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Virgin Island Season 2 Episode 8
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00:0012 virgins are getting a crash course in intimacy.
00:04Social media, porn, dating apps.
00:06There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom.
00:10Use it by stimulating the area.
00:12They'll be guided by experts.
00:14You see yourself as a proposal.
00:17To explore all aspects of intimacy.
00:20And maybe even have sex with a trained therapist.
00:24Do you want to put a condom on?
00:26Or each other.
00:28Get a room, guys!
00:31I really do need to change the life.
00:33Who will be ready?
00:35Desperate times call for desperate measures.
00:37To go all the way.
00:46Morning, Ireland!
00:48Over the past few days on Virgin Island...
00:50I'm slutty Stephanie.
00:52Things got steamy in the seductive phase.
00:56I love you, it feels good.
00:58Marianne got to grips with a naked Andre.
01:01I could do this all day.
01:03Can I give you a spank?
01:04Yes.
01:05Bertie found his voice in the bedroom.
01:08Thanks for asking.
01:09And Callum and Katie's connection deepened.
01:16Now, as the group enter the Climax space, time is running out to fulfill their island ambitions.
01:25It's good.
01:26A lot of people think Climax is just about orgasm, but Climax is actually having a peak sexual experience.
01:33Your partner might be stimulating your clearly.
01:35And we want all of them to have their peak sexual experiences in their lives.
01:49After 15 days...
01:51Oh, the last letter.
01:53The group are nearing graduation from Virgin Island.
01:58Let's see what the last phrase is.
02:01Prepare for the end of the course as it reaches its climax.
02:06Well, I'm pleased that they took my advice on the pun.
02:11I'm actually quite excited.
02:14This one could be quite a fun one.
02:16A lot of the stuff we've done previously has got me into a confident mood.
02:20Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
02:22100%.
02:23Me being on the island, it has had an ending.
02:26It was sex and reaching orgasm.
02:30Twice.
02:32I wonder what we're going to be doing, because it's like, have we not?
02:36I mean, I've already Climax.
02:37Yeah.
02:40While some of the group have found what they came for...
02:43The final phase.
02:44Mm.
02:45Others have yet to reach the goals.
02:47We've come to an end soon.
02:49I know.
02:51Today has to be a position, sorry.
02:53Surely.
02:54Climax.
02:54We're going to get in front of each other and have a wank.
03:00For the final workshop of the retreat...
03:03Callum, are you ready?
03:04Yeah.
03:05So ready.
03:05The experts want the group to realise...
03:08There's actually a literal bet.
03:09...just how far they've come.
03:11Morning, guys.
03:12Morning.
03:12Morning.
03:15All right.
03:16The final phase of the course.
03:18The Climax.
03:20Climax is really having this peak experience that you can have in your sex life.
03:25And we want to make sure that you get every tool that you need in order to do that.
03:29Now, if you remember, the very first demo we showed you at the start of the course,
03:35Pillow Talk.
03:36Mm-hmm.
03:36Most of you were, like, deer in the headlights.
03:40Oh, my God.
03:41Your eyes are so beautiful.
03:43When they first saw the Pillow Talk demo, they couldn't even look.
03:48They were extremely intimidated.
03:50It's a bit...
03:51Yeah.
03:51So now, with everything you've discovered, it's time to step up and try it yourself.
03:58Okay.
03:59If anyone's keen.
04:00If anyone's keen.
04:02First off, advanced students Alex and Josh.
04:07You look so nice today.
04:09No, no, no, no, nice.
04:12Beautiful.
04:14Sexy.
04:15Like, not anything that sweet.
04:16That's great.
04:17It's important communication here.
04:19You look so sexy today.
04:47It's not just Alex and John.
04:50You smell so good.
04:51Can you give me the eyes?
04:52Who are keen to show off their Pillow Talk prowess.
04:57I think you can't get lost in here.
04:58You can get lost together.
05:00I like that.
05:04Amazing.
05:08But the final exercise will teach the group the ultimate sex tips.
05:12So for your final lesson, we will show you some sex moves.
