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This Is Poly Season 1 Episode 1
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00:02Polyamory is a lifestyle.
00:04I have four queens that move as one queen.
00:07There's always room for one more.
00:08We have 18 kids.
00:1017 kids and 20.
00:12Hold on.
00:14I mean, we had a great marriage,
00:16but it gets a little boring after years and years and years.
00:19We knew there was more.
00:21We are looking to add 999,000 bitches.
00:25I do think that I'm, like, a fairly sexual person.
00:27We are nesting partners.
00:29We are a close struggle.
00:32Polyamory is very freeing.
00:34I always carry my handcuffs.
00:37Polysex is on point.
00:40I just need a good vibe and a fat ass.
00:43Ditto.
00:44I want to do it, too.
00:47Things got weird with Marlee when she started becoming poly.
00:51Outside looking in, it's like a circus.
00:53Because of polyamory, we really lost a lot of family.
00:55I don't want to be a disgrace to my parents.
00:59Not only do you have to trust your partner, you have to trust this other person.
01:02She's always around.
01:03That's your favorite.
01:05Since the last time you slept with her.
01:09I'm .
01:09The more you lie, the more I can't stand you.
01:12You always go to I, I, I.
01:14This is about three of us.
01:16I thought we were poly.
01:17We are.
01:18You are.
01:18You don't want to exclude it yourself.
01:20I trusted you.
01:21Oh, my God.
01:22Maybe this is not for you.
01:24It's not built for everybody.
01:25I heard this.
01:27Relax.
01:28This?
01:29This?
01:30This?
01:31This is poly.
01:32This is poly.
01:41Hey, babe.
01:42How was your day?
01:43Good.
01:43Busy day of meetings.
01:44Yep.
01:45That's going well.
01:46Love you.
01:47I'm Cammie.
01:48And I'm Trent.
01:49And we've been married for almost 36 years.
01:52High school sweethearts.
01:55I'm Nita.
01:57I'm 39.
01:58And we are throuple.
02:04I grew up in a Christian home.
02:06And then when we got married, I actually helped lead worship.
02:09I was a deacon.
02:10We actually were monogamous until almost 50 years old.
02:15We had a great marriage.
02:17But we knew there was more.
02:18I mean, like, it gets a little dull and boring after years and years and years with the same person,
02:22the same routine, the same thing.
02:24Eventually, we stopped going to church.
02:26And then we became polyamorous.
02:30We first met Nita at the clothing optional resort that we went to.
02:35She came right up to me and said, I will your husband to get to you.
02:39Exactly what it took.
02:43We are a throuple.
02:45We are ethically non-monogamous because we are all consenting to what we do.
02:52We communicate a lot.
02:53But right now, it's really about the solo adventures.
02:58A solo adventure would be where one of us picks another person that they want to go on a date
03:03night with.
03:04They get about four hours.
03:06That's it.
03:07I'm trisexual.
03:08I'll try anything once, twice if I like it.
03:11And I'm straight.
03:11And I guess I would be pansexual because I do love Nita, but I'm actually not gay.
03:19She doesn't look .
03:20She doesn't .
03:21She doesn't try to get by another woman other than me.
03:24Nita brings us a lot of adventure.
03:26Nita's like our midlife crisis.
03:31I decided to write an email to family and friends just to make it a little more personal, us coming
03:37out.
03:38What do you think about that?
03:39Whatever you think is best.
03:41This is your coming out.
03:42Yep, yep.
03:43I've been out of the closet for a while.
03:45Before this announcement, really only our kids know and a few select people that we really trust.
03:53After the announcement.
03:54It's going to be up.
03:55We're out.
03:56We're out.
03:56Are you ready for this?
03:58Are you ready for this?
04:01I'm as ready as I'll ever be, I think.
04:03I'm as ready as I'll ever be.
04:04Yeah, nobody that knows me is going to be surprised the most.
04:06You guys are going to be definitely the ones that it affects the most.
04:09I mean, after this email, does that mean like you're going to kiss me in public and s***?
04:12Yeah.
04:13Yep.
04:14We are coming out as poly for Nita.
04:17It's really a public display of our love and affection to Nita and our commitment to her.
04:21We realized that we want this, not for the short term, but for the long term.
04:26So we decided to get her a ring.
04:28Our thought was, let's show her right away that we're committed.
04:32People don't know us as being poly or a thrumple.
04:34So until we change that narrative, I don't see how we have anything going.
04:38I just want you to be like completely clear that the lifestyle that you're choosing and everything that goes along
04:42with it, it's not for the faint of heart.
04:44Hey, we've been doing this for two years.
04:45You've been doing it in the closet since you've been scared.
04:47No, I know, I know.
04:48So it's a little different.
04:49What about your parents?
04:50Your parents don't know nothing.
04:51They know nothing.
04:52They don't even know that I exist.
04:53That's what I'm worried about the most is his parents.
04:55I am very hopeful that, you know, they won't completely disown me, but we've seen it, especially for people that
05:01were involved in the church as we were.
05:03What's your biggest concern?
05:05Any backlash that you do get, I can't help but feel responsible.
05:10We are choosing this.
