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While Deirdre tries to help Tristin because of his autism, Kayla and Marlana demand her attention. They follow her around and she shoos them away. Can Jo get Tristin to talk and leave Deirdre to spend time with her girls or are they too much at their wits end?
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00:01Let's take a look and see what family we've got here.
00:04Hi, we're the Kylans.
00:05I'm Tammy, I'm 27.
00:07I'm Sean, I'm 27.
00:08Give me that fork.
00:10We have four children, Haley, who is six,
00:13twin girls, Miley, and Malia, who are four,
00:17and Leighton, who is one.
00:19So sweet!
00:21I work at least five days a week at an ice cream restaurant.
00:26I used to be a Navy SEAL, now I work as a fireman paramedic.
00:29I work a 24-hour shift, 7 a.m. to 7 a.m.,
00:31which can make it difficult for my wife
00:33because she's got to deal with the kids from morning until night.
00:36I'm going to get a key and unlock it,
00:37and you're going to be in big trouble.
00:38Life in our house now is very hectic and chaotic.
00:41Just relax, come here.
00:43There's Miley, the brown-haired one,
00:44but I think she likes to be naughty.
00:46I think she likes to fight.
00:48Dressing Miley in the morning can be impossible.
00:51You put one outfit on her, she takes it off, slams doors,
00:56does everything so that you can't function normally.
00:59Sometimes it could take up to two hours for me to finally win the battle.
01:05This is out of control.
01:07In Malia's perfect world, she would be on my lap 24 hours a day.
01:11You need to be a big girl, you're four.
01:13I don't wish twins on my worst enemy.
01:16Our oldest, Haley, gets frustrated a lot with her sisters.
01:19No ice cream.
01:20Sometimes she can be physical with them.
01:22No, stop it!
01:23No, don't you bite!
01:25Super Nanny, please come to our house.
01:29We need your help.
01:30Better bring some boxing gloves,
01:32because you're going to be in for one heck of a fight.
01:34Sean and Tammy, you definitely do need my help.
01:36I'll be there straight away.
01:38Hello, how are you?
01:50Good, I'm Tammy Cohen.
01:51Good afternoon, how are you?
01:52Great, how are you?
01:53Very well.
01:54When Jo showed up at my house,
01:56I could tell that she was a very serious person
01:58and that she was really ready to get right to business when she got there.
02:02Okay, Tammy, I'm here to observe very sharply
02:05and watch you throughout the day,
02:07so I just want you to just make out I'm not here, alright?
02:10Okay.
02:11The first thing that Tammy and I did was to go upstairs and wake up the girls.
02:14This is Haley, can you say hi, Haley?
02:17Haley and...
02:18Miley.
02:19Miley, hi, Miley!
02:20Are we still sleepyheads?
02:22Malia?
02:25Can you say hi, Malia?
02:28Hi.
02:29This is the angel of the family.
02:30Never crabby.
02:32Hi, honey.
02:34Hello.
02:35Hello.
02:36This is Leighton.
02:37Hi, Leighton.
02:38After mum introduced me to the children,
02:39she then started to proceed in getting them ready for the morning.
02:43They have crazy hair in the morning,
02:45so I always just do everything in the morning.
02:47I'm a perfectionist.
02:48I like the kids to look good.
02:50I want them to look like a million bucks when we walk out that door.
02:53It's pretty crazy in the morning.
02:59It can be an absolute nightmare.
03:03I like everything to be perfect, I think.
03:08Mum was so busy getting the girls ready that she forgot that Leighton was downstairs.
03:14Hello.
03:15You're all by yourself.
03:17I think mum forgot she's got four.
03:20I forgot the baby in the wheelchair.
03:23When we got upstairs, I noticed that mum had picked out the exact same sweater for all three of the girls.
03:38It's itchy.
03:40It's itchy.
03:41It's itchy.
03:42You look very pretty in this.
03:43It's just like mum's.
03:44I picked out their white sweaters because that's what I wanted to wear.
03:47I want them to be the same.
03:49Bottom line, I want them to look great all the time.
03:51It's itchy.
03:53It's itchy.
03:55It's itchy.
03:56Mommy has the same sweater on and it doesn't itch.
03:58Mommy.
03:59So, Miley, you listen to mommy.
04:04Stand up.
04:07We're going to your bedroom.
04:10Whilst Miley was having a temper tantrum and taking up all of mum's time,
04:15I went over to the sisters to find out exactly how they felt about this.
04:19She gives you a headache.
04:21She gives you a headache?
04:22Yeah.
04:23Even Hailey.
04:24Yeah?
04:25Does she give you a headache, Hailey?
04:27I hit a bone!
04:29Do not bite your clothes.
04:30Knock it off.
04:31I didn't bite it!
04:32I didn't bite it!
04:34Miley went on and on and on.
04:38I didn't bite her naked bone!
04:41And we all listened.
04:42Naked bone!
04:43And carried on listening.