05:19It's really, really important that they practice with the different sexual positions to be erotically confident.
05:24We've chosen these sex positions because they're the most common, which include one partner on top, missionary position.
05:36Also, oral sex is really, really important.
05:39And doggy style.
05:42No one's going to be doing wheelbarrow out there.
05:51Do you want to start?
05:52I'll do it.
05:54I'll do it.
05:57After a nervy start...
05:59I'll do it.
05:59I'll do it.
05:59This leg.
06:00Yeah.
06:00Between her legs.
06:02Like this?
06:02Yeah.
06:02Bertie has thrown himself into more and more of the exercises.
06:06Good.
06:07Good.
06:07Perfect.
06:07And it's paying off.
06:10Good.
06:11Good.
06:11Is this all right?
06:12Yeah.
06:12Very smooth.
06:14I want to get out from the retreat as much as I can.
06:18There are so many people who just do it naturally.
06:21They know what they're doing.
06:23They're confident in themselves.
06:24I just want to be that guy.
06:28Do you want to start?
06:30Always.
06:37I feel really proud.
06:38If you had a strap on, it would be a great position for that.
06:41At first they were all hesitant.
06:43I ashamed.
06:45But they have completely supported each other through the whole process.
06:51Yeah.
06:52Do you want a spine?
06:53I'll have a pat.
06:55It's unprecedented.
06:58And for one couple...
07:00You ready?
07:01Oh, go on then.
07:02Don't act like you haven't been doing this in the daybed anyway.
07:05The bond has intensified.
07:08Naughty.
07:10I've always grown up reading, like, sexy stories,
07:13even when I was a teenager.
07:15The word virgin means you haven't had sex.
07:19But in my head, I know what I like.
07:23Can I take a second to connote?
07:25I don't really want to be intimate with someone I don't know.
07:28Why don't I build a connection up and start laughing with them and have a fun time with them.
07:32And that's what I want in the future.
07:34Hold her on top of you.
07:36Ready?
07:36Mm-hmm.
07:37Yeah.
07:38Perfect.
07:40Change to missionary and connect your purposes together.
07:44Yeah, there you go.
07:45Perfect.
07:46The next one is going down.
07:53You can flip her into doggy self.
07:55Yeah, exactly.
07:58Yeah.
08:00Yeah.
08:06How did it feel to do that?
08:08I think, like, doing half of these workshops, it just leaves me, like, massively, like, horny all day.
08:14Oh, shit.
08:17Well, that's great.
08:22Bye.
08:28How did we feel?
08:29That was our last ever workshop.
08:30Didn't expect that.
08:31There were times when people would say, I want to do it, but I'm not comfortable doing it with someone
08:35in the group.
08:36That was practically my catchphrase at one minute.
08:39The sex positions, like, they were a bit awkward, but when you're in the mood with your partner, it'll all
08:45just flow.
08:46Yeah.
08:50For Callum and Katie, as they're near the end of the retreat, their mutual affection...
09:00Oh, you're funny.
09:01I like you.
09:02..is on full display.
09:04I'm very excited to see a budding romance in this environment.
09:09It's beautiful.
09:09People feel the freedom to use the skills and the tools that they're learning in the retreat.
09:14That's actually my dream.
09:16I can bloody feel you on my stomach.
09:19I mean, it's not all the time. Don't worry about it.
09:22It's quite a hard life. Literally.
09:26My main focus moving forward is obviously getting closer to Katie, because, right, I'm not being funny. I like her.
09:32Stop teasing yourself.
09:38I've never felt this way with a boy before. I've never been close to a boy before.
09:42But I don't think I know my body at all.
09:45And I have literally no experience.
09:48So I think I'm just scared for, like, not knowing what to do.
09:53Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
09:58As Callum and Katie get closer than ever, the experts want to make sure they're properly prepared.
10:05Katie, she has this budding romance with Callum, which is very sweet.
10:09And I also feel like there's so much more for her to learn around her own body and pleasure.
10:14Yeah, I want this session to be about her starting to step into her womanhood, building some kind of a
10:21relationship with her genitals.
