Sister Wives Season 20 Episode 2

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00:00Just say yes.

00:03Coyote Pass is still a pain in my ass.

00:06It's not settled.

00:07No.

00:08Look, I don't care how fast it sells.

00:10I just want it resolved.

00:12Isn't he all about fairness, though?

00:13Oh, no.

00:14Only for him.

00:15Oh.

00:15Got you.

00:17Only when it applies to Cody Brown.

00:20Anything other than in my brain,

00:23there's something I want maybe more than you do.

00:26Oh, you're talking about sex?

00:28Yeah, I'm not...

00:29Oh.

00:30A polygamist is getting more than he wants,

00:33and a monogamist isn't getting enough.

00:56Turn it out.

00:57So Jen drove up with me today to Salt Lake City,

01:13and we are now at the speed dating event,

01:15and she's going to kind of sit and watch the whole process,

01:18and I'm going to, like, speed date a bunch of guys.

01:20Want me to sit with you?

01:21Like, I'm your first date?

01:23Oh, I'm going to be the guy.

01:24Yeah.

01:25I don't know how this is going to work.

01:27Not something I've ever done before,

01:29but I'm open to it, and it'll be interesting.

01:33Do it.

01:35Okay.

01:36What question are you going to ask me?

01:38What's a hobby or skill you've always wanted to pick up,

01:40but haven't yet?

01:41Flying airplane.

01:43Boom.

01:43Good job.

01:44Oh, yeah.

01:45The fact that I am 54 years old,

01:49and I am out here dating again,

01:51it's strange, it's surreal, it's weird,

01:54it's nerve-wracking, and it's hard.

01:57If you could travel anywhere in the world right now,

01:59where would you go and why?

02:01Grace, because...

02:02I want to.

02:05If you could pick one superpower,

02:07what would it be?

02:08Ooh.

02:09I don't know.

02:10Invisibility.

02:11Really?

02:12Yes, I could commit a crime,

02:13and no one would see me.

02:16Oh, isn't that one of my questions I'm supposed to ask?

02:19What was...

02:19What have you been...

02:21What crimes have you committed?

02:22Don't ask what crimes have been convicted of,

02:24because it could be overturned,

02:25or they might not have been caught yet.

02:26I just have to ask them what crime they've been...

02:28What crime they've committed.

02:29Committed.

02:30What crimes-a.

02:31What crimes have you committed?

02:32Yeah, I don't want to just, like,

02:33choose, like, the most basic one.

02:34I'm not looking for a spark.

02:37I'm looking for,

02:38can we have a conversation?

02:40And then we'll see what happens.

02:41Um...

02:42Hello, everyone.

02:44Welcome to Speed Dating.

02:46Um, we're gonna get started,

02:48but I'm just gonna go over a couple rules

02:50and just make sure everyone kind of knows

02:52how things are gonna go.

02:53You'll hear this bell.

02:55The dates are gonna be 10 minutes long,

02:57so I'll time the dates.

02:59And then when you hear the bell,

03:00it'll be time to kind of wrap up your conversation

03:02and move to the next chair.

03:03This topic of me being raised in a plural family

03:06and being married in a plural family

03:08and now not being in a plural family,

03:10all these different aspects about my life

03:13are kind of huge.

03:15If it comes up naturally,

03:17if it makes sense in the conversation,

03:20then I'll say it.

03:21And if it doesn't, I won't.

03:23We bought Coyote Pass

03:38before we even moved to Flagstaff.

03:44We bought a dream.

03:45We had a dream.

03:45The dream is gone.

03:46I mean, it's been two years

03:49since Cody and I have split up.

03:51And still, we are not on all the titles of the property.

03:55I've been asking for that forever.

03:57I mean, look, ideally, this would be simple.

04:00He just has to add us all the titles.

04:02It's not that hard.

04:09Hi.

04:10Hi.

04:10That smell always reminds me of growing up in Montana.

04:14I want to be done with Coyote Pass.

04:15Robin has, she's been just struggling

04:19to let go of the dream.

04:21Figured it's time for us to figure out Coyote Pass.

04:27I'm scared.

04:28Why?

04:29Why do you say that?

04:30I'm a suspense.

04:31I just want to sell.

04:33Yeah.

04:34I just want to be rid of it.

04:35It's a source of pain.

04:37Where are you now?

04:39I don't know.

04:39It's been hard to kind of come to terms with it.

04:42Yeah.

04:42It's, it's, it's, we sell it.

04:44It's the awareness of a, a dream that never manifests.

04:48That's a really tough one.

04:50Coyote Pass was a big thing in, in our world.

04:54So where should we land?

04:56Look at this.

04:57This is beautiful.

04:58Me living so close, you know, I just kept going out there and putting my good energy and just

05:03going, okay, we're going to get out here.

05:04We're going to get out here.

05:05It's really hard to say, okay, I'm done, especially since we didn't do it.

05:13We did nothing.

05:14I'm not actually sure I ever had the dream of us all being out on Coyote Pass.

05:17I could see myself out there.

05:19It's a beautiful piece of property.

05:20Why not?

05:21Nobody really wanted to live out there.

05:23Christine didn't want to live out there.

05:24Mary would have done it if everybody else had done it.

05:27Robin has a house.

05:28Like she had a house that was pretty much there without being there on the property.

