00:00All right. Justin is very animated. It sounds like he sounds like he's definitely thought this through and he is very confused that he has not heard back from his date from Caitlin because he said there was definitely some kissing going on.
00:10Well, they were kissing. They were they were flirting with each other, holding hands, you know, that kind of stuff.
00:16He said that the date was great and they were communicating afterwards, talking about going out again.
00:21And now all of a sudden she's just blown him off. And I asked him, what what did you do?
00:25And he goes, I didn't do anything. I don't know what's going on.
00:27Yeah, the answers started to be one word answers in their text post date.
00:31So we're going to try to help him out. Let's see if we can call Caitlin right now and get her on the phone.
00:51Hello. Hey, this is Caitlin. Yeah.
00:54Hey, Caitlin. Good morning to you. Hope you're having a great start to your morning.
00:57This is actually J.R., Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK. How are you doing?
01:03Hey, how are you doing? Good morning.
01:05Good. Good. Hey, listen, sorry to bother you this morning.
01:08I want to see if it would be OK to talk to you on the air for a minute, actually, about a date you went on.
01:14Would that be all right? I know that's random.
01:17It is very random. I guess so. Just tell me what's up.
01:21All right. Well, I appreciate that. We want to ask you about Justin.
01:24We heard you guys have been on a couple of dates, the last one being at El Cap.
01:29He did tell us that you guys have kissed and that went well.
01:33And you guys also have talked since that last date.
01:36But then things kind of became like a one word answer from you and you've kind of shied away.
01:41So he's trying to figure out, hey, listen, after this kind of romantic date and talking and having a good time, what happened?
01:48So we were wondering if we could get some answers from you.
01:52OK. It's a little weird that he called you, but that's OK.
01:56Well, OK, so we've been on some dates and Valentine's Day is coming up.
02:02He has not mentioned a word about it.
02:05Don't even know if we have plans. Not really sure what's going on there.
02:09Yeah, but it's in like two weeks.
02:11Yeah, we kind of need to make a plan. I'm a planner.
02:14Yeah, you are a planner. And I'm not saying that he needs to make a plan right now.
02:18But if we do remember Lana's Valentine's Day last year when you did try to plan, Lana, what time did you have dinner?
02:25Four o'clock we had dinner.
02:26Yeah. Bingo night, 4 p.m.
02:30No, I'm sorry. Not about her, about you.
02:32Caitlin, I understand you're a planner, but, you know, you've only been on a couple of dates.
02:36Is that something that you wanted you really wanted to do?
02:38Like you guys that kind of committed. That's kind of a serious date.
02:42Like Valentine's Day.
02:43Well, I know, but it's going really well, first of all.
02:47It's very clear that we're into each other.
02:49And the thing is that Valentine's Day falls during the week.
02:52So I need to make advanced plans.
02:54Well, maybe he has plans and hasn't told you about them.
02:56Yeah.
02:58Well, he needs to tell me about them because I could be making other plans.
03:01Wait, you are going out and dating other guys?
03:04No, but, like, you know, if he's not going to ask me out for Valentine's Day, then maybe I'm going to go out with my friends.
03:09Like, all my girlfriends have plans for Valentine's Day.
03:11I might have plans.
03:12Well, here's the good news.
03:15We actually have Justin on the phone.
03:17And you can ask him if he's going to make plans for Valentine's Day, then, with you.
03:23Hey, Justin.
03:24Yeah.
03:25Justin, you heard what she had to say.
03:27I mean, I'll just let you respond to her.
03:30I mean, I just, you couldn't be direct.
03:32You couldn't just say that straight up.
03:34I mean, it sounds like you like me.
03:37I think I had to.
03:38You know, you're a gentleman.
03:40I'm the lady.
03:41I shouldn't have to bring it up first.
03:43Oh, so, okay.
03:44So we have to adhere to these social constructs that were made a billion years ago.
03:50I mean, Justin, like, real quick, are you open to hanging out on Valentine's Day, or is that too much for you?
03:54I just, I guess I should ask that question.
03:56You know, I was.
03:57Like, I kind of thought it would have been nice to go to a movie or something, but it seems like it's a whole thing now.
04:05I'm not into things.
04:06It's not a whole thing.
04:07It's just, that's all you have to do.
04:08That's all you have to do is just tell me, like, hey, reserve the date, and I'm taking you out.
04:13Like, it's a holiday.
04:15We need to be noticed for these things.
04:17I'm not saying why this is on me.
04:19This is, this sounds like you're the man.
04:23The man?
04:24I'm not, whoa, okay, this is, I, I just, I didn't see this part of you last time.
04:31Like, I'm just expecting courtesy.
04:34Like, this is how a gentleman behaves.
04:37I shouldn't have to teach you.
04:39Expecting courtesy?
04:41I just, I, is this the 50s?
04:43Are, are we going steady?
04:45I, I, what is this?
04:48This is about thoughtfulness and genuine, like, chivalry.
04:52It's not, it's like, you know, it's the little things like opening a door and thinking ahead and making plans.
04:58And when there's a big holiday coming up and it happens to be a romantic holiday, and I think that our relationship is pretty romantic.
05:05We've moved pretty quickly.
05:07I take that to heart.
05:08Like, I thought you were a lot cooler than the way you're acting right now.
05:13I really thought you were, uh, not that type of person.
05:15What do you mean by cool?
05:17Like, it's cool to just, like, have no needs and pretend, like, and just, like, not be treated, you know, I mean.
05:23Having, having needs is fine, but you, you need to communicate that.
05:27And you just kind of expected it.
05:29You expected me to just know what you were thinking.
05:32Yeah, I expected it.
05:32You were, like, you weren't saying anything because you were expecting it.
05:35You were the man, like, I just kind of expected a little bit of effort.
05:40But, Kayla, don't you think just because you, you guys have only been on two dates, don't you think, you know, for boyfriends and all that,
05:45that might be a little different than just someone who's been on two dates?
05:47I mean.
05:48Yeah, but, like, we knew, like, right away.
05:51It was, like, one of those love at first sight situations.
05:53Like, we've talked about it.
05:55Hey, uh, Justin, was it love at first sight?
05:58Yeah, I felt something.
05:59I felt something really strong.
06:01But after this, like, hey, you want your advance notice?
06:03Just, we're not going to hang out.
06:06That's seriously a deal breaker for you, dude?
06:08A hundred percent.
06:10Even after everything you talked about?
06:12Oh, absolutely.
06:13Wow.
06:14All right.
06:15Well, Justin, you were wondering why Caitlin dropped off the planet.
06:18That's why.
06:19It sounds like you have made a decision for us and for her.
06:22You do not want to go back out.
06:24I'm sorry it's not going to work out.
06:25But I would kind of agree with both of you that you probably shouldn't hang out anymore.
06:29You guys are a lot of differences.
06:31We'll just put it that way.
06:32So, Justin, thanks for reaching out.
06:34Caitlin, thanks for your time.
06:35Wow.
06:36I wish you both luck and a very happy Valentine's Day.
06:38Oh, my goodness.
06:39Thank you, guys.
06:40I regret nothing.
06:41All right.
06:42Sorry, guys.
06:43I mean, I thought I kind of backed him up.
06:46And then all of a sudden, I felt like he was a lot.
06:48They both were a lot.
06:49Yeah, I think he was going to be screwed either way.
06:52It doesn't look like he was going to do the right thing to make her happy.
06:56She would have found something wrong with it.
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