05:12Nobody's making us do this.
05:14We are choosing it.
05:16Because we've already chosen you.
05:18Yeah, but the kids didn't choose it.
05:19Our kids are really great.
05:21Our oldest is Teo.
05:23Our oldest daughter, her name is Kia.
05:25Then our son, Tate, is the next one down.
05:28And then Zoe's the youngest.
05:29She's 21.
05:30They know Neeta.
05:31She's been living with us for about three years.
05:34And they love her.
05:35Hey, Zoe, I'm getting ready to read this email we're going to send off.
05:40Guys.
05:42I'm Zoe.
05:43I'm Kami and Trent's daughter.
05:45Currently, I am in a polyamorous relationship.
05:49Zoe has chosen polyamory for herself.
05:51I love that through my journey, I was able to offer my kids wisdom and the ability to make choices
06:01and choose what they want for their life at a much younger age.
06:04Instead of waiting until you're almost 40 before you actually know much about the world and know what you want
06:10out of life.
06:11We're going to read the email. Are you ready?
06:13I'm ready.
06:14Dear family and friends, we're writing to share something important.
06:18It's time to be fully transparent.
06:20Dun, dun, dun.
06:22We are in a committed relationship.
06:24A thruple.
06:24The three of us.
06:25This is in a phase.
06:27Yeah.
06:28With deep love, it's Kami, Trent, and Neeta.
06:30You did such a good job, baby.
06:33All right, you guys.
06:34Oh, we're ready to push.
06:36Send.
06:36Here we go.
06:38Send.
06:41The scariest part about poly for me is probably just the disapproval from family.
06:47I want them to know that this is a beautiful thing, not some sinful, awful thing.
06:53Let's make a drink.
06:54Let's celebrate.
06:54This is actually a happy occasion for all of us.
06:59I'm so fresh.
07:00Way too best to be stressed.
07:02I'm black.
07:03Why do y'all be so fresh?
07:04I'm so fresh.
07:07I'm so fresh.
07:09I'm so fresh.
07:10Steppin' down, look at my past.
07:12I'm an artist, businessman, father, and I'm around.
07:17And physically, fine.
07:19All right.
07:20Hey, Yahweh.
07:21All right.
07:22All right.
07:22Beautiful lady.
07:23Hey, Yahweh.
07:24All right.
07:24How was your day?
07:26My name is Yahweh DiBosch, and I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic.
07:31What's going on?
07:32My pool bear.
07:33Looking sexy, Yahweh, like always.
07:36Yeah, you look sexy, too.
07:37My name is Yahweh Jasmine.
07:40I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic and Yahweh DiBosch.
07:45Babe.
07:46Hey.
07:47Hey.
07:49Then I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic.
07:52And then I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic.
07:54And we're the Yahweh family.
07:57So you guys are going to eat now a little bit?
07:59Yeah, babe, I'll eat.
08:00I'll eat.
08:00It smells so good.
08:01I really want some of this crusty stuff in the pan.
08:05Crusty.
08:06You know she likes the burnt crusty stuff.
08:07I like the burnt crusty stuff.
08:08Yeah.
08:09Since there's five of us, our polycule is called a pentad.
08:13We're not sisters or anything like that.
08:16Like, that's my wife.
08:16That's my wife.
08:17That's my wife.
08:17That's my wife.
08:18I have four queens that move as one queen.
08:20None of us are legally married to each other.
08:22We have a bond that's way beyond paperwork.
08:26Yahweh is love.
08:28And love is the way of life.
08:30Welcome to my world.
08:33Yahweh Poetic.
08:33He's always on the hunt for new queens.
08:36There's always room for one more.
08:38They can bring other queens in.
08:39They see fit.
08:40And I'm able to date whoever I want to date.
08:43I'm the only king.
08:45That's it.
08:45What's the best thing about being polyamorous?
08:48Sex.
08:49Yup.
08:50A lot.
08:50There's a lot of sex.
08:52He has sex with all of us.
08:54But with four queens and just only one Yahweh Poetic,
08:58some of us feel neglected sometimes.
09:01When he's not around, the other queens
09:04get everything covered.
09:05I just know me and my bedroom stays full.
09:08I have sex with all of them.
09:10She's the real one for real, but she don't get it though.
09:12She's the freaky one.
09:13That's actually just the...
09:15Look at her nails.
09:16Yeah, I have my little two short nails
09:17because I'm considerate.
09:18If I want to turn someone into a bowling ball,
09:21you know I'm not going to cut them up.
09:22There's a lot of love making going on.
09:24We have children to prove it.
09:27Yahweh's Dinner!
09:31We have 18 kids and one on the way.
09:35So, 19.
09:3617 kids and one on the way.
09:39Hold on, wait.
09:40Hold on.
09:41In a few months.
09:42Yeah.
09:43Good and cooked.
09:50My name is Yahweh Ben-Yahweh, and I'm 12.
09:54Yahweh Big Man, and I am seven.
09:56Yeah, I'm with Kayla, and I'm 12 years old.
09:59I'm Yahweh Shusha.
10:01I'm five!
10:02You're four!
10:06Any baby that's in this family gets treated as if it's our own.
