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Love & Marriage Huntsville Season 11 Episode 11
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00:00People have listings and stuff.
00:01They represent you, represent your family.
00:03You have scout loyalty.
00:04You say something to me, you're
00:06going to get the poppin' off t-shirt.
00:07That's just what it is.
00:09Hey, hey, hey.
00:10What's up, sis?
00:11I think I just heard somebody voice.
00:13I know you .
00:14That's just messy.
00:16Hey, y'all.
00:16You got real sour.
00:17Hey, hey.
00:19What did I get invited to this lovely Fletcher
00:21family dinner for?
00:22I just felt like it felt more like an interrogation.
00:24I didn't bring you there for no interrogation.
00:26I said what it felt like.
00:27I don't move like that.
00:28You could have just automatically left if that's
00:30the way you felt.
01:00Yeah.
01:01Yeah.
01:01Okay all night.
01:03Yeah.
01:04Ain't no stop at all.
01:06Yeah.
01:11Yeah.
01:13Yeah.
01:15Yeah.
01:25I just have to let her bent.
01:27Let her cool off.
01:28While I sit here and cool off and think about this as well.
01:34If I hurt you in any way, that was never my intentions.
01:38That's not who I am.
01:40And that's not what I do.
01:42And I apologize to you.
01:45Because I felt in my home, you were out of place, you felt awkward.
01:49And I felt awkward in my own home.
01:53And I didn't like it.
01:56I feel like you've always been a person that I could come to, and vice versa.
02:01You know, our conversations are hours long, even though we don't talk a lot.
02:05And I don't know, I want us to be in that space.
02:08And I don't know if it's family that's like, they always doing s**t.
02:15Yep.
02:16They always doing s**t.
02:18And I, uh, uh.
02:20Girl, you was taking forever.
02:22I think that's like 15 minutes ago.
02:23I'm so sorry.
02:25So, I'm happy that Nell and I came to a resolve.
02:28I wanted to hear her side of the story and listen to her, because that's what friends do.
02:34But I'm really tired of fighting.
02:36I'm a fighter.
02:37I've been fighting all my life.
02:39But I'm tired.
02:40And for me, it's just, I just know where to place people.
02:45This Twan and Kayla s**t have been s**t with me.
02:48And then I find out that it's true.
02:51So, let me be clear, because I feel like they're like, oh, that's in your bone carrier.
02:55She came and said, Twan volunteered this information to me and said it wasn't true.
03:00And then come to find out that it is.
03:03That s**t weird.
03:04Yeah.
03:04Like, why even bring it up to lie?
03:08It's right.
03:08So, when I brought it to you, I didn't think it was any weight to it.
03:11It wasn't my intent at all.
03:12It was such a light conversation with him about the whole situation and, oh, that ain't true,
03:17and da, da, da.
03:18And it's true.
03:20So, it's like, man, you could have just been honest.
03:22And I want Kayla to not feel a way.
03:25Like, I don't like the fact that she seemed uncomfortable enough to think that I would
03:31disrespect or bump into her.
03:33Like, I adore Kayla.
03:35I just felt like that was odd.
03:37Like, I do not want this.
03:38It's crazy that people volunteer rumors to tell you that it's not true for it to be true.
03:43Right.
03:44And that's the part that pissed me off, that bothered me.
03:48People want to be honest?
03:49Everybody's not being honest.
03:51That's my God, son.
03:52I love him, but I'm pissed off at his ass, too, though.
03:54But they're just dating.
03:56They said they weren't exclusive.
03:57Maybe they're just trying to figure it out.
03:58That might not be the only one on her roster.
04:01Yeah, that part.
04:04That f**king part, you know.
04:06Kayla does want and need to be loved, as any young lady would.
04:11But Twan said he's chilling.
04:13Kayla said they're dating.
04:14I'm not sure what the hell Twan and Kayla are doing.
04:17I guess they chilling to be dating, dating to be chilling.
04:20You know, if that's what this generation does, hey, that's on them, not me.
04:26I feel like, at the end of the day, they are grown.
04:33I'm just more concerned about my friendship with you, and what does that put me in destiny.
04:42I just felt out of place, and I, like, why am I here for their, you know, relationship situation, or
04:46whatever it is.
04:48Because you lack family?
04:51That's why you were there.
04:53I appreciate it.
04:55Have you spoken to Letitia yet, Sister Wanda?
04:58I haven't, but I sent an invite to the group text to my event this weekend, and...
05:03Damn, I need to check my check.
05:04Yeah, I know you didn't see it.
05:05It's a service event for domestic violence survivors, so I'm doing a self-defense class.
05:09Whatever issues that we have in this friend group, this is a support of people that really need support.
05:13Need support.
05:14Kimmy sent a smiley face back, which means she's coming, and Tisha said, thanks for the invite out.
05:19I can't make it.
05:20But I want you to be there.
05:21I'm going to make sure I do everything in my power to be there.
05:25I appreciate it.
05:26Okay.
05:26A whole lot, because this is like I said in the text, and you'll see it's bigger than me.
05:44Okay, guys, so listen.
05:46I'm here at Scott Realty.
05:48I'm trying to get Scott Realty completed.