10:23Kat, you're going to be seeing Callum today, and this is your last session with him.
10:26Yes, we're going to be doing Close Off Erotic Touch, and I feel like it's a good place stopping him
10:32here because he has the skills to go forth and enjoy with Katie.
10:40I have no sexual history at all. I haven't done anything. I haven't ever had an orgasm.
10:46When I was younger, I thought I would have been married and had kids by now, multiple kids.
10:52Hello, beautiful.
10:54And I feel disappointed in myself that I haven't been able to achieve anything that I wanted to.
10:59So, have you explored your vagina in any way?
11:01No, I haven't. With time at the retreat running out.
11:04So, what could be motivating about getting to, you know, your genitals?
11:08So, I'm able to tell them exactly what I like already.
11:12Yeah.
11:13Kate is meeting sexological body worker Elil to learn more about pleasure.
11:18Something that can feel really nice is if you have your finger in, or your partner has, and it kind
11:23of might be stimulating your clit at the same time.
11:27Mmm. I mean, just doing that could feel really nice.
11:31I never went to, like, sex ed at school or anything, so this is, like, totally new to me.
11:35I don't know why I get so uncomfortable over my own body.
11:38Exactly.
11:40While Katie has her very own sex ed lesson...
11:43How's it going? Me and Katie, we've hit it off a lot.
11:45How's that feeling? Awesome.
11:46Callum is responding well to hands-on therapy with surrogate partner Kat.
11:50What do you feel like you want to do with Katie?
11:53I just want to experience everything that I can in the right way.
11:56I have never touched anyone intimately, so when it comes to it, the fear is not knowing anything about it
12:02and what to do.
12:02Okay, so we'll start. I'll let you kind of leave.
12:05It's a lot of pressure, and, you know, you don't want to have sex with someone if you don't know
12:08how to have sex.
12:09Sex should be something that should be cherished, not something that should just be a quick form of just getting
12:14off.
12:14While you're holding my hand down, start to touch me.
12:19Yeah.
12:21Go slowly up and down.
12:25I just want to feel me touching you.
12:27Great.
12:35I think I need more boy knowledge.
12:37Okay. Do you want to explore some dicks?
12:39Let's do it.
12:41So, it really changes from a person to a person, but usually the parts that have the most pleasure is,
12:46like, the head.
12:47So, you can kind of, like, go around.
12:51A little soft direction.
12:56The balls can feel really nice.
12:58For some, it's very sensitive, and for some, you can really squeeze them.
13:07You're welcome.
13:09Look, this has been so good.
13:12It's quite scary, because it's just very unknown, but I know what to explore, so it's going to be fun.
13:19I felt you, like, really present and, like, following things.
13:24Genuinely, I can't explain how much you've helped me.
13:26I never thought I'd be at this point, ever.
13:28That's amazing.
13:29Like, just to do this alone is unbelievable.
13:32You really have all of the tools you need.
13:36It's crazy how much I've changed the person I've actually got closer to Katie.
13:40The heart wants what the heart wants.
13:49It's afternoon on Virgin Island.
13:52Mmm, this is really good.
13:54It's good?
13:55Mmm.
13:55Good.
13:56While Callum and Katie's chemistry is impossible to miss...
13:59Is it fun, Callum?
14:01Yeah, it is.
14:06Marianne has been steadily exploring her own connection with surrogate partner Andre.
14:10What I love about Andre is he has a way of making people feel calm and relaxed, and he reads
14:15you very well.
14:16You arrive with boundaries in terms of, I'm just too scared to try something, but now it's more just about
14:22having fun exploring.
14:25Marianne, she's really embracing her sexiness.
14:28She really is glowing, and you're going to be having a session with her, Andre, today.
14:34She's a very curious individual. She wants to learn about herself.
14:37She's very interested to see if she wants to go even further, so we'll check in, but there's that potential.
14:45Everyone expects a virgin to be like this horrible ugly thing that hides and has no confidence.
14:51But I'm a very sexual person.
14:55I read a lot of books, and I have one fantasy, which it's a recurring one.