10:13This lifestyle is expensive.
10:15Hey, all right, hold on.
10:17So, financially, everybody comes into like a common pot,
10:21and then everybody gets from the common pot.
10:24Everything's equally dispersed.
10:25Five incomes is better than one or two any day.
10:28All right, let me go take this.
10:30Let me take this.
10:31All right, guys.
10:31Who's next?
10:31Come on.
10:31It takes a village, but we are the village.
10:34Did you forget?
10:36Forget what?
10:37It's our anniversary today.
10:39Really?
10:39Yeah.
10:40It's your anniversary today?
10:42Oh, my God.
10:42Yeah, four years.
10:43Uh-oh.
10:44Oh, my God.
10:45I know what's going on here.
10:47He don't celebrate nobody's anniversary.
10:49Yeah, but you know, I like to celebrate some.
10:51So do we!
10:52The con of polyamory, I would say, would be the jealousy aspect of it.
10:58You're around all these beautiful women and could tend to compare a little bit if,
11:02you know, someone is getting more of this or more of that.
11:06All these years, we never celebrate an anniversary.
11:08Don't compare what I do with this person to what I do with you.
11:11When do we all get our special dates?
11:12You know how many dates that is to remember?
11:15That's where jealousy come in.
11:16That's where the conflict come in at.
11:21Coming up...
11:22We need another girl, though, to spot you.
11:24Naked.
11:25We are in polyamorous right now.
11:27That sucks.
11:29With another girl, then maybe there's a better chance of me stopping cheating.
11:34We are looking to add 999,000 bitches.
11:38I mean, shoot, they lined up.
11:41There's gonna be some more coins coming.
11:43Are you ready for that?
11:44I mean, is there somebody coming?
11:48Whenever he's dating somebody, he'll kind of just, like, dance around the subject.
11:52Can you just tell me?
12:05So what are we working out today?
12:07Um, anything.
12:08I just wanna get the out of here.
12:10I think you should do legs.
12:14I'm BQ.
12:15I'm 43 years old.
12:16I'm from Long Island, New York, and I'm in the car business.
12:18I'm Tamina.
12:19I'm 43 years old.
12:20Born and raised in Queens, but I do live in Long Island.
12:23I'm a big deal.
12:24I'm a big big deal.
12:27I'm a big big deal.
12:27I am one of the first Pakistani social media models.
12:31I am a business owner, a dog mom, a human mom.
12:36We've been together eight years.
12:38We met in the car business.
12:40I started a job at a dealership, and this Pauly D looking guy walked in.
12:46Like, you know, she was smoking hot, dude.
12:48I was like, holy .
12:53What kind of polycule are you guys?
12:56A what?
12:57A what?
12:57A what?
12:58Apollo Q?
13:00Like, Apollo Q?
13:03Polycule.
13:03A polycule?
13:05So, I guess I'll take pictures of you first.
13:08All right, yeah, because I need some for my social media.
13:10Okay.
13:11We've been engaged for, it'll be four years in August.
13:14We've been in two polyamorous relationships with two different women.
13:18But we are in polyamorous right now.
13:20At the moment, we are closed.
13:24That sucks.
13:26So, do you want me to stay like this or turn around?
13:29Listen, they just want to see butt.
13:30All right, like this.
13:31All we all want to see is butt.
13:33Look at that.
13:34I need to have sex at least once a day, minimum.
13:37So, I got a month.
13:40And I guess the proper terminology would be inflatable penile implant.
13:45So, I could f*** whenever, as long as the f*** I want.
13:51I literally got a f***ing robo.
13:53We need another girl that'll spot you.
13:57Are you serious?
13:59How polyamory idea came about was he got caught cheating.
14:03I said to myself, okay, you can either end this now or, you know, instead of begging him to stop
14:09cheating, why don't you accept it and allow what he's looking for outside of this relationship, bring it into the
14:15relationship.
14:16This way he doesn't feel the need to go looking for it.
14:19And as long as it keeps him here, I'm okay with it too.
14:23Listen, what's better than a spotter that's a female and then can spot you at home?
14:30Naked.
14:31For me, polyamory is more of a solution than something that I wanted to do my whole life.
14:38I said, well, you know what? You're getting a girl, right? Can she look like me? Because I want someone
14:44that I can, like, relate to.
14:46So, our second girlfriend was, like, literally my twin. My, like, gobble, what is that thing called? Gobbledongler? Dangle Goblins?
14:53She was like, what is it?
14:55Double Anger.
14:55Double Anger?
14:56You know, polyamory is the great band-aid to fixing the whole relationships.
15:02I gave you that band-aid. About three and a half years ago, I found out that BQ was having
15:07a relationship with a co-worker of his who's, like, my sister.
15:13You think that you can just go from doing whatever you want to being like, okay, I'll be better if
15:17you just get me a girl.
15:18The idea of getting back into poly right now is, it almost makes me sick to my stomach.
15:24Yeah, but we were doing good for a little bit.
15:26No, we weren't. Our relationship was good because I didn't know you were cheating on me.
15:29Yeah, I know, but before she found out.
15:32Before I found out, so it was good because I didn't know what he was doing.