04:45They always do that.
04:47Because they always like to act like that.
04:51But they keep...
04:52But they keep...
04:53They keep in here.
04:54Headache, headache, headache, headache, headache, headache.
04:58I need to do your hair, okay?
04:59Tami just continued to tolerate Miley's frustration and anger.
05:12And never put her foot down once.
05:14I need to pick it up at the door!
05:17When Miley was, you know, throwing a foot about the sweater, I mean, it did not surprise
05:22me.
05:23That's what she does all day long.
05:24You are messing up your hair!
05:26Leo, can you hold her hands?
05:29Okay, sit up big so I can do your hair again.
05:33For two hours, Miley fought.
05:42And I looked at Tami and thought, my word, she wants them to look perfect.
05:47Nothing's good enough.
05:48Nothing is ever good enough for her.
05:50You picked it up.
05:52I wanted you to look like Mommy.
05:54So there's Mom and Miley arguing about this white jumper.
05:59And Dad finally comes home and I'm thinking, that's it.
06:02Dad's going to put a stop to this.
06:04Good morning.
06:05Hi.
06:06Nice to meet you.
06:07I'm Sean.
06:08Nice to meet you.
06:09Pleased to meet you.
06:10What's going on here, Miley?
06:12But he doesn't.
06:13He makes it worse.
06:15Kind of big, isn't it?
06:17Just tell me what you want me to do and I'll do it.
06:22Put the white shirt on.
06:23Well, Mom says we need to wear this.
06:25And you know, who's the boss?
06:27Who's the boss?
06:28Who?
06:29You really won that battle.
06:31Listening to Miley argue became a tiresome event.
06:36And apparently this is nothing new.
06:38Miley does this all the time.
06:40No, you just had time to get Daddy.
06:43And Daddy's too much of a wimp with you.
06:46Coming up on Supernanny.
06:48Dad reveals his true feelings.
06:50She's a great mother, great career woman.
06:52She's gorgeous.
06:53But I just need her time.
06:55While Joe bursts Mom's perfect bubble.
06:59Your perfection is having your daughters look like Dolly's.
07:04When Supernanny returns.
07:11What do you want for lunch?
07:13Okay, we're all having the same thing.
07:15Okay, Mommy's gonna make macaroni.
07:17I already got the water boiling.
07:18Maybe we can have this for supper.
07:19Mom was in the kitchen preparing lunch.
07:22But old Miley had a different opinion of what she wanted to eat.
07:26When Miley didn't get her own way, she went straight over to the girls and she ruined their game.
07:34Miley, that's usually what you pick out every single day.
07:36So Dad put her on his version of the naughty chair.
07:41Look at me.
07:42You're gonna sit here for two minutes because you flipped the board over, okay?
07:46Okay.
07:49I've seen some of your techniques.
07:50I don't know if I'm doing it right.
07:54That naughty bench I saw?
07:55That's not my technique.
08:00But I mean, it's like, what should I do?
08:01Handcuffer this chair?
08:02You know who's cheap in this house?
08:04And it ain't Mom and Dad.
08:06Did you just spit?
08:08Beak, I'm getting your black outfit.
08:11If you're not gonna sit in that chair, that outfit's mine.
08:14The black outfit is Miley's favorite outfit.
08:16She loves to wear it at all times.
08:19Go get in your time-out chair or these are gone.
08:24So what's gonna happen now?
08:25I mean...
08:26We're probably gonna go eat some lunch and she'll probably come on down and eat some lunch.
08:30I don't know.
08:31Then we'll...
08:32I don't know, you know what I mean?
08:33I don't know.
08:34If you don't know, I certainly don't know.
08:35That's for sure.
08:38After lunch, it was time for Mom to go to the market with the girls.
08:44So she decided to get them ready.
08:46Again.
08:48Go, go, go!
08:50Me!
08:51Go, go!
08:52You girls good apples or bad apples?
08:54You are bad apples.
08:56Good night.
08:57I'm gonna chew you up and spit you out.
09:00You're gonna chew me up and spit me out?
09:02It's kinda nice.
09:03So girls, come on, let's get our shoes on.
09:05These girls cause havoc.
09:09Okay, Miley.
09:11They shout, they fight with one another, and they constantly take their seat belts off.
09:19Taking the kids to the grocery store, it's embarrassing because I don't like having other people stare at us.
09:26Miley, get in the stroller.
09:29Yes.
09:30We're not having baby food for supper, so pick another thing.
09:33Their behavior in public was a disaster.
09:36Mom's embarrassed because of the way the children behave.
09:40Nope, we're not having candy.
09:42I just like people to think that we got it all together, but we don't.
09:50When we got back from the store, Tammy started frantically cleaning the house, but it was already clean.
10:00I'm a perfectionist.
10:02My blood boils when my kids walk over my vacuum tracks.
10:05It does.
10:06It just makes me crazy when I don't see vacuum tracks in my carpet.
10:09That's the way I am.