05:50And, you know, it's just taking a little bit longer than expected.
05:53So, you want something done?
05:55You got to do it yourself.
05:57Marceau is just getting back from Rome.
05:59And, as usual, my office is last on the list.
06:03So, I decided that today is the day.
06:06I'm going to come in here, and I'm going to fix some things up.
06:08Like, at the end of the day, I have to do what I got to do.
06:11I can't keep waiting on Marceau to get things done.
06:15So, now I'm going to rub it over here.
06:17And I think it only needs one coat, but we're going to see.
06:20Buongiorno.
06:21Hey!
06:22Look at me, working hard.
06:28T, what are you doing?
06:29On today's agenda is to cut up these holes so I can sand and paint.
06:36I decided that I'm no longer going to wait for your workers to come and complete this stuff.
06:41I'm going to be completing it myself.
06:44So, why are you walking away from me while I'm talking to you?
06:48Okay.
06:49So, I'm coming in, and I'm seeing Tisha doing some spackling or whatever she's doing to this wall right now.
06:55And, for me, she's sending the wrong message if she's sending the message.
06:59And that message is, hey, me and my company don't finish projects.
07:03And I have to end up doing it myself and not such a great job at it.
07:06So, whatever it is, mission unaccomplished.
07:08You're putting pink spackle on your wall.
07:11Yeah!
07:11Isn't that the cover of the holes?
07:13Right?
07:14Right?
07:15Yeah.
07:16How was the trip?
07:18I mean, you got in super late, so I wasn't able to come and pick you up from the airport.
07:22It was amazing.
07:24It was amazing.
07:25This is my first time going to Europe.
07:26You know I was planning this trip for Christmas, right?
07:29You sent me the list of the different places.
07:32Yeah, but I want to do that for our 20th.
07:34Okay.
07:35T, why am I picking up on this slight tooth with you?
07:38I don't know.
07:39I don't have a tooth.
07:39I'm actually in a good mood.
07:40It's been a lot going on since you, while you was out of town.
07:45Did you get into it with Destiny, is my question.
07:49Destiny and I did.
07:50It's strange words.
07:51You want to call me, girl?
07:52Okay, I'm going to be delusional about this relationship.
07:54I'm going to be honest, honey.
07:55Yeah, because it's too much work.
07:56Too much work!
07:57All the time I've been there for you, you've never been there for me when I needed you the most.
08:01Tisha, don't walk out this door.
08:03I'm leaving.
08:03No, I'm leaving.
08:04Don't walk out the door.
08:05But then it took a turn at the party when she was like, your husband don't protect you
08:11or I protect you against your husband.
08:13What you said to me was that, oh, you don't defend your rules that I'm not in.
08:16The only person that don't defend you is your husband.
08:18Not me.
08:19What the f***?
08:20I took your husband for you.
08:22She's trying to hit below the belt to get me out of character.
08:25And I'm like, okay, whatever.
08:26Did she get you out of character?
08:28Yeah, crazy.
08:29It was crazy.
08:30It was crazy.
08:31Is that what you want?
08:31No, that's not what I want.
08:32That's not frustrating and exhausting to you?
08:35That's what it is.
08:36It is what it is.
08:37You were planning on getting into it with that.
08:38I was not planning on getting into it with that.
08:40I was planning on talking to her.
08:41This is not how we do things.
08:44We don't do this.
08:45I've been saying this from the very beginning.
08:48Tisha getting into the little scrapes with people and then going on business as usual is not how business is
08:56done.
08:56It damages our brand and hinders our ability to move forward, especially in a small town and giving this platform.
09:01I feel like I am fighting these girls and then I have to come and try to explain myself to
09:08you.
09:08Why am I building this professional office if you just want to assist a girl with destiny?
09:13If I just want to do what?
09:15You know, be like, well, you talk about my mom, you talk about my husband.
09:18We're not doing that.
09:19One person says something and go low and now, oh, y'all both was doing it.
09:23Like, no, I didn't go low.
09:25She went low.
09:26She brought my husband in this situation.
09:27Destiny can say what she wants to say about me.
09:29You don't have to defend me to a woman that doesn't have a husband that runs through men like crazy.
09:34You don't have to defend me to that.
09:35I won't defend me against that.
09:37It doesn't seem like you understand where I'm coming from.
09:39And I don't get that.
09:40No, no, T, I understand where you're going.
09:44When you go out, you represent Letitia and Marceau.
09:47Yes.
09:48You carry that name.
09:49But I still represent Letitia.
09:51You're in my name, just so we know that.
09:55Not Letitia Moore.
09:56Not Letitia Denise.
09:58I'm saying Letitia Scott.
10:00Okay?
10:02You understand that, right?
10:04That's not fair.
10:05Because I am still my own individual person.
10:07No, no, except you're not, though.
10:08I am, though.
10:08No, no, no, no.
10:09You're not, though.
10:10I am.
10:10Then give me my name back.
10:13Why the hell did God give you a smart man and a good leader if you're not going to listen
10:17to him, if you know better?
10:19Like, you're not the leader of this.
10:21Well, God also blessed you with a smart woman.
10:24So you're not listening?
10:25No, I am listening, but I think it goes both ways.