15:35Yeah, once she found out.
15:36Of course. When someone lies, it's up.
15:38I think we need to come to some sort of compromise.
15:40I think that we need to go to couples therapy.
15:43And I think that if that's something that you can agree to, then I can agree to try.
15:46Couples therapy?
15:47Yeah, we need, yes, 100%.
15:49The worst part of polyamory is not trusting anyone.
15:54Now, not only do you have to trust your partner, you have to trust this other person you brought in.
15:58And now you have two things to worry about.
16:00And you can't do it without trust.
16:05Therapy's a no-go.
16:08Poly dating for BQ is a no-go.
16:12Jesus Christ.
16:25Welcome in, my babies.
16:27What we on today? How y'all doing?
16:30I'm Marlee.
16:31I'm Bri.
16:31And we're social media influencers.
16:34Top to bottom, never top to bottom, but it's looking like the time on the rollie.
16:38We've been poly for over 15 years.
16:42Okay, baby.
16:42So this is to all my BBWs for me and Bri's polycule.
16:47We are looking to add 999,000 bitches.
16:50You come in, you close the door behind you.
16:52We gonna bring in the more women.
16:54This is our pot.
16:55This is our recipe.
16:56You the onions.
16:57And we looking for the celery.
16:58And we looking for the bell pepper.
16:59And somebody gotta be the chicken.
17:00Let's see.
17:01I made it a little different.
17:03I put honey in it.
17:04I put lemon.
17:06That is fire.
17:08Mate, that's like a home remedy right there.
17:11I was with my husband for 17 years.
17:13And eventually we started talking about poly.
17:15So in the midst of being poly, we met Bri.
17:18We just made a decision.
17:20Let's branch off and do our own thing.
17:21Us being influencers, women come daily.
17:24We're currently managing between 20 to 22 women.
17:30Big booty ones.
17:31I want it looking right.
17:33I like when it do that.
17:35My God, I'm sick of these girls.
17:37Best thing about poly, the sex is amazing.
17:40Multiple people and you in a relationship with them.
17:43Girl, they keep texting.
17:44But if I want some penis, you should go get it with me.
17:51Girl.
17:52Who's on the roster?
17:53It's a lot of people on the roster.
17:55And half of them I don't remember their name.
17:57Me neither.
17:59We got hoes.
18:00But you got to prove yourself.
18:01I mean, shoot.
18:03They lined up.
18:04Like, how does that work?
18:05Rule number one.
18:06We do not tolerate disrespect.
18:08Don't take this little cute face and get it fooled.
18:11Rule number two.
18:12Take care of your responsibility.
18:15We are not here to get you out of bankruptcy.
18:19Rule number three.
18:20Hygiene.
18:21We're big on hygiene.
18:22I'm gonna leave that right there.
18:23Clean your .
18:24No hot fish.
18:26Rule number four.
18:27We do not like pillow princesses.
18:29A pillow princess is a bitch that feel like we supposed to just take care of her and she do
18:33nothing but lay on a pillow with her crown.
18:36I seen you chopping it up with, uh, Kai.
18:40I'm not feeling Kai.
18:41No ass at all.
18:42We got those things called PGs.
18:44Those is potential girlfriends.
18:46What about London?
18:46Her teeth is grown, ruined.
18:49Destiny.
18:50She ghetto and brunchy.
18:53Nyesha.
18:53I don't like her.
18:55She chew too loud.
18:56Our trial run is six months.
18:59At the end of those six months, if you ain't bringing it like we want you to, it's a wrap.
19:03What about Ki?
19:04Heh heh.
19:06Why you smile like that?
19:07I smile like that too when it comes to Ki.
19:10How about we take her on a date this week?
19:12I think that'll be great.
19:13I might want to spoil her a little bit.
19:16What is the worst thing about you, Polly?
19:18Being let down.
19:19A lot of people see us as crazy, freak, orgy, swingers.
19:24When I announced to my family that I was Polly, they immediately labeled me weird.
19:29And for the most part, I have lost them all.
19:32I stopped getting invited to .
19:33And I'm not crazy.
19:34My elevator go up.
19:35So I know what it is.
19:37It's I'm Polly and it's different, but you guys labeled it weird.
19:40And family is everything.
19:42You talking about family getting this together, but you are legally married.
19:48So you're married?
19:49Yes.
19:50To her?
19:52No.
19:54I'm still married to my ex-husband.
19:56We've been separated for three years.
19:59So I haven't got the balls to file for a divorce yet.
20:04What are we going to do?
20:05I'm getting there.
20:06We're going to do that.
20:07When?
20:09Do you think for a second that I don't love you enough?
20:14Propose already.
20:16How the **** am I going to propose to somebody that's already married, man?
20:20I'm done with this **** conversation until you show me action.
20:30Coming up, you'll sleep in her room most of the week.
20:33No, I don't.
20:34Y'all are like children.
20:36Sometimes you have to tell the person they be immature.
20:40I've not heard from my family since.
20:43Like, they erased me.
20:44No, I just, I've never gone through anything like this before.
20:47Oh, God.
20:57Hey, babe.