10:11When Mom was making sure that the house was spotless, I had a chance to pull Dad aside and have a chat.
10:18For you, what really seems to be a major issue in your house where you become very frustrated?
10:25Um, my wife just loves to clean, and I like it that she keeps a very clean house.
10:32But it'd be kind of nice to sometimes have a little in-between time,
10:36because a lot of times we clean for two, three hours, and we go to sleep in the middle of the night,
10:41and wake up and do it all over again.
10:43So you miss that time?
10:44Absolutely.
10:48The one thing that Sean feels very emotional about is his wife.
10:52I mean, I love my kids so much, and I love to spend so much time with them.
10:57But I guess when I decided to, excuse me, I guess when I decided to have children,
11:08I didn't want to completely sacrifice all my time with my wife either.
11:13I mean, I know we love each other, but I got out of the Navy for my wife.
11:20I just want, you know, I mean, she's a great mother, great career woman.
11:35She's gorgeous, but I just need her time.
11:40So let me hug you.
11:41Give me a hug.
11:42We'll get to the bottom of this, all right?
11:44I've got a father at the moment who is deeply grateful for the family that he has,
11:50and he absolutely adores his wife, and he's missing her.
11:57I've had more than enough time to observe, so why don't we sit down and have a family meeting?
12:01All right?
12:02I'm nervous about what Joe's about to tell us,
12:05because I've been told a million times before that I just need to chill out, relax,
12:09and I just, I have a really big feeling that that's what Joe is going to rip me apart.
12:13I want to say that your four children, they are absolutely gorgeous.
12:20Miley is a very bright girl.
12:24I love how she's opinionated, how she has this strong will.
12:29But you guys are mixing that up with power and control
12:39and allowing Miley to be able to have that full reign.
12:44She's four years old.
12:47She's just so hard to fight with.
12:49Lots of times I just give in just to let her have her way so that everybody else can have a better date.
12:55But the whole house is upset because you're letting her have her own way.
12:59We've conceded defeat. We've waved the white flag.
13:02I don't, I mean, that's what I feel like sometimes.
13:04I feel like whatever we do, it doesn't work.
13:06But you guys don't step up as parents.
13:10Which moves me on to the next point.
13:12Discipline.
13:13Do you tolerate behaviour that is beyond me?
13:17What is going on with the morning routine?
13:20It took you over three hours to get the girls ready.
13:25Unbelievable!
13:27Yeah, I just, I'm, I like everything to be perfect.
13:31Now let's talk about your perfection.
13:34What is perfect?
13:35What's enough?
13:36Your perfection is having your daughters look like dollies.
13:45And having to clean and keep it perfect.
13:52Keeps you up to what time in the morning, Tammy?
13:55I don't know.
13:57Sometimes till two o'clock in the morning.
13:59Two o'clock in the morning.
14:01So where's time for you and Sean?
14:05I miss you.
14:07I hope you don't feel pressure for me to keep everything so perfect.
14:12It's gonna be pretty hard to change me.
14:14But I'm willing to try.
14:16It upset me when Joe was starting to criticise me about how perfect my house is.
14:21Because that's just the way I am.
14:22Are you prepared to put the hard work in and change this around for the better for your family?
14:28Yeah.
14:29Yeah.
14:30Alright, let's get working.
14:31Coming up on Supernet.
14:33Up and get, up and get.
14:34Decisive.
14:35Miley won't take the naughty chair sitting down.
14:40And Joe sorts out mom's issue with the girls clothes.
14:44I'm worried we're gonna run out of garbage bags.
14:46When Supernanny returns.
14:49But first, a tip from Supernanny.
14:51Parents, if you're travelling in the car and your children are starting to fight, do not try and discipline them through your rear view mirror.
15:00Stop the car.
15:01Turn around.
15:02Give your children a warning and use direct eye contact.
15:07The first thing I do when I walk into a household is to place a family routine into the home so that it brings structure and organisation to the family.
15:24Hello.
15:25Hello.
15:26I'm over here because I've got something very exciting to show you.
15:33Okay.
15:34A family routine because you guys need structure.
15:37At 6 o'clock, mum and dad up.
15:40Up.
15:416.30.
15:42Hayley up and dressed.
15:44Breakfast and ready for school.
15:48Then from 8 to 8.30, the girls up and dressed by themselves.
15:54Okay.
15:55And 8 o'clock, I've underlined here, all night mum and dad.
16:00Okay, this is your evening together.
16:03It wouldn't do you any harm to get out on one of those evenings as well and get a babysitter in.
16:09Okay?
16:12It's so important to be able to have praise and reward in your household as well as discipline.
16:19So I introduced a reward scheme for the girls and they were flower pots.
16:25Girls, look what I've got here.
16:28Three flower pots.
16:31And these are your flowers.
16:33Okay, so girls, you'll be rewarded with a flower stem when mummy and daddy feel that you deserve it.