15:01I love the idea of spanking, and maybe having that dominance, but I still feel as if I have my
15:07autonomy.
15:07I'm good, and I'm safe.
15:14Though making good progress, Marianne is still setting her own pace with Andre.
15:20How are you doing today?
15:21Doing well. You?
15:22I'm good today, yeah.
15:24Surrogate partner therapy is structured around consent, and it's all about their full body understanding that this is their time
15:34and they get to choose.
15:35So today, was there anything that you came in with wanting to try?
15:42Can we try the mutual massage?
15:45Mm-hmm.
15:47And possibly it's ranking.
15:50Okay.
15:50So I was like, that's, yeah, I love, I love that.
15:53How did you learn about it? You said, you know?
15:54Books.
15:55Books.
15:56Read a lot of books.
15:57And just to take my inspiration from that, I'm like, cool.
15:59Very cool. Noted.
16:00You deserve to be happy, you deserve to feel pleasure, and sometimes that can also allow the building in of
16:06trust and safety to other intimate connection that we could potentially share.
16:12To get things started.
16:15André performs a sensual massage.
16:19It feels so lovely.
16:21Mm-hmm.
16:23I'm glad you're enjoying it.
16:24Mm-hmm.
16:32Next.
16:33Can we do this fine here?
16:35Okay.
16:36Marianne has some ideas of her own.
16:38Put your body over.
16:41Like this?
16:41Mm-hmm.
16:42Yeah.
16:43If you want, you can even lean on it.
16:44How does that feel?
16:45Mm-hmm.
16:45Feels nice.
16:46Mm-hmm.
16:46Okay, good.
16:47Mm-hmm.
16:50I like starting slowly to just feel your skin.
16:53You feel my hand getting familiar with my touch, waking up the skin.
17:00And I usually like working on a number scale, so I get to know how hard you want to be
17:05spanked.
17:06So, from zero to five, zero being, I didn't feel that at all, five being, that's the hardest hit I
17:14can take.
17:16What is that?
17:16Is that zero?
17:21How about that?
17:22Mm-hmm.
17:23It's a two.
17:25So we'll stay with the two.
17:26Mm-hmm.
17:35How does that feel?
17:37Really good.
17:38Really good.
17:38Mm-hmm.
17:41Mm-hmm.
17:45It would feel good to receive in a way of care.
17:49Tuddles.
17:50Mm-hmm.
17:52Okay, let's do that.
17:57Thank you for the surprise.
17:59Oh.
18:01Why don't we go ahead and get dressed?
18:07Okay, come on.
18:11That was so fun and super fucking hot.
18:16It was nice because I felt really in it and really safe and horny.
18:21Very, very horny.
18:24When I first came, everything seemed so far away.
18:27And now it made me confident in what I'm feeling, how I can communicate it, and asking for what I
18:33want as well.
18:38Hi.
18:39Hi, Marianne.
18:40Welcome back.
18:41Oh, you guys are back on the bed.
18:43Yeah.
18:43Marianne, you've missed so much, brother.
18:45What happened?
18:45Oh, my God.
18:46Why did you think Katie and Calum have gone?
18:48Yeah.
18:48On a date?
18:49They're having a special nap.
18:51Where in your life?
18:52Genuinely, they are.
18:53With their relationship the talk of the island.
18:56I'm really excited for this connection, yeah?
18:58Yep.
18:59Callum and Katie are keen to spend some time alone together.
19:02In order to make sure that everyone feels safe, I wanted to check a little bit about your readiness,
19:06anything that you feel like it's hard for you to share with each other and you want to use me
19:10to support you in sharing that.
19:12I think I've pretty much told you everything, like my worries and stuff.
19:15Mm-hmm.
19:16Obviously, I had a lot before coming here, but I've gone through the entire experience.
19:19All them worries and everything that I felt have gone.
19:24Consent is essential to everything we do at the retreat.
19:29One of the most powerful things is that we teach people to speak their boundaries.
19:34So, when they actually consent, they mean it.
19:38You're both adults.
19:40I always feel like you can say no and say yes.