20:58Hey.
20:58Hey.
20:59Um.
21:00I'm, um, sitting here looking at responses.
21:03Boy, I can't wait.
21:04Yep.
21:05Coming out as a thruple.
21:06It's been just a little bit of time since we've come out as a thruple.
21:10And we're starting to get some feedback.
21:14There's a couple that are really hard.
21:16We did get a pretty harsh response from your sister-in-law.
21:22Wow.
21:23Yeah.
21:24She basically said, this has gotten so out of control.
21:27This stuff is such a disgrace to the family.
21:29I will be blocking you.
21:30Dang.
21:31That's tough.
21:33Um.
21:33Basically said, do what you want behind closed doors, but you don't have to put it all over
21:37the internet.
21:38Oh, lovely.
21:40There is a lot of responsibility.
21:42How are you doing?
21:43I'm exhausted.
21:44I did make this happen.
21:47You know what I mean?
21:47Like, I wanted it, and I went after it, and it was persistent, and here we are.
21:51There's some guilt definitely attached to that.
21:53How are you feeling with all this?
21:56The hardest part for me is the silence.
21:59I've not heard from my family since.
22:01Okay.
22:02Like, it's almost like I disappeared.
22:03Like, they erased me.
22:05That hurts more than somebody lashing out.
22:08I mean, at least lashing out is a response.
22:11I've always been, you know, looked up so highly from my dad to actually feel like I'm
22:16doing anything that's dishonoring.
22:18That's hard, my father.
22:20It actually kind of prepped him privately, and it didn't go over well.
22:25I mean, the tough thing for me is just, you know, being a disappointment at this time
22:31in my life, right?
22:32I've never...
22:33Oh, gosh.
22:34Trent's a lot like his dad.
22:35They're very deep, tender people.
22:37My husband, he's a golden child.
22:39He graduated the outstanding business student.
22:41He was the favorite son.
22:43I don't know.
22:44Do you call them?
22:44I don't know what to do right now.
22:46Right now, it's just really heavy.
22:48You know, just, I've never gone through anything like this before.
22:51I've always been, it's pride and joy, you know?
22:53So, it's tough.
22:56We're not hiding, right?
22:58We decided we're coming out, and we're gonna do this thing.
23:03We knew this was gonna be tough, but damn.
23:06I actually am so in love with my wife, and bringing Anita into our relationship has been
23:11a positive thing.
23:12Yes, it's different.
23:13It's not the way that we were brought up.
23:15There's definitely gonna be some tough times ahead still, but we don't have anything
23:20to hide anymore.
23:30I have to see some different changes amongst us.
23:33I see a few things that we can work on.
23:36In our family, we have a lot of meetings, so if somebody's feeling a certain way, we'll
23:42try to talk about it so it can get resolved.
23:45Attitudes, being rude, eyes rolling, you know, stuff like that has to change.
23:49I just wanna know, like, what is it that needs to be fixed so we can get better?
23:54Let's be real.
23:55I compare the whole time management thing, and you sleep in her room most of the week.
24:00No, I know.
24:00No, he doesn't.
24:01No, I know.
24:02Okay.
24:02He doesn't.
24:03In our relationship, there is no set schedule.
24:07It's not like, hey, I'm sleeping with you Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.
24:11I don't like the plan, so I do the best I can to, you know, make sure everybody get
24:16to spend time with me on some level.
24:18You came in this relationship knowing what the facts was.
24:21You will be here with other queens in this relationship.
24:24It's not about that, though.
24:25You can have four queens and be more equal with each one.
24:30You're saying you want more balance.
24:31You want more balance.
24:32Yes, thank you.
24:32Just balance.
24:33I don't want you to sleep in my room three nights a week and then nobody else, none.
24:38I'm not saying that.
24:39And then, yes, me and her definitely have to work on a lot of stuff between each other.
24:44Me and Yahweh Crystal, we're the newest queens, so I can admit that jealousy comes in between
24:49us, especially because we pretty much came in at the same time.
24:53Whatever.
24:53You guys just need to be happy for each other.
24:55Because you guys get jealous and you need to be more considerate.
24:58So what do you do now?
24:59Being in this lifestyle, sex could be the cause of jealousy both Yahweh Maddie and Yahweh
25:05Crystal.
25:06With them, it's like a carnal.
25:07I have to touch you.
25:08You have to have sex with me so I know you love me.
25:10They've just got to grow out of that.
25:12There's always a way to communicate and make a change.
25:14Because you guys have like this competitive thing and he's aware of that, he, if he's
25:20not in your room, he's in your room because he's trying to make sure y'all are good.
25:24So like, because he knows we're good, he kind of leave us alone.
25:27Who's going to really be the one to say, I'm going to make it work because nobody wants
25:32to do it.
25:32Some of the queens, especially Yahweh Crystal, calls me the regent because I'm like the second
25:38in command.
25:39When the king's out of town, the regent comes in.
25:41Whatever y'all going through, you trying to make it about me.
25:44But the reality is, it's y'all acting immature and y'all insecurities.
25:48It has nothing to do with me.
25:50But y'all are like children.
25:51You got to know what they ignore.