05:33Like I just could see very soon after we moved to Flagstaff that that was not going to be a thing.

05:37Maybe when it sells, they'll be so happy that they'll be nice.

05:41You've been kind of hard to.

05:43It seems like there's a lot of miscommunication that happens really quickly and really easily.

05:47You know, those little firecrackers, you just light one off and there's like a string of them and they go, pa, pa, pa, pa, pa, pa, pa, and they just kind of light each other off.

05:53Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

05:55Like, hey, snap, she didn't mean that.

05:57Hey, he didn't, he didn't mean that.

05:59Hey, what?

06:00Maybe time will just make us all feel like, oh, that was petty.

06:04Let's just be nice.

06:06What?

06:09Never mind.

06:09What?

06:10Nothing.

06:10Listen, I have this wife.

06:13Her name is Robin.

06:14She's got a conscience that is angelic and very close to God.

06:18And she would never let me do anything naughty.

06:23As bad as I want to do it.

06:26To be honest, I think it's just really hard to move on from what I thought it was going to be.

06:33So for you, it's the symbol of our family.

06:37I'd say it a hundred times probably.

06:39I'm sorry, but this is still happening.

06:44God.

06:46I need to get over this.

06:48Well, then we, maybe we do move on.

06:51What I'm trying to do is I'm trying to tell you I'd rather sell.

06:54Oh, I'm so tired.

06:57A warning?

07:00I have to move on.

07:06Everybody else says I have to.

07:07Everybody else is moving on, too.

07:10Yeah, they are.

07:12Cody mostly wants to sell.

07:14Janelle wants to sell.

07:14Mary wants to sell.

07:15But it feels really wrong.

07:17I feel like I'm betraying myself and the family or something by giving in.

07:22But I don't feel like I'm kind of running out of choices.

07:25It is what it is.

07:27Okay.

07:27It's just hard.

07:28And you really know it.

07:31You just hit it on the head when you said it was the symbol.

07:34It's just hard.

07:34You ever have the feeling you'd kind of like to just sell it all, pick up and move?

07:42Do you ever get that sense or just get away from this whole valley?

07:46I feel like the kids, the little kids have really done well here.

07:50But I'm not talking about leaving Flagstaff.

07:52I'm talking about leaving the space we're in.

07:55I don't know.

07:55You have heartache wherever you go.

07:57I didn't have a lot of heartache before we moved here.

08:00Well, I did.

08:01I had a lot of hard times before.

08:03Yeah.

08:04You know, before I met you and stuff.

08:06So I don't know.

08:07I just, maybe.

08:10Well, maybe after time.

08:11I just want enough space for our kids to feel like they can come and be around and have space.

08:17I agree.

08:18And one day when your kids.

08:20Decide they want to come over?

08:21Mm-hmm.

08:22Interesting.

08:24This house has blessed us.

08:27Don't get me wrong.

08:27But my heart was broken here by so many things.

08:37I picked up the phone to my son's passing here.

08:46I want out so bad.

08:48Married twice.

08:56Only one at a time.

08:57And I don't like dumb jokes.

09:01I do wonder, do they know who I am?

09:05For five years I've been divorced now.

09:08So, yeah.

09:08So, Jen and I have talked a lot about, like, what I'm looking for, right?

09:28And I always joke about six feet because I think a tall guy would be really super awesome.

09:37But I'm also not going to shut down the opportunity if he's not six feet, but he's got a whole bunch of other good qualities, right?

09:45But, yeah, six feet would be great.

09:47Do you know what we're supposed to do?

09:53Hello.

09:54Talk, I think.

09:55Introduce ourselves.

09:56No one told me I had to fill things out.

09:58Only if you want to.

09:59Oh.

10:00Only if you want to.

10:01Hello.

10:01I'm Mary.

10:02I'm Lee.

10:03Good to meet you.

10:04So, have you been married?

10:10I was married 10 years, divorced about six.

10:14I was married for 33 years.

10:18Okay.

10:19It's a long marriage.

10:21Good for you.

10:22Congrats, I should say.

10:24Yeah.

10:26I prefer Beach or Mountains.

10:30I like both.

10:32Yeah?

10:32Right now I'm in the mountain thing.

10:33That's awesome.

10:34What else do you like to do?

10:36Concerts.

10:39Maybe I wasn't asking quite the right question because there was quite a few times when I'd ask a question and it would just be like an answer.

10:49A word.

10:52Cool.

10:54It was good to meet you.

10:57There were some painful moments, for sure.

11:01Hi, Mary.

11:02Hi, Jeff.

11:03How are you?

11:04I'm good.

11:04Good.

11:06I guess you're the house celebrity, huh?

11:08Evidently, that's what they say.

11:10In an event like this or dating, the hardest part is not knowing if they know who I am or not.

11:17First time speed dating, yours?

11:19Yeah.

11:20Yeah.

11:20Is it?

11:21Uh-huh.

11:21Yeah.

11:21And so, how long have you been divorced?

11:28Yeah.

11:29Divorce would be the word.

11:30Okay.

11:31And that's been two years.

11:34Okay.

11:35What about you?

11:36Married twice.

11:37Only one at a time.

11:38And I don't like dumb jokes.

11:43I mean, I'm a funny person.

11:46Like, let's just put that out there.

11:49I'm freaking hilarious.