10:27It doesn't go both ways, Tisha.
10:28It absolutely goes both ways.
10:29Why are you raising your voice at me?
10:30Okay.
10:31I'm just, I'm sorry.
10:34Anyway, you're doing the office in there.
10:36No, I'm doing that because you're not doing it.
10:41You can do it by yourself.
10:42I didn't say that, but I feel like I am trying to, like, plead my case or for you to
10:47see
10:47the value in me, and I'm like, I am not going to beg you to see the value in me.
10:51If you don't see it, if you don't see it, I can't force you to see it.
10:55It's fine, babe.
10:56Then, then, then, then, then, then, then drywall.
11:00Okay.
11:02I feel let down right now by Marceau.
11:05As a wife, you're supposed to have your spouse to be your safe place.
11:10And right now, I'm not getting that from him.
11:12I don't want to get emotional, but, you know, I, my feelings are hurt, and I feel let down
11:17at this moment.
11:29Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
11:31Tisha asked, what, was we, was we, when we spin the block.
11:35Then y'all took a break.
11:36Both y'all spent the block, and then y'all came back together.
11:40Tricia's began.
11:41What she told us was that she had spun the block.
11:45She was excited.
11:46Oh, my God.
11:47Are you kidding me?
11:48She was like, oh, oh, yeah.
11:50This is unbelievable.
12:09There she go.
12:10Well, hello.
12:10Hi.
12:11There she go.
12:11How are y'all?
12:12Good.
12:13Y'all all right?
12:13I can't get up out this seat.
12:15So Trish reaches out.
12:16Her and Ken are back on again, and so they want to invite me on a double date with Will.
12:21And Will is a good friend.
12:23We're platonic, getting to know each other.
12:25I don't know about Will and I becoming more than friends.
12:27I don't know about that one.
12:28But I think he's a cool guy.
12:30There you go.
12:31What up?
12:32What up, my boy?
12:32You look good.
12:33Yeah.
12:34Trish.
12:35Looking nice.
12:37Will, I am.
12:38Dang.
12:39What's up?
12:40How you doing?
12:40Long time, no see.
12:41You look good as well.
12:43Y'all drinking water?
12:44It's a long way down, Giant.
12:45On the hemp tip.
12:46Long way down.
12:47He's a giant.
12:48I'm trying to.
12:48Yes.
12:50What y'all been up to?
12:51I was just telling Trish, man, y'all look real good together.
12:54Y'all.
12:55Me and Destiny are friends.
12:58But y'all good now, though?
13:00No, we good.
13:01Yeah.
13:01Well, y'all look nice together as well as usual.
13:03Appreciate it.
13:04Yeah.
13:04Just, you know, have to sometimes got to compromise a little bit.
13:08She crazy, so I got to just be less crazy.
13:11Yeah, it is.
13:11That's how you do that.
13:12That's how you handle it.
13:13There you go.
13:14Even though we argue, and it gets nasty, and, you know, words get said that we shouldn't
13:20say, we sit down and have a mutual conversation and still come back together.
13:24And that's what I love.
13:26And that's why I want to fight for all of it, for Ken and I.
13:31So, do you guys plan on going on another date?
13:34Well, damn.
13:35My goodness.
13:36I'm just saying.
13:37When do friends go on dates?
13:38We hang out.
13:40What are we doing?
13:40That's what we're doing right now.
13:41We're hanging out.
13:41When I need good company, she's definitely somebody I could call, because she's always
13:45down for a good time.
13:47Am I?
13:49Will is an absolute walking red flag.
13:53Well, he's so fun.
13:55He's a fun guy.
13:56What I like about Will the most out of all the people that I've dated or, you know, relationships
14:00and have friendships with, he's honest.
14:04I like that about Will.
14:05Even if it's a mess, he's honest.
14:08How was the party like?
14:09Tell me about it.
14:10The drag party?
14:12It was a drag party.
14:13It was a drag.
14:14What drag party?
14:14It was a drag party that ended, that I thought that Tisha and Destiny was going to drag each
14:18other.
14:19Not to me to catch up with Destiny on how she felt afterwards.
14:24I don't know what's going on with Tisha, but she has continuously been poking.
14:29And I'm like, what's your problem with me?
14:31You playing with me as a professional and what I do?
14:34You playing with my name as a woman?
14:35And then as soon as I say, the only person that ain't protecting you is your husband.
14:39Oh my God.
14:39That's what blew it up.
14:40Oh my God.
14:41That's what blew it up.
14:43It got crazy.
14:44Can you imagine?
14:45It got crazy.
14:46I think it's easy to put it off on you because she doesn't want to hold him accountable.
14:52What else did I say?
14:53You trying to deflect on what's going on in your household with me.
14:55I mean, that might be the case.
14:57It's cute how you jumped straight to me instead of what you had going on.
15:01It's real cute.
15:02What I had going on.
15:04What are we missing?
15:08No, I was...
15:09Y'all, what we had going on was what sparked y'all to.
15:13Let me go ahead and tell her before she tried to teach you the same thing.
15:16I don't know if you're teaching.
15:17I would keep a word of it.
15:18And Tisha asked, was we spinning the block again?
