00:00 My name is Kirk. And my name is Rebecca. I live in New York City. We live in Connecticut. We had a
00:04 video go viral on Instagram about how we're doing our relationship. We met through church. You know,
00:12 I live in Connecticut and our church is in Brooklyn in New York, which is about an hour.
00:17 Like now it's an hour and 20 minutes, but it was like about an hour away. But I went anyway. And
00:22 then, and then yeah, one Sunday, I just saw Rebecca in a different way. And I was just like,
00:28 not like we hadn't talked before. I mean, we've done like creative projects and stuff before.
00:32 I mean, I just asked her out. And luckily, she said, Yeah, but now we're here a year,
00:37 a year later, a year or so later, almost. We decided not to like make out until marriage.
00:44 We still may do a little peck. And but we don't make out. We decided not to like sleep together,
00:50 obviously, into marriage. And then he he lives right now he was an hour and a half away. Yeah.
00:55 Um, he's a drive from infant into the city. And he like he doesn't sleep over. He goes back.
01:01 I told Rebecca early on, like, I really want this to work out. So I want to honor you in the way
01:06 that we do this relationship. And I don't want to like, I don't want you to think that I'm like,
01:10 just after your body. I actually told her I was like, Look, I don't even want to kiss you until
01:15 we get married. Which is what I told her. We were just like, yeah, like, actually,
01:19 we can hold some boundaries and respect and honor each other. In that way. It's definitely hard. But
01:25 the hard things are worth it. Like there's just a deeper trust that we have for each other.
01:30 And actually to the cool thing is to a lot of people see that and they're like, man, I really
01:33 want like I want that. I think on the other hand, though, it's also maybe like pushing us to like
01:38 get married quicker, which is something we both want to want to accomplish. We've been talking.
01:41 I'm excited. Don't get me wrong. I am excited, which is like she said before, helping us kind
01:48 of push through to, to get to get to that point to get where we were married. And we're pretty
01:54 sure of each other. And I'm excited. I'm definitely excited when he doesn't have to drive. Oh my gosh.
01:59 Yes. We don't have to commute anymore. And yeah, we can build our lives together.
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