25:53You know, we're mature individually.
25:55Let's figure out what this problem stemming from.
25:58Sometimes you got to tell the person they be immature.
26:00Y'all insecurities.
26:03Y'all must work on.
26:04I can't do that work for you.
26:06Now, whatever problem you have with me, then we can discuss that.
26:09Because every relationship is a work in progress.
26:13Where do we go from here?
26:22Coming up...
26:25This is what Polly is all about.
26:27I wanted to ask you, are you ready to be our girlfriend?
26:33I know you've been pushing me for this Polly date.
26:36I have the perfect girl.
26:38Getting back into polyamory with BQ is a huge risk.
26:54I thought we were supposed to be riding go-karts.
26:56This don't look like no go-karts.
26:57I mean, you know that Key likes fast cars.
27:02She likes adrenaline.
27:04She's adventurous.
27:05So I thought this would be the perfect date for us to take her on.
27:09Yeah, I love her.
27:11I do.
27:11So I want you to go with the flow, Marlee.
27:14I will.
27:15This is what Polly is all about.
27:17Like, I can't just be the party pooper of it.
27:19I have to go alone and do different things.
27:22Even if it's not my cup of tea, I still got to drink it.
27:27Look up in the mirror.
27:29I say, yeah, she insta-fly us.
27:31I'm definitely aware that I'm the it girl.
27:34I definitely feel those vibes.
27:36I don't like to toot my own horn, but I always know when I'm number one.
27:40I love it.
27:44Hey.
27:45Hey.
27:46Hi.
27:47Hey, baby.
27:48Yeah.
27:48Baby, walk through that door feeling like something real delicious.
27:52Yeah.
27:52Like real.
27:55Bossy.
27:55I just know this is your cup of tea, sir.
27:58Baby, you look good.
27:59My thighs are sweating.
28:06Let's get it.
28:28I know my wife is on herself.
28:31It's all over the place right now.
28:36Every time he hit the corner, I just thought I was going to fly out the window.
28:39Oh.
28:40Lord, take the wheel.
28:42Oh.
28:45Oh.
28:50Oh.
28:51Oh.
28:51Oh.
28:51Oh.
28:53Oh.
28:53Oh.
28:54Oh.
28:54Oh.
28:55Oh.
28:59Oh.
29:00Oh my gosh.
29:00That was so fun.
29:02Yes.
29:03This was for them.
29:04I took one for the team.
29:05Yes.
29:05One and done.
29:06Done.
29:07No more.
29:09Don't get my kooka dots now, y'all.
29:13That was so freaking amazing, y'all.
29:17That was like one of the best birthday gifts ever.
29:20You have fun?
29:20Yes, I have fun.
29:21I love the effort that Marley and Brie puts into getting to know me.
29:25So I wanted to know, how have you been feeling lately, like, about us?
29:32Um, loving y'all.
29:34Literally, you know that you had hit your six month mark, right?
29:38Yes.
29:39Oh my gosh.
29:40It's been six months.
29:41The six month mark is important to us because in six months, you can go to jail.
29:46You can, I want to see you in all seasons.
29:49I want to see how you maneuver with two people.
29:51Very few people make it to the six month mark.
29:54And she made it.
29:55People probably don't even make it to the sixth week.
29:58So, with that being said, you fit all of our criterias with you.
30:02Okay.
30:02You respect us.
30:04I want respect is giving.
30:05Yes.
30:06You got your own.
30:07You're not leaning on us for nothing.
30:08You don't smell like no hot fish.
30:10Never.
30:11And you're not a pillow princess.
30:13Yeah.
30:14So, with that being said, I wanted to ask you, are you ready to be our girlfriend?
30:20Oh my gosh.
30:23I definitely would love, love, love to be your girlfriend.
30:32But, being sought after by two people is definitely overwhelming.
30:38I know it's six months for them, but it's still a little fast for me.
30:42So, I just want to be sure I'm making the right decision.
30:45I've never done this before.
30:46And, you know, I'm just, I don't know what to expect within a poly relationship.
30:52You know, I happen to share y'all with other women.
30:54You know what I'm saying?
30:55So, and then just the family dynamics.
30:58Like, if my family will be okay with it, we all know how dealing with family is.
31:03Of course.
31:03You know what I'm saying?
31:04So, I got to think about it.
31:09No, this bitch didn't.
31:11I'm definitely going to let you guys know though, for real, for real.
31:14This caught my ass off guard completely.
31:17You deserve time.
31:19You done proving yourself.
31:22But, you know, it's a roster, so.
31:24You don't want to take too much time.
31:28Coming up.
31:29I like those roses.
31:30Those are nice.
31:32Me and y'all with Crystal gonna go out.
31:33Right.
31:34For a little bit.
31:35She says our anniversary.
31:36Y'all with Crystal getting special treatment.
31:38It does make me feel some kind of way.
31:40It's like, it's not fair.
31:41It's not equal.
31:44I had one girl that I frown with.
31:47So, how long, when's the last time you slept with her?
31:49He said he never slept with her in four years.
31:52Four years?
31:53No sex?
31:54Yeah, okay.
31:55Hell of a first date.