19:44I'm really proud of seeing both of you really blooming and I'm excited for your developing connection.
19:51You're so cute.
19:55I would love to have a partner.
19:57I would love to have a boyfriend.
19:59I have kindness and patience to offer to someone.
20:04I want to do that and I can't wait to do that one day.
20:10I feel like a genuine connection comes from, you know, meeting someone in person.
20:14I want to see if I can really actually let it happen.
20:20Oh, fancy.
20:25You ready?
20:26Mm-hmm.
20:27Take it off.
20:28Take it off.
20:29What begins as foreplay...
20:31That tickles!
20:32...eventually evolves.
20:35...eventually evolves.
20:36You're right.
20:38Ready?
20:40As Callum and Katie take a significant step together.
20:45Okay.
20:51Okay.
20:56Okay.
20:58Okay.
21:02Okay.
21:09Okay.
21:11Okay.
21:13Yeah.
21:26Oh, my God.
21:33I'm pretty hot.
21:35Mm-hmm.
21:37I'm going to go cast.
21:42When I first arrived on this island, I was scared and I was shy and so insecure.
21:49I didn't expect to lose my virginity at all.
21:52But I think it was really a natural thing because I trust Callum so much and it was really good.
21:59I'm just so excited to go back and show everyone this new version of me.
22:05Such a good nap.
22:06Yeah, yeah, sorry. Very, very good nap, yeah.
22:09We made the experience ours.
22:12We both helped each other a lot and what a perfect way to end it.
22:26It's the start of the final day on Virgin Island.
22:29Morning, guys.
22:30Good morning.
22:31Good morning.
22:32Good morning.
22:33Oh, mushroom.
22:34Oh, I like mushrooms.
22:36Did you sleep well, Callum?
22:37Mm-hmm.
22:38Bet you did.
22:39Got a lot of muscle pain today.
22:44Mello, do you think you'll fit in my suitcase?
22:46If you give me a little bit of room to breathe.
22:51How are you feeling, Bertie, about the end?
22:53Well, it would be nice to go back and see my friends and family, but at the same time I
22:57am going to miss this.
22:59I feel like it's going to be weird just not being horny every day.
23:00Who says you're not going to be horny every day?
23:02Yeah, that's true.
23:04Ahead of this evening's graduation ceremony, the experts have set the group one final exercise.
23:11Read this out to us, Sagan.
23:12Now you're at the end of the course, we want you to write a letter to your past self to
23:18read out in front of the group at this graduation ceremony.
23:22So I've got to think of a bloody speech to say.
23:25I think mine will be quite short, actually.
23:28It's the climax thing.
23:32Realising how far you've come is really emotional.
23:36It's a moment to reflect and help them cement the journey of their progress and development.
23:43Having made real progress in his previous session, Bertie's due to meet surrogate partner Kat for the final time.
23:51Bertie was like the real sleeper.
23:53When I first saw him, he felt like he was going to talk himself out of everything, and then he
23:57talked himself into everything.
23:58And I think he has so much sensuality. As soon as he gets aroused, he really surprised me.
24:05He's been so fun to work with, so we're going to see what he wants to do today to feel
24:10like really complete.
24:14I'm not getting any younger in terms of the dating game.
24:20I just want to try my very best to do all the things that I want to push myself to
24:26do and to come back telling people how much of a different person I am and being able to just
24:33feel free.
24:39For the first time, Kat feels Bertie's ready for the bedroom and the next step in his sexual education.
24:47So, would you want to try oral?
24:54Um...
24:55Just the nervous excitement, but uh, yeah.
25:00So...
25:01So...
25:01I'm going to let you practice leading.
25:03Um, okay.
25:05Okay.
25:13Will you take off my shirt?
25:16I thought you never asked.
25:20Okay, so I want you to just relax and just notice the sensations, okay?
25:26Yeah, okay.
25:28Hmm.
25:39Do you want to try switching?
25:41Yeah.
25:43Where's, where do you like to be?
25:45Um, I would say first just explore, just like, it's new, it's weird, so see what it feels like for
25:50you, and if you even like it.