15:22Of course, I was in the hot seat.
15:24You weren't in the hot seat.
15:25I mean, yes, I was.
15:26We were talking about our relationship, what was going on in our relationship, going back
15:29and forth.
15:29That y'all took a break.
15:30Both y'all spent the block.
15:31And then y'all came back together.
15:33That part.
15:34But I don't know what happened between her and Tisha.
15:36Because that was like the blow up.
15:39Blow up.
15:39And Tisha?
15:40But that's avoid the situation that her and Tisha ain't going up.
15:43No, I can't talk about it.
15:44We was talking about it.
15:45I was going to take it there, but you just tried to take the conversation from me and
15:48saying, well, what about Tisha?
15:49I'm not trying to deflect.
15:50I was going to go back to the fact that you said y'all spent the block.
15:53Y'all realized that y'all wanted to be together.
15:55And that's what I said.
15:55But I wanted to feel how you and Tisha are right now.
15:58Because that was like a very heated conversation.
16:01So you were talking to other people while y'all...
16:08Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
16:11When Tisha came over, she was actually a little concerned.
16:14He said you kept making reference to maybe wanting to sue him.
16:17I said paperwork.
16:18Did you make reference to it?
16:21When y'all had a conversation outside of us...
16:23Yes.
16:24Was he mad when you told him about spending the block?
16:26Well, he was a little angry there, yeah.
16:27First of all, well, I didn't mean it.
16:29Sexual.
16:35So you were talking to other people while y'all...
16:41Well, afterwards, yeah, it was...
16:46I didn't know that.
16:47Okay.
16:47Yeah.
16:48I mean, she told me she wasn't, but yeah.
16:50She told me she wasn't?
16:51Yeah, but you know how they did.
16:52No, I didn't tell them when we sat down.
16:54I told myself I wasn't innocent either.
16:58I think Trish likes to omit things.
17:01And do I believe that Trisha still can't hold truth about spending on the block?
17:05No.
17:06So, yeah, he has no clue.
17:09After I found out that he was in DMs and doing what he was doing, I was like...
17:12He was in DMs?
17:13He was responding.
17:13He was responding.
17:14No, that was not.
17:15It was a DM.
17:16Tisha claimed somebody said that I was in someone's DM.
17:19That was a totally different situation.
17:20That was not what the case.
17:21I don't hop in people DMs.
17:23All right.
17:23It's been real.
17:24It is.
17:24All right.
17:25Adios.
17:25Yeah, let me get out of here.
17:27We just gotta work.
17:27My baby's out.
17:28I got some stuff.
17:29Some hit it and quit it.
17:32You are so childish.
17:34I got it all.
17:35Doing it like I do.
17:36I'm making money moves.
17:38I want it, I'm letting loose.
17:40I got it all.
17:45I'ma make them talk.
17:47I got it all.
17:49Huh?
17:50That was fast.
17:51Hmm?
17:52I was gonna ask you to go out.
17:53Oh.
17:55I thought I'd make a snack.
17:57That looks good.
17:58Really good.
17:59Did you, um, did Marzo get back yet from his trip?
18:02Uh, I think so, yeah.
18:04Yeah, he just got back.
18:05Me and Marzo haven't had a lot of conversations since our back and forth on the mountain.
18:09But I think he should be all right.
18:11I think we're good, right?
18:12I'm not quite sure that those feelings are mutual.
18:16When Tisha came over, she said when he relayed the story to her, he seemed like he felt a way
18:21about it.
18:21I told her I thought y'all were brothers and y'all kind of do that.
18:25And y'all get right back up on the horse, you know what I mean?
18:27But she was actually a little concerned.
18:29He said you kept making reference to maybe wanting to sue him.
18:33I'm not gonna sue Marzo.
18:34Well, did you make reference to it?
18:38I'm trying to get him motivated.
18:40You send me over to motivate him, and then I motivate him, and then I motivate him wrong.
18:44No, I didn't say you motivated him wrong.
18:46I told Tisha I felt like y'all were okay.
18:48I mean, we argue.
18:49Shoot, that's, that's, I've never argued with anybody more than Marzo.
18:53And he pushes my buttons, and I know sometimes how to push his buttons, so.
18:56I want to try to get a, a link up, dinner, drinks, brunch.
19:00All right.
19:01Make sure y'all are, you know, you, you're sounding like you're fine.
19:05I wasn't at Tisha's conversation with Marzo.
19:08So I just want to make sure he is as fine as you are.
19:11I'm saying I'm concerned because Tisha, she's been married to him for almost 20 years, so.
19:19Yeah.
19:19The fact that it's lingering, that's not good.
19:24Well, you know.
19:25That's not good.
19:26It's in how you relay the story.
19:27So I wasn't there.
19:28So however Marzo relayed the story to Tisha is how she related to me when we were talking.
19:33Got you.
19:34That goes for anything, even when we went to Tisha's event.
19:38Because when we got there, what she told us was that during this break, I guess, that her and Ken
19:46were in, that she had spun the block.
19:51Wait, so what did she mean by spun the block?
19:56Spun the block simply means you slept with them at one time and you slept with them again.
20:01Really?
20:02That's what she said.