32:01Um, why hello there, darling?
32:16Hi.
32:17What are you doing?
32:18I'm, uh, stepped out to get lunch, and then I'm headed right back to work, unfortunately.
32:24What's going on?
32:24Well, I know you've been pushing me for this poly date,
32:28and I believe that, you know, you deserve this one chance
32:33and not to f*** up this time.
32:35The idea of going on a poly date is tough,
32:38but for me to get what I need,
32:40which is to stop BQ from cheating and go to therapy,
32:45I need to give him a poly relationship.
32:49I have the perfect girl.
32:52Wait, what? You had a girl?
32:54Yes. I met Angie on social media.
32:58She DM'd me. She's hot. She dresses like me.
33:01And she's smart, and I like her.
33:03You know, I've been thinking about it.
33:05You know, I just, I just, I'm scared.
33:07You know, this is a big, big...
33:08Well, I'm scared. I'm scared this is a setup.
33:11I don't set you up.
33:12Do I think poly could change everything now?
33:15I don't call me f***ing crazy, but absolutely.
33:18Maybe if we put ourselves in a better dynamic with another girl,
33:21then maybe there's a better chance of me stopping cheating.
33:23Wait, wait, wait, wait, what about the ass?
33:25Yeah, I was just about to get to that.
33:27She's got the nice booty, big booty, big boobs.
33:30Well, if this is real, I'm leaving work right the f*** now,
33:34and I'm f***ing coming home.
33:35All right, good. I'll see you tonight.
33:36I love you.
33:37All right, I love you.
33:38Bye.
33:39Getting back into polyamory with BQ is a huge risk.
33:44And I know it.
33:54A lot of the chores didn't get done.
33:56I know.
33:57That's why I'm just gonna do the dishes.
34:00Hey, what y'all got going on here?
34:02Hey, look at you.
34:04Yeah, you look nice.
34:05What you about to do?
34:05Oh, I look good.
34:07I really feel good.
34:08I like those roses.
34:09Those are nice.
34:10I don't see pooping.
34:11Me and Y'all and Crystal gonna go out.
34:12Right.
34:13For a little bit.
34:14I mean, we don't...
34:15She say it's our anniversary.
34:17You know, it's anniversary every day for us, but...
34:20Okay.
34:20You know, she wanna go out for it.
34:22That's different.
34:22You're doing that because you wanna do that.
34:24Don't blame me about Crystal.
34:25We don't celebrate anniversaries,
34:27so the fact that Y'all and Crystal,
34:29who's the newest queen,
34:30is getting special treatment,
34:32it does make me feel some Conaway.
34:33It makes me feel a little jealous.
34:35Like, it's not fair.
34:36It's not equal.
34:37Yeah, he really went all out,
34:38especially with flowers.
34:39Let's go before they start talking all that.
34:42Good night.
34:42Bye.
34:43Love you.
34:44Love you.
34:45Love you, y'all.
34:45Love you, too.
34:46Love you, too.
34:51Love you, too.
34:58It's me and Y'all, Crystal's.
34:59Our fourth anniversary.
35:01I think it's a good idea to spend some time with her.
35:04We got some things we need to talk out.
35:05Cheers to our anniversary.
35:07Happy anniversary with you.
35:09Love you, love you, love you.
35:10Love you, love you, love you.
35:11Love you, love you.
35:11Super special that we're actually celebrating an anniversary.
35:15Really nice, getting out, away from the kids.
35:18This is also a special occasion,
35:21because we're getting to spend some one-on-one time.
35:23How do you feel about, you know, the other night?
35:27Do you feel like it's even far as time?
35:29Well, our family is super busy,
35:31so it is hard for anybody to spend time together.
35:34We all want to spend time with you.
35:36Why?
35:36We forget, maybe, about each other sometimes,
35:40and, like, you know, needing to work on our relationships.
35:43At times, you know, it could be a lot of pressure.
35:47It's just people, you know, just all of y'all, like,
35:49hey, I want this, I want that,
35:50but y'all forget y'all together.
35:52I think you forget things sometimes,
35:54but, you know, I don't know.
35:56I think...
35:57Like what?
35:58What do you think I forget?
35:59Like how long it's been since you slept with somebody.
36:02I start to get competitive about it.
36:04It can be difficult trying to keep all the queens happy,
36:07but I do my best.
36:08Y'all and Crystal, and also Y'all and Mari,
36:12they have, you know, envious issues at times.
36:16They are new and still learn our type of dynamics,
36:20and when we bring in somebody new,
36:22it could be difficult for them.
36:24I'm not trying to ruin our night or nothing like that,
36:27but there's going to be some more queens coming.
36:29Are you ready for that?
36:32You never had somebody come behind.
36:34I know, so that's what I'm saying.
36:36Are you...
36:37Do you think you can handle that?
36:41You know, I don't know.
36:42It's just I want to make sure, like,
36:44everything with us is straight.
36:46Right.
36:47Whenever he's dating somebody,
36:49he'll kind of just, like, dance around the subject.
36:51But if somebody come tomorrow,
36:55you willing to welcome that person.
36:58Is there somebody coming?
37:01I just want to know.