25:55It's quite salty, actually.
25:59I'm not sure if, um, what word's going to be for me, but, uh...
26:03Would you like to pivot to do what is for you?
26:05Yeah.
26:06Yeah, let's do that.
26:08Oral experiment over.
26:09That would feel good.
26:11Maybe you can keep doing that.
26:13Bertie leads the way.
26:14I can touch you like this.
26:17Yeah, that's it.
26:19That feels really good.
26:20Yeah.
26:24That's good, good.
26:25Yeah, that...
26:27This is so nice.
26:32So fucking sexy.
26:44Didn't go in your hair this time.
26:45I'm very happy.
26:47So that's some progress, mate.
26:51How are you feeling?
26:52I'm feeling super good. How are you feeling?
26:54I'm feeling amazing.
26:55You've been so good to me.
26:57We've done our sessions, and some of the things that I've done, I never thought I'd do in a million
27:02years, and then you came along, and you honestly mean so much.
27:06You've been so amazing.
27:08You've been so amazing to spend time with.
27:09I'm doing a kiss, and then you're cursed.
27:13I'm doing a kiss, and then you're cursed.
27:14Thank you for everything.
27:20This experience that I've had has been nothing short of surreal.
27:28Fantastic.
27:29I never thought that in such quick succession, I'd be able to have my first kiss.
27:35Touch my first vagina.
27:38Make a woman orgasm.
27:41I will never forget Kat, and never forget the ups and downs that I've had here.
27:47It's been nothing short of phenomenal.
27:53Fuck me sideways.
27:54That was amazing.
27:55That was a great experience.
28:00As Bertie reaches the end of his surrogate partner therapy, ahead of her final session with Andre, Marianne meets with
28:08clinical therapist Abby.
28:09Hi.
28:10Come on in.
28:12To reflect on how far she's come, and how far she wants to go.
28:18How's everything been?
28:20It's been good.
28:21Yeah, I just wanted to like check in, see how your work is going with Andre.
28:25I think everything's been going really well.
28:27It just surprised me.
28:28Yeah?
28:29I feel like before when I came, I was like, there's no possible way.
28:31I could see myself like maybe having sex, all these blocks and stuff, but I could see myself doing that
28:38like comfortably.
28:40I still got my one-on-one session today.
28:42And noticing where you're finding your flexibility of like saying, I know how to check in.
28:48I know how to use my voice.
28:50I'm not, yeah, I'm not feeling panicked about anything.
28:52I'm feeling very supported.
28:53Take all of that in because you really do deserve everything that you're doing for you.
28:58Marianne is a superstar and a straight A-plus student.
29:04She's really learning in a somatic way how to trust her body.
29:12Being a virgin at 26, I think about six every day, it's just nagging in my ear.
29:18And I think that's because I haven't done it.
29:23Hello.
29:24I want to lose my virginity because I could just get on with my life.
29:28I could just not think about it all the time.
29:33I'm just going to lay out all the possibilities for today.
29:37Continued escalation of kissing, mutual geriatric touch, touching breasts, touching genitals, oral pleasure.
29:47That's not a good idea.
29:49And if there is a desire and you feel comfort and you're in your full yes penetration.
30:04In a final session.
30:06Allowing yourself just a moment.
30:08Think about being able to be in a vulnerable state with someone else.
30:12Marianne has reached a defining moment in the surrogate partner program.
30:16You can feel nervous, you can feel orgasmic.
30:20I'm going to kiss you.
30:28Can I take a picture?
30:31Okay.
30:37I want to lay you down.
30:39Can I be also?
30:41Mmm.
30:46Mmm.
30:49Can we try it?
30:50Me being inside you?
30:53Yes, we can.
30:56Can you try it?
30:57Yeah.
30:59I might need your help.
31:00Okay.
31:03Good.
31:06Just going to pull it over here.
31:09And then pull that a little bit.
31:13Just like...
31:16Do you like me to...
31:17...push a little bit further into your soul?
31:20Yeah.
31:28Uh...
31:30Uh...
31:33Uh...
