KENDAL and Bree first met through a mutual friend, and ended up moving into the same house. Over time, their connection grew from platonic to romantic. Kendal explained to Truly how they became official, "The night I asked her to become my girlfriend, I got her flowers, we went on a picnic, to the movies, and it was just a special day for real." Bree is a transgender woman. She started expressing herself in a feminine way at the age of 17 and is still evolving. She said, "I'm in the process of transitioning. Transitioning never stops. I have not medically transitioned all the way. I have tried hormones, but it messed up when I was trying to get freaky and stuff." Adding, "I'm already pretty, I've got body. I feel like I'm good where I'm at." Kendal identifies as a bisexual man and said it has been a surprise for him to end up in a relationship with Bree. "Honestly, I never thought that I would date a trans woman or a trans person, period. I'm really not attracted to trans women, I'm only attracted to this trans woman because it's a special bond with her." Kendal's family has been doubtful about his relationship. "Growing up in a Christian household, they want me to be able to make it through [those] gates whenever it's my time to go. And they said being with a [trans person] that's not going to be a way there", he explained. His mother Shanette has been particularly vocal about her disapproval of the pairing. "I thought about Kendal dating a trans woman was diabolical, I didn't approve of it", she said. "I felt like if you're going to date a woman, date a woman. If you're going to date a man, date a man. I guess he wanted the best of both worlds." When asked about their future as a couple, she said, "I have reservations about them staying together. I want grandbabies from Kendal, and she can't produce that." In this episode of Love Don't Judge, the couple has an explosive showdown with Shanette, as she lays down her reasons for not accepting her son's transgender girlfriend.
00:00Trolls say I must be gay because my girlfriend is trans.
00:03They hate her.
00:04We got a video of my mom when I first
00:09brought my girlfriend, and my mom was like, that's a man, bro.
00:15I thought Kendall dating a trans woman was diabolical.
00:19I didn't approve of it.
00:21If you're going to date a woman, date a woman.
00:24I guess he wanted the best of both worlds.
00:27I know that it's not for everything.
00:29I want grandbabies, and she can't produce that.
00:32It's not all about what you want.
00:34You know, it's not your relationship.
00:35But let's be transparent about everything.
00:39You're not fully gay.
00:50We met at a friend's house where we both were staying at the time.
00:53The night I asked her to become my girlfriend, I got her flowers.
00:57We went on a picnic.
00:58It was just a special date to me, for real.
01:00Then I got cracked like a egg, sunny side up.
01:03I identify as a bisexual man.
01:07I would say I'm pansexual.
01:09Honestly, I've never thought that I would date a trans person, period.
01:13I'm only attracted to this trans woman because it's just like a special bond with her.
01:18Concerns that my family have about me and my sexuality is just, you know, growing up in a Christian household.
01:27They just want me to be able to make it through them gates whenever it's my time to go, and they said being with a trans person, that's not going to be away there.
01:35Okay, so we got a video of my mom.
01:40When I first brought my girlfriend, and my mom was like, that's a man, bro.
01:48I was like, this is my girlfriend.
01:52And she's like, no, that's a dude.
01:54You can't bring that man in my house.
01:56My mom is coming today to talk about our relationship.
01:59She have strong opinions and won't hold back anything.
02:02I thought Kendall dating a trans woman was diabolical.
02:08I felt like if you're going to date a woman, date a woman.
02:12If you're going to date a man, date a man.
02:15I guess he wanted the best of both worlds, which is still diabolical to me.
02:20I just was like, this has to be a joke.
02:22I mean, I felt like I had been tricked because I accepted her in my home under false pretenses.
02:29I have reservations about them staying together.
02:32I want grandbabies from Ken, and she can't produce that.
02:38We had a couple disagreements in the past about me dating a trans woman.
02:42So I just want to know your opinion on it now.
02:45Like, has anything changed from the past?
02:48Well, Ken, you know I always wanted grandkids.
02:52And can't do that with Bri, so.
02:58You're not lying, but we can still have kids.
03:04We can get a surrogate.
03:05We can get a surrogate.
03:06How do you feel about a surrogate?
03:07I feel that that's fair, but how do we know that this is a forever thing between you two?
03:14I'm here.
03:15I'm not going nowhere.
03:16I feel like a surrogate would be the right answer when I want children, because it's
03:22not all about what you want.
03:24It's about me and Bri, you know, it's not your relationship.
03:28You got six grandkids, that's enough for right now.
03:31But let's be transparent about everything.
03:35You're not fully gay.
03:38Oh.
03:40Yeah, that's true, but at the same time, it's like, that don't have nothing to do with.
03:54So because I'm not fully gay, you want me to be with a woman and have kids?
03:59No, I just want you to stop saying that this is a forever thing.
04:03But what if it is though?