20:03And she said it with great enthusiasm.
20:06What's the matter about them?
20:07I was like, yeah.
20:09So that's exactly what I did.
20:11It was right after the separation, so it was a good block to spin.
20:14We were like, girl, she was like, yeah, like she was excited.
20:20Oh, my God.
20:21Are you kidding me?
20:22No, yeah.
20:23Oh, no, no, no.
20:24That's going to ruin our relationship.
20:26We can almost set our watches to T minus.
20:29But she said they was on break.
20:31She said they was on break.
20:32Don't nobody care about no break, bruh.
20:34She said they was on break.
20:34Don't nobody care about no break.
20:35It's kind of like Tisha's event.
20:37All right.
20:38Everybody in whatever relationship they're in has to want it.
20:42And everybody has to give that same type of time and energy to making it work.
20:47I wanted to try to see if we could get everybody together before the summer's over.
20:52I don't think we've done very much as a team.
20:56Unfortunately, everybody's not in the best place.
20:59You know what I mean?
21:00You need a reset.
21:01Yeah, a little mini reset.
21:03Just something small.
21:04You need a factory reset for some of these folks.
21:08These relationships are at stake.
21:10Maybe this year we could kind of think about something we could do.
21:13A mini vacay.
21:14Not big, not extravagant.
21:16Just something we can get away maybe for the weekend.
21:19Anybody can get back to their kids and get back to school.
21:22That's cool with me.
21:24Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
21:26You gave me the bitch you don't shut up love.
21:29You don't remember giving me that love?
21:30I say, come on, tell me.
21:31So I'm like, yeah, you know, we're at the drag show and you were talking about spending
21:34a lot of shit.
21:35No, no, no.
21:36You and Tisha.
21:39It's got me second guessing, like, our partnership together.
21:43I, are you saying marriage?
21:58We're doing a lot of punching today, okay?
22:00So she does not want to get hit in the forehead with this.
22:02Slip it.
22:03There we go.
22:03That's what I want to see.
22:04So today I'm hosting a self-defense class at Rocket City Boxing and the community's coming
22:08out for this free self-serve event.
22:10And Nell, Trish, and Kimmy are here to support.
22:14Tisha said she couldn't make it.
22:15And I'm just here to manage them to move.
22:29Good.
22:29We're going to do it two more times.
22:31Go two more times through, okay?
22:32They fight for real, for real.
22:34Good.
22:34Good.
22:35All right, y'all caught on to that real quick.
22:37You would come when it's time to fight.
22:39Oh, I got here as fast as I could, you know.
22:42So I am literally just getting off the road, dropping MJ off to school, and I came back
22:48early so I can support Destiny.
22:50There's absolutely still some tension there between Destiny and I, but showing up, I hope
22:56she see that, hey, you know, this girl really supports me.
22:59Even though you may have a disagreement with your homegirls or your friends or your associates,
23:05whatever we call ourselves nowadays, it's still good to show up for big moments.
23:09You want people to be there for you for your big moments, so you have to be there for people
23:12for their big moments.
23:13This is one of my trainers.
23:15She has never tapped out.
23:16She's ready to tap out.
23:17I'm not ready to tap out.
23:18I'm not ready to tap out.
23:19You can't give me no water ring.
23:21You can't give me no water ring.
23:22She said, I told you I had a confidence.
23:25She's smiling because I'm in pain.
23:26Yeah, yeah, yeah.
23:26I'm going training.
23:27I love it.
23:28I love it.
23:28This event has been very informative.
23:30It's been fun.
23:31I'm always grateful for people to come out and support, so I'm happy to see all the ladies
23:34here.
23:35Thank you for joining us.
23:36You're welcome.
23:37It's cute.
23:38It's nice.
23:39See, that's what I said.
23:40We support each other.
23:41That's right.
23:42Absolutely.
23:42I appreciate it.
23:43I told you she's going to come through.
23:44No matter what we're going through, we always have to make sure we show up for one another.
23:48And quite frankly, I see all the same faces every time we do things, and that's important.
23:52We all do show up for each other.
23:53Every single time.
23:54Even when we can't stand each other in a moment.
23:56Amen.
23:57Amen.
23:58That's what it's about.
23:59We can always have fun without, you know, craziness.
24:01I mean, we got three badass realtors here, and all three of y'all need to put y'all heads
24:06together and find me a building.
24:07I bet y'all put something.
24:08Where you guys have been looking for a building?
24:09But, I know.
24:11But see, now I really have the time to because I turned in my badge.
24:23I've stepped away from my nine to five, and I'm just ready to reinvent myself.
24:29Listening to the ladies and seeing all the things they're accomplishing, like, really motivates
24:33me and gives me hope, for sure.
24:36So what happened at the double date?
24:38Who went on a double date?
24:39Who was on a double date?
24:39Who was on a double date?
24:40I'm out of the loop.
24:40No.
24:41That's what I'm getting at.
24:42Ken and I and Destiny and Will.
24:44Right.
24:44So did you like the will date?
24:46Yes or no?
24:47Is it going to be more will dates?
24:48We're friends.
24:50And we're friends.
24:52And we'll be.
24:54Well, this, like, what, the second date?
