00:00I'm 20% gay for the guys we get with.
00:03We are in an open relationship.
00:05Mostly open for business at this point.
00:09It's just a BS relationship that can't last.
00:12I'll give them two months tops.
00:14Is it cheating if I fantasize about being with other guys?
00:20I'm Cedric and this is my wonderful partner, Sophie.
00:24My boyfriend is 20% gay.
00:26I love exploring my queer side in our content.
00:30We met about three years ago now.
00:32And we met through a mutual friend of ours at a photo shoot.
00:36And I was the photographer and you were one of the models.
00:40We vibed immediately.
00:41Shortly after we met we started making content with each other.
00:44Obviously you first filmed me and then we filmed together.
00:47So what are we gonna shoot today?
00:49I actually more refer myself as pansexual.
00:53As to me it doesn't really matter what gender the other person is.
00:56I'm more attracted to the person itself.
00:58I struggle with labeling my sexuality because I don't feel straight.
01:06But I also don't feel queer enough for labels like bisexual or pansexual.
01:12I'd say I'm like 80% straight.
01:16Can you actually pass me the tape?
01:18The tape?
01:20Yes.
01:21I think we both were always kind of fascinated by the whole world of spicy content.
01:26And for us it just made sense to also explore it together.
01:31We decided to take matters into our own hands.
01:33Change the system of the internet.
01:35Change the system, yeah.
01:36The way we shoot usually is that we shoot from two fixed angles.
01:42Sometimes we will just zoom in.
01:44That also works.
01:46And usually we shoot position by position.
01:48So I have made sexual experiences with men.
01:53Mostly while Sophie is present.
01:56Mostly for our content.
01:59Yeah, it looks really nice.
02:01Both of us have been in polyamorous relationships before.
02:05And I do think you have way more experience.
02:09So yeah, I think we got that one.
02:11And now we'd like to start.
02:15We make spicy content most of the time.
02:18But for social media we make like couples content.
02:22People in our Instagram comments are really mean sometimes.
02:27Would it be cheating if I posted someone else on my story?
02:32You do that all the time.
02:34They judge that we are non-monogamous.
02:36They love to emasculate me.
02:39They talk a lot about how I'm not a real man.
02:43And how I look like a woman.
02:45Lots of cheating accusations.
02:47It's just a BS relationship that can't last.
02:50I'll give them two months tops.
02:52Lots of people just saying for us to swap our phones.
02:55Because we're cheating on each other.
02:56Being bi automatically means that you're not loyal.
02:59The fact you think your relationship is gonna work is sad.
03:03Sharing your partner is not true love.
03:05Some common misconceptions about like open or poly couples is that
03:10you have people just kind of do their own thing and pretend to be single.
03:14Which definitely isn't what is going on.
03:17So you gotta be really stable and secure in order for that to work.
03:20But it takes so much communication, so much security, so much also self-reflection.
03:25Is it cheating if you fantasize about being with other guys?
03:31No, it definitely is not cheating if you fantasize about being with other guys.
03:35You could even be with other guys.
03:37As long as you communicate with me, it still wouldn't be cheating.
03:41Would you like to watch?
03:43I'd love to watch.
03:45We are in an open relationship.
03:48Mostly open for business at this point.
03:51Yeah, we're definitely not monogamous.
03:54No.
03:54Just the two of us and everyone we meet along the way.
03:58I haven't had a monogamous relationship basically since my very first relationship at like 17.
04:04But since then everything has been open or mostly actually polyamorous.
04:08Had three partners at one point.
04:11So there was a lot to handle.
04:13Right now we are looking for someone to shoot.
04:17Sophie has some people she likes.
04:20Yeah.
04:21And it could be with their partner.
04:24They send us a message if we can see what their partner actually looks like.
04:28We do get a handful of messages here and there from like just normal people if I'd say.
04:34Just like horny guys.
04:35Horny guys.
04:36We want to like work with us and do a shoot but we don't work with people who aren't in
04:41the industry.
04:42For us it's mostly about open communication when it comes to being intimate with other people.
04:49I think we both always communicate very openly to others that we're in a relationship.
04:53And then we just discuss it with one another and just see how the other one feels.
04:57Some of your friends have been a bit skeptical in the beginning because you were ranting to everyone about how
05:04you didn't want a date.
05:05And then you started dating me.
05:07Yeah.
05:07So they were a bit like hmm.
05:11Our friend Mika is coming over.
05:13Today I'm visiting Cedric and Sophie and we haven't checked in in a while so I'm really curious how it's
05:18going.
05:18Mika wants to talk about how to balance spicy work in a relationship and how we do it.
05:26I'm also a spicy content creator.
05:29I will also ask them for dating advice since it's also like my dream to find a partner I can
05:34shoot spicy content with.
05:36So I wonder what tips they might have for me.
05:41Soon marks the three years of where we all had our first photo shoot and you introduced us to each
05:47other.
05:47It was so funny.
05:48Thank you for that.
05:49Yeah.
05:50You're welcome.
05:51Did you have any concerns when we started dating?
05:54No, why would I?
05:55I was like really excited that I could connect you.
05:57So we've been getting a lot of comments on Instagram and people are hating on us a lot.
06:04Really so much?
06:05I thought you have a huge fan base.
06:08On Instagram?
06:08There's quite a bunch of people who are really hateful.
06:11They hate a lot on non-monogamous relationships and how we both are just with each other because
06:17we couldn't find anyone else.
06:20Once you have a reel that gets like a million views or something, you can just bet on people getting
06:26really angry in the comments.
06:27Do you sometimes also make like rage bait reels?
06:31Like when you get some like stupid comments like that or how do you deal with it?
06:35Imagine you're having like a really, really bad day and you just open Instagram.
06:39The first thing you read is like, I'm manifesting many car accidents for you too.
06:44It's like, cool.
06:46Did you really get a call like that?
06:48Yeah.
06:49Oh my God.
06:50Yeah.
06:51So since you already know me quite well and what my type is, do you have any like recommendations
06:57or tips like on how to date in the industry?
07:00Yeah, it's not a given that everybody would be so supportive of that, especially in a relationship
07:05where you also have to deal with jealousy and that regard.
07:08I think you have to get really lucky to find someone who you vibe with on a romantic level,
07:15but also vibe with on a content level.
07:17You can also have a happy relationship with someone who is not at all in the industry,
07:22but is accepting of you being in the industry, right?
07:24You are really good at communicating your needs and trying to be there for each other and be very supportive.
07:31And yeah, I see very like pure and innocent love between you and that's really sweet to witness.
07:38Oh, so cute.
07:42Bye.
07:42Bye.
07:47What I love most about you is how much love you have to give and how loving you are as
07:52a person
07:53and how appreciative you are as a person.
07:56I think you're a very, very rational person.
07:59You're very good at reminding me to like, you know, get grounded again.
08:03And I love that.
08:04And we have very clear boundaries between our relationship and our work,
08:08which I think makes it very easy to deal with the fact that we are partners,
08:13business partners and sell our intimacy online.
08:16And I think we all should judge each other less and just focus on what we have in common.
08:22People are so hateful.
08:23Just everybody needs a hug.
08:40You
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