00:00my name is kirk and my name is rebecca i live in new york city we had a video go viral on
00:05instagram about how we're doing our relationship
00:08we met through church you know i live in connecticut and our church is in brooklyn
00:15in new york which is about an hour like now it's an hour 20 minutes but it was like about an hour
00:20away but i went anyway and then um and then yeah one sunday i just saw rebecca in a different way
00:27and i was just like not like we hadn't talked before i mean we've done like creative projects
00:31and stuff before i mean i just asked her out and luckily she said yes but now we're here a year
00:37a year later a year or so later almost we decided um not to like make out until marriage we still
00:45may do a little peck and but we don't make out um we decided not to like sleep together obviously
00:50until marriage and then he he lives right now he lives an hour and a half away yeah um he used to
00:56drive from infant into the city and he like he doesn't sleep over he goes back i told rebecca
01:01early on i'm like i really want this to work out so i want to honor you in the way that we do this
01:06relationship and i don't want to like i don't want you to think that i'm like just after your body i
01:12actually told her i was like look i don't even want to kiss you until we get married which is what
01:17i told her we were just like yeah like actually we can hold some boundaries and respect and honor each
01:22other in that way it's definitely hard but hard things are worth it like there's just a deeper
01:28trust that we have for each other and and actually too the cool thing is too a lot of people see that
01:33and they're like man i really want like i want that i think on the other hand though it's also maybe
01:37like pushing us to like get married quicker which is something we both want to want to accomplish
01:41we've been talking about i'm excited don't get me wrong i am excited which is like she said before
01:48helping us kind of push through to to get to get to that point to get where we where we're married
01:53and we're pretty sure of each other and and i'm excited about it i'm definitely excited when he
01:57doesn't have to drive oh my gosh yes we don't have to commute anymore and yeah we can build our lives
02:05together
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