31:35Uh...
31:36Uh...
31:38Uh...
31:40Uh...
31:41Uh...
31:42Uh...
31:42Uh...
31:44Uh...
31:45Uh...
31:45Uh...
31:45Uh...
32:05Uh...
32:08Thank you so much for trusting me, for trusting yourself.
32:14Let's get dressed.
32:20How are you feeling?
32:22Kind of a clear head, like, ooh, you know, in a good way.
32:26Being happy as well.
32:28Good, me too.
32:31Thank you for making me feel safe.
32:33Mmm, I'm such a pleasure.
32:42I knew the possibility of having sex was on the table, and so I'm no longer a virgin.
32:48I felt comfortable in my body and safe in my environment, and Andre was incredible, so I wasn't really nervous.
32:56Like, I haven't lost anything, I've just gained something, and I just had pure elation.
33:02So I'm very, very lucky with that.
33:07As a therapeutic part of the course draws to a close, the sun sets on the retreat for the final
33:14time.
33:16Graduation is such an important moment in this group's journey. It helps them see all the achievements that they've got
33:25throughout this process.
33:28All that remains is for everyone to dress up for one last step.
33:32I'm really sad to be saying goodbye. Yeah, it's hard.
33:37I'm looking forward to graduation. It'll be a nice way to celebrate all of the weird and wonderful things we've
33:43done on this island.
33:44We're very bittersweet, how I'm feeling. It's been an incredible three weeks.
33:49A few weeks ago, they were complete strangers.
33:53Fire. Smells nice.
33:55Yeah, they're going to sacrifice us, aren't they?
33:59Hi!
34:01Wow! Look at you!
34:04Now, together, they have reached the climax of their time on Virgin Island.
34:10It's graduation!
34:14We made it!
34:17And we're so proud of you.
34:19Your bravery and your courage is unparalleled.
34:22Earlier today, we asked you to write a letter to your younger self.
34:27And now we want you each to come up and share that.
34:33We want to start.
34:37Arriving as one of the least confident, Ellen now has the courage to step forward with pride.
34:44A letter to my younger self.
34:46Don't listen to them.
34:47It will be hard.
34:48But what they say isn't true.
34:50It's okay to look and fancy girls.
34:52You're gay.
34:53It's a thing.
34:53And it's okay.
34:55You get to choose the life you lead.
34:57You do you at your speed.
35:00For goodness sake, go by a vibrator.
35:03Fuck it by two.
35:09And Ellen isn't alone in confronting the way they see themselves.
35:13You may find you like certain things.
35:15Don't be embarrassed.
35:16Don't be afraid to brace the kinkiest side of life.
35:19Be a sexy viking, not a whining little bitch.
35:21It's important for you to experience cringe.
35:23And that's okay because there's growth.
35:25Don't worry about being thicker around the body.
35:28It's more to be grabbed and spanked.
35:29It's okay.
35:33Dear my younger self.
35:35You are gay.
35:35Like super gay.
35:37I promise you that you'll end up actually liking the person you are.
35:41FYI, you'll love being held and cuddling even if you do deny it to your last breath.
35:48For others, reflection brings a new kindness towards who they are.
35:53Dear baby Alex, you are enough.
35:55You are worthy of love.
35:57Don't ever feel like you never do enough.
35:59You always bring smiles and laughter to everyone around you.
36:02Dear Bertie, in a decade or so's time, you'll be on an intimacy retreat.
36:07Now believe it or not, it's there where you will find more confidence.
36:13I know how hard it has been for you to feel truly safe, appreciated and free.
36:18But trust me, you feel that almost every day now.
36:23Pay no mind to those who try to bring shame into your life.
36:27You will still be a virgin and unmarried at 22.
36:30But you still like boys with brown curly hair.
36:33Love, joy from the future.
36:35P.S. When you get your own money, invest in a short pink wig.
36:38Just trust me.
36:44For Katie, this journey meant facing the internal voices that have been holding her back.
36:50Katie, I'm so sorry for treating you like shit for so many years.
36:53You deserve so much better.