16:41When they've reached 10, they're then given a reward by the pair of you.
16:47Equally, if they misbehave, then they'll lose one of their flowers.
16:52So today we'll start it, alright?
16:54I think someone's getting started already.
16:57I really like the flower pots that Joe put in.
17:00I mean, we weren't even really done explaining it and Haley was grabbing the laundry going up the stairs.
17:05So I'm excited about it because the kids are excited about it.
17:09We're going to place the pots right at the back there so they can see them.
17:12I thought to myself, hello Tammy, you're supposed to be this perfect mom, this perfect girl.
17:17Why didn't you think about that years ago?
17:19Good job, Haley.
17:20Here's number one, you put a flower in your pot, okay?
17:23Hi, daddy.
17:24No, we're going to eat supper now. Go play with daddy for one more minute.
17:32Okay, mum, let's go in with a warning, alright?
17:34Miley, if you don't go in there with daddy, we're going to have to sit on the naughty chair, so let's go with daddy.
17:39Okay, let her make that decision, mum.
17:41Miley wanted something to eat and mum was cooking dinner and told Miley that she would have to wait.
17:47Miley didn't want to listen.
17:49Surprise, surprise.
17:51And she ended up on the naughty bench.
17:53Oh, now they're on the bench.
17:55Up again, up again. Decisive, mum.
17:57She wasn't having none of it, so she got up.
18:00Pass her over to mum.
18:02She can tell you after her time.
18:04She can tell you after her time.
18:11It went on for a while and I was like, oh my god, is this kid ever going to quit?
18:14It could go on all night.
18:25Okay, it's alright.
18:27Okay.
18:29But then Miley stood there.
18:31Mum was absolutely shocked.
18:33She couldn't believe that Miley had got it and recognised there was no point in even getting up anymore
18:39because mum was going to place her back on that naughty bench.
18:42You say sorry, mummy.
18:44You say sorry, mummy.
18:49Because Tammy has had so much trouble with getting the girls dressed in the morning,
18:54I wanted to introduce a technique to her.
18:57What we're going to do is the sort and separate technique.
19:01You girls are going to sort out your clothes and they're going to have their clothes in each drawer.
19:07I was mad at first. I was just like, my kids' clothes are a big issue with me.
19:11And I sat there, I listened.
19:14I thought to myself in the back of my mind, am I ever going to be able to do this?
19:17Should we get started?
19:18We've got clothes everywhere.
19:20This is going to be embarrassing. They have a lot of clothes, guys.
19:22Let's pack up some stuff.
19:24Honey, why don't you go get a garbage bag or something?
19:26Because none of these...
19:27Yeah, get a garbage bag.
19:30I'm worried we're going to run out of any garbage bags.
19:32No one really messes with my wife's closets or her kids' clothes, so...
19:36I knew my wife's blood was boiling underneath.
19:38Oh no, please don't go in there.
19:40I didn't like it at all. I mean, I didn't.
19:42This is a major issue for you.
19:44I was thinking to myself, what does it matter what's in their closet, you know?
19:48We're going to be here till next year.
19:49No, we're going to get this done. Let's be optimistic.
19:52I want you to have casual on one side, formal on the other, okay?
19:58I do feel that she's going to struggle with letting go of some of this control.
20:02We're going to get all the clothes that are existing now, and place them on one bed.
20:08What I want you to do is to separate them.
20:10That was Miley's, Malia.
20:11We're going to bring the girls up, and we're going to say to them,
20:15right, we want you to put your clothes into your drawer.
20:19You guys are each going to have two drawers that have your name on them.
20:23Whose name is this right here?
20:25Beakers.
20:26Beakers.
20:27Who's is on the bottom?
20:29Malia's.
20:30Malia's.
20:31What I want you girls to do is I want you to put all your clothes in your drawers.
20:35In your drawer?
20:39Oh.
20:42This is fun, huh?
20:44These are my drawers.
20:45Well done.
20:46Hey, Beakers.
20:48I'm so excited.
20:50Malia.
20:51Good job, Malia.
20:52Well done, Malia.
20:54And you too?
20:55Yep.
20:56I like to see my kids get really excited that they had their own drawers,
20:59and it really excited me, and it makes me really happy.
21:03Wow.
21:04Look at you girls.
21:06Fantastic.
21:09Oh, I'm done.
21:10Good.
21:11Coming up on Supernanny.
21:13Now what we're going to do is play a game called Car Bingo.
21:16Look it up.
21:17When it comes to behaving in the car.
21:18I see something out my window.
21:20Joe spells it out for the girls.
21:21See how mummy's playing the game too.
21:23You're not a kid.
21:25I'm not a kid.
21:27When Supernanny returns.
21:29But first, a tip from Supernanny.
21:31Parents, are you feeling totally overwhelmed by your children's clothes?
21:36If so, get busy.
21:38Start separating the old from the new.
21:41Give them to your friends.
21:42Or better yet, donate them.