24:55So what happened?
24:56It was cool.
24:57It was fun.
24:57It was fun.
24:58I'm going to tell you the most interesting part.
25:00You gave me the bitch, you don't shut up look.
25:03You don't remember giving me that look?
25:04Come on.
25:05Tell me.
25:05So I'm like, yeah, you know, we were at the drag show, and you were talking about
25:08spinning the block.
25:08She was like, no, no, no.
25:10You and Tisha are both.
25:11What?
25:12No, no, no.
25:13You were talking about spinning the block.
25:14You asked me when we were going to spin the block.
25:16So you said it in front of the kids.
25:17Because they were talking about how they had both.
25:20And I know, though, right?
25:21Yeah.
25:21Oh, OK.
25:22But they didn't know how excited she was about spinning the block.
25:25Yeah, she thought I was going to say that.
25:27That's really what it was.
25:28And she was like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
25:31When y'all had a conversation outside of us, was he mad when you told him about spinning
25:36the block?
25:37Well, he was a little angry there, yeah.
25:38First of all, spinning the block does not mean sexual.
25:41Well, I didn't mean it sexual.
25:43What?
25:43That's about to sleep with somebody else.
25:50Is that the thing y'all did?
25:51I spent the block on someone.
25:53Oh.
25:53I did.
25:54I'm not going to lie.
25:55So y'all both stepped out.
25:57We did.
25:58We did.
25:58Trish wants us to accept the version that she gave Ken.
26:06And she clearly then told Ken that she didn't spin the block.
26:10When she clearly told us, she did.
26:12So you was mad at Ken when you first told us the story.
26:15Now y'all made up, so the story has changed a little bit.
26:21Well, no.
26:22It didn't.
26:23I just didn't do anything.
26:25And you're comfortable in where y'all have gotten over the hump and you're here.
26:30I am very comfortable.
26:30I'm very comfortable.
26:32Because streets say y'all not together.
26:34I don't know.
26:35Well, no.
26:35No, no, no.
26:36We weren't.
26:36Are y'all really together?
26:38Yeah.
26:39We are.
26:40Ken and I decided to put things in the past, let the past be the past.
26:43Because we both were like, we are great together.
26:46Now, we let some things come in and tear us apart.
26:49But I think we're just better together.
26:52And now we're just like, let's just put everything in the past and start over and start fresh.
26:57I think it's about time we get together.
26:59Everybody seems to be.
27:01I like to always try to do stuff when the energy is good.
27:04Like right in the middle of a good energy moment.
27:08No, because in three days, this energy can change.
27:09I want to do it to go on a trip.
27:11And I want you all to come.
27:13Overnight?
27:14It is going to be overnight.
27:16With just the ladies?
27:17You know, I'm not for that whole girl trip.
27:20You can bring the boo.
27:21It'll be different than what we normally do.
27:23Stay in the night of it.
27:23And I'm telling you that, honestly, it'll be different than what we normally do.
27:27Is it going to be a good time or a drama time?
27:29See, that's why I'm doing it right now.
27:31This seems like we're on the path to a good time.
27:34Yeah, but we know how that always works, especially the last girl strip.
27:37Well.
27:37That was a travesty.
27:39She can't predict the future.
27:40She don't know.
27:41She didn't plan to have a good time.
27:42I cannot.
27:42And I can't force grown-ups to be on their best behavior.
27:46Hello.
27:49Coming up on Love and Mary's Huntsville.
27:51She begged to come home.
27:52I worked two, three jobs just so that she could have that life.
27:55Then it's like, you know what?
27:56I'm tired of this five-year plan.
27:58I'm going to go do something new.
27:59I'm going to be a real estate agent.
28:00Okay, cool.
28:00Or, you know, I'm going to go to school.
28:01I'm going to get this.
28:02My dedication has been to the team every time.
28:04And so now she's coming up with this different thing and this right here for her, not for us.
28:32Hey, babe.
28:34Hey, bedroom.
28:35Working behind the bar today?
28:36I'm working.
28:37You want something to drink?
28:38Sure.
28:39What you want?
28:40The black mug.
28:41You want a black mug?
28:43So what you working on?
28:44Hopefully getting some stuff moved in in the office.
28:47I'm really ready to get that done.
28:50Did you finish it up?
28:51I finished my part.
28:53Can I give you some advice?
28:54Sure.
28:54In this situation to get me to do it.
28:58Just ask me once.
29:01But if you constantly reminded me every six, seven months, then it's like, damn, you're just harassing me.
29:06Harassing you?
29:09Marceau and I, we're meeting Kim and Maurice today at Black.
29:11Kimmy thinks the guys are good, but no, I don't think so.
29:14I think that we need to sit down and really have a really good conversation with them to iron everything
29:19out.
29:19I'm not here to start an argument with Marceau.
29:22I don't need that.
29:25Hello, darling.
29:27Hey, Kimmy.
29:28How are y'all?
29:30Are you going to be on summer, spring vibes?
29:32Yes.
29:33So here we are.
29:35Now that the brothers have had a conversation, Maurice has threatened Marceau with paperwork, and Marceau has called him a
29:45sleazy lawyer.