04:05To each his own, but I know that it's not a forever thing.
04:10You go through your wavelengths of what you are attracted to.
04:16I guess this is just a wavelength for right now.
04:19Attraction.
04:20I think it's a forever thing.
04:22Like, that's crazy.
04:24I accept who you with.
04:26Like, that's not a problem.
04:28But what I'm saying is, you switch up.
04:33You will start a process of having a kid with Bri, and we don't know if this is a forever thing.
04:43I'm not trying to take anything from you, Bri, I'm just...
04:47That's what it sounds like though.
04:49Motherhood is motherhood at the end of the day.
04:51As far as raising a child, I can't take anything from Bri with being with kids because Bri is so nurturing.
05:00I know that the kid will be very well taken care of.
05:04My views have changed about their relationship.
05:09I see how Bri is there for Ken, and I see how Ken is there for Bri, and Bri a part of the family.
05:17She slithered her way in.
05:20Life too short.
05:22This is what they want.
05:24This is what they got.
05:25Live, love, laugh, be happy.
05:29The posters.
05:30Very duller.
05:31Yeah.
05:32Ma, thank you for the support.
05:33I love that you turned around.
05:34You are now my queen.
05:35I just feel like we're the best of friends.
05:37You're my girl.
05:38You was always my girl, but you just didn't like me at first.
05:41But you're my girl now.
05:43Around like 17 is when I started to like express myself in a more feminine way.
05:49I've tried hormones, but it be messing up when I be trying to get, you know, freaky.
05:53I'm already pretty, I'm already bad, I got body.
05:55I feel like I'm good where I'm at.
05:57It feels empowering to dress in a feminine way.
06:00Now I just feel more free.
06:01Like I'm grown.
06:02I love being a girl.
06:04A trans one.
06:05A lot of people know me from being, you know, a hood boy.
06:08Even with the, you know, wearing the skirts and stuff and expressing myself in that type
06:11of way.
06:12It's just kind of different.
06:13I love dressing in masculine and feminine clothes.
06:17As y'all can see right now, I have on this skirt.
06:20So basically it's giving femme on the bottom and it's giving masculine on top.
06:24Today we're going to do a mukbang live on TikTok.
06:27Some of the comments we get from outsiders are like, you have a strong jawline.
06:32My shoulders are big.
06:33You know, I'm strong.
06:34I'm a strong girl.
06:35I don't mind.
06:36A lot of people want to mark.
06:38Yeah.
06:39Plate heads on a board.
06:41They're literally always attacking her.
06:43She got to fight for her life every time.
06:45They hate her.
06:46No, they do.
06:47Someone said no fudge packing in her house.
06:51I feel like it's nasty.
06:52I feel like why are y'all even thinking about what goes on?
06:55What?
06:56Don't be freaky.
06:57Who we are and we don't even use them type of terms.
06:59So you as a straight man.
07:00Saying fudge packing.
07:01Saying fudge packing.
07:02Hmm.
07:03I got a couple questions.
07:05I know your bedroom used to stink.
07:07It's not hate.
07:08It's morals.
07:09Natural relations.
07:10Tolerance without repentance.
07:12Oh, they're trying to get.
07:13Oh, they're trying to go there with it.
07:16We're going real biblical.
07:18Don't play with me.
07:19I don't care about none of that.
07:21I pay my own bills.
07:22The judgment.
07:23Hey, it doesn't come home with me.
07:24It doesn't turn on the lights.
07:25It doesn't keep my water going.
07:26What you're doing is you're making me more money.
07:28Keep coming.
07:29Keep dropping the negativity because I'm probably drinking mimosas right now.
07:33They said be the best you can be while you being on this earth.
07:38I love you and I support you.
07:40I love you too.
07:42Let him love who he wants.
07:44Whatever makes him happy.
07:45She's amazing.
07:47And it doesn't matter if someone doesn't accept her.
07:50That means they lose.
07:52You do.
07:53I know how to cook and I'm funny and I know how to fight.
07:56I feel like Bree changed my life for the better because she keep me going.
08:01All of my like dreams and stuff like she keep me on track from the negativity.
08:06I enjoy his company because he makes me laugh all the time.
08:09He's super hilarious.
08:11We have the same sense of humor and he's very protective about me.
08:15He don't play.
08:16And neither do I.
08:17And what I have to say to the people that judge us is have a great day.
08:22Live your life.
08:23Do it right.
08:24Warm up a Hot Pocket and go sit on the couch.
08:26Please don't worry about me.
08:27Other things you have to do.
08:39All this
08:45Is was just it okay in place.
08:47Please take me a handy
08:50backroom.
08:51All this
08:53people came out.
08:54I do have a B impression.
08:56I am so ready for one letzt.
08:58It looks good for one month.
08:59We do have a warm snow, makes it really great.
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