21:44Right and early in the morning, I arrived to help Tammy get the girls dressed.
21:56Morning.
21:57Good morning.
21:59Fresh morning today, mum.
22:01Mm-hmm.
22:02I noticed that a big problem in the morning was that mum chose the girls' clothes,
22:06and I didn't like that.
22:07So, I'm introducing the A and B technique, where mum will pick out two outfits for the girls,
22:13and they will choose which one they're going to wear for the day.
22:15So, Tammy still gets the level of control, but the girls get to feel like they choose their outfits too.
22:21This is outfit A.
22:22This is your B shirt, honey.
22:23Okay, let's get out the jeans that you wanted them to wear.
22:26Malia, this is your B, okay?
22:28Say to Miley, these are your choices.
22:30Miley, these are your choices.
22:31This is A, and this is B.
22:34Malia, this is your A, and this is your B.
22:37Which one would you like to wear today?
22:39And the girls hid.
22:41They hid underneath the covers.
22:43They weren't having anything to do with this.
22:45Okay, so Miley now needs to make a choice.
22:48So, if you can tell her that you wanted to make a choice out of...
22:51Miley, you need to make a choice out of A or B.
22:54I want A or B.
22:57But Miley didn't put up a fight for too long, and sooner or later she complied.
23:02Miley started to get herself dressed for the first time all by herself.
23:09Good job. You are so big, Miley.
23:11You can do it.
23:12Miley really surprised me.
23:13I didn't think she'd ever, you know, quit the fight.
23:16I was completely, completely amazed.
23:19So, together, you guys are a team, right?
23:22Right, together, are you going to deal with this?
23:25It's your choice if you get dressed or if you take a time out.
23:29You need to get dressed by yourself.
23:32Miley was a little bit hesitant, but when she saw Miley get herself dressed, she soon did the same.
23:38Wow!
23:40It was a really good morning today.
23:42The children ultimately got themselves dressed and have moved on to breakfast.
23:47I'm incredibly happy for Tammy and Sean because they've managed to pull off together this morning routine.
23:55Thanks for dressing yourself today.
23:57Yeah!
23:58Alright!
24:03Okay, shopping technique so that the supermarket trip isn't a nightmare.
24:08Miley, get in the stroll.
24:10Yes!
24:12So, the next thing I did was to introduce the shopping technique.
24:15So, each board has their own magnetised food.
24:20What this would do would help mum to get the children involved in helping her shop so that they're not running around the supermarket.
24:30What does your one say?
24:31Oh, your one says bread.
24:32Okay, let's go and get some bread then.
24:34And when they've got the bread, they mark it off.
24:37Before we go shopping, we need to talk about how we get there.
24:41Now, how do we get to the supermarket?
24:43A car.
24:44A car, exactly.
24:45So, follow me into the living room here.
24:47I wanted to pretend play with the girls to show them what would happen once we were in the car.
24:52What we're going to do is pretend that we're in the car.
24:56Actually, mummy doesn't have a steering wheel.
24:59A steering wheel.
25:02Okay.
25:03Let's put our seat belts on.
25:05Ready?
25:06The girls get really rowdy in the car.
25:10You stop at you.
25:12No, you stop.
25:13So, I wanted to show mum one way of how she could keep the girls engaged.
25:18Now, what we're going to do is play a game called Car Bingo.
25:20Car Bingo is a great game to keep children entertained whilst on the road.
25:25What you're going to do is use those big, beautiful eyes and look out the window
25:31and see if you can find what's on your car bingo mat.
25:36Well, it didn't take long.
25:38The girls wanted to get their coats.
25:39They wanted to put their shoes on.
25:41And they were ready to start going out.
25:44Oh, Maria!
25:45We're lucky.
25:46Well done, baby.
25:47Bingo, you see trees?
25:49I see something out my window.
25:51Look at all.
25:52What?
25:53Right there.
25:55This?
25:56The car ride and the bingo game went great.
25:58I was excited that the kids were getting excited about what they saw outside and it worked awesome.
26:03I see a school bus.
26:04I see a school bus.
26:05Does anybody see a school bus?
26:06No!
26:07You're not a kid!
26:08I know.
26:09I'm not a kid.
26:12I'm a winner.
26:13The car journey was a success and mum was ready to put the shopping technique into practice.
26:20Where could we find potatoes?
26:22Tammy gave the girls their shopping boards and off they went into the supermarket.
26:27Good job, Hayley.
26:29Malia, do you see macaroni?
26:31Good job, Miley.
26:32Is this the same family?
26:34You guys are doing so good.
26:35You guys are my big helpers.
26:37Put it in the cart.
26:38Mark it off your list.
26:39Mum was encouraging them and the children were happy to be helping her and getting involved
26:46in getting the shopping done.
26:48Look at mum.
26:49Of all the girls, they're all helping her.
26:51Absolute success.
26:52It went so smooth.
26:53Like I was proud to have my kids in the grocery store for once.