29:46They're brothers, so I anticipate, you know, they do the back and forth.
29:49I need to make sure everybody's okay, including Tisha.
29:53Hello, governess.
29:54Hey, Reese.
29:55How are you?
29:57Buongiorno.
29:58I'm happy to see you here, Reese.
29:59Hey, it's a family affair, isn't it?
30:01It is.
30:02So Marceau told me about what happened at Scott Manor between you two, and then Kimmy and I talked about
30:08it, and she was like, oh, they're good.
30:09They're brothers, but I just wanted to make sure that y'all was really good.
30:13He said, this ain't Martell and Fletch.
30:15This is Reese and Marceau.
30:17That was a concern of mine.
30:18We're even working together.
30:20I was like, I just don't want that to ruin our relationship.
30:23Tisha, are you serious?
30:24Yes, I'm dead serious.
30:25I think we're all past ruining.
30:27I think we've had enough obstacles to realize we're not going to get ruined.
30:32These guys have been fighting since they was two.
30:34Since he was little.
30:35At the end of the day, these two were supposed to be the ones doing it.
30:39These two who?
30:39You and Kimmy.
30:40He does get grief from me because I feel like I'm trying not to give you grief.
30:45I'm trying not to give you grief.
30:47So you put Maurice to give Marceau grief, and then it gets done.
30:50I don't make him go do it.
30:52I just give him the grief, and he gets tired.
30:53He shares her frustration with her husband.
30:56And he listens, and he get the jobs done.
31:00That's what I'm hearing.
31:01Like, when you want something done, I really have learned that nagging a person about it
31:05isn't going to get it done, especially Marceau.
31:09And let me tell you something.
31:10The best that you can is better after that question.
31:12You know what?
31:13Y'all talk better than we do.
31:15Are you getting upset?
31:16No, I'm not.
31:17I'm just...
31:17Your energy.
31:18I feel your energy.
31:19Your energy is different.
31:20Well, then, babe, that's why I don't want to communicate when my energy is like this.
31:22Okay, well, you're communicating like that now.
31:24Your energy is off.
31:26I think this conversation is definitely putting a little energy out there in the room.
31:32I can hear a little snip from both sides, and I think that the temperature's rising.
31:38Definitely the temperature's rising.
31:40I would simply like that when I say the words and tell you what's going on for you to believe
31:45me what I'm saying.
31:45I would simply like, but when you're telling me things, you're not to have an attitude
31:49of rushing me off the car, doing that right there.
31:52Like, that's the energy right there.
31:54It is, babe, and I'm trying to tell you, where it's coming from?
31:57Well, T, this is the thing.
31:58Well, no, no, no.
31:59I'm going to tell you something.
32:00Maurice, Maurice, Maurice, you're going to start a whole thing because once you say
32:02no, T, you're wrong.
32:04No, no, no, it's not about no, T, you're wrong.
32:06I feel like you're about to tell you.
32:07Why can't Maurice answer the question without you interfering?
32:09Okay, let's read it.
32:11This is the thing.
32:12This is the thing.
32:14It's a spiral that goes down.
32:16The energy.
32:17The energy.
32:17The energy goes up because...
32:18It's the Scott brothers.
32:20Yes.
32:20All right.
32:20It's the Scott brothers.
32:21It's the Scott sisters.
32:22The Scott brothers.
32:23Hey, we'll be right back.
32:24We're going to huddle up.
32:25We're going to come back better.
32:26We're going to come back better.
32:30It's the Scott brothers.
32:31It's the Scott brothers.
32:33It's the Scott sisters.
32:34The Scott brothers.
32:34Hey, we'll be right back.
32:35We're going to huddle up.
32:36We're going to come back better.
32:38Every single time.
32:39It's how they would get here.
32:40Every single time.
32:42You know?
32:42All right, listen.
32:43It sounded like they were trying to smooth stuff out with us, and then it's like,
32:46all right, now we're going to...
32:46No, no, no.
32:47T wants the same energy about, oh, he's not doing mine, he's not doing my stuff.
32:52But I think that she has to look at some different things.
32:55She's got to back up off it a little bit.
32:57You know, she's like, well, yeah, you know, Kimmy's wondering about you taking too long
33:00on Jordan Lane, and you're taking too long on my build.
33:03I'm like, well, T, what else am I doing, sweetie?
33:06When I'm not doing your office, what am I doing?
33:09At home playing a video game?
33:11Or am I working on Whitehall?
33:13Working on my son getting hit Auburn?
33:15Am I building Scott Manor?
33:17I'm sure she's like, but do it for me.
33:22Who have I been doing it for?
33:24That man loves your bathwater.
33:26And so I hate when y'all have these conversations.
33:29I know, but I've been trying to be patient.
33:31And it's like, I didn't use to say things to myself, so I just let it slide.
33:35But now I'm like, I tried the nice T-shirt, I tried, hey, babe, how you doing today?
33:39Oh, can I get an update?
33:41Or what's going on with this?
33:43It changed.
33:45As soon as I asked about a project that he's working on for me, it changed.
33:49Stop saying we're on the same team, we're not on the same team.
33:52You don't think teams are a teammate?
33:53As a teammate, you don't get that saying, well, what about my stuff?