11:50For five years, I've been divorced now.

11:53So, yeah, something like that.

11:55Oh, interesting.

11:56Yeah.

12:00Yeah.

12:01Interesting.

12:01I mean, a dumb joke has to be a good, dumb joke if it's going to be a good, dumb joke.

12:09And it has to actually be a joke, not something that has to do with my family structure.

12:19There's the dinner bell.

12:20That's the dinner bell.

12:21I like who I am as Mary, and I'm interested in finding a person who really likes Mary.

12:30Have you been in Utah all your life?

12:33I've been kind of lots of different places.

12:35Well, your career took you away.

12:37Well, a lot of other things took me away, too, but...

12:40What else can we do?

12:43I'm terrible at this.

12:44Next question.

12:46Have you ever done this before?

12:47I have never done anything like this.

12:49Okay.

12:49What made you decide to do it this time?

12:51It gets me out of the bubble.

12:52So, why are you doing this dating?

12:54Just figure out my future.

12:57The concept of speed dating?

12:59Well, that's pretty much what I was doing my life before I was married, was just speed dating.

13:04I'd ask a girl out on a date.

13:05We'd go on one or two dates.

13:06Usually just one, because that was a little too weird for them.

13:09The whole dating process is a big red flag for me.

13:12Like, I'm like, no, no, no.

13:15Were you married quite young?

13:17I was.

13:1822.

13:1922.

13:19I was 19.

13:20So, you're very young.

13:22How old are you?

13:2337.

13:2437?

13:25Yeah.

13:26You could almost be my kid.

13:28Yeah, yeah.

13:28This is weird.

13:29Daniel is a little bit young.

13:31I have a 29-year-old.

13:32This is why I'm saying I could almost be your mom.

13:36Yeah, the 10 minutes with Daniel went by really, really fast.

13:40He was fun.

13:41That sounded really bad.

13:42I enjoyed my conversation with him.

13:44Hello.

13:51Hello.

13:52How are you?

13:52Good.

13:53I'm Ron.

13:53Hi, Ron.

13:54I'm Mary.

13:55Good to meet you.

13:57Got your grading card with you?

14:00I love you.

14:00Yes.

14:01I do.

14:02I got married.

14:03We're at table three.

14:04That's all good.

14:08Whoa.

14:10Yeah.

14:11Should be interesting.

14:14Come on.

14:16Hey.

14:17Let's do it.

14:18Let's do it.

14:19Come on.

14:20Let's do it.

14:21Let's do it.

14:22Kelty and Tony went to North Carolina for Christmas last year.

14:27You know where you're putting those weights?

14:28Nope.

14:30I'm going to go right over here.

14:31And then a couple of months after they were in North Carolina, they came over and they told

14:34us that they were moving.

14:36Oh, gosh.

14:38I mean, kids have to do what they need to do.

14:40So get it.

14:41I get it.

14:42It's sad, though.

14:45We're going to leave tomorrow morning earlier than you guys, and I imagine we'll sync up

14:48along the way.

14:49Is it because you're taking longer than I am?

14:50We're going to definitely, definitely be going slower than you.

14:53I think that every time I talk about moving to my mom, I break her heart just a little

14:57bit more.

14:58She's really sad.

15:00She's really heartbroken.

15:01And this is my Kelsey's moving tomorrow.

15:04We're driving her and her kids cross country tomorrow.

15:10It's really hard.

15:12I thought you said you wanted to open.

15:13Mom, you're doing an amazing job.

15:14You know, you and I have never thought the same.

15:17If we thought the same, you wouldn't be moving.

15:19But she's really sad, because she's definitely going to miss out on a lot of the years that

15:23my kids are young.

15:25It's like Aspen and Isabel don't have kids yet, and they're not going to have kids for

15:27a while, and I want my kids to have cousins.

15:30Plus, we'll be close to Maddie.

15:32Listen, Tony wouldn't let me live polygamy, so I can't have sister wives to rely on for

15:36multiple kids, which means the closest thing I have is cousins for my kids, okay?

15:41Yeah, no polygamy.

15:43No, I don't think Tony McKelty ever really considered plural marriage.

15:46I think we gave off the image that plural marriage was easy.

15:48I actually had a relative get after me once for making plural marriage look easy, and I

15:53went, no, we didn't.

15:55But also, Tony needs to pursue his chess career.

15:57You're like wife of the century.

15:58Oh, I know.

15:59Letting him have a chess career?

16:01Sorry, I shouldn't do that.

16:03He makes money.

16:04For me, it's the chess capital of the U.S.

16:09I'm someone who works in chess, makes content, and teaches, and coaches.

16:13For me, moving out there is, like, so exciting, because that's, like, the hub.

16:18Have you told Dad?

16:19Yeah, Dad knows I'm moving.

16:20Okay.

16:21Told him he should come up and see us before we leave, and it didn't happen.

16:26So I'm sorry.

16:27It is what it is.

16:28Well, Tony and McKelty's schedule kept advancing, so we were trying to see them in St.

16:33George.

16:33They had plans that they couldn't change, and we had plans that we couldn't change,

16:37and we just never were able to make the contact.

16:41And McKelty and Tony were just sad that they weren't able to see Cody and Robin and the

16:44kids before they moved.

16:45The whole thing's just been sad.