26:58Give mummy a big hug.
26:59When we got that from the store, mum knew that the girls had behaved incredibly well and that
27:08they deserved a flower.
27:09Okay, here Miley, here's yours.
27:11Here's Malia's.
27:12And here's Hayley's.
27:13That's for being, for good behavior girls.
27:16That's for good behavior at the grocery store girls.
27:19Mommy and daddy are so proud of you.
27:21The flower pots that Joe gave the girls is working out really well.
27:24How many do we need to get ladies?
27:25Ten.
27:26Ten.
27:27And then what happens?
27:28One.
27:29That's a treat.
27:30They're always asking if they're going to get a flower and what their special surprise
27:33is going to be.
27:34And they're really trying to be good.
27:38Listen girls, I'm going to go now.
27:40So I want big hugs and kisses, please.
27:43Big hugs and kisses.
27:45Kiss, kiss, kiss.
27:46Miley.
27:47Mwah.
27:48Listen, I want to see you girls have lots of flowers in your pots when I return, okay?
27:54Leighton.
27:55Kiss, kiss, kiss, kiss.
27:57Hi.
27:58Shawn and Tammy.
27:59I'm going to leave you guys with some homework.
28:02Get yourselves out for the night.
28:04I want to see you guys have some fun.
28:07So babysitter in and a night on the town for the pair of you.
28:10I'm very nervous about how well I can follow through with her techniques.
28:14I just hope that I don't let my kids overpower me once again.
28:18Bye.
28:19Bye, thank you.
28:22I'm going to be gone for a while, but I really do hope that Tammy and Shawn can pull together.
28:26Otherwise, the girls are going to continue to run this house.
28:31Coming up on Supernanny, the fashion police pull dad over.
28:36It does not match at all.
28:37How about green?
28:38No.
28:39Is there something wrong with these eight white shirts?
28:42And Hailey's rules are ignored.
28:44You're going on that timeout chair for six minutes.
28:46I'm telling her the rules.
28:48When Supernanny returns.
28:49If your family needs Supernanny's help, apply online at www.abc.com.
29:01The Kylan family are on their own now, so let's just see how they get on.
29:16Looks like dad's alone with the girls tonight.
29:18Girls, anyone want to help dad pick up or do you want to play?
29:20I have to play it.
29:23No, I play it.
29:25No, I play it.
29:26I play it.
29:27Sean, get in there and break this up.
29:30What's going on?
29:31Listen.
29:32If you girls want to help dad clean up in the kitchen, there might be a flower in it for you.
29:38There will be a flower if you want to help me clean up on it.
29:41Sean, the flowers are not for bribing.
29:42They're for noticing good behavior.
29:44Malia will play with you.
29:48That looks like a tough one.
29:50That's nice.
29:51Tammy playing the game with the girls.
29:55I'm trying to move it.
29:57No, this behavior is unacceptable.
29:59Give me it.
30:00It's my turn.
30:01Come on, Tammy.
30:02She was just trying to play by the rules.
30:04If you tell your sister how to play the game again, you're going on that timeout chair for six minutes.
30:09I'm telling her the rules.
30:11I said I don't care what the rules are.
30:13Give me the money.
30:14Give me my money.
30:15You're going to the timeout chair for six minutes.
30:17I don't care.
30:18Walk.
30:19Help.
30:20Help.
30:21Help.
30:22She didn't deserve the naughty bench for that one.
30:28Why don't you get them dressed?
30:30It's time to get the girls dressed.
30:32Let's just see how flexible Tammy is.
30:34I'm picking out these pants.
30:35It's going to be one pile.
30:36Okay, Sean.
30:37She doesn't have a shirt to match it yet.
30:38Well, I'm picking it out.
30:40Is that mine?
30:42Absolutely not wearing a cheerleader shirt with army pants.
30:46Let me look through the drawers, all right?
30:47Mom, loosen up.
30:49This is just a casual day for the girls.
30:52It does not match at all.
30:54How about green?
30:55No.
30:56All right.
30:57Okay, is there something wrong with these eight white shirts?
31:00Can I just say something there?
31:01Did you wake up this morning and think, oh gosh, I'm going to pick out something for myself that doesn't match?
31:05Tammy, Sean, this is not what we talked about.
31:08If you don't think, okay, I used to be like right here, okay?
31:12I think it's huge for me to have the kids pick A and B. It used to be, this is what you're wearing, this is what mommy says, bottom line.
31:20It doesn't matter what you're wearing, it matters who you are.
31:24It does, honey.
31:25That's so good.
31:26You know, Hayley's right, mom.
31:28You need to chill out more.
31:30I'm on my way back.
31:38Hello.
31:39Hi.
31:40Hi.
31:41How are you both?
31:42Great, thanks.
31:43The DVD is very helpful for the parents because they get to see the mistakes they've made and then how we are going to fix it.
31:49So, here goes.
31:50I had a pair.