33:58She said these in her own words.
34:00When it's sculpt, this is kind of your thing.
34:04When it's Black, this is kind of your thing.
34:06I looked at it, I'm like, dog, we've got Millie, he's got Jalen, Kimmy, everybody.
34:12I went to win the day, I made my truck.
34:15And finally, at Black, I built a team.
34:19Finally, at Sculpe, we built a team.
34:21People that actually look at me and they say, oh, I can listen to that.
34:26I'll talk to the team, I say, babe, I was thinking about this.
34:28She said, I wouldn't want to do nothing stupid.
34:31You're like, okay.
34:32What?
34:34Like, she just shoots the idea down without, like...
34:38You have to understand that across the board, I'm doing it BMDS by my damn self.
34:46It's disheartening to hear that Marceau Fields teaches not on his team.
34:49I think that that's a measure of clarity that anybody wants from their life partner.
34:53Basically, when you're dealing with family and your spouse,
34:57you don't want to have to look over your shoulder and worry if they have your back.
35:01So this is something that needs to get figured out quick.
35:03Like, even the other day when him and I was talking about the whole, um,
35:07the Destiny situation of everything,
35:08he's, like, just fussing at me, like, lecturing me, sort of, kind of.
35:12Like, he's always, like, talking at me.
35:14I'm like, Marceau, can I just have my own opinion about things?
35:17Can I have a husband that I can just vent to about things?
35:20And you just don't give me,
35:21Tisha, you should have been the bigger person as this.
35:23Tisha, you should do it this way.
35:24Tisha, I don't want that.
35:26Like, I don't want that all the time.
35:27I mean, if you just listen, who do I let it out on?
35:31Like, I've been keeping things in for so long.
35:34I'm just tired.
35:36When it comes to Maurice and Marceau,
35:39I think that they feel like if we ask questions
35:42or if we, um, have concerns or verbalize some things,
35:47I think that they think that's a measure of doubt or distrust.
35:52Um, and they don't ever like that.
35:56It takes time.
35:57Until somebody can kind of help them understand,
36:00like, I'm on your team, friend.
36:02That's what I said.
36:03Like, I'm on your team,
36:04and you be, like, going at me like we on opposite sides of this game.
36:07It takes time.
36:08You're saying we should be teammates.
36:10She doesn't feel like she's a teammate.
36:13You don't feel like a teammate.
36:15You don't act like a teammate.
36:16I think the issue is inclusion.
36:20Maurice, I tell her this.
36:22I'm like, listen,
36:24there's nothing I have that you're not on.
36:27And she feels that she needs to create her own glory.
36:30That's Marceau's glory.
36:32Hey, listen,
36:32if you tired of being in Marceau's shadow
36:34because you want to do this right here,
36:36don't go to it.
36:36We didn't make five-year plans by Marceau saying,
36:39you're going to do this.
36:40You're going to stay at home.
36:42She was working and calling me saying,
36:45I don't want to be here.
36:46I said, I'll figure it out.
36:48She begged to come home.
36:49I worked two, three jobs just so that she could have that life.
36:52Then it's like, you know what?
36:54I'm tired of this five-year plan.
36:55I'm going to go do something new.
36:56I'm going to be a real estate agent.
36:57Okay, cool.
36:58Or, you know,
36:58I'm going to go to school.
36:59I'm going to get this.
36:59Cool, that makes sense for us.
37:00And it's this whole journey of finding yourself
37:03and doing all this stuff right here.
37:04But it's like,
37:05my dedication has been to the team every time.
37:08And so now she's coming up with this different thing
37:10and this right here for her, not for us.
37:13I don't know.
37:14I just feel like it's like a new era with me and Marceau.
37:19And I told him, I was like, at the end of the day,
37:20I just want to be a better version of me.
37:24Like, this is also a time where she's thinking about the future,
37:28right?
37:28The first one's leaving.
37:30MJ's about to take off.
37:32Yeah.
37:32So it's a reassessment as well.
37:34It's been a reassessment for me.
37:35What do you mean?
37:36As far as, what does our life look like after the kids are gone?
37:41Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
37:42It's got me second guessing, like, our partnership together.
37:47I, I, you said marriage?
37:51I'm not, I'm not going there.
37:53I'm saying it's definitely got me second guessing this whole,
37:57I mean, like, do I want to do this with her?
38:07Next, on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
38:09You can't have, like, a couples retreat without what?
38:12Um, sex.
38:17This is beautiful.
38:19It's a little piece of heaven tucked onto the side of a, a little mountain.
38:22Let's go spelunking.
38:24All right.
38:24Spelunking.
38:40Spelunking.
38:40And she said that she entertained other people.
38:43Uh, and so did he.
38:45How many times have I apologized, even for things that I didn't even do?
38:48So you haven't done anything wrong is what you're saying, Jessica?
38:50Is that what I'm hearing?
38:51You tell me what I did wrong with.
38:52Do you feel like you did anything wrong?
38:54No.
38:54No.
38:54Not sure I was pushing to the corner.
38:56I pushed you to the corner because I said, don't trust that whole corner?
38:58That's very disrespectful, Tisha.
38:59Okay.
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