16:47The relationship with them is just not what McKelty hoped it would be.

16:51I think most of the relationships between me and my adult children are strained.

16:58It's an issue of trash talk and innuendo, and it has challenged loyalties and trust on all sides.

17:06Come on, Keltie.

17:08It's okay.

17:09Oh, God.

17:10Don't leave.

17:11Don't leave.

17:11For real.

17:12I have to go.

17:13Don't leave.

17:13You can come with me.

17:14I have a spare room.

17:15We can go all together.

17:17Leaving Isabel and Aspen will be harder, I think, than anything else.

17:23They're my best friends.

17:24I mean, they're my sisters.

17:26Are you crying?

17:27Yes.

17:28Are you crying?

17:29Yes.

17:30It is a bit rude that once I leave North Carolina, everyone's moving out there.

17:34You are crying so much, sister.

17:36I'm sorry.

17:37You're crying.

17:37I'm going to miss you.

17:39I mean, McKelty tried so hard to get the whole family back together again.

17:43She really wanted to.

17:44I think this is probably something that's one of the hardest things that this family is

17:47going to have to go through.

17:48At the end of this all, we are still a family.

17:51There's a lot of hurt feelings and frustration and anger and resentment.

17:55And yuck.

17:59I think that, uh, Will, what?

18:02It makes it.

18:03What?

18:04It makes it.

18:05I know that part of the reason they're leaving is I just exhausted from trying so hard to

18:12get everybody back together again.

18:15I'm just done.

18:15I need to do my own thing now.

18:20Okay, we're done.

18:21Okay.

18:22It was hitting.

18:23Woo!

18:25Hello.

18:29Yes, hello.

18:30He's handsome.

18:31So there's that.

18:33What's your love language?

18:35My love language is physical touch.

18:37I had an experience with Robin once where I learned what my primary love language was.

18:42And it is touch.

18:43Super important for me is to find somebody who wants to travel with me.

18:55Like, I'm a road tripper and also must not have cats, must love dogs.

19:02Hello.

19:02Yes, hello.

19:04That's funny.

19:05So how's it going?

19:07Good.

19:07Yeah.

19:08Good so far.

19:08Have you done this before?

19:09Never in my life.

19:11Ron looks like he takes care of himself.

19:13I've actually been on dates before where the guys will show up in sweats.

19:17So I'm impressed that he dressed for the occasion.

19:20Tell me about yourself.

19:21Are you, um, how long have you been single?

19:23Single?

19:24Two years.

19:25I have a dog.

19:26Nice.

19:27I have a child.

19:28I live in Southern Utah.

19:30Very nice.

19:30Those are the basics.

19:31What about you?

19:32I have three kids.

19:33They're all in their 20s.

19:35Okay.

19:35And they're very, um, independent.

19:37I love my kids.

19:38I have a grandson.

19:39That's awesome.

19:40Which is fun.

19:40Is that fun?

19:41I have three grand dogs.

19:42Oh, okay.

19:43Well, you're busy then.

19:46Dogs aren't easy.

19:47No.

19:47I do love dogs.

19:48Yes.

19:49So, um, I love to travel.

19:53Yeah?

19:53He likes dogs.

19:54He likes to travel.

19:55And he's six feet tall.

19:58And he's handsome.

20:00So there's that.

20:01Um, I love warmer locations.

20:04I have a favorite spot in Florida, in Sarasota.

20:06Oh, yeah?

20:07It's on the west coast, just south of Tampa.

20:09So if you had your choice, though, would you move to Florida?

20:12Um, I would, what I want, like, my vision board has a place, um, near mountains.

20:16I love that you have a vision board.

20:18Would you say that you're, um, more romantic, less romantic?

20:23Where, or, what's your love language?

20:26Do you have, do you know your love language?

20:26I do know my love language.

20:28My love language is physical touch.

20:31So the five love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, physical touch, and receiving gifts.

20:39I had an experience with Robin once where I learned what my primary love language was.

20:44And it is touch.

20:45But actually, my, uh, first is words of affirmation.

20:48Okay.

20:48And then, and then the secondary is touch.

20:50I think physical touch is probably my top.

20:53And then, um, gifts and, um, time.

20:58Yeah.

20:58Are probably equal on the second.

21:00Yeah.

21:01Well, nice to meet you, too.

21:05Good to meet you as well.

21:06It's good chatting with you.

21:07Yeah.

21:07Very fun.

21:07Yeah.

21:08So do you live, you live down in?

21:09Southern Utah.

21:10Yeah.

21:11Yeah.

21:11Like, opposite direction of you.

21:13Okay.

21:14All right.

21:15Well, nice to meet you.

21:15You, too.

21:16Okay.

21:16See you.

21:17Yeah.

21:18Uh, when I met Mary, um, I thought she was really, you know, attractive and very nice.

21:21She was easy to talk to.

21:23Um, I really liked her eyes.

21:24I think, uh, I liked, I liked her hair.

21:26Um, but she's kind of, like, has a striking look to her, uh, which was really nice.

21:30And, um, I thought she was very attentive.

21:32She's a great communicator.

21:34So, I think that's all the dates.

21:37So, if you want to take an opportunity on the back of your dating card is the QR code.

21:43And select your matches.

21:44And then if you match up, then I will reach out and connect you.

21:49Yeah.

