not holding her hand.
30:58She needs quite a bit of reinsurance from me.
30:59There's only two minutes I didn't hold it.
31:00I can't constantly be holding her hand.
31:01I can't constantly be holding her hand.
31:02Just by spending it like...
31:03You're right, I don't think so.
31:04I'm a little bit nervous.
31:05I'm just comme in my hand.
31:06I'm just like...
31:07You're right.
31:08I'm not holding this.
31:09No.
31:10You're not holding it like.
31:11You're very pissed off at me right now for not holding her hand.
31:12She needs quite a bit of reinsurance from me.
31:14There's only two minutes I didn't hold it.
31:16I can't constantly be holding her hand.
31:17Just by shouting, like...
31:19The way you handle shit.
31:21It's like, to me, it's like in my jaw.
31:23I don't hold my fucking hands.
31:24Don't hold my fucking hands.
31:25Do them off.
31:26I'd be like, oh, three, darling.
31:27Can I just chase my after you?
31:28No.
31:29No.
31:30You should want to like do that with me like I shouldn't have to ask
31:34Well, there's a job to be done here for both Rhys and Leisha Leisha needs to communicate that hand-holding is important to her
31:40But he also needs to start reading her. So I think work needs to be done on both sides here
31:45So that your region
31:47Would you expect just coming to the first dinner place you ever she said don't hold my fucking hand. It's done
32:00You've got another one of your time opposite us this week. Yes, she's brunette and goes to gym
32:08You do what you want to do
32:10I'm doing anything
32:12You think I fancy her
32:14I think it's a Liverpool thing
32:27I think the word fit means the same thing as hot across the UK
32:32What's most concerning for me is how is it landing with Lee right? Yeah, and it's clear she's hurt
32:37She's pained by it. Everyone's so complimentary up north. Londoners aren't like that
32:44Did she really just say to me that she's more flirty because she's from Liverpool biggest fucking cop-out I've ever heard
32:50So the reason that you felt with other girls is because you're from Liverpool
32:54Yeah
32:55Who do I flirt with? I don't flirt with Rebecca and I certainly am flirt with her
33:01Marriage definitely can't work without trust a relationship can't work without trust is pathetic
33:07I've expressed my feelings about other girls and being flirty or just pushing boundaries that I've set
33:13What I won't do is allow someone to disrespect me again and again and again?
33:19I
33:40So I hate public speaking, but as it's his birthday, I guess I'll do it. I have fallen in love with this man
33:49Yes, look at that
33:53Fallen in love with oh
33:55Gorgeous
33:56He is the kindest most honest human being I've ever met in my life. I do not know what on earth. I did to deserve this man
34:06But I'm so glad that he is here and here with me
34:10If we could raise a glass to David and our new couples
34:16Cheers guys
34:19Cheers
34:21Thank you
34:22Cheers guys
34:23Cheers
34:30It's really hard to see Sarah and Dean here such sad face expressions when they heard Kia say that
34:36I think it's a reflection of what they don't have in their relationship unfortunately
34:40He's sad
34:41So how are you two doing?
34:43Yeah, good really good
34:46We know Dean is the eternal optimist sometimes at the expense of reality and so he was always going to say yeah great everything's going great
34:54But looking at Sarah's nonverbal communication
34:57She's really saying I don't think things are going too well at all
35:00It is really hard to see the other couples progressing physically you can see that they're all all over each other I
35:17I just don't know how much more I've got left within me to be completely honest
35:24How about you guys how was the in-laws and the rest of the week?
35:27Steve and I are in a really not great place ultimately we want to try and get back to how we felt about each other I guess on the honeymoon
35:36You're never going to get truly back to the honeymoon thing because what's happened has changed the dynamic side but you can get back to a place of the honeymoon again
35:42I'm just thinking like is there anything else I can do from my end really
35:48Please don't be needy with me
35:52What do you define as needy though?
35:53Needy for me is just being ultra possessive
35:57I'm not massive on public display of affection anyway
35:59The constant always put my arm around you
36:01I think when the neediness comes in that's when I start going the way
36:04I am genuinely really really sorry about it. It's just hard to navigate
36:12I think what would be more healthy from Steven is him saying okay, this is what you need from me
36:18Let me see if I can make a little bit more effort and give you a little bit more encouragement and support
36:23So you don't feel the need to want so much more from me, but he's putting all the blame on Nelly
36:29Well, you said it early doors what you think about the other girl
36:32I was like why you asked me that
36:33Yeah, and that was a poorly landed joke on my behalf
36:35That was me, my insecurity coming out as a joke and it landed really really badly
36:38It was like what do you think the other girls are?