36:56You really went through so much and are truly so strong.
37:00I'm so proud of you and everything you have achieved.
37:02You're beautiful, so kind and deserve every little bit of love you receive.
37:07Stop letting your anxiety and bullies hold you back in life.
37:10It's so upsetting to see.
37:12Don't let others bring you down or dictate your life.
37:14I love you so much, beautiful girl.
37:27Wow.
37:28Having realised how much they've all changed.
37:31Can I stand up and say a couple of things?
37:33Yeah, of course.
37:35Marianne takes a moment to reflect.
37:38We'd like to thank you, Celeste and Danielle, for everything.
37:42We love you so much.
37:44And then I will direct my whole attention to Andre.
37:50Thank you for making me feel safe.
37:54And thank you for allowing me to just feel no judgement and enjoy.
37:59So, thank you.
38:05After struggling to find his voice, Jason now has the courage to speak.
38:10I know for the first, like, week or two, I was very difficult to work with.
38:14It took a lot for me to kind of, like, speak more about myself and, um, be more emotional.
38:22Um, thank you, Aisha, as well.
38:27Um...
38:28I'm good.
38:29You're good.
38:36Um, yeah, I'm sorry, I'm...
38:41Honestly, I don't really know what's in my head, so it's a bit difficult for someone else to figure it
38:45out as well.
38:46Thank you for everything.
38:54One by one.
38:55Halil, you probably provided the biggest breakthrough for me.
38:59The others take their opportunity to give back.
39:02Getting over the pressure, performance anxiety of sex, thank you so much for that.
39:06Resden, you've got my heart.
39:08You showed me how to use a strap-on, and that is all I can ask for.
39:14Thank you very much for helping me get over my fears.
39:18You've changed my life.
39:20The empathy that you lead with in every single session has just made me feel so safe and so understood.
39:27All I can say is I'm not a virgin anymore.
39:29Thank you very much.
39:30Thank you, everyone.
39:36Taking things at his own pace is Bertie with the final word.
39:41This has been the most fantastic experience of my entire life.
39:48Some of the workshop activities I thought I'd never be able to do, but that growth was all thanks to
39:54you both.
39:54Kat, you are an amazing person and I will never forget you.
39:59I would like to thank all of you.
40:02Yes, I know that I'm not the most sociable person, but regardless of that, you still made me feel like
40:08that I was part of you.
40:10And you still accepted me for who I was.
40:15And that means so much more than you could know.
40:19If someone said to me, would you do this again?
40:24In a fucking heartbeat.
40:36The retreat is a huge success beyond anyone's imagination.
40:41Makes me emotional.
40:44It is really beautiful to see how much they got here.
40:48I'm so proud of them.
40:49They are so brave.
40:52Now that they have all of these tools, they're ready to go out into the world and create the lives
40:57and relationships they want for themselves.
40:59I think to myself, my work here is done.
41:03The world is so not ready for me.
41:05Big bad world, I am coming for you.
41:08It's changed me.
41:09I'm so much happier as a person.
41:11I enjoy life again and lost my virginity.
41:15Yay.
41:16I've not graduated anything in my life, so to graduate sex camp is just amazing.
41:25I'm excited to go back to the real world.
41:27I came here really shy and insecure.
41:30I'm leaving really confident, really sure of myself and no longer a virgin.
41:36The first time that we started to connect in an erotic way, I was like, holy shit.
41:44I feel fantastic.
41:45I didn't go into this island with the intention of having any firsts.
41:49If they happened, they happened.
41:51Well, they didn't bloody happen.
41:54What an absolute ride I've been on.
41:57You did it.
41:58Congratulations.
42:02You graduated.
42:06Cheers.
42:06Cheers.
42:10We're ready for a great forgy now.
42:11Cheers to forgy.
42:13Yay!
42:40Cheers.
42:41Cheers.
42:50Cheers.
42:53Cheers.
42:55Cheers.
42:56Cheers.
42:57Cheers.
42:57Cheers.
42:59Cheers.
43:04Cheers.
43:40If you've identified with the issues raised in Virgin Ireland
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