21:50Um, when I fill out my survey, I'm definitely going to put Mary down and I hope to see her again.

21:54Oh, my goodness.

21:56Okay.

21:56What are your thoughts?

21:58I have so many thoughts.

21:59Yeah.

22:00I was going to come over and take a picture of your paper before you had to turn it in.

22:04Yes, because I have pictures.

22:05I don't have to turn anything in.

22:07Oh, I didn't score.

22:08I kind of, like, at the beginning, I kind of started, like, I'd write, like, little notes.

22:13Like, there's some people I'm like, I don't need to remember that I don't want to remember.

22:18Tell me what your thoughts are.

22:19Like, what's your initial thoughts?

22:21Some of them are hard passes.

22:22Some of them are really nice to talk to.

22:24The youngest kid?

22:25Like, who the heck is he?

22:26But he was, like, the easiest to talk to.

22:28Daniel?

22:28Yeah, maybe, except for he was, like, 37.

22:30Like, I could have been his mom.

22:31I don't know why he was there.

22:33He was, like, definitely in the wrong age group.

22:35But he was so much fun.

22:37It's such an easy conversation with him.

22:39Ron was really easy to talk to.

22:41Yeah.

22:41He was really nice.

22:42I pre-screened him.

22:43Did you?

22:44Yeah, because he came in late.

22:45So I was, like, chatting with him a little bit.

22:47Oh, you are?

22:47Hi, I'm not single.

22:50I'm not part of this.

22:51Yeah.

22:51Except for I'm just watching.

22:53Right.

22:53I'm just, you know, saying bye.

22:55Honestly, out of all of the men there, Ron probably would be the only real candidate for me.

23:01You want me to go get his number?

23:03I think that's Emily's job.

23:05Listen, I don't have time until tomorrow.

23:07You're here now.

23:08But what if he was, like, a no on me?

23:11He's, like, a no on me.

23:13Listen, I've already chatted with some friends.

23:15You're so dumb.

23:16I'm just gonna, you know.

23:18I need to decide if I want to.

23:20Oh, you are filling out the nothing QR code thingy.

23:23You're doing it.

23:24I will do, I will get my own, and I will fill it out myself and put your name on it.

23:29I will forge your answers.

23:31And it's not against the law.

23:33You're right.

23:33Yeah.

23:34Except for we're in church.

23:36That's not gonna bother me.

23:38Karen's view that's not gonna stop me from doing anything I should have.

23:42I need to take a minute.

23:43Maybe tomorrow I'll decide if I want to fill it out.

23:47Yeah, I don't know.

23:49Because you love me, you will fill out the QR code.

23:51If you want to continue to be my friend, you will do this.

23:54It's good for you.

23:56And then what?

23:57I don't know.

23:58We let nature take its course.

24:00Okay.

24:01Speaking of which, I have to pee.

24:03I totally have to pee.

24:04We're out of here.

24:05What?

24:06What?

24:10So, Michele, Team Tony spent the night here last night.

24:14We're gonna leave earlier than them.

24:16Like, we're gonna get up and we're just gonna head out the door.

24:18We'll say goodbye.

24:19And we'll see them somewhere at our first stop.

24:21Ooh.

24:22Don't let that thing in.

24:24We can't keep...

24:24We don't allow rats.

24:25Hey, we can't keep...

24:28Oh, it's a dog.

24:28I don't have a...

24:29Don't touch.

24:30Don't you get...

24:30Don't you get close to that dog, David.

24:33Come here, little puppy.

24:34No, I've never seen this dog.

24:35I don't even know whose dog this is.

24:37No idea.

24:38Ready to haul this big beast?

24:40Good.

24:40How are you gonna get it out of the subdivision?

24:42Where are you gonna turn?

24:44Oh, that's easy.

24:45Christine approached me and said,

24:46Hey, do you want to move McElty across the country?

24:50And I went, What?

24:51I said, We just moved Janelle.

24:52No.

24:55Whoa.

24:55Have you hauled things like this before?

24:58Not with the trailer.

24:59Would you have said no?

25:00No.

25:02Come here.

25:03Come here.

25:05I gotta be...

25:05We'll sneak...

25:06We'll sneak you in the car.

25:07Okay, shh.

25:08Don't tell anybody.

25:11Let's go back a little bit further than that part.

25:14She had somebody that did not want to do a lot.

25:17And then when you found me, it's easy.

25:19Like, I'm gonna take advantage of that, dude.

25:21I am not...

25:22Okay, this is no...

25:24I know.

25:25I don't want you to feel like I'm taking advantage of it.

25:26Finally, I got somebody that'll do what I want them to do.

25:31Okay.

25:32What are you doing with that?

25:33She said he wants to go with us.

25:35David, put that dog down.

25:40Look, I'm very sad that McElty's moving.

25:43I just want to sit and dwell on my sadness right now.

25:45And David goofing off and stuff, I don't have time for that.

25:49I'm gonna go put it on the doorstep and ring the doorbell.

25:54You just want any excuse to ring someone's doorbell.

25:58Stay.

25:58Run away.

25:59I can't believe you picked up a straight dog.

26:03Oh, it's coming back.

26:04I said you better get out of here because she'll eat it.

26:07That's what I heard those polygamists do.

26:09They eat dogs.

26:09Okay, that is not true.

26:12Polygamists do not eat dog.