31:54If you girls want to help dad, if you girls want to help dad clean up in the kitchen, there might be a flower in it for you.
32:00Girl, someone didn't want to do the kitchen that night.
32:04You went in to diverting the children rather than dealing with the issue that the pair of them were having with that game.
32:11and what you ultimately did was bribe them.
32:13Which every parent's done,
32:15but this is about rewarding the children for behaviour
32:19that you naturally see all they do.
32:21Otherwise, they're going to be soon coming up to you
32:23negotiating bigger rewards.
32:26All right, so just be very aware of that, Sean.
32:28Otherwise, you're going to be in big trouble with these girls.
32:31I'm trying to move it.
32:32Hey, you, tell your sister how to play the game again.
32:36You're going on that time-out chair for six minutes.
32:37I'm going over the wall.
32:41So if we're going to play the same game together
32:44and the girls, the twin girls, are not old enough
32:49to be able to understand,
32:51then as the parent, whoever is playing with the girls,
32:55needs to be able to step in
32:56and make sure that you keep that order
32:58so that we're not unnecessarily placing any child
33:02into a naughty bench technique
33:06when we could just be discussing and resolving here.
33:10All right.
33:11This.
33:13It does not match at all.
33:14How about green?
33:16No.
33:16All right.
33:18Is there something wrong with these eight white shirts?
33:20What are you two doing?
33:25I got frustrated with Sean because he was picking out stuff that didn't match
33:30in, I think he wanted to see how far I would go with giving up this whole clothes thing.
33:36Recognize the fact that Tammy has worked very hard
33:40to be able to put those children in different outfits,
33:44but it's casual and it's formal.
33:46And if actually they're just going out on their bikes,
33:48at the end of the day, does it really matter?
33:51No.
33:53It kind of came back on me that if they're just going outside,
33:57why do they have to match?
33:58And that's going to be something that I have to get over.
34:02I can't say that I'm over it now.
34:06Okay, so let's continue with some good work.
34:09Coming up on Super Nanny,
34:11the twins reveal their fall line.
34:14I'm going to get yelled at if I pick this one.
34:17And there's a spy among the family.
34:19I know what it is.
34:21No!
34:22When Super Nanny returns.
34:24All right, this is what we're going to do.
34:34Tammy was still very highly strung
34:36when it comes to picking the children's outfits,
34:38so I wanted her to loosen up a little bit and have some fun.
34:41Daddy and I are putting on a fashion show.
34:47Mum was very apprehensive about this fashion show.
34:52We ready?
34:53Fashion show.
34:54Okay, let's go then, girls.
34:55Sure.
34:56Mum, we'll be down in a minute.
34:58Okay.
34:59So we all went upstairs
35:00and Sean started to pick out some clothes for the girls
35:04and so did I.
35:06Malia, let's choose an outfit for Malia.
35:12I don't want to get yelled at if I pick this one.
35:18Size four.
35:21Look at you, good job.
35:24Look at what I'm wearing.
35:25I'm wearing a hat.
35:25I'm wearing a hat.
35:26I don't want to get yelled at if I pick other clothes
35:26in there.
35:27Where do I get that?
35:30How do I go?
35:30Looks like it's my outfit.
35:32Look at my outfit.
35:33Presenting Miley and Malia.
35:35Miley and Malia.
35:40Okay.
35:41Hi, girls. You look beautiful.
35:43What do you think of the outfits?
35:45I love Malia's.
35:47And what's Miley's?
35:49Um, we're gonna stay inside all day.
35:52No, I don't know. It's casual but not matching.
35:56Clothes are such an important issue for Tammy
36:00that I wanted her to see the bigger picture of all of this.
36:03It's really about what's pleasing to your eye.
36:06But recognize for the kids.
36:08It doesn't matter to them.
36:09It's about them playing and having fun.
36:11And sooner or later, they're gonna have their own opinions
36:15as teenagers about what they want to wear.
36:18So just have fun with it.
36:24I introduced a new game to Tammy to play with the girls
36:27so that she could learn how to deal with Hayley's frustration.
36:30We're gonna play I Spy.
36:32Mummy is going to call I Spy
36:35so they could all play together nicely.
36:38I spy with my little eye something pink.
36:43Is it the carpet?
36:45It's the carpet.
36:46Oh, yeah.
36:47As predicted, Hayley was answering all the questions
36:49before our sisters.
36:50Yep.
36:51So I let it be Miley's turn first
36:53just to see how Hayley would react.
36:55Now it's Miley's turn.
36:56I spy with my little eye something orange.
37:01No.
37:02No.
37:03What about look over there?
37:04Hayley?
37:05Mommy said shh.
37:06I know what it is.
37:07No!
37:08Don't!
37:09If you know what it is.
37:10Don't yell, I don't want you to yell.
37:12Mom did a lot better with Hayley.
37:22Instead of losing her temper, she explained how she needed to have more patience.
37:27What you were doing, I want you to continue.