36:40Do I need to be worried? And I'm like no
36:42I'm so sorry if it offended you but just remember at that point
36:45I knew you'd pulled away and I hadn't had a reason why
36:48It's very natural for a person to feel that way
36:50If I'd randomly pulled away from you and didn't tell you, what the hell's going on in her head
36:53That's exactly what I was thinking in that moment
36:55I thought I have no idea what's going on
36:59I feel like you guys need to focus on being good and growing and progressing
37:08And you'll be happy once you get there and stop looking back at the parts
37:12Nelly needs certain things but maybe vocalising that to him
37:17So then Steven knows and Steven can learn from it as well
37:20I think with that though, I just worry that if I do vocalise too much
37:23I'll just push him away even more
37:25You're not asking too much to tell your partner what you need in a relationship
37:28And if Steven were to turn around and say
37:30I'm going to walk because it's too much for me
37:32Then he's not right for you
37:34I think Lee has made a really valid point there
37:37Nelly has every right to say to Steven what she needs from this relationship
37:41And if there are worries about doing that
37:44Then you have to ask yourself, is this the right relationship for you?
37:47What were your highlights from the honeymoon?
37:51I don't know what it is
37:52My highlight was actually spending it with you
37:54Like not this generally
37:56I know that sounds really cheesy
37:58But it's just because he has such a good connection
38:00And I've not felt like this before with anyone
38:03He makes me feel like it's okay to be me
38:05And it's just like seeing the progression from the start to the end of the honeymoon
38:08More and more each day I became more like myself
38:10It just highlighted like how much
38:12Like I generally wanted to find someone
38:14And that like I found my own person
38:16John is besotted
38:19Yeah
38:20Look at how he locks his eyes in as Abby just talks
38:24Yes
38:25No one else in the room
38:26No one else in the room
38:27You guys seem so solid and so like lovely together
38:32Yeah we're doing so well
38:34Like it's yeah so good
38:36I said the L word at the commitment ceremony last week
38:39Oh my god
38:40How did you feel when he said it?
38:42Like when anyone tells you they love you
38:44Like I feel so trouble for him
38:46So like when someone like you feel for says that they love you
38:48It's a big thing isn't it?
38:50That's when I just said it
38:51You're blushing
38:53You haven't said about
38:54I'm just so much more reserved
38:56Than him with like expressing my feelings that way
39:00Like I'm much more of a slow burn
39:02But you are very much
39:03Yeah
39:04I'm very much in
39:05Yeah
39:06I feel so strongly for it
39:07And for me like love is like an end goal
39:09And I think I probably think about those things much more than Bailey does
39:13Let me be keen
39:15I think this is a really beautiful example of a couple where one partner is moving towards the emotional connection more quickly than the other
39:23Their pace is not quite matched
39:24But they're talking about it
39:25And then you have Leisha and Reece who are unable to communicate how they feel
39:33How are you feeling?
39:35How are you feeling?
39:36How are you feeling?
39:37I know when you're raging, you know that?
39:40Yeah, all right
39:41Cool
39:42You know I can't deal with stuff like this when you start going like this and you just shut down
39:47We'll just put it behind us, yeah?
39:48Yeah
39:49Yeah
39:50Well you just, you just, I can just tell like I'm getting all nervous and that
39:54I'm just feeling like shit now
39:56My worries with Reece are me pushing Reece away, I think I do certain stuff like the way I did on the plane
40:02And then we get into an argument and he just ignores me and he just gets himself in his head and he doesn't communicate with me
40:21Guys, I have the honesty box! Good evening and welcome to our new arrivals
40:36Tonight's honesty box is a little bit different as we'll be asking you all to hold a mirror up to each other and provide frank and objective opinions
40:46One person from each couple must read out their question to the group and once a group have finished responding
40:52The couple must also reflect and answer the question
40:57So the questions from this honesty box will be answered by the group rather than the couples themselves
41:02He is such a great opportunity getting an outside perspective
41:06It's gonna be very interesting to see how things go tonight
41:10You've all heard about the journey home from the honeymoon
41:13Are you team Leisha or team Reece?
41:16What happened, bro?
41:23All right, so basically what it was Leisha's come up to me like a sick downer
41:27I was just drunk
41:28Then she just got changed and then a little time later I went to go to the toilet
41:32And Leisha was just like talking to a boy and that the conversation lasted about an hour
41:36Like some random boy on the flight who was out in his twenties
41:43on a flight he was out in his 20s.
41:45Team Reese?
41:46Team Reese! Team Reese!
41:48So how did that make you feel?
41:50Team Reese!
41:52Wait, how did it make you feel?
41:53I'm obviously pissed off, like, I felt disrespected.
41:57I hear you, because I would feel exactly the same.
41:59You're off the back of your honeymoon.
42:01Regardless if it was full 30 or not,
42:03do you think you should be sat on a plane,
42:05talking to a boy at similar age to you?
42:07Probably not.
42:08What's your view of the story?
42:10In that perspective, it was very valid,
42:11and obviously I apologise.
42:13As soon as he said it, I was like,
42:15oh, I knew I'd fucked up.
42:17That's his boundary, and I respect that from now on.
42:21Hang on a minute.
42:23There's one little part that's just not sitting right with me.
42:26You've been telling us about what you need from each other
42:28and what you're uncomfortable with and how he shuts down.
42:31But if somebody's shutting down off the back of your action,
42:34you can't really complain about his behaviour afterwards,
42:37because it was fuelled by what you did.
42:41I'm not stupid.
42:42Like, I obviously realised that that wasn't something that he liked,
42:45that it's a boundary for him.