26:14Okay, we didn't have a lot of money.

26:15It's true.

26:16We never ate our pets.

26:17Squirrels?

26:18Or other people's pets.

26:19Rabbits?

26:19No.

26:20Oh.

26:21No.

26:21Get in the car.

26:22You shouldn't have picked it up.

26:24We're definitely not feeding it.

26:25Get in the car.

26:26Hey, don't go out there.

26:27The foxes will get you.

26:29We should have just taken them across country with us.

26:31Love, it's so much.

26:32It would have been so much cool.

26:33This is someone's pet.

26:34It belongs to somebody.

26:36Well, they lost it, so fighters keep her.

26:38They haven't lost it.

26:38It does not look like it's unruly.

26:40It came to our house.

26:40It doesn't mean we get to keep it.

26:43I feel like I'm a trucker now, man.

26:46Freak with one nine.

26:47Let's go.

26:51I can't see, though.

26:52Do you have my glasses on?

26:54Those are not going to serve us very well.

27:02Well, he called me, and he asked me if I was open to it.

27:06I said, well, yeah, that's fine, but have you talked to Mary?

27:08And he's like, why don't you talk to Mary?

27:10And I'm like, why is he afraid to talk to me?

27:13I don't know.

27:14Mary's, she's kind of a nag, so I just didn't, I was like, oh, ignore her.

27:17Why did everybody get so upset?

27:19Well, it was because I wasn't talking to him.

27:20And he has this shy, pretty wife now, and she's really shy.

27:26Those are words he's used.

27:27She's very shy, and she's really pretty.

27:29I'm like, well, good for you.

27:30Hey, how are you?

27:36How are you doing?

27:37Good.

27:38Good.

27:39You know, I've been kind of moving forward with my lawyer.

27:41I know Mary has, too.

27:42And then Cody called me just really recently and has said, what if I just put us all on

27:48all the titles?

27:49I'm like, is this guy falling?

27:51Like, I don't know.

27:52Like, it's awesome.

27:52I'm like, yeah, that's great.

27:53So I'm glad I was thinking, well, I need to make sure Mary knows, because I just, I don't

27:58trust that Cody was going to call him.

28:00I have no freaking idea why he does that, but whatever.

28:04Whatever.

28:05Hey, so I just wanted to kind of touch base with you about the last thing that we talked

28:09about, so I sent a bunch of stuff to my lawyer, and he asked me to kind of follow up on Cody's

28:14email about putting us all four on all the pieces.

28:17And just about that time, Cody called me, and he said, we'll get a portion of each piece,

28:21and we can just settle it.

28:23I am open to that, if you are.

28:27I am.

28:28I'm, I've actually been frustrated that he never responded.

28:32Like, you had sent that email following up again back in June, and here we are at the

28:37end of August, and I've not heard anything.

28:39So I thought it was weird, because you had said that, and was like, hey, so are you open

28:42to this?

28:42But it sounds like he called you to talk about it.

28:45He asked me if I was open to it, and I said, well, yeah, that's fine, but have you talked

28:48to Mary?

28:49And he's like, why don't you talk to Mary?

28:50And I'm like, why is he afraid to talk to me?

28:54I don't know.

28:54Who the hell knows?

28:55I don't know.

28:56So, whatever.

28:58It was like he said to me.

29:00Oh, my gosh.

29:00He says all this, you know, stuff about wanting to be friends with me, and then he won't

29:07talk to me?

29:08Mary and Janelle, I've completely upset them.

29:10Not on purpose, okay?

29:12Like, I've completely upset them, because I didn't know what to do, so Mary's, she's

29:16kind of an ag, so I just didn't, I was like, oh, ignore her, you know?

29:20And then she's like, well, I'm going to do legal.

29:21And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, okay, listen, we're going to sell the property, and you guys

29:24will all get your 25%.

29:25Why did everybody get so upset?

29:27Well, it was because I wasn't talking to them.

29:28Partly because I was kind of confused.

29:31He just doesn't make any sense, and, like, I'm over trying to figure it out.

29:35Like, it's so dumb.

29:37It's so dumb.

29:38Like, he always wants to act like he's such a victim, or that everybody's so mean to him,

29:41or whatever.

29:43And he has this shy, pretty wife now, and she's really shy.

29:46And she's really pretty.

29:48So sorry.

29:49I couldn't help it.

29:53Those are words he's used.

29:55He's very shy, and she's really pretty.

29:56I'm like, well, good for you.

30:00I mean, I was a little shy when we got married, but I was definitely not submissive.

30:03So I don't know.

30:04I guess he misjudged.

30:07The only wife?

30:08Or the only pretty wife?

30:10Like, is he slamming all of us?

30:12Yeah, I think so.

30:13And none of us were shy.

30:14So I guess that's his type.

30:16Submissive, shy, and pretty.

30:17Whatever.

30:18Okay, sorry.

30:19Side note.

30:19I just had to have an ex-wife's club for just a moment.

30:22But anyway.

30:23No, why don't you talk to Mary?

30:24Because I'm afraid to talk to her.

30:27I'm so scared.

30:29She's going to be so mean to me.

30:31And I don't know.

30:32I can't handle it.

30:33I don't think it's fair for you to have to be in the middle.

30:36I think this needs to all be a conversation with all four of us.