37:30Jo was really right when she showed me at a different angle how to handle the situation
37:34so I don't start yelling out of frustration.
37:39Tell JoJo to take a knee.
37:41Take a knee.
37:42Close your eyes.
37:45Put your hands out.
37:47And Jo.
37:48When we meet people, we ask our kids, do you think they're a good apple or a bad apple?
37:51And right away, they were kind of giving Jo a hard time calling her a bad apple.
37:54A good apple.
37:59By the time Jo left, all three girls realized that she was a really good apple and they wanted
38:03to give her an apple so that every time she thought of an apple, she'd think of them
38:08because she turned them into really good girls.
38:12I am very proud of each one of you for all those flowers in those pots.
38:19I want to see lots of flowers all the time.
38:23All right?
38:24And you getting your rewards.
38:26I'm now going to say goodbye to mommy and daddy.
38:28You really are blessed to have such beautiful children.
38:32Keep up the hard work.
38:33You guys really worked hard.
38:36Keep with that routine.
38:37Give lots of praise.
38:39Use those flower pots for rewards.
38:41But at the same time, don't feel bad parents because you implement discipline.
38:46Your children need that from you.
38:47Give me a big hug.
38:49I don't think I was ready for her to leave at all.
38:51Or Sean.
38:52I don't think any of us were.
38:53It'll be hard without her.
38:54She was such a good sense of encouragement to all of us when we were going through all
38:58of this.
38:59There's you crying and setting me off.
39:00Come here.
39:01Give me a hug, you.
39:02Thanks very much.
39:03Thanks for coming.
39:04You're more than welcome.
39:05More than welcome.
39:06Keep talking.
39:08Keep talking.
39:09Take care.
39:10Bye.
39:12Bye.
39:14Bye.
39:15Thank you, Jill.
39:16Bye.
39:17Take care.
39:18Bye.
39:20We're on our own now, baby.
39:21I think the Kylan family have recognized that as a family, what's important is that they're
39:25all happy.
39:26And with their hard work and with everybody contributing, there's no reason why they can't continue to be
39:31happy and contented.
39:32I think if one thing's changed the most, it's been Tammy.
39:34Which ones would you like to pick?
39:35They're picking out their clothes.
39:36It's been so easy getting the kids dressed.
39:37They're doing it themselves.
39:38Sean and I being able to have our mornings back, I've really seen change in me and Sean
39:40and all the kids.
39:41And it's only for the better.
39:42Let's hear it for Dad.
39:43Hip hip.
39:44Daddy.
39:45Hip hip.
39:46Yes.
39:47Who loves you?
39:48Mama.
39:49This whole process brought Sean and I closer together.
39:50I want to have time with my wife.
39:51I love my wife.
39:52I've realized that it doesn't take long for me to be very open.
39:53What's the most key to the most?
39:54It's been Tammy.
39:55Which ones would you like to pick?
39:56One of them picking out their clothes.
39:57It's been so easy getting the kids dressed.
39:58They're doing it themselves.
39:59Hip hip!
40:00Yes!
40:01Who loves you?
40:02Mama.
40:03This whole process brought Sean and I closer together.
40:06I want to have time with my wife.
40:08I love my wife.
40:09I've realized that it doesn't take long for me to see the woman that I fell in love with
40:13and how great of a woman she is.
40:16Crown.
40:17Crown?
40:18I think the kids are happier.
40:21Like the little things that they do for one another and wait and take turns and just
40:26play together as friends.
40:27The household seems so much more laid back, easy going.
40:31The expectations seem more reasonable.
40:34By you coming here, Maid Haley, tell me, Mommy, it doesn't matter what you look like.
40:40It's about who you are.
40:41Pull those horns.
40:42This is how you steer, guys, right here.
40:43You want to go left?
40:44You're twisting to the left.
40:45I just want to thank you, Joe, for coming to my house and helping myself and my family.
40:50I'm truly grateful for that.
40:52Joe, Joe, you're a good apple.
40:55Please, love, happiness.
41:00Joe, I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping Sean and I bring
41:05out the absolute best in all four of our kids.
41:08Kids, scream all you want.
41:19I can't hear a word you're saying.
41:21You guys ready to start?
41:22Yeah.
41:23Yep.
41:24Go ahead and start.
41:25Best invention you can make right here.
41:27Dad's going to play I'm a Big Elk.
41:29And I'm going to get these naughty little girls.
41:30Come here.
41:31It's just you and I, Glee.
41:32What are you going to do?
41:33I'm going to escape you.
41:34Heavy?
41:35No.
41:36Okay.
41:37Yee-haw!
41:38Yee-haw!
41:39I'm going to escape you!
41:40Heavy?
41:41No.
41:42Okay.
41:43Yee-haw!
41:44OH!
41:45Yee-haw!
41:46I'm going to escape you!
41:47Heavy?
41:48Oh.
41:49Oh, Okay.
41:51Yee-haw!
41:53We'll see you next time.
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