42:47I'm a very friendly person. I'll chat to everyone, so...
42:50The main thing is that you don't know each other,
42:51so maybe just, like, a little bit more respect.
42:54Honestly, brother, I would have been absolutely fuming.
43:00Do you feel like you did wrong?
43:03I didn't think I did anything wrong.
43:05If you've just gone and married to this man,
43:08you've just had a honeymoon with this man,
43:09he doesn't know you, it doesn't know your character.
43:12So, it's like, babe, do you know what I mean?
43:14For fuck's sake, I'm getting it from every angle possible.
43:19They don't know me.
43:22I've had past relationships.
43:24That's never been a problem.
43:26But the other side of it is if you spent time with her,
43:28maybe she wouldn't have got that drunk with strangers,
43:30and you could have had...
43:31No! Absolutely fucking not!
43:34I'm gutted, I'm not gonna lie.
43:36This is right at the beginning.
43:38Give it to me.
43:39Give it to me.
43:44For fuck's sake.
43:45I'm getting it from every angle possible.
43:50They don't know me.
43:51I've had past relationships.
43:53That's never been a problem.
43:55But the other side of it is if you spent time with her,
43:57maybe she wouldn't have got that drunk with strangers,
43:59and you could have had...
44:00No! Absolutely fucking not!
44:03This is right at the beginning.
44:05Give Leisha some fucking slack.
44:09This is a fucking intense process.
44:11You were thrown into a relationship instantly
44:13without knowing anybody.
44:14Rhys, I'm not taking away from you.
44:16That must have been a bit of shit.
44:17But, like, give us some slack.
44:21It must be really uncomfortable for Leisha
44:23to come into this new group
44:24and to have probably one of the most embarrassing things
44:27of her experience so far,
44:28being aired so publicly like this.
44:30What one thing do you think each of us need to do differently
44:35to help our marriage?
44:37I think that sometimes just sitting back
44:39and not taking it as an attack
44:41if Ashley wants to look after you.
44:43Don't question it
44:44and just let him do those nice things for you.
44:46It comes from kindness and a really good place.
44:48Okay.
44:49That's really good advice.
44:50Did you deserve that?
44:51Yeah.
44:52I think it starts with trust.
44:53If you can trust that Ash has your best interests at heart.
44:56That trust is just building now and it is there.
44:59I'm always going to have your back.
45:00That's me as a person.
45:01Consistently more of the good.
45:02Yeah.
45:03Less of the bad.
45:04Yeah, yeah, yeah.
45:05Come on.
45:06Are you there?
45:07Yeah!
45:08Yeah!
45:13Look at that kiss.
45:15Fabulous.
45:16This is a really big move for Grace.
45:18We know she's uncomfortable with PDAs
45:20so to be able to engage in such a big public kiss with Ash,
45:24it's a really big deal.
45:29Do you really think we have a future together?
45:31And if not, why not?
45:37You've had a rocky period, you have.
45:41Dean, make sure you're here for yourself
45:43and your own journey as well
45:44because there's nothing worse
45:45and, like, you're feeling like you're pushing, pushing, pushing
45:48and you're not getting nothing back.
45:53Do you feel like there's a spot-off between you after this week?
45:59No.
46:01Romantically, I'm not sure.
46:04I am doing everything I can, so we'll see.
46:13That would be hard for Dean, hearing in no uncertain terms, no.
46:19It knocks me back.
46:20Sarah doesn't have a spark.
46:21I thought we were progressing.
46:23I don't know what more I can do.
46:24I'm doing everything I can.
46:28That wasn't awkward for you, was it?
46:29Yeah, no, it's okay.
46:36What am I supposed to say?
46:37No, I know.
46:39You know what I mean?
46:41I just feel really bad.
46:42Like, I want it to be there.
46:43I can't really change.
46:44Well, don't rush it.
46:45It comes if it doesn't, it doesn't.
46:46Yeah, I know, I know, I know, I know.
46:48I just don't want to hurt you.
46:53I don't fancy him.
46:54I just can't keep doing it.
47:03And I do see something, like, lovely between us,
47:05but I just don't know if it's in that romantic setting,
47:07and I've just told him that.
47:09And I haven't, I just, I haven't let him on.
47:11I haven't, like...
47:13But then I'm like, why can't you see that?
47:14Because he is such a lovely guy.
47:17And it just fucks with your head.
47:18Sorry.
47:24Is it going?
47:32Next time...
47:33For me, I've kicked out of me head.
47:35...hard-hitting honesty from the couples...
47:37What more can I actually do?
47:39You've done something to piss me off.
47:41...and the experts...
47:43Why weren't my feelings considered doing this?
47:44That is a masterful deflection.
47:46We are talking about your wife right now.
47:48Makes for an emotional make-or-break commitment ceremony.
47:51I'm worried that if I give up,
47:53that I'm gonna be like,
47:55I wish I'd tried.
47:56Sarah...
47:58I think you're clutching at straws here.
48:00You know how you feel.
48:16To be by us,
48:17I think it's Weg1 4.
48:18I sure do.
48:19That's brought to you.
48:21Of theبد role of God.
48:22To be of theinder Tang
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