30:39I don't know why he's...

30:40Well, I invited him to be part of this conversation.

30:44And he's like, nah, I just, nah.

30:45Like, I don't really like you.

30:46And I said, well, that's fine.

30:48I don't like you either.

30:49So, whatever.

30:51I don't care.

30:52I really don't care.

30:54Like, whatever he says does not bother me because I just don't care.

30:57I'm glad they're both mature enough to be able to just call a spade a spade and just say, no, I don't like you.

31:04I mean, this is great.

31:06We're making progress here.

31:08From a therapeutic perspective, something that I have learned is when you don't have that emotion is when you've moved past the relationship.

31:17So, congratulations.

31:19I'm having way too much fun at his expense.

31:21I'm sorry, but he's just hilarious when he says stuff to me.

31:24But I think he thinks it's going to get a reaction and I just don't care.

31:27And the property is still holding, has held its value.

31:30It'll be a nice parting gift for all of us, you know.

31:34So, anyway, we're going to get a parting gift.

31:40Which will be a nice way to just be like, see you later, hope I never see you again, goodbye.

31:46I mean, if we're not going to get alimony, I guess this parting gift works.

31:52Well, listen, I mean, if I had been legally married to Cody, you sure have held Ben.

31:56I would have taken half of his assets.

31:58I would have.

31:58Because I would have been half mine.

32:00Okay, awesome.

32:00Thanks, Chanel.

32:01Bye.

32:02Okay, bye.

32:02Talk to you later.

32:03Bye.

32:03Hi, my love.

32:05This is a good thing.

32:07Like, I have hope now that this is going to happen, but I'm not holding my breath because

32:11I know how Cody Brown works.

32:12So, we'll see.

32:19Chanel is so excited.

32:22When I saw her this last weekend, I almost wanted to slap her.

32:25She's a dude.

32:26I was, no, not really.

32:27I would never.

32:28But she's like, I pretty soon am going to have all the grandbabies living next to me.

32:32I'm like, they're four hours away from Chanel.

32:35That's not close.

32:36Four hours away.

32:37Okay?

32:37Yeah, we were just talking about life.

32:39And it truly said, well, I think I'm going to move to North Carolina.

32:42Like, excuse me?

32:44Bring the grandbabies.

32:45Like, I'm all about it.

32:47Payton, you come find a wife.

32:49Have some more grandbabies.

32:50I'm all about it.

32:51You know what I mean?

32:52Maddie lives there.

32:53McKelty's going to be living there.

32:54Payton's talking about living there.

32:56Gwendolyn is now talking about living there.

32:59No, no, no, no.

33:00What does North Carolina have that we don't have?

33:02I think you're amazing.

33:03Thank you for doing this drive.

33:05I don't know if I actually even asked you.

33:07I don't think you did.

33:08Would you please drive?

33:09Yes, I did.

33:10Okay, David's going to drive.

33:11We're going to do this.

33:12No, I know I said, are you okay with driving?

33:14But the way I said it was definitely not a question.

33:16No, it was not a question.

33:17It was like, David, you're going to drive?

33:19And I could either sit at home, do nothing, or I could be on the road with you traveling.

33:25Yeah, I'd rather be on the road with you traveling, too.

33:27Yeah.

33:28Yeah.

33:29Across the country, see it in America.

33:31And find tornadoes, honey.

33:33Tornadoes.

33:34Now, they have those shark tornadoes.

33:36I've seen them on a show before.

33:37They're out there.

33:39David has an insane, insane, insane idea to be a tornado chaser.

33:44Why?

33:45They literally create paths of destruction.

33:49I want you and I to be able to start over again.

33:58This house, this house has all this pain.

34:00It's not like it goes away until you fix what's in here.

34:03David stops at one point, looks at his phone on his weather app.

34:06There's like these little purple spots all over the map.

34:09And purple means tornado.

34:11Oh, it's dead in the window, Tony.

34:13Get on.

34:16Coyote Pass has got to be sold because Mary and Janelle need to be paid.

34:19They're their fair share of it.

34:20If we exit this relationship with the cell of Coyote Pass, then we're all free to go on and do something else.

34:27I want to show you this stuff that I've got done with the title company.

34:31We just have to sign.

34:32I asked him to basically make it so I could, you know, quick claim the lot that Janelle and I share to Mary.

34:40Okay.

34:40Then you and I will have the other lot.

34:42And then all four of us on this lot and all four of us on this lot.

34:46And that literally makes us each 25% owner of the entirety of Coyote Pass.

34:50Yeah.

34:51Now that we want to sell the property, we're going to put everybody on the title.

34:53So that everybody's titled equally.

34:56So when the properties sell, everybody gets paid equally.

34:59But we don't even know if it'll sell.

35:00Yeah.

35:01But I've got to be really honest with you.

35:02I don't know why I wouldn't.

35:03I really want to move away from here.

35:06Not here.

35:07This house.

35:09This house?

35:09This house is the source of a lot of pain for me.

35:12As much as I love this house, the idea of a new start is really enticing to me.

35:21It has turned out to be kind of a lonely place for me.

35:24We've been in this house for five years.

35:27We've been in a struggle for four of those years.

35:30I had this huge experience.

35:33And because of the divorces, I've taken this experience and chopped it down to, you know,

35:38like, I wish I had never done that kind of things.