37:03You tell me, detective.
37:19Tonight is our first poly date in a long time,
37:22and I'm going to give him one last chance at this.
37:25I know I'm taking a huge risk.
37:26I could potentially be opening the door
37:28for him to start back on his bull and cheating right away.
37:32You excited?
37:35I'm gonna be excited.
37:36This is your only shine.
37:37Of course I am.
37:38So I'm excited because for me,
37:39this is like a big opportunity to slide my way through
37:43right back into the polyamorous land.
37:45For me, as long as she's a female and breathing, I'm in.
38:06My name is Angie, so slid into Tamina's DMs and that's how we met.
38:11Hi, how are you, sweetheart? Nice to meet you.
38:13Damn, now that is a hot girl.
38:18We're definitely going to pound term tonight.
38:20You know, I told you that I was in charge.
38:23And Angie is...
38:26Jesus .
38:30You know, we were polyamorous.
38:33Yeah.
38:33And we're looking to get back into it.
38:35Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship?
38:38Never.
38:39Polyamory is different with each relationship.
38:42And you know, some people have an open type relationship.
38:44So what are your rules?
38:45What are your boundaries?
38:47I get to pick who she is.
38:49You know, we do everything together.
38:51Like there's no BQ doing separate things with you.
38:55You know, it'd be all three of us.
38:56All together.
38:57You know, whether it's socially or, you know, behind closed doors.
39:01I think that's fair.
39:02Listen, we're not well-versed in the polyamorous relationship.
39:06Like we've only been doing this a couple of years.
39:07And we don't do it because it's like the fad or whatever.
39:10You know, we did it honestly because like we wanted another girl.
39:13Like she goes...
39:14I'm sorry, we have to tell her the real reason as to why we got...
39:17Only fans?
39:17Yeah, Sue, tell me.
39:18Why did we get into polyamory?
39:20Oh, because you thought it would satisfy me and I want to cheat?
39:23And you're cheating.
39:23But I'm allowed to have a different...
39:25There's no different opinion of the actual truth.
39:28I'm not going to let BQ get away with any lies, any gaslighting, any of that.
39:33Because if he wants to bring someone into our life, he needs to tell the truth.
39:39Yeah.
39:40So why were you cheating?
39:41It wasn't even about all the girls that I was like around with.
39:45Just one.
39:46I had one girl that used to be a friend that I around with for like multiple years.
39:55So how long?
39:56When's the last time you slept with her?
39:58I didn't even see what I like that.
40:03He said he never slept with her in four years.
40:06Who are you selling the story to?
40:08Four years, no sex?
40:10Yeah, okay.
40:11When's the last time you slept with her?
40:14My baby.
40:15Yeah, I'm telling you, what are you...
40:17Babe, babe, babe.
40:17What?
40:18What?
40:21Where's the waiter?
40:22He hasn't slept with her since he met her four years ago.
40:25Come on.
40:27Man, what kind of first date is this?
40:29When's the last time you slept with her?
40:32January or February?
40:39I'm .
40:39But you know this is the first time that you told me that you even slept with her?
40:42And it was because someone else asked you, right?
40:45The moment he admitted it, I felt like someone just stabbed me in the back because it was
40:52really happening the whole time.
40:53So?
40:54Why did you lie to me that you weren't with her?
40:56If you were with her...
40:57I don't want to hurt your feelings.
40:58You don't want to hurt my feelings, so you lied to me for four years.
41:01Honestly, I thought that when I came clean, that she'd be like, I already knew B, I already
41:06knew, I didn't know.
41:07I mean, four years of being in some type of relationship with anybody, you'd think they'd
41:11know that you were .
41:13Yeah, she did not know .
41:16So anyway, babe, why do we got to keep hopping on it?
41:19Because I need to know the truth and she needs to know the truth.
41:21I think the main issue is just the fact that you've never owned the one that hits home
41:26to her.
41:27Shame on him for even trying to sell that bull .
41:31Typical cheater behavior, messy, messy, messy, lies, lies, lies.
41:35And I feel like I...
41:36You have to be okay.
41:37I didn't know, and I feel like I need to know the whole story also, which I just found
41:41out a big part of the story that I did not know.
41:43Well, because she's not going to take the fact that if I say I haven't supported her,
41:46she's not going to believe you.
41:47Because she's...
41:48That's why.
41:48So you're going to...
41:49You can't lie to her because she's not going to believe you.
41:51So you tell her the truth and you lie to me because I'm an idiot that believes you.
41:56You know why?
41:57I got the kicked out of me already.
41:59Hell of a first date.
42:03I'm so sorry, girl.
42:06I just feel like I just found out that I've been with a total stranger for eight years.
42:16What I think is going to happen to me and I, I couldn't tell you, to be honest with you.
42:19I don't give a if it don't work out past tomorrow.
42:22All I can tell you is that I tried to do my best to try to do things the right
42:25way and
42:25be honest and , but that's honestly, that does not work.
42:28So that's why I always say, lying's the way.
42:31I can't deal with this , I'm out.
42:33I'm out.
42:34I'm out.
42:34I'm out.
42:34I'm out.
42:35I'll be out.
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