35:40These are some of the emotions that I have just gone through with having a triple divorce in three years.

35:46Do you have time?

35:47Do you want to sit down and we'll talk about it a little bit more?

35:49Oh, yeah.

35:50I'm just doing my own emotional thing, you know?

35:52It's like, I don't know what to do with this.

35:54I got this happy life and a happy wife and our kids.

35:57And I got all this other stuff.

35:59It was a memory.

36:00And because of the divorces, it just made it bad.

36:04I want you and I to be able to start over again.

36:06Well, we need to have enough room for everyone.

36:09I would like room for grandchildren with our kids to return home and feel safe like they got space.

36:16And then space for your kids to be able to...

36:19I'll be honest with you.

36:20I think Trulie would come and stay if she had a space that was her own.

36:23That would be great.

36:24I feel like that it's really important for Cody to repair his relationships with his kids.

36:30It really is this thought, if we have the space, they will come.

36:35Are you okay moving?

36:36It's going to be really, really difficult to drive down our street and come home and see houses or whatever being built out there.

36:45I've really struggled with it because we live really close to the Coyote Pass.

36:49I would have to watch it get sold to people I don't know and then watch them develop the land.

36:56That might be really painful.

36:57Well, that'll be every day.

36:59Every day, I'm looking at a reminder of everything falling apart.

37:06This house, this house has all this pain from the breakups and everything.

37:10But I'm just like, hey, honey, it follows us.

37:12It's not like it goes away until you fix what's in here.

37:16You okay with the idea of starting over?

37:18Oh, yeah.

37:19I mean, it makes sense.

37:21Let's go out on the deck.

37:22I want to do this because I want to go out there and feel it.

37:25What do we need to do to kind of like go, okay, we're starting a new adventure.

37:29We're starting a new experience, whatever it is.

37:33You know, there's been lots of creative thoughts that I've had about that.

37:36And I get the feeling.

37:38I'm listening to him, but I don't know if selling the house and moving is the answer for that.

37:44I just don't know.

37:45I get nostalgia when I start talking about this.

37:48I go, okay, is this really what I want?

37:49But I think I need to go on.

37:50I need to move on.

37:51How about you?

37:53Give me a day or two.

37:54Can we pray about it, please?

37:56Yes, we can.

37:57But I got the best idea.

37:59The absolute best idea.

38:00Let's just look for the home that you want.

38:03That I want or we want?

38:05Well, Mama's happy.

38:06Everybody's happy, you know.

38:07No, Daddy has to be happy, too.

38:08No, no, I want my space.

38:09I want my business space.

38:11And then I want space for grandkids and truly.

38:14Just give me some time.

38:15I will.

38:16I still think.

38:17I think, okay, think about it.

38:19But if we see a home, let's go look at it.

38:21Okay.

38:22Okay?

38:24It's our second day moving McKelty cross country.

38:30David stops at one point, looks at his phone on his weather app.

38:33There's like these little purple spots all over the map.

38:36And purple means tornado.

38:38We just received a warning for a tornado.

38:41We looked it up where it would be.

38:43That right there is the beginning of it.

38:46Look how it's touching down.

38:47So it's not a tornado yet, but it could become a tornado.

38:52But it also said at 6, like 40 is when it's going to start.

38:57And it's going to go the warning until 7 o'clock.

38:59There's bad weather.

39:01The weather was turning purple, pink.

39:03And that means it was like really dark, nasty weather coming.

39:06Look at this cloud.

39:07It feels like dark and nasty.

39:13We had the radio on, and all of a sudden they had an alert going on.

39:16They did.

39:16There was a lot of alerts.

39:17Alerts saying that there would be strong hailstorms coming.

39:20Mm-hmm.

39:21You know, seek shelter.

39:22This is insane.

39:27McKelty called.

39:28The phone rings.

39:28I answer.

39:29And McKelty's like, we're in a tornado.

39:31We're in a tornado.

39:32I just said drive right through it.

39:33Just keep on driving.

39:34Wind is coming on.

39:36Oh, shit.

39:37What was that?

39:39That was a big chunk of hail, I think.

39:42I just hit a windshield.

39:46That's right there.

39:47It says a...

39:48Oh, shoot.

39:50Okay.

39:50Yeah, this is going to be pleasant.

39:52Okay, what do we do?

39:53We got it.

39:54It's going.

39:55This is just okay.

39:56So are we trying to fight it now?

39:58What is the goal here?

39:59Oh, my gosh.

40:00Oh, it's dentsing the windows, Tony.

40:05Get off.

40:06Huh?

40:06It's dentsing the windows.

40:08Just open your lap.

40:09Oh, shit.

40:10Oh, shit.

40:11Put the poison down.

40:12Put the poison down.

40:15Next time on Sister Wives.

40:18I've got a bunch of girlfriends coming over.

40:20We're going to be doing some painting.

40:21And wine night kind of thing.

40:23Have you ever eaten an eggplant?

40:27I did not picture this evening going this way.

40:31Oh, my gosh.

40:35Tony and McKelty are headed to North Carolina.

40:37And we're hopefully headed to the other side of Flagstaff.

40:46It's our second day moving McKelty cross country.

40:49And there's tornadoes everywhere.

40:52Oh, it's dentsing the windows, Tony.

40:54Get off.

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